Seems like everything men do has an ulterior motive! I’ll go first:

  1. Coffee dates/walk dates - I used to think a man asking me for coffee during the day was a good thing, I mean surely they wouldn’t be expecting sex on some random Tuesday at 1pm, and it’s not like they’re trying to get me drunk right? Wrong. They’re hoping you’ll still give them sex after they’ve only had to spend like $4 coffee, and if not they’re trying to assess if it’s worth it take you on a second date to a bar (where they can get you drunk and hopefully have sex). Low effort, low cost, and trying to take advantage of women as usual.

  2. Trying to go on a lot of dates in a short period of time - Oh that’s nice he must really want to spend time with you! No, of course. He thinks you have a specific number of dates that you need to hit before you’ll sleep with him, and he’s trying to get to the magical number as soon as possible.

  3. Nerdy/geeky/quiet/short boys - seems like years of victim blaming women for abuse by saying “we only go after assholes” has worked and a lot of women are dating “nerdy nice guys”. I feel like it goes without saying that these borderline incels have even worse attitudes to women that hot or wealthy men.