Daily Community Chat Megathread

chancetolive · 2023-05-27T15:21:00+00:00

https://youtu.be/YL-OfZA7u3U first few mins

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-05-27T15:17:15+00:00

Anyone ever date someone with BPD? How was it?

potoricco · 2023-05-27T15:15:59+00:00

Do you ever think about how some of our most ubiquitous and timeless pop culture (like songs, films, etc) didn’t always exist? Like a person born in 1700 would never have heard the song jingle bells. Also they would have never seen a moving video in their life EVER. How do you just not know what a video is or jingle bells? It’s crazy to think about how things that are so classic today didn’t always exist

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-27T15:07:00+00:00

The male wall is 25~

jobbo321 · 2023-05-27T14:52:51+00:00

I'm on a streak, 1 date from Tinder a month if you count since April.

I pray to the algorithm that more bitches will be sent to my way and we keep this going on.

potoricco · 2023-05-27T14:23:23+00:00

I remember during the Kanye west antisemitism scandal I found this white supremacist twitter space. And they were having a full blown, 100% serious debate. And the topic was, I kid you not: “should we ally with Kanye west because he hates Jews, or do we just ignore him because he’s black?”

And in that moment all I could think was: how shitty and worthless does a person’s life have to be for this to be a legitimate concern to them. I know to them it probably was a serious concern but it’s funny how when you’re outside of a group, the kind of things they care about just seem so dumb. That’s probably how normal people feel about PPD. Of course we are better than nazis though don’t get me wrong

ppd_alt · 2023-05-27T14:18:52+00:00

This sub used to be good.

Constant N count discussions, screeching about how 30 year old women are too young to consent, non-stop speculation on when the wall hits, AWALT, AMALT.

Where has that gone?

I have Covid. I need some fucking entertainment.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-27T12:11:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/13setda/dont_ask_me_if_im_single_4_years_of_swiping_as_a/

So, who were the people saying the 80/20 rule was fake? She said she is an average looking woman.

inb4 this is only on dating apps - What makes you think her standards are different in real life?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-27T11:34:29+00:00

Women of various ages with delusional dating profiles

You'd be surprised how 60 yo women still chase Chad on OLD 😆

Sea-Pepper-4548 · 2023-05-27T10:49:08+00:00

Is it weird for a 18yr male to use tinder or dating apps?

happy_discus · 2023-05-27T10:00:23+00:00

Saw a interesting Arte documentary on YouTube not long ago. It was about dating in Sweden. The documentary talked about women now pursuing men unlike the rest of the world. The points the women featured in the documentary made or complained about were very interesting and sometimes pretty much the same the men on here talk about. I sadly can't find it again.

Frameworkeee · 2023-05-27T09:22:11+00:00

Is anyone else concerned by people using biology to justify fetishizing kids and tall men?

We are not animals. Stop looking at "biology" as an excuse.

33333aaaa · 2023-05-27T08:02:32+00:00

There's only one "pill."

The guy who gets women's love / passion for free, is the winner.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-05-27T06:47:58+00:00

Finally got Corona last 4-5 days. When I get sick and muddle-headed, sometimes I like to binge watch total trash TV.
So I watched CW's Gotham Knights.
What a weird casting departure from CW's Vampire Diaries. In Vampire Diaries, everyone had to be buff and hot. Now, there is only one guy. He's twink hot. Meanwhile, none of the girls would have been even allowed to deliver donuts to the Vampire Diaries set.
They have a 30-year old playing a 16-year old. Different body types.

Could we ever get to a place where the men in film and TV are expected to be younger, physically hotter and in better shape than the women?

Willow-girl · 2023-05-27T06:06:26+00:00

Good song for closing time! https://youtu.be/hu2wWD0iuP8

Night-night purple pillers!

Willow-girl · 2023-05-27T05:31:14+00:00

Holy shit, my ball team put up 7 HRs! That may go down as one of their better games this year ... (hell ... decade...)

Now I'm sitting here listening to old Tina Turner songs (RIP beautiful lady) and my man is practicing what he calls his "Ike Turner commemorative backhand," lol.

I rolled my eyes so hard I saw God ...

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-27T05:25:51+00:00

If your partner leaves you it's your fault, you didn't have something they needed or wanted, you failed to provide what is on you as a partner to provide.

Can you blame them for moving on to someone better?

scwizard · 2023-05-27T04:48:28+00:00

I found out a few days ago that my job collected donations for me after I lost my daughter in a tragic accident.

Except my manager kept all the money.

I have one coworker who confirmed she sent the manager money and today I had to email everyone else to see if they donated and if they have proof of it so I can figure out what is next.

I feel like I’m responsible to repay them the money that was donated.

Why on God's green earth would she feel like she's responsible to pay back the people who donated???

PBtoast707 · 2023-05-27T04:36:02+00:00

My boyfriend just turned down a spot on a semi-pro soccer team. The league they’re in is really a feeder league to professional teams. He’s pretty upset and he’s trying to act like he’s okay. I’m pregnant and I know that’s why he turned them down but he’s acting like it has nothing to do with his decision. I was cuddling him earlier, and he liked it for a while, but he seemed to want to be left alone. I know he’s excited for the baby but I’m sure this feels like the ultimate failure for him. I hope he’s not mad at me.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-27T04:25:34+00:00

The amount of anime titties I seent today, lord have mercy. The con girls be having their whole ass out.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-27T04:18:07+00:00

I started having conversations with my dad about some of the topics on this sub and it’s so enlightening to hear his thoughts, but it’s also nice to just bond with my dad in the way we know best (debates/having in depth conversations about controversies). We made a deal to talk about one PPD topic every Friday :)

Willow-girl · 2023-05-27T03:57:20+00:00

I just worked my last Friday until August and my baseball team is actually winning tonight (so far). WOOHOO!

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-27T03:47:29+00:00

You should never be satisfied with your life, not being satisfied drives you to get better and improve your life.

Satisfaction leads to comfort, and that comfort leads to laziness.

Accepting a comfortable life is letting your laziness win.

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-05-27T03:17:59+00:00

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saraimarsena · 2023-05-27T02:29:08+00:00

seeing men lean on each other and be vulnerable, draw strength in each other and the bond they share is a really beautiful thing. even seeing a man open up to his woman and feel safe in that is so very heartwarming to me.

a lot of guys are so deeply hurt and push their pain down within themselves, it seems so lonely. it is very sad that so many guys have to feel that.

purplish_possum · 2023-05-27T02:20:59+00:00

Let's see how well Pasadena enforces it's parking laws.

rantsincognito · 2023-05-27T02:06:00+00:00

I'm near the finish line for my 20s. The start of this summer has been pretty good. I already bonked one chick this week, another hit me up to come over next week, tonight 2 girls on OLD agreed to a date this weekend and next week (both sent the first message, and one explicitly stated she likes splitting the bill) so hopefully I can get that going, and another at the gym started a convo and gave some signals that I should probably pursue in the future. Things haven't been this easy since college, and I'm not even actively seeking that much now due to studying for Step 1. It isn't even June yet, can't wait for July. Geezer crew, does it really get better in your 30s and I am experiencing a ramp up, or am I just experiencing the death throes before things go off the cliff next year? I know things usually get good during the summer, but this is better than last year by quite a bit. 3 of the girls above are 3-5 years older than me, the others are all 3+ years younger.

EDIT: I shit you not, ~40 mins after making this post I got yet another match on OLD with a girl that sent the first message. I'm going in boys, gonna try and set up another one. I wish I could post pics as proof as was done back in the Misc, but I've said too much shit here to risk getting doxxed.

potoricco · 2023-05-27T01:51:04+00:00

Cunty 2000’s inspired Music Playlist put together by me

Listen when you lack confidence to feel like the queen you are

And they’re all short ~2 minute songs

6arelyhuman/Jefree Star - Hands Up!

Ayesha Erotica - Delicious

Bratz- Space Angels Popstars

Azealia Banks - New Bottega

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-27T00:51:42+00:00

I'm about to give you the entire life cycle of PPD in shorthand

Women ask why men don't want to commit to high bodycount women
Men say because women won't stay committed long term
Women ask for studies and research on this
Men give studies and research that women don't ever click to open
Women say "why r u so unscientific!!"

The end. This is every argument that's ever been had on PPD. You're welcome, thanks for stopping by

autumncolors816 · 2023-05-27T00:49:09+00:00

I was looking through photos on my phone and coworker notice one of my photos contained an upside down pineapple. He proceeded to ask if I was into "that kind of thing"? I said, "I have no idea what you are talking about!" He then proceeded to make small talk all throughout the day. Keeping in mind he is a doctor and I have never seen him in my department this much before.

Does anyone know what an upside down Pinapple mean? Or its significance?

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-05-26T22:40:41+00:00

Lord I’m meeting the parents. I’m terrified. Petrified. What do I do? What do I wear? What if they hate me in person?

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-26T22:23:09+00:00

I wonder how much women’s standards/attraction are absolute vs relative to themselves vs relative to the market. Like to a woman with an undergraduate degree is a man with a phd more attractive/impressive than to a woman with a graduate degree? If so that’s kinda sad for successful women

potoricco · 2023-05-26T22:17:21+00:00

I won’t him

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-26T22:11:20+00:00

r/deadbedrooms subreddit makes me sad

Townsend877 · 2023-05-26T21:54:22+00:00

Why do all the terminally online peeps in this sub talk constantly about looks and height and all this and that about appearance and chad and never talk about dick size?

Chad with a 4in (or 5-6 boring unimpressive range) dick is going to get crushed quite often by women.

It’s pointless to talk about your physical attractiveness as a man and not mention the D

webernicke · 2023-05-26T21:07:27+00:00

Anybody here on Lexapro? My doctor says I have all the depression symptoms. I hear it fucks your sex drive tho.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-26T20:45:18+00:00

So does Reviewbrah/Report of the week have a girlfriend already?

He reminds me a lot of my innocent self.

No-Regular1667 · 2023-05-26T20:44:48+00:00

CMV: If someone has to go through "self-improvement" in order to increase their chances of finding a partner, then they are below average in looks, personality, or both. Average/normal people just find partners, they didn’t have to seek advice online, alter their daily lives, take up new hobbies, or workout 6 hours a day.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-26T20:32:21+00:00

Anyone else hate it when you keep happening to make eye contact with someone across the room and in your head just thinking 'I'm not trying to be creepy, I just keep happening to look in your direction'?

Is it a thing that happens, or just a touch of the 'tism?

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-05-26T20:32:02+00:00

So sick of hearing the af/bb as if it’s a real thing

People that have never been in a relationship shouldn’t be allowed to make up accusations that impact young minds about them

No-Pen8713 · 2023-05-26T20:31:14+00:00

What’s funny is how much “right place and right time” matters for dating. Just being in situations in school or college or the workplace where you are put around the same girl again and again. One dude recently started dating my crush just because they happened to be put in the same training programs at work and he is objectively shorter, worse looking, less muscular, etc than me but he was able to leverage his personality during their interactions, whereas I barely get a chance to say hi and bye to her in passing.

Very illuminating stuff. Also another reason why ppl who say only looks matter are plain wrong. A lot of it really is familiarity and how you make a girl feel. And this guy was given 1000 more chances than me unfortunately, but it is what it is right.

Bandit174 · 2023-05-26T20:09:12+00:00

standards for betabuxxing a rough

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/yXP89srkKQU

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-26T20:08:34+00:00

I'm wondering what the attention thread is gonna look like once automod removes top level replies agreeing with OP.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-26T18:58:57+00:00

Just a reminder, you’re less likely to play jester for a girl if you actual vet for personality and try to filter base on compatibility, not just on looks.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-05-26T18:45:11+00:00

CMV:

So most people can agree on someone who’s above average in looks and someone who’s below average in looks. It’s average that tastes differ greatly and varies so much from person to person.

I think guys who have concluded women only find 20% of men attractive are in denial of where they fall.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-26T18:27:36+00:00

I love how posting factual research is removed for incel content but women can keep arguing in bad faith and breaking rules non stop lol.

potoricco · 2023-05-26T18:19:23+00:00

70s= Best Modern Era for music

60s= best modern era for fashion

When I get money I’m going to revamp my wardrobe and it’s going to be only 60s clothes

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-26T18:00:02+00:00

If guys here hate being accused of only chasing Stacies, then stop describing Stacy in your ‘AWALT’ rants.

scwizard · 2023-05-26T17:52:21+00:00

What are we gonna do tonight Brain?

Same thing we do every night Pinky, try and turn women into slaves!

Luciansleep · 2023-05-26T17:39:16+00:00

Q4W: What idea do you agree with the red pill on?

Nyx_the_hexer · 2023-05-26T17:29:29+00:00

I found out that a co-worker indulges in datings sims, and asked if I was. I replied in the no, she seemed offended when I told her I prefer to my feet based in reality. She must have thought I was trying insult her.

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-26T17:26:29+00:00

Always surprises me to see the women on Reddit say they don’t have better dating options than men, when Reddit swings young and young women have substantially more options than young men.

SorryEm · 2023-05-26T17:16:30+00:00

I've kinda come up with an alignment chart for the general debate here

Lawful Good - Religious Traditionalists

Neutral Good - Mens Rights Activist types

Chaotic Good - Pure and firm equalists/dictionary feminists who are against male hate and male suffering too

Lawful Neutral - Most purple-pillers/normie types

True Neutral - Black pillers

Chaotic Neutral - Pick up artist redpiller "Be confident bro" types

Lawful Evil - Blue-piller normie types, but unlike lawful neutral they are complete ideologues for modern dating and courtship and

Neutral evil - Dishonest and mean misandrist types. Some women-hating types can fit here, but there is one issue. Their accounts end up suspended.

Chaotic Evil - "Fuck you got mine" older chad types

Infammo · 2023-05-26T17:09:13+00:00

I claim this Daily Chat for the Red Pill.

VampireChaser · 2023-05-27T15:51:37+00:00

Woman goes to the gym for two years, deadlifts 100kg.

Guy goes to the gym for the first time, deadlifts 100kg.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-05-27T17:26:58+00:00

Every single CMV thread PPD men: Here is a peer reviewed journal that supports my very biased views

PPD women: here is an anecdote about some dude no one knows or cares about who happened to be my ex who is literally the devil therefore represents most men.

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ChiIdishcambino · 2023-05-27T17:04:28+00:00

It’s so very obvious that the CMV and Q4W about red pill being morally wrong is written by a woman w an agenda

Someone mentions rollo, first response, “does he have any qualifications to speak on human experiences” and that’s one of the only responses by OP all seemingly ignoring the men giving their side

Like it’s not even a good attempt, I wonder why people even do this type of stuff. Maybe attention idk

2023-05-27T17:41:42+00:00

Q4W: The most common response from women when men are complaining that their partners are trauma/info-dumping on them, monologuing at them, or just using them as a toilet for their thoughts is "leave her and find someone you actually like then, you fucking incel".

My question is this - how much monologuing does one need to endure from their partner before it qualifies as "liking them"?

Does <1 hour a day = you dislike your partner? More than one hour a day means that you like your partner?

And yes, I am aware that men drone on about things endlessly too. However, I rarely see men getting angry at women who complain about this. We know we've got the capacity to be bores, and we're thankful that our partners are polite and patient with us anyway.

scwizard · 2023-05-27T18:03:49+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/13sqtep/thats_wild_you_could_die_like_that/

Transwoman records giving the doordash delivery guy a blowjob.

What is up with the left going full on horseshoe here and saying there is no deception here because "it's a woman giving a man a blowjob" and "she isn't legally required to disclose her gender identity"??

It's amazing to me how quickly the left will adjust definitions as soon as the old definition starts to infringe on them doing whatever the fuck they want.

Rape by deception? Oh, no, that doesn't apply here. Why? It just doesn't!

Best comment was "So if you, as a woman, brought a man back to your bedroom, turned off the lights and had a guy suck the man off, there's no deception because it's just a mouth and a penis?"

When people say "woke doesn't exist", this is the kind of shit that makes me call bullshit on that.

scwizard · 2023-05-27T20:34:46+00:00

My mom has been in a domestic violence situation for the past 5 years. Her husband is a drug addict and former convict. He is a skilled narcissist who can lie and get anyone to like him.

The problem is that he will go months of being MIA and they could not find him to serve the divorce papers. He was in LA for 3 months once living on the streets and then returned back and convinced her to take him back

If you can't leave your abusive narcissist crack addicted husband when he's physically absent for 3 months, you're doing something wrong.

The concept of an omnipotent omnipresent abuser totally collapses when they're physically in another state for 3 months.

It doesn't matter though. Remember no matter what the circumstances it's never her fault.

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