Daily Community Chat Megathread

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-18T16:45:46+00:00

I think the relationship advice subs, amitheasshole, etc are being used to train AI like chatgpt

I even called it out here

RIP to whomever I was talking to at the time.

chancetolive · 2023-01-18T16:37:15+00:00

Q4M Did you see your dad as your hero growing up? (Upto teens)

if not then who? someone else you knew personally? Celebrities? Businessmen? the writers of your favourite books or fictional characters? Historical figures?

JDWhiz96 · 2023-01-17T16:01:11+00:00

First. What do I win?

VampireChaser · 2023-01-17T16:10:45+00:00

Since the foreveralonewomen sub is being discussed, I would bet that around 90% of women there are fat or have some facial deformation. Either that or their standards are way too high. If a woman is thin or even curvy(not overweight, big hips and smaller waist) I have a hard time believing that she can't get an average guy to commit to her.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-17T16:31:53+00:00

if y'all don't clean your tongue, stay the fuck away from me. 🤮

purginggastonist · 2023-01-17T16:32:33+00:00

using a dildo or a vibrator should be seen just as weird and gross as fucking a fleshlight

lulll · 2023-01-17T18:16:34+00:00

merry xmas everyone!!

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-17T18:25:46+00:00

Topic today seems to be:

Q4M: Do you even consider women people? Do you believe in true love? Why man like play with hard pp? I am very smart and not at all low libido. Checkmate incels 😎

Q4Mods: Why let the lowest of low effort posts?

JiifuhTV · 2023-01-17T21:01:24+00:00

she's 5 years older and can't even pay $15 one time💀

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-17T21:04:29+00:00

What do yall think about this? I think the customer was in the right. His reaction isn't totally unreasonable. His life, as well as the others', was on the line and he took action. This is giving me the Kenosha shooting vibe.

chancetolive · 2023-01-17T21:16:31+00:00

ppd rite of passage: get banned for a month, try your alt and get suspended off reddit.

then forever after suck up to the mods.

liefelijk · 2023-01-17T21:53:51+00:00

It’s so nice getting good reviews at work. Keeps you coming back for more, I guess.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-17T22:19:33+00:00

There’s a seen in the movie Don Jon where Jon brings Scarlett Johannson home to meet his parents. His dad played by Tony danza pulls him to the side daps him up and tells him how proud of him he is. Basically the premise of the joke is that the father takes a sense of pride/accomplishment that his son bags a hot girl, there’s also a sense of I wanna hit that too but there’s another story lol. I’ve seen that premise numerous times in film and television, but not necessarily on the flip side meaning the mom praises the daughter for bringing home a “hot” dude.

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-17T22:44:09+00:00

Ok lets do a hypothetical.

A man has a much lower sex drive than his wife/gf/ and is tested and has low testosterone.

Should he -

1 - Go on TRT therapy to increase his testosterone?

2 - Both should do nothing, she is sexually frustrated but his is ok

3 - She should look for ways to lower her sex drive via hormone suppression?

Mind you every couple can pick their own route, so this is a "in general this would be the best way" question.

eye_fuck · 2023-01-17T22:51:21+00:00

Remind me again what are we gaining by not banning people pre 16 and over 35

purginggastonist · 2023-01-17T23:04:01+00:00

I think one of the reasons I am weirdly obsessed with affirmative consent and "yes means yes" is because I am fucking terrified of catching a case either because she was blatantly lying, regretted it, or there was a miscommunication

I've seen how easy it is for dudes to get labeled as creep or a harasser these days, if you fuck up an approach, escalate poorly, are kinda awkward or weird then you are automatically labeled a disgusting creep and god forbid she films you and posts it on tiktok for millions of people and ruins your life because you approached a women who wasn't into you

I myself have been accused of being a creep by a CHICK I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW

so if you add in the strictness of affirmative consent laws, and all that other shit about women having a take me mentality or getting off by explicit asking of verbal consent you can see why any sane person would be afraid of a miscommunication

(anyways anyone who knows of these mythical sexy ways to get affirmative consent drop them below otherwise I'll start carrying around a notarized document and getting women to sign it)

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-17T23:26:30+00:00

ppd: white lotus opinions?

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-18T16:23:15+00:00

Q4M: Ass or boobs? Q4W: Ass or abs or arms or shoulders?

Me personally. I respect achievement so i go for the aspect thats least determined by genetics.

italian_whip · 2023-01-18T15:57:21+00:00

Volunteering for animal shelters is barely “volunteering”. You probably eat meat and wear leather, why tf would you spend time caring for a dog that wasn’t even wanted by it’s owner. Go to a homeless shelter or a food bank. I look down on those who volunteer for the SPCA because they act like it’s out of selflessness but it’s just bc they like to be around animals.

lulll · 2023-01-18T15:37:50+00:00

i cant help but be terrified of these bastards

purplish_possum · 2023-01-18T15:16:06+00:00

Alexa, add “Size Queen” by Betty Blowtorch to the BDSM playlist

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-18T14:12:12+00:00

The amount of physical pain I put myself through in order to look good is probably over the top at times.

John_Oakman · 2023-01-18T13:59:23+00:00

"Every married weird white guy SNCO in the military has an asian wife, either because he's on his 3rd marriage and done with crazy white bitches or he's so weird that he couldn't get a white chick in the first place."

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-18T13:42:34+00:00

https://funnyjunk.com/Ugly+guys+are+hated+by+women/funny-pictures/6060941/

geyges1 · 2023-01-18T13:25:44+00:00

The "Incels and black pillers have taken over ppd" narrative is the dumbest shit that I continuously read on here for 5 years straight year in and year out.

Where? Where are these hordes of incels and black pillers that have taken over? There's more normie men and women here than ever. And they push their normie bullshit more than any other time ever.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-18T12:53:54+00:00

Being a person who likes to play video games is infinitely better than being a Gamer.

Its just cringe when people make gaming into their main hobby or someshit.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-17T16:39:44+00:00

Someone started posting in r/foreveralonewomen and is directly referencing PPD. This is very bad and could put PPD on a hitlist

Not gonna say who it is per the witchhunting rule

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-17T17:41:52+00:00

So are the neckbeards still planning an incel revolution where they collapse society or is the new objective just to fly to the Philippines. I’m tryna keep track

CimZim · 2023-01-17T19:22:58+00:00

I wonder how many “failed” tubal ligations/vasectomies are from wacko doctors who believe women/people should have as many kids as possible regardless of the circumstances which caused their patients to seek sterilization

CimZim · 2023-01-17T21:04:47+00:00

I can't wait to be 40. Sounds like a good age. Maybe my family will stop asking if I'm going to get pregnant.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-17T16:13:07+00:00

Xbox original emulator works on my pc without issue. I will be a virgin forever, I've got too many games to play, Im busy.

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-01-17T18:18:32+00:00

Two years into being a landlord and I’m starting the process to evict my first tenant, a single mom with 3 kids. I can’t afford to run a charity anymore.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-17T18:43:03+00:00

PPD daily chat > Regular PPD

There i said it

AquaChip · 2023-01-17T21:54:11+00:00

I made a Reddit account out of sheer boredom during lockdown and now I’m a PPD regular. Is this progress or character erosion?

DeepFriedhentaiMemes · 2023-01-17T17:59:08+00:00

pajama day at work but I'm one of the only ones who wore them 😭

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-18T00:13:27+00:00

Are you really a feminist? Or do you just suck at cooking?

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-01-17T17:35:01+00:00

If people on here were talking about black people the same way they talked about women it would be an actual hate crime. Wish they would actually go their own way into the woods and never come back.

GridReXX · 2023-01-17T17:49:09+00:00

Peeped a thread on gay male twitter. A lot of the comments from the ones with lower libidos or libidos that slowed down with age, sounds like how women feel.

Tweet:

i think a lot of gay men feel pressured to be outwardly sexual despite having asexual tendencies or low libido. just wanted to voice my support like it’s ok to be or not be a slut

Replies:

Some people just don't wanna fuck all that much. I just wanna dance and be gay. That's it.

Yep. And also sometimes it’s just nice to kiss and touch and not have it lead to sex

Cuddling and making out are my top two intimate acts.

Yeah, trying to explain to a guy that I much prefer intimacy without penetration or fellatio is basically signing up to either get ghosted or them agreeing and then trying to have full blown sex with me anyway and getting upset when I don’t perform because I’m just not feeling it

Tbh I'm quite happy to be getting older and feeling a reduced libido, I can get on with life without the constant distraction of needing to get laid.

Same. My libido in my 20s and early 30s was almost ‘sex addiction’ territory. I much prefer a slightly muted sex drive.

Only cause you’re mostly invisible if you’re not but I’ve learned to just accept being unseen and happy.

Yeah, I think I usually end up in relationships with those men, and I don't know why, because that's not me. Like, yeah, it's fine to be that way, but I'm pretty open about who I am from the start, and it seems like they tend to not be.

(Probably because that’s most men.)

Interesting thread!

GridReXX · 2023-01-17T21:11:09+00:00

There’s a male user here who has been here for years who is still in denial that, on average, male and female sexuality is different and that there are consequences (pros and cons) to that.

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-17T23:26:24+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/10dkdli/struggling_with_husband_feeling_like_roommate/

When a woman cheats the man must get over it and he must make every effort to repair the relationship's broken trust and how can he commit her to over a decade of a bad relationship? How can he do this to her?

It's not actually rage bait either. smh my head.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-17T18:33:51+00:00

Everyone talks about male violence and how bad it is. But no one wants to talk about ways to reduce the creation of these violent dudes.

Like it or not a lack of a father figures is a huge contributing factor.

Hire more male elementary school teachers and also have them after school help them with their personal issues.

Fix the issue before it starts.

saraimarsena · 2023-01-17T19:13:03+00:00

been noticing at my job that the only male teacher somehow is the one who always gets pulled to do odd jobs like building bookshelves, fixing a rocking chair. i asked him if he’s ever even built something before and he hasn’t. he doesn’t seem to mind and he says he likes it, but it just seems horribly sexist.

i hate how i’m noticing a pattern with my shitty ass boss. she also fired our previous only male teacher basically for no reason other than the fact that she just didn’t like him. male teachers are already rare and under appreciated and I’d hate it if we lost another good one.

haroldshipman_MD · 2023-01-18T11:47:28+00:00

Of all the self-defeating behaviours my fellow men display on here, refusing to pay £10 for Tinder Gold/the premium option on your app of choice is by far the stupidest one.

The algorithm is fucking you over. Pay a small fee to remove the fuckery. You'd spend less going for coffee with some idiot you don't even like.

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-18T11:16:07+00:00

You know how in the animal kingdom the more colourful, pretty animals tend to be the males and the camouflage ones are the females? I guess when everything is equal when it comes to power and stuff the female chooses the best mate by what they provide (for instance a lot of female animals will inspect a "home" the male has build and decides if it's suitable) and how they look.

Some guys on here love to go on and on about how nature is this and that and compare women to birds and stuff but when you throw out these other animal facts they suddenly don't want to hear how they have to look good and work for it to be chosen.

Dylan10126 · 2023-01-17T16:13:34+00:00

Seen a post here earlier about AI replicating relationships that was removed for low effort.

IMO it should be a real conversation considering apps like Replika, well needing work, openly advertise this as a goal/service, and are developing their own conversation based AI for this purpose.

BruddaMSK · 2023-01-17T16:18:31+00:00

Daily cuckunity... ahahaha I am so smart and funny look I can play with words

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-17T18:30:09+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/p/CnEz6-AtXVo/?hl=en

One of the Tate brothers' girl

EulenWatcher · 2023-01-17T19:09:08+00:00

Their future husbands will thank us

Okay, that’s concerning.

meteorness123 · 2023-01-17T20:06:06+00:00

Kind of funny how the more relaxed you are about the outcome and the less you care about sex, the more women want to fuck you

Helplessadvice · 2023-01-17T20:11:49+00:00

I use to hate having days off but now I enjoy them so much

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-17T20:13:46+00:00

this screenshot pretty much summarizes why I think why its extremely selfish and wrong to have kids.

https://i.imgur.com/R6uj9bj.jpg

you can call me pessimistic but I just tell it like it is. most of your kids are going to have shit fucking lives and you are going to force yourselves to work until you die in the process.

purposely not having kids is the real red pill. fuck your legacy, your genetics will be dissolved within 2 generations, and the cute baby phase goes away within a year or two before you'll be just another user on r/breakingmom and r/regretfulparents.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-17T20:31:18+00:00

I married a rapist serving 20 years in prison: ‘Love can blossom anywhere

If I speak I am in big trouble

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-17T20:46:42+00:00

This is how the spergs here think consent should go:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iP-OuUfTH78

TigerRude4 · 2023-01-17T22:07:24+00:00

Question "Do you consider women your equal?" is bloated. They should be equal in the face of the law, but in many cases women and men aren't the same.

meteorness123 · 2023-01-17T22:51:44+00:00

Cmv

The average white guy doesn't struggle with dating unless he has legit autism or similar hindrances.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-17T23:22:25+00:00

The United States came in as the country that watched the most porn last year and doubled the amount of porn use compared to the runner up.

That's fucking embarrassing.

lewdakuma · 2023-01-18T10:45:09+00:00

i know the stereotype is that women love to talk about sex in graphic detail with their friends but i hate it when my friends try to tell me details. i do NOT want the mental image of my lovely friends having SEX. my friend texted me at 3 am (knowing i wake up at 5) to try and tell me about the new guy shes fucking and now im plagued with visions.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-01-18T10:37:53+00:00

Men are 100% attracted to status, or else they wouldn’t be simping for mid looking actors.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-18T10:19:11+00:00

Women's attitude towards sex makes a lot more sense when you realise they have to show their bumhole to everyone they fuck.

zastale · 2023-01-18T10:06:24+00:00

This is a good point.

How can casual sex be bad, yet women go for it repeatedly? Even if they haven’t tried it, their friends that have surely told them.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-01-18T10:04:42+00:00

I always thought it was dumb how recruiters told me to include "Proficient in Microsoft Office" in my CV, like who the fuck isn't?

...then I started working with a 55 year old woman who didn't even know how to attach a document to an email.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-18T09:46:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/10ej3ua/after_almost_10_years_i_found_out_my_daughter_is/

this should be punishable by jail time

woolicks · 2023-01-18T09:28:27+00:00

After having eliminated approach anxiety and bedded a few women I find myself emptier than before. I just haven’t managed to find a woman that I would want to settle down with. They always let you down in one way or another. I don’t even have high standards. Bare minimum type shit.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-18T07:49:59+00:00

https://twitter.com/HenpeckedHal/status/1615417399255388163

creepy or romantic?

purginggastonist · 2023-01-18T07:13:44+00:00

new manga recommendation

modern Japanese college students help migrating African homo sapiens fight in proxy war with nazi-led neanderthals

https://mangasee123.com/read-online/Sousei-No-Taiga-chapter-74.html

Dolphin_Moon · 2023-01-18T07:04:55+00:00

i have a date tomorrow! And very nervous!!

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-18T06:17:57+00:00

I remember during COVID people online, especially Tik Tok tried to change the definition of dark humour where it meant you could only joke about your own trauma rather than just anything.

Fucking ludicrous.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-18T05:56:37+00:00

spending time this evening remembering my ex girlfriends butthole

she probably had the nicest butthole i've ever licked.

i'm perfect butthole widowed by her

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-18T05:29:08+00:00

read the comments on this short bunch of gaslighters... jesus. All the comments are "you're beautiful they way you are!" Like not really. Don't sugar coat it. and she's certainly not ugly. The creator is making videos about how she is embracing her condition yet is seeking treatment for it? Like wtf... it's alright if that bothers you.

Familiar_Egg8802 · 2023-01-18T05:22:42+00:00

The doctor I went on a date with is a catholic who apparently wants someone whos life revolves around god but she's 35 and soon won't have the option to have kids. The entire date was painful as I tried to get her to interact more. She was definitely autistic and I got a feeling she was asexual or at least had zero interest in me or sex in general. She said she wanted kids but I got zero hints of any form of paternal instinct. She even talked about her dog like it was an alien animal she didn't really want to be responsible for.

She was probably a 5, pretty thin a bit sickly looking(though I suppose not being obese automatically makes her a 6 since there are soo many fat women lol).

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-18T05:15:24+00:00

With my wife's new libido I decided to order a cock ring. Only I hsve no idea what size and we once exploded a tengu egg toy so it's kida important.

Turns our they make sizing kits. One looks like the children's r different size rings on a cone toy. I'm curious to see the effectiveness.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-01-18T05:13:33+00:00

Italian restaurants are too expensive for what they offer (excluding olive garden, love those unlimited bread sticks). They play off as some fancy expensive European restaurant charging $30-40 for simple entrees. Pasta, tomato sauce and cheese is not worth that much. You need to include some meat to be able to charge that much. I didn't include meatballs because it's usually not included with your spaghetti and it costs $15-20 for like 4 meatballs as a side plate.

purginggastonist · 2023-01-18T04:35:07+00:00

you are not the "cool mom" or "cool dad" because you buy your kids condoms and let them drink in the basement, it's just irresponsible, you are there parents not there friends start acting like it

saraimarsena · 2023-01-18T03:38:06+00:00

what are some small nice things you do for your partner ? what are some small nice things they do for you?

zastale · 2023-01-18T03:31:30+00:00

Women can be creepy too; I feel bad for her husband/bf.

haroldshipman_MD · 2023-01-18T03:14:40+00:00

I'm friends with a group which is made up of 5/8 women and they are officially terrible at detecting red flags.

Before I knew them, a (male) member of the friend group got jailed for the rape of two women.

Despite being a convicted rapist, all the women in my friend group speak incredibly highly of him, and are currently talking in the group chat about throwing him a party when he gets out next month.

I've kept my opinions on the matter quiet for years, but I'm reaching the end of my tether. Think I'm going to have to distance myself from the group. I'm not hanging around with a convicted rapist and pretending that I'm cool with it.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-18T03:10:28+00:00

young rich dude still struggling... Only supports my perspective: money can only help so much

Yeah I’m 22 (will be 23 by then)
I didn’t care about having a zero in the romantic experience column and ever growing double digits in the rejection column for many years but I don’t see a better chance than right now with my I’ll just say unique financial advantages and ample time on hand
The time is flying away though :(

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-18T03:09:22+00:00

As an adult virgin I can tell you right now that my favorite sex position is the triple deluxe inverted spinneroni with a heaping scoop of throat fucking.

scwizard · 2023-01-18T02:57:21+00:00

An example of a sign a man might become violent, according to feeeemales:

"I don't have a lot of friends honestly."

Not an example of a sign a man might become violent according to feeeemales:

"My ex girlfriend got me locked up for DV but it was a bullshit charge, she's such a bitch I hate her."

redditthrowaway1478 · 2023-01-18T02:56:08+00:00

Shes not wrong...

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/10efebd/can_we_have_a_datingrelationship_free_posts_day/j4qo1m1?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

This sub would not pass the Bechdel test.

scwizard · 2023-01-18T02:03:24+00:00

have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. The first few months of our relationship he would bring up his ex a lot, and it bothered me. He assured me he was over her, he just felt like venting to me about their relationship. They were together for 4 years. (I’ve made a previous post about how I was struggling with how much he talked about her). Stupid me was curious to find out who she was and what she looked like. So I did some creeping on Instagram found her page. I immediately regretted it once I saw. She’s literally a supermodel that travels the world and is 1000000 times more attractive than I’ll ever be. I can’t compete with that. I can’t stop wondering why my boyfriend wants to be with me when he’s been with someone so so SO much more attractive than me. I feel so ugly and inferior compared to her. I showed my friends her Instagram because they thought I was exaggerating but even they agree she is super super hot. They couldn’t even make me feel better. I cannot stop comparing everything about myself to her now. It’s ruining me. I’m always questioning if he’s settling for me since I know he could be with someone so much better.

What's the male version of being alpha widowed?

Brief_Crab_3710 · 2023-01-18T01:51:28+00:00

I have more time on my hands currently than ever really before in life (and probably more than I ever will have) and want to maximize that

What hobbies are attractive?

So far I've got gym 6 days a week on PPL, traveling mostly to sporting events (Super Bowl, World Cup, Final 4, college football games, golf/tennis majors) or for adventure sports (paragliding, skydiving, scuba diving, climbed one mountain in the Alps), any kind of wildlife viewing (before I die I have a list of species I have to see in the wild--still a few to go), play a couple instruments, read a lot and a few other things but it has never done anything for my (non existent) dating life

I'm thinking maybe an instrument that is a little more attractive/masculine than the fucking harmonica and bongos (yeah I know--I liked the sound of the bongos though and my grandpa was a big fan of the harmonica so when he died I felt a little compelled to learn it)

I avoided it while I was bulking because burning off 1000 calories isn't great for that but for when I start my cut in a few weeks I'm thinking Muay Thai, kickboxing or some kind of combat sport?

I don't know if there's enough time to learn another language between now and med school in August but maybe that? Especially knowing Spanish and French

This doesn't really count as a hobby but I've been taking in older rescue dogs to give them a decent end of life at least. Little selfish though as it's also to desensitize me to death before becoming a doctor.

I volunteered a ton in high school/college and really though like September of 2022 so I still have some contacts there. Would that count? Or am I trying too hard? As far as time wasters I can be an unproductive deadbeat on football Sundays (yeah I gamble, play fantasy and go a little more into it than I probably should) and take too much time on my workouts (especially legs) but besides that I haven't touched a video game in 10 years

There are no bad ideas

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-01-18T01:47:26+00:00

Tomorrow I will be better. I’ll exercise, hydrate, eat well, be productive, stay calm, focused, and patient, tend to my house and family, and spend lots of quality time with my kiddo. Then I’ll go to bed at a reasonable hour.

It will be a good day.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-18T01:29:36+00:00

Anyone watch The Last of Us series premiere? Is it worth a watch?

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OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-17T16:01:08+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EbnzKAELGE

This is the future they want

zastale · 2023-01-17T16:12:33+00:00

One

Two

JDWhiz96 · 2023-01-17T16:35:33+00:00

Women *aren't* delusional

Just a list of things that "good", normal men would never do to those poor kind women, who are always so holistic and deserving.

chancetolive · 2023-01-17T16:46:28+00:00

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17155977/

circumcized ppd men in shambles right now

purginggastonist · 2023-01-17T17:01:02+00:00

1 Hour of Chad Roman Catholic Chants For True Redemption

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYtTqg5g1-E

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-01-17T17:03:43+00:00

https://ifstudies.org/blog/marriages-between-democrats-and-republicans-are-extremely-rare

They are claiming in 2016, 30% of marriages were “politically mixed”, now 21% of marriages were “politically mixed”. At first glance I was like that’s bullshit and WAAAAY too high, but then I realized I forgot about independents which make of the vast majority of these marriages. So the typical one for example would be Mike is a democrat and his wife Sarah is an independent, that counts as “politically mixed”

nothatyoucare · 2023-01-17T17:19:46+00:00

If someone shit talks people of a country for something that country specifically does, that's not racism. Especially if what is being said wouldn't make sense if applied to a neighboring country. I would hope we all know that.

chancetolive · 2023-01-17T17:30:46+00:00

what do you make of this? and what are your personal top 3 best feelings? study reference one of mine has to be craving sugar and finally satisfying it

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-17T17:35:21+00:00

So as a follow up to this post yesterday I think I can safely say that the 666 rule is not about a six pack but six inches. This doesn't mean a 6 pack is by any means bad but its less of an attractor then a good body with a bigger dick.

Sorry /u/HungerISanEmotion you need less crunches more penis.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-17T17:43:09+00:00

I’m working at a new job and already feeling like this isn’t the direction I want to go in life.

Guess I’m gonna be updating my resume and shit posting on LinkedIn again ☹️

GridReXX · 2023-01-17T17:54:46+00:00

We know that death grip wanking and excessive use of male sex toys can affect the ability to orgasm. It makes sense - the mind becomes accustomed to getting off a certain way, and these people need a tolerance break to reset themselves back to normal.

So are we going to continue to say that the same thing can't happen to women? If you're cumming a specific way every single day, using a specific tool, you're obviously going to become mentally reliant on that bit of equipment, and it's going to feel weird when you're without it.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-01-17T19:41:12+00:00

How autistic is it to actually enjoy watching speed skating? (Actual speed skating, not the one where they crash all the time)

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-17T19:43:16+00:00

Ok ppders how many of your alts have been banned from reddit?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-17T19:56:03+00:00

Which is more scary:

Men: more likely to kill, but will face harsh charges.

Or

Women: less likely to kill (or hire a hit) but will definitely get less time and will be able to live life normally afterwards

oktoberpretzel · 2023-01-17T20:16:38+00:00

Do men get less picky and judgmental about women as they get older? My husband is one of the most successful men I’ve ever met. I was twenty and waitressing at a topless bar when he came in and we met. He was thirty-five. Ironically, I was a virgin. Guys my age wouldn’t date me because of it, which I’m kind of thankful for. My biggest fans at the bar were the men my husband’s age or older.

I see lots of young men (20-25) on social media showing that they’re working so hard and improving themselves with hopes to pick a “good girl” when they’re successful. In my experience, by time men reach that “success” they don’t have the same desires in women they had in their youth. I just don’t know if this is an age thing or personality thing.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-01-17T20:29:37+00:00

Being terminally online has made me almost completely asexual funnily enough

chancetolive · 2023-01-17T20:41:19+00:00

PSA: Even if you managed to convince men to go to therapy and be honest about their Feelings with a therapist. it wont work.

female therapist: clueless about half the things hes saying

male therapist: not a man he's done an activity with first to bond such as solve a problem together or complete a common goal. He hasn't earnt the mutual respect and admiration first, hes just a therapist and could be a divorced cuck loser otherwise.

This is why a dad is so important since he'll be doing all the above simultaneously and personal problems can be shared. Uncles, grandads, older brothers, work mentors, sports coaches are ok too.

the male brain processes emotions differently, men express them and emote differently too. When they don't, your gaydar automatically rings because you innately know. And you lose attraction too, dont lie to yourselves ladies.

To assume talking therapies will solve men's problems is a pure female fantasy.

One of the few programmes that I think may actually help at least lonely older men is https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men%27s_shed#Health_and_wellbeing if you know of other activity based male-focused things then drop a link

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-17T21:02:03+00:00

I know many people here have strongly negative opinions on porn. But what do you think about erotica? Like just written words, no pictures or anything?

nothatyoucare · 2023-01-17T21:26:59+00:00

Oh goody. A “why aren’t men considered sluts if they do that?” discussion out in the wilds of Reddit. Let’s see how this goes.

People are starting to get mad that the woman cop is being made fun of for banging all her coworkers but not the dudes. Failing to take in account she was juggling like 9 dudes while each dude was juggling just her and their SO.

LaloTwins · 2023-01-17T21:32:03+00:00

You guys think the PPD stalker and that virgin obsessed guy one and the same?

lulll · 2023-01-17T21:36:41+00:00

upcoming divorce

predictions how long this will last. im giving it 6 months until divorce

TigerRude4 · 2023-01-17T21:58:42+00:00

The problem I have with young women today is that it seems that so many are bland af. When I ask them what are they doing in free time usually top answers are nothing, studying (not even free time), eating and sleeping. What I have observed is that many who say that just spend way too much on tiktok or Instagram.

chancetolive · 2023-01-17T22:10:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/10elmwk/news_clipping_from_the_new_york_daily_mirror_1950s/

ahh ☕ i miss the good times.

houstongradengineer · 2023-01-17T22:59:12+00:00

Q4A: How do you feel about the idea that each additional child you have further lessens the attention and resources you have to give each one? What do you think is the optimal number of children to have?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-17T23:51:44+00:00

heres a little hypothesis I have thats confirmed from my own life based on the theory of comparative advantage

Now we all kind of know even without explicitly saying it that some men of certain non white ethnicities and also [redacted] women struggle with dating at least in the United States.

Heres the thing though. Once you can be a upper tier version of that race you actually get an advantage, especially if you live somewhere there is not many people of that same race.

This has been working for me as an ethnic guy living in a white people areas as the token indian guy my whole life.

Basically, with comparative advantage if everyone in the area is a banana and its easy to get bananas, when you show up as the rare coconut you get a big value boost because there aren't many coconuts available.

Test it out. Get the results. Thank me later.

scwizard · 2023-01-18T01:19:49+00:00

When I was dating a lot, I would wear or carry a thrift store scarf or jacket. I could leave it at the table when I took my purse "to the restroom" if I wanted to flee an awful date and thought the guy might get angry. The jacket or scarf made it look like I was coming back, so I could get out without a scene or getting followed.

Damn women are jerks. I bet she made a lot of guys worried, thinking something happened to them cause she never came back to get her jacket and she wasn't responding to texts.

Prestigious698 · 2023-01-18T01:02:20+00:00

Q4M: Do you get temptation to cheat?

Novadina · 2023-01-18T00:59:09+00:00

Lmao this sub. Today I learned that my belief that most men have morals and don’t want children to starve to death is just rose colored glasses that I have because I want non-Chads to pay for my babies I have with Chad. This guys thinks the reality is most men want children to starve - even their own kids apparently, because men want to “spread their genes” and kids with parents who can’t afford food “wouldn’t starve to death but just be malnourished”.

Some of the men here seem to see men worse than even the most radical man hating women…

Infammo · 2023-01-17T18:08:31+00:00

After growing up constantly hearing heterosexual women express how much they universally revile men seeing the ones here pop the "why date women if you don't like them" question always makes me laugh.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-01-17T17:48:47+00:00

I think something men REALLY struggle to admit is a person they will TOLERATE and person they will CHERISH are completely different things.

Men say, “yea you’re ugly. But some men’s standards are so low you’ll find someone eventually.” Like do you even hear yourselves? People don’t want to be with a “meh, you’ll do I guess” partner, they want to be with someone who truly feels lucky to have them.

Like telling women in that forever alone sub that she can’t be truly lonely because some incel will tolerate her because he literally can’t get better is not comforting in the slightest.

bossman146 · 2023-01-18T00:40:35+00:00

Am I the only one who understands when men get “insecure” about his wife/girlfriend using toys in the bedroom (especially vibrators or large dildos). I’ve never had a woman whip out a womanizer 3000 dildo with 25 functions and LEDs on me, but I get why some dudes are apprehensive about it. This is a device that does something you just can’t compete with, I can see why a man would feel inadequate.

I bet that most men (especially the open-minded Redditors) aren’t actually 100% on-board with their partners using toys in the bedroom. They don’t want to be labeled as insecure so they embrace the toys as “teammates”. He’s getting to have sex and enjoys the fact that his partner is getting off with the assistance of toys. That’s great (and way better than your lady not getting off at all), but ideally they wouldn’t be needed in the first place. Like, it’s awesome that your partner is cumming, and it’s better that she finishes than not, but there still has to be that feeling that you’re not enough.

To clarify, there is nothing wrong with using sex toys. It just bothers me to see men get lambasted for being uncomfortable with a cumbersome (usually) toy being brought into the bedroom. I get it.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-17T18:21:08+00:00

Can someone help explain fertility to me? I saw this clip and it seems the women doesn't know how the risk of having a kid at 35 is? Is it actually risky to have a kid at that age for a women? Around the internet I also see people talking about how couples were trying for months to have a kid and they finally did. Like how hard is it to have a kid?

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-17T20:26:47+00:00

How do hookers charge you? Is it per hour or per cum?

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