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rantsincognito · 2023-04-17T02:59:48+00:00

Saw a FB post about Hakimi making the rounds. Wish I could post it, but it would probably get removed. Anyway, here's some of the text:

Hiba Abouk, wife of Achraf Hakimi is a professional Spanish actress. She is not broke and definitely not a gold digger as many of you claim. She has her own money hence she never cared about Achraf sending all his money to his mother while she uses hers to run the home. In fact, in 2020, sportsmob called Hiba one of the RICHEST Spanish actresses.

Hiba is one of the most intelligent actresses in Spain. She speaks Spanish, Arabic, French, English and Italian fluently. How many international languages do you speak?

Hiba Abouk is older than her husband Achraf by 12 years... Yes, 12 good years. She contributed in the background to his rise. Achraf was only 19 when they met. Hiba is 36 years old now while Achraf is 24 years old. Achraf is a 24 year old mummy's boy - no real man should ever take lessons from such a young mummy's boy.

If Hiba is so successful, why is she still looking for money? Also, where are all the age gap banshees? She got together when he was still 19 and she was 31. And apparently she was in a position of power with so much money. "Contributed to his rise" - LMFAO, yes, I'm sure her money based on her looks did so much for his skills as an athlete.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-04-16T02:48:08+00:00

Lmfao so I was honest with this girl on bumble about how I took a break from dating for five years and she's like "oh so I'm guessing you were just sleeping around the whole time then"

How do I handle this 😂

Who are you you must be on PPD

Edit: let's be toxic together

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-16T17:36:51+00:00

It's really weird to be so concerned about what your romantic interest or partner did in previous relationships.

It's never about cheating.

It's always about some made up scenarios around sex.

Why?

Preme2 · 2023-04-16T02:01:31+00:00

Make sure you go to mass tomorrow.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-04-16T04:38:05+00:00

Why are /r/tinder Screencaps so cringe? Even the highly upvoted posts.

I’m not some master smooth talker but I’m glad I can recognize how those corny puns and dad jokes and self disses turn women off.

scwizard · 2023-04-16T05:26:16+00:00

Running around, making dinner. No one moves a muscle. Tell everyone dinner will be done in 10 minutes. Fifteen minutes later, and I’m screaming to get them to do the absolute basics - get water, get forks. Like, WHY do I have to ask? It’s the same thing every night.

I’m fucking tired of screaming, and I’m tired of my kids (15 and 13) and husband being upset because I lost it again.

They’re all assholes and I want to leave. I hate it here.

You didn't set the table and now mommy's lost it again.

Make sure your remember next time.

UnderstandingIncels · 2023-04-16T10:37:08+00:00

Research project: Assessing the mental health needs of incels and their views towards the negative behaviour that is attributed to them.

Hello,

I am a Masters student studying at the University of Kent in England. As part of my course, I need to complete a research project. I am interested in looking at the mental health needs in incel populations as well as their views on the behaviour that is usually attributed to them in the media. I have designed an online questionnaire which asks questions about traits of autism, body image, depression, and anxiety, and also asks people their opinions on a range of short stories. All data collected will be kept anonymous.

If you identify as an incel and is aged 18 or over, please consider taking the questionnaire. It will take no longer than 30 minutes.

If you would like more information or to participate in the study, please click on the link below:

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Thank you for your time.

Andre27 · 2023-04-16T12:07:46+00:00

Couldn’t imagine writing a whole post talking about how I wish I cockblocked some random guy but my friends had to tell me not to

Like it has to be a bait post lol there’s just no way

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-16T14:01:34+00:00

When single men talk about how unsatisfying their sex lives are, they're talking about something way more serious than trivial "not getting laid." It's so, so common to see people use minimizing language like that. Frankly, it's offensive: just imagine someone doing the same thing for a problem you care about.

So, why do so many people characterize the problem as "poor, whiny men complaining about getting laid"? I have a few guesses:

Their real goal is to control and shut down men. They don't believe what they're saying.
They truly don't understand how harmful it is. Like, their only frame of reference is a one month dry spell, so they assume that's what those men are going through too.

throwawayofc1112 · 2023-04-16T14:30:31+00:00

Well I’m no longer a virgin so I’m feeling a ok today. But honestly I don’t feel all that different. I’m happy with myself but I still got all the same problems and bullshit to deal with

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-16T16:10:51+00:00

I think some people here have lost the plot.

The point isn’t to become some “evolutionary psychologist” or sexual anthropologist discovering the “real sexual nature of mankind”

The point isn’t to start some political movement or some sort of earth changing “uprising” (good luck even convincing one person to change their vote)

The point isn’t to demand pity or recognition for your “struggles”

The point isn’t even to “win an argument” or “own the feminists” (or just trigger people online)

The whole point is sex and relationships, remember?!

Go out and see what you can and can’t pull and determine where you are at. If you aren’t satisfied with the results, either raise your game or lower you bar to let more in. Or make peace with where you are at. And that means if you are currently pulling in nothing: then you got a lot of work to do. Get to it.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-16T18:21:09+00:00

I made Mr. LoveShack breakfast in bed. Waffles with real maple syrup and whipped cream, with lyonnaise potatoes and coffee. It’s a beautiful day and we are going hiking for the first time in months! Yay!

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-04-16T03:22:58+00:00

Women: I don't care about what he did with his ex, what's important is how I feel in the relationship.

Also Women: He said he didn't want to have kids, but then after he dumped me and left for another women he had kid's within a year 😢

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-16T15:14:10+00:00

By the way non-marriage relationships are broken up equally by men and women.

Normal men don't bother with this "oh if my partner was doing anal with her ex..." shit. what's important is they are feeling good about the relationship, if they don't, they leave. Simple as that.

Plenty of fish in the ocean.

Fucking simps are OK with a dead bedroom, as long as it was dead for her exes too eyeroll

happy_discus · 2023-04-16T17:48:25+00:00

Went out to the club yesterday. It was fun but a few girls were staring in my direction, pointed fingers at me and laughed. Made me feel very creeped out. Stop staring and pointing fingers at me ffs. I was just enjoying myself dancing. I mean I cant dance but I don't care. I was having fun and that's the only thing what matters to me.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-16T17:51:02+00:00

Who goes to the club? Shit is lame. I'm hitting on bitches at the library.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-16T03:19:48+00:00

After doing an earnest attempt at grilling for the first time, after my first year of seriously taking up cooking as a hobby, I completely get it now. Prep work is way lower, the cooking process is more laid back and the taste is so uniquely good. No wonder it's such a Dad thing.

Also you're not sitting in a sweltering hot kitchen for the whole time. Amazing.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-04-16T03:43:14+00:00

I'm from new york so when people are nice to me, I automatically become suspicious

scwizard · 2023-04-16T04:04:28+00:00

What are your thoughts on the "Are We Dating the Same Guy" Facebook groups?

Well.... my dude of over a year was posted by another girl so that sucked and my best friend was accused of rape and when I literally showed proof he was out of state with me the days the girl said he was holding her hostage and raping her the pics I posted were deleted and I was banned.

That's sucks... She did nothing wrong and now she doesn't have access to that group anymore.

Also sucks for her friend since people are gonna thing think he's a sex criminal when he's not.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-04-16T04:11:24+00:00

For all you guys that love r/rolereversal

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-04-16T05:24:58+00:00

I’m hitting empathy fatigue hard. I don’t know if I don’t want to leave or if I just feel trapped. I’m still in love but dating this person, who has severe depression and anxiety has been emotionally exhausting.

The “drop everything and come over I need you Im in a bad place” were an occasional occurrence in previous relationships. With her it’s a few times a week.

And I’m getting worse at finding the right things to say. It’s such a tight rope. Sometimes she wants me to be assertive, tell her it’s all going to be ok and we can fix it. Sometimes I need to be the passive listener. It’s like a minefield and i I’ll tell her flat out I can’t empathize because i honestly don’t get why the nuances of the way her mom texted her about x cut her so deeply.

I feel resentment. I feel like I never put her on eggshells like she does to me. I feel like all the effort of our relationship goes towards keeping her head above water.

All I know that if I do decide to leave I want to do it before the resentment bubbles over and I get nasty and say hurtful things.

Anyway drunk rant over What’s new with the n count discourses

Maffioze · 2023-04-16T14:15:32+00:00

The most annoying thing about humans is that telling them the truth won't convince them.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-04-16T14:20:51+00:00

Question 4 Men: My FWB had a previous partner that would be very rough with his balls even though this is something he wasn't into and made it clear he didn't tolerate. But he still did it with this woman, but he's said he expects me to respect his boundaries regarding the handling of his balls. Should I demand that he let me bite into his ball sack or squeeze them as hard as I can? I don't want to feel like I'm being treated lesser than his other partner.

liefelijk · 2023-04-16T14:45:50+00:00

Q4W: can you give me an example of a real social problem that you care about?

Preme2 · 2023-04-16T15:57:39+00:00

Just 10 years ago, women were banned from combat. Now, they're on the front lines, climbing the ranks.

The equality I like to see. Get that recruitment quota up.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-16T16:10:43+00:00

The term "manifest it" said by women nowadays

Truly proves their delusional once they realize their ideal men is rare in the male population

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-16T17:26:57+00:00

Women here keep pretending like it's not a huge privilege for women to easily be able to get male attention or get hit on.

Straight from the horse's mouth, last night there was a group of girls talking about going to a bar/club and some of the girls were complaining about how it was mostly women there and they wanted to "talk to guys" i.e. get male attention and get hit on by male strangers.

samtheaccountant · 2023-04-16T18:00:23+00:00

The competition for female attention in all areas is unlike anything that has ever existed.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-16T18:48:14+00:00

For me the cringiest part of this sub is women saying "Oh I would never date a....".

We are not blind, most of us are not retarded. We can see who women like to date... you don't need to tell us who you would, or would not date.

dbz__f · 2023-04-16T03:26:32+00:00

My gf and I are both clumsy. We both accidentally drop and spill shit. A few weeks ago when we were packing bags for a trip we were frantic and slammed heads into each other

God help our future kids

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-04-16T03:33:09+00:00

you will never be remembered by people thousands of years in the future for selling bad copper

ngmi

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2023-04-16T04:52:38+00:00

I went to 3 grocery stores to save money

One the plus side I got so much food for 217

If I went to the big chain only would have been at least 400

jamal_dc · 2023-04-16T06:40:19+00:00

Why would a woman go through the trouble of marrying you and having your children just to divorce you? I think people who got divorced probably had it coming. They’re just not telling us the whole story. Women aren’t bad people. If you get divorced, ghosted, flaked on, left swiped, broken up with or “used” for a free dinner then you probably did something to deserve it. Instead of complaining online and giving into misogynistic redpill ideas maybe go see a therapist and see where you can do better as a man.

scwizard · 2023-04-16T08:55:31+00:00

My brother's gf is like 40 and I'm jealous that he's attracted to mature girls like a normal person and I'm staring at UT students.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-16T11:02:50+00:00

Why do all these Instagram submissive Christian tradwives be married to the doofiest looking dudes ever

dbz__f · 2023-04-16T11:43:20+00:00

Sometimes a persons flaws make them more valuable to you and more compatible

biggestuzifanea · 2023-04-16T13:16:30+00:00

Modern women are the worst of the worst . Stop marrying people that will never be held accountable for their actions

relish5k · 2023-04-16T13:16:41+00:00

Are you a good faith debater?

Are you capable of entertaining real doubt about your beliefs? Or are you operating from a position of certainty?
Can you articulate the evidence that you would need to see to change your position? Or is your perspective unfalsifiable?
Can you articulate your opponent’s perspective in a way that they recognize? Or are you strawmanning?
Are you attacking ideas? Or attacking the people who hold them?

Lately I have been thinking that the ardent adherence to 80/20 and AF/BB fails the second test because it veers in the realm of unfalsifiable. Any woman who doesn’t end up with a top 20% man must be a BB apparently, regardless of what she might say otherwise.

JoeRMD77 · 2023-04-16T13:28:03+00:00

I'm starting to get the vibe that women who are looking to date and settle down are actually growing resentful of the voluntarily celibate man. I didn't really think they cared what men did but now I get the sense that If we're out here working and getting that bag and only focusing on that, we should also be focusing on them or they start getting shitty.

I know this loser couple and the girlfriend in the couple has been talking more and more shit about me the more I come up. If women are hypergamus, then she would love for me to tell her boyfriend off and tell her she has to be mine but I don't want her.

I guess I'm starting to feel that feeling other somewhat attractive men do when we're finally starting to make money. Having money and not being ugly must be the real ticket for men because I never had any haters when I was a bum.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-16T13:34:44+00:00

So I’m getting more and more of an idea that a lot of guys here want pity for the bad choices they make. Again, this is the kind of bullshit annoying ass women in my life would pull.

Guys here love to preach about women not taking responsibility, but they seem not to do that themselves.

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-16T14:03:25+00:00

The average man is cuck (story time)

I was with 8 guys sitting around a table ranging from 20-45, and they were talking about shopping with their girlfriends and wives. They all had the same experience; being silent and docile while she picked whatever she wanted and them not saying a peep. I’d like for the records to show that they were drinking while I was abstaining so the mood was rather jolly and the vibe was good. They were all in agreement, whereas one of them said (I’m paraphrasing) “unless you agree you won’t get pussy”.

I will forever look at that guy as a cuck now, but it was very telling that all of them looked at their women that way. I refuse to believe at least one of those guys don’t get cheated on. Although I’m not really redpilled but basic things like a lack of spine is severely looked down on, and it really shows the kind of leverage the average man has in a relationship.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-04-16T14:57:55+00:00

Pearl is so goddamn stupid

Don't know how she even has an audience.

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-16T15:29:57+00:00

The other user made me think about manosphere grifting. I guess if I didn’t lying, shitting on women and predating on ND men, I could grift on men by pushing the narrative of “traditional red-pilled wife” lol. Married early, have one partner, half Asian, from Russia. I could create a very believable narrative I guess.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-16T16:37:44+00:00

So I have another theory going on, guys here have tricked themselves into thinking women never take responsibility for anything, so they can’t handle it when a woman actually preaches personal responsibility because now they have to face the ugly truth about their personal problems.

meteorness123 · 2023-04-17T02:23:07+00:00

Having more dating options as a man is worse than having less. You will know you have more options and you will be always tempted and delay settling down. In my life I have seen that dudes with less options are more content that guys with more.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-04-17T02:20:32+00:00

Why did Bad Bunny leave his girlfriend since like high school (Gaby) who loved him when he had nothing, and go with Kendall Jenner? I thought men appreciate when women love them when they have nothing.

Why did John Cena, whose first girlfriend was his ride or die, Elizabeth Huberdeau, who was homeless with him, take years to marry her and cheated on her after they married?

Men don’t appreciate women who build them up and love them when they have nothing.

nothatyoucare · 2023-04-17T02:04:16+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dankvideos/comments/12ookdq/delusion/

meteorness123 · 2023-04-17T02:03:26+00:00

Women who are obsessed with travelling are very undesirable romantic partners.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-17T01:11:36+00:00

Cocaine Bear is ridiculous. I’ll probably watch it again.

mwb111300 · 2023-04-17T00:51:24+00:00

“Feminism” and “patriarchy” are counterproductive terms.

Before my hot take I want to clarify what these terms mean to me.

Feminism is gender equality. Its aim is an even playing field with equal opportunities for all genders. Feminism is for authentic fairness.

The patriarchy is systemic sexism that has been embedded into modern society so deep that it’s a challenge to get rid of. It’s existed throughout history and inflicts gendered prejudice on everyone, and it comes from everywhere.

Based on these descriptions feminism is clearly the protagonist while the patriarchy is the villain of the story.

Consequently I completely support sentiments like “feminism vs the patriarchy” and “destroy the patriarchy”.

The problem is the facets of language. As well as subconscious connotations. The prefix “fem” means women and the prefix “pat” means men. As unfortunate as it is, people may be ignorant to what these terms actually mean and only hear the prefixes. To those people, the sentiments sound like “women vs men” and “destroy men”

saraimarsena · 2023-04-17T00:33:49+00:00

Q4all

What are your thoughts on the words baby momma and baby daddy? Do you see this used often like with friends or anyone you know? You use the term at all when speaking?

Personally I think it’s the weirdest word people use. I just can’t wrap my head around carrying/having a child or multiple from people you don’t refer to as something like that

chancetolive · 2023-04-17T00:26:31+00:00

gotta love how in a convo this woman calls red pill worst thing to happen to dating..

and in the same breath says she'd date tristan tate (knowing all the background)

500mgofShower · 2023-04-17T00:19:22+00:00

Me turning gay after Lilith says go fuck guys if you want sex so bad

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-16T15:04:25+00:00

If your partner was doing X with her ex and doesn't want to do it with you... - this doesn't matter.

More important question is, are you enjoying your sex life.

If you are not enjoying your sex life, and your partner is having headaches, leave her. Don't do more chores, just leave her. It's best for the both of you.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-04-16T09:52:07+00:00

If PUA methods didn't work at least to some extent then women here wouldn't be getting so bent out of shape over them.

Women seethe at PUA because they want natural chads only, and they're disgusted by the thought of a formerly unsuccessful guy learning how to get women to like him. The horror.

NoTea4448 · 2023-04-16T04:16:47+00:00

As a young man, this subreddit has black pilled me so much when it comes to the idea of finding love and forming relationships.

All I can think about now is how men and women are so shallow. That if you don't look a certain way, or make a certain income, you're fucked, and you're going to die alone.

It sucks that modern dating has now become so vain and materialistic, that now all we can do is calculate ways on how to seduce women for sex or vet men for red flags. Any sort of joyful or alluring fantasies I once had about dating, are now dead.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-16T15:42:40+00:00

I am truly amused many women are out here hooking up with multiple guys yet same time, expecting relationships

Lol, ultimate form of attention seeking to me

Like l thought getting sexual attention was enough

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-16T16:19:11+00:00

I read somewhere the average man has something like 7-11 sexual partners in a life time. That’s all the info you need for this subreddit lol.

Willow-girl · 2023-04-16T23:52:02+00:00

Ladies, pick the man who, when you drive past a turtle crossing the road, encourages you to turn around and go back so he can carry it safely across to the other side.

(Bonus points if it's a snapping turtle!)

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-16T23:27:23+00:00

Just another "Men are giving me the cheat sheet but I'm still gonna guess on the test" moment.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12orbz5/we_dont_talk_enough_about_the_settle_down_woman/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-04-16T23:26:06+00:00

Oh another part of the convo with my friend (35 f) is the topic of paying for dates. I have the opinion that the first date should be something free to low costing (public park, museum, coffee, etc), or the date should be split. Reason being is to avoid the situation of feeling used and bitter, or that he's "owed" sex if there is no connection and it doesn't progress from there. The only thing lost is time. However my friend says that is too low effort because she can do that herself, and the man should pay for the the date. Her reason is because if the man is cheap on the first date, that shows he would be a stingy husband. So I'm like if he has to prove his worth as a provider on the first date, would it be cool for him to expect you to go to his crib and make him a dinner on the first date to show him you have wife materials? She says no and it's not the same lol. I think it's a double standard tbh.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-16T23:24:48+00:00

Just a reminder, sex is only a need if you are defining it as a “I NEED THE NEWEST IPHONE! NOW!” type of need.

prettymuchredpilled · 2023-04-16T23:08:22+00:00

I always cringe my asshole off whenever Redditors idolize celebrities: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/12oi5ad/saw_it_in_another_subreddit_thought_it_would_fit/

liefelijk · 2023-04-16T22:58:02+00:00

Hey! If you haven’t done so yet, here’s a reminder to fit in a workout today. At the very least, it will make you feel healthier and happier.

I was feeling moody and depressed yesterday and didn’t workout. I almost didn’t today, but forced myself to and feel 10 times better now. You can do that, too. 🌟

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Preme2 · 2023-04-16T04:19:08+00:00

Ameca Expressions

Personally, I want mine to come with no teeth.

scwizard · 2023-04-16T05:01:22+00:00

It's so hot when a woman has an "irresponsible" number of children. Like enough that people start being judgemental about it.

The wife of Steven Anderson has 12 lol

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-04-16T05:37:09+00:00

My friend has been bringing up my ex in conversation a lot lately. Like at least once every time we hang out. This is totally uncharacteristic as we hung out for years frequently and this was never ever brought up. The two kept in contact through IM after her and I split, but they haven't seen each other ever since her and I were together.

Same friend has said something along the lines of "people have asked me why you don't try to date anymore." I thought that odd since he would not have obfuscated the peoples' names if it were anyone in our regular circle.

Ex recently unblocked me

Friend has been telling me about how ex is in pretty much the same state as I am with dating, probably disillusioned with their prospects and preferring to be single

Is he hinting at something? What's the deal here? Or have I given myself autism reading PPD? Probably.

Sofia_sticated91 · 2023-04-16T07:21:12+00:00

Why don't people in dead bedrooms just leave?

scwizard · 2023-04-16T14:00:30+00:00

Rep. Bryan Slaton has been married to his current wife since 2017, and filed for divorce in April 2022, according to court filings. They agreed to cease the divorce in November. He is a graduate of Ouachita Baptist University in Arkadelphia, Arkansas, and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Fort Worth. According to his website, he’s also worked as a youth pastor at numerous Southern Baptist churches in Texas.

I was like "the intern was over 18 under 21 they've blowing this out of proportion"

Then I hear he's been a youth pastor...

I bet this intern isn't the only case. Guy is toast.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-16T15:42:04+00:00

Can someone please tell me how to make passive income from chat gpt with little investment.....C'mon there should be no secrets between friends

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-04-16T16:37:13+00:00

Pity Olympics vs Oppression Olympics.

AspiringMogger · 2023-04-16T16:41:06+00:00

I’ve never met a man who is 11% body fat AND at least 24 BMI complain about not getting pussy. Your competition is so incredibly ugly

dishonouronmycow · 2023-04-16T17:43:01+00:00

Going to the club is my absolute nightmare, anyone here the opposite and really enjoy it?

Maffioze · 2023-04-16T18:09:39+00:00

Today I played tennis for two hours and my wrist is in pain again.

Well atleast I won.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-04-16T18:47:52+00:00

Frankly most young women have inflated self-esteem and egos and could use a neg once in a while to bring it down a notch. Lower self-esteem isn't always a bad thing. Women talk shit about overconfident guys all the time.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-04-16T02:12:10+00:00

Anyone here like Peaky Blinders? I'm considering watching it

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-16T02:29:18+00:00

Took the paternal unit to dinner at a moderately priced Italian chain restaurant. Every other table was teenagers in sequin gowns and tuxedos so I’m guessing it must be prom night somewhere around here.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-04-16T08:55:06+00:00

People always ask whether or not blue collar or white collar men are more attractive and i think the solution is:

White collar man who does MMA and weightlifts. He has the advantage of dressing well and looking good while still being as strong if not stronger than the blue collar guy.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-16T18:03:46+00:00

My ex still has the necklace l bought her

I want it back since she has a new man now and can probably get her another

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-04-16T18:49:26+00:00

Out of curiosity if you don't view narcissists, sociopaths or psychopaths as fellow human beings let alone people worth being around or helping, does that cause offense to other people or is that just something you shrug about? Narcissists might be offended because they need people to like them and fawn over them, sociopaths don't have the capacity to register that people don't like them and even if they did, they wouldn't care, and I could say the same about a psychopath except they already wouldn't care that no one likes them.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-04-16T22:39:52+00:00

We all know that women have easy, successful dating lives by default of being born female. Imagine being a woman who chooses not to have an easy successful dating life and sabotages herself.

"I'm going to choose to be fat and mean and to not spend the few minutes to do the bare minimum on my make up and hair. All I need to do is exist but I'll choose not to exist on dating apps or anywhere outside of my home where I'll be deluged by male attention, men trying to entertain, flirt and socialize with me and men asking me out on dates"

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-16T22:36:33+00:00

It's interesting that people think someone who has had multiple sexual partners doesn't value sex.

Such one-dimensional thinking.

AHotRetardsFatTits · 2023-04-16T22:35:30+00:00

Q4Women and Men with some sexual experience who aren't insane incels or dutifully entrenched in RP rhetroci -

Is 30 a high n count for a woman?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-04-16T22:13:10+00:00

PPD Women and Men -

Look in a mirror and repeat after me:

"You are completely powerful."
"You are unstoppably confident."
"You are growing more and more confident each day."
"Nothing can stop you."
"You go for what you want and you get it"

Go forth and conquer 🙂

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-04-16T22:08:57+00:00

Why are the women on this sub so mean? I got a lot of mean and nasty DM’s after my first post here.

saraimarsena · 2023-04-16T22:08:41+00:00

i think sometimes people on here get preferences and standards confused.

many women have a height preference, but not as strict of a height standard. (ex I might prefer a 6 ft + tall man but “at least taller than 5’8” is more my standard). my partner is 5’10 and that’s still perfectly great.

same with n count for men.

most people will compromise on at least one preference for the right person.

compromising on a few standards though is where you start to get into dating people you aren’t attracted to.

danielwastaken · 2023-04-16T21:54:47+00:00

The reason sexually inexperienced guys go for virgins is because they believe non-virgin women will reject them almost immediately

chancetolive · 2023-04-16T21:48:05+00:00

The Rational Male 1 and 2 are the most important books if you're a man in a western developed country today.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-04-16T21:41:41+00:00

I have a friend (35 f) who is recently single and dating. She's using dating apps and has been on a few dates already, but takes issue with certain men who match her not taking the initiative to ask her out. I ask her why she doesn't take initiative and this is her response.

I'm not comfortable doing that plus I feel like it doesn't work. It creates a dynamic where you always have to be taking the initiative and pursuing a man aka masculine role. I also think men pursue the things they want, so if they aren't pursuing me, I'm better off with someone who does

Thoughts?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-16T21:31:43+00:00

Wouldn't the only real way to stop obsessing over sex is to have a healthy sex life? Wouldn't any other solution just be coping?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-04-16T21:26:25+00:00

I use to think guys trying to date out their league wasnt a problem, but I wasnt thinking hard enough. Now I realize that can cause way more problems than I imagined.

The biggest example is guys thinking all women are Prima Donnas. Well, when you waste your time chasing 8s and up, of course you’ll see nothing but Prima Donnas. These women know they’re hot, and they know they can manipulate guys to do their bidding. Why wouldn't they be arrogant?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-16T21:16:50+00:00

Phobia means fear, not hate.

So homophobic = afraid of gays.

But homophobic is being used to signify hatred of gay people.

What the actual fuck?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-16T21:14:03+00:00

If you're "disgusted" by 'modern women'...How is dating going for?

If you're turned off by someone with a sexual history......How is dating going for you?

Are y'all finding success out in these streets?

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-16T20:58:11+00:00

Why do fat women use shaming language like "fatphobic" on people with normal healthy weight, but claim to be not fat?

Tramelo · 2023-04-16T20:54:11+00:00

It seems that the thing that motivates me the most to improve is not wanting to be inferior to others

Maffioze · 2023-04-16T20:45:48+00:00

I'm still trying to figure out what Putin's plan is in Ukraine. I don't get it, has he seen how big Ukraine is? Does he plant to take and control all of that? He can't even take the regions he annexed.

https://youtu.be/bRxjOJSv8Bg Interesting video about it.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-04-16T20:37:09+00:00

why do red pillers use shaming tactics on non traditional women but claim not to be tradcons?

SkookumTree · 2023-04-16T20:26:56+00:00

I'm quite unattractive. Can you give me some good reasons to be with someone that's 400 pounds or addicted to something like alcohol, rather than being celibate for life? Is there some kind of wisdom that you can only get from sex and relationships? Like...I'm looking to be talked into hooking up with or having a relationship with someone two or three times my weight. Dealing with things like home health aides and hospital visits, even...200 extra pounds of fat is no joke.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-04-16T20:24:11+00:00

This is why I'm never actually going to give a fuck about the muh sexlessness problem males here complain about.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-16T20:23:31+00:00

When I signed up for the college most students (male and female) were chasing after high status, model looking partners.

Big mistake.

I chased after fun Beckie's giving off "I'm so horny" vibe. Boinking a couple of times per day, going out and getting shitfaced with her beats having high social status.

Stacy was jelly of her best friend Becky and tried to sleep with me :P

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-16T20:13:10+00:00

On a real note, it’s so nice to have a partner who has the same sex drive as you. I’ve always had a higher libido while my ex boyfriends have had low libido and it sucked ass. Now my current bf has a libido that’s a tad bit higher than mine and on average we have sex three times a day which is really nice. I feel like I struck gold.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-16T20:07:35+00:00

Coming home to a nagging wife is an absolute no go and you should just stay at work instead or crash by your friend's house for the night

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-16T20:03:57+00:00

How does it feel as a woman to finally fully develop your pre-frontal cortex and then start declining in value?

I imagine it's sort of like an AI becoming self-aware

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-04-16T20:02:42+00:00

It's weird to have such strong opinions about sex when you've never had sex.

It's weird to assume that everyone is sex obsessed as you.

It's weird to desire someone with little to no sexual experience because you're afraid she's gonna compare you to someone else.

It's weird to think that someone is going to disclose their level of enthusiasm or frequency or acts with previous sex partners.

meteorness123 · 2023-04-16T19:48:23+00:00

based off the takes here, the threads, I think most people in the manosphere but especially in the blckpill sphere are autistic and they tend to misdiagnose problems and causes

RP-MJ · 2023-04-16T19:37:38+00:00

Being a virgin guy was interesting for me

Since everytime l would watch anal porn, l would wonder if the other hole to stick your penis in actually existed

I would also ask myself how this guys go on consistently without busting any semen since my biggest fear was ejaculating too quick

Cor_ay · 2023-04-16T19:14:57+00:00

I don't think most men understand how low the bar is set for actually becoming successful. Most men have just never "played the game", and are actively assuming successful people have some odd form of knowledge that they don't, this is not the case...

I can't even begin to tell you the amount of people I have met who are fully capable of structuring a much better life for themselves, but they are either way too risk averse, or just don't understand how bad most people are at keeping their word/showing up on time.

I've listened to so many different takes on self-improvement, and how "not everyone can be rich". I agree in a way, but at the end of the day, society has declined to a whole new low. Showing up on time is genuinely a major plus....

People will pay big money for basic services that are simply done on time and that are completed with even just a small amount of resourcefulness. If you can hold a smidge of self-accountability and build something that exits you from your 9-5, your life will immediately become much more desirable.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-04-16T19:07:21+00:00

I’m going to a Magic Mike show in August for my best friend’s 21st birthday. Never saw the movies when they came out since I was a minor. Decided to look up a past live show on YouTube and saw that like 85% of the show is the guys dancing… I’m paying almost $200 for fucking dancing.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-04-16T19:00:47+00:00

I'm thinking my first tattoo might be a brain in a jar. What was your first tattoo?

liefelijk · 2023-04-16T13:11:16+00:00

Things like this are ridiculously foolish and selfish, even if they come from a place of grief.

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/04/16/world/europe/ukraine-soldiers-freeze-sperm.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare

Why would you turn yourself into a single parent and prevent your child from having a living father? 🤦‍♀️ Find someone new and start a family with them.

RP-MJ · 2023-04-16T08:31:29+00:00

"What if she had a boring personality"

I don't care, as long she agrees with me

"Can't hold a conversation"

Most women can't in my experience, especially on first dates, so l've gotten used making them talk after l say something funny and trigger them a little

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