Daily Community Chat Megathread

Fleischpeitsch · 2021-08-31T10:18:08+00:00

Normal people: "calling men faggots for expressing feelings is toxic masculinity"

TRPers: "so having emotional self control is toxic now? You just blame men for their nature"

Why are TRPers like that? Are most of the guys here from some exotic place where people just don't understand any English? Would explain why they mention 'western women' so much

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-08-31T07:51:21+00:00

So here's a funny quote:

As for how quickly she moves on, I have always found that to be a bizarre criticism. It is not anyone else’s business how long or in what way somebody should grieve the loss of their partner nor does being with another man soon after mean that she is not still mourning or her love for him is any less.

Q4W, do you agree?

(If you need context: this is about a video game where a woman who suddenly finds her husband dead tries to jump on protagonist's dick only days/weeks later)

LittyKitsune · 2021-08-31T05:55:44+00:00

No idea why but running into people I recognize from PPD on "normal" subs out of the blue reminds me of seeing my high school teachers at Target

Technically-Crazy · 2021-08-31T05:31:43+00:00

I had a really great first date with this guy - both the physical and verbal chemistry was there. We were texting afterwards a lot (no sex, but we did make out). Due to my insane schedule, I had to decline to see him a week later when he asked me. He told me he was going on a a week long trip and we had a nice convo (sounded like he definitely wanted to see me again, even if it was after his trip). And then he left for his trip...and.. silence.

Like he hasn't texted me at all since he left for his trip. He's supposed to be back right now. I'm not a chaser at all and normally I would just move on to the next guy, but I actually really like him and it's rare that I like anyone these days.

What should I do? I'm inclined to move on, but in case he saw my busy schedule as me not being into him or not wanting to see him, then I might reach out one more time.

KJ1017 · 2021-08-31T04:02:51+00:00

One of my roommates this year is made of fucking adderall and leetcode hards.

If I have to compete with too many guys like this in the job market I am going to be unemployed and living on the taxpayers dime. My morale is on suicide watch.

angels-fan · 2021-08-31T03:44:39+00:00

CMV: Nothing about Marty McFly is sexy in the diner.

He sucker punches Biff, then runs away and basically gets lucky that Biff didn't kill him.

Wtf is Loraine seeing that is "He's such a dream"?

neetykeeno · 2021-08-31T03:13:57+00:00

https://youtu.be/95zsoV_PHRE

Having trouble working out if I am attracted or repulsed.

notclear2 · 2021-08-31T02:54:39+00:00

Can someone please tell me why ask feminist is now set to private ? Am really disappointed in them

Slipthe · 2021-08-31T02:44:20+00:00

I got a new pair of athletic leggings today and for the first time in memory I caught a guy staring at my butt.

Kind of flattering. But only really because I was shopping with my bf so it felt pretty harmless.

Madssmkay · 2021-08-31T02:27:07+00:00

Are there any pirating sites without half naked women pop ups or am I gonna have to actually pay for shit😩

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-08-31T01:59:44+00:00

We left 50 military service dogs behind in crates at the Kabul airport. The head of Kabul Small Animal Rescue - a Tennessee woman - is left behind because she wouldn’t give up a disabled puppy she was holding

The UK government got Pen Farthing and 200+ animals out, but we couldn’t rescue military dogs of war a US citizen holding a goddamn puppy?!

Edit - I’m extremely happy about Farthing, and was rooting for him. I’m furious with our government

maniacvirgin · 2021-08-31T01:53:14+00:00

Is it normal that uglier guys propose way faster? I'm edging on my mid 20s and quickly noticing how the only guys my age that propose in less than a year are on the more unattractive end meanwhile my two very attractive male friends have anywhere from 2-4 year gfs

All are very successful career wise for <25 and from what I've experienced a pleasure to be around, so no it nothing to do with personality or "societal status"

This may come across as smug but believe me I am far more concerned for the under a year engaged guys than I am my attractive friends who seem much more secure in making sure everything is right before popping the question

LeJacquelope · 2021-08-31T01:28:14+00:00

Every last one of my relatives and my wife's relatives have avoided COVID since it came out. Every day someone sends an email around giving thanks for that. Then some idiot in our clan made fun of that Texas anti-masker who died of COVID last week after I spent a year begging people not to make fun of those who get this disease. Sure enough this evening I just found out one of my niece's kids got sick and they got a positive COVID diagnosis today and they likely got it from school. Our clan was blessed because we did the right things and we didn't take pleasure in others getting infected. Soon as someone broke that rule that disease found its way in. I'm pissed as hell right now.

kitteneos · 2021-08-31T00:27:08+00:00

“While gossip among women is universally ridiculed as low and trivial, gossip among men, especially if it is about women, is called theory, or idea, or fact.”

👑 Dworkin.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-08-30T23:59:02+00:00

Who was it who was talking bout being bob the builder again? Lol this reel

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CSaETrgB-iZ/?utm_medium=copy_link

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-08-30T23:31:53+00:00

Women don't exist. They're a myth created by Tampax to sell more pads and tampons.

Also, quality connoisseurs of PPD, where tf do you get your best quality EVOO from?

LeJacquelope · 2021-08-30T22:48:00+00:00

That Brock Turner thread made me think of this great speech by Brian Banks, a victim of false rape accusations.

Trust me it's not the speech you think it was.

Aviadcool111 · 2021-08-30T22:26:47+00:00

There are fewer incels on 4chan than on this subreddit in my opinion I do not have any data on this but 4chan seems pretty good at shutting them down/ignoring them.

catsinbananahats · 2021-08-30T22:22:38+00:00

One time I was at a leadership meeting and we were discussing what we should do about "boundary crossing" and unwanted sexual attention.

And the guy who was in charge said "Guys are natural boundary crossers and sometimes women have to remind them when they are about to cross one."

That was a sentence I never thought I'd hear outside of the internet. Do you all agree or disagree with that sentiment?

2021-08-30T11:00:26+00:00

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Historical-Agency334 · 2021-08-30T14:08:30+00:00

off the grid goes fucking hard who knew carti and fivio would absolutely kill it

tapintothefrequency · 2021-08-30T14:22:19+00:00

Would people here who do not have children, please STFU about children, how to raise them, how to care for them, and how to discipline them?

Slipthe · 2021-08-30T16:36:09+00:00

So there was this pizza parlor guy who I did contract work for, then he got real unprofessional so I finished my work and didn't renew any projects. Then he started to ask sexual questions so I blocked his number, and then once a month he sends me weird messages begging me to come back to him.

As an update, I heard through the grapevine that he is giving up on his pizza business.

A little bit of karma for him. He always thought he was smarter than he actually is. But the reality is that he used to make a living off of being a food truck, where people eat out of convenience. And now that people have to choose his pizza over all other options, he's coming up short in quality and service.

thatguyfromrichmond2 · 2021-08-30T17:28:01+00:00

Men and women massively over rate them self which is a huge part of the sexless ness problem. Look at that dude who they linked the tinder thread the other day, he rated him self a "solid 6-7", depsite beign fat, balding, and looking 35 while 20. Yeah he's 6'5 but that doesn't add 4 points to smv I'm sorry to say, dude is honestly a 4/10 even with his height (though he could easily get to that 6-7 range with effort). My point is women also massively overrate themselves, any none fat girl thinks she's an 8/10 and that's part of the reason they all feel like they deserve chad. The outcome is men not committing to similar level of attractiveness girls (because they think they are hotter) and girls not sleeping with guys of similar attractiveness (because they think they deserve better). I also believe reality catches up to these people eventually, so it works itself out in the long run. So as toxic as dating forums are I'm glad it at least gives me a realistic perspective of myself and not try to chase women that I shouldn't be.

thetruthishere_ · 2021-08-30T12:49:39+00:00

How was your weekend?

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-08-30T16:34:47+00:00

Wall Street Journal - How Often Should You Shower? Celebrities Ignite a Ferocious Debate

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SSCookieLover · 2021-08-30T12:10:30+00:00

Just seen this video about "The Warrior Gene", and how it can lead to violent crime. I'd never heard of this before.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/ideas/videos/can-the-warrior-gene-make-you-violent/p09syvpv

GridReXX · 2021-08-30T12:13:49+00:00

Not to be a marriage advocate (anathema here, ik!) but 35+ men in bespoke suits and a wedding band do look more venerable.

I didn’t realize how much of a trump card a casual wedding band on a dude’s finger is but now that I’m in my 30s, it’s an unconscious thing I do in my head.

Bubbly_Taro · 2021-08-30T13:25:37+00:00

First.

techr0nin · 2021-08-30T14:41:24+00:00

That's kind of cute. I think cheaters should be exposed.

BandaNaVizier · 2021-08-30T14:42:58+00:00

Bad politicians, are they malicious or incompetent?

redditthrowaway1478 · 2021-08-30T15:33:47+00:00

That moment when Rollo claims to have suddenly had an epiphany about other gendered concepts that you've been talking about for years on PPD...

https://youtu.be/F0u5_h_CVZ4

Men and women's difference concepts of respect

Reisiluu · 2021-08-30T18:49:30+00:00

Q4A

Which one is more important;

-Face beauty

-Body shape(for women state heigh threshold)

Jaylen-Gads · 2021-09-01T02:00:22+00:00

This weeks posts are so boring.

Snoo_16536 · 2021-08-30T22:14:18+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/p4h5ji/red_pill_aware_beta_males_vs_red_pill_aware_alpha/

Blackpillers need to read this!

death_by_1000_cats · 2021-08-30T22:09:36+00:00

FINALLY had my orthopedic surgeon appointment. My break was very very minor and already starting to heal. I don't even need a cast, I just have to wear the boot when I'm walking, wrap it up when I sleep and do some exercises to keep the muscles and tendons strong. He said barring another fall or something I should be healed in about four weeks. Praise the ankle gods.

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2021-08-30T11:59:32+00:00

I'm curious what men here think and feel about this article.

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/apr/09/about-the-boys-tim-winton-on-how-toxic-masculinity-is-shackling-men-to-misogyny

This, in particular:

Too often, in my experience, the ways of men to boys lack all conviction, they lack a sense of responsibility and gravity. And I think they lack the solidity and coherence of tradition. Sadly, modernity has failed to replace traditional codes with anything explicit, or coherent or benign. We’re left with values that are residual, fuzzy, accidental or sniggeringly conspiratorial.

We’ve scraped our culture bare of ritual pathways to adulthood. There are lots of reasons for having clear-felled and burnt our own traditions since the 1960s, and some of them are very good reasons. But I’m not sure what we’ve replaced them with. We’ve left our young people to fend for themselves. We retain a kind of indulgent, patronising, approval of rites of passage in other cultures, including those of our first peoples, but the poverty of mainstream modern Australian rituals is astounding.

What are we left with? The sly first beer your uncle slips you. The 18th birthday party where the keg is the icon. Maybe the B&S ball, if you live in the bush. First drink, first root, first bog-lap in your mum’s Corolla. Call me a snob, but that strikes me as pretty thin stuff. This, surely, is cultural impoverishment. And in such a prosperous country. To my mind, that’s salt rising to the surface, poisoning the future.

In the absence of explicit, widely-shared and enriching rites of passage, young men in particular are forced to make themselves up as they go along. Which usually means they put themselves together from spare parts, and the stuff closest to hand tends to be cheap and defective. And that’s dangerous.

Is part of the issue that there is no real empowering tradition or culture for boys to latch onto anymore?

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2021-08-30T12:42:19+00:00

Obesity is a big problem in my country and every time I see someone way overweight I feel so bad for them.

I try and encourage all my friends to take up some form of fitness. Your life just becomes so much harder when you're overweight/obese. You'll struggle more than most with dating, your joints will be fucked, and your heart under constant stress.

Gotta take care of your body guys, you only get one.

Kaisha001 · 2021-08-30T17:05:12+00:00

If women are only attracted to males with the most hypermasculine features, then wouldn't that make them responsible for men being so aggressive? After both are caused by the same hormone, am I missing something here?

Chaddamhusein · 2021-08-30T17:47:06+00:00

There is a special place in hell for the type of people who come to your home uninvited

I want to punch something ngl

Goodthingstartssmall · 2021-08-30T17:17:57+00:00

https://www.archyde.com/emotional-video-comedian-luke-mockridge-talks-rape-allegations/

https://gettotext.com/luke-mockridge-after-the-big-drama-he-reveals-his-point-of-view/

R.I.P Luke Mockridge :(

I kinda like his humour but his bitchy ex apparantly decided that there was a night in their relationship where he was DTF but she was not and there was no sex that night. After THREE YEARS she decided it felt like (attempted) rape and charged him.

Two judicial instances didn't charge him because there is simply zero evidence. And still this woke, pathetic and highly brainddead social media scum started a witch hunt against him with a new hashtag, after everything was supposed to settled. People should stay out of this when every legal way decided that there was nothing to charge.

He cancelled every public appearance for this year. I hope this case will end as fast at it's began and he will bounce back.

ChadThundagaCock · 2021-08-30T18:56:52+00:00

Feminists: "Women are so oppressed, still".

(Said as they check the time on their 1000 dollar Iphone while walking in 200 dollar shoes in the richest part of the city)

Artistic_Guest4386 · 2021-08-30T19:20:05+00:00

Fellow dudes....do you REALLY want...

A woman eating up all your money All your time All your attention Nagging you Judging everything you do Taking up more than half the bed Being there pretty much 24/7 Not having the freedom to explore other options Always being the bad guy Awful star fish sex....

Or do you want...

Your own time, space, freedom, choices and a world of open possibility?

Relationships are MOSTLY not worth it. Stop cravint something you don't even know you don't want.

angels-fan · 2021-08-30T13:15:04+00:00

My wife leaving for work:

"Tonight I need you to fuck my brains out."

Good start to the day.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-08-30T14:08:11+00:00

The new Witcher on Netflix was great

JB8511R · 2021-08-30T17:13:55+00:00

Pretty sure family exists only to cause pain and stress you out

syxtaly · 2021-08-30T21:34:07+00:00

How common are single mothers where you live?

Fridric_Magnus · 2021-08-30T21:31:57+00:00

So inspired by u/madssmkay making a comment about how underrated Bollywood dance routines are and my own thinking that the perfect metaphor for the ideal life is the dancer in motion, I decided to check out Baryshnikov, to see what the big fucking deal was and you know what? He was in fact a big fucking deal.

Looking at this, these movements of supreme athleticism and beauty, I must say that dancing is an absolutely criminally underrated form of self-expression in our society. Further, looking at that man's physique, I also can't really fathom how we can view what he's doing as unmasculine (it's all supremely impressive in every sense of the word), and would be inclined to say anyone who would is an absolute fucking clod.

Seriously, he was only 5'5" but there would have to be a lot of money on the line for me to pick a fight with him; getting kicked by him would be liable to look like an old Fallout 1 & 2 death animation.

Madssmkay · 2021-08-30T21:15:30+00:00

So in this article , the author tests out what will happen if she turns down her husband for sex 7 days in a row.

I can’t get over how whiny he is every time and she’s dumb for even conducting that experiment. Turning a man down for sex isn’t worth the damage it causes

MisterFlipside · 2021-08-30T21:01:07+00:00

I think the best part of being a loser for so long is that Ive identified myself with the term for so long, and now that Im not nearly as self flagellating as I used to be, Ive stopped identifying myself as a loser and now I simply have no identity to replace it.

The best I can come up with is 'worker bee' and 'consumer', both of which are fucking terrible.

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-08-30T20:43:32+00:00

A newly published medical study found that infection from COVID-19 confers considerably longer-lasting and stronger protection against the Delta variant of the virus than vaccines.

“The natural immune protection that develops after a SARS-CoV-2 infection offers considerably more of a shield against the Delta variant of the pandemic coronavirus than two doses of the Pfizer-BioNTech vaccine, according to a large Israeli study that some scientists wish came with a ‘Don’t try this at home’ label,” the Scientific American reported Thursday. “The newly released data show people who once had a SARS-CoV-2 infection were much less likely than vaccinated people to get Delta, develop symptoms from it, or become hospitalized with serious COVID-19.”

Put another way, vaccinated individuals were 27 times more likely to get a symptomatic COVID infection than those with natural immunity from COVID.

https://www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2021.08.24.21262415v1

And yet I'm being forced by my state to get a worthless and potentially dangerous vaccine to keep my job unless I do weekly testing and I will need it to travel this fall.

Anyone who thinks this has anything to do with "science" needs to wake up.

JuSt gEt thE vaCcine yOu mONsteR!?!?!

Edit: My wife had it with me, 9 months later she still has antibodies to it (just tested) shes being forced as well.

PickleLine · 2021-08-30T20:39:23+00:00

Read a post with wholesome traditional dating values on reddit, stalk her and find out she's religious

Happens every time

Men shouldn't be forced to take the god pill just to find a decent woman

NalkaNalka · 2021-08-30T20:29:29+00:00

A lot of people here could benefit from readingThis post over on r/lifeprotips

Special-Armadillo-99 · 2021-08-30T20:19:47+00:00

Women here are so delusional and solipsistic they will literally say things like "that's not what I mean when I say x" and they will insist that when they say x it means something other than the definition of x.

They will literally correct people on what x means because they have internally changed the definition of x to run counter to its meaning.

Honestly what the fuck. Words have meanings. You don't get to correct others because you feel you don't like a word.

SpicyRamenAddict · 2021-08-30T20:09:55+00:00

Q4W: can you describe what for you personally a low value male is?

throwaway213091345 · 2021-08-30T20:08:30+00:00

Some of the liberal women I know will whine about white male privilege, while exclusively dating tall, attractive white men as WOC.

The self-hate is real. 🤡 Watch what they do, not what they say.

ghostinthepost · 2021-08-30T13:36:43+00:00

Is there anything more worthless than what's written in online dating profiles?

You love laughing and travel? How unique. You like to go out but also stay in and watch netflix? Well let me get down on one knee!

The only real interesting part of them is the coded language. Stuff like:

"Active lifestyle" = Don't be fat.
"Country boys" = Whites only.
"My kids are my world" = I'm a terrible mother
"Classy" = Not in any way classy.
"I've got my life together" = I've got a 40k a year job and tons of debt.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-08-30T19:57:32+00:00

Someone invited me and my GF to a boat ride next month and I don’t really wanna go. I never liked boat ride events cause I can’t leave it it’s wack. Like if I go to a regular party and I’m not feeling the vibe I can dip after an hour. With a boat ride I gotta stay the whole 4 hours lol.

Kaisha001 · 2021-08-30T15:38:58+00:00

Men who haven't been circumcised, would you say that your foreskin is more sensitive than your penis head?

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