LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.

RojavaLover · 2020-11-27T17:01:26+00:00

We already know what he is doing on his phone 90% of the time. KICK HIM OUT, SIS!

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-11-27T17:10:07+00:00

How do women put up with such manchildren? She needs to divorce him for her sanity and for her daughter's wellbeing. This isn't a good example to set to a young girl. If she stays with him her young daughter will think it's ok for a husband to treat his wife like this.

DallasOMalley · 2020-11-27T17:12:04+00:00

Hid in the bathroom on his phone, huh. It's either porn or he's cheating on her. Maybe both. Sounds like this poor woman hasn't caught up with reality yet, since she seems to think they're still going to build a house together. Newsflash: Her asshole husband is done. He's done with her, with their child, with the marriage, and he deeply resents her.

Hopefully she'll figure this out and plan a future without him.

elvn-elvn · 2020-11-27T17:11:06+00:00

Normally these kinds of posts on FDS make me angry and depressed and scared of ever dating again, but this is the first NVM post since my breakup where the behavior is so, so, so eerily, unequivocally the exact kind of shit I could have seen my ex pulling had we stayed together, and I feel lighter and happier for being single. That could have been me and I’m so happy I don’t have to deal with it.

sstena · 2020-11-27T17:30:57+00:00

Throw the man out the balcony and keep the turkey.

_tinyimp · 2020-11-27T17:24:58+00:00

Reason number 38274738 to not date a LVM but also reason 1281 to have a balcony

chatrebelle · 2020-11-27T17:27:12+00:00

She wants to build a house with him? Wtf he is a useless manchild and he argues with her not to do any basic chores. Why keep him around ? He deserves to stay alone in his filth forever. Divorce and sue for child support because he clearly cannot take care of a kid, not even himself.

shinyjewels · 2020-11-27T17:46:59+00:00

I hate when men are like “I didn’t ask for you to do xyz” after they DIRECTLY BENEFIT from xyz. What kind of ungrateful mentality is that? He can go get aborted.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-11-27T17:12:41+00:00

Breaking mom sub? I can't read those posts. I get too mad at what those women accept.

I think men like this are pathetic. Can't be assed to do anything to "help". Not even one thing. Then think YOU'RE in the wrong for calling them out while jerking off in the bathroom all day.

I'm eternally grateful I have a guy who does the bare minimum - but also goes well beyond that. I didn't have to ask him to help me clean the kitchen or clear leftovers. He said "no, I got this, just relax." And he ran me a hot bath, started my oil diffuser, and just...yeah. After I cooked he pampered me, because he loves me and knows cooking a meal like that is me showing love so he has to show it back. I don't ask him for anything, I don't have to.

We don't have to settle. We don't have to beg or plead or accept bullshit from men who don't even like us. The first time you settle or accept bullshit is all it takes for bullshit to follow you the rest of your relationship.

RojavaLover · 2020-11-27T17:22:40+00:00

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kahootofficial · 2020-11-27T18:56:05+00:00

Although the act of throwing the food SEEMS satisfying, she is actually still not doing enough. He knows she is still going to live with him in which he will directly benefit. She needs to FILE FOR DIVORCE not just make another rule for this manchild to eventually twist.

Confidence_Relative · 2020-11-27T17:53:36+00:00

'I asked husband to wash it FOR ME'!! Why is it always phrased like the Husband is doing the Wife a favour (washing his kids clothes)? We constantly use the term help/helped when a Man does anything around the house. Like he is doing a favour to the Woman 'helping' her with her responsibility.

yesmme · 2020-11-27T21:10:00+00:00

When we start dating a man, we need to know if he knows how to cook and clean and if he’s already doing these things on a regular basis. That indicates that it’s habitual for him which suggests that he’s not going to be a manchild who will be kicking and screaming his way out of doing basic domestic upkeep if you end up having to ask him. This standard should be part of the vetting process.

No training him and hoping that he keeps it up. This is also part of Bob the Builder nonsense.

just-peepin-at-u · 2020-11-27T19:35:48+00:00

These dudes who do such a half assed job watching kids are such absolute shits. I remember being barely a teen and having to closely watch the kids while the adults around me were able to piss off and enjoy company and tv etc at holidays. I know the young teen boys in my family weren’t expected to do the same.

These men who think they can half ass it know a woman (or even a girl) will be the one to come in and let them finally play those gd video games in peace from their own kids.

Also, video games are the bane of many a woman’s existence. Games are for fun, not for when you are are expected to help around your own home. Too many grown men have become wag too comfortable sitting on their ass and playing video games after work and letting the women pull a double shift of work, then housework and childcare. That is, it the men bother working at all.

Aaahhh life in my trailer park as a kid. This is why so many families get trapped in poverty, the big unspoken issue: Men won’t fucking work. Sometimes women won’t either, but way too many men have become comfortable sitting on their asses while women do everything.

RojavaLover · 2020-11-27T17:39:13+00:00

Even if you put your feet down thinking : "I will never be a pushover, I will set him straight" believe me, their laziness and bullshit will break you down eventually. You either leave or stay, without him ever changing. If you're not willing to leave the relationship immediately don't ever get into one with men. Because yes ALL MEN 100% OF MEN. EVERY SINGLE ONE. It's heartbreaking witnessing former strong women in my life get so tired... So effing tired.... They just gave up.... They lost their spark, their fight, their willingness to try anymore because it's literally helpless. they turned into a bubble head and accepted reality.....

Ladies. Before you get into anything serious. Remember ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS AND THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-11-27T18:02:22+00:00

"just hid in the bathroom on his phone 90% of the day" she married a poor an addict. 100% he is a porn addict.

localgirlcult · 2020-11-27T19:20:01+00:00

That part of building a house with him is what seals this as terrifying. If she does that, her money is gone and a prison is built.

SpringJonesOcean · 2020-11-27T21:27:03+00:00

Dear God, why!?!?

Makes me so thankful for my husband. He worked most of yesterday. He came home to find me struggling to get the damn turkey in the over and took over. Finished all the cooking, did the dishes, then thanked me for a lovely dinner. (We usually go to his siter's and we're both bummed we couldn't this year.)

If I had to deal with this lady's bullshit, I would have launched HIM off the balcony.

petit_rouge · 2020-11-27T23:15:19+00:00

Being married to a man like this is actually my worst nightmare. I would so much rather be alone than to deal with this insanity with someone who supposedly vowed to love me forever.

Maude2010 · 2020-11-27T21:24:24+00:00

This is why I never got married. Yes, some men aren’t like this but too many are. Whenever I struggle with housekeeping activities (like recently when I had to replace some appliances and prepare my yard for winter), my parents point out that I’m doing it by myself. Yes, I say, but if I had a partner there’s a good chance I’d still be doing it by myself. And I’d be full of resentment. At least this way my messes are mine, my effort is mine, everything I do for my house is for my benefit. As always, it might be better to have a good partner than to be alone, but very few men make good partners.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-11-27T17:16:05+00:00

Good for her. I hope she leaves him next. I should've lost my shit so many times. I'd be better off now

VikingPug · 2020-11-27T18:02:54+00:00

Oh lord, I’ve been having to keep myself away from those mommy and marriage subreddits. These “husbands” are all the same and such a drag on society. Kids growing up watching “dads” play video games all day. I can’t even imagine.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-11-27T19:11:10+00:00

“Hid in the bathroom 90% of the day on his phone”

He’s cheating, sis. Someone tell OP to run before he ruins her with his financial irresponsibility and next level laziness.

chickenery · 2020-11-27T19:36:48+00:00

I don’t understand how the life she is living could possibly be better than just being single.

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-11-27T17:57:54+00:00

Off topic, but I'd pay to see his face lmao. I love what she did, but she needs to kick him out asap.

2020-11-27T18:40:02+00:00

Watch him tell everyone she's crazy, and try to run off with her kid.

KateJ1982 · 2020-11-28T00:49:42+00:00

She threw the wrong turkey out. Also, who cooks an entire turkey for one ungrateful lazy waste of space?

I feel sorry for the woman but she is just flat out delusional. The leftovers may have been her breaking point, but it's really just a tiny part of the problem. She thinks she can talk or shock this loser into behaving like a responsible life partner. She's planning to build a house with him? She doesn't realize why he's on his phone in the bathroom?

tossed_salad100 · 2020-11-28T04:24:36+00:00

How have these guys not been weeded out by natural selection already?? STOP HAVING SEX WITH THEM

fairywakes · 2020-11-27T18:37:53+00:00

And next she gotta file for that divorce, sis 💘

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-11-28T05:17:33+00:00

What has happened to grown male adults in the last ten years? Where did they get the idea they have no responsibilities or chores to complete in life? This is yet another example of a child, not a man.

2020-11-27T17:49:16+00:00

Poor turkey, should have thrown it at the man. I am being nice because of legal reasons.

RojavaLover · 2020-11-27T18:59:01+00:00

Dude! My guest for Thanksgiving did more than this jerk! She brought the centerpiece, salad, plates, napkins and even asked to help. I didn't need it but appreciated her asking.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-11-27T23:21:45+00:00

He "hid in his bathroom " all day. Probably talking to his gullible side piece.

teriyawki · 2020-11-27T18:43:27+00:00

She should’ve threw HIM and his greasy turkey off the balcony. Reading this post makes me wanna throw MY TURKEY off the balcony😂

CatusCactus · 2020-11-27T19:49:53+00:00

I wanted to comment to her saying that she needs to divorce him, but I got banned😅 Her life would be better without him

ferociouslycurious · 2020-11-27T21:25:09+00:00

Her mistake is letting him stay at all. What a loser he is. She’s making progress though as long as she sticks to it.

bourbonandblonde · 2020-11-27T21:58:47+00:00

I can only imagine how good it must have felt to throw the turkey off the balcony and tell him she was done cooking for him. He's lucky she didn't throw him off the balcony, instead.

As for her not cooking for him any longer, he can't even be that mad because if he eats fast food instead of leftovers anyway, nothing has really changed. She's just doing a little less free labor for him and THAT's why he's mad. Dude got off super easy.

flowers4u · 2020-11-27T23:26:20+00:00

I really hope she sticks to her guns on this one and then realizes she is better on his own

dkwantsdk · 2020-11-28T07:44:52+00:00

"I don't want to do that"

The fuck?

undertheunderbelly · 2020-11-29T16:57:10+00:00

This is why I'm child free. I never want to be trapped in a relationship this bad. Men only reveal their true selves when they think you're trapped.

FathersChild · 2020-11-27T22:53:01+00:00

Technically it's right - he has a choice on whether he can help her or not.

He then just has to deal with her choices on whether or not she cooks, throws food, or kicks him out.

Meowth818 · 2020-11-28T00:10:18+00:00

He was probably in the bathroom on his phone on only fans.

But really I don't understand why these women marry men like that. I hear so many stories like this. There had to be some red flags beforehand.

Good on her for standing up for herself though.

jaythenerdgirl · 2020-11-28T01:03:18+00:00

How does it get to this point? Like how did she agree to marriage in the first place and a baby? He wasn't like this before all of this?

And if she does leave him, watch him try super hard to get her back when he didn't appreciate her in the first place. 🙄

oscine23 · 2020-11-28T01:10:09+00:00

When you read some of these stories, don't you wish you could just talk to these women? Five years from now she'll have finally had enough and will kick herself for not leaving him sooner.

anotherdamnloser · 2020-11-28T01:50:25+00:00

I don’t know how women live this way, and have kids with men like this. He sounds like an entitled child. What an ass.

spicyspa · 2020-11-28T03:47:46+00:00

She is every woman. Every man is the turkey.

missmelissa187 · 2020-11-28T03:54:09+00:00

She should send him out the same way as the turkey

lessadessa · 2020-11-28T14:09:23+00:00

So glad I found this sub. My ex husband was exactly the same. I would cook wonderful dinners, then he would complain about something he wanted different, and would never clean anything. Absolutely put no effort into the relationship. I remember googling once “can I divorce my husband because he won’t do dishes?” And guess what. I did.

rideoffalone · 2020-11-27T20:05:23+00:00

She Pete Campbelled his ass. Love it! 😂

Wkndwhorechata · 2020-11-27T22:41:29+00:00

Hopefully she breaks it off with him. I think she's still being delusional/hopeful that he'll see that this is the moment to change things around and step it up... But I bet all that's about to change is that he's going to order fast food for his dinners in addition to his lunches now.

getbentgent · 2020-11-27T18:11:22+00:00

That poor woman, time to ditch the man baby and level up!

whydenny · 2020-11-27T21:57:35+00:00

Ehaa that's kinda epic 😁 I think she's waking up. Wish her luck!

UnhappyMedia · 2020-11-28T22:37:48+00:00

I would have sliced a few pieces off for me and my kid, THEN threw it off the balcony 😅

Title	LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.
Author	RojavaLover
Upvotes	833
Comments	154
Date	November 27, 2020 5:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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