Stop chasing and pick the women who choose you

I think people overestimate how far game can carry you.

Game is only going to improve your chances with women who have a slight interest in you. It’s just going to be enough from pushing them from a mild interest into being all over you.

It’s not going to work on women who aren’t into you. You’re not going to have some chick who doesn’t give you the time of day or is just friendly into throwing herself at you.

This is why you need to just choose the women who chose you.

Obviously you still must shoot your shot and initiate things, but women who are into you will make it easy for you. They will do the bulk of the work. When you do the bulk of the work as a man, it’s usually not rewarded.

Went to a pool party with some mutual friends, and this one girl came up to me and touched my back and arm multiple times.

Eventually I returned the favor and it was all over.

This was so much nicer than me repeatedly throwing myself at these chicks who aren’t into it.

It’s the women who ultimately do the choosing. Just pick the ones who choose you.