“You seem expensive”

Maingurl · 2021-06-01T13:41:30+00:00

My girl didn't waste any time! Bye to him!

the-worst- · 2021-06-01T13:59:13+00:00

I think it's hilarious when they get all hot and bothered about how a WOMAN spends HER hard earned money that SHE worked for on whatever she likes that is within her budget.

Because when they spend their money on games or cam girls/only fans it's "my money to do what I want with!" But when a woman does the same with high quality stuff that makes her happy it's "getting in the way of our future finances!"

Like... do I see a ring on my finger? Are we planning our wedding now? No? Then my money is NOT your future. It's mine. And you ain't in it "bro!"

deep_faked_beans · 2021-06-01T15:06:16+00:00

So he wants a woman that looks as beautiful as you, but then is shocked that you have regular appointments. Logic.

theterminatress · 2021-06-01T13:46:06+00:00

Have so often gotten this for having a personal trainer, having motorcycles, having nice makeup. I guess they think we are supposed to be spending our hard earned money on them and their kids.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-06-01T16:26:31+00:00

Men; "I want a perfect ten who takes care of herself"

Women; gets hair and nails done, goes to the gym 5× per week, has an actual skin care routine and a plethora of makeup products

Men; "you seem expensive", or "you're too high maintenance"

Meets a woman who doesn't do any of the above

Men; "you'd look a lot prettier if you put some effort into your looks"

You just can't win with these scrotes.

betsybasset · 2021-06-01T13:47:33+00:00

😂.

And + facial, wax/laser, eyebrow, hair colour to name a few.

Remember you males created this 'beauty' myth:

women should be not hairy, brazilian so hot! fit, doesn't look like a hag...

Reap the seed you sow 😇

ucompost · 2021-06-01T17:06:08+00:00

Same man that probably just magically expects you to be flawless not understanding the time and money it takes to get that way it’s like they want us to be fucking unicorns while they’re just LARPing as Aragorn.

I’ve listen to men bitch about their wives saying how expensive all their make up and skin care is while they’re surrounded in their own private game room with thousands upon thousands of dollars of board games and video games and porn. I guarantee you if their wife suddenly showed up with shitty hair shitty skin and shitty nails they probably say something about it. Actually lol wait their bros would comment about a wife not wearing make up so nvm (and yes the husband said nothing during this comment so y’know...)

abby_ch238 · 2021-06-01T15:20:07+00:00

Fuck this so much, they complain when we get our nails and hair done like we’re too superficial yada yada then when we don’t do these things they complain we don’t take care of our looks like other girls do. I had a friend (who is NO LONGER a friend) complain that his gf isn’t putting effort into her looks like getting her nails and hair done YET HE WOULD ALSO MAKE FUN OF ME IF I DO THOSE THINGS.

GTFO

theterminatress · 2021-06-01T13:49:33+00:00

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cassettina · 2021-06-01T17:14:25+00:00

Men: wow ur so naturally beautiful

Also men: wait you spend money on nice clothes, perfume, getting your hair done, organic groceries, personal training, running shoes, and skincare?!

Blekah · 2021-06-01T17:19:10+00:00

We’re supposed to be perfectly groomed, have a nice high quality haircut and blown out look constantly, have our nails done, clear skin, hairless body... and that’s supposed to be natural and not cost a thing? Do LVM actually like women, or they like the idea of this non-human woman?

smothered_reality · 2021-06-01T16:25:11+00:00

I mean, she can spend all her money on pudding if she wants to, what’s it to anyone?

denimlace · 2021-06-01T15:15:54+00:00

Word to the wise: if a man asks you “wyd”, block and delete

starfighter07 · 2021-06-01T14:05:41+00:00

Men trying to neg us because we spend quality time on ourselves while them barely having a decent hygiene... (not saying that having your nails done is part of a good hygiene but I meant to say it is laughable that they are trying to disminish women for enjoying our time and money on taking care of us while they are most likely to do the bare minimum to keeping in good mental and physical hygiene)

Good for you girl !!!

officialvevo · 2021-06-01T16:31:32+00:00

Classic negging, he’s trying to make her feel bad about being “high-maintenance” so she’ll desperately try to convince him she’s low-maintenance. Little did he know that she doesn’t take high-maintenance as an insult!

Hateorade_ · 2021-06-01T13:43:50+00:00

Good fucking riddance 💅

shelballama · 2021-06-01T14:06:10+00:00

This is the same fool who will degrade women who aren't "effortlessly beautiful" down the road, and/or partake in an expensive hobby such as gaming that he won't think twice about spending hundreds of bucks on a month.

No thanks

adventurelillypad · 2021-06-01T17:24:18+00:00

God forbid a woman put effort into her appearance😩 if she didn’t do this shit guys would be complaining that she doesn’t take care of herself. Smh.

Suspicious-Traffic-1 · 2021-06-01T14:10:17+00:00

What a weirdo, why is he so mad she is spending her own money on herself. Weird

witchingsauce · 2021-06-01T14:31:03+00:00

Block at wyd ladies lol

freerollerskates · 2021-06-01T18:14:49+00:00

My sister is single, works a stupid number of hours and is literally in the top income tax bracket in the UK, but still was beating herself up about having spent money on some fancy picnic things from an expensive food hall in London (they're really nice though- they have a cheeseboard and a condiment pouch!). I told her to treat herself since she has plenty of savings, she owns her property, she has no kids- why the hell shouldn't she buy nice things that she likes?!

spinaflora · 2021-06-01T15:12:27+00:00

He’s already keeping a tally? Tragic.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-06-01T14:20:00+00:00

"You seem expensive" yet they don't skip a beat to ask for gifts all the time. Or that doesn't stop them asking for a supermodel gf. She was smart! :) Boy bye lmao.

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2021-06-01T16:30:39+00:00

LOL imagine having to go through life like this reject.

wine_and_mastiffs · 2021-06-01T18:09:43+00:00

Broke boys don’t deserve no kitty.

Risoa · 2021-06-01T15:05:04+00:00

Why do you care what she spends her money on loser

Lazy-Design1979 · 2021-06-01T15:35:42+00:00

"You seem expensive"? I think I'll take that as a compliment. Yes, I am expensive because I know who I am and what I have to offer. If you're not interested, don't go away mad...just go away. These same guys wouldn't accept a job for less pay than they know they're worth, so I don't understand what the disconnect is.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-06-01T18:04:11+00:00

How can one person be so pissed because someone else spends their own money on things they like?

purasangria · 2021-06-01T14:23:29+00:00

The only proper response!

Hedy__Lamarr · 2021-06-01T17:57:20+00:00

If a guy doesn't like how I live my life, including how I spend my money, he can take a flying leap. It's not his money and it's none of his business.

SelfShine · 2021-06-01T18:55:08+00:00

I was at a communal eatery inside an office building where the dudes next to me were discussing how well dressed the women were in their office. One scrote kept question how women could afford to look good and where they got the money. He obviously assumed it was a man, husband or someone else that was paying for the women's clothes. Men have to realize women make their own money and can spend it however they want and if a women looks good it is not to please men.

Silbhe94 · 2021-06-01T16:22:32+00:00

Queen 😂

ENFP_Canadian · 2021-06-01T16:33:33+00:00

QUEEN SHIT

HottPinkSlug · 2021-06-01T14:35:46+00:00

That dude is straight up embarassing.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-06-01T18:37:30+00:00

Ewww to broke men

quirkypinkllama · 2021-06-01T18:39:34+00:00

Lol. They expect girls to look good then complain when we do the things it takes to get that way.

Taking care of yourself isn't expensive. Now if EVERY week she's doing some expensive stuff then ok mayyyybe she's expensive. But it's her money so.... where be the problem? Lol

up_d00t · 2021-06-01T19:00:38+00:00

Expensive? I don't see the bit where he paid the bill.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-06-01T17:59:02+00:00

Do they really think it’s acceptable to talk to us this way 🙄

woadsky · 2021-06-01T18:35:43+00:00

"Expensive for whom?"

Cel_Gabe · 2021-06-01T14:32:51+00:00

What an ass he is smh

Bubbysparks · 2021-06-01T18:05:32+00:00

I am cracking up. I'm taking inspiration from this marvelous display of boundary setting.

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-06-01T19:28:48+00:00

Hahaha . . You seem like a cheap ass. Peace ✌🏼 😂 you love to see it . . 100% guaranteed if she wasn’t handling all that business then she “let herself go” and “deserves to be cheated on”. I salute her and her refusal to entertain clownery.

chelseachain · 2021-06-01T18:22:37+00:00

LMAO

Ill_Entrepreneur_704 · 2021-06-01T18:38:16+00:00

Expensive for whom? She’s doing what she wants with her money and time and this onlooker has an issue with that?

hotandreadynukes · 2021-06-01T19:25:51+00:00

What a pathetic attempt at negging, way to show her you're not at all at her level 🤢 fuck scrotes

Aggressive_Birthday4 · 2021-06-01T19:28:25+00:00

Lol he doesn’t realize that getting your nails and hair done is a regular thing? He does sound broke if that seems expensive to him.

You don’t see men batting an eyelash at other men spending $60 on each console game or thousands on gaming rigs. Boy, bye.

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-06-01T20:14:35+00:00

How do you get the confidence to just leave at the first red flag and disrespect? I really want to be able to do this but it’s difficult for me as I admit I have low self esteem and I’m afraid of others opinions and reactions. I lack respect for myself too.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-06-01T20:42:26+00:00

Telling a man he’s cheap is even better lol they get really upset.

GalsofWisconsin · 2021-06-01T13:41:22+00:00

NS

Edit: Laughing at the upvotes. Didn’t expect anyone to know what this means, cept 1-2 black fonts

MACMUA · 2021-06-01T19:36:07+00:00

I need this energy for the rest of my dang life lol

frostedgemstone · 2021-06-01T19:50:25+00:00

Pathetic attempt at negging a woman for working hard at her grooming/hygiene/appearance

Rowbloks · 2021-06-01T20:21:51+00:00

I LOVE THIS, do your thing queen 💅👑💁‍♀️

cutiebranch · 2021-06-01T20:36:52+00:00

“You seem expensive” = women are objects

Uh no dude

Royal-Progress · 2021-06-01T20:47:31+00:00

😂😂🤣🤣

CaptainMorgan546 · 2021-06-01T20:04:26+00:00

Haha I love your response. Go you.

MsXxSelfDestructxX · 2021-06-01T20:05:11+00:00

This guy could have said literally aaaaannything else other than come off like an asshole. Now he can be broke and remain single.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-06-01T20:32:37+00:00

also... I hate that I didn't mention this the first time... he did not even blur her photo or crop it out of that conversation. he's doxxing her out of spite. way to go, scrote, way to go.

2021-06-01T19:05:24+00:00

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Title	“You seem expensive”
Author	cicerii
Upvotes	1669
Comments	147
Date	June 1, 2021 1:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/npu6m3/you_seem_expensive/
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