This is really sad and honestly terrifying

missisabelarcher · 2021-08-27T18:39:50+00:00

My scrote-y ex thought this after I gave birth but would never admit it. He could only bear to have sex with me completely high, only in certain positions so he couldn't see my C-section ravaged belly and never gave me oral sex. I could tell he was disgusted by me. And you know what? I couldn't bear to be touched by him anymore so our sex life truly disappeared. Near the end, forcing myself to endure sex with my ex felt too much like r**e for me to enjoy it.

I wish I didn't have to be cynical, but ladies, if you're not 99.9% positive you want to give birth and raise a child, DO NOT REPRODUCE WITH A MALE PARTNER. The costs and risks are just too high unless you are prepared to be a single parent. You cannot predict this kind of reaction and most men do not have the self-awareness or interpersonal skills to weather this.

Honestly, I want to tell this dude to let his wife fuck someone else hotter, kinder and younger. Maybe his primate amygdala will be triggered and he'll get jealous enough not to take her for granted anymore. The risk is that she'll realize there is so much better out there and leave him... but she'll probably do it eventually anyway with such a waste of a human for a "partner."

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-08-27T14:36:59+00:00

What do we want to bet his body looks like a pumpkin on two sticks.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-08-27T11:57:52+00:00

The amount of upvotes on the original thread is disturbing. I'm betting there's a lot of scrotes and pickmes congratulating him on his "honesty and bravery" for writing that shit down, and consoling/commiserating with him. They hate us for not having children. They hate us for having children. They hate us for the physical, financial, social, and psychological sacrifices we make for having children. They hate us if we stay home, they hate us if we go back to work. Guard your wombs, sisters. Scrotes like this are a dime a dozen; pornsick losers who can't stand any body type that deviates from p--n.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-08-27T09:35:11+00:00

When a grown ass man uses the phrase 'down there'🤡

Jandi18 · 2021-08-27T11:18:14+00:00

He says all these with his full chest but they get so mad when women have standards. This is why we vet!

Papaverinum · 2021-08-27T10:54:43+00:00

Yet another reminder not to have children with men

daisy_0720 · 2021-08-27T13:26:59+00:00

I guarantee it's less about her weight/body and more about the fact that now she's birthed a child, he's mentally shifted her to the "mother" category and can't bring himself to have porn-style sex with her the way he did before she fell pregnant.

Classic Madonna/Whore scrote.

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-08-27T09:24:01+00:00

His priority should be his newborn baby and wives well-being, not his wives body, speaks volumes that men with a newborn sulk off to be alone with the laptop and write selfish crap like this.

Edit Any money the device he was using as he wrote this comment, was also full of tabs with porn and photoshoped IG models (who wouldn't look twice at him) that he compares his wife to. He'd deny point blank that he compares his wife to them if asked though.

the-worst- · 2021-08-27T15:01:06+00:00

I bet she wasn't disfigured. He's just pissed that he isn't the center of her attention and love anymore.

If she was "disfigured" down there, her obgyn should have noticed by now and referred her to a surgeon to repair whatever went wrong.

And guys like this will both shame women for not giving birth naturally, while saying women should opt for a c-section so "his vag" isn't "messed up".

I hope she dumps his ass.

yetanotherhail · 2021-08-27T12:22:13+00:00

That's the thanks you get for making a beautiful human being out of his worthless sperm.

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-08-27T11:01:01+00:00

This is so typical. He was probably expecting her to “snap back” like most celebrities/ influencers supposedly do (personally I think they edit the sh*t out of their pictures/videos and get surgery) so this is a very unrealistic expectation. The fact that he’s made this all about his dick, instead of prioritising his child and his wife’s general health/wellbeing speaks volumes.

Edit: and who the fu*k is awarding his post 😑

08__80 · 2021-08-27T11:10:44+00:00

Men can literally fuck a trashcan, a poo filled butthole, or even an animal and still get it up, but they can't get it up for their own wives' "down there" region. If it's THAT "disfigured" he should be concerned for her health and see if she wants to go to a doctor to make sure everything is okay. Notice he doesn't mention how SHE FEELS about her own "down there." Her opinion doesn't matter, her health doesn't matter. Only his pee-pee matters.

Ironsculpture · 2021-08-27T09:57:46+00:00

The fact that he won't stop whining about how much he hates himself so that the comments will go easy on him. Pathetic.

nolongerhume · 2021-08-27T19:12:21+00:00

Our bodies will change overtime as we age, even without undergoing pregnancy. If your man only likes you for your current body, do not marry him and for fucks sake dont reproduce with him.

Expecting your partner to look like how they were the day you met is childish and shallow. Growing old together, and experiencing all the changes that come with it, is a privilege. If he can't see that, he's trash and undeserving of companionship.

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-08-27T11:41:18+00:00

You’re right, you should hate yourself. 🤷

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-08-27T10:40:46+00:00

"Disfigured down there". This doesn't add up. Yes, childbirth can lead to vaginal tearing but in most cases once the tear is stitched and healed, it should look pretty much as before. Any midwives care to weigh in?

Bet he's no oil painting either.

Feral_Housewife_ · 2021-08-27T13:29:14+00:00

I wish I could talk to his poor wife and tell her that there are men out there who won't be able to get enough of her post partum body, she doesn't need to stay with a man who has no appreciation for what her body has been through. Whiny ass baby complaining about his wife's weight gain and birth injuries and their effect on his pp instead of devoting his time and energy to being a good father and supportive husband. I'd be willing to bet he's no prize physically himself either. Probably just as overweight as his poor wife and an unkempt slob on top of it, expecting her to bounce back from her pregnancy like she's a celebrity who got a secret tummy tuck before she left the hospital. This poor woman.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2021-08-27T12:28:43+00:00

I'm not attracted to this man's postpartum mindset.

Dude will fuck a shaved goat or a dirty, sweaty sock - but not his wife.

Platipus6 · 2021-08-27T09:54:03+00:00

Don’t put your dick in it if you can’t deal with the consequences.

_tinyimp · 2021-08-27T20:03:28+00:00

Porn-sick fuck. Do men think women see their penis and just get turned on? No…as long as it feels good though. But this weirdo just can’t stop comparing hers to a pornstar’s or something. Because what of it really?? What is considered a beautiful vagina? They all look so different sooo

honeybadgerattitude · 2021-08-27T11:08:29+00:00

So instead of looking at her as an amazing human who put her body through hell just to bring his child into the world, he’s just concerned about his porn sick peepee that’s gotten to used to Instagram models and OnlyFans that he’s probably been overdosing on since he couldn’t get anything from his wife after she gave birth. Men are vile! I really don’t know why so many women want one. Forget the red and blue pill, I want to take a pink pill that turns me into a lesbian. Edit: Thanks for the messages scrotes!!! Yes I’m blaming this man I don’t know because he’s complaining about his penis online instead of going to therapy and trying to work on himself. His words mean nothing. His actions are showing what kind of man he is. That’s what FDS is. It’s judging actions not words and scouring women only spaces so you can DM us insults shows us exactly what type of men you are.

freshpicked12 · 2021-08-27T13:45:57+00:00

And what is he doing to help her get back to her “old self”? Is he taking the baby for hours so she can rest or take a bath or maybe even exercise if she wants? Is he cooking her nutritious meals? Chances are he’s expecting her to do all of the childcare, all of the cooking, all of the cleaning, and still wonders why she doesn’t have time to take care of herself. Fucking step up and help her. I guarantee that she is exhausted and overwhelmed and probably self-conscious about her postpartum body but this scrote wouldn’t notice even if she shouted it from the rooftop.

Hippofuzz · 2021-08-27T13:06:04+00:00

She has been “disfigured down there” and all he can think of is his dick. And the pathetic attempt to make himself look less of a douche by constantly writing about how horrible he is makes me want to throw up.

TumbleweedForeign699 · 2021-08-27T13:22:57+00:00

I bet the top comment and many others are nothing but praise for his honesty and “don’t sweat it bro, it’s just natural to feel the way you do” with multiple awards. 🤮

AntiqueGhost13 · 2021-08-27T15:02:03+00:00

This is so unbelievably depressing. As is the comment from a SW saying she'd be out of clients if men were still attracted to their wives postpartum.

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-08-27T16:05:05+00:00

Sex has become so pornified

bunchesograpes · 2021-08-27T14:03:08+00:00

His wife appliance is broken!!! She wasn’t supposed to be a living, breathing human being whose body undergoes physical experiences and may change! Instead of, you know, existing just for his use and pleasure!!!

proudpine · 2021-08-27T12:10:57+00:00

Firstly, I call bullshit on her genitals being “disfigured.” If they were, she’d be referred to a surgeon by her gynecologist. Tearing happens, and if the repair for some reason wasn’t adequate, there are things they can do further. I just don’t want all of our sisters who aren’t mothers out here thinking that if they have kids they’ll walk around with disfigured genitalia for the rest of their life.

Secondly, I’ve seen a lot of women use this type of thing as an example for why you don’t have children with a man. In my mind, that’s just cutting yourself off from one of the most beautiful and pure forms of love just to remain attractive to these pigs. Motherhood isn’t for everyone, I get it, but once you have a kid you don’t give a shit what a man thinks of you. All of your focus is on the kid’s wellbeing, and honestly it’s liberating and if I had to wager, I bet that’s what is really killing this loser’s boner. He’s not the center of attention anymore.

blueboobs- · 2021-08-27T11:27:56+00:00

I went looking for this post but can’t find it. I wanted to see the comments

Pryras · 2021-08-27T15:15:33+00:00

What a big fucking baby and I hate it even more with the constant “I’m so horrible…!” Imagine putting your body through childbirth only to read this

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-08-27T16:25:10+00:00

I’m willing to bet this has nothing to do with her appearance and rather is the expression of a Madonna/Whore complex. I seriously doubt she’s disfigured and obese.

janpra07 · 2021-08-27T13:50:14+00:00

Lmao he really tried to make himself sound like a nice guy in this one. Love how a grown man with a newborn child prioritized his time to go type this and throw a self-pity party for internet points. I’m surprised by how many comments on that said what he was feeling is normal. The tendencies of men are heartbreaking.

Lightningxxx · 2021-08-27T22:49:08+00:00

Oh, I don’t know, realise that YOU are the one who impregnated her, the reason why her body is ‘disfigured’ in the first place?

lilac-hiraeth · 2021-08-27T12:46:29+00:00

She deserves so so much better. I hope she gets out of that hell hole of a marriage and finds the beautiful world she deserves.

bombas- · 2021-08-27T14:10:53+00:00

This man needs serious therapy, for his wife’s sake.

I have a pinch of sympathy for him because he clearly doesn’t want to feel this way and the pornified society we live in got him here.

But! He has to take responsibility. We all know it’s porn. He should have made sure he dealt with his issues with women’s bodies BEFORE he had a kid. He also should never have sat on his as for 13 MONTHS failing to satisfy and appreciate his wife until she gets upset and hurt and suspicious without going right to therapy!

ItsFreezen · 2021-08-27T12:40:04+00:00

Scrote should of known that would happen before opening his legs.

Wild_Artio · 2021-08-27T15:39:59+00:00

Maybe she doesn’t have the heart to tell you your spelling needs work buddy. Tell her so she can divorce your ignorant ass.

Few-Fortune-2391 · 2021-08-28T02:35:41+00:00

Instead of making posts he should be working on his perspective...

ThrowawayCompassion · 2021-08-28T14:26:04+00:00

Some pieces of shit awarded this clown, wooooowwww

OrangeyPanda · 2021-08-27T13:49:04+00:00

Reason #472628 of why men are trash.

Feministtiktok · 2021-08-27T23:51:08+00:00

I hope she cooks placenta into a lasagna and feeds it to him before she dumps him

relationship_reddit · 2021-08-28T03:59:18+00:00

😔 This makes me so sad. I am a mom also. It is so painful to feel not good enough for the man you carried a baby for.

NotMyRealName814 · 2021-08-27T17:50:57+00:00

My disgusting brother-in-law told my sister that he thought she had "a stomach tumor" when she wasn't back to looking like a swimsuit model 4 months after the birth of their first child. He's an attorney and doesn't know the first thing about childbirth recovery but he fancies himself to be quite the expert. Unfortunately my sister is the consummate pick me so with a total of three kids and countless verbal and emotional abuse she's still with him.

Vivierex · 2021-08-27T16:43:21+00:00

That's why I think we need to educate people about "birth and after pregnancy". Everyone is just talking how beautiful everything is and how amazing experience it is to be a parent. There is too much taboo regarding body changing and how exhausting it all is. Guy needs some mental help and he isn't the only one. I don't know how are they surprised that after child birth body doesn't look the best and it requires quite a bit of healing.

Jandi18 · 2021-08-27T13:11:21+00:00

I’m curious about the comments, can someone dm me a link to this sub?

Edit: I got it, thanks ladies.

TieDieEye · 2021-08-27T13:16:14+00:00

I keep seeing posts like these and it makes me not want to have kids. Imagine having a child for a man and then this is what he thinks of you. Hell the fuck no!!!

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