Daily Community Chat Megathread

6negative4 · 2022-03-14T22:30:53+00:00

Domestic duties are enjoyable. If I had the option to cook and clean for someone who worked a "real" job to pay all the bills, I'd take that in a heartbeat.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-03-14T22:17:34+00:00

Going to the gym focusing on attaining optimal performance is a far more fun time than going to the gym focusing on physique

Keeps me more consistent too

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2022-03-14T22:12:58+00:00

Why do guys like to grab a guy’s butt when he is kissing her?

6foot5Pakistani · 2022-03-14T21:37:10+00:00

question 4 anyone:

what do y’all think about this song https://youtu.be/adtPfxZLe6M

-angels-fan- · 2022-03-14T21:32:10+00:00

Does anybody else feel like a conspiracy theorist going off oh why the earth is flat when you talk about red pill to bloops?

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-03-14T21:20:08+00:00

It’s interesting how many men here claim women care more about looks then men, yet these same men are saying that a dude who asked me on a date after telling a mutual friend he “can’t stand” my personality is normal and acceptable

biggestuzifanea · 2022-03-14T20:49:01+00:00

Women be like: you're too short/ugly to provide for me.

And there are men mad about this????

6foot5Pakistani · 2022-03-14T20:48:52+00:00

gymcel day 2 was a success

Q4M: how long until i’m not a lanklet anymore

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-03-14T20:34:32+00:00

Lol the guy who told my coworker I was “his ideal woman physically but he can’t stand my personality” invited me to the renaissance fair this weekend

He doesn’t know that I’m aware he said this but yeah 😐 men continue to amaze me

MisterFlipside · 2022-03-14T20:34:09+00:00

Who has to adhere closer to gender norms to obtain their ideal partner, men or women?

Spare_Being1761 · 2022-03-14T20:13:49+00:00

As I understand, in the nightclub environment, eye contact is the pre-cursor to approach. Approaching women without multiple and prolonged eye contacts is useless I believe. The problem is that nobody really looks at me, not even if I am dancing close by, someone might accidentally lock eyes once in a while and then quickly look away never to look back again. However, I don't think there is anything fundamentally wrong with me because guys are usually welcoming in their groups and sometimes chat me up.

Does that mean that most women don't find me attractive? Or is there some other reason? Shall I take the initiative of talking to women who haven't looked at me at all?

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-03-14T20:10:31+00:00

It's official, me and Putin would make Chad babies

Yo_Mamas_azz · 2022-03-14T20:09:05+00:00

Niggaz be like "Broooo I hate how women arent under crushing economic forces which make them dependant on men and have all these rights" and then continue to live in countries where this is the case. Smh.

Slipthe · 2022-03-14T20:08:36+00:00

What would you do if your kid sucker punched you out of anger? How does your response differ if they were 4-years-old vs 12-years-old?

Does your response differ if they actually hit you hard enough to break your nose?

effeteintellectual · 2022-03-14T20:03:39+00:00

My friend who’s 5’5” got a pretty cute Argentine gf. He travels to Argentina to be with her. My friend is short but jacked and has a good looking face. Seems like a lot of North American guys are finding partners in South America, Asia and Africa.

whyte_lotus · 2022-03-14T19:54:52+00:00

Lol I got a warning for telling someone to check their privileges. 🤣

In other news. First actual Stacy I see in a fds style sub.

lulll · 2022-03-14T19:46:39+00:00

im drooling rn

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-03-14T19:20:02+00:00

Seems like a lot of dudes noticed how much geography plays into hypergamy.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/te0wk7/us_women_are_picky/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Personally, Canada, Hawaii and parts of the east coast were completely different for me dating wise

LetsDelveIntoIt1 · 2022-03-14T18:45:02+00:00

What happened to razormach or some such user? He was Croatian if I remember right. He used to post frequently and then seems to have vanished.

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-03-14T18:43:36+00:00

This place is making me procrastinate and hindering from my goal (dumpster diving). I am not gonna comment again until I've dived successfully.

see ya!!

p.s. I don't want to dumpster dive. I wish I was with my unicorn in bed but that is not possible so I will take getting my dick wet as a "consolation prize."

edgyny · 2022-03-14T18:14:48+00:00

I just read this suggestion of how to use Reddit's new blocking functionality for shenanigans on another subreddit:

There's also the potential to do some really high-level meddling with a sub's groupthink. Suppose a user wanted to convince a vegetarian sub that actually, bacon bits aren't so bad.

First, they go through the comments on popular posts and block all the really hard core vegetarians they can find, while leaving ones with more moderate opinions (flexitarians?) unblocked.

Then, they make a post promoting bacon bits. It gets downvoted, and people object: "this isn't vegetarian!", "omg, how can you eat cute little piglets?!", "eating animals is murder!", etc. Blocked. Blocked. Blocked. Every time someone disagrees, the manipulator blocks them.

The manipulator repeats this cycle a few times, and suddenly something curious starts happening. None of the vocal objectors can see the manipulator's posts any more. Now, all the comments on the post are neutral or positive toward bacon bits. "yeah, eating animals is wrong, but we can make an exception for bacon bits". New users coming in notice that, while the sub is generally pretty against eating animals, bacon bits get no pushback. "Huh. I guess bacon bits are vegetarian", they start to think..

FYI: found the other subreddit after rabbitholeing after reading this "entertaining" story that was published today: How an Academic Grudge Turned Into a #MeToo Panic

hornyjailer1 · 2022-03-14T18:00:29+00:00

Man, why do i find skinny women taller than me so fucking sexy. She gets like +2 extra points for them legs 😅. When she is shorter i prefer thick while if taller i prefer skinny.

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-03-14T17:58:47+00:00

I don't fear horse girls and rescue dog girls. But snake girls, snake girls scare me.

MisterFlipside · 2022-03-14T17:45:38+00:00

Women: oh yeah, we see total hotties paired up with subpar lumps of men all the time, women are so much less shallow than men are!

Also women: Ugh these shallow Stacy chasers need to stay in their lane and keep their disgusting mitts to themselves! No Stacy will ever love you, creep!

Zkalador · 2022-03-14T17:29:58+00:00

PPD initiation must include acquiring a personal downvoter who follows you around and furiously downpills anything you post

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-03-14T17:20:53+00:00

I was never insecure about my height before I joined this sub.

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-14T17:08:39+00:00

Interesting take on TRP

philomexa · 2022-03-14T17:07:51+00:00

I had such a lovely weekend. Small party on Friday for my husband, it was so nice to see him light up and be 'in his element' (socializing, hosting, etc) after 2 years of covid killing his spirit.

Saturday, took kiddo to gymnastics and then had brunch with my mom. We had some time to catch up on gossip, and kiddo was very excited to show off his tumbling skills to grandma.

Sunday the family went to a minor league hockey game hosted by the PTO. Husband and I were featured on the kisscam, which kiddo thought was gross and funny.

It was all very wholesome, lots of bonding and good feelz with friends and family.

The normie life is the good life.

Habil13 · 2022-03-14T16:30:17+00:00

I’ve been unemployed for nearly a month now, and it’s been incredible. I can’t imagine working for the next 50 years.

Slipthe · 2022-03-14T16:22:32+00:00

Perhaps the fact that men stay in relationships while cheating, and women leave relationships once they start cheating is a reflection on how much more men get out of their wives vs what wives get out of their husbands.

FizzleMateriel · 2022-03-14T16:09:00+00:00

I normally feel pretty secure about myself but if I could change anything about me I’d probably add an inch or two to my height.

I saw a video on YouTube where this guy claimed height is one of the biggest determinant variables of male attractiveness to women.

Libah05 · 2022-03-14T16:07:35+00:00

When I was younger I didn’t understand why men would cheat. I thought to myself: “Why would you jeopardise your relationship for sex”.

Now that I’ve gotten older, I fully understand.

RepresentativeSwan1 · 2022-03-14T15:53:24+00:00

PSA: You do not qualify as a sexhaving male until you are on the recieving end of something akin to this;

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/tdpuxp/i_hooked_up_with_a_guy_from_reddit/

Yo_Mamas_azz · 2022-03-14T15:38:41+00:00

From the lens of optimal sexual success, what do you think is the best way to answer the "what are you looking for" question?

For a NonChad male I think anything reffering to casual sex, or being too ambiguous like "Just want to see what happens" is a no go. Because if a nonfugly woman wants casual she can almost assuredly get it from a guy hotter than you easily. When proposing casual sex, looks are the most important criteria by far, so youre entering a losing battle.

I also think being too upfront about wanting a girlfriend makes you come off as desperate and low value, also if she gets into "he might become a bf mode" she is likely to put off putting out to have a better chance at commitment from you. [Remember all the comments of women talking about how they make the guys they like wait]

So I think would need to be something between these two things. Something that doesnt come on too strong, but also at least implies youre open to a relationship.

What do you guys think? What would be some good phrases?

Orange_Paisley · 2022-03-14T15:28:08+00:00

Randy Rainbow is the best.

https://youtu.be/-4GxbdEmpPI

lulll · 2022-03-14T15:08:07+00:00

i always liked how red pill guys constantly repeat the phrase that red pill is about "sharing notes" because it really shows how deeply rooted the whole thing is in geek behavior

CliffPR · 2022-03-14T14:35:19+00:00

Eight hours of work ahead of me and the weather change combined with the time change has given me a splitting migraine.

Pity me.

KrissKrossBoss12 · 2022-03-14T14:19:28+00:00

Is Elon Musk /OurGuy/? 👀

sarkington · 2022-03-14T14:01:23+00:00

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rivetcitymayor · 2022-03-14T13:53:35+00:00

So you mean to tell me this is what y’all consider a dad bod ?

effeteintellectual · 2022-03-14T13:38:39+00:00

What’s with so many women online complaining about men’s “audacity”? Do they not realize that without audacity/sheer will/confidence (whatever you wanna call it), most men would die alone? Audacity is hyper masculine; to be a masculine man means to have audacity. Without audacity, you don’t get males aged 18-60 fighting Russian soldiers in Ukraine.

MisterFlipside · 2022-03-14T13:32:26+00:00

Q4All: what's the minimum amount of sex in your LTR allowed before it starts becoming an issue? And how long would you consider a sexless relationship would have to remain so before it becomes a dead bedroom?

KrissKrossBoss12 · 2022-03-14T13:20:07+00:00

Enzyme cleaners are a godsend 🤯

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-03-14T13:18:07+00:00

Why do women assume what men want is only sex? Of course I want sex but it is only part of what I need.

AquaChip · 2022-03-14T13:17:22+00:00

It is impossible to debate on this sub because when an argument isn’t going someone’s way the first thing they do is make crazy assumptions that aren’t even based in facts.

There’s a situation where a man was cheating on is wife. I say it’s wrong for a man to cheat. Some nob head comes in assuming, “well good for him she probably wasn’t putting out anyway”. Like how do you know that? How do you debate with people who make up random shit on a whim to push their narrative? Like y’all know it’s okay to admit a man can be bad in a situation and just leave it at that? There’s no need to defend this random person’s honor.

ricort · 2022-03-14T12:18:26+00:00

Don’t ever let anyone tell you makeup + filters aren’t a godsend for women.

FenaPugi · 2022-03-14T11:21:11+00:00

Why the fuck was u/gimpgirl555 suspended.

Literally one of the few woman here who provided any meaningful commentary.

OfCatandPagan · 2022-03-14T08:00:30+00:00

My isolated upbringing may have actually saved me from a lot of the bs flying around this sub.

Equal parts sad but also a relief.

tiposk · 2022-03-15T01:59:55+00:00

Seeing a relationship end is like watching the leaves of dying tree fall for the last time. I just know that whoever I cherished the most will no longer be there. I know we will not look into each other's eyes and see the fire of the desire we felt for each other not long ago. I will not have his sweet words of encouragement being whispered into my ear while he holds my hand and guides me through difficult moments. I will never have the moonlight caressing my body ever again while we make love in a field with the river being our only witness. The man who was my beloved companion and protector will no longer be these things to me. He will pack his bags tomorrow and silently move back to our parents home. Isn't it sad when your lover goes back to being just your brother? Discuss.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2022-03-14T06:16:58+00:00

Some people here really are better off dying alone and I don’t feel any shame saying this. Some of you sound so insufferable if your wife or husband cheated on you, I would be very reluctant to blame them. If you’re anything like this offline I think it explains why all your relationships were shit or the people couldn’t wait to bail on your ass.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-14T10:49:17+00:00

R.I.P Scott Hall/Razor Ramon

Rest easy Bad Guy.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-14T08:12:45+00:00

I just came out of The Batman, holy fuck. While the film was a little long there was never a moment that I wasn't invested in what was happening. That was terrific. I don't know if that rivals The Dark Knight or is just below it, but they knocked it out of the park

houstongradengineer · 2022-03-14T09:23:04+00:00

Unpopular Opinion: We should stop lifestyle/kink shaming gimpgirl for the choices she makes with her life. We may not really understand why this is the path she chose, we can theorize all we want because we have questions, but nonetheless she’s a grown ass woman and willingly picked this life. She might bit get why some of you are egalitarian or soft trade, this is not a jab at gimp mind you, but she’s not exactly telling you to conform to her standards.

Edit: Yeah so I never really looked that deep into her profile. Getting some serious /r/RaisedByNarcissists vibes from how she treats her kids.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-03-14T11:38:12+00:00

Also Awhile back One of my best friends before he got married borrowed his brothers car for a date. I think he had a new Porsche cause he really wanted to impress this girl. It worked but he ended up having sex in his brothers car lol. He never told his brother though. He just got it detailed and filled up the tank. If I let you borrow my car I think It’s understood that I don’t want you banging some girl in there.

-angels-fan- · 2022-03-15T01:01:40+00:00

I never used image-based dating apps but I got a little taste today of what they must be like and how they don't do men justice.

We bought a piece of furniture from a thrift store and hired a guy off of Taskrabbit to pick it up and deliver it to us. The guy had a photo on his profile, and granted I'm not really hiring furniture delivery guys based on their attractiveness, but the photo didn't stand out to me at all. But this guy shows up this afternoon and he is gorgeous. Like, I almost gasped when I opened the door. It was definitely the same guy from the picture but the picture didn't do him justice at all. And on top of that he had a British accent.

Granted I'm sure guys put more thought and effort into their OLD pictures than this guy did into throwing up a picture on Taskrabbit so he could deliver people's furniture. But still. The gap between the photo and the irl person was astonishing.

CliffPR · 2022-03-14T22:59:45+00:00

I don't know how hard science is working to clone dinosaurs, but it needs to be working harder.

RepresentativeSwan1 · 2022-03-14T23:27:30+00:00

Narc trait: reading over comments/messages you sent months/years ago and making yourself laugh with your own comments.

Slootando · 2022-03-15T00:15:33+00:00

Broke: Being a married man and pretending to be single to pull chicks.

Woke: Being a married man and wearing it like a badge to pull chicks.

Bespoke: Being single and pretending to be a married man to pull chicks.

2022-03-15T04:10:56+00:00

So I'm having a Diet Dr Pepper and I swear it tastes like narcissism. This sub ruins everything

ThisBoringLife · 2022-03-14T09:58:19+00:00

Finally, after years of actually not searching for it, I found a proper offline music app for my phone.

Tradeoff is I can't find my old data with all my music, so now I have to hunt it down again.

It'll be nice to not have to rely on internet, and youtube ads to listen to the songs I want to hear.

RageAblaze · 2022-03-15T00:24:47+00:00

The reason women hate porn is because it stops the release of vasopresin in males causing them to be less willing to interact socially and also commit in relationships.

<sup>I should just make this a post</sup>

sleuthoftrades1 · 2022-03-15T01:05:48+00:00

It’s pretty crazy how much ass you see these days just going to the gym without even looking for it. Ive never been to a strip club, but I feel womenswear these days makes them superfluous. And this is a gym with a childcare center. I predict we are maybe 4-5 years from women just doing squats in thongs.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-03-15T02:32:44+00:00

y'all ever look at someone you love so much and mourn their eventual loss even if it might be many decades away?

SSCookieLover · 2022-03-15T02:54:32+00:00

Yesterday floor is slippery + fall on my ass + now I can't sit normally + older age fuck up spine + want dead

Quantum_Supremacist · 2022-03-14T06:12:52+00:00

I wish people would make youtube fitness videos with all of their clothes on.

FenaPugi · 2022-03-14T09:52:28+00:00

Fuck my life. Flat tire.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-03-14T11:33:08+00:00

What’s a time in your life where you went somewhere and felt overdressed?

My dad said the first time he went to jury duty he had a suit on and everyone else was dressed like it was casual Friday. I always throw out my notifications

Snoo_16536 · 2022-03-14T23:26:29+00:00

The Halo effect is real. If you’re not taking advantage of this in your life(not just dating), you’re living life with the handbrake on.

As a man, you should max every aspect of your life out. I will manipulate the hell out of this world to get what I want.

Red Piller till ♾

Orange_Paisley · 2022-03-15T02:48:18+00:00

Q4W: Would you rather date a young Jack Kerouac or a young Marlon Brando?

Castracani · 2022-03-15T03:34:05+00:00

SmarmyPapsmear's recent rating threads got me feeling some kinda way but here we go

Spacechicken1998 · 2022-03-14T06:02:08+00:00

Morning ppd, how's everyone on this wonderful Monday morning?

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-03-14T09:39:18+00:00

Was walking in the city. Got hungry, bought a hamburger in McDonalds (haven't eaten int in at least 5-10 years, so I thought "why not?"), continued walking while eating. After eating half the hamburger, I regretted buying it instead of a Kibinas (for the same price). I still felt as hungry as I did before the hamburger. At least the Kibinas would have satiated the hunger.

OfCatandPagan · 2022-03-14T09:55:45+00:00

Valerian root has a funky taste and smell but it's so useful :)

Habil13 · 2022-03-14T11:16:45+00:00

LMAOO

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-03-14T23:29:43+00:00

Absolutely hilarious post on body count. Reddit alt purple haired goblins going crazy in the comment section talking about how OPs bf is homophobic (somehow) lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/te3xhw/dating_a_guy_for_the_first_time_and_not_sure_if_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

figuringMylife · 2022-03-15T00:28:20+00:00

Finally blocked my ex. I’m gonna looksmaxxxxx for the next 2 months. Then get back in the dating game. 😤😤😤

i have a tough life decision to make. how do y’all make decisions?
What subs do you guys/ladies use when you’re trying to self improve?
do you lie about things when you’re dating? the west elm caleb situation has me thinking about how burnt out everyone could potentially be.

thinking of taking Smurf’s advice and gonna start scouting out high end bars for suitors. wondering if i should lie/downplay about my jobs.

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-03-15T01:37:11+00:00

Q4M: Would you rather have gone to prom alone or went with a girl your dad paid to go with you. Which one would hurt more? (This is time sensitive lmao)

lulll · 2022-03-15T02:57:54+00:00

bushy bush

ThisBoringLife · 2022-03-15T03:01:02+00:00

A random thought:

So back in the day I was interested in card magic, fancy card shuffles and all that good stuff. I never stuck to it, but during that phase I happened upon a dude named Xavier Perret.

I always found his videos unique because he'd do magic tutorials without saying a work, which I always thought was cool.

Dude's account seems to have been erased years back for reasons I never found out despite searching relevant subreddits. Archives of his videos still exist, however.

Slipthe · 2022-03-15T04:12:49+00:00

I wonder what this generation of kids is going to look back on and cringe at most.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-15T05:11:07+00:00

Yes as a man I'd love nothing more than for women to use me for my body and objectify me.

That's all I ask for, don't commit just use my body.

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Yo_Mamas_azz · 2022-03-14T23:20:29+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Futurology/comments/te2lt2/more_americans_now_see_single_motherhood/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

In other words, 53% of americans are stupid af

techr0nin · 2022-03-14T23:25:16+00:00

Elon Musk vs Vlad Putin: who you got in single combat, fight to the death?

Musk is 6’2 and 50 years old, Putin is 5’7 and 69 years old. So physically the advantage goes to Musk.

On the other hand Putin grew up on the streets, joined the KGB, and is a judo blackbelt, while Musk looks uncoordinated and is an uber nerd. So the technical edge goes to Putin, and maybe the mental edge as well as far as willingness to kill.

LetsDelveIntoIt1 · 2022-03-15T01:13:45+00:00

Q4W: What would you do if you found out your man watches IG reels and TikTok videos of random hot girls?

2022-03-15T04:39:50+00:00

CMV: Tiktok will be the reason for the next gender war. The takes on that app are just ain’t it.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2022-03-14T12:09:35+00:00

Jus took the personality test. Apparently I’m entj-a , it was pretty interesting.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-03-15T00:58:42+00:00

I don’t know what’s been going on with me lately or if my testosterone is coursing through me by the truckload but I can not stop thinking about pussy. Even more than usual.

I fucked my baby mama until her pussy was too sore, then I fucked the gym bitch and when I went home I beat my dick to porn at least 20 times over the weekend and now after hittin the gym I wanna fuck a bitch again.

Got lowkey heated when the gym bitch sped off because she had shit to do (which is fair don’t get me wrong) but I’m just insatiable right now. I might be sliding into these PPD hoes DMs in a minute smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

RepresentativeSwan1 · 2022-03-14T23:07:50+00:00

A good time to take a break from porn is when you get a twinge of envious rage watching it.

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