Daily Community Chat Megathread

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-04-12T18:49:35+00:00

When you’re so down bad you get excited just to talk to a girl

PineappleGlazedHam · 2022-04-12T09:26:45+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-04-12T09:00:03+00:00

What % of users here on PPD do you think are self-identified Inc*ls? 👀

Ok_Sea4856 · 2022-04-12T07:55:21+00:00

Y'all that are cross posting from other subreddits meant for drama as "proof" of your hangups about the other gender are a special kind of pathetic.

And biased.

PineappleGlazedHam · 2022-04-12T06:57:29+00:00

[permanently deleted]

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-12T06:21:23+00:00

[permanently deleted]

EulenWatcher · 2022-04-12T05:58:50+00:00

I've been productive in the morning and now I'm exhausted. I took our cat to get some blood tests (she's a healthy cookie), then bathed her as she managed to pee all over herself, after that washed the bath, cleaned floors in the bathroom, cooked dinner and cleaned the kitchen from this and previous cooking sessions.

Can I just call it a day and go to sleep?

pooseehunter · 2022-04-12T04:53:42+00:00

Tinder really do just be women plugging their Instagram account now

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-12T04:42:22+00:00

I officially signed the contract to become official staff at my job! Been there for 4 months but wasn't on the books until now. Good to know I'm entitled to $750 in the event I'm a close contact for COVID.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-12T04:28:55+00:00

Men are ultimately in control of whether or not they're in the friendzone. You can either dig yourself out of it or you can just stop being friends with them, nobody is forcing you to keep being the chick's friend.

"Oh but she might change her mi....."

Nope, don't even think about it, just move on to the next chick, there's millions of them out there, she ain't special.

Willow-girl · 2022-04-12T03:09:31+00:00

Well, it's Monday night and I've already worked 31 hours this week. How is this even possible, lol.

EulenWatcher · 2022-04-12T02:58:01+00:00

When men here talk about orbiters and favors I chuckle a little. Men I can ask for a favor either my husband, father-in-law or my uncle. Rarely male friends, but it's usually something theoretical like "I don't understand this, can you explain it to me?". They're all married and older than I am and no one of them showed any romantic interest. If they did, I most likely wouldn't stay friends with them.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-12T02:36:42+00:00

😁😁😁😁 second date set @ mlb game

rosesonthefloor · 2022-04-12T01:32:27+00:00

Women who have put their finger in a guy’s butt during a blowjob: did you have any hang ups about it or was it like fine? If you did have any hang ups, did you get over it? And if so, how?

Fine_Ad5151 · 2022-04-12T01:10:14+00:00

Anyone who tries to make the case that Men sleeping with 100 Women is the same thing as Women sleeping with 100 Men, is deluded. Just using basic logic how can two different things doing the same thing (that focuses on what separates them) have the exact same outcome.

The reality is for a Man to have sex with 100 Women requires something: good genetics, Money, gift of the gab or he finds himself in some weird circumstances. On the other hand for a Woman to have sex with a 100 Men she has to....... basically say yes. Before I get hit with the "Misogyny", I don't slut shame or get jealous and any Man that does is a whiny bitch. To each their own, if that's what she wants, that's her life not mine; could never be my wife but not all Women are meant to be. I don't judge, just don't be ignorant to the difference and make illogical arguments

Fine_Ad5151 · 2022-04-12T00:49:19+00:00

Women who talk about the "patriarchy" forget they're half the population, if not slightly more. That coupled with all the simps and beta's, they could get anything done they wanted to. The reality is people (in the west) are free to go where they want. Men lean to certain jobs and Women lean to others. It is what it is

sosayeth · 2022-04-12T00:46:12+00:00

From 2 to 5 in the morning this past Sunday, successfully mediated a pseudo-couples therapy session between a new friend and his ex. Called him out when he was being unreasonable in understanding her frame of mind and called her out when she was trying to overtalk and change the subject in attempt to drone him out and control the conversation. Now, they're back talking and have a much better understanding of how they need to communicate better to one another.

That's what fairness actually looks like, women; it's not automatically taking sides with the person you have the same genitalia as.

Prestigious698 · 2022-04-12T00:38:52+00:00

So you’re telling me men don’t friendzone themselves?

I politely rejected a guy I’ve been seeing and told him that I wasn’t about to lead him on and use him for his services. He just texted me telling me that we could still hang out.

facepalm

According_Ladder_411 · 2022-04-12T00:33:01+00:00

I was having this debate with this user and she said “ a man ( single ) not being able to consistently get laid isn’t normal “

How do we feel about this ?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-12T00:31:32+00:00

Q4All: is fucking a perfect replica statue of yourself considered gay?

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-04-12T00:11:33+00:00

Is it true that a 60 year old man's sperm will be more likely to produce a baby that has disabilities and mental problems because the sperm is lower quality than a 25 year old man's sperm?

poppy_blu · 2022-04-11T23:57:47+00:00

The conversations here have gotten downright juvenile.

scwizard · 2022-04-11T23:51:17+00:00

Because our grandmothers didn't have much choice but to marry because they had virtually no rights without a husband - so they made sure the men go through hoops and hurdles to ensure they at least have a good husband.

Now? Begging a jobless, lazy, useless parasite to marry her after 10 years being forever GF and giving him 3 children. And she is the breadwinner!

This is not progressive, this is regressive. We are in a very bad, bad culture right now.

What I like about FDS is at least they're not putting all the blame for this situation on men, instead encouraging women to vet and stand up for themselves.

Having high standards is totally fine if you're planning to marry someone and have children with them.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-11T23:32:25+00:00

You can't get "too" muscular after about 10 years of working out without taking steroids, if you naturally worked out ten years you'd probably be around Chris Evans/Chris Hemsworth level, and even then they're both on PEDs anyways.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-11T23:08:33+00:00

Q4W Is a guy being into anime/manga a turn off and if so, why?

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-04-11T23:06:16+00:00

No one told me I actually had to follow my doctors orders to properly heal 🙄

dysonRing · 2022-04-11T22:20:03+00:00

Q4W would you rather be used for sex or for your social circle?

I recently dropped my standards for female friends because working remote and in a new city means I am isolated. For the record I find these women attractive since I did ask them out and it did not work out, but I only want to hang out with them because I want to meet/party with their hot friends.

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-04-11T22:17:20+00:00

Lol when I get reprimanded at work because In my class we read a book with a mother who goes to prison and I said “do you think his mom still loves him even though she made a mistake”

Apparently that’s propoganda🙃🙃🙃

I hate Florida

Bandit174 · 2022-04-11T22:06:36+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/u0iiz4/im_finding_it_hard_to_get_over_my26m/

thoughts?

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-11T21:50:40+00:00

How many people here have experienced nasty rejections? Faces, harsh comments, putting you down, eye rolls... Is it common?

343_peaches_and_tea · 2022-04-11T16:52:14+00:00

Okay. r/menslib is genuinely nuts.

Apparently suggesting that there might be biological difference between the sexes is against the rules...wtf

I know I'm preaching to the choir here but not everything is 100% socially constructed.

I understand the pitfalls of gender essentialism is that you get stuck thinking "men are like X", "women are like Y". But men and women clearly exist on different distributions for various things.

Prestigious698 · 2022-04-11T17:54:34+00:00

Why are muslim men on here complaining about modern women anyway. Just get an arranged marriage bro.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-11T21:34:45+00:00

Gents. New meta just dropped.

Eat pray love Max

Slipthe · 2022-04-11T21:16:50+00:00

Lmao this is what happens when a guy is called fat.

Dulce__Criatura · 2022-04-11T20:23:19+00:00

Some woman are f delusional

Gay men care more about exeggrated muscles than women, it's more about low body fat and frame for women

Can anyone tell me how do I grow my shoulder bones and shrink my hips without growing my muscles?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-11T20:15:26+00:00

If I have a vetting technique, it doesn't matter what the technique is if it eliminates women that I don't want.

If I tell women I have 2 buttholes, and they stop talking to me, then I got rid of women who are only in it for a man with 1 butthole. Which is bullshit.

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-11T15:12:43+00:00

How many men are really looking for a completely traditional marriage where she's submissive, doesn't work, and he is not only the financial stability but also the emotional rock? I feel like a lot of men that expect this type of thing can't live up to their end. They want those same women to settle for a man with low wages, emotional instability, insecurities out the ass, and to still find a way to make it work.

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-11T16:21:20+00:00

Q4M

How many of you expect sex within a few dates, thinking she not interested otherwise, while also expecting her to have a low count and to not have had casual sex with anyone else?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-11T18:24:35+00:00

Bruh

All you guys gotta do is go down on your woman and she'll be happy, wtf is this

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-04-11T13:38:36+00:00

Do you think that a lot of women these days are choosing to keep their body hair? Like leg hair, armpit hair, hair down there, even hair around their nipples or on their stomach if it grows there. More so than 15-20 years ago. Or am I just imagining things?

John_Oakman · 2022-04-11T11:04:26+00:00

For many, the virtual world is as real as the material world in the same way as the material world was as real as the spiritual world in the good old days: Technically it's not real, but its where most people reside and interact with on a regular basis.

Dismissing it is dodging that reality.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-11T13:01:32+00:00

Follow up Q4W: Have you ever been the woman that a man fucked down for?

thetruthishere_ · 2022-04-11T13:07:00+00:00

Workout without working out. Rake wet leaves shoveling them over the fence into the woods then move and stack wood.

Should have worn my back brace, my back is a bit sore today. LOL

Have a good day all!

CliffPR · 2022-04-11T13:37:57+00:00

Remember that bird in New Zealand who couldn't find a mate and ended up bonding with a concrete replica? Remember how "sad" and "heartwarming" everyone thought that was?

Next time you see an article or TV piece about some freak who is "married" to a realdoll, just imagine he's a bird and have a little sympathy.

Drive-By-Cuckers · 2022-04-11T13:59:13+00:00

Men, is it emasculating to you (especially Red Pillers) if a woman pays for her own stuff?

YouBanAway · 2022-04-11T17:50:49+00:00

Random thought —

In early COVID, it was shown that China was lying about their COVID infection rates.

Who's to say they aren't lying about their fertility rates?

lulll · 2022-04-11T17:59:14+00:00

i forgot this existed

and yes those are real

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-04-11T20:13:12+00:00

Polyamory is a word that people think means 'wanting to have sex with lots of people' but it actually means 'I just want my parents to get back together'.

FenaPugi · 2022-04-11T10:01:55+00:00

What's the 411 on race debates these days?

Y615 · 2022-04-11T10:06:31+00:00

Any articles/content/books recommendations for how mating and sexual arrangements happened in pre-history?

Like for example marriage originated in around 2500 CE. How was the arrangement before that?

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-11T12:05:44+00:00

How seperate are lust and love? if a women - avg looks wants to seduce you, how many men can resist feeling desire?

How many of those will conflate it with love?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-11T12:09:31+00:00

Q4W: Do you believe that men will fuck down?

edgyny · 2022-04-11T12:47:33+00:00

I have to say that as a guy there's nothing quite as hilarious as all the boner drama the women have/cause on the Ultimatum. It's just... lol forever. Wow.

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-11T17:36:02+00:00

How do you guys think you can accurately determine a woman's past in the first few dates unless she explicitly tells you about past hook ups? I see a lot of guys saying they don't care about the past, but want equal treatment to her past guys. How do you determine that without her saying that she slept around?

Booexgirlfriend · 2022-04-11T18:20:35+00:00

I'm realizing something...that women, especially young women, have become more demanding today not only because they can earn their own money but because most men choose to "split the bill" (for example , first dates) these days.
Most of the men today only offer long-term relationships as well.

Men with the same haircut, men with the same clothes, men with the same pose on tinder...
I mean, if all men offer the same thing, in the end you will start to pay more attention to who does something different.

It's the same with employment, right? why hire this person if I can find someone like this person and also pay him less salary?

It happens with men too, I believe... I'm not sure.

Hoodfamous098 · 2022-04-11T20:11:22+00:00

Dated this girl for a couple of months this fall, we never fought, it was like from day 1 she knew who I was, I did not have to act like something I’m not. I broke it off when it became too serious. Now I’m sitting depressed in my dorm and wondering why I am like this…. Has anyone ever experienced the same?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-11T19:31:35+00:00

Lots of hypocrites here I constantly see people complain about slut/n count shaming but then I see the same people having no problem virgin shaming lol

JohnDoe_Rip · 2022-04-11T16:32:10+00:00

The double standard of guys who sleep around being praised while women who do are not will continue being a thing as long as women call dudes incels or virgins as an insult.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-11T14:22:09+00:00

CMV: if a woman doesn't pay for the first date she's not interested.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-11T09:37:15+00:00

I’m close friends with this chad now. Great guy. He has other chad friends so it’s interesting to make friends with them.

The chads I become friends with are all super cool guys, non judgemental, smart, tall, handsome, they have enough of the nice guy traits. Like they are kind, good listeners, so yeah nearly a alpha bux unicorn.

I’m really not burning with jealousy or anything, it’s nice that guys like this exist. They are charming and will make some girls really happy.

They don’t pump and dump, girls try to latch on to them and they try to be polite and help her move on. I saw how broken his last ex was… seriously sad for her, hope she can move on.

They seem to be dating with the best of intentions and it ends up being serial dating…

Drive-By-Cuckers · 2022-04-11T13:14:35+00:00

Unpopular Opinion: Most of you are not a prize, the guy you date won’t see you as such and the woman you date won’t see you as such.

dbz19 · 2022-04-11T09:11:35+00:00

EDIT: MY ACCOUNT GOT SUSPENDED FOR 3 DAYS WHAT THE FUCK

Talking with guys at work about random things makes me realise just how much the women here are out of touch with reality, specifically high N count women. You have no idea the shit we say behind your back, especially about women who have a “reputation”. Like the amount of jokes guys make about women in their work or social sphere who are known to be sluttish, but then be nice and all to her face. There are some girls who gain such a reputation that average guys would be disgusted at even having sex with her once and if he got found out doing it, his friends would mock him.

I know many high n count women here who found life partners but it’s like, it completely contrasts what I see in real life, where such woman are brutally mocked. Maybe there’s a small subset of guys who would be okay marrying such women but I highly doubt it’s most guys

lulll · 2022-04-11T13:40:08+00:00

Many people here downplay the mainstream message we send boys about dating because they had a positive male role model. Without a man in a boy’s life to teach him about attraction, seduction, his expectations/standards and how women will also have expectations/standards, etc, his only starting point is “just be a kind respectful gentleman and the right woman will come along.” Yes, there are men doing their part and teaching boys, even some women, but men are left on their own to figure things out and it isn’t tolerated in our current dating scene.

Out_Of_Bitches · 2022-04-11T13:52:19+00:00

Unpopular Opinion: Even if causal sex wasn’t much a thing a lot of guys would still be single simply because they don’t have anything that makes them interesting to want to be with.

Same goes for women.

Iowa_Makes_Me_Cri · 2022-04-11T14:58:00+00:00

CMV: Body language is one of the most important attraction factors that isn’t talked about as much. It is, or is nearly, as important as facial structure, personality(often project’s personality), or body type. (Maybe it is assumed to be lumped in with the others?)

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-11T19:25:41+00:00

CMV: oral saves marriages

Edit: I'm gonna be like Bill Burr, but instead of telling single dudes to rub one out, I'm gonna tell people in relationships to give more oral.

SpicyRamenAddict · 2022-04-11T19:18:46+00:00

Kinda amazing how fast a woman can lose interest huh lmao

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-11T19:16:11+00:00

I swear some of the guys on here think that sex should be a participation prize for showing up on a date because some other guy got some and they didn't. Did you connect with her the same? Did you treat her the same? Did you turn her on? Did you turn her off? I mean damn, this is crazy.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-11T19:15:16+00:00

I was watching sneko's latest Street interview and I saw how many people seem to be aware of trp.

With all these making podcasts, these manosphere ideas and lingo is spreading like wildfire on social media.

We should soon see tangible effects of this on our dating life.

Novadina · 2022-04-11T19:06:14+00:00

Everyone will be happy to learn that it’s impossible for sex to be bad lol.

The terrible sex I’ve heard about from both men and women is just all lies, I guess. One guy told me he slept with a woman who just layed down on her stomach and was like “go ahead” and when he suggested changing positions after a couple minutes she said “I don’t do positions” lmao.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-11T18:43:34+00:00

damn I actually feel bad for will now

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-04-11T18:37:42+00:00

We've spoken about the job fields that have the worst relationship prospects, due to long hours, or the personality needed to succeed in that field, or it makes cheating too easy

But never seen this question when it comes to hobbies, so I will ask this

Q4ALL: In your experience which hobbies would you never date or at least would be a turn-off?

For argument's sake, let's assume this person is noticeably passionate about this hobby, not to the point that they don't have a life and are super annoying about it, but it's most of their life outside of work and relationships

AutoModerator · 2022-04-11T09:00:11+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-11T09:01:25+00:00

FIRST

Edit: FUCK YEAH

SpicyRamenAddict · 2022-04-11T12:57:26+00:00

Q4A:

Should a man that is currently balding wait with dating until they are bald. So they do not create a situation where the potential girlfriend will lose attraction when he turns bald.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-11T11:28:19+00:00

People who love to talk about the "decline" should read The Fate of Empires and Search for Survival - John Bagot Glubb

He talked about a few ages -

An Age of Pioneers

“Untrammelled by traditions, they [the generation of pioneers] will turn anything available to their purpose [ . . . ] Uninhibited by textbooks or book learning, action is their solution to every problem.”

An Age of Conquests

“During the military period, glory and honour [are] the principal objects of ambition.”

An Age of Commerce

“The Age of Commerce is [ . . . ] marked by great enterprise in the exploration for new forms of wealth.”

An Age of Affluence

“The first direction in which wealth injures the nation is a moral one. Money replaces honour and adventure as the objective of the best young men.”

An Age of Intellect

“The spread of knowledge seems to be the most beneficial of human activities, and yet every period of decline is characterised by this expansion of intellectual activity.”

Naturally, I can’t help but to think about what is being taught in many of our universities today—deconstructionism. It’s not being taught as just a way to critique literature. It’s being taught as the foundation of the new philosophy, one that utterly rejects the goals and values of the Enlightenment. Students today are learning that everything can be reduced to power dynamics in which Western Civilization has dominated and is hegemonic and therefore must go. It’s been chanted on campuses, “Hey hey, ho ho, Western Civ has got to go.” This disturbs me to no end, so I especially appreciate Glubb’s essay in this respect where I can place this malign sentiment within a stage of national decline.

The Age of Decadence

Glubb mentions that there’s an “intensification of internal political hatreds,” during the Age of Decadence. I don’t even need to say anything about our politics at the moment, which clearly places us in the Age of Decadence.

The book aint PC

“An increase in the influence of women in public life has often been associated with national decline.”

Bandit174 · 2022-04-11T16:49:09+00:00

I am having a mini crush on a woman whose fashion content I started following recently. I am staring at her body and I imagine touching it, thinking it is attractive.

Am I bi for sure?

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	8
Comments	1009
Date	April 11, 2022 9:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/u13a6b/daily_community_chat_megathread/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/daily-community-chat-megathread.1110373 https://theredarchive.com/post/1110373

Comments