Men like to criticize women for their standards, call them shallow, irresponsible. Crazy even. They laugh when women say they want some spark and emotional connection.

The problem is men have their own standards, they consider default ones and reasonable just because. They don't want to date fat women, they don't want single mothers. They don't want to date not pretty women (men here insult me by calling me average, they insult others by calling them mid, and it doesn't give away how they still attracted to you vibes). They also want a woman who would want to go 50/50. They want low n count. They want a woman who listens. Who feels "raw" desire for them. And more and more. Any woman who talked to a man in her life knows this. We know that there are lots of standards.

And yet here in debates they are hidden. When convenient men claim that they just want any woman. Just someone. When convenient they claim how they are simple, just fuck them (and what? Like they would like you for that).

And it's also oh so convenient to criticize women. You're shallow. You choose wrong, you don't go for "good men", "your standards are too high", "we're not as picky as you". Yes you are. And every woman knows that. And there are minority of too desperate men who would go for every woman, and they disgust even men in their desperation and lack of standards.