Let’s pretend you want a child, and like any good parent, you want to give your child the best chance and start at life. You don’t get to choose anything about your child apart from gender but you love them regardless. It’s not meant to be personal so don’t comment in regards to your own circumstances or financial situations.

This is mainly to see what are peoples ideas about the challenges, privileges and the day-to-day life you think the other gender has. There’s been many a post about what we want in a partner or complaints about the opposite gender. But if we were to take out our own selfish requirements and actually think about the kind of life we’d want for someone we loved, I’d be curious to see what people come up with