I forget which book it was, but I’ve always remembered an analogy when it came to creative writing and I think it applies to dating. It went something like this - “A table has four legs and a surface. After that it can look however you like. It can be any colour, any shape, any design, any material, any size. But it MUST be able to stand up and have a flat surface to support objects. The legs and the surface are the structure, the fundamentals. In that way, they’re all the same. And as long as you get that right, be as creative as you want with everything else.”

I believe it’s the same with women and attraction. I believe the things they think make their taste unique are just the details and the presentation, but I believe the vast majority of them are attracted to the fundamentals - the legs and surface - which is some form of physically dominant trait, signs of masculinity and strength of personality. However those things present themselves may be different from girl to girl - But mostly you have to present strong physical genetics, (talll, or muscular, or athletic) a masculine personality (whether that be confidence, charisma, ambition, a natural born leader, social butterfly, funny in a witty non dorky way) and this can present itself in many different forms - but the FOUNDATION, the structure is the same. When it boils down to it - they want a physically attractive masculine guy. Achieve that however you wish, but get the basics down because MOST women are drawn to that.