⚠️The audacity of these men...I’m beyond TIRED. I had to block him. I just can’t understand why they think this is okay...⚠️

cheeksnpeeks · 2021-04-27T22:43:39+00:00

Your card : UNO BLOCK !

Twohagsover30 · 2021-04-27T22:51:58+00:00

Same scrotes that send messages like this are the ones that join Reddit dating subs to complain about how "nobody matches with meeeeeee..... women never give me a chaaaaaance."

Go cry incel tears into your craft beer, Ryan. Nobody wants your dick.

ihavenoideadwhatimdo · 2021-04-27T22:50:11+00:00

Guys always think they’re being so slick when they play these games to try and make us chase them. NEXT

baobab77 · 2021-04-27T23:39:19+00:00

You literally told him that you work every day. And he read it, and replies telling you that he's looking for someone he can hit up at the last minute. Like where in your message does it say you have time to be in limbo waiting to see who calls you on a day off.

Ughhhh! Men irritate me.

Aocwannabe · 2021-04-27T22:57:07+00:00

Pickmes and 🤡🤡: “But he’s being honest.”

Blockity, blockity, block.😘

MadamePotpourri · 2021-04-27T22:51:08+00:00

"I also don't want sex"...... Yes he does

"I just want someone I can vibe w and go on last minute dates"..... He wants you to be ready for him at HIS convenience

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-27T22:46:36+00:00

In other words, he's a major waste of time.

me_ology · 2021-04-27T22:54:30+00:00

They think it's okay because there are a ton of pickmes who will give them the time of day and entertain them despite all their nonsense. They wouldn't have the audacity if their audacity was never validated by other LVM and especially pickmes.

You can't stop them, but you can keep on blocking these scrotes because they're not worth your time or energy. Keep fighting the good fight ✊

Exsqueeze_meh · 2021-04-27T23:00:20+00:00

doesn't want sex??? Please, NOBODY believes this dumb dumb! LOL Good on you for not replying and just blocking 👑

Saph_loner · 2021-04-27T23:21:08+00:00

What I’m reading is that he’s taken and doesn’t want to “cheat” sexually but that he wants to waste your time by going on “last minute dates” which probably means telling the wife or gf he’s working late or running out with friends. And he wants you to jump at a moments notice. No.

MissouriBlue · 2021-04-28T00:39:38+00:00

“Last minute dates” = you’re an afterthought or my real plans fell through.

My card

Shot_Sir7902 · 2021-04-27T22:50:09+00:00

Ugh when they say “ight”. Such a turn off.

Edit: also stay away from any many who says vibe the worst phrase is “good vibes only!!” Aka I’m a toxic piece of shit and will gaslight you when you recognize my horrible behavior

Hopefully987 · 2021-04-27T23:24:38+00:00

Slam down the joker card.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-04-27T23:41:28+00:00

As if this guy could possibly have less time than a woman who works 7 days a week.

apple_cores · 2021-04-27T23:05:06+00:00

I could go my whole life without hearing the word vibe ever again.

FabledAngryVillager · 2021-04-27T22:56:52+00:00

God, the audacity pisses me off so much

miphasgraceful · 2021-04-27T23:21:28+00:00

Meaning: “I want the appearance of a GF in public so I get all of the social clout and none of the tough, emotional burden”

bakergirl29 · 2021-04-27T23:24:07+00:00

I wouldn’t text directly from my actual number… Always stay on the dating app or on a texting app. Easier to block and delete. 👋🏻

littletonothinghere · 2021-04-27T23:04:51+00:00

My follow up is if it’s date, is he paying 🤣

Looks like he’s looking for r a friend why not find friends meet up groups lol

maraslove · 2021-04-28T00:13:44+00:00

Lmao @ his dumbass thinking he really did something by “exposing” himself like that and LYING at the same time. Exactly why I haven’t given a guy my real number in a year. They want to collect your shit and disrespect you personally. A spam number feels so much better 😍.

Ill_Entrepreneur_704 · 2021-04-28T01:40:46+00:00

“Last minute dates” UGH. He literally means he’s not going to hang out unless he can’t find a “better” option. Along with all the other BS, of course. What a selfish idiot.

carmen_sandiegos_hat · 2021-04-27T23:32:58+00:00

Get a bestie/friend??? I don't know what he's asking for!

softensonic · 2021-04-27T23:34:32+00:00

So he's boring...

LeighHolloway44 · 2021-04-28T00:11:43+00:00

Well, given his laziness shown through lack of proper English grammar I think you’re making the correct choice. Fuck him.

HottPinkSlug · 2021-04-28T04:17:37+00:00

I like how his manner of speech changed when he started saying the stupid shit like he knew how ridiculous what he was proposing sounded so he tried to be all casual and breezy about it. All it needed was an 'lol' at the end

spicyspa · 2021-04-27T23:18:27+00:00

She turned the card over and won the game. Which card? Block and delete.

I can't tell you how many times I've had this type of interaction with a guy. They think you owe them because they interacted with you. My 2nd to last interaction with a scrote was similar. He asked what I was looking for, I told him something vague then "called me out" on it because I was vague. So I stupidly cut to the chase told him I was looking for long term. Of course he agreed. Then after 2 more interactions asked if I liked to be kissed. Good grief, on the surface that's mild, but behind the duh aspect (depending on the kisser) of it, we all know what he's driving at.

So I blocked and deleted.

Then all the other discussions with men I increased my B & D speed.

Never explain, provide details or let a scrote guilt you for not doing the former.

TheDaezy · 2021-04-27T23:01:49+00:00

Ew what a hobo

CuntWaffe · 2021-04-27T23:53:39+00:00

Block and delete. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.

AyemHerself · 2021-04-28T00:04:01+00:00

Was he typing like that before he "showed his cards" or did he suddenly forget his English?

ddamaya · 2021-04-28T04:28:42+00:00

Ight so look...you’re getting blocked 👋🏼.

sassenachpants · 2021-04-28T05:21:23+00:00

“I’m looking for someone to give me instant validation at a moments notice when I have exhausted the other pickme options in my life.”

FDS-GFY · 2021-04-28T02:20:26+00:00

I show you my block finger that’s what.

ScalesHaveFallen · 2021-04-28T01:05:30+00:00

You kept your cards by your chest and you blocked and deleted,right?

purasangria · 2021-04-27T23:44:04+00:00

Here's my card: BLOCK -- DELETE.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-04-28T01:24:43+00:00

His laugh emoji is so fucking tone deaf.

shoesfromparis135 · 2021-04-28T01:34:31+00:00

👻👻👻

randomgirlimok · 2021-04-28T03:45:15+00:00

I don’t want sex, just last minute 2am dates in my bedroom. Lol who would fall for that??

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-04-27T22:53:31+00:00

I would say “my cards are on the table” and then hit the block button. Men have nothing but the audacity.

Nice_Pass2393 · 2021-04-28T01:40:32+00:00

How is he going to find someone to go on last minute dates? The only away is to find A woman without a job, but how is that likely?

lansburysoda · 2021-04-28T01:45:46+00:00

At least he was honest 🤷‍♀️ the bar is hell

Confection_Efficient · 2021-04-28T01:06:42+00:00

Ohmylord. What cards. Where. 😒

shelballama · 2021-04-28T10:18:25+00:00

The moment a dude says "ight" to me I'm donezo

Basically a lead in to talk down to/lower the bar. You can feel the disappointment about to hit you as soon as you read those 4 letters

Also wayyyy to informal to me for someone you're trying to court/ don't know

The rest is just gravy. "Show me yours"

ThatIntention1 · 2021-04-28T00:11:31+00:00

Pretty sure he just wants sex.

warinmymind94 · 2021-04-28T05:38:16+00:00

Translation of the scrote: i want someone that will have casual sex with me AND I can use last minute as my free therapist / entertainment for when I'm bored or my other chick's cancel on me hur dur

"Last minute" anything is always a red flag but this scrote was a whole store of red flags.

aenema46n2 · 2021-04-28T07:11:34+00:00

'You feel me?'....ummm NO, not feeling shit!

neonred1 · 2021-04-28T08:25:41+00:00

“Now it’s time for you to show me yours” After you told me you had nothing to offer...

Risoa · 2021-04-28T10:26:25+00:00

Appalling. At least you can feel great about blocking him now because he ain't offering shit.

lollykpops · 2021-04-28T07:22:32+00:00

What you’re looking for Jeremy, is a friend.

glowmilk · 2021-04-28T09:41:42+00:00

The way he assumes you’ll already be interested with his, “now it’s time for you to show me yours” smh does he think he’s slick? 🤨

little_sparrow152 · 2021-04-28T10:25:51+00:00

EVERYTHING of this is so... ew.

LIke, noooo, I totally don't want sex, but also no commitment at all, just be available whenever I want you to, alright? Basically, I want attention on demand (maybe a free therapist and some eye candy too), and don't you think I'll be giving any of it back!

anotherdamnloser · 2021-04-28T05:24:09+00:00

Yikes wow...

Repulsive-Ad1092 · 2021-04-28T13:02:25+00:00

LVM be like: My cards are ✨LAST MINUTE DATES✨ You should be HAPPY that I spend them with you 😚😚😚

_queeeen_ · 2021-04-28T14:54:56+00:00

“Last minute dates.” Sir, you need to get some friends.

fairywakes · 2021-04-28T15:08:04+00:00

I know this really good card game! It’s called Blocc’d. My favorite 🌸

ConnectBlueberry9276 · 2021-04-28T15:27:43+00:00

Audacity at its finest! Want it all but giving nothing!!! Block 🚫 and delete!

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-04-28T15:36:32+00:00

Lol.

sunbathingpug · 2021-04-29T16:37:35+00:00

Tbh I like this. It’s the trash taking itself out.

⚠️The audacity of these men...I’m beyond TIRED. I had to block him. I just can’t understand why they think this is okay...⚠️

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Title	⚠️The audacity of these men...I’m beyond TIRED. I had to block him. I just can’t understand why they think this is okay...⚠️
Author	KnowledgeOk5995
Upvotes	678
Comments	109
Date	April 27, 2021 10:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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