Daily Community Chat Megathread

tiposk · 2021-09-16T20:04:14+00:00

I have a sudden and inexplicable desire to fuck Ben Shapiro lights off while he whispers a passage of the Torah in my ear.

Sudden-Double · 2021-09-16T19:34:23+00:00

so i posted how dating advice is harsh- if a guy ghosts girls are told to BLOCK and move on. mostly women commented that yeah a women should do this because 1) he made a mistake so early on, and obv cant change so your relationship is already DOOMED and 2) there's no benefit for a woman to give this "loser" a 2nd chance

okay fine enough but if a girl makes a mistake (like ghosting because she had some anxiety) and she tries to get back with the guy, and the guy rejects a lot of women say "if he was the right guy he wouldnt care you ghosted him! the right guy will accept all the mistakes you make"

this advice doesn't make sense. NO ONE IS PERFECT. why can't we teach people to be forgiving? this type of advice i find toxic and messing up both genders. every date both genders are looking for flaws because God forbid they don't date a perfect person and GOD FORBID you ghost someone because you have depression and anxiety shame on you for not telling the person despite having thoughts of killing yourself

and before someone tells me "well obv that person deserves a 2nd chance he had something going on" you cant tell someone how they feel. we are all working crazy jobs to survive in this capitalistic society and the least we can do is be more compassionate. hopefully my rant make sense

SiriusB8 · 2021-09-16T18:42:59+00:00

Do you allow your GF to post provocative pics on social media?

ijustwannabeagoat · 2021-09-16T18:38:42+00:00

I am one step closer to becoming a goat.

AerieIll3707 · 2021-09-16T18:29:10+00:00

i have a theory that people who grew up in multicultural megacities are naturally RPed from young

AtaCome7821 · 2021-09-16T18:28:08+00:00

One woman said something that vexes me tbh. "I don't like a man who approaches every woman", why not, though? I can only speak for myself, I don't approach strangers and the only prior strangers I've gotten with were the ones who made the move not me, but as I tend to attract women after having known them for a while, I tend to get more than one girl at a time, what's wrong with that? They're doing the same, I'm not under illusion that I'm the only guy lol, so what's wrong if a guy does it as well?

simeneta_two · 2021-09-16T18:26:35+00:00

Ughh I'm going to have to have an awkward talk with one of my subordinates that she's spending way too much time doing things that are not her job. I don't want to be the manager who's like "no you can't go to a conference/take PTO/whatever" but I need to stress she's already on thin ice with her performance.

poppy_blu · 2021-09-16T18:21:07+00:00

Anyone ever see the movie casino?

Best line in the movie: Robert deniro says “owning a casino is like selling people dreams for cash.”

I feel the same way about OLD. They’re selling men dreams for cash.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-16T18:18:25+00:00

I'm curious how some of the posters here have only had abusive or low value exes

Like what's up bro?

Fudstersecured · 2021-09-16T18:14:58+00:00

Mauritius has a very visually appealing flag. Check it out.

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-09-16T18:14:15+00:00

Some of you should find this amusing or infuriating: apparently Blizzard is so woke it's now policing even the game code (here replacing "Blacklisted" with "Blocklisted")

GridReXX · 2021-09-16T17:51:31+00:00

“Y: The Last Man” is a TV show I just stumbled across on Hulu. We watched the first two episodes last night. It’s pretty compelling.

It posits the question: “What happens to our modern society if men disappeared?”

In the show, the premise is every creature with a Y chromosome dies suddenly, triggering an apocalyptic reality.

Within the first few days all infrastructure goes to shit because why? Men were working most of those jobs.

Also highlighted some transmen coming to reality that they can only be men as long as there’s a supply of testosterone to take. Since half the world (all men) died. No one to produce the drugs. And now they’re reverting back to a woman and sad about it.

Very interesting premise that I think this sub could enjoy.

GridReXX · 2021-09-16T17:40:47+00:00

“Women tend to prefer men taller than herself.”

“Men tend to prefer more virginal women for LTRs.”

“People born into poverty tend to fall victim to their environments and have limited upward mobility more than those not born into poverty.”

“Men tend to earn more for XYZ reasons.”

“People tend to care more if a ::insert ethnicity::: pretty young woman dies more than any other group for XYZ reasons.”

I can go on.

These are all universally observed practicalities of life. And always have been.

Why are they now being called “bl*ck pill”?

I’ve noticed that “bl*ck pillers” realize these things and instead of reframing how they can work their sociocultural status to their benefit as best possible, they choose to drop out in existential sadness.

Growing up in the community I grew up and the ethnicity I am where, yes, there’s a lot of factors working “against you,” we never had this persistent level of nihilism/fatalism/Weltschmerz I’ve witnessed on the forums.

Perhaps it’s because we had community, fulfilling sociable touch-points, and I suppose religion, but Jesus. I’m glad we did/do. I’m not religious but grew up that way and in a community that supported one another and had a “count it all joy” philosophy. That foundational purview helps and I think many could benefit from it. Because phew. Y’all too woke and not nearly well-adjusted enough to process the world as it is w/o going full “and nothing matters.”

HarryLillis · 2021-09-16T17:32:43+00:00

Not being an asshole takes a lot of work and isn't something you can take for granted. Instinctive empathy is powerful but it's not nearly all of the information and work a person needs to be truly empathetic for the purposes of an organized society. The Red Pill is just a list of mental stop signs to prevent further work on not being an asshole, so, if you're wondering why women are picking assholes over you, it's because you're both assholes and the other person has at least one other quality.

wekacuck · 2021-09-16T17:18:45+00:00

From a discussion about some announcement about NIH funding research into causes of increasing male infertility:

Testosterone levels are plummeting as well

More generally risktaking is down across the board.

Cigarette smoking, stimulants, party drugs use, alcohol, sexual intercourses are also in a freefall compared to the 80s.

As always people laughed at Japan, first it was Japan's economy, then its social trends, finally its sexual trends...

But make no mistake, that's where we are headed. The future belongs to Africa and partially South America.

Men are made to be dumb, reckless and horny, the moment they become cerebral, emotional and scared that's the signal that society is on the brink of collapse.

We are in uncharted territory, men never behaved like they are now in the whole history of the human species

Dunno how bullshit all that is, but suppose it's true that overall risk taking in general is down... then maybe guys are just getting their adrenaline fixes in vidya and alcohol/drugs/girls/etc are just not exciting.

But it also makes me wonder about Ritalin.

I knew a surgeon who claimed that school shooters in the US are always on ADHD meds... but nobody's allowed to talk about that.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-09-16T17:05:55+00:00

I JUST RESUMED TRAINING AGAIN AND I AM A BEAST I WILL FIGHT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING UNTIL NO ONE ELSE SURVIVES, I AM THE ULTIMATE WEAPON OF HAND-TO-HAND COMBAT AAHHHHH

(/s so I don't end up on r/iamverybadass)

Fudstersecured · 2021-09-16T16:39:47+00:00

Going on a dinner date. Haven’t done this for a first date in years. High hopes for this one

peteypete78 · 2021-09-16T16:29:45+00:00

Non hormonal contraception for women on the horizon?

JiimmyNeutron · 2021-09-16T16:27:36+00:00

https://www.brgeneral.org/news-blog/2021/july/men-and-suicide-why-are-white-men-most-at-risk-/

Men commit 70% of all suicides.

The suicide rate would even out if men ignored the vast majority of women and only paid attention to the top 5% like women do men.

throwaway213091345 · 2021-09-16T16:22:10+00:00

A lot of studies and surveys show that men are more likely to think of themselves as attractive, and that unattractive people tend to think they’re more attractive than they really are.

I believe part of it is a defense mechanism to survive. If you think you’re ugly, you’ll be less likely to breed and try. If you feel like you’re ugly, you still might default to thinking you’re really nice or cool to survive. Another part of it is a total lack of positive attention. It sounds counterintuitive, but having no metric will allow you to believe yourself to be anything.

At my ugliest, a particular boy would make fun of my face monthly. After feeling sad about it, I’d try really hard to rationalize that he was really just flirting with me and so I never thought of myself as ugly then.

chilikettlechips · 2021-09-16T15:32:13+00:00

Why do women act like abuse stems out of nowhere. Are there really 0 signs before it happens? Women be all like:

My husband is abusive and does 0 cleaning and does 0 childcare.

Wow, when did you have your last baby?

He actually hasn't helped since the first baby 10 years ago.

So his apartment was squeaky clean before getting married? And you let this man rawdog you?

He hasn't cleaned up a single thing in 10 years!

So you let this guy impregnate you several times over 10 years?

he changed once we got married!

So once the ring was on he literally didn't clean his apartment at all and you just stepped up and cleaned for years on end and you let him impregnate you multiple times over the years?

You don't know what it's like!

Yeah I don't know what it's like to be a naive doormat.

Independent-Eye-8945 · 2021-09-16T15:31:24+00:00

mods here are a joke, they only care about pushing their anti-men agenda.

firefireburnburn · 2021-09-16T15:31:19+00:00

Tried to join a sport league to meet people. They overbooked and I got kicked. Joined another league. They overbooked and I got kicked.

I knew going out of my comfort zone would be hard, but not like this.

wekacuck · 2021-09-16T15:21:56+00:00

The science is in: Republican lawmakers kill babies

https://www.ajpmonline.org/article/S0749-3797(21)00380-9/fulltext

Findings show that state infant and postneonatal mortality rates are substantively higher under Republican-controlled state legislatures than under non-Republican‒controlled ones. The effect size is larger for postneonatal than for neonatal mortality. Findings suggest that effects may be greater for Black than for White infants, although the race-specific results are estimated imprecisely. The governor's party shows no substantive impacts on infant mortality rates net of party control of the Lower House.

coldestblack · 2021-09-16T14:53:06+00:00

Male attraction is weird man. I saw a girl with like a 5 head and a whole bunch of other things youd think make her unattractive but she wasnt. She was attractive still, taking in the entirety of her, body skin physique demeanor, she was attractive. Shit is rigged. Tell you right now that wouldve been a death sentence for a man.

On a side note, i thought only guys do systemizing but girls do it too. I came across this theory called kibbe body types. Women are obsessed with this stuff. They be judging each other and themselves harshly analyzing finer features its hilarioua because i thought just guys do that.

_mwk · 2021-09-16T14:43:18+00:00

my man fearing friend has been asked out by a complete stranger on campus and she agreed, to my biggest surprise. and he's 18. she's 22.

be bold boys and cold approach, anything is possible!

AtaCome7821 · 2021-09-16T14:36:27+00:00

Nobody:

Me: Speaking of weird usernames, I''ve always wondered what Flapperfemmefatale means(if I spelled that right)

Maleficent-Print6036 · 2021-09-16T14:35:20+00:00

The trains have arrived. It was nice knowing you.

Banned_BY_SOYMEN · 2021-09-16T14:21:02+00:00

The greatest tragedy are those women who could be so insanely hot if they just lost 10-15 pounds.

Prestigious698 · 2021-09-16T14:19:28+00:00

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRQcS7mr/

Old age is a bitch

PeskyHijinks · 2021-09-16T14:18:23+00:00

u/midwestufohunter, have you ever seen any UFOs in the midwest? I lived in the midwest for many years and saw a few. Whether they were optical illusions, weather balloons, etc, I can't say. But I definitely saw a few out there.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-16T14:10:08+00:00

Q4A

Do you go out of your way to avoid people of opposing political parties?

Do you care that much about a friends politics?

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-09-16T13:42:03+00:00

Snoo38543 · 2021-09-16T11:59:17+00:00

Science says that 90% of the stuff people bitch about on here could be solved by not dating strangers. Do none of you have a social circle?

Slipthe · 2021-09-16T11:49:53+00:00

My boyfriend's bro works on and co-hosts a podcast and it was just revealed that it's going to air on a conservative radio channel.

And so the bro said he was no longer willing to be the co-host because he doesn't want his name and voice associated with conservatism.

My bf thinks he made the right choice, but I think he just destabilized his footing as the producer. AND he lost opportunity for exposure. I think it would have been pretty easy not to say anything that compromised your beliefs, considering the podcast is about amusement parks and stuff.

Would you have withdrawn your co-host status if it was gonna be on an opposing political platform?

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-09-16T11:33:18+00:00

I have been going to the gun range at least once a month for 10 years now and I notice a decent amount of women. I have conversations with them and almost none of them conceal carry. I ask why and the consensus seems to be there are too many fashion sacrifices they aren’t willing to make to carry a gun. One girl told me straight up “90% of the time im in a skirt or a sundress, I can’t conceal a Glock with that.”

We do live in Florida which is sundress season essentially all year

maniacvirgin · 2021-09-16T10:54:59+00:00

Do you guys know any female to male transgender guys who pull better pussy than most born men you know? Like he's not pulling total smokeshows but it's consistently good liking plain to alt looking 7-8 cis girls in longer term relationships. He's fucking 5' 5', has a pussy, and a patchy beard. It has to be the same personality cause they were one of my best/sweetest friends in elementary and middle schools.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-16T10:07:25+00:00

Q4A

What % of total marriages do you think are a Dead Bedroom?

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-16T09:41:50+00:00

I'm willing to bet most FDS posters irl are female simps and probably fuck on the 1st/2nd date.

Also, most MGTOW are one blowjob away from being a simp

KJ1017 · 2021-09-16T08:40:05+00:00

I decided to head down to my campus library to sneak in some cramming for this 8am exam I have.

People are in the study room beside me fucking. At 4am. On a Thursday. In the fucking library.

DaphneDK42 · 2021-09-16T06:45:02+00:00

I love this (Circassian dance). I believe 90% of what is wrong with Western dating culture has to do with the destruction of cultural forms and traditions wherein young men and women could meet in groups and interact socially in ways which are fun and have well defined rules and guidelines. This destruction stated long before online dating and what not.

Auto66 · 2021-09-16T06:32:57+00:00

Anyone else wish that they had no sex drive? Or is this a sign i should see a therapist?

passepar2t · 2021-09-16T06:18:50+00:00

So many of you yell about how men grossly overstate their attractiveness like preening slugs.

Then when I share an accurate estimate of my looks, I get comments like 'stfu you're probably much better looking than that, why are you being like this?'

AtaCome7821 · 2021-09-16T06:02:50+00:00

Hey u/ChibsFilipTelfordd I got bored so I re-downloaded tinder and got a match in one day, how about that! I was gonna ask for tips on how to maintain that but now Tinder is saying the only way I'll see my matches is if I upgrade to gold lmao.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-16T04:56:36+00:00

My dream is to start a podcast and just have interesting/crazy people on to talk about shit

I think it'll do fairly well

NotAutisticJustMe · 2021-09-16T04:33:59+00:00

Holy shit rock climbing is a gold mine of hot people. I went with a friend today but I'm thinking of going solo and trying to meet people by just bouldering. ... that or a MMA class, but that will probably be a much worse ratio of guys to girls

annabeelongx · 2021-09-16T04:27:07+00:00

Any defense of the opposite sex gets labeled ‘pick-me’ or ‘simp’

It’s annoying

WahmenH8ter · 2021-09-16T04:25:56+00:00

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRQQwNQ2/

To all short and brown incels…there’s hope

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2021-09-16T04:03:43+00:00

Large and unattractive girl in my study class but everyone is drawn to her because of how funny, sweet, and extroverted she is. Literally lights up the study hall when we meet.

Fudstersecured · 2021-09-16T03:51:40+00:00

Q4All: who has more unrealistic standards in their 20’s, men or women?

Sad_Top1743 · 2021-09-16T21:04:21+00:00

Women on ppd often say how variable their attraction is, and I agree to an extent but every-time I go out its the same guys getting action.

Why do people push the notion that there is someone for everybody when there are clearly some people who are wanted by the masses.

I typically go out with my chad friend and like clockwork even the women I don't find attractive, but will entertain, think they have a legitimate shot at my friend. It's such a bummer because it doesn't matter how hot she is, they still think they have a shot at chad.

PickleLine · 2021-09-16T03:00:47+00:00

Low N-count women are attractive.

KJ1017 · 2021-09-16T22:39:30+00:00

What did women gain from normalizing calling men bad and all types of animals?

There’s been literal studies that show if you tell somebody they are/did something enough they’ll believe it.

Now I expect grown men to have thicker skin, but if a modern kid has been seeing that he’s some type of beast since puberty he’s going to believe it. And he’s going to be one. Or he’s going to languish is sadness and remove himself from society.

Alternatively, the child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it’s warmth.

The trend of demonizing men is going to age like milk.

thetruthishere_ · 2021-09-16T03:15:32+00:00

Had my 19-21? year old neighbor somehow get my number text asking me if Id give him a blowjob. He asked for help and thought he really need actual help. Certainly not what I was expecting! LOL

Last I knew he had a GF and hes a hard working cute kid.

I only know him and passing and gave him some dishes I was getting rid of since he was first time on his own.

Im older than his parents...

He has no idea Im an escort nor do I look like one before you any of you go there.

Barneysparky · 2021-09-16T03:30:09+00:00

I went league bowling tonight for the first time in my new neighbourhood, about 12 minutes away driving from my old neighbourhood.

In my old neighbourhood I bowled with my next-door neighbour and buddy, I figured joining a league here would allow me to meet my new neighbours, get an invite to grey cup parties, etc.

I met 2 of my new bowling team today. Lovely people, lots in common. Who happens to live two blocks up the same street as I did, in my old neighbourhood.

Tried to meet my new neighbours, met more of my old neighbours. Lovely people though.

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-09-16T03:42:41+00:00

Traditional female-male relationship is equivalent to an insurance company and its client.

Female pays a little every day. She must cook, clean, and do as told. She is never quite happy but never at risk.

Male pays it all at once. He does as he wants and lives happily, but if the family gets attacked, he must die to protect it.

PeskyHijinks · 2021-09-16T20:32:51+00:00

Do the trans realise they're spouting old school red pill binary gender essentialism? Why are feminists not more vocal about decades of their progress being unwound for horny men?

passepar2t · 2021-09-16T21:05:00+00:00

Never become an editor. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

passepar2t · 2021-09-16T22:00:38+00:00

I've done lots of acid every Saturday for the past 4 weeks. I thought I had too much mental baggage and it'd give me a bad trip but no, I had a blast every time.

Except I kind of need it to be a sunny day to enjoy myself on that stuff. This weekend is unlikely to have one so I'll hang out with a woman I'm seeing instead.

HOLYREGIME · 2021-09-16T23:00:38+00:00

Gabby Petito is getting a lot of attention now.

$500 on the boyfriend.

poppy_blu · 2021-09-17T00:20:19+00:00

I love this one: if women feel sexy it means they’re lesbians.

😂😂😂😂

Orange_Paisley · 2021-09-17T01:19:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhitePeopleTwitter/comments/pphxjn/birth_control_is_far_more_than_just_pregnancy/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Why would anyone have an issue with birth control?

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-09-16T21:26:40+00:00

in conversation about hot female teachers in all-boy's high school, my partner said that the boys fucking the teacher should not be considered rape. I asked him if he thinks rape standards should be different for men and women, to which he answered raping males should only exist if the man is being penetrated, bound, or drugged.

Agree or disagree? (I disagree)

PickleLine · 2021-09-16T22:23:12+00:00

Why do women think they're entitled to male attention?

When a woman can't get men to want a relationship or even want go on dates with them without sex on the table, they complain about how men are awful.

No, many men want a relationship, and even men who didn't want a relationship with you, want a relationship. They just don't want one with you.

When a man struggles in dating, people say it's because there's something wrong with him.

Similarly, if you're a woman who can't get men to want to go on dates with you without sex on the table or can't get men to want a relationship with you, it's because you're fat/ugly and have a bad personality/social skills. There's something wrong with you.

Banned_BY_SOYMEN · 2021-09-16T23:32:32+00:00

Simone Biles is trying to MeToo her way out of public embarrassment.

maniacvirgin · 2021-09-17T01:28:07+00:00

Really wish when my grandmother told me multiple times in my teens to make female friends she would have just been blunt with the reality "by your 20s you will be entirely unable to relate to half the people on earth if you dont" not to even get into the fact of course that entails not being able to get laid

Recovering from this shit is a herculean task on par with remaking your life after 10 years in prison. I just don't even like talking to ones I'm not even attracted to unless they are 40+

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TheBookOfSeil · 2021-09-16T03:24:27+00:00

Does anyone in here actually write for a living? Even though I somewhat hate writing, I'm fairly good at it and am considering writing. I took a literature class a few semesters ago and my professor wanted me to sit in on his creative writing class because I guess he saw some potential. Also did very well in my writing composition classes.

Any tips that can't be found on YouTube would be appreciated.

zyramain69 · 2021-09-16T21:47:45+00:00

It's interesting how millennial women (25-40) want men that make $100,000 and that's the dual income of the middle class in NYC. Are Gen X the most stayed together (out of boomers, millennials and gen X) because they had reasonable standards?

WahmenH8ter · 2021-09-16T23:08:44+00:00

Atheist but having a really hard time disproving the existence ghosts

WahmenH8ter · 2021-09-17T00:01:17+00:00

Q4M:

If a man jumped on your shoulder would you beat him off or keep him there?

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-09-17T01:13:42+00:00

Found My So-Called Life on Hulu, and damn. Forgot how much I loved this show

It’s making me miss the 90s something fierce 😢

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-09-17T01:40:05+00:00

Dm me if you tryna see the smoothest god damn pickup line ive ever done 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm actually proud

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-09-17T03:46:59+00:00

Anyone in here doing a suicide pool? The rational side of my brain wants me to take the Browns. But I really want to take the Bengals

Someone talk to me

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