Daily Community Chat Megathread

kingfuckheadgen · 2022-03-27T18:56:05+00:00

I’m at a point where I don’t wanna party I just wanna live with my boyfriend and do the things I want to do. I don’t know if I even wanna keep my friends. They just wanna drink. Never like do the stuff I wanna do. Just my bf wants to.

trail22 · 2022-03-27T18:49:40+00:00

I get so tired in this sub about people not realziing for men, getting the date and being able to show off their personality is the hardest part in dating. Thats where 90 percent of men struggle.

I get women fall in love with a guys character. That that is what really makes women engage with a guy. But from a guys POV, its hardly ever relevant.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-26T18:04:13+00:00

What’s everyone up to today? I’m stuck dog sitting for my grandma.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-03-26T22:09:10+00:00

Women be like: I miss my FWB's large personality

scwizard · 2022-03-26T22:39:19+00:00

There's this idea that there's more guys struggling with loneliness than girls.

That's not true. You can't be married to more than one person after all in the west.

I've met women over 40 who tell me they're ready to settle down and start a family. Egg freezing is a big business after all.

In the end a similar number of guys and girls are dying alone.

John_Oakman · 2022-03-26T18:23:34+00:00

It's interesting to note that despite the amount of quite successful men and women [of various ideological factions] on this subreddit, the amount of argumentation and sometimes vitriol remains high. It appears that mere successful for oneself isn't enough: that the opposition/other must also suffer failure and be unsuccessful in order to complete the satisfaction (if only on the theoretical/abstract).

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-26T19:04:56+00:00

For other virgin men here, what’s your desired n count? What amount would be too much for you? I think a similarly inexperienced woman would be great to learn with but I also see the benefits of one that would be willing to guide.

So between 0-10 I guess I would say is my preference.

lulll · 2022-03-26T21:01:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/tostoh/the_entitlement/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

and slowly people start accepting the truth about how fucking nasty the tinder twats are

scwizard · 2022-03-26T21:36:06+00:00

It's interesting that when you say "people shouldn't have sex outside of marriage" people are like "how dare you tell women they're not allowed to have fun and enjoy life, that they have to be barefoot pregnant and miserable?"

Like I said "people" not "women" so where did that come from? "Well I know what you meant"

deste_eloise · 2022-03-26T22:47:23+00:00

I was going to go out tonight, but I started watching the new season of Bridgerton and am now cancelling all plans! 😅😍

Willow-girl · 2022-03-26T23:25:13+00:00

Well, I went off on an old white lady this morning, and I may have stolen a bag of frozen vegetables. These will probably not go down as my finest moments. I'll try to do better tomorrow ..

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-27T17:42:03+00:00

Turned on tv and Cheaters was playing. Even better, it was the episode where the host gets stabbed

God, trashy late 90s reality tv is amazing

figuringMylife · 2022-03-26T18:05:26+00:00

re: romance thread

men act like they would be perfectly fine with a girl they’re unattracted to doing crazy girlfriend shit for them and i know y’all don’t feel this way

FlamingCoochies · 2022-03-26T18:25:00+00:00

Where do you guys think is a good place to meet virgin women?

Orange_Paisley · 2022-03-26T18:35:33+00:00

We did not get the house we applied for, so we took some of the down payment and bought a new mattress. We slept like drugged babies last night. Hopefully tonight we will break it in properly if you know what I mean and I think that you do.

hairy_bamboo · 2022-03-26T19:30:59+00:00

I woke up and my kettle died. No coffer for me and my dissapointment is immeasurable.

lulll · 2022-03-26T20:02:01+00:00

what is with women and their long nails? like why do you need nails that long

edgyny · 2022-03-26T20:21:05+00:00

Do you think about if your relationship dynamic in conducive to raising children when dating someone? (For people who want a family or for before you had kids)

dasa_man · 2022-03-26T21:08:48+00:00

How can you test a woman’s level of attraction to you? Assuming she really likes you and is in a relationship how can you ensure that she likes you as much as is sanely possible. A woman told me today that whilst she loved her previous bf’s her current bf is the ‘love of her life’ and she’s never had it this good. She feels a spark and fire with him. She left her previous bf for him. The previous invested so much into her and they loved each other but it’s not the same as it is with this new guy. She’s only known the new guy for 2-3 months but her previous guy for 3 years. How do you know how much she likes you?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-03-26T21:40:14+00:00

Fuck, the girl I was talking to said she's staying in tonight 🥺 and I have my situationship girl coming over next weekend so it'll be at least 2 weeks.

I'm not gonna give up though. Persistence!

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-26T23:05:12+00:00

For those of you with kids, how did having a child affect your sex life?

My daughter was born about a week ago, are my partner and I headed for a dead bedroom?

PeanutBetaAndJelly · 2022-03-27T17:27:12+00:00

https://soundcloud.com/user-108714540/yuno-miles-road-to-riches-prodol47

Something about bad SoundCloud raps makes me laugh like nothing else. If you are bored, please listen, and probably don't turn the sound up too much. And then read the comments to laugh even more.

ScoreInternational89 · 2022-03-27T17:13:14+00:00

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KickAss2021 · 2022-03-27T17:06:47+00:00

while more women (18.6%) have lied to decrease the number than men (13.7%)."

http://archive.fo/wF4pS

Yes some women have lies. Stop repeating falsehoods West and do better.

We talk about this all the time. Close to 30% of men get relatively few, 50% get something occasionally once or twice every few months, and the rest get the most attention due to the fact they are taller, stronger, fitter,etc. Yes that's true, unless she sadly got abused most womens' n count around 20. That's at least 2 or 3 relationships a year from 16 to 26 (not including the girls night out, tinder date, late night calls, spring breaks, travel abroads, etc before dating the new boyfriend that turns into fiance, then turns into husband, that 50% of the time in a lifetime ends up in a divorce.

About 27% of men under thirty report that they haven't had sex since turning 18, according to this chart attributed to the University of Chicago's General Social Survey, up from 8% in 2008.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

Even in the study, men lied more than women in general

Yes we talked about this so many times, men lie up, women lie down. The higher n count they are more likely to cheat, obviously calling people names is bad, and for the guy the lowest n count means women don't want him.

This essentially boils down to the entitlement the average Western person in general has, they want to included in everything, but also exclude others at the same time.

half-witted-retard · 2022-03-27T16:25:46+00:00

I subscribed to this subreddit because I thought the idea of men and women discussing inter-sexual relationships without too much political correctness was interesting, but it turns out that every single post is just another angry rant where one sex blames the other in its entirety. Sad.

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2022-03-26T18:00:51+00:00

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Aviadcool111 · 2022-03-26T18:34:43+00:00

Q4W: Have you been in situations in which you slept with a guy and he wanted to commit to being in a relationship where you did not or vice versa where you slept with a guy and wanted to commit to a relationship and he did not? If both please be clear about how many times each situation happened if neither has occurred please explain why you don't think you have been in the situation. It can be personnel experiences or experiences of relatives but please be clear with age range, geographic location(nation), and social values. Thanks in advance for any responses.

lulll · 2022-03-26T18:38:02+00:00

what a lucky guy, thats the face of pure love at the end

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-26T18:45:46+00:00

Spoke to soon buncha people calling out saying they can’t come to my friends party this is what I get for having lame friends

tired_hillbilly · 2022-03-26T19:24:08+00:00

Went into town today and on the way back noticed a little street named "Jack Murphy Blvd". Laughed the rest of the way home.

figuringMylife · 2022-03-26T19:32:40+00:00

what is the equivalent of being BB as a woman?

i just want to understand a man’s pain ig

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-03-26T21:02:30+00:00

The posts today are funny. Do you find a lot of people who match your traits?

For example, I know very few women who are both physically fit like me and have anywhere close to my net worth.

There are hot ones that have as much and more but they’re rare. More commonly it’s either unattractive and wealthier or attractive and poorer.

Autonate · 2022-03-26T21:28:22+00:00

The saying goes that normally people are a reflection of their friends. Would you say you are as "successful" as your friends? Would you say you're as sexually successful as your friends?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-27T16:08:43+00:00

Im mad everytime I tell some guy on this sub who is like” :( Im short so women wont like me and I’ll never get sex” that I’m short as well and don’t have really any problems getting laid that they either ignore or downvote me 😡

figuringMylife · 2022-03-27T15:51:41+00:00

i think all men should just be red pilled. at least red pill men admit that their competitive masculinity contributes to hypergamous behavior.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-27T15:47:34+00:00

Thoughts on this post? As an older virgin I relate to a lot of the comments and original point. I feel like the teen years were a chance to experiment and stuff, and that it becomes harder to explore as you get older.

Prestigious698 · 2022-03-27T15:24:11+00:00

Men of ppd: what’s a reasonable age gap?

WestsideMoonWalker · 2022-03-27T15:22:53+00:00

Why does it feel like this sub has been even more unhinged than normal in the last few days.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-27T15:05:14+00:00

This is what most of my older Hunting buddies deal with cuz they never took ear pro seriously.

-angels-fan- · 2022-03-27T14:45:21+00:00

We always have a couple of days in the 70s here and every year my wife wants to go plant all the flowers and every year i have to tell her it's going to freeze sometime in the next month.

Slipthe · 2022-03-27T14:18:47+00:00

What do you think the divorce rate would be if people stopped marrying before 25?

60 percent of couples married between the age of 20 -25 will end in divorce.

48 percent of those who marry before the age of 18 are likely to divorce within 10 years, compared to 25 percent of those who marry after the age of 25.

https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/#:~:text=48%20percent%20of%20those%20who,25%20will%20end%20in%20divorce.

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-03-26T18:58:57+00:00

The Batman is great

One of the criminals is like “the hell are you supposed to be?” and tries to hit Batman

And Batman beats his ass and is like “I’m vengeance”

And then the soundtrack hits

Like

BWAH

BWAH BWAH

BWAH

Y’know

Habil13 · 2022-03-26T21:58:45+00:00

Why are tattoos frowned upon in the workplace? Who tf cares?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-27T14:05:24+00:00

Miss some of the regulars 😭 gone but not forgotten

biggestuzifanea · 2022-03-27T14:00:43+00:00

Why do women get sad about miscarriages? It's just a clump of cells and not a person anyway

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-03-27T13:18:16+00:00

This is a question for guys:

Does anyone find it weird how girls who are attracted to you just assume you have lots of other girls who want to talk to you? I don't know if they are projecting their own situation onto you (guys will happily talk to them, so they assume girls must do the same to guys). They don't seem to realize that most guys are invisible and can go months/years without any female interaction (I don't want to tell them this because they wouldn't understand/it will put them off you).

rivetcitymayor · 2022-03-27T13:15:42+00:00

Again… men don’t really care about makeup, I’ll take the left one any day

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-03-27T12:47:44+00:00

Should I wait to lose feelings for this guy before dating again or date in order to help chase the feelings away?

poppy_blu · 2022-03-27T12:27:36+00:00

I think men who experience women who ask them about their salary and finances on a first date should congratulate her for being so resposible and mature for thinking ahead, and then ask her how much she makes, how much she has in her 401k, whether or not she's a homeowner, etc. After all, it works both ways, and a financially successful man doesn't want to put his assets at risk by marrying a woman who is financial dead weight, right?

Would love to see her reaction.

chilikettlechips · 2022-03-26T18:42:14+00:00

Like how Godwin's Law is for when an internet argument degrades to nazis. I think this sub has a problem with labeling/mocking/calling shit incelery when it's not quite the case.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-26T20:34:00+00:00

I find it interesting that on the dating subs lots of people shit on posts about a guy or woman complaining about being lonely and desiring intimacy, and then some of these same people will say in other threads about how being in a dry spell for not even that long of a time(a year) is getting them super irritated and frustrated.

I have no problem with people getting frustrated, but don’t contradict yourself by shitting on people who vent about the same desire.

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-03-26T22:27:26+00:00

This whole being alone thing wouldn't be so bad if you weren't constantly reminded of other peoples love.

You'll just be chilling and feeling fine, then you'll see that post in your feed from that girl you had a crush on in high school on the beach with her fiance, and all of a sudden you're reminded of the fact that you're still alone when most people you know have already found love.

jay_303x · 2022-03-26T19:08:27+00:00

Now and then, innocent normies will wander into this sub and stumble upon comments from some of our (very based) red pill regulars. In its shocked state, the normie can't help but respond like:

'Omg, major misogynist vibes! Just went through your post history- you really believe women with sexual pasts have no value? Yikes!'

And it's just so fucking funny every time

Habil13 · 2022-03-27T12:11:58+00:00

Something has just occurred to me. The saying “Nice guys finish last”, implies AF/BB. It doesn’t say “Nice guys don’t finish at all”, which means that the “nice guys” will get their nut after Chad has had his fun.

This then begs the question, is the redpill subconsciously mainstream??

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-27T12:00:05+00:00

Honestly I really want to prioritize my career and focus on that, but then I’m afraid that If I focus on that so much, I’ll wake up one day and still be in the same spot but at a much later age. Typical morning mind racing thoughts.

chilikettlechips · 2022-03-27T11:36:19+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/toymcm/to_stay_or_go_struggling_so_much_with_a_decision/

How many pill generalizations can you find in the OP? How many in the comments?

OkConcentrateNow · 2022-03-27T11:16:07+00:00

Okay so I went out two nights in a row and and on both nights I got told by drunk guys that I am "a very beautiful man". I have a long standing struggle with self image and self esteem but for the first time I chose to believe in myself that yeah, maybe I am not as bad as I think I am. Then with suppressed levels of self-doubt, I went in the club for only 40 minutes in which I striked up conversation with 4 different girls, and scheduled a date with a cute blondie who's probably like 6'- 6'1" (I'm 5'9"). With this tall girl it was on the moment our eyes met, she smiled, I smiled back but continued on way, then later I saw her again and extended my hand with "Hi, how're you doing" (that's my go to "pick up line"), she responded warmly and we took it to the table. She asked me to smell her perfume and I asked her to smell mine.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-03-27T10:43:22+00:00

CMV: Introverted/shy men get claimed by hypergamy. If men don't initiate/approach, then he will only get attention from much lower SMV women and will be forced to settle.

Mark_Freed · 2022-03-27T09:01:58+00:00

Everyone asks who are the perps no one asks how are the perps….

Orange_Paisley · 2022-03-27T08:45:52+00:00

Friday we bought a new mattress. Yesterday we bought a new couch. I am an insomniac and can’t figure out which one I should try to sleep on!

empresa_josefina · 2022-03-27T08:28:31+00:00

I did some glowing up and got new OLD pics and am getting better matches, and some good engagement IRL when I go out. Surprisingly the biggest benefit is not having more dates or more sex in the absolute sense, but having more freedom to reject women I am not interested in and hone in on those I am interested in. I'm less thirsty because I have more options.

In that sense I am becoming more like a stereotypical modern woman. Perhaps Chad represents the ultimate feminization of the male gender.

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-03-27T08:22:42+00:00

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Creation_Soul · 2022-03-27T08:15:00+00:00

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Mark_Freed · 2022-03-27T07:04:25+00:00

Do you all feel sad some days? Like I usually know why I am feeling down but it feels weird when you feel down and can't find a reason.

How do you personally handle it? go for a drive? order in Krispy kreme donuts? watch a show on netflix? work out?

ricort · 2022-03-27T06:13:48+00:00

CMV: Women under 150lbs have no ass.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-03-27T06:07:34+00:00

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FilmStew · 2022-03-27T05:28:28+00:00

I find the term “high value” cringey, with that I don’t have an alternative so I run with it when I feel it’s necessary.

That being said, the term mostly seems to be applied by men to separate themselves financially and physically.

Do women who claim to be high value have the same defining factors? What makes a women consider herself “high value”?

simeneta_two · 2022-03-27T04:17:04+00:00

I’m fostering the cutest widdle German shepherd/pittie puppy. My cats are not happy but our dog loves him.

Swordfromthecement · 2022-03-27T04:06:57+00:00

Why are followers on Reddit even a thing? Why do have people following me?

IveGotIssues9918 · 2022-03-27T03:59:22+00:00

I saw this quote on TV Tropes and thought that it was very pertinent to debating here:

When you're an asshole, it doesn't matter how right you are. Nobody wants to give you the satisfaction. -Morty, Rick and Morty

poppy_blu · 2022-03-27T03:48:27+00:00

What’s with all the men LARPing as women trolling PPD as of late?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-27T03:45:19+00:00

If it's ok to say "All Men" when less than 1% of men are actually awful and bad people, it's ok to say "All Women".

Throwaway8201018 · 2022-03-27T03:19:13+00:00

Ive decided not to be ashamed of my sexuality anymore. Go me.

luliloo · 2022-03-27T03:04:13+00:00

Just finished my first date with a doctor. Ended up lasting from 12 to 7pm and ended with a half hug. He was nice but it probably won’t work and he didn’t look as good as his pics..

Anhedonihilist · 2022-03-27T02:57:13+00:00

CMV: Women are wonderful and men are great.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-27T02:48:37+00:00

One of my single guy friends just posted

If you can’t handle me at my worst, then leave me the fuck alone because I don’t have a best

I feel like he had a bad online dating experience 😂

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-27T02:21:56+00:00

Good night everybody :).

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-03-27T02:18:45+00:00

Welp, the wife just snooped my Reddit account

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-03-27T01:52:59+00:00

I kind of wonder where the idea of more "nerdy" and introverted types being good natured by default came from

Some of the biggest assholes I've met were nerds, "smart guys", and gamer types

qtiphead97 · 2022-03-27T01:47:37+00:00

Just had a little episode and removed a bunch of people from my instagram -some random people, some people I had been close with for a few years.

We’ll see how I feel about this in the morning

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-27T01:47:34+00:00

“You are the bane of my existence and the object of all my desires”

swoon

Bridgerton season 2 is hot

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-03-27T01:11:46+00:00

Just found out my fiancé will get home in time to accompany me to a concert I’ve been looking forward to forever!! Feels good :)

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-27T00:34:24+00:00

You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with. I remember when i was hanging around my pothead friends and it made me lazy, less productive and a stoner myself for a will there, eventually I got to a point where I was like

"I need to find new friends"

I'm still friends with them, but I hang out with them significantly less.

purplish_possum · 2022-03-27T00:31:01+00:00

My Klipsch speakers don't fit in my new place so back to storage they go. Neighbors probably didn't want to hear old Judas Priest cranked way up anyway. I'm sure I'm the oldest teenager here.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-27T00:27:14+00:00

In less than 4 months since moving back home I've gone from being near broke to saving up to more money than I've ever had in my life. Moving home and living at home had its advantages. I will be moving back to Uni accommodation next semester but at least I'll have a buffer.

cuckedalt · 2022-03-27T00:27:05+00:00

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RegTextoffender · 2022-03-27T00:20:00+00:00

Went swinging.

Got inside.

"sorry you're too big and it hurts"

Had to happen sooner or later. Glad I could share it with my online Pals.

-angels-fan- · 2022-03-27T00:14:41+00:00

I just wanted to share the cute little notes my wife leaves around the house for me to find

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-27T00:01:30+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/tolwla/my_best_friend_told_everyone_and_a_party_i_was_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Yeah this one hurts to read. And some commenters who lost their virginity at a “normal” age don’t understand how humiliating this would be. I had an old friend make a similar revelation in front of people and it was beyond embarrassing.

-angels-fan- · 2022-03-27T00:00:36+00:00

This post is so weird.

How in the fuck is fighting against banning transwomen from competing against cis women such a brave and stunning thing to do?

Like, are trans people untouchable? Why are the millions of girls that aren't getting a fair competition less important than one transwoman??

I seriously don't understand this clown world where we are undoing every bit of fairness in sacrifice of the all powerful trans virtue signal?

Is there ANY limit to drawing lines at biology over feelings?

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