If you were in relationship with someone who was perfect in every way and a great partner but didn’t satisfy you in the bedroom would you consider non-monogamy. Let’s say that this would be the only thing you would change if given the choice relationship.

For context, let’s say it’s not possible to work through it (the issue revolves around the physical more so than the chemistry/emotional side of sex). You genuinely love this person and would want to spend the rest of your life and possibly even raise children with them.

Is there a way to bring up non-monogamy or swinging without hurting their feelings?

Edit the issue in this hypothetical scenario is penis size. While not small (6”) it doesn’t satisfy you and you’ve already tried toys so non-monogamy seems to be the only other option