Daily Community Chat Megathread

Every_Breakfast1246 · 2021-11-19T18:58:40+00:00

My GF didn't wish me a good international mens day.

This is a clear red flag right?

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-11-19T15:53:29+00:00

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NarniaFox · 2021-11-19T15:39:19+00:00

The top 5 regrets of dying:

"I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."
"I wish I hadn’t worked so hard."
"I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings."
"I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends."
"I wish that I had let myself be happier."

What rings true for you right now?

Mimoxs · 2021-11-18T17:36:25+00:00

The normal version of trp is just kinda meh but I swear the mrp/rpw communities feel surreal to scroll through. It gives off a combination of cultish vibes (with the regular sins confessions lol) and the kind of incoherent anger of two crazy homeless men in the subway yelling at each other. Which is weird bc the normal trp sub is cringey/edgy but like, they still seem like normal, sane people. Reading the normal trp sub doesn't feel like you're looking at some kind of coded message.

It reminds me of like really far-gone sjws where like, you can't imagine these people actually existing in real life and going outside and interacting with others without having a breakdown.

Danielcraigboston1 · 2021-11-18T18:03:43+00:00

Why do you think American society is so judgmental of adult men who live with their parents? I’m years away from getting a good job and it will take me a year working retail just to afford roommates. (Live in Boston)

CimZim · 2021-11-18T21:37:23+00:00

You ever have one of those customers that is so dumb you're pretty confident they got a discount lobotomy by a half-blind hobo using a spork?

MLEMisafunnyword · 2021-11-18T17:27:50+00:00

Has any man here been overweight or skinny, got in shape through exercise and then noticed a difference in their online dating performance? Or can your face be just that ugly that exercise doesn’t help.

LackOf_Empathy · 2021-11-18T17:41:38+00:00

"Women should only ever be a complement to a man's life, never the focus of it".

Men should be more focused on improving themselves and building a career than chasing women for a relationship.

lulll · 2021-11-19T14:27:06+00:00

women really act like they dont take smelly dumps. you aren't fooling anyone

Puzzled9999 · 2021-11-18T17:02:16+00:00

First?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-11-18T17:59:48+00:00

I've seen men who borderline argue that men have no reason to improve themselves other than wanting more sex.

That's actually just one of the most "Wtf!?" things I've heard.

I'm improving (attempting to) my financial situation because I don't want a shit life, I do boxing because I'm passionate about combat sports, I'm learning Spanish because it genuinely fascinates me.

Sure, these DO come with nice dating benefits like having a more attractive lifestyle, improving my physique, and being able to flirt with Latinas, but these are tertiary benefits at best (mayyyybe secondary benefits)

Also, that idea is bad because it puts stock into this idea you can just come back into the dating market after not participating and suddenly everything will be easier. It won't if you've not actually been flirting with women.

Nothing wrong with improving yourself for women, but if that's the main or even one of the main benefits on your mind, you will be sorely mistaken and quite possibly disappointed.

Men should be improving themselves within ability by default, with or without the promise of coochie

Siukslinis_acc · 2021-11-18T18:25:24+00:00

Can't take my eyes off from the way the skirts are flowing.

Artistic_Guest4386 · 2021-11-18T18:50:28+00:00

The real Red Pill is, in the fictional fantasy world, Jennifer Aniston ends up with Ross Gellar....a mild mannered Beta as all hell intelligent nice guy.

In REAL life she was with LITERALLY Brad Pitt.

HighValueMoidxD · 2021-11-18T19:10:38+00:00

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/dating/q2694032-what-is-this-guy-s-league-are-you-below-or-above-his-league

He’s definitely handsome but he look so boring and his lack of confidence is killing his attractiveness.

It's literally 5 pictures lmao. Why are you rambling about confidence

CimZim · 2021-11-18T22:43:48+00:00

God damn, you are looking dandyfinealicious today!

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2021-11-18T17:54:50+00:00

Do people really care if you’re picky as long as you don’t complain?

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2021-11-18T18:04:06+00:00

A guy went on three dates with a girl and then had sex with her. But he was "not feeling the spark" and was going to dump her, so he asked mainstream dating subreddit for advice. (Some) Commenters seethed as a result, proclaiming that he used her just for sex.

Men of PPD: how would you dump her if you were him?

Women of PPD: how would you prefer to be dumped if you were her?

LetsDelveIntoIt1 · 2021-11-18T18:19:55+00:00

Just read this and I'm *smdh* Timely, after u/WillWyattD's post about men and household chores.

This woman is in her 30s and not even married to the mooch guy. Yet she keeps saying "somehow" she ended up being taken for granted for 3 years by the guy and his entire family. I legit have no sympathy for women like this one.

HighValueMoidxD · 2021-11-18T18:31:53+00:00

Fuck, holy shit, this guy Orb is so fucking good looking. His eye area is literally directly cut out from the face of god. His face is more harmonious than even beethoven's symphonies:

https://youtu.be/wN2_kqySOwo

zyramain69 · 2021-11-18T19:40:02+00:00

Dani Leigh is a good example of even being wealthy and from a 2 parent house, women are still attracted to dysfunction

FabulousFuchsbau · 2021-11-18T20:13:07+00:00

Well one our horses has colic…….

Siukslinis_acc · 2021-11-18T21:13:37+00:00

Watching "My Country: the New Age" I was made conciously aware on how a haircut can influence the attractivness of a person.

Bang-Won:

• Tidy hair - neutral, leaning to attractive

• Tousled hair - attractive

Hwi:

• Tidy hair - neutral

• Tousled hair - neutral, leaning to attractive

Another thing it made me more conciously aware that I like wavy hair (I think it also give a bit of a tousled look).

rivetcitymayor · 2021-11-18T21:37:21+00:00

It saddens me to say, the best sex I’ve had was from “ whores/hoes/sluts “, not good girls 😔

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-11-19T13:44:56+00:00

My body hates me. I've been up till 3am almost every night this week but I'm awake 830 like clock work. One night was 1am. Woke up at 6. It's not that I'm not tired but my body just wants to punish my bad behavior.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-11-19T12:38:01+00:00

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.etonline.com/kim-kardashian-and-pete-davidson-are-connecting-on-a-deeper-level-while-dating-source-says-175426%3famp

Pete stay punching above his weight class with women, he’s not an attractive guy at all. Ariana did say he has a huge penis though and once word gets out the floodgates tend to open up.

funlightmandarin · 2021-11-19T12:31:57+00:00

Had some fun with hairstyle apps, behold:

The impact of different hairstyles.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-11-19T12:13:00+00:00

I was watching a podcast and this dude was talking about women who claim to be “loyal” GF’s/Wives but their friends are HUGE sluts who they hang out with every week.

It reminds me of the time One of my friends like 4 years ago used his uncle’s yacht for a night for about 30 people. It was basically one big orgy, I’ve never seen anything like it. EVERY girl there was either suckin/ fucking, there was no girl just sitting off to the side and observing the other women. “I just went to support my friends I didn’t do anything hehe”. Still to this day the closest I have ever been to a threesome

nemma88 · 2021-11-19T11:23:52+00:00

PPDers; Do you believe in the concept of a 'True self'?

This bit sums up me... https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6817459/

. If the inner self is different from the way the person acts all the time, why is the inner one the “true” self?” (Baumeister and Bushman, 2013, p. 75). This is how the notion of a true self is introduced in a recent textbook on social science. It is suggested that there is a conflict between folk psychology and science, where the true self is a notion that does not hold up to closer scrutiny.

I believe people can choose to not do something they want to, or to do something they don't - I just also believe the rational of that decision is as much the 'true them' as the discarded want.

Edit; I'd like to redub it as the 'Irrational self'

Gabrielvrape · 2021-11-19T09:44:33+00:00

In all seriousness though, looking at the new data about the rise in female sexlessness pisses me off because you obviously know they are lying. And they are just saying they have not had sex due to the pandemic or because they don't want people to know they were having sex during the pandemic. Women stealing our flow.

Gabrielvrape · 2021-11-19T09:38:10+00:00

PUAs be like:

PUA: Are you tired of being lead on, rejected or put in the friend zone? Yes? Great! My name is Chad PussySmasher and im here to introduce you to my brand new course that will make you go from cuck to stud in just 3 months! Proven scientific methods that will 100% guarantee your success with any woman.

I know what your thinking, "there's no way a woman could like me, im an incel". Don't worry, a couple of years ago I was just like you until I stumbled upon this secret loophole inside the female brain that allows me to sleep with any woman I want in less than 10 minutes. This technique is so powerful it has been banned in almost 50 countries across the world and im going to teach it to you for the price of $900 dollars. No tricks, no gimmicks, no bullshit, it doesn't matter if you are bald fat, or ugly this technique is guaranteed to work every time.

Take back your dating life brother, and be the man your ancestors wanted you to be.

passepar2t · 2021-11-19T07:23:33+00:00

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Gabrielvrape · 2021-11-19T05:38:46+00:00

Ugh oh, not FDS women thinking having sex means you are entitled to a relationship after. Spoiler alert, your not.

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qwznp4/ladies_please_do_not_sleep_with_a_man_early_on/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

elephant-man- · 2021-11-19T05:36:18+00:00

maybe this zodiac shit is legit man, sagittarius women keep fucking up my life

ScholarMore5267 · 2021-11-19T05:07:25+00:00

I wonder if it will become for common for average dudes to string along hot women who think they are settling for him, only for him to dump her.

madsskayyy · 2021-11-19T05:04:18+00:00

I must have been very good in my previous life because I somehow found a man that’s fine with watching Doris Day movies with me while eating pringles.

On another note, in the movie they referenced how “the rate of unwed mothers” was rising in the past 5yrs and the movie was filmed in 1962. If only they knew how bad it would get…

ScholarMore5267 · 2021-11-19T04:59:08+00:00

ghosted again

lohobi · 2021-11-19T04:44:21+00:00

Hearing men talk about how easy it is for women to date makes me realize that unattractive women like myself are invisible to them. For years I was ignored by men and laughed at or degraded when I tried to start a conversation or ask them out. I was a virgin until I met my husband when I was twenty-six. Yes, I did manage to get married, but it’ll never be like the marriages of attractive women. Men who are in love with beautiful women will go above and beyond for them. They’ll plan elaborate vacations and make cute birthday presents and take them on nice dates. I know I’ll never get that. I love my husband but I know men put in the most effort for pretty women.

CimZim · 2021-11-18T18:48:24+00:00

Rescue pet update!

My 2 new guinea pigs are doing phenomenal now. No more mites, paws are healed up, they're on a normal diet now. Penny has a sweet tooth, she loves strawberries and apple slices something fierce, Patti likes cucumbers the best. Their coats are becoming very shiny and I'm so thrilled they're recuperating well.

My most recent rescue cockatiel, who has still been wary of getting close to me, suddenly flew over to wake me up this morning. Sat on the couch next to me, asked "whatcha doin' " and actually let me scratch his head. Now I'm reading a book with 3 of them sitting on me and my heart is just full of cotton candy. 🥰

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-11-19T03:34:34+00:00

BPD sister update: I’m now like 75% convinced she’s at least lurking on FDS, if not an active member

Because that’s what the world needs - a BPD crazy who abides by FDS rules

My sympathies are with the men in her dating apps

Slipthe · 2021-11-19T03:02:54+00:00

Best thing about Eternals is how snatched Angelina Jolie looked in her costume.

Her waist was so tiny, and her baboingas were so big. And the pearlescent, ivory color looked really cool.

throwaway213091345 · 2021-11-19T02:43:21+00:00

I found out that I wasn’t my husband’s first choice

A shitty man who settled for his wife and got alpha widowed, and a shitty woman who stayed friends and facilitated emotional cheating just to have an orbiter

simeneta_two · 2021-11-19T02:26:33+00:00

Today was the second time recently I was called beautiful with my mask on so I can confidently say my eyes, eyebrows and forehead are a 10/10 😎

chilikettlechips · 2021-11-18T17:31:32+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qwqnvv/i_27m_am_literally_the_second_and_safe_choice_for/

Daily dose of gaslighting betas.

cautionTomorrow555 · 2021-11-19T02:19:00+00:00

What is with the women especially here so frequently refusing to answer questions or thought experiments? They either don't respond or instead of actually answering the question spout something else that isn't relevant, a personal attack, or try to attack the question. Just answer the fucking question! If you are not here to debate and think why are you wasting everyones time?

rivetcitymayor · 2021-11-19T02:13:15+00:00

What celebrity/ies who are considered attractive that you don’t find attractive ? You cannot answer the kardashians

VictoriaSanford0 · 2021-11-19T01:58:49+00:00

Okay PPD, please tell me this is not normal: Got exclusive with bumble guy I have not even been seeing for a month. Today, he dropped off spare keys to his place because I made ONE comment about how I like his apartment.

He’s going on a work trip to a nearby city and won’t be in town. Tells me he can shop for some snacks tomorrow and groceries so I can stay at his place while his gone if I want to.

I’m inexperienced but surely this is weird and not just him being nice?

My friends think it’s creepy

xQueen-Bx · 2021-11-19T01:38:16+00:00

what happened to /u/angels_fan?

annabeelongx · 2021-11-19T01:20:08+00:00

Is it okay to skip one day of class because of crappy mental health?

lulll · 2021-11-19T00:39:07+00:00

https://nypost.com/2021/11/18/anthony-hubers-girlfriend-has-a-lot-of-sympathy-for-kyle-rittenhouse/

you can't make this shit up

chilikettlechips · 2021-11-19T00:33:26+00:00

Q4W

What's your version of "don't stick your dick in crazy" where you know they're crazy but the piping is too good to turn down? And have you ever been in that situation?

buffin-big-bowls · 2021-11-18T23:05:58+00:00

I wanna ask out this girl at work but I’m scared 🙈 will update y’all on how it goes

Update: she said yes and seemed enthusiastic enough, holy shit I was so nervous though

Update 2: bitch left me on read I fucking hate my life

Update 3: ok she texted me back now we good we good

Skeleton_Sceptre · 2021-11-18T23:00:06+00:00

Too lazy to make a thread on this rn so I'll just field test it here in the daily thread.

Why do you think men who enjoy mfm threesomes are so hesitant to admit that it's at least a little gay? Is it toxic masculinity?

If a guy did an mfm threesome with his dad or his brother, even if they never touched, wouldn't that be "kinda incest"? I think most normal people would admit that it's weird and borderline to flat out incestuous behavior. So if it's "kinda incest" how is it not also "kinda gay"? Same thing goes with having a fmf threesome with a mom and daughter duo. Even if the mom and daughter don't touch, that's still kinda incest right? Either there's a sexual thing there between them or there isn't.

Of course people will just say "NUh-uH IncEsT anD gHeY r DiFfERenT". Okay, well then what if two guys are watching porn and decide to masturbate in the same room together, isn't that kind of gay? Why does the girl in the room together with them make it suddenly straight? I've seen guys hamster this away and say that they enjoy degrading the woman and treating her like a slut in a mfm threesome which is why it gets them off. I don't buy this, how is a mfm degrading for the woman? I could understand this if she was getting railed by a fleet of toothless hobos but how is giving her two chads to play with degrading? Degrading is shitting on her face, not having sex with two attractive men.

Overall I don't buy the excuses. When it comes to homosexuality, I believe that the Kinsey scale is generally more accurate than hard labels of heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual. Meaning, that it exists on a spectrum. Of which, I'd place enjoyment of mfm threesomes on that spectrum. I don't think girls would have a hard time admitting that they're not 100% straight and on the spectrum if they enjoyed fmf threesomes but men really seem to contest this pretty hard. So what gives, is it toxic masculinity that stops them from admitting that they're not completely straight?

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CatoftheBanals · 2021-11-18T17:03:17+00:00

If you’re not doing online dating, where, other than the gym and the club/bar, do guys here go to meet women? I’m just curious (I’m not a guy).

7SovarN · 2021-11-18T17:11:54+00:00

The government here in Sweden is about to institute vaccine passports, just after we made it through the whole thing with pretty much no restrictions... I hate these goddamn morons...

It's all about control...

lulll · 2021-11-18T18:35:47+00:00

Is it sexist of me to assume men have more impressive poops than women

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-11-18T20:42:28+00:00

Martin Scorsese is going to direct a Grateful Dead biopic, starring Jonah Hill as Jerry Garcia

I need more coffee - I had no idea where that sentence was going at any point while reading it

Also, I’m not sure the King of Mafia Movies is the right person to direct a movie about the defining hippy band

But he’ll probably do a great job so 🤷‍♀️

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-11-18T21:37:17+00:00

How many people in here are paper chasers? By paper chasers, I mean you sought out a career or position for the money rather than because you felt like you were a good fit for that industry or position?

Seems like a lot of people chase money in soul-sucking careers because they figure it's worth the sacrifice in order to be able to be comfortable at home.

Might be my intuitive introversion talking but I prefer to be comfortable on the inside rather than the outside.

chalkandapples · 2021-11-18T22:22:03+00:00

Would men be removed from the gene pool if women evolved to self impregnate in the next million years or so?

If a woman can self impregnate, she can carry on the human race. If a man cannot self impregnate by this point, he will no longer be needed to carry on the human race. As the non self reproducing genes will be no longer passed down, men will cease to exist. All that will be left are self impregnators, women.

However by this point, they will just be humans. As there will be no men or women per say. Just self impregnators

So what would happen to the human race at this point. Would there still be tall people or would everyone be short?

If on one island, men and women carried on as normal. Would the fact that they produced testosterone fuelled males, mean that the self impregnators would get wiped out if they were just full of Oestrogen?

It would make no sense for men to became self impregnators however. Women already have a womb and Uterus. So are able to carry babies and deliver them. All men can do is produce sperm, so evolutionarily they would have to evolve a whole lot more when it comes to self impregnation. It would make more sense for women to evolve a sperm creation mechanism.

irongolemrocks · 2021-11-18T22:35:03+00:00

God thank you,

For showing me the true way forward. For allowing me to be part of the unloved masses. For bestowing upon me the hardships of a man. I do not blame the female for their actions, nor the male, for your creations are perfect. I understand now that old were wise, and that we have allowed sin to prosper greatly. Thank you God for this life, even though I live as a male in this age, I would've wished for nothing more, for through the eternal hardships of a male, I shall become one of the blessed in Heaven.

Amen.

chubbybutt22 · 2021-11-18T20:43:05+00:00

People still conflate men with tall-slim bodies and clean faces with feminine guys.

Clean masculine look =/= feminine guy

Stop spotuing shit like "I am into feminine guys."

No you're not.

A real feminine guy is one of the peak unattractive figure most women can think of (what lurks below is disfigured men; with some kind of genetic problem or someone went through terrible accident).

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