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ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-06-18T16:56:18+00:00

Women giving dating advice on Reddit: You need to take a shower.

Women on r/relationship_advice : My boyfriend collects his own urine to bathe in and uses his own fecal matter as deodorant, what do I do?

lulll · 2022-06-18T13:14:11+00:00

im really enjoying seeing all this crypto garbage crash, thats what you get for fucking the video card market up for years you pieces of fucking shit

SerpentCypher · 2022-06-18T02:10:17+00:00

Sorry, I know I posted this already but the thread immediately closed and I dunno. I feel like I just need some positive vibes my way right now.

So my unicorn turned out not to be a unicorn. I am heartbroken.

I have nowhere else to do it so I need to vent. This isn't about pills or who is right or wrong. I am just completely broken.

My gf of 5 years has been emotionally cheating on me with a married man. The only reason it wasn't physically cheating is because he said no.

5 years of my life gone. We have been long distance the last few months due to work and she became distant about a month ago, but told me it was nothing to worry about and she was just working a lot and sleeping in her free time. She's never given me a reason to distrust her before so I accepted it without question.

My first warning signs where when she stopped answering my messages. I would go 3 days sometimes without her even reading my messages to her, let alone getting a reply. Again, she told me she was just working a lot and tired and she wasn't answering messages from anyone.

Anyway. On Tuesday I finally had some free time and messaged her to no answer as usual. So I went on my PlayStation to do some gaming. I checked her profile out of habit and it said she hasn't been online in a week but her recent activity feed said she had been playing a game the day before. And she had a new guy in her friends list.

She finally answered my message a few hours later and I asked who the guy was she told me he was just some guy from reddit who she had talked about a film dissertation with. I said cool, nice to know she had been telling me she had no free time while she was hanging out with random guys from the Internet.

She got really defensive and thats when I started to get worried. She said she's an adult and she can do what she wants in her free time. I agreed, but said it's shady that she's lying to me about being busy while hanging out with men.

Thats when things completely fell apart. She told me she doesn't want me in her life anymore and that she can't take all the negativity and me questioning her all the time, despite this being the first time in 5 years I have questioned her about anything regarding her actions with other guys.

We started to argue since this came out of absolutely nowhere and when I said we can work it out she told me no. Her mind is made up and she's interested in someone else, that it won't lead anywhere, but it made her realise that she doesn't want me anymore.

I asked who she is interested in. And she admitted that it was the "just some guy" from reddit. I asked her how long she was been interested in him. She said she has been talking to him for around a month but realised she was attracted to him around 2 weeks ago.

I asked if she had been hanging out with him while she was telling me she was at work or sleeping. She said yes. I asked why she said nothing would come of it. She aid he is happily married with 2 kids.

She then admitted to making a move on him and that he rejected her and told her he sees her as a friend. Then I insulted her for the first time and last time ever. I said she was a selfish piece of shit. Not only for doing what she did to me but also for trying to rip a guy's family apart and not thinking about his wife or kids. I actually can't believe she has done this. I thought she was a good person. The best of people actually.

Then I asked her if she is going to continue hanging out with him. She said yes. I said it's shady as fuck that he wants to keep seeing her knowing she has feelings for him. She said nothing would come of it and that him being married is "a huge barrier."

I said she shouldn't be seeing a guy being married as a barrier, it should be a no go.

Everything after that is a blur. In one day I went from being in a happy relationship with what I thought was the love of my life to being alone, hurt, and confused. I can't sleep. I feel shell-shocked. Physically weak. I don't know what to do. I feel like I am going to throw up 24/7. This is the absolute lowest point in my life and I dont know how I am going to recover from this.

meteorness123 · 2022-06-18T04:36:09+00:00

Have you guys noticed that redpill gurus have all wives and girlfriends while speaking out against it and that in general their own advice contradicts their own life ?

These dudes are internet marketers, remember that.

simeneta_two · 2022-06-18T16:26:08+00:00

My favorite part of being a straight passing bisexual is creeping on women and they think I’m just giving them girl compliments 😌

scwizard · 2022-06-18T17:46:38+00:00

Ugg the "life on easy mode" thread is so autistic.

Do you people even know any women or hot women?

-passepar2t- · 2022-06-19T01:59:26+00:00

Anyone work/ed with multiple very attractive women?

I did and I was surprised how completely I could slap flat any kind of emotion that tentatively wants to grow into a crush. I mean I've jerked off to mental images of them, sure, but it's not fucking with our professional relations at all.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-06-19T01:44:42+00:00

Getting downvoted for expressing why I want a submissive woman. This just proves to me that modern women are clueless. They want a tall, masculine man who is also somehow a submissive beta cuck. The logic is lost on me.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-06-19T01:29:21+00:00

Defending bigger girls isn’t easy but it’s honest work

EulenWatcher · 2022-06-18T02:55:41+00:00

Q4A, do you think it's okay to decline sex from time to time when you're in committed long-term relationship? I'm not talking about deadbedroom here, you still have regular sex, you just don't practice "free use" and from time to time your/your partners advances aren't successful.

Yesterday I've read a few users seeing it as a lack of empathy/shitty relationships/damaging and I'm kind of surprised with this take. Imv it's okay not to have sex each time you or your partner wants it and expect it to be otherwise is almost infantile or at least highly idealistic I guess. Not every want or whim has to be fulfilled on the spot for good relationships.

35needbaby · 2022-06-18T03:58:19+00:00

I had never really thought about this, but does inviting someone to your place after a few dates mean “come over and fuck”?

I was a virgin when I started dating my husband. After around four dates, I invited him over to my house. I never intended for it to be sexual. We cuddled up and watched a movie and then went to bed. We did that a couple more times before I trusted him enough to have sex with him.

We were chatting last night and he said he thought we were going to fuck that night. I had just never thought about it too much. I just wanted him to come over to spend time. I really wanted to trust him before I did such a personal thing with him.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-06-18T08:19:20+00:00

The amount of people that say rape and sexual assaults don't happen as much and aren't actually a thing to be worries about is astounding. Do you even realize how little rape cases actually get brought up with law and how difficult it is to be taken seriously? If you get raped and your rapist is choking you so you can't say "no" the police will say it wasn't rape because you didn't say no. Most victims of rape won't even go to the police. Please stop saying it's not real.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-06-18T02:04:28+00:00

Shout out to all the individuals here; that are respectful, and civil in their discourse. It’s appreciated!

Godspeed and good luck!

EulenWatcher · 2022-06-18T14:27:22+00:00

A lot of Pick Me accusations are born out of women jealous of the attention and affection that other women garner from men.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-06-18T17:32:56+00:00

Why can't DNA testing be a man's own way of bonding with his baby.

You guys get pregnancy and making it and feeling it kick and grow.

That 99.999999% could just hit different, be our own emotional anchor.

Why must it be an accusation of cheating (in your minds cause it isn't necessarily)

tired_hillbilly · 2022-06-18T02:06:51+00:00

Shout out to all the individuals here; that are disrespectful, and rude in their discourse. It’s funny!

Godspeed and good luck!

Fat_Papaya · 2022-06-18T02:17:17+00:00

Many of the women on this sub fail to realize that their incredibly 'sheltered' experiences effectively make their opinions somewhat invalid for a number of the topics on this sub.

Not to say that their opinions are completely worthless but there is a certain blindly-naive optimism they have for some things.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-06-18T05:14:13+00:00

Fellas if she loves the movie Gone Girl, particularly finds the Cool Girl monologue "relatable", RED FLAG, do not commit lol

jackedsoon · 2022-06-18T14:06:43+00:00

Only in UK will weather be scorching hot one day then cold and rainy the next

bludkraze · 2022-06-18T16:22:25+00:00

Is it just me or is there an influx of really offensive feminists in here lately?

SeaSquirrel · 2022-06-18T17:41:23+00:00

How well do you think the alternate universe version of you, thats exactly the same but the oppoiste sex, is doing?

Lets assume no gender dysphoria

-passepar2t- · 2022-06-18T18:08:37+00:00

This talk of rough sex being better than loving sex and people saying how both are important to have.

The dilemma is very easily resolved. First roughly pound the shit out of her, then tenderly cuddle with her. The ladies cannot resist hard, dominant sex, followed by affectionate postcoital snuggles, in my experience. As long as you make her come at some point during the evening.

MrMushySauce · 2022-06-19T01:24:50+00:00

Damn

Burnt through all my options recently so I hit up girls who I'd had ok connections with but nothing ever came of it over the last few months. Texted 16 girls

Results:

1 response of "who is this" followed by me sending a pic she'd know me by followed by left on read

Pour one out for ya boy.

FancyComfortable4678 · 2022-06-18T04:19:41+00:00

Sometimes people on this sub act like women are psychic. “Maybe the reason you aren’t successful with women is because you’re desperate and they can tell.” Or, “maybe it’s the fact you believe this about women and you’re a misogynist”, where “this” is whatever was said that’s critical of women or the dating market

When I try to flirt with women, I don’t think the reason they aren’t interested is because they can magically tell I’m a PPD poster or that I think hypergamy is a thing or whatever. I think It’s just because they straight up aren’t attracted to me.

I’m sure there are some guys who just reek of desperation and PUA tips and redpill philosophy to the point where women can obviously tell, but I think a situation where a guy holds all those same beliefs but hides it without the woman’s knowledge (and still isn’t successful) is wayyy more common

meteorness123 · 2022-06-18T07:21:42+00:00

Didn't sleep all night but a friend of mine is getting married. Not sleeping for me is rough. Should I pull through it and not sleep at all ? Don't want to dissapoint him by not appearing either.

smallstarseeker · 2022-06-18T07:31:01+00:00

Appearance and status open the first door.

If you don't have that, then your personality and/or money make you a good friend or BB material.

If your appearance and status open those first door, you could be the biggest piece of shit, and some women will chase after you.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-06-18T13:25:18+00:00

I thought the phrase “guns don’t kill people people kill people” was stupid because I used to think everyone knew that. Sadly, I realize that’s not the case. Anti-gun nuts will piss themselves see a gun, but will totally shrug off people being harmful in other ways. This was especially clear during the Rittenhouse trial. And to a weirder extent, anti-gun people upset that Texans and Floridians dont want kids around drag shows because “What about the guns, you bigots?!”.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-06-18T02:43:48+00:00

I deadass can not hold my liquor at all I’m at this Mexican place and I’m already kinda drunk off one margarita

Over_Noise3530 · 2022-06-18T03:10:32+00:00

I read an interesting article on a pua website today. They have a theory on why the dating marketplace is so bad. It's supposedly meant to keep us single and searching for love as a distraction so that we don't start planning to overthrow our leaders

Mark_Freed · 2022-06-18T04:28:08+00:00

Do you think people tend to take what they get easily for granted?

Like if someone is naturally nice, caring, affectionate, etc vs someone who isn't but you spent time and effort building that relationship where you finally got them to treat you nicely sometimes.

I think I've noticed a trend where the first kind of person, both men and women end up not being valued appropriately.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-06-18T06:47:36+00:00

I never understood the necessity of taking cold showers, so I never tried taking them until this week. I will say the best ones are after the gym, especially on leg day.

smallstarseeker · 2022-06-18T07:51:27+00:00

I see no reason not to have child support capped at like $350,000 a year

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-06-18T09:50:49+00:00

Day 7 of this fucking illness

Guess it'd PPDing all day.

Maybe I'll make a post.

DonQOnIce · 2022-06-18T14:40:44+00:00

It’s crazy how some people actually wear clothing to bed.

John_Oakman · 2022-06-18T16:13:36+00:00

The stating of the fact that sexbots (and AIs*) will never replace genuine love comes from a place of privilege based on the assumption that love & affection is something plentiful and easily attainable. This is obviously not true for significant chunk of the population. It is the same position as of a middle class (and above) person not seeing the point of payday loans: They can easily see the exploitative nature of those things and how to avoid them, but they are also never in a position (or imagine themselves being in such a position) where such predatory institutions are the only viable option available for short term solvency.

*Genuine AIs with true sapience & free will would imply the capability to reject the sexually/romantically undesirables as well.

No-Priority7869 · 2022-06-18T17:36:59+00:00

In case anyone hasn’t tried this yet

https://i.imgur.com/1fzzEgr.jpg

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-06-18T17:58:38+00:00

What I don't understand is why so many men here abhor the promiscuity of women. If they were able to hop on tinder and pull either a 8/10 or millionaire within 30 minutes every month, all of them would fucking do it. Of course.

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-06-18T18:18:36+00:00

I have been home for a week and it's been fascinating to study my wife's schedule and find out just how much I get in the way

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-06-19T01:08:43+00:00

Dry July is coming up ladies and gents, we all participating? Or is our discipline and self control not up to scratch.

bighuddi · 2022-06-18T03:16:44+00:00

iphones autocorrect is psychological broad day assrape at gunpoint.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-06-18T03:24:21+00:00

It's a long video but one with good information , stats and context about themyth of the culture of grapes for all you fellas to watch

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-06-18T04:40:46+00:00

https://mobile.twitter.com/ActionNetworkHQ/status/1537566864272146432

Yeah right, my dad told me he was hearing this in the 80’s how by this time soccer would be the number one sport in America lol.

When I was growing up soccer was viewed as the sport you played when you weren’t good enough to play basketball football or baseball but wanted to claim to be an athlete in high school. Like generally speaking everyone started out playing youth soccer as a starter sport. Then you transitioned(if you were talented enough) to football or basketball. Similar to actual players, the soccer team got the leftover girls the other 3 sports didn’t want.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-06-18T04:48:33+00:00

I’ve awoken a new fetish of girls sucking on my toes

wingsandeyes · 2022-06-18T06:26:05+00:00

I couldn’t go to the movies with my brother since he wanted to bring his girlfriend (in this town).

Brutal.

megachads_waifu · 2022-06-18T06:29:29+00:00

I see those insta trends all the time about catfish filters, but I swear whenever I try them on myself they legitimately make me look worse 😭

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-06-18T07:05:00+00:00

Q4M you’re a billionaire with a peak physique and charisma

Do you want one woman

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-06-18T07:41:15+00:00

Q4A - Which situation would you rather be?

A: You're a 10, but hit the wall hard at 25 years old, quickly falling to below a 5 by 35 years old. (I know this probably is impossible but just for the sake of the hypothetical)

B: You're an 8, and don't hit the wall until 35, to which you fall to about a 5 at 45 years old

C: You're a 6, and you don't really hit the wall, you stay a 6 well into your 50s-60s.

techr0nin · 2022-06-18T07:48:48+00:00

Hot take: Steph Curry > Kobe Bryant all-time.

Aware-Statement-162 · 2022-06-18T08:12:50+00:00

How do you begin a conversation with women on dating apps? I usually look through their profile and I write something referencing their profile or if I see we have something in common I usually comment on that. But the problem is most women's bios are empty and pics really don't show their hobbies. So that basically leaves me with two options: begin a conversation like you would with normal people outside or write some cringy pick up line. Unfortunately, writing a cringe pick up line worked better for me. My theory is that's the reason because it's more polarizing than asking some generic questions because 10 other guys asked her generic questions. But don't these women know I write to almost every match same pick up line?

TigerRude4 · 2022-06-18T09:27:42+00:00

How do you even begin a conversation with women on Tinder? I'll usually try to reference something I see in their profile or try to comment on something we have in common, but most women have empty bios and I can't really see their hobbies from their pics. So that leaves me with 2 options: some generic question how's your day or some cringe pick up line. Pick up lines have landed me more success. Why do you think it's like that? My theory is that pick up lines are a lot more polarizing and original than some generic question, not saying they are original though. Don't women know if he has texted you some dumb pick up line, he does that to every other woman?

megachads_waifu · 2022-06-18T11:29:22+00:00

Starting the day having had a solid 1 hr of sleep! Let's go!!! 👍💪🤙

2022-06-18T11:57:49+00:00

I don’t know who needs to see this, but here you go.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-06-18T13:28:06+00:00

Yeah chest day is cool, but you better not skip cock day at the gym.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-06-18T14:41:34+00:00

I used to be able to dunk a basketball but that’s when I was like 145lbs, that would be fun to do again but I don’t know if it’s possible. Am I just too much man to be dunking now that I’m like 175lbs?

Anti_Thing · 2022-06-18T14:59:50+00:00

How about this. Women who are foolish enough to have unprotected sex with an uncommitted man should be forced to carry the child to term as long as it doesn't seriously threaten their life. Men who are foolish enough to have unprotected sex with an uncommitted women should marry the woman if they agree, or be financially destroyed by massive amounts of child support otherwise.

TigerRude4 · 2022-06-18T16:30:50+00:00

Do you see this comment?

Snoo_16536 · 2022-06-18T17:37:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/9084xr/earning_indicators_of_interest_iois_a_practical/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

TigerRude4 · 2022-06-19T01:04:36+00:00

Y'all need to chill a bit and treat women like human beings it would help.

cruciod · 2022-06-19T01:00:33+00:00

Feel like I'm starting to reach average-male levels of horny these days

Like I'm in the library trying to study for my midterm, why is the feel of my jeans and bra pressed up against me making me feel tingly for like over half-an-hour now 😫

E-2-butene · 2022-06-19T00:52:03+00:00

Tomboys are the best. That is all.

WhiteSeth23 · 2022-06-19T00:44:02+00:00

Why are so many women not physically or sexually attracted to their husbands or SO's? https://www.refinedprose.com/not-attracted-husband/

2pumpschump · 2022-06-19T00:38:42+00:00

Why do women still think a pay gap exists

lulll · 2022-06-19T00:35:56+00:00

kangaroos are the fucking stupidest animals on the planet.

look at these stupid fucking things

annabeelongx · 2022-06-19T00:34:18+00:00

What’s the physiological difference between an 18 and 20 year old?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-06-19T00:30:09+00:00

Reasons why the pay gap exists -

1: I have to do any heavy lifting if there is any

2: I have to get on the fucking ladders

3: I apparently also should know how to do handyman shit as a millenial man even if it's not in my job description

4: I'm expected to pay for dates

This is why I get 25 more cents on the dollar

tired_hillbilly · 2022-06-19T00:03:43+00:00

I'm drunk rn and getting drunker, ama

luliloo · 2022-06-18T23:53:45+00:00

I want a friendzoned bff like this

ScarAdvanced9562 · 2022-06-18T23:46:18+00:00

Mods very gay. I said that white women benefit the most from affirmative action, and apparently that’s a racially charged statement.

EulenWatcher · 2022-06-18T23:41:53+00:00

AWALT all women will feel a DNA test is a relationship ending request instead of just ticking off a box on a checklist of baby stuff to do.

AWALT. All of them. Some men too. But all women.

meteorness123 · 2022-06-18T23:39:10+00:00

Just came back from a wedding. Balding, short guys with very cute girlfriends and them being affectionate with their boyfriends, having eyes only for them.

The reality that I experience is so vastly different from what gets parotted here.

FineDevelopment00 · 2022-06-18T03:27:01+00:00

Q4A: For those of you who have lurked for a long time before posting, how long did you lurk before you started posting?

Personally I've lurked this sub for about a year without making any posts/comments, but recently I've been seeing so many room temperature iq takes that I don't think I can resist much longer

2pumpschump · 2022-06-18T23:36:35+00:00

If a woman gets pumped and dumped it’s because she’s not relationship material

mountainofjoy · 2022-06-18T08:01:15+00:00

I think 'the wall" is nonsense BS.

Do some people hit it? Sure, some people age remarkably badly. A lot of people - men and women alike - let themselves go in marriage and gain weight.

But people on PPD act like all women are suddenly obese hags by 26.

Here's the truth: if you're an attractive person, unless something drastic happens (huge weight gain, lots of smoking/drinking/drugs/hard living) you're going to be generally attractive for the rest of your life. As an attractive 45 year old woman, will you appeal to the average 20 yr old man? no. but that doesn't mean you "hit the wall" ffs

Habil13 · 2022-06-18T13:52:48+00:00

Men dislike simps the same way women dislike sex workers. Neither party want to see their own give up leverage easily.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-06-18T14:28:50+00:00

I just realized the guy I know who gets the most women is a walking red pill but acts blue pilled towards women

banjocatto · 2022-06-18T16:34:16+00:00

A lot of sexlessness isn't due to online dating or 80/20, but changes to the overall structure of society we've experienced over the past 10 years.

One would be car centric cities and a lack of a public "3rd place" (outside of home and work) that has existed for centuries. In car-dependent suburbia, you can't even bar-hop or run into a friend on the street. It's definitely something I noticed when I spent time in Europe, and lived somewhere walkable. Car culture is isolating.

Another one is that work has become more isolating, and socialising is really expensive. Making friends cost money. Going out with friends for a few drinks is really nice but spending the money is painful, and alcohol culture had only made the situation worse.

A lot of people on this sub don't really care about these issues though, and just want to blame women.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-06-18T16:54:24+00:00

I believe if a man has done a reasonable ( not crazy ) amount of self improvement in all areas related to dating and he still struggles

There’s a 99% chance he’s in the wrong location or speaking to the wrong audience.

luliloo · 2022-06-18T23:14:30+00:00

Proof of pay gap: Google pays out $118 million to female staff who earned less than their male colleagues to settle lawsuit

The initial filing said Larmer, a preschool teacher at Google's children center, was paid $18.51 an hour, while a male counterpart with fewer qualifications and less experience received $21 an hour.

No-Priority7869 · 2022-06-18T23:00:10+00:00

I keep getting downvoted and banned on philosophy subs when I look for an argument for an objective, irrefutable value to human life.

If philosophers don’t have the willpower and courage to argue for that, who the hell does? Is this because they know such a thing doesn’t exist?

Edit: copy/pasting my position from another comment:

Start from a pessimistic argument: Life is all suffering with rarely spaced moments of joy; these moments are the reason one should live.
Extrapolate negative utilitarianism from there: We should remove suffering from the world no matter the cost, then life will be all moments of joy.
Cause suffering, which even the best humans do unintentionally. Oh shit now we’re hypocrites. Oh well it was unrealistic anyway.
Reflect that humans have the power to end themselves and thus one cause of suffering.
Now, tell me what good there is that humans do in the face of the suffering they cause that gives a valid reason why humans (or individual humans) should continue to exist.

People can’t seem to argue in good faith about this subject. It offends them and freaks them out.

All I want is an irrefutable argument for continuing to exist that doesn’t require me to lie to myself about the destructive hurtfulness of the experience, and that I can use against any subjective argument against my value. There doesn’t seem to be one.

edgyny · 2022-06-18T22:55:55+00:00

tfw your oil change is cheaper than filling your gas tank.

18472642 · 2022-06-18T22:34:03+00:00

Always found it funny that generally, women tend to recoil in disbelief when men describe common shitty female behaviours, only to immediately recognise the exact same things when a situation like say, their frenemy starts showing interest in and trying to flirt with her man. All of a sudden, these same women often waste no time in carpet bombing the room with accusations of “she’s a manipulative bitch”, and “omg what a slut” to anyone within earshot.

Almost like it’s completely fictitious and invisible until the exact same common tendencies are being waved in their own faces, at which point they pull a complete 180 degree turn. Only to then forget all about it as soon as the next time another guy describes the same kind of behaviour.

-passepar2t- · 2022-06-18T22:05:57+00:00

Speaking of fatties.

The last girl I dated, I was like "Man, I'm really into tall, thin, feminine brunettes, with French-style bob-like haircuts for some reason and you scratch that itch real well."

And she was like, amused, "you think I'm thin? I'm not that thin."

And I was like, "well, you see, I'm American, so..."

And she lol'd.

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-06-18T22:01:43+00:00

Lmao I was just chatting on a discord server and I said if I was a girl I’d be a massive hoe and this girl said “you’d probably find men too annoying and clingy to hoe around” 😭

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megachads_waifu · 2022-06-18T08:15:56+00:00

A Vibe

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-06-18T08:46:26+00:00

Day 64 of music sharing. DEVIN TOWNSEND PROJECT - March Of The Poozers

Remarkable-Fox-1429 · 2022-06-18T13:47:03+00:00

Why when acting cold to her she trys to reach out me when she sees crystal clear that I don't to do anything with her...

Coorstana · 2022-06-18T15:21:08+00:00

How do you think internal homophobia can differently affect incels? Seems to be a common theme among them and the people who either make fun of or give advice to them. Do you think it's a widespread phenomenon? More likely to hit a certain type of guy?

What do you think someone could do to not feel bad about themselves?

errrright · 2022-06-18T16:49:58+00:00

Bikini thongs shouldn’t be a thing.

inb4 “ha you’re gay! 😎”

decoy88 · 2022-06-18T21:37:49+00:00

When they admit they are entitled stacychasers. Just like FDS.

MrMushySauce · 2022-06-18T21:32:22+00:00

Can we settle this once-and-for all:

The Official Generalized SMP Power Rankings

Hot Af Guys (8.5-10)
Hot Girls (7.5-10)
Good-looking guys (7-8.5)
Cute Women (6-7.5)
Cute Guys (6.5-7)
Above Average Guys (6-6.5)
Average Women (4.5-6)
Average Men (5-6)
Unattractive Women (3-4.5)
Unattractive Guys (3-5)
The rest are unranked because it's just a mess below 3

Explanations (matched to the rankings above):

Super hot guys can hook up with anyone and date anyone, and they want to do both those things. They're not limited in any way at all.
Super hot girls can date anyone, but their looskmatched-peers are more distracted by their plethora of options than they are. As many say, "men who are less attractive are invisible to women." These girls have lots of invisible men.
These guys basically get a dumbed down version of Tier 1, with the added detriment that girls in their league can still aim above them. This is why some women who are below these men in looks are grouped into the group that's above them in the hierarchy.
These girls are at serious risk of pump-and-dump, but they still have more power than any group below them. Easily.
This is like your stereotypical bracket for "good husband material," but casual sex will be pretty limited to average women, and maybe some chunkers
Same as 5 but probably almost no casual sex
Going to have some struggles with retaining dudes, but they'll get attention and at least enjoy life.
At risk of becoming incels; can get LTRs but they've "had better," almost guaranteed
Dudes will fuck them at least. They can get LTRs with on-level peers but those LTRs might resent them
Same as 9 but won't be getting laid, like ever
Below a 3 we're just splitting hairs about which misery is worse

CMV

And if anyone wants to repost this as a thread feel free it came out longer than expected lol

2022-06-18T21:21:41+00:00

Some women are such Gold digging whores that me saying a $350,000 per annum cap on child support and a $1,000,000 housing cap is me wanting kids to live on pennies.

MisterJose · 2022-06-18T21:14:03+00:00

I've made a lot of progress in the past few months, and I want to get across to women how much of a massive difference that makes in attitude, confidence, and subsequent attractiveness. Success breeds success. You can give no fucks with one woman when you've got 5 other women you're in various stages with. A lot of guys are just on the other side of that, and need a good break. That frustrated incel who makes you dry up like the Sahara, and the guy you'd prefer, might just be the same fucking guy with a slight change in circumstance.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-06-18T21:07:06+00:00

Bill Burr on how Lilith argues

Snoo_16536 · 2022-06-18T20:55:05+00:00

A random chick who looks decent, let's say some waitress from a small city can go on Instagram right now, like a millionaire's picture and in 3 hours can end up in his bed.

But for a man to get bitches so effortlessly he has to REALLY be successful in all areas

Learn life.

TigerRude4 · 2022-06-18T20:52:35+00:00

If you're not successful on Tinder, you should really approach girls outside, Honestly, I don't buy that you will end up in jail if you approach a girl (Isaw people here saying that), ask her out without inappropriate touching. IRL you can much easily display your confidence and charm. Also from my experience, rejection doesn't hurt that bad, missed opportunity is hundred times worse. And don't approach at work.

decoy88 · 2022-06-18T20:42:29+00:00

Q4MEN: do you think he was lying about the reasons for dead bedroom?

TigerRude4 · 2022-06-18T20:33:36+00:00

Tate pilled guy and Lillth is when unstoppable force meets an immovable object.

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-06-18T20:28:35+00:00

Q4W: If you didn't know who this guy was, would you swipe right on him? Be honest.

TigerRude4 · 2022-06-18T20:23:56+00:00

How do you even begin a conversation with women on Tinder? I'll usually try to reference something I see in their profile or try to comment on something we have in common, but most women have empty bios and I can't really see their hobbies from their pics. So that leaves me with 2 options: some generic question how's your day or some cringe pick up line. Pick up lines have landed me more success. Why do you think it's like that? My theory is that pick up lines are a lot more polarizing and original than some generic question, not saying they are original though. Don't women know if he has texted you some dumb pick up line, he does that to every other woman?

jackedsoon · 2022-06-18T20:22:33+00:00

still a masterpiece!

-passepar2t- · 2022-06-18T20:21:18+00:00

Hey, how mainstream is the whole mommy thing? I used to think it was a genderswapped parody of the whole daddy thing but evidently, some people use the term unironically.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-06-18T20:11:29+00:00

Women will rave and rant about how they're just as sexual as men are, even more so, but when it comes to cheating they're all nuns

-passepar2t- · 2022-06-18T20:04:57+00:00

Get out of here stalker

growandappear · 2022-06-18T19:53:53+00:00

Someone here said that a person's "value" is determined by the extent to which they are able to lead a life according to their, well, values. I'd say it's still the most robust definition of it I have seen

decoy88 · 2022-06-18T19:53:16+00:00

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2pumpschump · 2022-06-18T19:41:01+00:00

Women always insult you instead of bringing up a counter argument 😂

FilmStew · 2022-06-18T19:21:36+00:00

I just heard that less than 10% of Americans can run 1 mile at any speed (5mph or higher to be considered running/jogging?).

Do you think this is true? I literally can't find any data to back this up which is pretty crazy to me. I feel like this is something that should be relatively easy to find, but everything I see only relates to higher standards, like "How many Americans can run a mile in under 8 minutes"....

tired_hillbilly · 2022-06-18T19:14:30+00:00

I've been mulling this over in one form or another for awhile now.

I don't think prostitution is morally different than any other casual sex. What difference does it make if a guy convinces a woman to have sex with him by giving her some cash, or if he does so by saying the right things at the right time? Is flirting really somehow morally superior to cash? Either way it's sex between people who've only known each other for a few hours, maybe less.

I'm not even sure exploitation makes prostitution worse, because there's definitely some girls out there with abysmal self-esteem who are desperate for validation-crumbs who get exploited for hook-ups too. And plenty of sex workers are in the business by choice anyways.

To be clear, this isn't meant to be support of prostitution. In summation I think it's hypocritical to be OK with casual sex but not prostitution. I think both are immoral, but it doesn't seem inconsistent to say both are moral or at least amoral. It's only inconsistent to say one is immoral but not the other.

scwizard · 2022-06-18T19:08:51+00:00

People who say this love women and as property. That’s the difference. Not as people but as property. It’s easy to unconditionally love property because you don’t have to deal with the messy parts of real relationships.

What do you think is worse? Being loved as property or not being loved?

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-06-18T18:54:42+00:00

Q4M

Which do you think is overall more damaging for men

A. That so many men still believe that feminism is about "equality"

B. The myth of "toxic masculinity"

decoy88 · 2022-06-18T18:54:22+00:00

Nothing to me demonstrates female solipsism as much as conversations about DNA tests.

This them:

How dare you think it's possible I might have cheated! ME?! Me a human being with a normal sex drive? Part of this species that has cheated for years? ME? And exactly how do you want to test?

You want to take a swab and put it in my babies cheek? My Baby who just tried to swallow sand and mud?

And how much does it cost? Less than $100? You want to waste that kinda money on something that's only 99.9% accurate, that you only have to do once and have peace of mind forever?

No I need to have given you a reason to want to do it. The fact that the government will force you to support this baby even if it isn't yours after a few months isn't my problem.

Fuck you for even asking I'm out.

Also them at another time

This also them: I need you to sign a contract to never leave me before we have kids.

Us: Can't you just trust us to always be there for you?

Them: No too risky.

Seriously the Paternity Test discussion revives my misogyny when it's fading. Given that 99.9%% of them react the exact same way it's the most concrete proof for AWALT available.

Yet they're eternally confused that I see them as manipulators.

scwizard · 2022-06-18T18:23:00+00:00

It blows my mind when they mention they can’t get easy access to casual sex. Do they not realise we risk pregnancy, assault, rape, STIs and slut-shaming for a 6% chance at orgasm?

Geez girl no one is forcing you to. You're free to just never have casual sex.

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