I see a lot of decent advice on here for men who struggle to get women. The one thing Id like to add is; no matter what your approach is, we know you want to copulate with us. Unless you’re really good looking and funny, most women will see your interest as a minor threat. Another guy on our tail, ya know? It’s not always 100% conscious but it’s in the back of our minds. With all that being said, I’d like to outline 2 strategies that I think work well and why they relate to what I’ve said above.

1) Be really bold and open about how bad you want to have sex with them. - The reason this works is because we think we must be 1 of many women you’re hitting on and trying to sleep with. This reduces the threat because you couldn’t be all that fixated on us if you’re being that bold. Also, we know this strategy works for tons of men. You’ll face a lot of rejection but it does work.

2) Be aloof. This works well in a setting that you’re in close contact with them often(office, school, church, etc). When men are aloof, it allows our guard to drop and gives US the possibility to think of you in a curious and even sometimes sexual way. If we start asking ourselves “wait, is this guy not attracted to me?” It gets in our head and now we actively want you to want us. My fiancé is super quiet and before we actually dated, I really wanted to see his reaction to seeing me naked for this first time. His aloofness created this giant mystery about what he would be like in bed.

Okay that’s pretty much it. Thanks for listening to my Ted Talk.