What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?

yodol-90 · 2024-05-07T13:46:20+00:00

what social reward

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2024-05-07T14:26:18+00:00

blue pill is not a pill people "take", its the common cultural narratives regarding sex and dating that you swallow with mothers milk

purplish_possum · 2024-05-07T14:41:21+00:00

Most older red pill guys were previously blue pill chumps. They became red pill only after they'd been sucked dry and discarded. Women create red pill guys.

bison5595 · 2024-05-07T14:06:42+00:00

Why are you assuming there is a life of misery and ostracisation

DarayRaven · 2024-05-07T13:50:08+00:00

I'm struggling to understand why someone would volunteer for a life of misery and social ostracisation

What misery ?

Nothing really changes once you become RP-aware except your understanding on men/women

I still live the same life as when l was bluepilled

Kman17 · 2024-05-07T15:28:16+00:00

The idea that red pill = forever alone misery and blue pill = widespread social acceptance is just.. not right.

The philosophy kind of dictates how you think about self improvement, relationships, and the like have - it doesn’t magically change how you are treated.

Plenty of red pill folks are quite happy and content in relationships, plenty of blue people are lonely simps.

In simplest terms red pill is a pragmatic way of looking at people’s incentives, blue pill is fairly idealistic view of human nature. The two aren’t even mutually exclusive.

The kind of frank talk associated with red pill online or in a sub like this is not how normal people talk outside psychology or debate settings.

crownofthestars · 2024-05-07T14:54:27+00:00

It's hard to unsee certain things, trends, statistics, etc. presented you in life.

Why ignore what your eyes are seeing? Because life isn't as beautiful? Life is still beautiful, just be mindful.

Plazmatron44 · 2024-05-07T16:01:56+00:00

Reality.

BCRE8TVE · 2024-05-07T20:29:04+00:00

What's stopping me from taking the blue pill?

Reality.

I can no more take the blue pill than convince myself that the sky is green or that gravity doesn't exist.

It's not about volunteering for anything, it's about seeing what explanations for reality actually match onto reality and are likely real, vs which explanations do not.

It's about reals before feels. Sure the feels might be less happy, but if you delude yourself into thinking you can fly, you're going to have a rude awakening when you hit the ground.

The rewards for going along with the blue pill is not a reward, it's just less active hatred and ostracisation. As a man you still don't matter, but they won't go out of their way to shout you down and get you to shut up, because you agree to I Ly say what they want to hear.

The moment you step out of line the hammer comes out again.

Red pill is simply pointing that out.

Diamond_Claws · 2024-05-07T14:08:50+00:00

The assumption that we red pilled people have no friends / social life is very dated. Being red pilled is more common than ever.

I used to be blue pilled. Vomiting it up was the best decision of my life.

Purple_Kangaroo8549 · 2024-05-07T14:08:51+00:00

lmao just become beholden to womens every demand and let them destroy your society while you beg for pussy.

Caicedonia · 2024-05-07T15:54:15+00:00

Because we are cursed with too much introspection and empathy.

There’s also a lot of fake red pill who date around and make us look like the bad guy but I genuinely believe most of red pill just men with a really weak or shietty father figure.

Independent-Mail-227 · 2024-05-07T14:09:08+00:00

I find the lies and hypocrisy to be pretty disgusting so I'll never take the blue pill.

superlurkage · 2024-05-07T13:47:33+00:00

Sex, self esteem and agency is important to men, no? Those are good reasons to remain red, even if they never result in success

WhiteHalo2196 · 2024-05-07T14:26:59+00:00

Because the blue pill is false. I cannot delude myself into accepting something that I know is false. And I don’t know what “social rewards” you’re talking about.

lwpy · 2024-05-07T18:04:58+00:00

What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?

I’m not red-pilled either, but the reason I don’t take the blue pill is because I’m alone thanks to being very ugly. As far as I know, I’m not autistic, and I do go outside every day. Being thirst for a relationship while i see everyone having what i dream made me very sad and undestand it will never happen for me.

John-Nada_ · 2024-05-07T19:59:50+00:00

I'd say the blue pill is weaponized morality, guilt and shame to get you to do shit that is anyone else’s interests and not yours.

Girl wants to cheat or let things happens the guy gets suspicious, and a little bit shame and guilt gets him to trust her, and she still can get what she wants.

Girls who read this filter this trough their own solipsism (i'm a good person filter) and say "i would never do this" BP guy’s who made girls to their authority listen to her and trust her, cycle repeats.

The number one question you get asked in the red pill is always. "What do you want?"

TallFoundation7635 · 2024-05-07T20:17:04+00:00

I believe in reality, I don't like listening to propaganda that wants to make me a weaker and less valuable man in the market. Also, social ostracization will only occur if you beat your chest about how you are such a red pill alpha chad. Most sane people don't do that. Hell, there are some people that think im deeply blue pill.

Fabulous_HonestTea · 2024-05-07T20:44:19+00:00

What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?

The fact that I do not suffer from a mental handicap of any sort.

just_a_place · 2024-05-08T06:30:34+00:00

Not being a goofy idiot, that's what's stopping me.

Your "social rewards" are more like doggie treats for the fools that are neutered, leashed, and trained to perform like good boys on command.

The better question is: Is it worth your dignity, self respect, and your masculinity? If so, what is your selling price? If social rewards is all it takes to emasculate yourself then you are selling yourself extremely cheap. Peanuts are worth more than that.

Proudvow · 2024-05-07T14:01:10+00:00

The fact that if taken literally it's objectively false, and I don't tolerate doublespeak (saying one thing but meaning another).

People need to understand that if a guy is too socially awkward to date he is often not able to interpret as intended doublespeak pertaining to human interactions. He needs factually precise advice. Anything else is counterproductive and will harm his prospects.

I'm struggling to understand why someone would volunteer for a life of misery and social ostracisation

You are not volunteering for that. You are experiencing it beyond personal choice and the difference is between actually understanding why and potentially being able to change course (red pill) or being gaslit about having some fundamental undescribed moral failing that justifies your isolation (blue pill) until suddenly it magically doesn't apply anymore (usually after you've earned a decent income and women near their 30s and/or with kids are ready to settle down with you).

Is the "truth" that the Red Pill exposes worth missing out on the social reward of playing along with the Blue Pill?

The point is that the blue pill is not rewarding for lower tier men. It locks them into a cycle of being ignored, used, and discarded on repeat without complaint because "real nice guys aren't looking for anything in return" or some such nonsense.

cathatesrudy · 2024-05-07T15:33:05+00:00

Honestly my life has gotten so much more peaceful with my husband since red pill, I grew up with a blue pill father who is comfortably hen pecked by his third wife and a screeching harpy mother who can’t keep a husband for more than 8-10 years but keeps trying anyway and it’s increasingly obvious to me that neither will ever be truly content with their love lives, and it makes me incredibly sad.

I am surrounded by essentially blue-pilled friends as well and same thing, they’re almost constantly having complaints about their men being men, or the opposite about how they “have” to mother their men, and it all sounds positively awful. Honestly if I wasn’t so close with these women otherwise I’d CHOOSE social ostracization from them rather than watch them all self destruct. I’m here for them when they need it, but none of them are ready to see themselves as the problem so I’m just support and not advice.

I was a neurotic mess when I was blue pill, I’m never going back.

And for clarity this change happened during my marriage, I didn’t land my husband by becoming red pill.

Electric_Death_1349 · 2024-05-07T13:50:06+00:00

To take the Blue Pill means living in a state of blissful ignorance, oblivious to the reality around you, with your head wedged firmly up your metaphorical backside.

Some would argue that it’s preferable to be swaddled in a comfort blanket and to deny the evidence before you; and maybe it is, but once you’ve seen the truth, you can’t un-see it, and there is no going back.

DietTyrone · 2024-05-07T18:26:55+00:00

That's like asking why Neo wouldn't just return to his 9-5 job in the matrix after learning the truth. Because once you learn the truth, you can't truly be ignorant again.

Is the "truth" that the Red Pill exposes worth missing out on the social reward of playing along with the Blue Pill?

Seems like your idea of taking the Blue Pill is "playing along" and pandering to society while not actually believing in it. What is this "reward" men would get for rolling over like that and feigning ignorance?

UnhappyInevitable680 · 2024-05-07T19:49:11+00:00

I think most people believe in whatever serves them, especially women. Red pill is just figuring out objective truths whether good or bad about the dating dynamics. It’s not about siding with men on every single issue (some do tho, like Pearl for instance), we are just interested in seeking cold hard truth. Most people would rather burry their heads in the sand, it’s easier to defend women at every turn because that’s the status quo attitude. It’s so easy to shit on men and hold them in bad faith at every turn, weak emotional humans always take the path of least resistance.

For example: I believe that women have a clear preference for dating tall men. I am not a tall man. So the belief doesn’t serve me. But I’m not upset about it, it’s just what the reality is. I’m not mad at women or think they are stupid for preferring something so superficial. I understand it’s a biological attraction that can’t be negotiated.

Avatar2024Fan · 2024-05-07T20:37:45+00:00

What is the social reward from the blue pill? There is none. I also think it's kind of funny how you think turning to the rp is somehow making them miserable. Its the exact opposite. They were miserable before and the rp is the way out

flextov · 2024-05-07T23:57:36+00:00

I’ve never backed down to a bully. I wouldn’t say I’m particularly brave. I’m stubborn and the possibility of yielding never occurs to me at the time.

Handsome_Goose · 2024-05-08T05:21:49+00:00

It produced 0 results in my life, why should I settle for something useless?

babazuki · 2024-05-07T14:25:36+00:00

Show me a man that attracts and smashes Super models by respecting women or whatever bullshit the blue pill subscribes.

It doesn't happen.

Blue pill doesn't even acknowledge that some men want to be that attractive.

BP is about women's rights. It's lies to keep you down.

berichorbeburied · 2024-05-07T13:52:33+00:00

Humiliating and bowing yourself below a woman

Should never be an option.

Agreeing with women completely just because it’s a woman’s idea

Should never be an option

Looking to woman to model your aesthetics and personality and behavior patterns to mimic a woman’s personality type or behavior patterns or perspective or aesthetics

Should never be an option

And I’m not red pill

Correct me if I’m wrong. But my opinion/perspective of blue pill is at least one of those sub categories I presented above

So in theory blue pill people would either

be married men or in a relationship who can and want to “retire” from constantly having to self improve or pursue/hunt or be independent/self sufficient

Or

Men who never want to interact with women

Or

Men who want to interact with women but haven’t had the chance or opportunity to for whatever reason

There could be exceptions to this rule. As I am only talking in general.

And because of free will. Someone could be bluepill for any reason or no reason at all.

So it’s possible in theory.

I just don’t understand why someone would want to do that and be blue pill that’s not a woman.

Tokimonatakanimekat · 2024-05-07T14:00:57+00:00

What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?

Not being bestowed with graceful genetic composition by nature to enjoy the genuine desirability from opposite sex.

social reward of playing along with the Blue Pill

Only attractive people qualify.

jacked_degenerate · 2024-05-07T15:23:42+00:00

I can’t go back, literally my brain won’t let me.

Unique-Afternoon6316 · 2024-05-07T13:46:00+00:00

I think you're asking a different question than the one you intend.

If someone is red pill, their best bet is to act as if they aren't in social settings. People with a modicum of social acumen don't start ranting about 304s or the divorce rate or whatever. They will just operate under their red pill rules and make their moves according to their own agenda, without needing to verbalize it.

I'm not blue pill because I've had too much evidence in my life to disprove the red pill working. I'm not red pill because I think a lot of the games you would have to play with women's(people's!!) heads are immoral. I can logically understand that some of these tactics work without employing elements that I deem wrong to do.

WolfFamous6976 · 2024-05-07T15:26:09+00:00

Common sense

stats135 · 2024-05-07T13:54:43+00:00

SEXUAL rewards of TRP >>>>>>> SOCIAL rewards of TBP.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-05-07T13:59:39+00:00

I'm not redpill and strongly disagree with most of the crap they say,but "shut up about any shit and lookout for your own personal interest only" is not a good thing at all.

Like imagine if you were a anti Nazi German during nazi Germany. By the mindset of your post,he/she shouldn't actively oppose the nazis,but just shut up,sieg heil and try to get the best he/she could out of the situation for their personal interests.

ppvremsleep · 2024-05-07T15:17:59+00:00

Most girls find pill talk to be weird and annoying. They got their own with being in feminine energy and how to land a rich man they think that’s okay though.

I’m black pill, there’s some guys that can just look at women and instantly make out with them. Then prob 30% of guys that will never happen. You appeal to the female gaze or you don’t. Some guys are totally normal in all respects, no girl will ever desire him, getting dates or approaching it’s not going to work like that. They still might get a relationship, but they can’t casually attract women no matter what they do or change. Don’t talk about this to women though, most hate it.

AstronautExisting230 · 2024-05-07T15:26:43+00:00

Both pills tend to lie and project a ton.

As far as I'm concerned most red pillers like to claim they are "alphas" and understand the true nature of "women", yet are are still basement dwellers that look like crap. I mean look at the dude, "the rational male". The guy looks like a soy nerd, and insists that he's an "alpha male" This leads into the question on what makes an alpha male? Treating everyone woman hostile? Lol give me a break.

It also seems like red pillers have terrible experiences with women and project their disdain for them whilst simultaneously wanting relationships with them. They can't openly share their dislike or resentment for women, whilst simultaneously admitting that women are subjugated and oppressed, because thats too "soy" for them. They also claim they aren't obsessed with women, yet their goals are entirely to get women. Getting money, getting fit, being successful, doesn't appeal to a large amount of these men unless it correlates with getting women (it often does). You get a rapist sex trafficker like andrew tate that just points out obvious shit and men act like this is some new founded philosophy. Well no shit, being successful, being a normal contributing member society might just get you a girlfriend. Who could have known?

Blue pillers on the other hand tend to largely dismiss how worthless modern dating is for a man. The perfect example is destiny. Dude literally consented to an open relationship, let the girl essentially use him, got screwed over by it and still insists to this day that he had the high ground and arrogantly proclaimed he would do it again.

Ultramega39 · 2024-05-07T15:52:19+00:00

Honestly I'm not that familiar with the blue pill but am very familiar with red pill but from what I've seen blue pill seems to embrace the current societal narrative.

I am very opposed to the current narrative surrounding hookup culture. Like I can't imagine having sex with a woman that I'm not deeply in love with and in a relationship with.

Whiskeymyers75 · 2024-05-07T16:14:52+00:00

I’m not a Niceguy

meisterkraus · 2024-05-07T16:25:28+00:00

The problem for the "blue" pill is that it was only recently it started to talk about the basic and true concepts the red pills uses. It is too little too late. These men feel like they have been abandoned( basically true in the US, Democrats have at best ignored men for decades) it is no surprise they went to the red pill. Now the attempts to get them out look disingenuous.

downvotrax · 2024-05-07T16:48:18+00:00

Life experiences and self respect

MotleyCrew1989 · 2024-05-07T17:24:53+00:00

Basically, the cave allegory from Plato

Lovers691 · 2024-05-07T18:54:20+00:00

This is the equivalent of asking an atheist why can't they just believe in a god. You either believe in the bluepill or not

TheDuellist100 · 2024-05-07T19:16:10+00:00

I love the truth too much. I'm not sorry.

DaMarcusGotJuice · 2024-05-07T19:22:34+00:00

Blue pill is for simps

odd_cloud · 2024-05-07T23:40:05+00:00

Answering the question in your post: rp explained some details about female attraction I didn’t get growing up in bp environment. I found bp advice not working and struggled to reconcile reality with bp description of relationships.

Responding to the rest of your post: why did you decide anyone who touched rp is miserable and ostracised? May it be I’m less miserable than you?

Southern_Fall983 · 2024-05-07T23:42:28+00:00

Um, because it’s total and complete bullshit?

envious1998 · 2024-05-08T02:01:56+00:00

Reality

Comfortable-Dare-307 · 2024-05-08T02:52:22+00:00

I am neither redpill or bluepill. But I definately would be redpill before bluepill. I have more to fear from women than women do from me. My step mother physically and sexually abused me from age 4 to 9, my mother is an alcholic that ignored the abuse, and was emotionally abusive while my step father beat me from the time I was 4 until I was too big to hit anymore. My ex-wife is bipolar and was sexually manipulative and emotionally abusive. It wasn't until I was 31 that I've been on my own away from abusive women. And every time I around my family now I still have to listen to them emotionally abuse everyone around them. This is why I am not a feminist or a blue pill supporter. I don't know what social reward you're talking about other than I guess sex? I am too old for such nonsense anymore.

KamuiObito · 2024-05-08T07:46:52+00:00

Its genuinely cuck behavior. I can guarantee 90% of blue pill men are cucks or have an open relationship. Anyone over the age of 20 thats blue pill is probably closeted or emotionally insecure/unstable tbh. And thats no insult. I genuinely think they agree with women because they think like them.

I was blue pill before i got cheated on and had flings..realized women are just kinda narcissistic. They’ll date a high body count man not because he just lovely..but because narcissism.(women are never gonna agree to criticism everrrrr its like a criminal who beat the case willingly locking himself up, its not happening unless it came with extreme guilt)

N-Zoth · 2024-05-07T13:57:02+00:00

I mean in order to graduate from the red pill you gotta take the blue pill since all the chads are blue pilled.

John_Oakman · 2024-05-07T14:40:19+00:00

The blue pill has nothing to offer but blood, toil, tears, and sweat. However this isn't 1940 and the promise of moral virtues no longer entice people as they used to.

boom-wham-slam · 2024-05-07T14:44:00+00:00

I'm struggling to understand why someone would volunteer for a life of misery and social ostracisation...

Yeah that's why I wonder why men take the blue pill? Because that sounds more like a blue pill outcome to me. Everyone goes with the flow and everyone goes down the stream and everyone ends up in the ocean. It's not a mystery. There is no room for anything else.

Red pill is results based. Blue pill is social cohesion based. It's not just dating. It's everything in life. If your goal is to be Joe Schmo, do average in everything and be nice. Then of course the blue pill is for you.

Red pill is way more enjoyable. I'm over here not working and making more than most people. Have a girlfriend most wish they could get one like her, while fucking as many girls on the side as I want. I'm not sure why you think Red pill is a life of misery. I can assure you my life is not miserable.

Red pill usually are either basement dwellers or chads. Blue pills make up the average. But are basement dweller Red pills that way because they are Red pill or because they have other flaws? I think it's because they have other flaws... they live in a freaking basement I don't think it matters what pill they take. Lol.

Immediate-Society222 · 2024-05-07T13:40:05+00:00

Reality

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KayRay1994 · 2024-05-07T14:28:48+00:00

I don’t much believe in any “pill” - plus, the blue pill as a concept straight up only exists to be an opposition of the redpill’s claims. In other words, it’s not a real thing - less so than the red pill, in fact, because it only exists to be an opposing force of the redpill, something redpill content creators can look at and say “see? you don’t wanna be like them, trust me”

Now - if we wanna talk about “blue pill ideas” in accordance to the redpill, flat out, because they ask for one being weak willed and demand a rejection of reality for the sake of feel-good delusions (which will likely hurt you more in the long run) - and for all the redpill’s faults, it, at the very least, has a basis in reality - it just takes this basis and drives it to ridiculous extremes. Also, believing in the basis of reality does not make one “redpill” imo because the redpill is all about taking that basis and mixing it up with a combination of bitterness and entitlement.

Purple_Cruncher_123 · 2024-05-07T15:14:03+00:00

Some things I can think of:

Not everyone fits into the BP narrative - those people then seek alternatives. There have always been guys who don't succeed, but modern factors make it harder for them so they go looking for answers in places conventionally successful people don't need to.
You assume the life of misery and social ostracization will follow, when it could have been the precursor. It's sort of like asking who joins cults? It's not people who have happy, well-adjusted lives. Cults attracted the disaffected, those who feel something is missing from their life. NOT saying RP is a cult (some users here might), only that when people are hurt, they go looking for affiliation that helps them make sense of the world.
Depending on your definition of blue, all of us start blue, but some drift away as life experience contradicts it. Interestingly enough, I'm reading a couple's counseling book with my fiance right now that talks about societal shifts in what a 'happy marriage' looks like. Believe it or not, the 'blue pill' narrative for decades/centuries was that marriage should be functional, with something like romantic love down in like 5th place in priority. So what's blue and red isn't set in stone either, it drifts based on changing social mores.

Dankutoo · 2024-05-07T15:20:57+00:00

I do my best to accept reality, as it is. I did not take any ‘pill’, and I don’t think anyone does.

You’re assuming people choose a position first, and then justify it. I’d argue people have ideas first, and then retroactively apply a label to them.

krayon_kylie · 2024-05-07T15:25:15+00:00

i stopped when i started injections

Thoanaweigh · 2024-05-07T15:52:54+00:00

Why not base your life on something that isn’t real that will hurt your relationships and expose you to risk? Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

Taking the red pill doesn’t mean you’re an insufferable asshole. It means you’ve honestly and without prejudice studied intersexual dynamics and learned sometimes it’s flattering and sometimes it isn’t flattering to either gender. It exposé’s challenges and advantages for both sexes. “Taking the blue pill” would be like becoming a devout Mormon after you’ve learned it’s a bullshit religion.

Inner-Dependent6446 · 2024-05-07T16:20:50+00:00

my parents dynamic shows what happens when a man redpills so why would i take the bluepill

wtknight · 2024-05-07T17:25:22+00:00

Is the "truth" that the Red Pill exposes worth missing out on the social reward of playing along with the Blue Pill?

There isn’t a social reward for being too much of a woke Blue Piller for many men. Men need to at least understand the evolutionary psychology of women’s mating choices, although I don’t think that it’s an excuse to go full Red Pill and become a misogynist who over-generalizes women.

WANT_SOME_HAM · 2024-05-07T17:31:49+00:00

Because if you're "blue pilled" you're a normal person embarrassed by the dorky, shallow Matrix analogy and call it "having social skills" instead.

I only have this flair so I can post. Otherwise I'd remove it in a heartbeat.

Kaminaxgurren · 2024-05-07T17:37:49+00:00

Because idealism has brought me nothing but pain.

guppyhunter7777 · 2024-05-07T19:12:56+00:00

First off red pill is nuts. Polygamous, lifestyles, and such. So I see actual damage that that is causing. And the more moderate folks seem to be angling for a bygone era that I’m not sure is ever coming back.

That said fourth wave feminist, and the blue pill are not in any way, shape or form in the business of equality, they basically are looking into the past looking at the disparities between the sexes and say “rather than fixing them it’s just our turn to make all the same mistakes.” Why would anybody ever want to do business with someone like that?

Best answer is no pills. Except that there are difference in the sexes with different strengths. Except that current work environments are going to require different solutions than what has been seen in the past. And treat each other with some respect. Forgive,reconcile and move on.

daddysgotanew · 2024-05-07T19:33:13+00:00

Reality

It’s kind of like being a leftist. When you believe in unicorns and peace and and free shit, you’re ignoring reality.

When you’re like me, you get up every day and bust your ass, and see 35 percent of your paycheck gone before you even get it and go WTF?

Some people choose to live with their head in the clouds and wishing and dreaming like a child. Others see things as they are with their own eyes and go, “yea, that’s how it actually works.”

eyewave · 2024-05-07T19:50:55+00:00

I was in love with a "friend".

When I came close to her to flirt, she commented on how indecisive/unmanly I am and that it doesn't awake her desire at all. Fair enough.

Then I acted like a friend and went to tend to my other flirts more, and suddenly she mentioned again how much she likes me and doesn't want to lose me. It's happened a couple of times as I came back responding.

Who's indecisive now bitch 👀

But it's only one in dozens... I don't generalize but she in particular, what a massive cunt to try to keep me in limbo.

PapaiPapuda · 2024-05-08T00:28:55+00:00

I take a blue pill 15 min before we start it up

flakybottom · 2024-05-08T09:46:49+00:00

I was waaaay more miserable when I was bluepilled.

I'm gonna copy paste another comment I made before:

A lot of redditors and other people on social media like to assign very nefarious qualities to virgin men. Stuff like misogynist, rapist, pedophile, etc. Made me very depressed, suicidal even.

Blackpill cuts through the bullshit and says you are a permavirgin cuz you are ugly. I'm fine with being ugly. Almost instantly my mental health improved and I was able to talk to women with more confidence. The End.

2024-05-09T21:51:29+00:00

The rise of the sigma type shit 💀. If you took the red pill you are lost. Grass hasnt seen you in a while.

Pegmaster6969696969 · 2024-05-12T04:40:20+00:00

This is kind of a loaded question.

Most guys with experience are red pilled, being red pilled is not being a stupid in él who hates women and loses his career, being redpilled just means being aware of the dynamics that actually govern the dating world, which you can't see with the blue pill's rose coloured glasses. It's your decision if you decide to ruin your life when learning how the world works, it's your decision if you follow idiots who sell you courses, but these people making those decisions are not representative of the guys who are redpilled, which is most guys with experience.

You can be redpilled and still be a normal member of society, because you have internalised it and accepted it, no need to be talking about it all the time, no need to join weird cults, just try to consider these truths when engaging in dating without much noise.

In my country we say "he who eats quietly will get seconds"

Available_Log_6622 · 2024-05-07T20:56:57+00:00

Dichotomous thinking standards and an inability to self improve

esdebah · 2024-05-07T22:14:31+00:00

No one actually thinks about themselves as blue or purple pill before finding out about red pill. We're all just like people, kid. So the only thing that keeps a red-piller or a black-piller from taking the blue pill is having bought into the red pill mentality and...well....started taking pills. You know, expressing your misogyny, misanthropy, or suicidal tendencies through a strained bastardization of an analogy from a movie with HEAVY AND VERIFIABLE trans and transhumanism themes set against heavily humanist morality. So, everything other than what is now referred to as red or black pill is refuted by the nomenclature. Literally and metaphorically every other idea is considered and lionized in Matrix that gives this subculture and others the pill metaphor. What are we doing here except trying to break down a badly read analogy and a worse subculture?

^\Misandry also comes up a bunch on this sub, but is usually man on man and part and parcel to the general misanthropy vibe of the pill lens. Women who hate men steer clear for places like FDS, unless they're trolling.)

Think_Reporter_8179 · 2024-05-07T16:19:53+00:00

The truth is Red Pill is just an angsty failure worldview of cognitive dissonance trying to justify the fact that a person is not interesting and/or creepy so women have no interest in them, thus they have to pretend to be someone they're not. That's all.

Title	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?
Author	KingNnylf
Upvotes	0
Comments	361
Date	May 7, 2024 1:36 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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