Daily Community Chat Megathread

OfCatandPagan · 2022-04-04T20:51:23+00:00

How do I make myself as unappealing as possible to a misogynist?

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T20:50:58+00:00

Q4W who's subscribing to u/lulll's Only Fans?

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T20:36:31+00:00

I'm pretty sure this the account u/TheJim66 was talking about

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-04T20:28:06+00:00

If livs was smart, she woulda made an onlyfans , I know y’all would subscribe

OfCatandPagan · 2022-04-04T20:26:12+00:00

If misogynistic guys are turned off by tattoos or piercings, does that make such things a good deterrent?

ThisBoringLife · 2022-04-04T20:24:55+00:00

On an unrelated note...

FUCK data migrations. A bigger pain in my ass than the squats I did today.

scwizard · 2022-04-04T20:16:56+00:00

Without livs, figuring or g*mpgirl there's a huge dearth of female sexual energy now.

7SovarN · 2022-04-04T20:12:47+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/tw36cp/how_do_guys_actually_feel_about_pierced_nips/

wtf, /r/askmen is BASED?!

effeteintellectual · 2022-04-04T20:12:34+00:00

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Fine_Ad5151 · 2022-04-04T19:59:57+00:00

Being on this sub has made me realize that the guys that have a personal problem with Women really have a problem with Men. They have an equally negative view of Men as the FDS or extreme Feminists do. These guys really portray Men to be desperate, constantly horny, incapable of emotional connection, incapable of self control or rationality. I just realized that a lot of the issues they have with Women is from seeing Men as victims. I actually disagree more with some of the Men here more than the Women (though a big part of that is the ratio of Men to Women)

OfCatandPagan · 2022-04-04T19:57:29+00:00

What's wrong with women being cautious exactly?

ChromaticVengeance · 2022-04-04T19:54:37+00:00

All I see is a man on some form of treatment.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-04T19:47:01+00:00

I really did declare victory too soon on 🦝. Next plan is to trap him and then release him far away from my house 😂.

tiposk · 2022-04-04T19:43:20+00:00

Dear FlamingCoochies,

I just came here to say that cuckoldry is a valid fetish to have, there's no need to angrily project it on the rest of us perverts who post on PPD. We have our own fetishes and there's no need for us to deal with yours too.

With love,

Tiposk

scwizard · 2022-04-04T19:37:04+00:00

I could see myself being with someone one day who had a "slut phase" but I dunno if I could be with a girl who desperately hoped that every man she slept with during her slut phase, would fall for her and want to marry her.

TheJim66 · 2022-04-04T19:28:23+00:00

Just saw some chick on tik tok analyzing (and agreeing) with a book that claims the SMP is lopsided in men's favor.... Honestly I don't know how you can be dumb enough to actually believe this and still function like a normal human being. Every argument she made was so lacking in awareness of reality and full of apex fallacy that it reminded me of the wonderful debates we have here.

Here's the summary of the book for anyone interested:

It’s not that he’s just not that into you—it’s that there aren’t enough of him. And the numbers prove it. Using a combination of demographics, statistics, game theory, and number-crunching, Date-onomics tells what every single, college-educated, heterosexual, looking-for-a-partner woman needs to know: The “man deficit” is real. It’s a fascinating, if sobering read, with two critical takeaways: One, it’s not you. Two, knowledge is power, so here’s what to do about it. The shortage of college-educated men is not just a big-city phenomenon frustrating women in New York and L.A. Among young college grads, there are four eligible women for every three men nationwide. This unequal ratio explains not only why it’s so hard to find a date, but a host of social issues, from the college hookup culture to the reason Salt Lake City is becoming the breast implant capital of America. Then there’s the math that says that a woman’s good looks can keep men from approaching her—particularly if they feel the odds aren’t in their favor.

Fortunately, there are also solutions: what college to attend (any with strong sciences or math), where to hang out (in New York, try a fireman’s bar), where to live (Colorado, Seattle, “Man” Jose), and why never to shy away from giving an ultimatum.

scwizard · 2022-04-04T19:27:30+00:00

For the past 12 years, I was always constantly in relationships, back to back. My spiral downwards really began two years ago when I broke up with my ex whom I dated for 7 years. To make up for that “lost time” and because I felt that I HAD to have someone to validate me and to make me happy, I started my dating binge and met guy after guy after guy (all LVM). You would think that getting manipulated by a narcissist, getting gaslit, taken advantage of, stalked, pouring my heart and soul into LVM who never even deserved an ounce of my love and EVEN getting an STD, I would wake up and see the truth. But sadly, it took many more attempts until recently. I don’t know what it was about my most recent experience with an LVM, but it doesn’t even matter. This isn’t about him. Something in me cracked and I just had enough. I finally realized that I was in deep denial, and I was really hurting myself by allowing myself to go through this, again and again. Why am I doing this?

Sluttiness can be fun but this is just tragic.

It's also like, really shortsighted you know. Sorta fool me once shame on you fool me again and again and again and...

An actual prostitute has enough self awareness to know that the connection isn't real. Whereas in her situation she was just lying to herself.

Habil13 · 2022-04-04T18:47:34+00:00

CMV: - Thinking you’re going to get divorced raped is an irrational fear

Thinking the mother of your child is going to cheat and say the baby is yours, is an irrational fear
Thinking you’re going to get raped walking through a dark alley is an irrational fear.

Habil13 · 2022-04-04T18:45:43+00:00

You know how TRP says women only look at Chad as men? The same can be said about men only looking at Stacy as women.

There is an abundance of average women who are attention starved. The ones who have a private instagram only for their friends and classmates etc.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T18:43:07+00:00

What y'all think about that Lia Thomas

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-04T18:42:02+00:00

Enough with these n count posts nobody likes thots and whores we all know that

CliffPR · 2022-04-04T18:27:04+00:00

Do people here believe in the Smiley Face Killer/s? Those who do: does the empathy gap have anything to do with how easy people find it to dismiss the idea?

Fine_Ad5151 · 2022-04-04T18:09:48+00:00

The N count/Virginity isn't the defining indicator of compatibility when it comes to sex or intimacy. If anything if you're a virgin and found someone with moderate+ N count, and is still open to forming a relationship, then that displays a level of patience and acceptance that's useful in a relationship.

How you behave and the likelihood I run into guys you fucked/ been in a relationship with are more important factors.

edgyny · 2022-04-04T18:04:23+00:00

My god livs has an army of simps.

2022-04-04T17:59:54+00:00

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edgyny · 2022-04-04T17:55:15+00:00

Random reminder that allowing virgins to vote leads to social collapse.

jackxastolfo · 2022-04-04T17:53:45+00:00

do not interact with women. they want you subservient and to die alone with no offspring of your own.

Dulce__Criatura · 2022-04-04T17:52:59+00:00

The only purpose of a female is to do my hair while I scroll on PPD.

Fine_Ad5151 · 2022-04-04T17:50:26+00:00

She can be a virgin/ have a low N count and still have hoe behaviour. Knowing how to be in a relationship> having a low N count or being a virgin

biggestuzifanea · 2022-04-04T17:40:10+00:00

The women here are actually insane, i don't understand how they argue that women are surrounded by young rich tall men, and at the same time disagree with the redpill

SeaSquirrel · 2022-04-04T17:35:15+00:00

I finally realized why I hate pictures of myself.

Its because my face is flipped compared to mirrors. It makes me hyper aware of all the non-symmetricalness I have, and I think flipped version of me looks like a troll.

But maybe thats just because I’m used to my normal face, and people who have never seen me would think both versions look wack.

Why do I do this to myself.

2022-04-04T17:32:47+00:00

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Habil13 · 2022-04-04T17:26:40+00:00

This thread has pissed me off.

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-04-04T17:19:34+00:00

The Livs4drpepperurge to make eyes and smile at guys in other cars while driving to make them feel good for no reason

purplish_possum · 2022-04-04T17:17:56+00:00

Slow weekend around here. Only one person was are for domestic violence -- a 39 year old woman -- she fought with responding cops too.

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-04-04T17:08:07+00:00

Every girl on hinge in my area is apparently the type of person who will respond in five minutes or five days and likes to eat pasta.

For all the hype around the app as the 'more relationship focused' app, there's exact the same amount of basic bitches on there. They're just forced to write more than their instagram bios.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-04T17:06:06+00:00

Q4A: Is watching home-made porn cucking your present self with your past self?

This cuck culture got me all sorts of twisted

throwaway213091345 · 2022-04-04T17:03:19+00:00

My friend apparently got into a verbal fight with his other friend group. The premise is that he pulled up to dinner with his other friends, who brought along some girls. The ratio is 4 guys and 3 girls, but 2 of the guys are trying to date 2 of the girls. One of the guys trying to get a nut suggested the men take the bill and split it 4 ways between the men. This caused a fight between all involved because some deemed it unfair, and the girls started getting angry saying things like "it's just female privilege," "we are hot, so that's how it works," and "I could find another guy who makes 6 figures."

My ladies need to learn how to gold dig better. The joke is that 1 of the 2 men is my other friend, who has told me in private he's just trying to sleep with her but is now breaking it all off.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-04T16:59:33+00:00

Lmao looksmatch or nah ?

dbz19 · 2022-04-04T16:47:37+00:00

Which is more unforgivable, having a height preference or having a virgin/low N count preference?

Katatonicsnake · 2022-04-04T16:37:09+00:00

I follow a group in Facebook, it focuses on women and wealth. Today someone asked everyone about money, and how it is that a spouse has a big salary/is rich. Almost no one said that it’s important to them, but some pointed out that they would want a man who earns about the same as them, and if there’s debt, man should have a realistic plan on how they are going to pay it.

Maybe this is a cultural difference (I live in Finland), but the group in question is full of women who value wealth and money, and even they didn’t think finding a wealthy man is that important. Makes me wonder why so many men on this sub keep talking about women only caring about money?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-04T16:29:47+00:00

Patches is the best npc and I strive to be like him everyday

annabeelongx · 2022-04-04T16:22:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/tw1dur/new_bf_goes_super_slow_and_stops_during/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

I’m surprised Reddit isn’t giving him any flack for dating a girl in her early 20s to be honest. It could be because he’s inexperienced, but Reddit is known for their hatred of age gaps.

tiposk · 2022-04-04T16:17:06+00:00

Just got back from a 7-day Reddit suspension for "harassment". Looks like someone reported a sarcastic reply I made to somebody else as the person I replied to was just laughing and agreeing.

Reddit admins are a bunch of retards and the person who reported me is a little cunt. CMV

FizzleMateriel · 2022-04-04T16:02:47+00:00

I don’t get what’s abnormal or weird or a red flag about a 32-year-old man who doesn’t want to be with a 24-year-old virgin woman. Are people here really that cynical or short-sighted?

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-04T15:57:16+00:00

Have seen a laughable amount of, "Just Zelensky Max" kind of advice from women to short men. lmao listen to yourselves. Just stop. My sides.

techr0nin · 2022-04-04T03:37:29+00:00

Blue pill man: "I love my high-n wife 🤡"

Red pill man: "Yea she's pretty great"

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-04T14:02:46+00:00

I imagine [certain PPD dudes] watching female solo masturbation porn so he isn't being cucked by the male porn stars. Then the girl pulls out a dildo bigger than his dick and he gets mad and goes "fml, I've been cucked again!" And makes a thread on PPD about cuck culture

-angels-fan- · 2022-04-04T03:46:48+00:00

Another day, another fake antiwork post voted to the top of /r/all

No way even the worst boss is going to fire you before you even start for asking when payday is.

That sub is full of the lowest IQ idiots on the planet.

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-04-04T06:29:32+00:00

Man, if the majority of women in society had the personality of women active on r/TwoXChromosomes and r/AskWomen, I think I’d turn gay.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T09:34:25+00:00

Every time body count preferences come up there's always a girl who professes that she doesn't understand why body count matters at all to men seeking companions.

It's always said like her lack of understanding has some sort of probative weight on men's relationship choices. Like she's God. Just because SHE doesn't understand, it's dumb.

OfCatandPagan · 2022-04-05T00:06:56+00:00

Men saying that women go on dates for free food is them admitting that they have nothing else to offer

The male version of "you only have your pussy to offer"

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-04-04T06:36:54+00:00

If you think socializing is a scary, boring chore, don't expect people to like you. That goes for men and women

redder_man · 2022-04-04T02:02:33+00:00

Men in this sub complain about how shitty most women are but can’t help themselves from being attracted then they wonder how come some or a majority of women look past Chad’s bad behaviour. They’re human just like you.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-04T22:55:04+00:00

Suicide is the ultimate cuck culture because you literally don't get to have sex anymore

poppy_blu · 2022-04-04T22:59:54+00:00

Ladies (and I’m especially talking to the younger ones here), quit apologizing to these fucking guys here for living your life and making your own choices. Whether it’s choosing to be cautious, to date men you find attractive, have sex the way you want it, you do not need to apologize to them and you certainly are not obligated to coddle their victimhood mentality because they gaslight you by telling you that if you don’t you hate men/have no empathy/are morally repugnant/etc. That is not empathy, it’s manipulation. Fuck them.

And inb4 they come back with “you can do what you want but I won’t LTR you.” Laughing my black ass off. You may have already noticed we weren’t checking for you anyway.

Enough is enough.

-angels-fan- · 2022-04-04T03:11:58+00:00

If you're looking though old high school photos and you see a smoking hot pic of your wife at 16/17, does it make you a pedophile to think your wife at 16/17 was smoking hot?

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-04T20:52:50+00:00

Staying/getting out of the bitterness rabbit hole was tough but I’m glad I didn’t fall completely into that during my worst phase. I’m glad I have this sub and you guys to talk to :). Which is weird considering you would prob think it would make someone more bitter but it somehow hasn’t.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-04T23:42:34+00:00

I was listening to a podcast with female hosts and they said : “ if you apologize to your man first after an argument, he’ll love you for that cause women don’t do this “

And they HAVE THE NERRVEEE TO SAY the bar is low for men ,guys😂 😂 foh

All they have to do is apologize lol

Bandit174 · 2022-04-04T05:51:20+00:00

Cool income distribution visual from dataisbeautiful

FenaPugi · 2022-04-04T09:42:52+00:00

Shills aplenty here on reddit and increasing substantially lately.

I smell an IPO in the works...

So where we heading once PPD is removed?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-04T12:43:51+00:00

One of My friends is having affair with this married girl at his Job the last 4 months. Not only is this chick lying to her husband that she’s fucking another man, he doesn’t know she’s on birth control. Dude thinks there’s something wrong with him why he can’t get her pregnant. Think about it, you are raw dogging your wife on a semi regular basis for months and she never gets knocked up.

It’s crazy They got married last August and already she’s no longer attracted to him

DivineDaedra · 2022-04-04T22:22:59+00:00

Has anyone checked on FlamingCoochies? I haven’t seen his requisite comment about cucks and finding a virgin gf yet today. I’m starting to get worried.

JMoon33 · 2022-04-04T02:14:40+00:00

Had my first MFF threesome yesterday. 5/5. Would recommend.

JohnDoe_Rip · 2022-04-04T02:30:58+00:00

Can a mod answer how does the post approval process work? Does a mod have to manually approve a post and it’ll show up or is it a bot that’s set up? Asking because I see some posts get approved then get taken down by mods like a couple hours after because they broke some type of rule..if it’s manual approval why approve the post in the first place if it broke a rule?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-04-04T11:02:46+00:00

CMV: the concept of "closure" after a break up is pointless and does nothing but extend the break up period needlessly.

If someone has dumped you, you're never going to get an answer from them that is satisfying. It's done, it's over. There's no reason to have prolonged discussions where you're never going to get answers that satisfy, you're most likely just going to get answers that hurt you even more.

Just go no contact (at least for a while depending on your social situation), move on and get on some new puss/dick.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T22:52:21+00:00

Men and women prioritise different things but have a tendency to project their wants onto the opposite sex for some reason.

Every time I hear a woman describe a "great girl who's single" she's always at the top of her career great uni education, popular, confident, funny etc and I'm not saying guys don't want these things but they're low in importance compared to looks, kindness, health and availability. The former are things that women want in men.

Similarly "nice guys" are emulating what they would want from a girl. A kind, agreeable woman who's available.

thetruthishere_ · 2022-04-04T02:08:26+00:00

Have a good Monday!

madsskayyy · 2022-04-04T05:24:08+00:00

Life is good and rewarding. Sending good vibes to my favorite nut jobs on the internet❤️😚

FlamingCoochies · 2022-04-04T06:50:03+00:00

I got banned from r/AskMen for calling someone a cuck. Well, turns out the word "cuck" is banned in their sub. Oh, the little cucks need their safe space huh?

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2022-04-04T10:18:01+00:00

What’s another sub like PPD where I can make myself angry about shitty and deluded opinions?

edgyny · 2022-04-04T11:58:47+00:00

Q4M who claim to care deeply about N-counts

Do you openly advertise your N-count requirements on your OLD profile? Why not?

Does rape increase N-count? If a women you're dating asks if you would date a rape survivor and you would not, would you answer "no" before knowing whether or not she is a rape survivor? Would you ask her to clarify whether her body count included the rapist or not? Would you put "no rape survivors" on your OLD profile?

How would you feel about a woman who refuses to date below 6' but doesn't put that on their OLD profile and doesn't bring it up until meeting you? What if she waits until the question of being exclusive comes up?

Suppose this woman waits until you say you love her and whips out a cloth measuring tape to confirm your height? Would you feel like she's jerked you around and wasted your time when she could have just listed the requirement on her profile?

in4b "STRAWMAN!" and "No, it's women who refuse to directly answer questions"

lulll · 2022-04-04T23:24:22+00:00

this is the thread where you say sorry now say youre sorry

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-04T02:10:15+00:00

I usually like thicker asseted women but I make an exception for taller slim tomboy types. Probably cuz this girl I liked when I was younger. Problem for me is I think most of them grow out of it in their teens or if they don’t their gay lol

MissLute · 2022-04-04T08:06:06+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/tvt6t7/trans_man_discusses_how_once_he_transitioned_he/ well anyway

321gumby · 2022-04-04T09:27:18+00:00

Hi all.

Looking for some book recommendations.

I want to be a better man. More confident. Less needy. Take action.

I just want to lvl up financially and mentally.

Already work out (275 bench, 405 squat, 500 DL) and have put alot of work on my physical appearance. I'm not that tall but the woman in my life have been getting better and better.

I just lack the lifestyle and mentality to keep them very long or have enough of them that I don't care.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-04-04T10:05:30+00:00

Almost every single CMV thread:

"I believe X, CMV"

Someone writes a well informed, in depth commentary on the matter providing a well reasoned argument to the counter

Response: "nah"

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-04T10:43:48+00:00

Women refuses to have sex with boyfriend because of his… wait… underwear color?? 😂

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T12:54:04+00:00

CMV Bitching about men's body count preferences is the female equivalent of inceldom in terms of entitlement.

It reeks of "I'm entitled to loving companionship and denying me of it is evil"

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-04T15:19:54+00:00

The dentist asked me "what's going on?", and I couldn't think of anything off the cuff and just said "tooth stuff".

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-04-04T15:42:47+00:00

I was seeing quite a few comments from Bluepillers yesterday claiming that short men are only single because they're too insecure to date taller women. In response to that, I want to share the results of a poll I took on r/short a while ago

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-04T21:44:36+00:00

I’m scared to have a sugar daddy but I really wish I wasn’t :/

2022-04-04T22:11:55+00:00

Have a restaurant I like that I sometimes go to for lunch

go there one day, new owner but same restaurant concept/menu

prices have gone up and the quality of the food is not as good

disappointed, never go there again

look them up on google on a whim, "permanently closed"

many such cases

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-04T22:38:45+00:00

Does anyone remember "The One" with Jet Li? Where he goes around killing alternate reality versions of himself.

Is this considered cuck culture?

lulll · 2022-04-04T22:41:40+00:00

I’m trying to sleep with one of every zodiac sign and document my thoughts. For some reason I have a thing for Taurus as I have 3 of them. No other doubles.

I still need Libra, Gemini, Scorpio, Capricorn

scwizard · 2022-04-04T23:57:41+00:00

I have a confession.

I'll happily take basically anyone out to steak other than an eligible bachelorette.

Taking a girl out to steak makes me feel like a bitch. Taking a guy or an old lady out to steak is just an excuse to hang out and chat.

I mean like last longhorn steakhouse tho not a expensive place

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-04-05T00:46:00+00:00

Is this is a cuck culture?

Orange_Paisley · 2022-04-05T00:57:50+00:00

I can’t deal with the insanity of you bastard and batardesses today 🤦‍♂️

This is why vodka was invented.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-04-05T01:42:40+00:00

Men are more sensitive than women and I live by that

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-04T02:11:59+00:00

Who was your first celebrity crush? I think mine was Jennifer love Hewitt. I remember when boys in class would discuss female celebs we thought were cute that was one of the few that girls in my class wouldn’t hate on. Like other celebs I would hear things like “she ain’t all that”. With her the girls in my class would be like “I can’t front she’s mad pretty”

-angels-fan- · 2022-04-04T03:25:43+00:00

The only purpose of a man is to scratch my back while I fall asleep

decoy88 · 2022-04-04T10:04:07+00:00

It will never cease to amaze me the inability of users on this sub to answer direct questions directly.

Often the answer to a yes or no question is met with a tangent of waffling bullshit, which in my real life I’ve experienced way more with women than men.

But often it’s other self-identified men that respond like this, fuck it’s frustrating and halts actual discussion and debate.

In the back of my mind I think “why is this dude talking like a woman? Just speak directly like a man!”

It just goes to show that men and women aren’t so different, because there’s bitches in every gender.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T11:12:50+00:00

Thoughts on this TwoX post about Croatia?

321gumby · 2022-04-04T11:44:07+00:00

I'll check it out!!

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-04T13:51:12+00:00

I'm back. You can all unlock your chastity belts and cock cages

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T13:57:30+00:00

Imagine being in an exclusive relationship and using condoms.

Ew.

Ewwww.

I think I'd rather be a cuck

Sad-Program-3444 · 2022-04-04T14:10:35+00:00

I must have 5+ people blocking me cause I be seeing way too much deleted/unavailable and I only know of one person who told me they were blocking me

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T14:12:46+00:00

Q4W who won't consider a man as a partner if he's paid for sex. Will it matter if he can be 100% sure the girl wasn't trafficked, tricked or forced into it via circumstance. Say he has a friend or a friend of a friend who does it and is happy doing it.

Would you still be averse to this man? Why? Assuming he's been tested and has no std's etc.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-04T14:32:52+00:00

The amount of people who thought this was a real story lol.

Novadina · 2022-04-04T21:33:48+00:00

There’s not going to be citations for this because these are new concepts to the world I discovered with my guy friends. I’m really smart lol. Guys only have basic emotions like anger, depression, happy, horny. Women have complex emotions meaning they could have a unique emotion for anything.

🤣 Some of the people here are really something…

lordofcin_2 · 2022-04-04T21:43:32+00:00

I came out to myself as trans a couple days ago:) I’m still pretty nervous to tell a lot of people and I’m terrified of what people will think once (not if) I actually transition

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T21:55:50+00:00

Does FDS suggest a proposal ultimatum? Sounds like them and tbh it sounds pragmatic.

If a guy could get away with it he'd just stay unmarried with a woman as long as possible tbh.

scwizard · 2022-04-04T22:07:15+00:00

Reddit seems really laggy right now.

I post a comment and I can't see it until later, but people still reply but then I click on the link and I don't see anything.

At least I hope it's some computer thing and not me being shadowbanned or something.

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-04T22:19:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/twatcy/paying_a_service_to_tell_my_spouse_he_sucks/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

I have to believe this is fake because it’s too pathetic and makes me sad.

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-04-04T22:20:49+00:00

Only in small farm towns I swear to god. I stopped for coffee and someone’s chicken was running through the drive thru. I managed to snatch her.

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-04T22:53:03+00:00

Damn, that sexual assault threat post really triggered EVERYBODY

2022-04-04T23:18:48+00:00

In a discussion on "favorbois" (men women keep around to drive them places, help them move, etc.), I realized that I have never been a favorboi.

I've had tons of friendships with women at work to the point of being asked if I was dating some of these women. Yet, I have never been asked for a favor. Nor have these women wanted the friendship to leave the context (work, or the bar).

I've realized, since some have called me handsome, that they basically thought I was probably too handsome to be a favorboi and it would be a waste of time asking me. I think because they assumed I would have other female attention and wouldn't fall for it.

And yet, none ever wanted to DATE me. And I've been single for long periods while having these friendships. I'm very handsome, but average height and shoulders aren't big and broad. So I've never been a Tinder fuckboi (bottom 90%, what can I say?)

This has all made me realize that women are REFUSING to date men whom they are attracted to, whom they believe have options with other women. Because those men aren't good enough for the concept of what they're SEXUALLY entitled to.

So all these single women out there who are willfully single, they are actually in constant contact with men whom they are attracted enough to for dating, but they're choosing not to. I can't help but blame some sexual feature. I'd blame these women for "holding out" for sex with a hot guy and sacrificing their chances at a decent relationship.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-04-04T23:32:41+00:00

Ladies (and I’m especially talking to the younger ones here), apologize to these fucking guys here for living your life and making your own choices. Whether it’s choosing to be cautious, to date women you find attractive, have sex the way you want it, you do need to apologize to them and you certainly are obligated to coddle into their victimhood mentality because they gaslight you by telling you that if you don’t you hate men/have no empathy/are morally repugnant/etc. That is empathy. Fuck them.

And inb4 they come back with “you can do what you want but I won’t date you.” Laughing my white ass off. You may have already noticed we weren’t checking for you anyway.

Enough is enough.

Urbantexasguy · 2022-04-04T23:38:21+00:00

Hurt feelings are running strong here today...tonight's dance in the gym, has been cancelled! :((

tiposk · 2022-04-04T23:49:58+00:00

How many of you wolf realistically days a poly person? How many of you want it for the connections or because you think it’s a harem?

scwizard · 2022-04-04T23:54:21+00:00

Men saying that women go on dates for free food is them admitting that they have nothing else to offer

This is like the_notebook_what_do_you_want.gif

Slipthe · 2022-04-04T23:54:27+00:00

Man I really liked Jon Stewart, but he latest episode on his show really made him look over-emotional, disrespectful and intellectually dishonest.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-04-05T02:25:59+00:00

If he don’t sleep with a fan on, he ain’t the one

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OmarNBradley · 2022-04-04T06:51:48+00:00

I have a question for the ladies here that have gone through labour: does C section help with recovery and have less lose skin, compared to natural birth?

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-04T10:26:40+00:00

Q4W who have dated inexperienced men before- Did you have to do any guiding/“teaching” when having sex for the first time? Were you turned off by having to do that?

scwizard · 2022-04-04T21:51:47+00:00

Putting money in the stock market will really change how you look at money.

I have well under 100k in stocks but my account will still go up by 5000 or down by 10,000 some days.

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-04-05T01:19:25+00:00

"Women are trading relationships for sex"

I can't believe how many men here think this is what women are trying to do. This is what it may seem like to you, as a sex-obsessed male autist, but that's not what relationships are to women (or, ideally, at all)

I mean, what do you think would happen if a man went home and told his woman he was only with her for sex? You think she's gonna be like, "Yeah, I know, I'm chill with that"? Or do you think that's a confirmation of her worst fears, and a relationship-ending statement?

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-04T10:38:49+00:00

Whenever a women says that she would never approach, and doesn't recommend it for women, I think to myself these women would rather risk being harassed and assaulted than being pumped and dumped. That's wild to me.

The kinda r*pe culture that feminists are opposed to can only perpetuate itself in a world where men are expected to approach despite being of lower SMV naturally.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-04T11:48:23+00:00

A: Humans have 10 digits on their hand.

B: but there are people with fewer or more....

A: yes but we need to be able to speak generally.

A lot of times in ppd, people don't allow generalizations. I mean sure there are always exceptions but do you also see the pattern?

Maybe we need words to express relative strength of belief that is more precise than just "most", "almost", "a lot", etc.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-04T13:28:18+00:00

https://mobile.twitter.com/aella_girl/status/1510482863627591683?s=21&t=Q10vmK_eY3GkqD3FgKzF9w

I think men should take note. She gives a lot of the calculus that a lot of women go through. She even offers solutions if you're paying attention.

Don't be in her circles. Have your shit together. Be attractive. Don't say anything dumb and axe yourself. Allow them the plausible deniability. Be that guy off the radar. Actually be a good lay. Some good shit there.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-04T04:53:13+00:00

If you are attractive and genuine - you get a blue pill relationship.

If you are unattractive and genuine - you start failing in dating. Some people think they should play games and they stop being genuine, honest and straightforward.

But the thing is, you gotta just become attractive and go back to dating and you would have to think so much or play any games.

WilliamWyattD · 2022-04-04T06:47:58+00:00

Hot Take of the Day to Test the Waters

Men say dating is unfair because men want women more than the other way around.

But, intuitively, does it really seem ideal or fair to balance this out with external inputs like economic or safety need, like was done in the past? Especially when those external inputs were often artificially tilted to give men advantage?

Given that the genders are different, can mating be exactly 'equal' (whatever that means)? And if equal is not on the table, then isn't the most fair thing we can do to have mating slowly trend towards being determined purely by choice based on desire, attraction and companionship? Why isn't that fair?

(And if that means women have an advantage in mating due to innate psychological differences, then maybe that is just how it is supposed to be. Men do have the ability to control their behavior if they want, even if it is harder. To have higher standards. To demand things from women, etc.)

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