Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.

Creation_Soul · 2023-07-19T18:05:21+00:00

sex is like money: "it's not important when you have it, but when you don't have it it becomes the most important thing"

Secure1Ad1991 · 2023-07-19T17:05:38+00:00

I guess it's kinda important. I am a 38 year old virgin male, so... I don't really know, do I?

KirthWGersen · 2023-07-19T16:30:14+00:00

It's only important when you are not getting any.

When you are, it is just a natural part of everyday life.

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2023-07-19T22:48:41+00:00

I’d say sex is like food. When you are starving it’s all you can think about. But when you are well fed, it doesn’t really cross your mind.

NavrusKhabar · 2023-07-19T16:43:41+00:00

It's just young women venting their frustration. They fucked some spoiled frat boy and get mad that he didn't fall in love and change his life like the rom-coms promised, so it's an easy cope to just insist that sex itself doesn't matter and men are shitty and bad for wanting it. It's an inevitable phase most women go through and it's completely understandable, but some just don't seem to grow out of it.

It's the equivalent opposite of "MGTOW"s who don't go their own way and are actually obsessed with what women think. If they actually believed that sex isn't important and nobody should stress over it, they wouldn't be raging at strangers on the internet about it.

Clementinequeen95 · 2023-07-19T17:43:04+00:00

I think it comes across that women are annoyed by it because a lot of men on this sub act as though the only part of a relationship is sex. Or that women are only good for sex. There’s much more to a successful relationship than just a good sex life.

Anti_Thing · 2023-07-20T02:20:10+00:00

Generally speaking, men and women care about sex for different reasons. The vast majority of women (70% to 90%) cannot climax from penetration alone, and it is quite routine for most men to be done with sex after they have their own orgasm.

Now that the porn industry is also booming, women are quite literally shown from a young age what they should act and be like during sex. For many women, sex isn't the height of pleasure it is supposed to be. It's the height of expectations. My ex became furious with me when he finally tried giving me head for 10 minutes and me ending up not being able to climax. It's because of that kind of behavior that there are women who feel forced to fake their pleasure. However, I've known very little men who actually seemed to actively want to learn about what pleases their partner sexually.

I've also noticed that some men enjoy seeing their partner in pain. When I told a partner that I had literally been dabbing off blood from my vagina on the toilet after we had sex, he didn't ask me if I was okay. No, no: he smiled proudly and said, "niceeeee"
He had literally bruised my cervix. It was not nice.

I was told I was acting entitled for wanting an orgasm because other women don't care about their pleasure.

Now, I do want to say: I have an extremely high libido. However, I am starting to realize that my desire for sex isn't really about pleasure. Multiple men have tried to convince me that the clitoris is redundant and that stimulating a woman is just foreplay. A vibrator feels a lot better than someone who doesn't believe in your pleasure, lol.

Sex is a lot about validation. For the very insecure ones, it's that feeling of having sexual value. That idea of someone finding you attractive enough to sleep with.

Its really weird when I see women on askredditafterdark telling me sex doesn't matter and I check their profile and they have an onlyfans and tons of nude pics and R4R ads on their account. Or i read their comments and they admit their body count and its like 30 guys.

I think this actually aligns pretty well with it. For these women, sex isn't sex. It's a performance. When it comes to sexual pleasure, the female anatomy is a pretty complicated concept. It's as though one woman is a Rubik's cube while the other is an unassembled Ikea closet. For a woman, the behavior you mentioned likely doesn't stem from a desire to fill sexual needs. If anything, the sexual needs are sacrificed in a futile attempt to fill the emotional needs. The idea of being desirable.

But anyways, sex definitely is important. However, it is becoming more and more the norm for women to dismiss their own sexual needs so as to not inconvenience their partners. The more one-sided sex is, the more it starts to feel like a duty.

MedimusLeft · 2023-07-19T19:16:53+00:00

(Just a married guy here giving my interpretations)

I think that it’s important to remember that Women are not a monolith, and that every one of them has different reasons to keep to themselves or date/have sex with whoever they please.

To your point about being able to want to fuck and wanting to like them as a person, I personally think it’s a turnoff for a woman if they are being seen as an outlet for sexual urges first and as a person second.

Substantial_Video560 · 2023-07-20T07:18:05+00:00

Oh, I absolutely love sex but can easily live without it. Saying that as I have a low libido/testerone I rarely think about sex much. Luckily I have an on/off switch in regards to my sex drive. I don't let it control my life.

totallyworkinghere · 2023-07-19T17:04:16+00:00

Yes sex is important but it isn't everything. There's so much more to relationships than that and if you go from 0 to sex consistently, it is going to be odd to others

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-19T16:45:08+00:00

I think you are a little off base here. LGBTQ community isn't just about who you desire to have sex with. It's also very much about being allowed to be attracted to, date, and love the people you are attracted to, want to date, and who you love. Hetero people have always been allowed to do that. It's a given. LGBTQ have had to fight for these things and are still fighting for them. Even in places where gay marriage is legal, there is a constant threat from anti-gay politicians and activists. So they keep fighting.

Sure, sex is important, but it is not the only thing that is important. The consent and autonomy of the other person is equally important, for example. You also have to consider your audience. A lot of women don't want to be used as a sex object, they want a relationship. So if you're going into subs about dating and complaining about not getting sex, many women are not going to be sympathetic to that. They might be more likely to relate if you say you are lonely, or want a girlfriend, or would like to date. But they are going to push back on a post that says "I deserve sex."

legend0102 · 2023-07-20T03:12:55+00:00

Being a man is pain

BlueMountainDace · 2023-07-20T08:38:41+00:00

People who have sex don’t find it as important as people who don’t have it.

If you either have a lot of game or you’re in a healthy relationship, then you’re getting the sex you want.

And once you’re getting it, there are other things that become more important.

wtknight · 2023-07-19T18:05:14+00:00

Anyway. This is... silly. Every man who is a sexual being, who is absolutely refused sex for his entire life, is gonna be a bit sexually frustrated

This isn’t close to most men, though. Most men have had sex in the past. It’s not as important to them once they know that they can attract a woman again. The men complaining are mostly virgins, and they are a minority.

firetaco964444 · 2023-07-19T22:41:19+00:00

I guess I'm lying when I say that I don't care then?

Hooray for gaslighting, I guess? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

2023-07-19T21:33:10+00:00

sex isn’t our whole world we want more outta life just like how you guys want

abaxeron · 2023-07-19T17:42:27+00:00

Animals, a lot of the time, dont even enjoy sex, they dont get real pleasure from it like humans do. Yet they will literally fight and die over who gets to do the fucking or not.

Naturalistic fallacy. As one wild example why it doesn't apply, most animals don't have concealed ovulation.

Every man who is a sexual being, who is absolutely refused sex for his entire life, is gonna be a bit sexually frustrated, I know its nice to think he should suffer in silence.

These things should be treated as two different issues: sexual thirst and sexual inexperience.

Inexperience most definitely can skew a guy's mental attic in the wrong way; the question "what the hell is wrong with me if this thing, that supposedly everyone is having all the time, I didn't get to experience even once" (or, in some fringe cases, "experience normally").

Once the guy has met at least one girl who granted him intimacy, the thirst from not experiencing it again for some time still can cause serious shifts in his mood and behavior, but as an issue, especially today, is way more manageable, and becomes progressively more manageable with age.

A girl at work walked up to me and another girl and she literally told us shes getting some D tonight.

Your workplace is shit and your coworker is undisciplined.

MyLastBestChance · 2023-07-19T17:31:49+00:00

The thing some of you seem to forget is that the sex you’re obsessing over actually involves sharing the experience with a whole other person, not just a random non-sentient hole.

That whole other person has thoughts and feelings and fears just like you so when you are ranting about not “getting laid”, is it really surprising that women (you know, those other actual people whose participation is required) aren’t terribly keen?

There’s so much about how sex is important as if the person isn’t at all important, (which I guess is how you think about it), that women are justifiably offended and uninterested.

notmyrealnamepapi · 2023-07-19T19:29:01+00:00

if you say sex isnt a big deal... id say you're a liar.

I'm a 24f virgin, I'm not lying if I say sex isn't a big deal to me lol

DopeAFjknotreally · 2023-07-19T20:21:04+00:00

Sex is like oxygen. It’s only a big deal if you’re not getting any.

BusinessGarage2606 · 2023-07-19T17:14:14+00:00

Well, for me sex is the least important thing in my life. Penetration is not pleasurable so only oral sex gives me something. If sex meant only penetration, I wouldn't be having it.

I don't think about sex when I don't have it.

I can go without sex for months. When I left for an intership for three months and left my fiance at home, I didn't think about sex at all. I didn't masturbate or anything.

Psyteratops · 2023-07-19T16:35:17+00:00

Ace people exist.

Cat_Lover259 · 2023-07-20T01:02:39+00:00

I was a horny virgin and I wanted sex and that’s how I met my current bf lol

I’m a nymphomaniac, so I definitely understand wanting and craving sex in a relationship. There are just some women who don’t crave sex and will put men down for wanting it. So there’s people out there who are pro sex and anti sex. Everyone is gonna have an opinion on it.

JadedButWicked · 2023-07-20T01:20:32+00:00

Sex is only not important when you are talking about twice as many men not getting any because it validates how hard their lives are.

If we were talking about abortion and I said "women should just not have sex problem 99% solved" they would go on a tirade as if sex is the most important thing in the world.

Nihi1986 · 2023-07-20T02:38:51+00:00

Something I really hatr about sex is how not so important It is when I have it almost every day and how ridiculously important it becomes when I'm on the longest dry spell. That shit even messes with your confidence, mood and self steem. Whoever says it isn't important is a very particular case or a liar.

Think_Brilliant3517 · 2023-07-20T06:13:43+00:00

Its really weird when I see women on askredditafterdark telling me sex doesn't matter and I check their profile and they have an onlyfans and tons of nude pics and R4R ads on their account. Or i read their comments and they admit their body count and its like 30 guys.

Being on Onlyfans does not mean one wants sex a lot. It just means one is monetizing one's own body. Also body count doesn't necessarily mean the person loves sex, many women sleep around to get validation or free stuff.

Some men on here tell it like it is, that they want sex and most men do. But I noticed particularly from women on here, and from some men, that they outright say its weird to dwell on sex, to think about sex, to want some sex.

Men and women have many differences, and sexuality is one of them. It's the same in every culture at any time of history. For some people, especially women, sex just isn't as big of a deal as it is for others. You said you're someone who likes sex a lot. If you'd tell people how much you want it and everything many of them, particularly women, would be surprised because for them it may not be as much of a deal as it is for you.

So its real funny when i see some weird stuff like "women dont even judge on looks, women are BEYOND looks, women focus on DEEP stuff, LIKE PERSONALITY!!!! if you dont get offered endless amounts of sex, you must have a bad personality!"

This is true for the majority of women. Women are generally way more about intimacy than pure physical appearance.

Im going to sum this up, if sex DID NOT matter, and just "wasnt a big deal" the LGBTQ community wouldnt exist cause it "just wouldnt matter" people are basing their entire personality on who they desire to have sex with.

The LGBTQ community is not about who is having sex with whom, it's about people who are not cis existing.

Also, most men want sex, most men when they are trying to be alone with a woman, want to have sex with her.

Well, yes

The only men who arent like that are either offered sex regularly and its a byproduct of existence so they dont dwell on it, or theyre asexual.

Yeah to be fair, they're few.

DzejSiDi · 2023-07-20T10:42:51+00:00

I will be rude: you need to be a f****ing horny teenager living in parent's house if you even consider "sex" being anywhere close to the things like "health" or "money".

I'm not saying that 0 sex couldn't be a significant problem in your life, but it dwindles in comparition to some SERIOUS issues you can face in life. Heck, even most incels just want to feel being loved and desired (including sexual desire) more than just to make their PP wet.

To everyone saying stupid shit like "sex is like food/oxygen", try going 1h without oxygen or 1 month without food. People go for 10+ years of dry spells and maybe they're not fine, but still ok-ish.

WanabeInflatable · 2023-07-20T16:55:52+00:00

Disagree. I am an asexual man, I've been running without sex for quite a while, as I'm living separately from my wife now. Even before moving I wasn't interested much in sex but could make it for her. I like some erotic stuff but not really interested in sticking dick into people.

So, sex is overrated. For some people it is important, for others it is just boring and weird.

MarauderSlayer44 · 2023-07-20T17:44:09+00:00

I don’t disagree overall, I just don’t agree with the “men aren’t allowed to want sex” bit and it’s small.
Men who are attractive are more than allowed to want and desire sex, and casually make this known in social settings. It’s awkward men who get looked down noses at for talking about sex or making it passively known they are a sexual being with a drive and desires. People simply assume awkward and quiet men are unable to fulfill their sexual desires, so stack that with a stereotype of “lonely sexless men are dangerous” and it’s easy to see where that ends up at.

lookingforhopee · 2023-07-21T00:27:56+00:00

I'm a woman who used to be apart of an acne forum called acne.org. there were hundreds of posts from men with severe acne and bad acne scars (like horrible scars) who talked about their only option for sex being going to a sex worker. It was a shock to read this stuff. I often wondered why some of them didn't take accutane if their skin was holding them back that much. Many had never even been on a date.

BirdLawOnly · 2023-07-21T00:57:38+00:00

Being hyper focused on sex is problematic. You're a human. You've evolved past that base instinct. Have some discipline and lay off the porn.

Flightlessbirbz · 2023-07-19T20:48:06+00:00

Sex is important to most people, but it’s the social significance we attach to sex that makes it as big of a deal as it is. Most of us are not trying to reproduce for the majority of our adult lives, and masturbation produces the same physical release. It is the social stigma associated with not getting sex that men are so obsessed with.

Of course sex can be much more than reproduction and social validation, but when men make it clear they’re not interested in more than just the physical part, it’s easy to see why women respond the way they do.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-19T22:26:36+00:00

Lol anyone who says sex is not important is a moron

Sex is almost as powerful as money

TheMedsPeds · 2023-07-19T22:51:54+00:00

Just because you and most other people think it’s important doesn’t mean every single person does. I could go several months without it and not notice. After my husband died sex didn’t enter my mind for months. It was the last thing I cared about. Meat stick goes in hole, it goes out, maybe a small release of endorphins. Maybe. Honestly I’d rather a man rub my back. I really don’t see what all the fuss is about. I do it because I want to keep my partner happy. I couldn’t care less about a damn orgasm for myself lol. I cared about when I was a hormonal teen girl. But by the time I was like 22? I was over it.

So yeah, people with low libidos absolutely exist and just because you don’t have one doesn’t mean “everyone is lying.” Lol.

Feel free to search my profile for sex stuff. I did try to do a feet OF for like a week but it failed and I never wanted to do anything else sex work related. So there is that.

James_Cruse · 2023-07-20T00:30:30+00:00

Regular Sex = The main reason most guys want or have a Girlfriend

Women also pretend they don’t VALUEor enjoy sex (much) because if they act like they love it and it’s easy to gave sex with them - their sex is difficult to use as a bargaining chip for an exclusive or long term relationship or commitment from a man.

It’s like if you enter a car dealership and show how much you truly love one particular car (rare car) - it’s really difficult to get the best price, terms and extras with it.

Why? Because the person selling the car sees how much you really want it and he understands his negotiation position is very strong and he doesn’t need to make many or ANY concessions to incentives for you to purchase the car.

Women love sex - they just use it to negotiate things that are more important to their survival from men - like commitment, resources, responsibilities taken, problem-solving, potection, father to their children, etc etc.

Women need men for survival, or so their primitive brain tells them on a biological level.

Plus, women actually don’t value sex as much until it becomes scarce to them. Young women have offers for sex thrown at them constantly. Most people only value things that are scarce to them. If you value sex too much = It appears to be scarce for you.

Imagine if you have easy sex thrown at you constantly - you would get bored of it and you wouldn’t value it that much, if at all, even though you still enjoy sex.

If you also THOUGHT that sex negated you getting much more important survival parts of your life in place for the future - you would value it even less + ration it to those more worthy of it.

That’s how women view sex, unconsciously.

Men don’t need women for survival - more for replication (as biologists say) - meaning sex, wife, children, mother of their children. Men are asking and needing alot less from women than women need from men.

HighestTierMaslow · 2023-07-20T00:39:32+00:00

I agree with your statement however I look at alot of posts here and I don't see comments like that. I don't think anyone here, except maybe a few random asexuals, really thinks sex is not needed. I do sometimes see comments of people calling out others who focus on it too much or use unethical practices to get it.

Amazing-Key-1575 · 2023-07-20T04:36:11+00:00

Interesting timing for me reading this post. I just got back from Mexico with a friend.

We went there for one reason that can equate to “sex tourism” for my buddy whom I’ve known since childhood.

We are about as opposite as they come. Even in the club, initially it was clear if I was there with him, he wasn’t gonna enjoy himself. The girls didn’t even care I didn’t have money. I can’t explain it, but…I can get in these zones. Typically through the excessive combination of a plethora of substances, most of which should not only be done on an individual basis, but ever consumed together (if only for the comedown nightmare), by anyone really, outside of a suicidal shaman.

in these modes, magic happens. For me, at least. With women in particular. In a booth with two men, one who has money & one who does not, the women preferred me - who made it clear they had no reason to waste their time. Why? Because I didn’t give a shit or want anything. I actually was more interested in the “turquoise goddess” woman I’d conjured with a tarot card and met outside when I went to have a smoke. We’re still texting. :)

And that’s kinda how it works in the real world.

Anyways, I left Mexico the next day because I realized on the drugs I was on, one of which wasn’t even gonna reach it’s peak for another day or two, for me, it was not worth it.

But now that it’s been a few weeks, 1.5 of which I have zero recollection of, and I’ve awakened again, I find with my depression having faded and the psychedelic adventure and the women I met along the way and the numbers and IG’s I got, having revived what libido died over the years…I get it.

I can see and understand why my friend, who I’m pretty sure had sex for the 2nd (& probably 3rd & 4th & 5th & 6th $200/nut) time in his mid+ 30’s - if only because he used the words “I did doggy style for the first time,” which I don’t think it’s ever crossed my mind like you mean you don’t fuck multiple positions in the same bang? Like I never really thought about how other men actually have sex.

But even younger I remember with my first girlfriend I pounded my way through every possible position we could surmise.

But the sex thing. It’s animal. It’s natural. And in places like Mexico, in a gentlemen’s club, or brothel. Affordable, for the most part. Men’s sexuality honored in a weird way.

Like my buddy got to fuck and was treated well.

And there’s no shame in that. And the girls, well, milking my cow friends dollars like a farmer on a Tuesday morning (I dunno just sounds wrongly right) were happy.

Without me there, he succeeded. He got to be a king.

And all this got me thinking about my own sexual experiences and as of this last week increasingly frustrated positioning circumstantially in life.

How many women I could’ve just married and been happy with if I weren’t so arrogant. And how many women I would’ve been so much happier without had I been more confident.

There’s such a strange delicate balance to all of this, and many major make or break factors: chance & money, time & place, age & aesthetic, on & on.

End of the day tho, I want a beautiful woman by my side - in my bed - to fuck, to hold, and also to be held by. And over the last 10 years, I’ve noticed a decline in the quality of women I’ve met, in varieties of situations. Something in America is fucked. And I think it’s both genders faults.

Some musings while I ponder how I’m both sad a lot of these women end up in this life from an early age to escape a hell-hole of a home life & simultaneously I’m glad there’s both customers like my friend that nervously treat them kindly and pay them well, and that there’s a place men can go to fuck adult women who choose to do that job, for whatever reason that reason is.

In summation: I think this planet is hell & Sartre & Nietzsche was as right as Schopenhauer about some things which isn’t to deny that this surely is a beautiful hell to be suffering in full of beautiful humans - but It’s a shame, really that our bodies are in opposition to our social structures, and it appears there are more devolving spirits than transcending one’s, and worse, there’s more devouring abysses & demonic presences than truly kind, loving one’s.

I know it wasn’t always this way (like, read the Epic of Gilgamesh - the Hittites had it Rhittight. Or, was it a summer of love in Sumer? Or just the golden days of Ur? Pretty Pharout dude, I dunno. I’m high as a kitty kite drawn by Louis Wain. Something unusual is in the air. Changes are a’coming. Let’s hope they aren’t wicked, this way, at least.

Epiphanic_Eros · 2023-07-19T17:58:35+00:00

"Sex positive" does not mean you have to listen to guys complaining about why they deserve to get laid, but don't. If you're not getting laid at all, it's not your looks. Personality may not be easy to change, but much can be changed with work. Get rid of the resentment and the victimization. Go pick up **Urban Tantra** and practice the exercises in there until you get good at them. Then work on your social skills and reading body/facial cues.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-19T16:44:22+00:00

Why don't you just go to a legal place and pay for sex? Put it in the budget.

You could work on your physical health and emotional maturity and mental health too which might make you more likely to find a partner.

Don't be as picky with who you want to sleep with or offer something other than your body to the women so it is worth it for her.

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-07-19T16:11:53+00:00

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Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2023-07-20T01:01:43+00:00

Asexuals exist...

Wonderful-Oil-955 · 2023-07-19T20:11:58+00:00

sex isnt a right = abortion isnt a right

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ceereality · 2023-07-19T22:46:24+00:00

I like to put it this way: when the sex is good, it is not as important. When the sex is bad, it is deal breakingly important.

VoltairesBarista · 2023-07-20T00:52:08+00:00

Sex is extremely Important to people.. some people yes some people no.

pending_ending · 2023-07-20T03:46:47+00:00

are pleasurable and important synonymous?

The only men who arent like that are either offered sex regularly and its a byproduct of existence so they dont dwell on it, or theyre asexual.

yes, most males are superficial, dangerous primates when left uncontrolled. they're perpetually hypnotized by lust. this is how females keep males motivated into building a functioning, and comfortable society....and then some.

Its really weird when I see women on askredditafterdark telling me sex doesn't matter and I check their profile and they have an onlyfans and tons of nude pics and R4R ads on their account. Or i read their comments and they admit their body count and its like 30 guys.

ahahahahahhahahahaha

a female can have sex with 10,000 guys. it still doesn't hold really the same effect for them, or the same meaning. females can also even enjoy sex! still, it isn't experienced in quite the same way as males experience it. and the ones that do show a very male-like luster for sex, are the ones that are likely "lying" or just adopting a differential strategy to find a mate. maybe they're trying to "fit in" with males since females have a tendency to do things like that, maybe they are seeking excitement, maybe they just know that males like wildness in females so they embody it..etc. but overall i think that having lots of sexual experiences is not fulfilling for females. ik males also like the idea of love and stuff...but the idea is still very different it seems. and they are likely less bothered by lack of love if they can have lots of sex. but for females, their desire for love (i won't try to summarize what that means) usually cant be so easily substituted. maybe the chase for sex also isnt that fulfilling for males either though...most of the dudes who whine are just not having it so they swear they're missing out on the most heavenly slice of pizza. though i guess there are also addicts too...but maybe there are also some that have it and are like....that's it? that's what everyone is obsessing about? i need a new hobby. ha as if. don't ruin it for yourself! you gotta mystify and hype up SEXXXX AKA BEST THING EVER SO THAT YOU DON'T FORGET!!!!!!!! also don't forget, to make wooman happy. yay!

it seems that the male desire for sex hasn't really calmed down much and made its way out of the gene pool. there are lots of soft guys out there nowadays, but to make up for that there are also lots of ultra-hyper-masculine wannabes too. porn-sick, hounds chasing tail. have really ugly hulk-like muscles and think that signals alphaness lololol. idk, i guess it works to attract some females though...but i doubt most superficial people are having very wholesome and lasting relationships. anyways yeah i think that technology, the availability of porn and over-sexualization of like...everything has further hypnotized the "manly males" so idk if it'll change. females don't actually want males to stop sexualizing them is the thing soo...i guess we shall see what the future brings.

doggiedoc2004 · 2023-07-20T20:00:34+00:00

It’s shaming ugly men (inside and out) who persist in pursuing even after rejection (polite or not) and who spout the worst most degrading aspects of the red pill ie calling women foids toilets, low intelligence, spinning plates, negging. There was a post a few days ago staining as fact that women are mentally less than men.

Of course sex is an innate desire and it’s not wrong to want it. It’s HOW you peruse it and how you speak about and to women when you are unsuccessful. It’s an unfortunate part of life that lower value males will struggle just like it’s an unfortunate side of life that many of us will get sexually assaulted and or end up with kids abandoned by their fathers.

Sexual reproduction strategies and desires are different among the sexes. Women are the ones that get raped, coerced, baby trapped, abandoned with offspring. So we may want sex, but not as strongly as men and with much much more caution. This will leave a decent sized segment of undesirable males. This is the case in many social mammalian situations.

Edit: I should also add whining about one’s situation re being low value/unattractive is in itself a HUGE turn off. A lot of us can smell desperation, and hatred of women, and low effort in improving yourself a mile away.

Honest_Ice_7239 · 2023-07-24T02:59:19+00:00

It's important right before cummin.

vampcutierose · 2023-09-05T18:11:36+00:00

please stop projecting

Title	Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.
Author	Iamslightlysad
Upvotes	169
Comments	279
Date	July 19, 2023 4:07 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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