What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?

ItWasBrokenAlready · 2022-07-04T05:11:21+00:00

Greek statues got it right.

cloudydays84 · 2022-07-03T23:11:46+00:00

I'm bi, and admittedly it's hard for me to pick what I like ideally in a vacuum. There have been a bunch of different body types that I've been attracted for both men and women. But if I had to boil it down to the essentials:

For Girls: A tall girl with a big ass, probably more on the thicker side but a slightly more athletic build would be fine too, not really into super thin girls

For Guys: An average height guy with a big ass, probably on the more muscular side but not aggressively so but I'm fine with a chubbier guy as well if he wears the weight well.

bluestjuice · 2022-07-04T03:23:41+00:00

Can we just talk for a second about how underrepresented dudes having shapely legs are in all these conversations?

Bring on the sleek slim calves and the curvy calves and also the thighs built like tree trunks. Oof.

Pilling_it · 2022-07-03T22:58:24+00:00

I legitimately will know it when I see it, as I believe it's a thing you feel on the spot rather than know.

Also, I like to not get stuck in my thoughts and stay open minded to what i actually see.

wizard_vardhan · 2022-07-04T05:57:56+00:00

I just want her to not have an abnormal body

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-07-03T21:36:07+00:00

Where I live tall is the ideal for women. Long legs. Not like supertall but 5’7 or 5’8.

divingrose77101 · 2022-07-04T03:11:28+00:00

I’m a 5’8” woman, 135 lbs, long legs, noodle arms.

I have three body types I really like in men:

5’10” or shorter, slim and wirey. Muscles and veins show up on forearms due to low body fat. Can feel his ribs and hip bones when I touch him.
5’10”-6’2”, slim and fit but not too muscular. Again, I like seeing the shape of slender muscles in arms. Stomach can be flat or have some pooch.
6’2-6’5” with a fuller build and some tummy pooch. A bit of love handles is cute too at this size.

When I date women, I like any height and either a slim, athletic build or curvy with a big butt and boobs. Tummy is good too but she should be healthy.

I like men and women of most coloring. I love a redhead with freckles and/or creamy skin and blonde or reddish body hair. I also like dark skin with dark eyes and hair. The only coloring I don’t love is dark hair and eyes with light skin and lots of dark body hair.

midwesternMD · 2022-07-04T05:38:44+00:00

For me, personally:

Petite (under 5’2” or so)
thin/normal BMI (probably 120 lbs or less for someone under 5’2”)
hourglass figure

As for why? There are some things I enjoy in the bedroom for which being able to throw a woman around the bed makes it much more enjoyable. Being a shorter/not ripped man myself, a 5’2”/120lb-ish build is about ideal. And I like hourglass figures from a logistics of spooning standpoint, and because hourglass curves on a slender woman is the figure that most consistently gets me excited. It’s purely physical.

wtknight · 2022-07-03T21:44:44+00:00

The type of body that K-pop women have.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-03T21:39:13+00:00

Big boobs, big arse, big thighs and a little bit of a tummy.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2022-07-03T21:43:56+00:00

20 F

I really don't have any rigid preferences for male body types, as I have legitimately found men of almost any height and shape attractive. The only body type I don't like is fat, and since I'm slim/fit there are no double standards here.

I have found that my overall preference in men's body type is largely influenced by what kind of guy I'm currently seeing.

However, the two characteristics that I constantly liked in men's bodies were broad shoulders and toned arms.

mwcmu452 · 2022-07-04T00:45:13+00:00

I generally don’t care much about a dude’s height, anything 5’0” or up isn’t gonna make me hesitate. But I love burly guys. More fat than muscle, stocky proportions. Bald men are a thousand times hotter than men with hair, and I love heavy facial hair. Not sure why…it’s just a good look. Makes me think they could lift a car up or some shit like that, but they also look cuddly.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-07-03T22:14:26+00:00

My ideal was pretty face, thin waist and a nice booty

But then again, women can pull off a lot of different things that aren’t “my ideal”

cruciod · 2022-07-04T04:42:11+00:00

Dark hair and eyes

Nice cheekbones

Nice forearms

Lean/slim

5'10-6'0

Soccer body

PaleoPimp · 2022-07-03T23:53:00+00:00

My ideal women: 5'0" to 5'5. Cute face. Freckles. Preferably red head or brunette hair. A nice body is just a bonus (big boobs and a nice butt) . A little curvy/hour glass shaped would be ideal, but has to be in good shape aka skinny.

Bikerbats · 2022-07-04T01:06:50+00:00

A leggier Marylin Monroe.

CentralAdmin · 2022-07-03T23:40:41+00:00

Bisexual so heres both

Men: 5 10" - 6 1" nice arms, not too lean (in between athletic and chubby), kind eyes, thick wavy hair

Women: 5 5" - 5 8" between slim and chubby, thicker thighs, kind eyes, thick wavy hair

At least im consistent

Depressedcolette · 2022-07-03T21:41:09+00:00

Ideal male body is toned and fit. Muscular but he still looks efficient and not bulky. Frame medium I guess? Ecto-meso can look good or meso.

I care a lot about face though and the faces I like (disagreeable looking, sharp features, very masculine but not in a rough way) don’t exist on taller and muscular guys (their features get so large they look a bit soft and unrefined) so either shorter and more muscular or taller but a lean build. Still muscular but will look slim. Lean muscular here is good.

I like a guy to be taller than me (I’m 164-165) but idc about ”6’0 or over”. My ex was 6’0 and that was fine and good but taller probably would have been annoying because I already had to bend my neck to talk to him. And standing next to very tall guys doesn’t make me feel feminine but more like a child. I think my dad being short and my mum tall (they are both 170/5’7) factored in a weak height preference despite being very picky else. I didn’t even understand that men and women were different height.

Hunter eyes. Jaw defined as in not soft but not extremely prominent, I think it looks weird. It can definitely be tapered. I like tattoos. Faces I like are Ian Somerhalder or Christian Bale. I like Robert Downey Jr now that he is older as he had to much baby face younger. Thing is all celebs lool a bit to ”pretty”, I like a more straight up uhm mafia or villain look too. Shaved head etc. Some MMA fighters have this look.

I mostly only like european or middle east/caucasus guys but not scandinavian looking. Spicy white if you will is good. Jugoslavs peak in attractiveness in that regard. I notice I easier find someone hot if they look closer to that whereas for say black or asian men I can see that they objectively look good but I am not as attracted to them.

Shoulders sure broad and all, but I find most guys fullfill that criteria. Like, I’ve rarely seen a guy Where I don’t think he has broad shpulders? Some sort of super wide shoulders super narrow hips looks weird. I prefer more compact but looks strong over wide clavicles but looks like a clothes hanger. Just look sufficiently strong but still agile. I don’t like fat on men at all, so body fat at 15 or below.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-07-04T03:18:55+00:00

Hmmm.. any height of a woman, but preferably above average, I dated a 5'1 woman once and being over a foot taller was a bit awkward -- and I don't love bdsm stuff so it wasn't like a benefit.

Long brunette hair that's well maintained

Very fit, 18-22 BMI, with visible muscle definition. Small boobs, round butt (but Small is fine). Good-looking vagina (I know it's not politically correct to say it, but huge labia lips put me off, and I want to WANT to eat a girl out rather than reluctantly doing it).

Large hips small waist. Some ab definition. Angular face (not round). Doesn't wear glasses regularly, either contacts or no vision issue. Nice straight white teeth. Any skin or hair color is good with me, but I do prefer dating within my race

That would be my ideal in summary: specific type of face, slim fit, not thicc or thick, and big hips

imlost_n_ilikeithere · 2022-07-04T12:57:50+00:00

I prefer my men in the chubby side, muscular is fine but not skinny and I definitely don’t mind a belly. Taller than 5’3 (I’m 5’2) and 6’0 max. Kind eyes, sweet smile. Good teeth

renfsu · 2022-07-04T00:40:14+00:00

Women's bodies change after they have children so it isn't good to fixate on the porn culture body type stuff because it's all bullshit. The most important thing is not being a fat slob of shit because you don't want your kids to be fat slobs of shit.

For men I think it's a little different because we don't have kids ripping through our bodies. Young men especially should aim to be as physically strong and lean as possible.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-07-03T22:02:46+00:00

This ( NSFW)

or Kim Kardashian circa 2009 before she went overboard

I assume this means for long-term relationships, I'm 6'2 my wife is in that 5'8, 5' 9 range, which is good with me her body is similar to the first example I posted not quite as shredded though but still good abs, great perky, 34 B, nice feet , all the stuff I like with an added bonus lol

PurplePillEric · 2022-07-03T21:39:14+00:00

35m 6'3 (yes, OLD is still work), 205lbs and I work out.

Since you asked, I won't leave anything out.

Ideal

~5'4

~110lbs

~C-D cup, perky (nipples naturally point up)

30yo is the best, she's made it past the wall and she's still hot. Good long term potential there.

High body count is also good. If we have good chemistry, she's tried everything else and IMO is less likely to get curious.

Works out. The ass of a girl who does squats is 3x firmer than a girl who doesn't.

She stretches

Tight pussy

Weak gag reflex

Some version of blonde/brown hair at least shoulder length, but in general the longer the better

Light colored eyes

Pale skin (easier to turn red when you slap it)

Preferably no tattoos, 1 or 2 is ok if they have some special meaning and they're not too noticeable.

Belly button piercings are hot for some reason, don't care about others as long as they're not too weird

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-03T22:03:06+00:00

Hourglass shape.

learn2earn89 · 2022-07-04T00:23:58+00:00

Broad shoulders, tall, and full head of hair. That’s ideal. However, I’m not entitled to a guy like that so in reality it’s not a deal breaker if he doesn’t have those traits. I mean, I have small boobs and most guys are into bigger tits.

MotleyCrew1989 · 2022-07-04T02:54:41+00:00

petite slim-fit

clara_12060139 · 2022-07-04T03:24:33+00:00

Broad shoulders, fit body (especially toned arms and torso) but not an overkill, at least 5’9 (I’m 5’8), nice style, preferably shaves his body hair. I also find men who are graceful and elegant very attractive

ElbowStrike · 2022-07-04T04:22:12+00:00

Waist to hip ratio on point (~0.65 to 0.75)

Anywhere from AA to DD cup

Cute, beautiful, or pretty face

Any hair, any eyes, any skin tone

Clear skin, freckles definitely ok

CrossFit or athletic type musculature (runner, gymnast, dancer, Olympic weight lifter, fighter, track athlete)

Body fat in athletic through healthy range (~12-30%)

5’ 0” to 5’ 9” tall and 18-55 years old with more points at the lower end of both ranges

Great sense of humour

NelsonManswella · 2022-07-04T12:15:30+00:00

indifferent about height as long as she’s with a deviation of four inches shorter or taller than me (i’m 5’6).

indifferent about breast size but gotta have some type of cheeks (at least something to grab)

can range from skinny to curvy

2022-07-04T16:52:12+00:00

I think Charlie Hunnam in SoA had really nice body. Also a guy taller than me which is 5 8”

literaryhogwartian · 2022-07-03T21:32:33+00:00

Broad, square jaw, good arms, not too tall.

athlete2biz · 2022-07-03T22:53:35+00:00

Nah, as a 6'5 guy I dont care about a womans height as long as she is shorter than me.

Thin or athletic body type. flat stomach. good hip to waist ratio.

as far as ass and boobs its more about the shape and firmness rather than size for me, but they need to have an ass. I dont like BBL type of asses expect for maybe a one night stand or casual sex. going to the gym and eating healthy is necessary. being fat or even just a little overweight is unacceptable.

Marzipan-Happy · 2022-07-03T23:51:39+00:00

I'm bi. Soooo.

Men : taller than me. Not hard, I'm 5'5". Slightly muscular. Must have nice hands. Facial hair is icky.

Women : not grossly obese. Shaves.

Most of my preferences have to do with personality, so it's hard to say what I'm attracted to physically.

y2kjanelle · 2022-07-04T03:15:22+00:00

I’m 5’3, 114 lbs. none of these are requirements.

5’8 or taller. I’ve dated 5’7 and below. The short man complex/insecurity is a huge turn off. Being super unconfident is a turn off regardless of whether it’s about height or something else.

Somewhat slim and fit? I honestly don’t focus on men’s bodies or muscles that much. Most men I’ve seen at my college/on OLD are in decent shape. I dont care how many times he hits the gym a week. I just don’t like it when men are super thin. I need something to hug and squeeze.

Dark hair and dark eyes. Just looks super healthy and rich like a chocolate mousse. Dark eyes look kinder to me.

Nice smile and somewhat straight teeth

Not too pale.

Not bald or balding or buzzcut. Just can’t get into it unless he’s really rocking it.

Ideally no facial hair but again, some guys make it look so good I can’t ever say it’s anything near a requirement

Fuller lips, they’re 1000x better to kiss and look nice.

2022-07-04T05:29:37+00:00

20F and I'm straight

Preferences:

Age: 20-22

Height: Tall (6ft+)

Body type: Imagine chris bumsteads body

Penis size: Thick and long.

Face (most important): NOT BALD, strong jaw, blue eyes, average size nose

Ethnicity: White

q_dice · 2022-07-04T01:36:53+00:00

I like girls with kind of big boobs, and big hips and thighs. I like bigger girls so a stomach is fine.

For guys I like them nice butt, idc about belly, I prefer them shorter, but I like them tall too.

2022-07-03T22:07:51+00:00

Men: Brad Pitt in Snatch.

Female: Kate Winslet in Titanic.

plumtastic · 2022-07-03T21:36:02+00:00

I'm attracted to men. Height 5'10 to 6'5. Body fat 10%-20%. Some muscle but not gym bro. V taper/broad shoulders even if slight. Veiny forearms/hands. I'm partial to chest hair. At least a slight tan if white, on at least some body parts like arms.

IrrungenWirrungen · 2022-07-03T22:43:15+00:00

Ideal

Male
24-30 yo
5‘4-5‘10
skinny to atheltic build (like tennis players), no heavy muscles, a little stomach chub is fine though :)
freckles
not much body hair (or it’s light)
no beard
no fuckboy

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-04T03:12:10+00:00

Huge fat ass,thick thighs,chubby but relatively slim waist, decent sized full breasts, and long dark hair

The9thElement · 2022-07-03T22:26:38+00:00

Men: At least 5”9, lanky, skinny, little to no body hair, no facial hair, not muscular, long hair.

Women: not fat, not under 5”3, not excessively muscular, not top heavy

operapeach · 2022-07-04T00:51:04+00:00

im 25f. i am tall (5’10) with light eyes, light naturally curly hair, big boobs, lots of curves. pretty overweight, i’m sitting about 265-275 right now but have been heavier.

my ideal woman is soft butch & above 5’4, ideally in the 5’6 and up range, with smaller boobs (c cup or smaller), big eyes, a bigger nose, pretty skinny, short dark hair, and nice lips. i really love striking, interesting facial features. a sense of style + smelling good + good hygiene (all things i have myself) are important.

Hoopy223 · 2022-07-04T02:12:11+00:00

Women - Marilyn Monroe or Sophia Loren in their prime

Men - Danny Devito’s body and Steve Buscemi’s face

Express-Fig-5168 · 2022-07-04T02:59:31+00:00

My weak prefs. (for guys)

6'0" | Reason: I like wearing 2-4 inch heels & I dislike people complaining when I am taller than them with or without heels. Taller dudes less likely to complain.

Toned/Stocky | Reason: Nicest to hug and cuddle, also more likely to be able to do things that require muscle. I'm small boned, my S/O should be able to do things I can't ideally.

Shoulder Length Curly Hair & Beards | Reason: I just think you can almost never go wrong with those. And I like taking care of curly hair so I'd love to do their curly hair routine for them. Aesthetics.

Weak preferences because I don't mind if you don't have these physical attributes.

clara_12060139 · 2022-07-04T03:24:28+00:00

Broad shoulders, fit body (especially toned arms and torso) but not an overkill, at least 5’9 (I’m 5’8), nice style, preferably shaves his body hair. I also find men who are graceful and elegant very attractive

delight-n-angers · 2022-07-04T04:46:46+00:00

I'm bi - In men - remember in avengers endgame when Thor got chubby? Yeah. That.

In women - Shakira is my favorite example but I love all women 🤣

____OZYMANDIAS____ · 2022-07-04T08:27:02+00:00

A skinny woman, thigh gap, petite, small frame, blonde hair, really love a flat chest, little butt.

I'm bi so men are the same as above. I myself am lean/fit/toned/muscular etc, think 100m sprint olympians

WingnutThePious · 2022-07-04T15:33:56+00:00

I'm a 5'9 guy, ~130lbs, pretty skinny, with short dark hair and hazel eyes.

I'm panromantic/demisexual, so I'm attracted to all genders for romantic relationships, and experience sexual attraction only if specific criteria (e.g., deep emotional connection) are met.

I don't honestly care what a potential partner looks like. I've dated people taller than myself, shorter, muscular, slim, chubby, with and without body hair... I have to be attracted to them as a person, before I can be attracted to their body.

If I'm to look at my current partners as any indication, height doesn't matter, as one is shorter than myself, another is my height, and the third is taller than me. Body type is also not super important, but I seem to enjoy a person with strong arms, shoulders and back, and shapely legs, while having a softer tum. Body hair also is completely irrelevant, as is the hair on their head.

I could keep going on, but I think you all get the idea.

decoy88 · 2022-07-04T19:12:26+00:00

Unironically my gf’s body which is pretty much the body-double of this (WARNING: NSFW).

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2022-07-03T22:31:52+00:00

Just be slim. Height I am ambivalent about; my ex was 5'3'' and I am 5'8'' and I liked that as time went on and there was a certain harmony to the heights I felt but I liked her for her aura and face. I've liked girls taller. I don't think I'd go for shorter but then that's just in theory. I kissed a girl taller than me before, didn't look weird in person IMO. Again just be slim. I don't like the Kim K look or variations of it. However, I'd be attracted to it on some level, it just isn't me.

2022-07-03T22:38:21+00:00

Lesbian, I do have to say there are things I find exceptionally pretty but it wouldn't be what makes or breaks anything. Its more like an aesthetical appreciation unless I have a proper emotional bond, that's what builds my sexual interest.

Brunette, tall, very tall. I like if she's a little more boney, just more on the lithe side, shorter hair, androgynous features, brown eyes. I've had partners none of those traits, some with some. But really ultimately I'd never drop the person I was with for someone who met all those markers. Whoever I'm with is always going to be more special. Its about the bond.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-07-03T23:20:26+00:00

Basically @cultureburns on insta

2022-07-04T00:52:42+00:00

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Hungry-Nebula · 2022-07-04T02:45:22+00:00

My tastes and preferences swing wildly all over the place. It all averages out to "living."

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-04T03:03:28+00:00

Immutable traits; short and busty, but less than 140 lbs. Between 4'11 and 5'3, and did I mention big honking honkers.

Cactus2711 · 2022-07-04T03:56:24+00:00

Height has to be more than 5'6 or I'd feel like I'm fucking a child (I'm 6'3). Some semblance of an hourglass figure - waist needs to be smaller than her hips, round arse I can really squeeze. Booty big or small I don't care but it's the shape that matters. Tits anything will do I don't care. I don't mind a bit of a tummy. Legs anything but not stumpy.

2022-07-04T04:13:40+00:00

Not too tall, proportionately built (so not long and skinny or such), pretty shoulders that are nicely wide but still fitting to the rest of the body, nice hands, not obese, not very thin. Nice round ass but again not huge, dark wavey hair, tan skin, not too big lips, nice nose.

2022-07-04T04:50:58+00:00

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Swordfromthecement · 2022-07-04T05:20:28+00:00

The idea body type I’m attracted to is slightly taller than average. Darker skinned, small boobs, big ass with a coke bottle body. chefs kiss

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-07-04T05:58:29+00:00

For men Nice smile, not fat but a bit of chub but nice arms. Dark hair Blue eyes Cheeky look

For women Pretty eyes Nice smile Gothy look , uk size 16 ish not sure what that is in us sizes

TigerLily88 · 2022-07-04T06:11:09+00:00

I’m 33F. I tend to like skinny to average build. Dark hair. Brown eyes. Curly hair or straight hair. Nerdy with glasses.

Drougen · 2022-07-04T06:22:18+00:00

Decent face, ass, and in shape.

2022-07-04T07:29:24+00:00

Height preferably around the same as me, though I don't mind her being shorter or taller.

Body: cute face, round ass, great legs, as long as I can grab a titty it's fine, curvy, don't mind chubbiness but not morbidly obese.

Other: Long (red) hair, blue/green eyes.

However all of those are easily breakable preferences, as I have been attracted to skinny girls and muscular girls too.

flakybottom · 2022-07-04T08:21:20+00:00

Basically Milana Vayntrub's figure. Thick in all the right spots. Could go a bit chubbier.

IchikaYui · 2022-07-04T08:27:26+00:00

23 F | BMI: 21 | 4'9" I like guys who are around 5'3-5'5" with a bit of fat god they're so cute

impyelf · 2022-07-04T08:41:11+00:00

Bisexual here.

For men I like tall, muscular but with a reasonable amount of body fat (I don’t like the hard body thing), messy hair, pretty eyes, bushy eyebrows.

For women I like slim, toned to muscular, medium to small breasts, long hair usually, more of a ethereal, elven vibe. No tattoos or dyed hair that is an unnatural shade.

jiminverse · 2022-07-04T09:51:04+00:00

i think 5'2 - 5'9 is my ideal height (i'm 20f, around 5'7). i tend to be drawn to darker features more often but i've absolutely been attracted to a lot of blondes before (and other hair colors lol) so it really doesn't matter.

i'm mainly attracted to fems (think long hair, makeup, a lot of feminine clothing etc.) but if a woman can pull off androgyny i'll melt into a puddle lol. body type isn't important because i love all for different reasons, but i tend to lean towards thinner women.

if i wasn't a lesbian, i think the type of man i'd be attracted to would be around 5'8-5'10, built very lean (abs visible but he shouldn't look like he lives at the gym - think soccer players physique), absolutely no body or facial hair (i can make an exception for legs but the rest needs to go sorry), a soft face - no rugged looks or sharp jawlines, short hair or alternatively longer hair with an undercut.

ProseccoIsLife · 2022-07-04T10:39:15+00:00

Bi woman here, I enjoy people who are taller than me, healthy body weight (don't have to be muscular, I actually love a bit of softness to lay on). I enjoy being able to kinda hide in my partner's embrace, them resting their head on my hair when they hug me from behind. I also have a thing for hands, so nice long fingers are a plus.

jackedsoon · 2022-07-04T10:43:55+00:00

5’2-5’9

Slim thick

Brunette

Pretty face

bottomLobster · 2022-07-04T11:05:33+00:00

I choose to answer with a song: https://youtu.be/X53ZSxkQ3Ho

Katatonicsnake · 2022-07-04T11:15:44+00:00

Strong, broad shoulders, good posture. Thick legs. Around 180-190 cm.

Naebany · 2022-07-04T11:26:03+00:00

I prefer tall women, but still shorter than me. I'm pretty tall, like 189cm, around 6'2?, so I like when woman is above average like 175cm. It's easier to kiss when standing and I don't look like with a daughter lol. Never been with women my height or taller but I only seen a handful of those in my life.

I prefer skinny/lean girls. I don't mind small boobs, in fact I prefer then cause they are usually more firm, got better shape and are more equal to each other.

Also blond preferably. I don't like too much hair on women including facial/arms hairs and blondes have body hair that is less visible.

Ass? Not too big, but if she's skinny then that shouldn't be a problem i guess.

hari_hbp · 2022-07-04T11:26:17+00:00

To be honest, I can only say about women's body types that I don't find attractive because that's much easier.

Women who can be classified as BBW, who are too thin, shorter than me by a foot. Every other woman is perfectly attractive to me. You could say I'm one of the guys with a pretty wide range of attraction when it comes to women's body types.

jasmine_tea_ · 2022-07-04T12:21:45+00:00

Lanky, thin men of any height.

Long hair. I like graceful, boyish-looking men but despite these descriptions, I don't want a woman. He needs to have a dick. :)

Sheriff_Shooter_98 · 2022-07-04T12:56:26+00:00

I have a pretty definitive standards actually

shockedpikachu123 · 2022-07-04T13:07:35+00:00

Men between 5’10-6ft. Fit and lean but not ripped. Great calves and nice traps

not_lip · 2022-07-04T13:44:46+00:00

Fat, a bit taller than me preferably, a face I'd find attractive (both for men and butch women, I'm a bi girl)

daproest1 · 2022-07-04T14:02:59+00:00

Boobs .butt. In shape

medlabunicorn · 2022-07-04T14:21:05+00:00

Medium build for a man, medium height for a man, nice legs (by which I mean a relatively high ratio of leg length to torso), decent teeth, dark hair and eyes, and a modicum of effort put into appearance in some way.

SoIlikeMangos · 2022-07-04T14:38:34+00:00

I like men that look strong, not buffed. Like it's obvious they workout, but not 5 times a week.

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-07-04T16:23:49+00:00

Some visual example of what I find attractive. These also have attractive personality traits and these are looks only.

As for an ideal body:

• Wavy hair (gives a touseld looks)

• Dark, thick, bushy eyebrows

• Darker circles around the eyes (like eyeshadows). It draws attentin to the eyes.

• Height would be that the eyeline of the shorter one would not be lower than the chin of the taller one.

• Body hair

• Weight/build - on the leaner side, has some padding, but also slight contours of muscle.

• Rougher face.

Though the main part would be a proportioned body where every part firts each other.

lady_ven0m · 2022-07-04T17:03:03+00:00

There’s a guy at my gym that has thick thighs, a really nice ass (literally everyone stares) and overall a really good build. Not too bulky but strong and sexy. That’s probably ideal, but I’m also attracted to leaner and toned guys. I have a thing for nice arms and hands so bonus points there. No dad bods.

He’s got to have a nice face structure, nice skin, hair and teeth. No bald men. Good hygiene too because that will turn me off real fast no matter how attractive he is physically.

I’ve never really cared for height so much but he’s got to be taller than me. I’m 5’3”.

MailenJokerbell · 2022-07-04T17:10:34+00:00

My ideal body is someone taller than me, which isn't hard as I am 5' I've dated 6'3" and, honestly, it was a pain in the ass.

I also prefer men who are a lil chubby. No muscular men or very thin men. I am overweight myself so ideally, until I lose a considerable amount of weight, my preference is men who are not obese due to the fact that it makes sex more difficult. Also, race wise, I prefer PoC, preferably Latino or brown skinned with dark hair.

With that said, my guilty pleasure that I like to stare at is Asian or white/Asian-mix muscular men with long hair. Wouldn't date them just as how they wouldn't date me, but I like to see them. I guess in the same way a lot of girls like k-pop idols but don't generally date them.

With all that said, my boyfriend is 5'8", Latino with shoulder length, very curly hair. We're both equally fat but we're working on that. I love him very much and would not change him for any man with that would be more on the "ideal" side.

Bottom line is, we all delude ourselves with these standards just to fall in love with someone that doesn't check all the boxes or any at all. ❤️

Adirontiques · 2022-07-04T17:54:37+00:00

Cute face, little waist with a big behind.

redback-spider · 2022-07-04T20:01:29+00:00

Well about your statement about size, when we say women go for tall man they don't just want man that are slightly bigger then them, if we have a 5.2 Women she would probably prefer a 6 or 6.2 feet men over a 5.8 feet men all other things equal.

While a man probably prefers the 5.6 women over the 5.2 women in this example, so with man it's nearly the bigger the better no matter what, with women that is not the case, therefor you pull out the extreme cases where you have giant baseball playing women that have to go for smaller guys because they numbers don't work out for them, they get often rejected sure, but also because they don't ask out any small guy but one that is top 20-50%. You have easily 50% that take nearly what they can get especially if she is not old or fat.

So I think it's a bit stretched to inject there some reverse equality.

I would even argue that man prefer on average bigger women as long as they are slightly smaller or maybe the same height then them.

And no men don't get a kick for having a very small women that needs protection they are just less intimitated by them, but that's despite they often don't really find that sexy.

So helplessness is sexy I find the idea at least of a blind women very sexy, (no judgement) I guess it's still the intimitaion part.

About body type I would prefer it's strange in certain computer animations I love the mom type but that are animations, (step-mom) but in real non-animation I don't like Milfs to much, because of skin problems (gravity) but I don't like the very young girls (low 20s) so the Older sister type a few courves. So somewhere between 26-32 years old but not fat, natural tits not to big but also not to small and natureally I prefer dark hairs but I get slowly warm with blond hair. Is that enough? Heck even a bit a slut I don't search for marriage so whatever. Yet she should not be very hateful of men. (which is a hard part to hit for womn these days especially at that ages)

2022-07-05T00:11:04+00:00

Young salma hayek.

5'2 to 5'5 Tan skin Small waist Flat tummy Wider hips Nice booty to grab onto but not floppin around everywhere (aka squats are good) Good size tits...handful to 2 handfuls each boob. Dark hair

Or Lori Slayer, hope beel, eva andressa, renee jewett, ana cheri are all good options

Miojo_Lerigou · 2022-07-05T01:17:53+00:00

I'm bi, I prefer ppl taller than me (I'm 150cm), and either muscular or dad/mom body, and long hair

Safe_Comb4210 · 2022-07-05T05:04:00+00:00

Charlie Days body from Pacific Rim

2022-07-05T07:47:40+00:00

In terms of my subjective, personal attraction? For me, the ideal by far is slender, shorter men with small, lithe frames — like around 5’6 to 5’9 and skinny to lean / fit. That’s what always turns my head when I’m out and about.

There are a lot of other aspects that are a cherry on top, like beautiful hands and not a lot of body hair. Tattoos, lots. All that said, as long as they’re not bulky in any way (either fat or muscle), face is generally more important to me than body — I have a pretty specific facial look that I’m able to be attracted to. Overall style is huge to me too.

Outrageous_Office_98 · 2022-07-05T11:17:46+00:00

I’m 5’7 and I only date women taller than me. I have zero attraction to shorter women. For me, the biggest turn on in life is dating women who I have to look up to. My favorite is just an inch of two taller. I like feeling smaller and submissive.

modernamericanwoman · 2022-07-05T14:00:56+00:00

6 feet 4 inches tall, blue eyes, blonde hair, golden tan, and an 8/10 face. Like Greek statues of old, he works out but focuses more on aesthetics than muscle mass; his glutes are highly structured, his legs are strong, and his arms are big. Eight inches long, 6.2 inches wide, six pack abs, and huge forearms. In addition to having full beards and a Hitler youth hair cut, he also has hair on his chest and legs. A German, a Greek, and a Native American.

Custard-Competitive · 2022-07-05T18:22:19+00:00

I like tall dudes with a belly. I'm 5 11

2022-07-15T03:15:08+00:00

Lesbian here. Literally any woman that breathes is fine, I think all female bodies are beautiful and attractive.

Diamond-Breath · 2022-07-15T21:56:33+00:00

I'm a bi woman so:

Men: Tall, muscular, with broad shoulders, dark hair and eyes. Luckily my boyfriend is exactly my type.

Women: I like petite women, so a short girl with a nice figure and a cute smile would steal my heart if it wasn't already taken. Short hair, long hair, doesn't matter.

helpme096 · 2022-07-20T18:40:50+00:00

It seems to me that the standards for attractiveness of men these days focus primarily on the body, like, to the point of not even taking the face into account. This is VERY strange to me because the face is my favorite part of anyone- male or female.

Like, I see so many pictures with captions that say things like “hot guy” or “sexy man” or whatever that just show the body, no face at all. For me, you can’t be sexy to me if I’m not attracted to your face. As for body type, I’m really not THAT picky. As long as a guy is healthy and reasonably fit (not so skinny that their ribs are sticking out, not chubby with a tummy), then I’m not going to be off-put. That being said, I do prefer a height of 5’7 or taller just because I’m not quite 5’1 and I don’t want to be THAT couple that everyone makes fun of and just calls “adorable” in that totally patronizing way. Light to moderate muscle tone is best to me. A six pack can be sexy, but not if those muscles are just bulging out all over the place. The V lines… I should not find those as attractive as I do, but again, light to moderate definition is sexier than totally jacked.

You know what’s SUPER sexy though? When a guy moves like he’s in control of his body and knows how to use it to its fullest. A certain confidence and grace, hands that can build things and/or play an instrument. Show me you know how use what you’ve got. THAT’S sexy!

As for women? I’m attracted to anyone with a face that makes me blush and a body that doesn’t have rolls. Under 5’5 is preferable just because I don’t want to climb. 😅 All races, all colors, all styles. I do have a slight preference for femme… but I’ve seen some “butch” girls that make me swoon. Excuse me while I go space out and sigh over pretty girls.

Title	What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?
Author	ShiNoKikai
Upvotes	37
Comments	335
Date	July 3, 2022 9:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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