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ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-08-09T16:31:13+00:00

Wow, no offense to her but she looks like she is barely breaking 16. It just makes this even creepier how delicate and young she looks.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-08-09T17:17:44+00:00

Omg, she looks like a baby.

Fetia_ · 2021-08-09T16:48:06+00:00

An emotionally stunted male teacher with his barely legal gf? Yeah, I’m sure the thought of dating someone that age never crossed his mind before. 🙄

effypom · 2021-08-09T19:39:12+00:00

At 48 I'd given up on Love, so I decided to groom a child. /s

spinsterchachkies · 2021-08-09T16:53:54+00:00

She’s going to regret that in a few years 🤮

jupitaur9 · 2021-08-09T17:28:43+00:00

The ubiquitous hat. I bet he wears it everywhere.

Because we know there’s no hair under there and he wants to look younger so he doesn’t spook the girls.

kortiz46 · 2021-08-09T16:51:43+00:00

I'm 48 and wouldn't date him.

He not only couldn't find compatibility with a woman his own age, he had to go to another country to find one. She looks like a child. He's sick. If I went to Belgium to get banged by a 19 year old boy, I'm sure I'd either end up arrested or given a Proper Amish Shunning. This is not a love story. This is a pedophile story.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-08-09T19:21:07+00:00

To any young girl on FDS, it isn’t worth it. I was in that girls shoes almost at the same age. I let go of my education for some older man and guess what? I was treated like crap, a maid and a built in baby sitter for that losers kids. And I was objectified. I was seen as the pretty young “mom” and abused if another dude looked at me or if I said whatever was on my mind. Peter Pan syndrome my ass. He’s just the garbage that no woman wants. Damaged goods beyond repair so he preys on young naive women that will pay him any attention.

bigsquishycatface · 2021-08-09T17:31:17+00:00

a man who is almost 50 hanging out in a fan group for a band whose fans are mostly preteen and teenage girls?! i’m not saying people that age can’t like their music but the fact he didn’t keep appropriate boundaries in that environment that is 🚩🚩🚩

nattyhattie · 2021-08-09T19:16:15+00:00

Yeah this one creeped me out too. He met her on a forum and stalked her social media. ‘Given up on love’ is usually code for ‘couldn’t find a compliant woman to put up with my shit.’

I hope she is on birth control and gets back into her education soon.

Wild_Artio · 2021-08-09T16:55:23+00:00

I’m sick and tired of this world sometimes.

Human_Summer_1709 · 2021-08-09T17:30:01+00:00

“Jeremy answered and I didn’t really react to his comments, but then he found me on Instagram and we started chatting on there.” He was so determined to groom her 🤢

FrenchHeel · 2021-08-09T18:50:39+00:00

All the photos look like father-daughter pics. Disgusting. I hope she wakes up and goes home for school.

And his idiot parents? Belgian citizens aren’t looking for a green card. Raise your son better.

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2021-08-09T18:08:46+00:00

Any middle aged man who has any interest in pursuing a relationship with a girl who is still a teenager and was legally considered a child two years ago while it’s been several decades since he graduated high school is a juvenile who is too immature to find a woman his age. He is also a predator. A 48 year old man and a 19 year old girl are in two very different life stages. This man goes for young girls because they are still naive and can be more easily manipulated than women in their 40s🤢

spookymulder07 · 2021-08-09T20:18:44+00:00

A 19 year old wearing grandma glasses is not "an old soul". Wtf is this?

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-08-09T18:31:25+00:00

He is going to absolutely destroy her quality of life for years, then go

🤡 "It was all legal, I didn't do anything wrong! You can't blame me, I didn't control her life or her choices!"

scrotesmadsosad · 2021-08-09T16:42:53+00:00

lmao im 21 and i don't understand how people are attracted to older guys because a lot of them are just soooo ugly and their bodies are usually gross too. you can just tell that older men don't use sunscreen lol. plus i've read so many posts here about how they have erectile dysfunction problems. like i can't think of a reason why you would pick one of these guys at my age unless you were desperate for money or groomed into it. i'm way too horny to put up with ED and i want somebody who can keep up with me. all the guys i've considered are either 2 years older or 2 years younger. with guys my age i have trouble trusting them enough to take the relationship further (working on avoidant attachment issues right now lol), but with older men who approach me or seem interested i immediately distrust them and try to distance myself as fast as possible. like even 26-28 year olds gross me out, shouldn't you be in an age appropriate relationship or married or something? and idk where all these teenagers dating old guys are from because i know zero girls from my high school who dated men who were >3 years older than them.

Human_Summer_1709 · 2021-08-09T20:32:39+00:00

Asked whether they have experienced much judgement about their relationship, Jeremy said that his parents were a bit concerned that Charline wanted a green card"

You have to be fucking kidding me. Yeah, a 19 year old in BRUSSELS, the de facto capital of the European Union, is the evil manipulator here, trying to get a green card from an innocent, "childlike" 48 year old teacher in Vermont, whom she initially ignored and only started talking to after he stalked her on across several social media platforms!!!!!!! You literally cannot make the delusions of some people up! I guarantee you that her standard of living and lifestyle are MUCH higher in Brussels than they would be in Vermont with a teacher!!

VeganandlovingIt · 2021-08-09T17:05:36+00:00

So this child, (she's just a year older than my daughter) is going to pick this old loser over going to college? This old man is more important than her future? Idc if she's "legal" this is grooming on that man's part, and it is disgusting. If he were a decent human being, he wouldn't be okay with her not going to college to be with him. In fact, he'd pursue a woman his own age.

This is the fear I have with my daughter. I'd be damned if some old man comes knocking talking about he wants me to be with my barely legal child.

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-08-09T17:50:39+00:00

Why do old men think we find them attractive? They’re predators, controlling, and they are never satisfied with anything. He looks like her uncle twice removed and you can lose a paper clip in that crows feet. She’ll learn after she gets taken for a spin on an old scrote carnival ride. Those rides break down, you come out like a banshee from hell, but you live and you best learn. Red flag parade. Wtf

turtleshame · 2021-08-09T18:45:18+00:00

Of course the band they bonded over was 21 pilots: whiny-ass privileged emo bordering on preachy christian rock with the lyrical depth of a puddle. At least it’s a band that fits her maturity level, at his age - well, y’all know.

Alternative headline:

“Teacher Trawls Teen online, grooms girl 28 years younger into sex servitude”

It needs work, but it has the alliteration & uses the word sex, which the Sun usually loves. Maybe for the weekend edition 🤔

2021-08-09T17:32:08+00:00

I see the Soviet parade before me.

Seriously, tired of men grooming barely legal girls (and many times even minors). What is wrong with them?

glossiglam · 2021-08-09T19:38:17+00:00

Poor girl she will look back on this in a few years and feel truly repulsed. If she survives this relationship that is. Creep guy like this will do everything he can do destroy her so she feels she can’t leave him

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-08-09T19:31:29+00:00

only a predator will go the route of "old soul", "mature for her age", "girls mature faster than boys" etc.

the fact that he claims he has Peter Pan syndrome does not mean they are equally matched. it means that she will be 40 and he will still have Peter Pan syndrome. wake up, woman!

kinkardine · 2021-08-09T18:06:50+00:00

Ugh that poor girl.

lillyofthevalet · 2021-08-09T17:27:54+00:00

Heartbroken for her 💔 where is her father, brothers??

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-08-09T19:29:41+00:00

He's looking for a financial retirement plan, a free old age caregiver, emotional punching bag, and an underage looking bangmaid. He's been vetted and rejected by women his own age for a good reason. He doesn't want a partner, he wants a servant.

ciciplum · 2021-08-09T21:04:18+00:00

This reminds me of a story of my LVX father. He dump his wife for a girl that he met online playing videogames she said she was 18 but she actually was 16 but he didn't mind that at all. So she was 16 and he was 43. They were in a long distance relationship for 2 years and when she was actually 18 she left everything to be with him in another country. He was trying to be this cool guy around her. But people always thought he was her father whenever they went somewhere public. And my ex was same age as his fathers new gf even a month older. Apparently his father REALLY wanted to have a daughter. It makes me wonder if he actually wanted to have one to abuse her? It's so gross and fucked up.

notthatkindofdoctorb · 2021-08-09T19:16:33+00:00

Maybe he should just adopt her.

ChopSueyKablooey · 2021-08-09T19:48:21+00:00

She initially didn’t reply to his comments on Facebook, so this creep found her on Instagram. I am so tired of male entitlement. Then he says it wasn’t until after they were talking that he “felt something”. So why did you DM her on Instagram in the first place then? I’m so grossed out.

Human_Summer_1709 · 2021-08-09T23:53:51+00:00

If he's a "young soul" why is he going after an "old soul"? Why not a young soul that is the same age as him? The mental gymnastics these predators try and pull

2021-08-09T19:59:16+00:00

The Sun has women in bikini's and underwear on every page (they used to have the infamous "page 3" which was a full page of a 18/19yo topless) This is exact kind of story their audience of perverts want to hear.

Pyjama_party · 2021-08-09T21:16:55+00:00

I don’t know where to start with this as there’s so much else wrong, but..why publicly admit or claim that as a grown man you have “Peter pan syndrome” clearly just been rejected by women of his age, and needs an excuse to protect his ego. we aren’t in neverland you big ol perv grow tf up. Ew

Maude2010 · 2021-08-09T21:11:54+00:00

She looks like she could be twelve. Not that any 19 year old would be okay, but come on. There’s no way he can even try the “she’s so mature” lie.

arnezuara · 2021-08-09T20:56:54+00:00

She literally looks like a child. Wait, she is a child. And he’s a pedophile.

slayeroftruth · 2021-08-09T21:03:34+00:00

Its impossible for women in her thirties to be on maturity and life level of 48 year old man let alone young women who brain is still not fully developed and barley has any life experience. If any man no matter where he lives can't find women in his own country he is the problem. I would not be surprised if he has preyed on vulnerable students. Any young women/women with big age gap has low standards, self esteem issues or was groomed at very young age. Its abnormal and goes against biology for 19 year old to be with middle aged male.

Averyhvw · 2021-08-09T22:09:00+00:00

“I posted a picture on the 21 Pilots fan Facebook group and asked people what their favorite song was,” Charline told The Mirror.

“Jeremy answered and I didn’t really react to his comments, but then he found me on Instagram and we started chatting on there.”

Just going to leave this here while I thank Facebook for facilitating this scrote’s access to a vulnerable young women 🖕

RabidWench · 2021-08-10T04:16:18+00:00

about a week in I was like, ‘uh oh, I feel something',"

Sir, that is your penis. Tell it to sit TF down and leave girls young enough to be your daughter alone.

NaurathDominionSpy · 2021-08-09T21:00:35+00:00

I’m 19 and I can’t even imagine doing this. I feel bad for her, I hope she dumps him before wasting years of her youth! 🤢

SearchLightsInc · 2021-08-09T22:26:04+00:00

The sun is a paper in the UK that they haven't been able to sell in the city of Liverpool for over 3 decades, that's how scummy this paper is. I wouldn't even wipe my arse with it, its tabloid press.

_laufaeson · 2021-08-09T18:27:37+00:00

🤢🤢🤢

Altowhovian93 · 2021-08-09T22:33:17+00:00

Ewww she’s a literal child. Where are her parents? The friends telling her nah sis? And this guy! What are his parents and his friends saying? She’s old enough to be his child he had with his college GF that he strung along for 10 years while building his career only to drop GF and marry his Uber eats driver!

JSBachLove · 2021-08-09T23:30:53+00:00

My gosh, she looks 15. She didn't reply to him on Facebook, so he hunts down her Instagram and demands her attention, but her age was tOtAlLy JuSt A cOiNcIdEnCe right?!

“My primary need is to be with him, even if I wait a few years to go to college,” Charline said.

SIGH. :(

cherieblosum · 2021-08-09T21:44:06+00:00

Predator

Aocwannabe · 2021-08-10T02:03:22+00:00

I need a shower after reading this and seeing the photos where I see a father and daughter posing but then am told that they are a couple.

IMPORTANT: online dating gives weirdos access to you.

🚩referring to girls. He never mentions women. 🚩he is a sex tourist. Just because it’s Western Europe and not Thailand or Eastern Europe doesn’t make it better. 🚩Her parents “accept” because they don’t have a choice. His parents accept because now it’s postponed him from going to jail.

2021-08-09T19:10:01+00:00

I can’t anymore 😭

Sheravenous · 2021-08-09T22:15:36+00:00

He's a teacher too????? 🤢

FURYOFCAPSLOCK · 2021-08-09T22:53:37+00:00

She looks like a CHILD

2021-08-10T04:19:44+00:00

“Even if I have to wait a few years for college.”

Girl you’re about to learn a hard lesson. We will welcome you here with open arms in a few years. Damn.

ceilingkatwatchesus · 2021-08-10T01:10:38+00:00

This is creepy. Depending on how I dress(jeans and tshirt), sometimes i get mistaken for being younger than I actually look. Creepy old men, will strike up a random convo. with me until they realize I'm 34 and then they slowly pussy-pop back to the hole in which they crawled out of. Cuz they know who they can and cannot groom or manipulate. I just wish pickme's and younger women knew how much power they hold and possess.

frostedgemstone · 2021-08-10T03:22:05+00:00

As a 22 year old I would have never done something so horrible when I was 19.. I wonder if she has no social support. She’s going to regret it faster than she thinks. This time is precious

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-08-10T03:32:57+00:00

She's 45 and changing seeping bandages from his diabetic wounds while he sleeps off his carb coma in a Barcalounger when she catches a glimpse of his of teen porn stash. Because a self-indulgent pedomanbaby at 48 is a self-indulgent pedomanbaby at 70.

pissedoffmolly · 2021-08-10T04:00:13+00:00

Jeremy and Charline spent eight days together in Brussels in June - after a year of long-distance

And she's 19? Which means she was conveeeniently of age when he first started stalking her Instagram.

Twenty bucks says he's been chatting her up for way longer than a year. He's probably been grooming her since she was 16.

butterflyfrenchfry · 2021-08-09T22:51:35+00:00

I’ve met a couple Peter Pans. Shits just wrong on so many levels…

midgetsinheaven · 2021-08-10T01:37:54+00:00

Oh God Almighty! This happened to me! I wasnt that young, but I was 26 and he was 42 but I didn't know. He lied and told be he was 31. I was still hesitant at that age gap but he chased me aggressively! I didn't find out his real age until we were one year into our relationship and I was fully trapped. It took me SEVEN years to get out of it and another 4 to get him out of my system. It is NOT OK.

Stuffnthings1840 · 2021-08-10T02:35:07+00:00

Uhhhhhhhhhhh not my kid. I will show up and act a fool.

Meredeen · 2021-08-10T02:30:06+00:00

Well that's the first time I've ever sent in an editorial complaint to a news website.

aoi4eg · 2021-08-10T07:52:16+00:00

Also, who wrote this article? I mean, one of them contacted journalists in order to share their "fabulous love story"? Looks like propaganda to me, because next time some 19 y.o. tries to search "is this middle-aged man tries to groom me" she'll find an article framing an age gap like this as a great thing?

Platipus6 · 2021-08-10T01:18:19+00:00

He says "Peter Pan syndrome" like "Fetal Alcohol syndrome" 😂😂😂

Daciana_Days · 2021-08-10T02:01:59+00:00

I think I just threw up a little 🤢

So he commented on her pic, she DIDNT respond and then he tracked her down on instagram? 😒

Ergh no. smacks dumbass man with a rolled up newspaper

This is just gross and I stopped reading at this point. Leave the child alone, and let her get an education.

jelilikins · 2021-08-10T09:21:33+00:00

I saw this yesterday!! Really awful. I want to do a remindme for it in a few years but sadly news stories don't work like that...

I have another one too: 21 year old med student with a 51 year old window cleaner. Worst of all, the article isn't even about that, and ignores the age difference entirely, it's just a detail you notice if you're reading properly.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2021/aug/09/uk-couple-completes-challenge-to-take-part-in-101-olympic-sports

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efemel115 · 2021-08-10T06:03:36+00:00

this story sounds like keemstars sad life.

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