In my opinion as soon as a woman calls you a "kid" or considers herself "your therapist" it's over, which imo is also the biggest insult you can get. It's like a point of no return. And in order to avoid being called as such there are things that work more often than not:

  1. Never ask her for help
  2. Never open up about personal or sensitive things
  3. Try to plan more often than her
  4. Never do anything against your core beliefs and don't do things you dislike, even the smallest things

Would you agree? Are there more signs of a such point of no return and are there more remedies to avoid this?

Edit: I gotta correct myself. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle but I still think you should keep 1, 2 and 3 at 80%.