Daily Community Chat Megathread

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-16T14:07:25+00:00

Men here: I hate that women like to play games. They’ll make a man wait for sex, but had a threesome during springbreak?

Me: Did you tell her upfront that you just wanted to fuck?

The same men: Why does that matter?

dbz_111 · 2022-12-18T05:12:00+00:00

/u/Mythic_Punk

Sorry for distracting your study, but, what are your thoughts on Hogwarts Legacy? Are you gonna get it?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-12-16T09:22:07+00:00

“I like to drink wine more than I used to”-Vito Corleone

I finally feel him with that lol

EulenWatcher · 2022-12-16T12:42:30+00:00

I’ve got this comment today and I cannot keep it only to myself lol:

Let's consider a hypothetical: one day, your husband say:

Listen, honey, I need to admit something: the only way I can find sexual release is if I shit in your mouth. I know, I know, it's unusual, but we're in love, right? We're committed, exclusive partners and we'll do anything for each other, right? Well, after thinking about it a lot, I've come to realize that this is something I need to have in our relationship. You love me, so I'm sure you understand how important this is to me.

So, are you going to let your husband start shitting in your mouth or get a divorce? Would you rather have know about this before sinking years of your life into this relationship? The reason people date "casual" is so that they don't waste a lot of time on a relationship with someone who won't stay with you unless you let him shit in your mouth.

Apparently dating casually will help you not to lose your time. Imv if you want an LTR dating casually is a waste of time and you can vet for sexual compatibility without fucking multiple people in the same timeframe.

BittererWegwerf · 2022-12-16T13:07:33+00:00

The order thing in this thread is fucked again. It defaults to best instead of new

The9thElement · 2022-12-16T14:06:50+00:00

Bruh how did my SAT score stay the same I’m gonna 🥲🔫

Actually the worst day of my life

Preme2 · 2022-12-16T16:01:00+00:00

So I know at least one woman who isn’t a clamoring chad chaser. She posted her boyfriend last night. Let’s just say she’s doing community service. They’re looks matched but she makes more than him.

She was celebrating him getting a promotion even though she’s the breed winner. I’m just not use to seeing it so it’s a little shocking.

The9thElement · 2022-12-16T16:17:39+00:00

People that watch Hamilton just be doing the most 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-16T16:26:14+00:00

Men, the logical sex.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-16T16:28:24+00:00

Women can patriarchy and violence against women if they just stopped giving birth to sons. Very easy fix

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-16T16:32:42+00:00

It's funny how the rule "No "Woe-is-Me" posting" never applies to the women complaining about being "pumped and dumped"

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-16T16:52:35+00:00

idk what pill this is but looool

never_say_ni · 2022-12-16T16:58:05+00:00

Can I get some honest dating advice here? I find the advice on /r/dating or /r/dating_advice to be disingenuous at times, whereas in here people generally don't hold back, which I appreciate more.

Description of myself: 25M Korean living in a major US city (one of DC, Philly, NYC, Boston). Average height, average face (feminine facial features), lean, and not muscular at all. Personality wise I'm introverted, soft-spoken, respectful, and polite (applies to everyone, not just women). I don't display a masculine aura at all, but am not a pushover and am not afraid to speak out my thoughts, if the situation demands. I think I have average social skills, but being quiet might make others perceive me as awkward. As for career, I work in tech as an engineer and I'm very skilled at playing violin.

I like to first be friends with women then if the mood is right, I'd ask them for a date. This has rarely been successful, but when it is, I've never been successful in getting a second date. It could be bad luck, but I think a major part into this is that I didn't push the date into a romantic/sexual direction at all.

The women I like are those nerdy types with interests in STEM/music/art, and personalities similar to mine (maybe a tad-bit more extroverted). Should I start doing things like building some mass in the gym, learn game, and try to change my personality to display more masculine traits to attract more of these women? Doing this would make me feel very unnatural but I think I need to change something because my current strategy isn't working. Thanks!

P.S. I'd love dating book recommendations

Edit: thanks for all the amazing and detailed advice. I will take good note of these and try to apply them in my life.

JumboJetz · 2022-12-16T18:14:27+00:00

“I’m only attracted to my boyfriend” - do women believe other women when they say that? If this is true it’s kindof no wonder abusive relationships are a thing when some womens attraction is literally just 1 person on Earth.

ChainSmmoker · 2022-12-16T19:01:13+00:00

what happened to the jannies?

smegma_enthusiast · 2022-12-16T19:10:56+00:00

I've been going to a rock climbing gym for a few weeks and it's awesome.

The guys there are... so fit and attractive. Fingers crossed I can get that fit and attractive too! The girls are also fit as hell, but there is like a 3:1 ratio of guys so I'm talking about the guys.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-12-16T19:16:14+00:00

Had an interesting discussion with a buddy. He said that, not only did he not want an FFM threesome, he didn't understand why anyone would. His point was that he would prefer to "do a better job with one girl instead of half-ass it with two".

I pointed out that its just a fantasy, and like any fantasy it's more about your own fun than anybody else's, so who cares that neither girl gets your undivided attention. All that attention, two people trying to make you feel good, has got to be fun. I don't want to actually do it, but I can at least see the appeal.

2022-12-16T20:12:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zlk82v/daily_community_chat_megathread/j0i1e6o/

Sir, if this is your life experience please seek out psychological help. If there is still time, I suggest you press charges against your father. Wish you all the best.

FjbhBoy · 2022-12-16T20:22:27+00:00

I hope you didn’t all miss me too much in my exile from ppd. Upon my travels in The Land Beyond PPD I learned and experienced many new things. I practiced the way of the sword, I got accused of being a snitch by a fat woman in a reddit chat room, I learned how to make potato salad, I almost got attacked by my neighbor’s dog, and I binge read all of Chainsaw Man

Doinpromo · 2022-12-16T20:46:27+00:00

Hi there,

A concerned redditor reached out to us about you.

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Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-16T22:17:24+00:00

Women and BP'ers: just because a man is open to the possibility of sex outside of an exclusive relationship doesn't mean he only wants that and nothing else.

In this comment, "casual sex" = "sex outside of an exclusive relationship"

This is more realistic:

he want a good LTR, but since that can be hard to find, takes time, and might not ever happen, you might as well have what fun you can today.
Casual sex with a woman tells you at least that part of the relationship would be good, and is a good start for building a relationship.
Casual sex is better than nothing.

blacksun48 · 2022-12-17T08:45:16+00:00

Genuinely curious how to meet people after a divorce… I really have no clue.

LightskinDanish · 2022-12-17T07:41:39+00:00

meteorness123 · 2022-12-17T06:05:42+00:00

Regarding Hypergamy : I think people here underestimate how lazy women ( and people in general) are. Especially the older they get. "Trading" up isn't worth it in most cases. I think this is why college educated couples have low divorce rates. The thought process is "I have someone who isn't dumb, looks okay, we both make similar money, we already have kids together. Starting over would be pointless and finding someone better long-term unlikely. I'm also getting older myself so..what's the chance of me meeting another compatible person like that again ? ".

By that point, there was too much pair-bonding and investment into the relationship.

Thoughts ?

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-12-16T09:47:02+00:00

Why are there no help groups for men about mental health and being better fathers and learning to love themselves for who they are???

MoreSanitizerPls · 2022-12-16T13:00:30+00:00

Bruh. I’m so close to just being a nomad vagabond and going to Alaska to work on a fish boat or go to Montana to be a ranch hand/cowgirl. I want to go somewhere we’re no one expects me to be pretty and made up.

I don’t know why I try so hard. I don’t even want a husband I just want people to stop thinking I’m weird because I’ve never had a boyfriend.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-12-16T13:16:40+00:00

Ugh I wish this post were a rarity on redpillwomen but it’s not 🤦‍♀️

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/z7c00j/ironic_regret_of_not_having_a_career/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-16T16:37:16+00:00

Starting my Christmas break today!

No work for the next 18 days!

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-16T14:59:24+00:00

Let me explain why poly for men is stupid:

A HVM who could get casual sex would get it regardless of having a woman as a partner. Actually, he'd probably get less overall casual sex by stating that he's currently in a relationship (because women are like that). So basically him staying single and having a soft harem > having a poly gf.

A LVM will just get little to nothing while his poly gf gets railed as often as she wants.

Both scenarios are lose/lose for men.

WestCombSplit · 2022-12-16T20:06:07+00:00

Walking past a Woman in the middle of the night in a dark isolated area, really hit home the complete disregard I have for a Woman's potential to harm me. I just felt randomly guilty that she could be feeling anxious. Whereas if it was a guy that was even smaller my thought would've been to still be cautious as he could have a knife

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-16T22:21:59+00:00

This sub is becoming non straight women and male virgins arguing over why they won't date each other

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-12-16T22:47:31+00:00

Eyy 2nd round interview with a fucking stellar company in about 2 weeks of seriously looking

(I love my company and boss but they're running out of money and I'm not gonna wait to be laid off to leave lol(

WestCombSplit · 2022-12-16T10:11:58+00:00

this man's a genius

UneastAji · 2022-12-16T12:09:01+00:00

Malcolm in the middle is a fantastic show that is has very relatable characters and boy fantasy. I feel this is very good at depicting boys, teens and dads. What do you think?

liefelijk · 2022-12-16T16:42:20+00:00

I had my Dad’s phone number blocked for a few months, after some particularly ridiculous behavior from him that culminated in him texting me to “lose his number.” So I did, for a little while. 😂

But my GMA is getting up there and I am worrying that I will miss an important text about her heading into the hospital, or something else that’s important.

Family can definitely be irritating, even if some of them are lovely. 🙃

animorph_fan34 · 2022-12-16T18:32:56+00:00

I can’t take any discussions around N count seriously because if a women isn’t willing to have sex by the 4th/5th date she’s going to get dropped regardless of if she’s a virgin/inexperienced.

saraimarsena · 2022-12-16T19:23:36+00:00

Q4W: What stupid opinions about women do RP men still believe?

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-12-16T19:46:49+00:00

Just letting the men here know there’s a lot of hoes here on Reddit. Like a LOT. Doesn’t matter if they have a man or not.

Talk to them in DMs let them vent and turn on the charm and next thing you know they’re sending you pictures of themselves and flying you out of state to fuck them and shit.

PPD women are no exceptions to this phenomenon stay woke

TRP always wins in the end

scwizard · 2022-12-16T20:26:32+00:00

Is betabux still even a thing?

Why would a girl want a relationship like this if she's making money herself?

lulll · 2022-12-16T21:08:18+00:00

nsfw i like her

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-12-16T21:32:59+00:00

Fellas , rank the following feminist attemt to shame terms by their meaninglessness: " predatory", " creep ", " inc*l ", " misogynist ", " little dick energy " and " who hurt you ? "

my_alt_has_alts · 2022-12-16T22:19:48+00:00

Do people realize that normal people don't use "studies" to explain normal behavior?

notsolegalthrowaway · 2022-12-16T12:12:42+00:00

I automatically downvote any thread that is titled “cmv: women [x] better/worse than men”

animorph_fan34 · 2022-12-16T15:05:18+00:00

Can any man explain why Ebony is the #1 pornhub category in the US. Red pillers like fresh and fit told me black women were the least desirable group of women

UneastAji · 2022-12-16T11:09:25+00:00

Funny how women can say "Oh my sister/cousin/whatever just had a babyyyy I have baby fever now I want one so much" and people are like "yeh normal, good, nice".

but the second a dude is like "Everyone is having sex I want to have sex too" he's seen as a creep.

I say we should bully women more for having their incentives.

Caetraaa · 2022-12-16T12:26:51+00:00

It's hard to find a girlfriend as a woman. I dont think I'm ugly or anything just unlucky and awkward 😔

meteorness123 · 2022-12-16T15:11:44+00:00

Intelligence as a man gets you a bigger and better dating pool than height. And before you sperg out :

As long you're not super short and have social skills, meaning being a super intelligent autist doesn't count as a counter-example.

BittererWegwerf · 2022-12-16T16:20:55+00:00

I feel like i talk too much. Is talking alot as a man unattractive?

lulll · 2022-12-16T17:22:53+00:00

women? women. women: women, women; women (women) women/women [email protected] & women

my_alt_has_alts · 2022-12-16T19:01:49+00:00

Q for people who struggle to meet others:

Have you considered backpacking to practise socialization?

Hostels are perfect for that. People are generally predisposed to talk. You get to meet a lot of interesting people and practice approaching fellow travelers and starting conversations.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T19:50:50+00:00

PPD women make me wanna pump and dump more

Like just straight up lie about wanting to be with a girl forever and immediately ghost type pump and dump

purplish_possum · 2022-12-16T20:30:14+00:00

Drove past a house I'm considering buying. Based on the realtor's photos I assumed it was vacant. Turns out the old lady who lives there just threw all her late husband's stuff in a dumpster -- but she's still there until the place sells. Sweet old lady. But she's messing with my plan. I was thinking about a real lowball offer. If it was just grubby heirs I wouldn't have felt the least bit guilty.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-12-16T20:31:24+00:00

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/

Most women insist on monogamy, but lookie here. What's the point? lol

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-12-16T20:35:54+00:00

https://nypost.com/2022/12/15/trans-teacher-with-z-sized-prosthetic-breasts-sparks-photo-ban/

Best argument I've seen for increasing teachers' pay.

MuchMethod7039 · 2022-12-17T05:54:13+00:00

Barbara Kingsolver is quickly becoming my favorite author. I'm hyped to read Demon Copperhead, but first I have to re-read David Copperfield.

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Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-16T09:00:23+00:00

First!

Fancy-Respect8729 · 2022-12-16T09:21:25+00:00

Why is there no "red pill" groups on Reddit? Did they all get banned? Just curious.

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-16T09:44:47+00:00

I'm so tired of exams, I want to sleep but I haven't covered all the material I need to 😭😭😭

The9thElement · 2022-12-16T11:53:05+00:00

Bruh one thing I hate is people who don’t wear jackets and then complain that they’re cold, like its one thing if they can’t afford one or don’t have one but people who don’t wear jackets because it messes with their outfit can all Fuck Off

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-16T11:53:12+00:00

the ability to consciously and purposefully forego something that everyone else is chasing makes a person one of the strongest people in the world in terms of mental fortitude

UneastAji · 2022-12-16T12:11:42+00:00

Do you believe in teleportation? Or do you believe most forms of teleportations depicted in SCI FI is more like "kill you then clone you"? Would you be ok with being disintegrated then cloned somewhere else? Would you believe it's just you?

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T12:17:40+00:00

Why you gotta sell these hoes a dream

gymbro718nyc2 · 2022-12-16T12:39:56+00:00

I'm back

gymbro718nyc2 · 2022-12-16T12:42:57+00:00

The real Chad https://youtu.be/Uq-9QBUmELA

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-16T13:55:40+00:00

Boss: The only thing I needed you to work on is to communicate when things go wrong rather than always trying to work it out yourself.

Me: Starts communicating and asking more questions when I need to

Boss: Either never responds or takes hours to get back to me

And they fucking wonder why I don't bother and just try to figure shit out on my own.

milk-enjoyerr · 2022-12-16T14:46:57+00:00

On a scale of 1 to 10 how worried should I be about bloody coughs?

bzl33 · 2022-12-16T16:42:41+00:00

any of y'all got fiction book recs, not under scifi and not considered a "classic"?

meteorness123 · 2022-12-16T17:11:36+00:00

I might be becky widowed. Had some fun with a chick some years ago and I never saw her again. She had those sexy lips and a nice voice. I think of her from time to time

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-12-16T17:30:29+00:00

My momma made me wear hand me downs from time to time from my older brother as a child but as an adult the idea of sharing clothes to me was weird and a no no.

I say that cause I always hear and seen so many instances of Women wearing other women’s(friends family etc) clothes regularly. Borrowing dresses, shoes, bras, leggings, etc. my GF’s best friend borrowed her cocktail dress from her for an event last month and I’m like yo. I can’t ever see myself asking my man to borrow his suit cause I gotta go to a meeting lol.

meteorness123 · 2022-12-16T17:36:19+00:00

Everybody always advises against sleeping pills. Are they really so bad ?

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T17:51:36+00:00

Damn mods ain't even bother to say why this post got nuked it was looking interesting

u/HazyMemory7?

u/Mrs_drgree?

SeaSquirrel · 2022-12-16T17:58:50+00:00

Why can’t I respond to some deranged post with “go outside” or “touch grass”? Mods always delete it for being a personal attack, bit when someone’s post is just literally no substance and from someone clearly just terminally online in incel/redpill spaces, what else am I supposed to say?

ChainSmmoker · 2022-12-16T17:59:39+00:00

I am afraid of approaching women for romantic relationships. I even don't have the courage to text my matches on tinder.

lulll · 2022-12-16T19:11:34+00:00

Q4All: Dumb as fuck takes you wish people would stop posting here?

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2022-12-16T19:32:29+00:00

Would other nations be just as fat as Americans if they had the same food abundance.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-16T19:35:13+00:00

I found a rare case of a man getting alpha widowed

FjbhBoy · 2022-12-16T19:43:39+00:00

https://youtu.be/oYnzEeIbWjs

InfoVariety-8842 · 2022-12-16T19:53:08+00:00

But why though

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-16T20:53:44+00:00

Ugh I'm such a tard. Forgot my headphones outside, it rained, and now they're not turning on 🙃

my_alt_has_alts · 2022-12-16T21:24:16+00:00

I finally got the courage to tell my neighbor not slam the door like an angry teenager. I'm turning into a Karen.

But seriously, I hate noisy people, can't you see the whole building shakes when you close the door? FIX THE DAMN DOOR.

text-redacted · 2022-12-16T21:28:10+00:00

https://youtu.be/S_ww6l6I2is

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-16T22:06:21+00:00

If a woman starts with the small dick energy insult just tell her that she has loose vagina energy. I guarantee that she will lose her shit.

Embarrassed_Cup2524 · 2022-12-16T22:30:55+00:00

I'm obsessed with age

I'm 27

I worry about my age.

I'm the person who seems to have OCD about said age, and I post the same exact question on age in mega chats

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-17T05:40:56+00:00

I'm sick of people in my age bracket who always go on about their "era's"

"Oh I'm entering my party girl era 🤪🤪"

"I'm heading into my dark era"

Why the fuck is everybody that's my age cringe except for me.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-17T05:07:39+00:00

How does pornhub know someone's demographic when they visit anonymously?

SeaSquirrel · 2022-12-17T04:58:59+00:00

ladies

Blue balls is a lie. Male propaganda.

You didnt hear it from me 🤫

SeaSquirrel · 2022-12-17T04:19:34+00:00

It’s cute when they can’t debate and block you just to save face

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/znw3dh/male_kinks_and_depravity/j0jr5mz/?context=3

You named 3 kinks that are tame compared to Vore, Sounding, Pedophilia, Necrophilia, Beastiality, Incest here little boy.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-17T04:11:49+00:00

RP bad and I'm gonna tell you why

text-redacted · 2022-12-17T04:01:51+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/cDnRh7Y

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-17T03:55:40+00:00

Not my bf telling me he doesn't watch most of the reels I send him 😭😭😭 This stings

meteorness123 · 2022-12-17T03:54:52+00:00

Has anyone here experienced mental stress manifesting as physical illness ? This seems to be common and the reason why we shouldn't glance over emotions or mind states

Lysa_Bell · 2022-12-17T03:38:27+00:00

Q4W: Who do you think sucks worse at relationships, Red Pill men or Blue Pill men?

dbz_111 · 2022-12-17T03:34:35+00:00

So my new gf (? she started calling me her bf so I guess that's that) is going to a party (without me) and she showed me all the text messages she gets from guys trying to flirt with her.

Should I be jealous or something? I don't feel jealous at all. I just feel confused as hell cause it's like, she has all these options, why is she dating me.

LightskinDanish · 2022-12-17T03:31:24+00:00

What do western feminists even want anymore 💀

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-17T03:24:14+00:00

Why do Red Pillers have this ability to sound more annoying than feminists?

octavius774 · 2022-12-17T03:22:36+00:00

Jiu-jitsu is literally just a bunch of dudes getting together to rub their dick and balls all over eachother.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-12-17T03:19:53+00:00

As much as I avoid watching anime that get a ton of attention/hype I'm finally caving and watching Chainsaw Man. Wish me luck.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-17T02:56:28+00:00

man i'm lowkey upset that they took the concept of the red pill from its matrix definition, which was a super sick theory on the state of the world and how there are things we never discovered, and turned it into just trying to get laid.

honestly perfect name for the way they framed the knowledge though but still. Could have been more.

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-17T02:42:36+00:00

I rarely go to the theatres as I'm not much of a movie person and it's a bit out of the way, but I did today and it was pretty fun. I don't like how loud it is tho.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-17T02:27:39+00:00

I don't get why women don't value a man who is nice. Personality wise, most men would be happy with finding a woman who is plain nice, doesn't matter that much if she is extroverted or confident or anything like that.

It's not even that being nice is just a prerequisite and everything else needs to be in line too. Not being nice is almost never the reason a woman doesn't like a man and women date and sleep with many men who aren't nice.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-17T01:43:24+00:00

Hypergamy's what took us from being the equivalent of chimpanzees to the most dominant form of species on the planet and as far as we can tell the universe

The9thElement · 2022-12-17T01:33:07+00:00

Am I the only one who suffers from extreme fatigue during wintertime, who else can relate and what did you do to fix it

Barneysparky · 2022-12-17T01:29:05+00:00

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BittererWegwerf · 2022-12-17T01:23:35+00:00

I refuse to recognize "rizz" as a term. I don't usually don't mind youth slang but "rizz" just gives me a sick feeling in my gut.

Preme2 · 2022-12-17T01:19:56+00:00

I’m getting old. I had to Google what Gyatt meant.

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-17T01:02:12+00:00

I have a theory that women react to fat men existing with apathy, but men react to fat women existing with negative emotion

dbz_111 · 2022-12-17T01:01:47+00:00

ow ow owwwwwww cramps

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-17T00:59:32+00:00

Q4Men: If there was only one woman left on the planet, who should you all share as brother husbands?

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-17T00:46:24+00:00

Does it really matter who makes more money as much as who is spending the money?

Shouldn't THAT really be the metric we are examining?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-17T00:45:25+00:00

I see some women using skinny like it's such an incredible demand like "he only likes skinny women".

First, men don't want a very skinny woman. Just a woman without a lot of visible fat. The ideal female body for men who like thin women is around 115-120 lbs (if she's around the average of 5'4, 120 if she has some muscle or curves, 115 if she doesn't) which isn't underweight. If she weighs less than like 110-112 lbs, she becomes less attractive from being too thin. This is basically the body that non-westerners naturally have without having to change their diet or anything. If poor non western women can do it without putting in any effort, any western woman can do it putting a minimal amount of effort.

Second, it's not hard to be skinny even if it was the ideal body.

quaker5 · 2022-12-17T00:45:06+00:00

Far and away the most common trait of all men in young couples walking around in public is being tall

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-17T00:32:17+00:00

Fuck bitches get money

FjbhBoy · 2022-12-17T00:27:06+00:00

Big booty tomboys into anime,lifting, and mma>

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-12-17T00:25:56+00:00

feel the need to update. (Yes, no one asked)

Single in a new city. I signed up for a dodgeball co-ed league for this winter. I honestly hope to meet friends and get outside my comfort zone more. Also still tryna muster up courage to go sit at a bar alone😭

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-17T00:19:45+00:00

If I ever become financially successful (well it's more when than if) my kids are seeing none of it. I'm not risking my hypothetical future kids becoming trust fund babies who have everything handed to them.

Growing up without much money is a necessity, it builds character and it builds you into the person you need to be. I didn't grow up with much money and now I work my ass off to make decent money.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-17T00:17:33+00:00

women massively overestimate the amount of casual sex and dates the average man is getting to the point its like ridiculous

LightskinDanish · 2022-12-17T00:10:17+00:00

Is it weird for an 18 year old man to be in a relationship with a 32 year old woman?

social_mule · 2022-12-17T00:03:21+00:00

Why do people walk around with $100 bills in their wallet? Seriously. No ATM except maybe at a casino distributes $100 bills. And if you get them straight from the bank teller you typically have to specify...unless you're withdrawing a huge amount.

And that's the only instance where it makes sense. Withdrawing a large amount, presumably with the intent of making a large purchase in cash. Like maybe a diamond ring or a kilo of cocaine.

So why are motherfuckers paying their bar tabs of $16.97 with $100 bills? And don't tell me it's to get change. Motherfucker, if you wanted change you'd have asked the bank teller for smaller fucking bills.

LightskinDanish · 2022-12-16T23:54:09+00:00

How are attractive men really treated?

Do they really get stopped in the street or whatever? I keep reading Reddit comments describing that kinda behaviour. It it sounds unrealistic

Apprehensive_Cut_146 · 2022-12-16T23:48:58+00:00

Q4Women: If there was only one man left on the planet, who should we all share as sister wives?

BittererWegwerf · 2022-12-16T23:48:04+00:00

If one average man and one average woman are locked together in a house. Would it be inevitable that they sleep together?

This scenario assumes that they have everything they need in the house, such as food, warm water etc. and that there won't be any shit such as SA or worse. Also assuming that both are attracted to the opposite gender.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T23:28:58+00:00

If there were only 100 men on earth and one woman we'd go extinct

If there was one man and 100 women we could repopulate in less than a million years

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2022-12-16T23:22:03+00:00

proof ugly doesn’t want ugly?

trail22 · 2022-12-16T23:20:57+00:00

Women's inflated hypergamy is just the female version of porn brain (porn-induced ED with your partner).

Change my mind.

lulll · 2022-12-16T23:13:02+00:00

Men are like waffles, women are like spaghetti.

Agree or disagree?

lulll · 2022-12-16T23:08:50+00:00

every time i eat five guys i feel like its making me high. what the fuck are they putting in this shit

Patrickstarho · 2022-12-16T22:54:47+00:00

I finally had sex. No longer an incel. It feels great! The girl was a little bigger and shorter than me so it wasn’t as seamless as my ex but was fun nonetheless.

The funny thing about this is that on this sub ppl will convince you that you need to make hella money, have your shit together to have sex. That’s not the case at all. Like for me none of my circumstances changed. The one thing I did differently is use audio messages on dating apps, which then led to phone calls which led to FaceTime which made meeting up in person a lot less nerve racking.

I have three more girls I’m pursuing, but I’m taking a break now.

And so the journey continues!

UneastAji · 2022-12-16T09:06:29+00:00

People often complain that PPD became this and that.

But I love this place, I've been here for 6 or 7 years and it's still my favorite internet place.

It's the only place you can have opinions and where people tend to not be moralizing goats.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-16T14:05:22+00:00

“Men are just more honest.”

I never understood when I see men, especially here, say that if they’re painfully ignorant or they just like lying to feel better about themselves.

For a group who allege theyre more honest, they really like to form groups about advising others on how to lie their way into getting sex

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T16:23:16+00:00

The worst thing about the thread not being sorted by new is that Lilith is the first comment you see when you come on here

UneastAji · 2022-12-16T11:06:14+00:00

People often ask what happens to chad when he ages.

Here is an example:

https://www.reddit.com/r/blackmagicfuckery/comments/zn921b/frisby_sorcerer/

Old AF, saggy skin and all, still buttload of muscles.

Alpha handles plastic disc like it's his little bitch

Refuses to elaborate

You wish he was your dad

saraimarsena · 2022-12-16T20:03:45+00:00

what’s so bad about being husband material? do men only want to be casual sex material?

i feel like men secretly want to be objectified more

LowCreddit · 2022-12-16T20:36:50+00:00

I think all the relatively new accounts with female profile pictures (not avatars) are sus.

baresquad · 2022-12-16T17:16:24+00:00

Cmv: Average men want average-below average women to broaden their standard to include them but those men don’t have real intentions on dating those women.

They want the attention, to be chased and to have their Tinder match numbers look equal to the men they believe unattractive women swipe right on. Possibly in an effort to know what it feels like to have options and variety.

It’s disingenuous and bad faith to constantly argue that those women should lower their standards and solely focus their attention on men who don’t seriously want to date them in return. It’d just create a loop of the average men rejecting them no different than they claim the Chads do.

And sure, unattractive women might get rejected by attractive men too in the sense that they don’t get relationships from those men, like the narrative pushes. But access to relationships aren’t a real measure of a woman’s dating success nor how happy she is. So at the very least, they win sex with an attractive person in return and are more often than not aware that a relationship with that man is not on the table, often evidenced by how aggressively they pursue and initiate those connections as being “just sex.”

So no, average-below women shouldn’t broaden their attraction to include men who want to experience what it’s like to reject and have options. Access to casual sex with attractive people is a better deal than giving that up to pursue average men who’ll romantically reject you.

Bandit174 · 2022-12-16T17:47:52+00:00

Men need to stop putting their lens onto women’s issues. It doesn’t matter if a woman has endless options for sex bc woman in general aren’t viewing that as an advantage. Our goals are different, so we’re always going to clash with men because we have intrinsically different aims we’re looking for.

I can see why men do value numbers…they have the higher sex drive in general and they receive the opposite kind of reaction than women do if they can achieve a high N count.

Women do gatekeep sex but for so many women, sex is a subpar experience bc men in general don’t prioritize our pleasure and they quickly stop making women feel special and secure and loved after the honeymoon phase is over. Women get bored and their naturally lower libido goes out the door all together once their emotional needs get neglected. I think this is the crux of high divorce rates and I don’t think there’s nearly enough focus on emotional neglect as often as we hear about sexless relationships.

I don’t know what the solution is.. but the focus of this sub (which is becoming pretty boring now tbh) is assisting men with advice primarily on how to increase their n count.

I don’t see why many women will stick around here long other than to troll and enjoy watching men’s heads spin when we point out the blatantly obvious.

mortugal_43 · 2022-12-16T14:29:24+00:00

Let me get PPD’s opinion on this.

So my friend wanted to see my gf. I video called him and gave the phone to him. He started low-key flirting with her. Eventually he invited her to a party and said they (speaking as plural) could give her a lift back home in the morning. It’s not the first time she’s been super friendly with my friends. She texted afterwards to ask if I was serious. Thing is I didn’t ask her out to any party. It was my friend. I told her yeah. I then told her that my friends could pick her up later. She asked where I would be and I told her I have a few errands to run and that I would maybe come later. I’m thinking of not going and leaving her with my Chad friends as a test. They’re very good with women and it would be a test to see her loyalty. Should I give her my friend’s number in order for them to arrange transport logistics to the party?

The9thElement · 2022-12-16T20:20:12+00:00

Who is the most mature member of PPD and why is it u/The9thElement

dbz_111 · 2022-12-16T12:44:56+00:00

Question for wahmen: how do you feel about a relationship where YOU plan everything? You plan all the dates, the times, the locations, travel and so on. He just goes along with whatever you decide.

Are there many women like this?

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-16T16:43:17+00:00

Women: I'm only attracted to a man if we've spent a lot of time together, established a deep emotional connection, and we are passionately in love.

Also women: All it takes is being hygienic and not being a piece of shit. It's literally that easy.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T17:00:31+00:00

Can someone debunk the conclusion made in this video for me

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-16T13:01:26+00:00

yesterday i was going to give a homeless person money then i read her sign and it said she had two kids so I decided not too.

don't have kids if you are poor.

some friends are mad at me for not buying their kids presents. Like bitch Im trying to get to 8 figures before i'm 40. your gift from me is that I even still talk to you.

laughing at all these people taking debt to buy presents at this time of year when they already have no savings.

must suck to have to do what everyone else is doing just because others do it.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T14:59:52+00:00

Bruh what on earth is lovebombing

It's now abuse to shower a bitch with love?!

I hate feminists man 😫

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