THIS WILL ALWAYS BE: POSTS WITH AFFIRMATIVE CLAIMS AND LOADED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE" POST FLAIR DAILY MEGATHREAD

wankcel · 2024-05-30T03:27:05+00:00

"Watch what they do, not what they say." is honestly great advice for assessing most people in life. So often people will do something that goes completely against the morals they claim to have.

Dating? Someone can claim they want x/y/z in a partner, but who they date/approach will tell you what they really want.
Personality? Majority of people think of themselves as good people, you have to watch how they actually treat people and work out for yourself if they actually practice their supposed moral values.
Employers? "This company is an amazing place to work because of x/y/z" - how about you look around at how they other employees there feel, and then decide if the employer is filling you with bullshit or not.

Taking people at their word and trusting them has let me down so many times, I've also fallen victim to the "halo effect" even though I was aware of it's existence. Putting more weight into actually rationally assessing how people act, and less into what they claim about themselves, has rarely failed me.

Used-Armadillo-9027 · 2024-05-30T03:18:45+00:00

i found out that my state is letting people send in a thing so you can get $120 check from some state sanctioned lawsuit about price gouging or whatever. but 175% of the federal poverty level is like abysmally low, and only people making that much or less can qualify to get mailed this check. for one person, it's like $25,000 or less per year.

You'd have to live in section 8 housing to afford a place to live, homeless people can't get access to this money due to not having an address, and the state minimum wage for a full timer is too high for one single person to get anything out of it. you'd have to be making minimum wage and supporting your sspouse and/or kid who doesn't work.

it's like hey we won this lawsuit and we wanna share it with the public/victims of price gouging except we actually don't wanna give anyone money. no one but a very specific group of people gets to be given $120. Poor people working part time jobs who somehow can afford a place to live.

the mental gymnastics they go through, "we wanna make sure only the people most impacted by price gouging get $120" you mean like less than 1% of people???

berichorbeburied · 2024-05-30T03:17:53+00:00

Last thing ima say today.

2 days from now I’m supposed to meet this woman that is flirting with.

This one I’ve crossed some slight boundaries with.

She asked a question that showed interest.

Essentially

She asked how old I was.

Asked if I go clubbing/go to clubs.

Asked if I knew how old she was (wanted me to guess her age)

I established physical contact.

So everytime she meets me now.

Either she is playfighting or touching me or I’m playfighting or touching her.

When I tell a super funny joke or something super witty she has to touch me or playfully hit me.

She always greets me hi super enthusiastically

Or greets me goodbye by finding me wherever I happen to be before she leaves.

I’ve “made” her hands feel my abs. And biceps.

I’ve crossed the boundaries of giving bear hugs or hugs in general.

I asked if she had a boyfriend or kids.

Someone mutual asked if we went together and she was silent.

When I asked her if she was looking for a boyfriend.

She gave a face that I assumed meant she wants to be free.

But when I asked her if she has multiple boyfriends her instinctual face was full of disgust

Then it returned to playful.

So she does not want to be chained by commitment.

I’m assuming.

But when I see her.

Either I have to escalate or just let it fizzle out.

I don’t have a plan.

I’m too blunt.

But for her. I’d have to be tact and finesse.

Il think of something.

If I dnt do anything.

I’m a bitch & a pussy.

Also Tommorrow. I might cross paths with that woman that’s sexually attractive.

If I do.

I just want to see how much she’s disgusted by me or hates me or is indifferent to me.

So I can gauge how much I have to increase.

Other than that. I’m working out rn.

FYI I emotionally vent logically on this thread.

Because I thought that’s what it’s for.

Why did I chose this sub.

Because I came to this sub to understand my bestfriend.

This sub basically is a reminder of a reflection of my bestfriend.

As long as I’m on this sub. It’s safe to assume that I’m still forever in love with my bestfriend.

Shakturi101 · 2024-05-30T03:12:57+00:00

Women are just built different man

Gladboys · 2024-05-30T03:08:37+00:00

women always talk about the orgasm gap but the amount of times i've actually orgasmed during intercourse is less than 10% so i think im going to start disagreeing with this argument.

berichorbeburied · 2024-05-30T02:36:48+00:00

New plan.

I just got over my depression recently and found will power.

So I’ve only worked out CONSISTENTLY for like 7-9 days STRAIGHT.

But I was only working out once a day.

But because of this.

I’m working out 2x a day and doing way more of everything in all aspects.

She’s completely neutralized my personality & charisma.

The vibe I get is I shouldn’t/can’t even talk to her.

I usually have witty or funny things to say. But not to her. It’s like I draw a blank.

Only time I feel this way or this has happened. Is when someone’s deliberately trying to hate me. Our personalities don’t mesh well. Or I strongly dislike their personality or them in general. She’s literally closed all openings.

So ima turn this into a game.

I’m going to purposefully not even try to use charisma or personality.

Tbh I haven’t said one joke or witty line to her. I haven’t smiled to her. And I haven’t used any energy in talking to her.

I’m going to keep it like that.

I’m going to work out intensely.

And try to cross paths with her once a week.

The game is.

If I ever become sexually attractive she’ll be interested.

And if I don’t become sexually attractive she will keep being mean & rude & dismissive and guarded.

Theirs a 50% chance if I provide value or money or resources or help that she might eventually become attracted to me.

So I will provide 0% benefit to her.

So the only way she will ever be attracted to me is if i pass a secret sexual attraction barrier.

That’s my test/game

I’m going to workout again rn.

I’m restarting my streak.

This time it’s for real.

I have a goal rn.

It’s not even about her.

It’s about the idea that she represents.

If I can win this game/pass this test with her. Then the sky is the limit for me. And I can have my way and finally live the life I want.

If I lose this game/fail this test with her. Then the only options are settling or giving up.

And I accept the possibility of both outcomes.

I understand the risks and I’m ready to start

MalandiBastos · 2024-05-30T02:34:35+00:00

Well, I haven't used traditional social media outside of sock puppet accounts for about the last 7 years.

Decided I have been massively handicapping myself in the dating world by not doing so. So as of last night I am starting a Facebook and insta from scratch again.

I know that in many places in the west and especially among younger people, Facebook isn't used as much, but in preparation for my upcoming trip to manila, while I lay sexless in seoul, I've started infiltrating. In the Philippines Facebook is still extremely popular.

"There were 87 400 000 Facebook users in Philippines in January 2023, which accounted for 74.6% of its entire population. The majority of them were women - 53.4%. People aged 18 to 24 were the largest user group (26 600 000)."

I talk to girls on dating sites and ask for their Facebook, then I go through their friend's lists and add every decent looking girl from manila. Rinse and repeat. Over the next month while here in seoul I'll be adding high value pics and growing my friends list. Social media allows women to passively get more acquinated with you. Even if they're strangers, it's kind of like the warm approach of online.

Not that it's not already very easy to get women in the phillipines, but it still takes some effort to get high quality ones, so social media maxing makes it easier. Also, im thinking a lot bigger than that.

Filipinas will serve as the basis of getting authentic engagement on my posts. From there I plan to continue growing my following and engagement in other countries I travel to for social proof (it's easier to do this once you already have a baseline of traffic and look authentic).

I'm going to start cold approaching in the phillipines. Should be easy street, almost everyone speaks English. My goal is to try to end every approach with at least a new social media follower. Which could materialize into a lay in the future, even if they weren't originally convinced. Even outside of that, I could gain another authentic follower for post engagement.

Outside of the social media aspect, going to start slowly building up contacts with girls on OLD as well so I can hit the ground running with a harem. On previous trips I mostly just arrived with no prep.

Prettmongouse · 2024-05-30T02:33:30+00:00

Why are women always eager to emphasize that their first time having sex was awkward, bad and a “learning experience”?

Most men enjoy their first time having sex and sex is instinctual plenty of people could get into good rhythms and have good sex even if it’s their first time unless you finish too fast

Willow-girl · 2024-05-30T01:43:50+00:00

My man is in the kitchen sobbing because he can't find the bowl he likes to use for salad. I have no idea what he's talking about and every time I suggest using a different bowl, he shrieks "NOOOOooooo" and breaks out in a fresh wave of sobs. Now he's accusing me of making him eat out of a plastic bowl like an animal.

Meanwhile I'm sitting here Googling trying to figure out how to fix a transmission on an E-series Mercedes Benz.

Hey how's YOUR night going?

FunEducation1434 · 2024-05-30T01:39:40+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7bxcoKiGs3/?igsh=MWp3aXk2NGc4Z2t6Mw==

I’m gonna have them make a chad mask for me and wear it before I enter the club

monster_lily · 2024-05-30T01:37:27+00:00

Im technically a senior now

baiser_vole · 2024-05-30T01:20:31+00:00

The new hairdresser did such a good job on my boyfriend’s hair. I’m so happy.

Glad-Individual6195 · 2024-05-30T01:19:41+00:00

I live on my own, and told my mom I was thinking about getting tested for ADHD and she told me if I went on adderall she’d stop paying for my masters program. My company pays for that. She’s thought for the last couple of months that she has been funding my classes. Wtf

Pizzashillsmom · 2024-05-30T01:14:40+00:00

I love how the football quarterback is the stereotyped as the ultimate athletic gigachad in school and then in the NFL half the qb's look out of shape with dad bods lol.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-05-30T01:14:12+00:00

Would it be okay if I started feeding the rats in my local park? They’re so cute and fuzzy and I feel bad that they eat trash all the time. But that could increase the rat population, making the park more unsafe and unsanitary for the homeless people who live there. It’s a difficult dilemma.

Pizzashillsmom · 2024-05-30T01:10:11+00:00

Getting widowed without children honestly sounds super scary.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2024-05-30T00:59:44+00:00

I’m going to clarify my comment a little bit. When I said the way someone women here talk about Kate bloomer men was harsh, I don’t have a problem with women here saying they don’t want them.

I dislike all the rationalizations some of you here (not all. Most of you don’t do this in fact) come up with for why they will never get what they want in dating. It doesn’t feel any different than incels saying single, 30+ women will end up miserable spinsters

Steakman1 · 2024-05-30T00:49:57+00:00

Q4W: if you had to pick between a pale but vascular man, or a man who’s tan but no vascularity, which would you pick?

BatemaninAccounting · 2024-05-30T00:14:42+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/1d3e3e9/shes_going_to_be_an_amazing_partner_with_that/

Passport Bros are booking their flights now.

hannahg000 · 2024-05-29T23:36:02+00:00

my mom is always getting told she looks younger than she actually is. that’s a good sign for me

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-05-29T23:34:30+00:00

I am so, so tempted to do a photo reveal because I got the most gorgeous black silk dress and I must be seen in it.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2024-05-29T23:24:59+00:00

I miss when this was considered comedy

LoFiPanda14 · 2024-05-29T23:22:46+00:00

I envy the charisma the latin dudes in the gym have. They got all the energy to try and socialize with women who have the most bothered face and attitudes ever.

sine120 · 2024-05-29T23:09:14+00:00

Because it's still too early to early to tell non nuclear family members and friends, I might as well tell internet strangers:

Just got done with the first appointment. She's a tad over 5 weeks pregnant, so far everything's normal. My dong works.

berichorbeburied · 2024-05-29T23:03:46+00:00

I fumbled so bad.

I created an opportunity to see that woman I was super sexually attracted to.

And she does NOT like me.

She was dismissive and avoidant and rude.

Which is ok.

But what’s strange is the other woman I talked about previously was basically all over me & being nice to me.

The only difference I can see.

Is one woman gave me a chance to show my personality and charisma and the other didn’t.

I’m not giving up.

But I have to retreat for now.

I haven’t told the woman I’m sexually attracted to one joke or even smiled at her.

The vibe is off.

Usually I’d be depressed at this.

But for some reason I cannot attract thicc women at all.

Only skinny women.

This is redicolous.

Earlier today another woman was flirting with me.

Guess what she was.

Young and skinny.

Either I need to change to be more sexually attractive

Or give up & accept my fate

Glad-Individual6195 · 2024-05-29T22:53:10+00:00

Girl smiled at me today, felt pretty good. She wasn’t my type tho and she was walking out of a low income apartment complex.

poopgirl69420 · 2024-05-29T22:52:29+00:00

Witches vs patriarchy

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-05-29T22:50:30+00:00

My aunt who has been married for like 25 years told me to marry for money and not love.

Interesting_Show_962 · 2024-05-29T22:50:04+00:00

I sell propane and propane accessories

Aware-Resolve6740 · 2024-05-29T22:46:41+00:00

2 days til i fly to the land of the free home of the brave and mog all of you

ParadoxicalFrog2 · 2024-05-29T22:43:26+00:00

What is it with misandrists all claiming to be "holding men accountable" all of a sudden? Does it work the other way around? Can angry incels start claiming to be "holding women accountable" when they screech "Women are gold-digging whores who want Chad"?

SPSTIHTFHSWAS · 2024-05-29T22:36:21+00:00

How often do you guys think about PPD in your day to day life? Like "This will be a good story/experience/question to tell on PPD" when you experience or see something, "This is something X user would have said" etc.

AreOut · 2024-05-29T22:32:47+00:00

it makes no sense that black women are way more than white women interested in an average white male, even if you account for a socioeconomic status

SeveralSadEvenings · 2024-05-29T22:30:17+00:00

Is there a reddit sub where can post comparison photos of clothing items I'm wearing and receive feedback?

caveat: NO NSFW CONTENT. NO ONLYFANS ADVERTISING.

Dismal_Sun5595 · 2024-05-29T22:23:36+00:00

Once I buy a gaming laptop I'm going to make a video game that I'll sell for 10 bucks on steam and then I'll be a multimillionaire and I'll buy an apartment and I'll live leisurely for the rest of my life while working part-time occasionally. If only it was that easy...

cornersfatly · 2024-05-29T22:08:19+00:00

Why are all men in this sub so obsessed with drug dealers? It seems like every redpiller is under the belief that all women are deeply turned on by drug dealers and it’s one of the hottest things a guy could do. Both drug dealers I’ve met in my life were exceedingly normal blokes that didn’t seem to make women particularly horny. Is this something that’s been caused by video games or tv shows or what

Gladboys · 2024-05-29T21:47:46+00:00

One nice thing about being a rich man is how submissive men are. Men will kowtow to you if you are in a position of potential value. No one whores themselves out for rich men more than other men.

meteorness123 · 2024-05-29T21:36:32+00:00

I'm starting to think that meaningful work > free time with the exception of spending time with your kids or maybe spouse. But other than that good work is more fulfilling that free time. This whole propaganda about muh free time needs to stop

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2024-05-29T21:26:52+00:00

The way some women here talk about late bloomer men here is deranged. They want there to be nothing left for them, or for at best their only options to be morbidly obese or single moms.l that have closed up shop.

Maybe it’s just a revenge fantasy thing, but what’s the point of that fantasy at all?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-05-29T21:25:29+00:00

Q4M: You’re bringing your girlfriend home to meet your extended family and she gets along with everyone so far. The day is going well until she gets a chance to sit with your grandpa, whose mind has been deteriorating for a while now. He doesn’t have much of a filter and often doesn’t realize when people can hear him or when he said something inappropriate. He loudly remarks that your girlfriend is hideous and she must be willing to do anything in bed for you to have chosen her. How do you react?

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-05-29T21:16:56+00:00

I'm always giving excellent dating advice in this sub but most people don't want to take it into consideration because it hurts their sensibilities. When I say something like "for men, inner confidence is more attractive than looks, money, or respecting women", many men will say "nah that's delusional you gotta be a 6 foot perfect jawline with abs or it's over" and many women will say "nah that's delusional you absolutely must respect women!". These men and women are both different flavors of wrong.

I mean I guess it's fine if most people want to think this way, that just means less competition for me. But unfortunately I'm addicted to debating.

Used-Armadillo-9027 · 2024-05-29T21:07:45+00:00

did anyone else's 4th grade teachers keep bringing up how "if you're not neat and organized now, you'll never be organized" whenever it was time to clean out our desks.

something about how 10 year olds have the second largest brain growth-spurt of their lives and not being neat and tidy by age 10 meant you would always be a disorganized slob

Endgame2648 · 2024-05-29T21:03:27+00:00

Just prepared a 2 day meal in just 30 minutes. Gordon ramsay's got nothing on me bitch.

Shakturi101 · 2024-05-29T20:59:45+00:00

If the bar is on the floor for men, then what in the hell is the bar for women? I can’t even come up with a word to describe. The best way to describe it would be lower than the depiction of hell in Dante’s inferno.

Glad-Individual6195 · 2024-05-29T20:59:38+00:00

The company I work for has big issues with sexism and racism in subtle ways. I’m a white dude, and ngl I really like it. I enjoy how my manager inherently trusts me more than a lot of my coworkers and gives me more leeway.

old_new_age · 2024-05-29T20:59:11+00:00

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keep goin fellas

Preme2 · 2024-05-29T20:37:39+00:00

There is a trainer at my gym who only works with attractive women.

If you have a cute face, you’re in.

If you have a nice body, you’re in.

If you’re fat, you’re out lol.

Ultramega39 · 2024-05-29T20:34:59+00:00

It's a little funny how when I started wearing earrings back in 2022 I noticed that less women approached me or tried to ask me out but a lot more women compliment my style.

I guess it's not a big deal because most of the people who've approached me are people who I wasn't attracted to.

For anyone wondering, I have 2 piercings in each ear, the back piercing I usually put a sapphire stud in it and for the front piercing I usually wear long silver chains.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-05-29T20:17:43+00:00

I don't get how rational women can deal with the hypocrisy of how other women talk about dating.

One minute, women will complain about how no man wants something serious or meaningful and how all men are players. The next minute, they will be casually talking (and subtly bragging) about the guy she was sleeping with or the random hot guys she was meeting and hooking up with, guys who were never on the relationship radar at all.

How do rational women reconcile this double speak?

Choose one or the other.

Either you didn't enjoy casual sex and have always been seeking a long term relationship or there's nothing wrong with men who are trying to have casual sex with you.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2024-05-29T20:11:23+00:00

Just learned about traptox(trapezius botox). No fucking wonder all these Stacy models/celebs have that Barbie shoulders with long neck.

ISupposeImCorrect · 2024-05-29T20:06:18+00:00

"You want to pressure women into dating losers because your losers!"

"Look at how bitter late bloomers act, it's made me want to date them less!" etc etc.

We don't care. I don't know how many times I have to repeat we ARE NOT trying to get women to date us. We don't want you either. The feeling is mutual. It goes both ways.

You're old and a single mom. We don't want you. We don't want you. Get it through your heads already.

Its perfectly fine for both genders to be single. It pisses me off though when these old used up single mom's try to pressure their "male counterparts" (Single mom's have the same value as incel men if we're being honest, and blue pill men have admitted this as well) into dating them.

Any time I hear anything about how if you're a man whose single you're a loser, I'm going straight to shitting on old women and single mom's.

Why would I want to pressure women into dating me??? The whole point of hating AFBB is so that doesn't happen.

"Why men who have views like you want to date women then?" WE DON'T. WE DON'T. GO BE A SINGLE MOM. AND STOP LYING ABOUT "I've always been into guys like you". I'm calling it out if I see it. It's a fucking lie. I'm not believing it no matter how many times it gets spammed. You went for the tall good looking high status confident guys in your youth, you just can't get those guys anymore because NEWS FLASH you're among the LOSER WOMEN who couldn't get them.

So get off your high horse, none of us "loser guys" think your cool or "are a prize". Go sit on the other side of the losers table and shut up.

Weekly-Vacation-6929 · 2024-05-29T20:04:19+00:00

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LoFiPanda14 · 2024-05-29T19:44:57+00:00

I know what you awre, and I know what you nawt. You’re no fuckin cop. 👮‍♂️

persephonethequeen · 2024-05-29T19:38:13+00:00

How many of you would or have prioritized the intellectual connection when seeking a partner?

Ime and observations most couples don't have it. They have a connection, they have fun with each other, they more or less share the values, they are obviously attracted, and that seems to me the best that can be realistically expected. Is that really the best one can reasonably hope for?

hannahg000 · 2024-05-29T19:23:44+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/c6f4d8142f3d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=50c0cb1538d18ee6e48b01ca23f1d7874fe981e0

a distinguished gentleman

K4matayon · 2024-05-30T09:00:27+00:00

I find it so odd to see women who effortlessly get romantic success tell people to just give up on it and resign, that they should stop being so entitled and that they need to stop complaining. "I have everything you want and you can't get it for reasons out of your control just accept reality and stfu"

Handsome_Goose · 2024-05-30T04:23:42+00:00

Women explaining why they never approach by listing every reason a man might not approach is absolutely hilarious. And the best part is they are too solipsistic to realize they are basically copypasting some incel tears post.

rapsk · 2024-05-30T11:43:56+00:00

I was telling this British woman that in the states, if a woman insists on paying her half for a first date, that's the polite way of telling a guy you don't want to see him again. It's a big cultural difference.

I'm back stateside and I pretty much confirmed my intuition. I asked 15 people in my office and all of them said the guy always pay for the first date. Even more interesting is that when I ask the question I said, "Would you go dutch on a first date?" and only 2 people have even heard that expression before.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-05-30T05:39:42+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1d3gf0p/girlfriend_of_4_years_put_on_65_pounds_how_would/

💀

OP screwed up 4 years ago. She was already obese (> 25 BMI) starting at a gigantic 26.4 BMI and he make the huge mistake to still accept her.

He should've only accepted women who are healthy (19-21 BMI).

ParadoxicalFrog2 · 2024-05-30T05:40:00+00:00

Are we allowed to call out individuals here? I just bumped into a real winner. Lady is literally advocating for murdering all male children.

K4matayon · 2024-05-30T08:09:10+00:00

I sorted the autism thread by controversial and the top comment just says “suicide” 💀

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-05-30T10:37:57+00:00

Whenever a celeb sex tape would leak in my lifetime people were always giving it bad reviews saying it was boring. My thing is why did you think just because the girl was pretty or famous the sex would be “good” lol? Also you can have good sex without it looking appealing or exciting on a camera.

Your best sex sessions ever I bet if they were filmed wouldn’t be something that jumps off the screen but it was great for you and your partner

K4matayon · 2024-05-30T10:43:08+00:00

The sub is looking like it's gonna get an autism weekly mega thread soon lol

Dishonouronmycow2 · 2024-05-30T18:00:27+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ldoff864sl3d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=30077b8e4cef126c5a6ca1c1b5d8f10938f46f49

When has this never not been hot?

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-05-29T18:37:13+00:00

Women are primarily attracted to energy and boundaries. That's why you'll see many women going after men who are objectively terrible (like drug dealers, abusers, serial grapists, and other horrible criminals and deadbeats) and you won't see many women interested in a sweet mild-mannered accountant who makes 200k a year and treats women with respect and dignity. The asshole type of man has high energy and strong boundaries, while the accountant has low energy and weak boundaries.

Fact is, most women are too stupid and hormonal to understand that the asshole type of man is going to end up abusing her at some point.

So if you want to be the ideal type of man, you need to have high energy and boundaries while at the same time not being an asshole that everyone hates. It's a delicate balance. That means you need to be willing to walk away from women when they disrespect your boundaries, but most men are too afraid to do this because they're sexually desperate.

Gladboys · 2024-05-29T19:37:01+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/bbym8duh4f3d1.jpeg?width=1073&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e6bab0b61625b2e093f26a26eaf7a0d88a3db5b3

hungrychick404 · 2024-05-30T06:23:14+00:00

Picnic dates are a bad idea if you are bad at planning btw

hannahg000 · 2024-05-30T11:28:55+00:00

since we are talking about autism, i considered getting tested awhile back but at this stage in my life i don’t think it would do much for me. it would obviously be a mild form and it’s not like i would need any services. it would primarily be for my own self knowledge which is nice but idk if i want to take the time and money it would take to get a diagnosis just for that

Dishonouronmycow2 · 2024-05-30T15:01:45+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/z114qi8awk3d1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=85f8d18e9d12ee9a34394d3aa77c08932a043b67

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-05-30T15:07:45+00:00

Why people have a hard time accepting maybe women never wanted to be mothers? Throughout the history most women never had any choice regarding this.They had to do it for their husbands and family .In developed countries where women have choice a big number chooses not to have children .It has always been men who want children more than women .Even recent surveys also suggest same . https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbc.ca/amp/1.7119845 Another one https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ct3mw7/polls_results_from_ucsb_students_from_yik_yak/

teball3 · 2024-05-30T15:23:12+00:00

hey, u/milquetoastmf can you at least change the name of the daily megathread to:

"Daily Megathread and reminder that: [Your apparent need for a flair reminder here]"

So that y'know, it doesn't look like this is a megathread about the flair shit you're on?

hannahg000 · 2024-05-30T16:46:09+00:00

i’m not going to cancel the meetup with the girl from bumble bff. she told me that the last girl she was going to meet canceled the day off so i would feel really bad if i did that now 😅

teball3 · 2024-05-30T16:52:23+00:00

Have I gotten shadowbanned or is my reddit just freaking the fuck out? I keep getting messages for replies, but the replies aren't there on the thread.

poopgirl69420 · 2024-05-30T17:13:07+00:00

Men are Frankenstein monsters

https://preview.redd.it/x16ytbhqjl3d1.jpeg?width=958&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=77e247417f392be2772cd5129b41e56d21b9ba9d

ISupposeImCorrect · 2024-05-30T18:30:29+00:00

Women are delusional about how much the average man is into them.

They think after they fail going for the "Trust fund, 6'5, blue eyes" guy and are now 40, they'll be able to get an "average" guy at 40.

I don't think women realize how unattractive women are to men at that point.

Seriously I'm worried for women at that point! Once you get there you better sit at home lay down, shut up, and wait to die, because if you go up to some guy with your 40 year old "mom bod" and try to flirt with him by asking "why don't you buy me dinner then" I'm actually worried you're going to get hate crime'd 😂😂😂

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-05-29T18:58:42+00:00

Q4W: You agreed to be a bridesmaid in your cousin’s wedding, and you’re excited even though you barely know the groom. The night before the wedding the bridal party throws her a wild bachelorette party where she gets extremely drunk and you catch her making out with a male stripper. It wouldn’t be fair for the groom to say yes at the altar without hearing about that. But your cousin was so drunk she doesn’t even remember the kiss when you bring it up the next morning and she insists there’s nothing to confess. It’s now 8am and the ceremony in in 3 hours. What’s your next move?

Professional_Bad_282 · 2024-05-29T18:59:07+00:00

If Andrew Tate was fat :

https://preview.redd.it/8wl8zegqxe3d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eb8c4a4d152e71c206b20b91680549080be69ec3

shadowrangerfs · 2024-05-29T19:30:37+00:00

Q4W: You know those tik tok videos from a year or so ago where women would say, "Dating apps aren't working. I'm gonna go to Home Depot and look confused"?

What would be the guy version of that?

missionglowup · 2024-05-30T05:22:30+00:00

sex with someone you love is just so amazing. i think it might just be the best feeling on earth.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2024-05-30T14:02:46+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/vindictapoc/comments/1d3w25o/losing_weight_is_the_most_effective_looksmaxx/

That's what I've been trying to say the entire time straight from the horse's mouth

Fattie women, just be healthy (19-21 BMI)

old_new_age · 2024-05-30T14:04:56+00:00

this girl I'm talking to keeps mentioning her simps/orbiters and it's making me lose interest extremely quickly. as per her own words, she's a butterface (I think she's cute tho) and she's 30 lbs overweight, but she has like 8 guys who've been trying to date/fuck her for years, which makes me think she only flirts with me because she wants to keep me in orbit with the other 8. dating is so cringe

FunEducation1434 · 2024-05-30T18:09:00+00:00

Porn is awesome

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-05-30T19:08:38+00:00

It's much, much easier for women to get attention, sex, and relationships than men.

b-b-b-but hideously ugly 87 year old women have a hard time!

The male equivalent of any woman has a harder time than that woman.

Women are obviously the selectors, it's just silly denialism to pretend otherwise.

hannahg000 · 2024-05-29T18:56:24+00:00

this convinced me to watch the show. tiktok editors should get paid by production companies because edits always convince me to watch a show

Endgame2648 · 2024-05-29T19:03:01+00:00

I always felt it wasn't difficult to get in relationships with women. I never put women on pedestal since I was surrounded by females my age all my life either Older sisters, cousins or friends in school. I also felt that there was never a power struggle between the two genders.

I understand why I am so blue pilled and optimistic. My homie has grown around 5 older brothers in an all boys school. The mofo has been balding in his mid 20s and has never had a serious relationship. He wants to get married but has had no success on OLD. He tells me he's jealous of how I found my current GF.

I wouldn't be surprised if he became redpilled soon with the way he's going. I can understand why us men turn to it. I felt the same at one point but thankfully I was mature enough to realise that consistently seeing 50% of the population inferior/annoying to you is not healthy.

Shakturi101 · 2024-05-29T19:20:11+00:00

It continues to amaze me that for something as foundational to a species as mating that the experience between the genders can be so radically different. But I guess for another organisms, it's not too uncommon either.

New83659 · 2024-05-29T19:26:12+00:00

I got two phone numbers yesterday. One was this drunk girl at my job who was flirting with me very openly. The other was this salesperson at a REI. I thought she seemed really weird, in a good way, sort of like me so maybe we could get along. So I said, fuck it, I'm gonna ask for her number. I figured that she was probably just making conversation to get a commission and I knew I was breaking the rule that you shouldn't hit on girls at work. But she actually gave me her number. This gave me the confidence to ask the drunk girl for her number, because in the past when girls have openly flirted with me I never made a move.

Interestingly, today the girl from REI responded to my text immediately and agreed to go on a date tomorrow, and the chick from my job hasn't responded. I feel really good though because that was only the second and third time I have asked a female out irl.

happy_discus · 2024-05-29T19:26:18+00:00

I honestly had a great time on my date. She's really cute and funny. She's also hot, which is a nice bonus. The language barrier wasn't that much of a problem although her German isn't good. If she's down, we will definitely go out again. She also gave me her phone number which is a good sign.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2024-05-30T05:34:11+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/sl5t6wok2i3d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de069f06d7e7adade9e76cb1b18bb7ae2ab289dd

Best laid plans…one tool missing! I bought everything except a drill bit. Idk what the interior wall is made of - but it seems pretty concrete like.

MasterTeacher123 · 2024-05-30T10:36:32+00:00

Every week on IG I see some type of post with a dude saying something like

“Hey I thought I married a cheap/low maintenance girl because she didn’t wear designer or expensive clothes only to find out she wanted to go on 3-4 vacations a year”

K4matayon · 2024-05-30T10:38:14+00:00

Fuck it, the daily is really dead so I'm not holding back on the spam until someone wakes up. I was watching tt with my gf last night and a clip showed up of a female doctor who showed a radiography of a man's penis that had some screwes shoved up into it and went on to explain that his wife got him incredibly drunk and did that to him as revenge because he cheated on her. The doctor's stance on that was "I can't imagine how traumatized that poor girl must have felt in order to get to the point where you would do this" and then she said something like he's cheating scum and she's better or whatever. Literally what is wrong with people how can you say that, she was also laughing at it obviously

K4matayon · 2024-05-30T12:04:28+00:00

There's an ai version of an opening from naruto that makes it sound like it's naruto and sasuke singing it and tbh it's life fuel for me

monster_lily · 2024-05-30T13:15:23+00:00

Hey guys

Dismal_Sun5595 · 2024-05-30T14:06:51+00:00

I no longer get an ego boost looking at people's pictures on looksmaxxing subs because ugly people don't post there anymore. It's full of compliment fishers and catfishers

saulbasedman3 · 2024-05-30T14:15:54+00:00

Currently watching Gone with the wind. It's so blackpilling for Charles already.

purplish_possum · 2024-05-30T14:35:39+00:00

Came across an old John Mellencamp song that tracks my life quite accurately -- Crazy Ones.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CgB1yAK1qS8

Mama why do I always fall for the crazy ones?
Mama why do they lay so heavy on my heart?
Well I'm drawn to the devil, baby, every time we kiss
Mama why do the crazy ones leave me feeling like this?

rapsk · 2024-05-30T17:36:54+00:00

One of the good things out of the pandemic is that a lot of online programs and degrees are respected now since hundreds of thousands of graduates came out of essentially fully online programs.

Pre-pandemic a lot of employers were on the train of thought that every online degree was essentially clown college.

FunEducation1434 · 2024-05-29T18:18:07+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/vc91yzvdqe3d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d2b85707e0b2b5fd420f479940d57017b8d4a2dd

FunEducation1434 · 2024-05-30T04:48:01+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Hairtransplant/s/uYGyGjhQJg

snoo_gooner · 2024-05-30T06:15:24+00:00

hi guys, just another gooner passing by

hungrychick404 · 2024-05-30T07:11:35+00:00

I would rather talk about my feelings to a tree rather than human. It’s called journaling (haha)

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2024-05-30T07:30:55+00:00

Preselection doesn't work if you are selected only by ugly women .You have to be selected by attractive women for it to work .Women want men to have a attractive ex girlfriend for some reason .Very weird tbh

FunEducation1434 · 2024-05-30T07:44:48+00:00

Porn always holds it down for me.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2024-05-30T11:17:46+00:00

My hair has entered a new phase of breakage…just when I thought it had calmed down enough to style a bit, maybe even use a blow dryer on it. I think I have entered phase 2 where I’ve maxed out the bond building products to the point where they are now causing breakage. My stylist foretold this. If so, time for phase 2 strategy which is deep conditioning.

Time_Commercial_8061 · 2024-05-30T11:27:51+00:00

Some women live good lives.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2026914/Mum-bear-eating--Final-phone-calls-woman-19-eaten-alive-brown-bear-cubs.html

She had the fortune of encountering a bear not a man.

I am happy for her.

edgyny · 2024-05-30T13:56:05+00:00

New advice for incels landed: just buy tampons bro

teball3 · 2024-05-30T15:41:16+00:00

The best piece of advice I can give anyone here for having compelling arguments: ungender your language. Seriously. If you are making generalizations about any group, really, REALLY consider if you can swap it for "people" instead.

This one trick will stop so much backlash because it makes people feel less attacked. And if your a trite bastard like I am, you can then point out that you didn't specify a group if they bring one up, therefore making them the one to apply that generalization to that group.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-05-30T16:09:13+00:00

undertook great projects: I built houses for myself and planted vineyards. I made gardens and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees in them. I made reservoirs to water groves of flourishing trees. I bought male and female slaves and had other slaves who were born in my house. I also owned more herds and flocks than anyone in Jerusalem before me. I amassed silver and gold for myself, and the treasure of kings and provinces. I acquired male and female singers, and a harem as well—the delights of a man’s heart. I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me. In all this my wisdom stayed with me.

I denied myself nothing my eyes desired;
I refused my heart no pleasure.
My heart took delight in all my labor,
and this was the reward for all my toil.

Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done
and what I had toiled to achieve,
everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind;
nothing was gained under the sun.

Used-Armadillo-9027 · 2024-05-30T16:17:59+00:00

it's just one of those days where you wake up with horrible drymouth i guess

Used-Armadillo-9027 · 2024-05-30T16:48:59+00:00

considering downloading nextdoor so i can see what white women in my area are fretting about

Icy-core · 2024-05-30T18:25:08+00:00

If you believe women can't separate sex from love, does that mean women who sleep around love all men or smth? Or is it that they can separate sex from love? but why are they still hated on, if that's what men think is superior? 🤔🤔🤔

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GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-05-29T18:03:01+00:00

itsaboutpowerrr · 2024-05-29T18:09:38+00:00

brutal but this one was really funny 😂

Only-Roll4703 · 2024-05-29T18:12:26+00:00

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Economy-Shake-1448 · 2024-05-29T18:12:32+00:00

I don’t like late bloomer men since so many of them are on the internet absolutely humiliating and hurting women. An example is that a guy made his own subreddit to put down and insult a virgin woman over 30 because “she must be ugly if she is a virgin”.

https://preview.redd.it/scz1lc24pe3d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d7a06c6aaf450d74c193cf687307ba6b2a828793

Also considering that this came from a passport bros Facebook page, filled with late bloomer men, this is the shit we have to deal with.

Men who are bitter, vengeful, and mean spirited aren’t “good men”. When women say “where have all the good men gone” (a subreddit which is the perfect example of how foul late bloomer men can be), they aren’t talking about a mean spirited bully who wants revenge for his rejections in his youth.

Plane_Criticism673 · 2024-05-29T18:34:56+00:00

Project 2025 hysteria is so funny to me

Reddit brained liberals will complain all day about how bad the federal government and the education system is, but once the npc chip gets turned on all of a sudden bloated corrupt federal agencies should be preserved at all costs

https://preview.redd.it/wjreo4r4te3d1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2b1d854b7965e8170888651c6209deea647be506

itsaboutpowerrr · 2024-05-29T18:54:54+00:00

Womens mating selection strategy is nature. Them finding 80% of men unattractive is nature. Average Woman not being attracted to average man is nature. Nature is a system that doesn't care about feelings justice truth etc and it works based on evolution and survival.

Bitching about it and writing 100 pages essay about it's unfairness is like yelling at machine learning or optimization algorithm that why it keeps choosing the best - fittest.

Plane_Criticism673 · 2024-05-29T19:28:00+00:00

I am yakub

monster_lily · 2024-05-30T00:45:22+00:00

Why can people not socialize its actually pretty concerning

Interesting_Show_962 · 2024-05-30T04:04:52+00:00

There’s a wedding this weekend but I’m not sure I want to attend. Going would be good for socializing but also I’d be surrounded by happy couples mogging me with their successful relationships

GreatSmashPlayer · 2024-05-30T07:25:45+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@court8610/video/7373824240560426286

I had a hard time paying attention to what she was saying, but this video is actually fairly accurate. Dating apps, social media shaming, and porn addiction have made it so that young men are less likely to cold approach women, which has contributed to the rise of sexlessness in young men.

Used-Armadillo-9027 · 2024-05-30T07:26:22+00:00

it's a wonderful day to be a dude, man

Used-Armadillo-9027 · 2024-05-30T08:04:17+00:00

some people are out of touch and just don't get it at all, and they never will, they're incapable. but WHY OH WHY do they want to give you patronizing advice about situations they were never a part of?

im not here to defend my position. im just describing reality and factual information. "YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE THIIIIIIIIS THIIIIIIIIIIS WHY DIDNT YOU DO THAT??? DONT YOU KNOW YOU OWE OTHER PEOPLE FORGIVENESS ALL THE TIME UNCONDITIONALLY FOREVER?????"

it's like when people expect you and tell you to "just get over it". no. you don't know what happened, you were never there, you never experienced any of this shit first hand and honestly id bet $5,000 if the same thing happened to you you'd suddenly have carte blanche to complain about it for years.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2024-05-30T08:21:15+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfYZxc-wYAk

missionglowup · 2024-05-30T08:23:53+00:00

i was about to post a ss of a cute text my bf sent me this morning but i guess not now😬

K4matayon · 2024-05-30T08:36:11+00:00

Q4M: Do you use cold approaching? Did you ever? How did it go?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-05-30T11:24:23+00:00

What would be the side effects if someone takes caffeine injections🤔

one_ball_policy · 2024-05-30T13:52:13+00:00

Where could one find a conservative white woman who would be open to dating a non white?

shadowrangerfs · 2024-05-30T14:01:06+00:00

Kinda goofy Q4M

Would you rather be married to Peggy Bunder from Married with Children or Peggy Hill from King of the Hill?

Luciansleep · 2024-05-30T14:31:24+00:00

Q4W:

Is my height the only reason why I keep attracting bisexual women?

My gf is bisexual and ngl I’m tired of being with bi women as a lot make it their sole personality

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-05-30T14:55:19+00:00

She got married to him for his simp personality, he married her to end his celibacy

https://np.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/1d3d4x7/i_married_thinking_i_could_grow_to_love_my/

All relationships are transactional, no exceptions bro.

saulbasedman3 · 2024-05-30T15:05:29+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/zbpnx9zvwk3d1.png?width=1097&format=png&auto=webp&s=7da5da32d044fba55842394122d8149e61f57b68

Q4W rate the simp orbiter in Gone with the wind

He was cast perfectly if I say so myself

monster_lily · 2024-05-30T17:19:29+00:00

WHY is my life so hard

berichorbeburied · 2024-05-30T17:45:08+00:00

Quick somebody tell me what it means.

When are in the gym.

Two women work out beside you.

(You ignore them)

They then walk in front of you and stretch in front of you

(Stretching while bending over)

You continue excercising. They are there.

When you close your eyes to rest and open them 15 sec later.

They disappeared.

(Obviously they were skinny🙄)

Icy-core · 2024-05-30T18:10:37+00:00

Ppd men clutching onto the only victim card (autism) available to them so badd

AnalSexIsTheBest8-- · 2024-05-30T18:13:55+00:00

I have finally come to understanding about the whole confusion regarding the "toxic masculinity" and it makes everything so much clearer.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2024-05-30T06:23:42+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/vieg1f0vbi3d1.png?width=741&format=png&auto=webp&s=fafc56b86d94934cfa5c8352023fa60851761e5a

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”How dare a late bloomer women hold late bloomer men accountable for how nasty they are to their equals”

Why aren’t these men over 30 dating women over 30 who have not been with many men? Why do they talk about fertility of their concern is how many sex partners she has had? Because it isn’t about sex partners. It’s about wanting a hot, young woman.

Remember that men are hypergamous. They hate their equals. Late bloomer men hate late bloomer women more than any other man.

Late bloomer men are hypergamous and hate their female counterparts.

Except for I am not an old single mom. I am a pure feminine fit submissive and friendly woman. And we don’t want men who act this way. You can have preferences without being hostile/ arrogant about them.

"I am a pure feminine fit submissive and friendly woman. "

"You can have preferences without being hostile/ arrogant about them."

Then don’t specify single moms.

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