Many people here are probably already familiar with the concept of female dual mating strategy, aka alpha fucks and beta bucks. I’m just thinking here, but I believe men also practice dual mating strategy. Let’s call it alpha women and beta sluts. I think looking at relations through this lens would answer a lot of questions for a lot of women.

Guys look at highly promiscuous or less desirable women the same way a woman looks at an ugly man, or a low status man. She may leave it alone, or she may see it as a meal ticket, free validation, a follower/subscriber etc. Men may also leave less desirable women alone, but they also might see her as a potential “sexual meal ticket” if you will. Someone who is not to be taken seriously, but perhaps he can reap some benefit from. A man may however approach this relationship in the usual way at the beginning, leaving the woman blindsided by lack of interest down the line. This is similar to how a cam girl or stripper approaches a man she wants money from. An undesirable woman apologizing for not wanting to continue a relationship, is like an onlyfans subscriber apologizing for not continuing their subscription. It’s a small loss and its only business.

“Alpha women” on the other hand are treated the same way “alpha” men are. They are given the best treatment possible, and receive the best version of the person they are with. This is because there is genuine desire beyond sexuality.

Just as women may pursue both types of men simultaneously, many men may also pursue both types of women simultaneously. This is why you see married men pursuing seemingly less attractive women on the side. And why some men may enter a relationship with a less desirable woman to secure consistent sex, but become resentful and look for something more desirable.

To clarify, I don’t define “alpha women” in this context as literal wives, but rather as women who embody the characteristics a man would want in a wife. Meaning things like agreeableness,attractiveness, low body count, intelligence, etc. I also don’t define a slut by promiscuity alone in this context, but rather as a woman who a man only views as good for sex. You can have an wife as a wife or you can have a slut as a wife, and vice versa.

In short, while men and women have different biological imperatives, both are guilty of utilizing dual mating strategy. Women who consistently feel they receive undesirable treatment from men (getting fucked and ghosted etc.), are often just on the wrong side of the male dual mating strategy equation.