Daily Community Chat Megathread

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-15T10:34:20+00:00

Is the thread default sorting setting wrong for anyone else or is this just me?

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T13:20:18+00:00

I had a conversation yesterday with a girl on here where she made it seem like being pumped and dumped while definitely worse is still comparable to being sexually assaulted.

Like it's only slightly worse as opposed to leagues and multitudes worse.

That's incredible to me.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-15T18:02:43+00:00

Why do so many "free speech" r-tards not understand that free speech only means the government can't throw you in prison for your words, unless they incite violence.

They all think they should be able to say whatever they fuck they want and nobody else can do anything about it.

Well, I have the freedom of speech to call you an idiot and an asshole for your free speech.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-12-15T19:01:17+00:00

Since y'all like your age gaps, here's my unasked for hottakes on age gaps:

1.) 90% of the time when a young woman (18-23) comes crying on ANY forum (not just reddit) about her abusive relationship, she's inevitably dating a 30+ man that has been grooming her since she was underage.

2.) The only time I see significantly older man dating a young woman IRL, she's also a single mom with a Chad spawn (or two).

3.) If she's not a single mom (extremely rare) then she's low SMV relative to her peers. Her low SMV shuts her out of the hot young singles market, but she's easy pickings for older men that are more interested in her age than anything else about her.

4.) Age gaps stop mattering once a woman is 25+ (i.e., once she wisens up a bit)

5.) Every time a man on here goes on about his much younger girlfriend, I automatically assume she's plain and fat.

6.) my parents have a 25 year age gap, but my mom was also 30 when she met my dad, and had been a wholeass adult for at least a decade prior. Because of my parents I got to witness first hand the reality of age gap relationships; its all fine and good until the older man gets old, and what was a sweet relationship suddenly turns into caretaker/invalid relationship. Not to mention the little tensions, misunderstandings, tone deafness, miscommunication, etc. during their day to day dealings precisely because they're from 2 different generations.

7.) maybe some older women are jealous, but I think a majority of us see ourselves/daughters/sisters/etc in this nebulous concept of a young woman dating an older man and feel concern, cringe, disgust, or regret. We don't want these men; nothing is lost when Kyle, the 35 y.o. senior dev with an N count of 0 (or 1) snags himself an obese 22 y.o. with BPD and a history of abusive relationships or CSA. Kyle was already disqualified for a litany of reasons, but we do cringe for the 22 year old. We were either her, or we knew her, or we observed her, and we know her life is hard and chances are Kyle won't make it any better.

8.) I don't particularly care about your wonderful age gap relationship thats free from any and all disadvantages. Bully for you. As they say, "the plural of anecdote is not data."

DeepFriedhentaiMemes · 2022-12-15T12:01:59+00:00

It’s genuinely wild how many people on this sub can’t identify how delusional their views are and then confused why they take the perma-L on the dating scene

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-15T13:36:05+00:00

didn't realize the original egirl, belle delphene, is doing porn now

shes cum a long way from selling gamer girl bathwater

Willow-girl · 2022-12-15T13:37:29+00:00

Well, the easy part of my week is over, and now I'm facing down a 13-hour workday today, followed by 16 hours tomorrow, with only 90 minutes to sleep between stints. Brutal!

At the warehouse, there is signage in the break room reminding employees that they're not allowed to work more than 12 hours a day, or 12 days in a row. "Take a break!" the company advises. It's cute how they pretend that people are actually living off these 20-hour-a-week, $16.75-an-hour jobs, and that we're not all working two or three others as well in order to survive. I haven't had a whole day off since I started there, nor will I get one until the day I quit. Which may not be too long if they insist on annoying me with these silly signs, lol.

catchtowards12345 · 2022-12-15T20:28:52+00:00

I have reset the suggested sort to "new."

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-15T21:32:45+00:00

women who play hard to get while still fucking other guys is a cancer that needs to be removed.

Edit: its amazing to me the things that women will try to justify. ladies u r all wildly delusional trying to justify this.

Losing_Daylight_ · 2022-12-16T09:00:23+00:00

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LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-15T13:04:49+00:00

Having to comfort a friend’s younger half-brother dealing with his awful father. The father straight up told him that he didnt divorce his mother because he was born and “its more Godly to not have another bastard”.

But “children need fathers” am I right fellas? Can you imagine how worst off that kid would be if he didn’t have a father reminding him he’s the reason his parents are in a loveless relationship?!

RegTextoffender · 2022-12-15T14:23:40+00:00

I'm now officially a sex worker of sorts according to government records! If I ever need security clearance (you'd be surprised how many swingers are civilians working for the government) I now have to let them know this, the issue I've been told isn't that you can't be a freak (as a civilian, military more limited) but you can't be in a spot where you can be blackmailed for it, aka no Epstein Island shenanigans.

At least for the next 7 years as thats how long the records stay on file.

Funny thing about it, is its just for a private boudoir shoot, no commercial application, because it may involve simulated or real sex acts.

My wife has done a couple of these shoots just herself, but we decided it would be fun to have a couples one before our bodies turn to raisins. I think we need to do these more often, I'm regretting skimping out on my workouts this last year or so and its great motivation.

teball3 · 2022-12-15T17:39:41+00:00

I think there is an electoral problem in OLD right now. Hear me out:

The idea behind democracy is to get the candidate with the best policies for the most people. The way to decide who is best for that is by holding an election. But the kicker is this, an election is a different skill than being a leader, so by using an election to figure out who is most qualified, what you are really getting the person best suited to winning elections.

OLD for men is all about standing out from the pack, not actually building a relationship. So the men most successful on OLD are the most impressive ones, not the most interested ones.

I got this idea from seeing the amount of times I hear the women on here and twox complain about "He never asked me a question! He just monologued at me!", of course he did, because talking a big game about yourself is how you impress. He didn't ask questions because that's how you show interest.

Don't ask me how to fix this, I've got no clue.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-15T17:48:46+00:00

erased all my gains from november to december in 2 days

heres what it looks like on the week.

$4000 down from that tiny spike since 2 days ago

This happens from time to time. went too greedy with thinking lowering inflation and decreasing the speed of interest rate increases would pump everything.

Just posting this because people always say I only post my gains but thats not true I post my losses too.

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-15T18:00:51+00:00

If you were "pumped and dumped" you have no grounds to have a legitimate complaint. You don't have a right to someone's time and energy after you had sex with them, just because you had sex with them. You chose to have consensual sex. If it wasn't consensual, then that's a serious crime, and you should probably do something about it. Assuming it was consensual, you only have yourself to blame for choosing to have sex based on some hope of what might happen in the future. You made bad choices, and that's on you. People get divorced all the time, and since they promised to stay together, that's way worse than "pumped and dumped." So, if it isn't a "bad thing" to ask for divorce, it certainly isn't bad for someone to "pump and dump."

You shouldn't be choosing to have sex based some belief about what might happen, regardless of the basis for that belief, regardless of if you were mislead in any way. If you lose a hand of black jack, the casino doesn't owe you the money you lost in that bet, and it's the same way with sex. The only one responsible for your regret, after you make a bad bet, is you.

You should only have sex if you want to based on what you're directly getting from it, in and of its self, and not based on any other considerations. If it's not "I want to do this for its own sake," then just don't do it.

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-12-15T18:33:04+00:00

Men do have certain priviledges due to nature, and due to this tyranical patriarchy in which women have to work all day and make kids while men spend entire days high fiving each other for all these male privilege we are having.

But when it comes to dating/sex and relationships...

Nature hates us so much that it has placed the G-spot inside our butts. Our pleasure sticks are placed just above two hanging nuts which contain 90% of our pain receptors. Not a single part of us is made to look hot, everything is built for utility or to look scary.

Nature gave us beards just to fuck with us "LOL, let's remove all hair from it's body, but... let's put a bush of hair right on it's face! lolololol".

I think that we shouldn't feel bad about the whole global warming and the destruction of nature.

Because bitch had it coming.

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-12-15T18:54:07+00:00

Anyone else feel weird seeing themselves with someone?

It feels so surreal to see a picture of me with a woman, it just doesn't feel real, I can't see myself with anyone.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T19:25:52+00:00

CMV Unless a guy explicitly said he wanted to be in a relationship with you in order to have sex he didn't lead you on.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-15T19:43:53+00:00

So most guys if they magically became women would be hoes I’m finding out 😂

lulll · 2022-12-15T19:44:15+00:00

this is a cleavage free space please put them away women thanks

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-15T19:49:48+00:00

wifing a sl*t makes sense if u dont want long term monogamy. like if u wanted to be swingers you'd want a slut. sluts need to stop expecting long term monogamy and focus on trying to find other relationship arrangements

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-15T21:02:18+00:00

What do you guys think about this: https://twitter.com/PrisonPlanet/status/1602595907916144640

In the UK, they want to make street sexual harassment (even more of?) a crime, punishable with jail time, to cat call, whistle, and also (and this is where it really goes too far) "staring persistently" would also be criminalized. It seems pretty ridiculous to - in a public place, in full view of anyone and everyone - make it a crime to happen to be looking in a particular direction for "too long." Like, a person's eyes don't have "laser beams," you aren't being affected at all by a person simply looking or not. If you didn't want someone to see a part of your body, then why did you go out of the house dressed like that? You don't get to dictate where and for how long other people look at things in public places, like on the street, like that.

What if he was just absentmindedly pointing his head in a direction, "zooning out," and a woman decides to interpret that as him "staring persistently" at her?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-15T21:30:57+00:00

"They found that between 2011 and 2019, college-age women had increasingly moved away from exclusive heterosexuality. In 2019, 65% of women reported only being attracted to men, a notable decrease from 77% in 2011. The number of women exclusively having sex with men also dropped between those years. Meanwhile, men’s attraction and sexual behaviour stayed mostly static in the same time frame: about 85% reported sexual attraction to women only, and close to 90% reported engaging in sex exclusively with women."

It's not looking good bros, we have to complete with Chad and women

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-15T22:33:01+00:00

does anyone wanna see my paper on how to get alzheimers into long term remission when its finished? or hear the basic idea right now?

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-16T07:03:26+00:00

TIL Spotify actually has some decent playlists for classical composers. Chopin has some bangers

bighuddi · 2022-12-16T06:22:15+00:00

hear me tf out. tinder is one big ad for truly/white claw and instagram, via bikini clad shell accounts.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-12-16T06:11:09+00:00

Lol at these Westerners who came to my country to get a trad-con girlfriend/wife, and yet complained when their girlfriends didn’t want to have sex before marriage, when their girlfriends demanded exorbitant bride price before getting married, or when their gf demanded them to take care of her parents.

scwizard · 2022-12-15T13:21:27+00:00

I broke up with my liberal boyfriend yesterday because he also showed a lot of signs of misogyny. A lot of these “liberal” men are really conservative/patriarchal in disguise!

ITTAuto · 2022-12-15T18:26:00+00:00

In this thread, people discussed topics ranging from the difficulties of maintaining relationships with liberal men to the effects of the Affordable Care Act to the implications of comparing a "pump and dump" to sexual assault.

<sup>This comment was generated by AI. I only post in busy threads, or if you tag u/ITTAuto. Downvote to remove me!</sup>

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-15T18:39:44+00:00

Daily update: women with predominantly masculine features ask why men don’t find them as attractive as feminine features while explaining that they don’t find the more feminine men that they are into attractive. Dating is no longer worth it, sex is over rated, there is no point to discuss anything on PPD say the struggling men who also make several posts about the real struggles being social anxiety and socializing.
And finally it’s only logical that OLD, where a corporation has a financial interest in you staying on the app and spending money, is superior to a person having their own interests in thief live life as a ficus trying to meet people in real life. And by logical, it makes more sense when you re read the party about the social anxiety in this update.

*PPD: where the daily can get broken and everyone goes “yeah why not? that might as well happen too”

duksinarw · 2022-12-15T09:38:15+00:00

Another day of talking in the same circles here because I don't have any friends and this is my only social interaction

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T14:04:42+00:00

One of the many reasons I won't consider a girl for a relationship until I've fucked her is that in my experience women are comparatively super open with men they're fucking about stuff relative to men they haven't

Once I've been inside a girl I usually can't get her to stop telling me super personal details

I can't know what your body count is or how many abortions you've had or why you cheated once but it was okay, for sure until we've been initimate

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-12-15T15:13:09+00:00

Just as a reminder guys, women do NOT respect men that don't have options.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T20:03:43+00:00

u/Mrs_Drgree what's going on with the thread, why's it defaulting to best

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2022-12-15T21:15:51+00:00

More parent should send their sons to military schools, too much of the male population is undisciplined and overemotional.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-15T09:56:26+00:00

So this guy called my work to complain about me. Apparently I was aggressive towards him because he asked my co-worker for her number and I apparently went all white knight and said "Leave her alone she's got a boyfriend" and being a dick to him.

He left out the part where I hadn't even spoken to him while he was in the store and I didn't even know he'd asked her out until she came and told me after he had left.

Sounds like someone was a little bitter they got rejected and needed someone to take it out on.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-15T13:09:02+00:00

I still find it fascinating that guys here have such a Madonna whore complex and:

Thinks that’s any better than AF/BB.
Will whine about “sluts” fucking every man, but will also whine about “prudes” not willing to fuck men they barely know.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-12-15T13:53:26+00:00

I have seen so many women complain about finally going over a dudes house/apartment and it’s dirty as fuck, guys you would ever expect it from based on how they appear in public lol. Like 15 years ago when me and my older brother shared a floor in our parents house he was blowing up my phone begging me to clean his room as nice as possible because a girl said she wanted to come over after their date. I said give me 100 dollars and we have a deal lol. I only had about 20 mins and I think I did a good job.

liefelijk · 2022-12-15T16:20:50+00:00

Quick poll:

Do you consider Friday the 13th to be a romantic movie with Jason as the romantic lead?

Libah05 · 2022-12-15T16:31:54+00:00

Mods delete if this breakes rules

I’m so blackpilled I’ve gone full circle to the bluepill. What you say really doesn’t matter so why not “just be yourself” as corny as that sounds. You can’t force a woman to be attracted to you and if it’s not a hell yes you should just move on. If she isn’t thinking “hell yes” about your looks and tries to shit test you just bounce. The heaps women will go to when they are genuinely attracted to you always amazes me. But oh well.

Willow-girl · 2022-12-15T17:40:26+00:00

Well for fuck's sake! I just received a letter from my warehouse employer reminding me that under the Obamacare law I'm required to maintain health insurance coverage, and providing me with instructions on how to apply for ACA coverage.

There are no words ...

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-12-15T18:27:46+00:00

If a high value woman to you is a young, low n count/virgin and you want her as your wife/gf you also need to be high value. Let’s says that is what most men consider high value, that means that woman has the best options. So if you arnt high value be ready to settle or be alone.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-15T19:44:22+00:00

If I wanted to set up Daily Community Chat awards, what categories would you want to see?

I'm thinking:

First in Post

Biggest Stretch

Most Incorrect Use of Statistics/A Study

Angriest Comment

Funniest Comment

Posters that Engaged in the Most Sexual Tension

Edit: Fuck it, I'm just going to invent new categories each day depending on what needs to be drawn attention to. Hypergamous slut, looking to branch swing to the next great category!

cindyroseex · 2022-12-15T22:33:08+00:00

Seems like the 'women don't put effort in dating' thread is popping and women don't seem to have a counter argument.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-16T05:19:08+00:00

“Children need fathers” is still the dumbest phrase conservatives and the manosphere keep parroting. I can’t be too surprised they don’t think children need loving caring stable homes.

Edit: and the fact someone said that a child having a cruel father is better than no father really shows the lack of giving two shits about children’s well-being.

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-15T08:04:35+00:00

First

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T18:56:36+00:00

This bot summarised the thread way better than u/Lift_and_Lurk did

HazyMemory7 · 2022-12-15T20:08:25+00:00

I think I'm out of ideas for a good thread, once you've been here a while it's all been discussed, and what hasn't is generally off limits.

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2022-12-15T20:58:18+00:00

What's your excuse for still being fat?

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-12-15T22:33:34+00:00

If you are dating someone and you are not exclusive you should not be expecting exclusivity.

scwizard · 2022-12-15T10:21:55+00:00

How is there a prenatal vitamin shortage in the US if the birth rate is like 1.5?

lewdakuma · 2022-12-15T10:42:41+00:00

good morning ppd, daily reminder that Lain was right about everything

scwizard · 2022-12-15T11:02:16+00:00

I was surprised by how little fear I felt… I actually felt excited…which surprised me. I’ve always said I didn’t want kids and I’ve always had a fear of pregnancy. But now I’m clutching at my stomach and feeling a little sad. Right now is absolutely 100% not the time to have kids and we would have gotten an abortion. I’m not even good with children / they make me uncomfortable / I have sensory issues kids aggravate. So I’m confused about my sadness. A part of me is genuinely disturbed that my biology might be “tricking” me into a desire to be pregnant even though pregnancy feels almost counter to who I am.

Imagine having a body that's trying to manipulate you into getting pregnant even though it would be life ruining.

purplish_possum · 2022-12-15T11:17:37+00:00

So, where do I find introverted girls that barely leave their house?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-15T13:59:32+00:00

I bought myself two more suits today, I've got a navy blue suit and a cream suit now to go with my olive and black suits.

Reckon I'm going to combine the cream suit with a powder blue shirt, and a brown belt and chelsea boots tomorrow for work. Give off that classic look.

I get a lot of compliments wearing suits so due to my constant need for validation from strangers I'm gonna keep wearing them.

scwizard · 2022-12-15T14:25:36+00:00

My body started changing at around 10. School taught me about hair, boobs, blood... Okay, I thought, this is normal.

But my labia grew, too. School didn't tell me this. TV didn't tell me this. Nobody did. This can't be normal... right?

Going through puberty as a girl sounds terrifying.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-15T16:04:49+00:00

I just saw a bunch of youtube comments saying it's okay for a woman to kill 6 people in a house fire because she was sexually assaulted, I'm convinced people don't think women should ever go to prison

januaryphilosopher · 2022-12-15T16:36:33+00:00

Wondering in general; for women living in states in which trigger laws went into effect following the overturn of Roe vs Wade, what’s the dating scene like..?

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-12-15T16:42:04+00:00

Q4M - Do you ever feel bad about all high N-count PPD women we chased away by making them feel unworthy of love with incesant talks about our low N-count preferences?

Nobody:...

Litterally nobody:...

PPD man: I prefer low N-count women.

Libah05 · 2022-12-15T16:48:41+00:00

Q4all: Frank underwood AF or BB?

Personally I think he is slightly leaning towards bb. Especially in season 4 and 5.

meteorness123 · 2022-12-15T17:05:34+00:00

Your job dictates what women you will get with.

lulll · 2022-12-15T17:09:53+00:00

that guy will 100% marry her

2022-12-15T18:23:49+00:00

I was at some thermal baths today and this were some observations.

-About 50% people looked overweight (not many of them were actually obese)

-About 20% people looked normal weight (but were skinny fat)

-About 20% looked underweight (some visible bones)

-About 10% were actually fit (more men than women)

-Pretty much all couples seemed looks matched.

-The prettier girls had a tall boyfriend.

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-12-15T18:32:25+00:00

My sister has just started working as an assistant teacher at the local elementary school and she seems shocked at the amount of mental issues kids these days are having. Post zoomers are gonna be one messed up generation.

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-15T18:52:03+00:00

Does anyone get turned off from a work when the characters are too attractive?

Like, I'm just playing my vidya and all the main women are like ultra hot sexy models and I'm like stop bros you're ruining my immersion

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-12-15T19:11:34+00:00

anyone else hate the holidays? I hate xmas and NYE. Overrated imo.

liefelijk · 2022-12-15T19:54:10+00:00

Just made the most spectacular looking and tasting cookies. Top 5 cookies of my life. Here’s the recipe. Make them and impress your friends:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_p53CMpOonk

Subbed black tahini for tahini mixed with cocoa powder, which worked just fine.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T19:58:08+00:00

If there was like something between marriage and just being in a relationship I could do that.

Like a marriage renewal thing where if after 7 years you don't both renew you just split the 7 year assets and move on no questions asked.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T20:41:58+00:00

I actually still can't believe people regularly pointed to this as proof that Daemon loved his brother.

Daemon ain't visit his brother in years and married his daughter against his wishes then turns up finds him eyeless and demands he take the throne.

And cause he helped him when he struggled (which everyone said he would cause he's literally a corpse) sit where he wanted him to for his political ambitions it's soooo sweet

meteorness123 · 2022-12-15T20:45:16+00:00

I cant really take an opinion on dating seriously or at least I can't put conclusive value on it if they're under let's say.. 28/29.

BittererWegwerf · 2022-12-15T20:54:50+00:00

wyd when sadness hits?

SicilianGreek · 2022-12-15T22:07:34+00:00

Should men be able to physically protect their women? Is it a turn off if they can’t?

The9thElement · 2022-12-15T22:12:34+00:00

Who is the hottest football player of all time and why is it ronaldinho

Philosoferking · 2022-12-16T05:14:49+00:00

Is it forgivable or even normal, that in the past women would approach me and flirt, and look disgusted and repulsed by me after realizing I was socially awkward?

Like, I'm not mad that they didn't want to date me. But why did they have to go from looking happy and interested to repulsed like I had done something vile to them?

I got the same reaction on the very few occasions where I tried to approach a girl. I say hi and they look interested and say hi back. But I could only control the social anxiety for so long.

As soon as I cracked the girls looked at me disgusted and just walked off.

Like what's up with that? And it fucked me up because I had a lot of girls running up on me and trying to flirt. And over and over and over and over they reacted the same way once they realized something was wrong with me.

And boy it fucked me up bad. Real bad.

I'm better now but damn. That shit sucked.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T04:54:07+00:00

john wayne gacy, jeffrey dahmer, and the green river killer are not psychopaths according to the court psychiatrist says wikipedia. what the literal fuck is happening. but aileen wuornos is

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-16T04:20:03+00:00

Q4A: How often do you normally chat/hang out with your friends?

I realize I only talk/visit with most of my friends once or twice a month (probably why I don't have any), but to me any more than that I wouldn't have time or energy for.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T03:41:51+00:00

women who say they like casual either A are in an open relationship or B use it as a cope to not feel bad about being pumped and dumped or C have some ulterior motive and consistently manipulate men CMV

scwizard · 2022-12-16T03:39:40+00:00

Women have less rights and much less respect than they did 10 years ago.

Is there anything they can do to reverse this course?

IWantTo____You · 2022-12-16T03:37:48+00:00

Turns out my boss is redpilled. He was telling me about approach anxiety and it's just a numbers game and facing the rejection makes it 10x easier. This was related to my job and approaching people but he related it to his single days.

This feels redpilled to me that it's all just a numbers game. So get ready ladies I'm hitting on all of you: single, married, grandmother

Losing_Daylight_ · 2022-12-16T03:26:57+00:00

Q4W who've mentally broken up with a guy a period of time before you actually broke up with him: Did you have any lingering feelings for the guy after it was finally officially over? Specifically interested in negative feelings like anger, resentment, etc. Or did you just feel nothing for him anymore?

huhwhatokok · 2022-12-16T03:17:54+00:00

Also if Tory isn’t found not guilty I would investigate the jury because even if you hate him you have to have an IQ of a rock to think there’s no reasonable doubt.

huhwhatokok · 2022-12-16T03:16:58+00:00

Was banned for 3 days on Reddit so couldn’t get my thoughts out on the Meg/Tory case but why are people shitting on Megs friend if Meg was fucking all the people she was messing with? You want her to be loyal to that? Damn right I’m taking a bag.

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DeepFriedhentaiMemes · 2022-12-15T12:23:38+00:00

Q4A: someone recommend me some headphones , work just green lit a replacement. Current set is focal clear mg but zero shot of anything that nice. What do wfh peeps use when they have to leave their house?

DeepFriedhentaiMemes · 2022-12-15T12:36:20+00:00

I’m not deflecting anything, you asked me a question and the answer to that question is “no, when have you ever posted me stuff?”

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2022-12-15T13:20:23+00:00

But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first.

HungerISanEmotion · 2022-12-15T15:08:01+00:00

Showerthought - people which oppose the legalisation of prostitution, artificial wombs are conservatives.

Because they try to conserve the traditional way of life, and oppose progress.

MissLute · 2022-12-15T15:54:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/zmgei7/i_want_a_girlfriend_im_sick_of_going_to_brothels/ i wonder what he looks like

Kind_Zucchinis · 2022-12-15T16:37:46+00:00

A bit neurotic but I'm a developer and more and more I'm thinking my lack of social skills and anxieties due to high functioning autism are going to get in the way of me getting a management position even though I'm good at programming and did well above average in both bachelor's and masters. It seems more like a political thing. Someone who's an "influencer" and can barely write a line of code is always going to surpass me professionally.

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-15T17:19:45+00:00

So anyway. What's all y'all opinion on high n-count women and shit?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-15T17:30:29+00:00

I have a doozy of a post to make about female kinks but idk what to title it

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-15T17:40:42+00:00

It would be great if women could realize that you don't have to be head over heals, omg, 1 billion percent, etc. ... you don't have to be extremely attracted to someone to enjoy sex with them. Women on here are always like "women shouldn't have to have sex with people they aren't attracted to!" Well, if you give men who are "not completely, but at least somewhat" attractive a chance, you may find that you have way more options of good men to choose from.

SicilianGreek · 2022-12-15T17:49:26+00:00

Has anyone ever been raised without a religion?

my_alt_has_alts · 2022-12-15T17:58:49+00:00

If I had to repeat 1 meal for the rest of my life it-d be cesar salad

purplish_possum · 2022-12-15T17:58:51+00:00

I'm having lunch at a fancy cafe in Vermont. These are not my people. This type of UMC white person make me uncomfortable.

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-15T18:16:02+00:00

I'm a straight man. It's not a choice, it's just the way I am. There's nothing I can do to change that. I wish I could be sexually attracted to men as well as women. If I could, it would make my life a lot easier, in terms of being able to find a partner. At least, it would be a lot easier to have casual sex when the mood struck me. I'd be better off than I am now, because now, I don't really have a choice to do it if I wanted to.

Everyone, at least once at some point, should consider "let's imagine I'm in a scenario where ... does that 'do anything' for me?" Believe me, I've considered it, and my answer is "no, it doesn't." When it's a sexual fantasy involving a woman I'm physically attracted to ... yes, that does do something for me. The difference in subjective experience is significant. Sure, I can't definitively say there isn't any man I could be attracted to. Who knows? Maybe I just haven't seen the right one yet. However, as an adult in my 30s, having seen what I've seen, and with TV/movies/internet/etc. I've been exposed to a much wider range of people - men and woman - that I could have met in person (like most of human history) ... I'm pretty confident that there aren't any men I could be attracted to.

ChainSmmoker · 2022-12-15T18:40:40+00:00

Did any of you watch the leaked avatar 2?

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2022-12-15T19:01:53+00:00

it be so funny to me when passport bros list brazil as a place a traditional and conservative country. The number 1 porn category in brazil is transgender porn that sounds like a very traditional country to me.

ChorizoWestern · 2022-12-15T19:43:36+00:00

Any Catherine Wheel enjoyer...?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-15T19:51:04+00:00

Q4W would u rather have long term monogamy with billy beta or would u rather have a one-sided open relationship with chad?

Preme2 · 2022-12-15T20:07:34+00:00

Another reason I think women hate n count is because they’re so use to changing things about themselves that they don’t like.

For example, if a woman doesn’t like her appearance, she uses makeup, fake lashes, fake hair, lip injections, bbl, new breast implants, etc.

If a woman doesn’t like her dating pool she hops on a plane and changes her city. Dallas to Miami to LA…

If a woman doesn’t enjoy her marriage for the slightest second, she’s quick to file for divorce…overwhelmingly.

With n count, it doesn’t matter how many therapists she sees or how much she tries to change. A high n count is a high n count lol.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T20:14:37+00:00

u/ITTAuto

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-15T20:27:56+00:00

Anyone else not feel any sympathy for people with too much student loans and no career to show for it?

I feel like 90% of the people who didn't get a decent career out of college weren't working hard in college and were just concentrating on partying.

The hard working 10% are the science majors who weren't good enough to become a doctor, but many of them were resourceful and switched out of their low paying research/lab rat jobs into tech/data science, biotech/biocomputing/pharma or nursing.

my_alt_has_alts · 2022-12-15T21:00:27+00:00

How Tinder sorts people from women POV

1st popular dudes with tons of matches. They haven't swiped right on you. Some look like bots.

2nd dudes who swiped right on you > this is where you match

3rd random dudes who didn't swipe right on you but if you swipe on them your profile will be shown second to them

4th cheaters, people who are looking for cheaters, (empty profiles, very sus)

5th serial killers

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T21:09:40+00:00

I loved Henry Cavill as the Witcher but that’s cause Gerald suited his stilted persona

I don’t know why we’re pretending like he was some kinda amazing superman the likes of which define the character like RDJ as Iron Man or Cap or Thor

I’m fine with him being replaced especially by Gunn who made one of the only truly great DC films in recent years

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-12-15T21:24:21+00:00

You ever done secret Santa? How did that work out

tired_hillbilly · 2022-12-15T21:28:07+00:00

I don't care enough to watch that documentary. Did Armie Hammer actually eat people or was it just a weird fantasy or something?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-15T22:27:23+00:00

is there any way to improve voice inflection? Like how actors talk in movies and stuff.

I guess one of my weaknesses is I have a very monotone voice without much personality in it.

is it something that can even be improved or is a charismatic way of speaking something that occurs naturally?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T03:14:58+00:00

does chad actually turn women on that quickly or do they just fuck him quickly to try to manipulate him into a relationship?

scwizard · 2022-12-16T03:09:21+00:00

I really want the wage gap gone.

Once it's gone there's three potential conversations.

"Women deserve it"

"Sexism is toast."

And "maybe we as a society haven't been doing enough to lift up males."

All those would be valuable to have.

flash13131313 · 2022-12-16T03:05:39+00:00

Hello where do you like to illegally stream sports from?

pinacolorada · 2022-12-16T03:03:45+00:00

the wall is a myth: women peak in their late 80s. the 88+ age group has the lowest rate of obesity (9.4%)

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T03:00:32+00:00

ladies u have made it clear that u dont enjoy hookups and that u want a relationship. ok fine, but that means a man if i want a hookup i have to manipulate a woman into it. ok well if im a decent guy and im not confused about how women work im not having much casual sex am i? so whats with this never notion that men who arent getting laid are bad people cuz im pretty sure its the exact opposite. the guys having the most casual sex are the ones who are manipulating women the most

scwizard · 2022-12-16T02:39:52+00:00

Why do people expect guys to make just as much as girls do, when girls and guys are equally smart, but girls have better people skills than guys do?

EDIT: also girls are more likely to have a college degree

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-16T02:38:55+00:00

Imagine if only 20% of women could make men's dicks hard, yall would be wrecked

ChorizoWestern · 2022-12-16T02:33:03+00:00

Damn, time flies. Two years have passed since I got alpha widowed by a balkan girl.

I guess this might be the encouragement I needed to look's max, the only problem is they are tall as fck lol...

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T02:28:56+00:00

women want a relationship but they dont actually want to give af about the guy. its bizzare

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T02:23:30+00:00

the 20% of men who are getting laid are not getting laid so much because of their looks but moreso their extroversion and confidence. any guy can get laid if he plays within his league. this redpill obsession with being an attractive male is really overblown. being physically attractive as a man will not get u laid as much as u think. unless u drop ur standards to women who r less than average look, they're not just throwing themselves at u like a lot of guys seem to think. there is a fundamental personality component that gets really overlooked. how attractive u have to be to fuck an average looking drunk girl at a club is waaaaaaay less than what the guys here think.

Doinpromo · 2022-12-16T02:21:48+00:00

80-20

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2022-12-16T02:21:07+00:00

The talk about women who play hard to get doing this because they don’t actually wanting these guys would be a lot more believable if these women didn’t immediately start throwing themselves at these same guys when they move on.

scwizard · 2022-12-16T02:14:38+00:00

Though we have the courage to raise our daughters more like our sons, we've rarely had the courage to raise our sons like our daughters.

It's easy to say that you want your daughter to have positive traditionally masculine qualities, but to not have negative traditionally masculine qualities.

But you can't say you can't reverse the genders there unless you admit there's negative traditionally feminine qualities.

By all means raise your son to respect people, be a good listener, and to habitually cook and clean. But unless you give him ways he shouldn't be like woman, you'll end up with either a trans girl or a guy that decides he'd rather be a masculine asshole like Tate instead of trying to do a better job at being like women.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T02:14:05+00:00

Lillth gets a lot of shit but there are one or 2 users who are honestly just as obtuse as she is (not more cause she's like the Usain Boltof arguing in bad faith, we'll never see another like her )

I guess they don't just block people when they getting smoked tho

scwizard · 2022-12-16T02:05:45+00:00

Over the past 100 years we've completely changed the life expectations for women and what it means to be a woman and we've done little to nothing to change the expectations of men or what it means to be a man. Some of that work is starting but it's long overdue.

Umm, what should it be to be a man? In what ways do men's expectations need to change?

Doinpromo · 2022-12-16T02:04:02+00:00

Sell me on feminism

LaloTwins · 2022-12-16T02:02:26+00:00

The mods on subreddit drama are the most corrupt mods on this website tbh

JDWhiz96 · 2022-12-16T01:56:25+00:00

No one talks about relationships that much, it's all in your head! Stop obsessing over it!

*TV, internet, music in all genres, friends, family, coworkers, social settings all literally revolve around sex/relationships

OMG you're abnormal, who hurt you??

Blame_the_Muse · 2022-12-16T01:54:39+00:00

What kind of male solipsism makes you guys think OLD matches are a woman's "options"?

Men swipe right on everything. Doesn't mean he'd be seen with her in public

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-16T01:54:06+00:00

Would you rather be transferred into the body of the ugliest incel you can fathom, or a cat?

PersonaleSpace · 2022-12-16T01:53:43+00:00

Q4All: What's your fav and least fav genre of music

kalashhhhhhhh · 2022-12-16T01:37:29+00:00

Do you guys really find Belle Delphine hotter than Dua Lipa?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-16T01:26:08+00:00

i'm left even more perplexed after my own Q4W thread from earlier today.

what I learned is most women don't have actual abundance mentality. I'm going to dub it "fictitious abundance".

because yea sure women can get 100s of matches within a few days and tons of guys want them. They can say no to all these guys and walk away.

But when that one golden nugget prince charming shows up they really like all the abundance goes out the window. They immediately go into a similar scarcity mentality as most guys.

So i guess just try your best to be that one guy who stands out and most women intrinsically won't be able to say no.

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-12-16T01:23:30+00:00

In my teens befriended a “trad” churchgoing girl online. She was sending me bdsm tests and shit and had me compare my score to hers lol.

I’m sure the guy she married thought he married the most innocent little angel.

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-16T01:21:50+00:00

How do women not understand that, for many, many men:

What I want the most is a (good) serious/long-term relationship, and
in the meantime, as I go through life, I can also enjoy "casual" sex, "sex without commitment."

?

Wanting casual sex and wanting a LTR are not mutually exclusive. It shouldn't be hard to believe that a person can be interested in multiple things at the same time, like if there are two movies playing at the theater that you'd like to see: if your preferred one is sold out you can go to the other one. It would be stupid to say "since I can't go the movie I really, really want to see, and even though I'm interested in seeing this other movie, I'm just going to go home and be sad that I can't see the movies I want to see."

It depends a bit on what you consider "casual" sex, but even though it might not be a man's first choice, in can sure be a lot more fun than no sex at all. If casual sex is the best you can do, at least for the time being, it can often be better than nothing, and it might turn out to be the start of a long, wonderful relationship.

Since divorce is a thing in the US, and since a couple rarely die simultaneously, the most anyone can really hope for is to have a good time while they navigate serial monogamy.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T01:13:42+00:00

premarital sex is like pandoras box.

Doinpromo · 2022-12-16T01:10:01+00:00

CMV: patriarchy is the solution to the pilldebate issues, at least for men dissatisfied with the modernity status quo

liefelijk · 2022-12-16T00:57:06+00:00

Lol the Trump trading card announcement has me rolling. 😂😂😂

How can people still support this guy?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T00:56:43+00:00

body count doesnt matter but u dont want to be pumped and dumped, interesting

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-16T00:39:20+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sn5AOgfu7Zg body count doesnt matter ladies? i youtibe searched "does body count matter" and clicked the first video and every single guy when asked said it does. not a single guy when asked said they would wife a whore, well one did when they said hypothetically she is a 10/10 in looks and personality but had fucked 17 guys before, but he was the most feminine guy out of everyone they asked. explain this if men dont care about bodycount irl

JiifuhTV · 2022-12-16T00:33:37+00:00

if you end up getting pumped and dumped, you the problem

PersonaleSpace · 2022-12-16T00:25:04+00:00

\gets new message**

omg I can't wait to see what this person has to sa-- oh it's the crazy guy tagging me again

PersonaleSpace · 2022-12-16T00:18:22+00:00

I'm tired of girl scouts hounding me to buy their shitty thin mints like I can't narc to the police on them for disobeying city zoning laws

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-15T23:57:19+00:00

Is 2 girls 1 cup still a thing?

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-12-15T23:55:25+00:00

Q for people in countries with compulsory military service: Do you think that the compulsory military service has benefits for the individual (such as teaching discipline or anything else) or is it largely just a waste of most peoples' time?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-15T10:09:20+00:00

Let the man build his harem

Why do women always gotta hate

scwizard · 2022-12-15T11:20:40+00:00

14,000 people a day are crossing into the United States and there's still five days or so left before title 42 expires.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-12-15T19:35:25+00:00

I just learned that a friend of a friend has cancer, his third time. Things don't sound good, he already looks weak and fragile. He is in his mid 40s.

Women act like we men have all the time in the world, like we have infinite time to be patient and wait for them, wait for 99% of the time to hear no. When we escalate for intimacy, they get turned off...

I don't know about you, but I'm not invincible. I don't get to live forever. Maybe you all think you will but I know I won't, and I don't want to wait. I can just as easily waste away and die in a month.

The hubris and arrogance women have is just sooooo off putting.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-15T23:46:03+00:00

i dont care what u think, u r not multiple genders. if u think that u can simultaneously be both genders, u r such a deeply confused individual that i dont even know what to say

PersonaleSpace · 2022-12-15T23:35:14+00:00

Where do people in their young 20's go to socialize that isn't a bar

baresquad · 2022-12-15T23:32:26+00:00

I like talking shit here because I see the manosphere for what it is, the most detrimental problem to dating. I see the disservice it does in contributing to so many mens’ dating failures and only on this sub does recognizing general dating common sense translate to being simp beta cuck.

That doesn’t really mean anything, it’s just always interesting to see the effects of indulging so much of that content and how it’s subscribers get told to think, how to see things and how the world works instead of thinking for themselves and trusting their own experience. It’s almost like a hive mind of brain rot and emotions all subscribing to the same shit under different umbrellas.

It’s like you have everyone else experiencing their normal dating lives against the manosphere projecting how they get told dating works as the norm.

Chemical-Fish6773 · 2022-12-15T23:27:07+00:00

Men who talk about women in terms of gross stuff like “purity” or call women who have casual sex “run through” or “used up”. I don’t want a relationship with a man who thinks consensual sex is defiling because I don’t want to be the defiled whore he fucks. I don’t have to be slutty to find it gross that these guys will inevitably treat their “defiled” targets as either sterile madonnas or whores they don’t respect.

snipped from a comment on the n count thread. got me inspired. do men who practice casual sex but want a pure wife think that 1)by having sex with her they're defiling her but she's theirs so it's ok 2) by having sex with her they're not defiling her, because their dick is special

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-15T23:16:34+00:00

women: we want a relationship

also women: ewwww u mean u want me to behave in a way that makes a relationship appealing to men??

Imagine this post being controversial. women today seriously need help. ur level of selfishness is honestly hard to believe sometimes. but nope thats really how u all r.

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-15T23:13:12+00:00

The number of women who are obsessed about not getting "used" for sex by a man not interested in "a serious relationship" is ridiculous. They talk about it like its the worst thing, and put a lot of thought into trying to avoid it.

While, sure, there's probably at least one man out there "not interested in a serious relationship," the reality is, the vast, vast majority of men would love to get into a serious relationship ... for the right woman, who shares his plans for the future, etc. It's just that he's unlikely to find that woman, you are probably not her. These women who insist that they were lied to, were "used" for sex: the reality is that she eventually demonstrated that she is not the kind of woman who is compatible with him for a serious relationship.

Here's a common example: for career reasons, the man knows that he'll likely need to move a significant distance at some point. If he could meet a woman who is on board with such a move, even if it means some down sides for her (e.g., stalls her career, being further away from family), then he'd be very interested in a serious relationship with her. He'd be very happy that he got so lucky to find a woman like that. Since most women would at least put up some "friction" about it if they got into a serious relationship, that gets translated into short had to "not looking for a serious relationship right now." Or, being open to it, but when she balks at the idea, starts putting on the emotional pressure to convince him to not take the opportunity, etc. he ends it. Even if a woman say's she'd be okay with it, the only way to really know is to actually find out; it's easy to think "yes" when it's an abstract idea, but harder when it comes down to it. As time passes, people can change their opinion.

I think a lot of men are aware of that kind of "trap" if they get into "a serious" relationship, so they are that much cautious because of it.

PersonaleSpace · 2022-12-15T23:10:48+00:00

I don't get how people can verbally commit to someone for the rest of your life. That's a very scary thought to me

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-15T22:56:05+00:00

I swear to Christ if I have to hear "Oh no. Oh no. Oh no no no no no" one more god damned time!!!

Everyone. STOP WITH THAT GOD AWFUL SOUND ALREADY!!

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2022-12-15T22:51:32+00:00

How many paleolithic stone tools and leather hides should a man have in his cave to impress a woman?

lulll · 2022-12-15T22:45:24+00:00

q4m you meet a woman at a party or bar or whatever and she invites you back to her place but on the way there you feel a massive explosive dump is about to detonate. what do you do? do you dump in her bathroom to assert dominance?

The9thElement · 2022-12-15T22:43:47+00:00

I’m genuinely curious where the idea that in a traditional relationship the man works and the woman is unemployed stays at home just cooking and pushing out babies, because even throughout history most women still did work so like where did this idea even come from

LaloTwins · 2022-12-15T19:51:06+00:00

Ignore u/lulll's comment I outrank him

This is a cleavage only space

Under,side or over boob is a requirement in this parts

Whip em out girls

WalterYHW · 2022-12-15T12:12:48+00:00

Q4W: Why do you guys never accept the reality that a Men can sleep with other women and still Love his main women, it is emotional ignorance ? or just you guys are never that comfortable around this Truth ?

Another thing is why do some women here get mad if Guys only see their value in sex even that's the ONLY thing they offer

Just need this two answered it would be great to know

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