Daily Community Chat Megathread

ARCTrooper5555-- · 2022-12-26T22:27:04+00:00

you can always be thinner look better

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-27T03:50:41+00:00

I've changed my view.

I used to believe that every woman in an abusive relationship had a ton of friends and family telling her how bad he is.

I've seen this play out a few times in my life where the writing is so obviously on the wall, but she refuses to listen to reason.

Then 5 years later when they divorce, they ALWAYS say "why didn't anyone warn me??"

However, I realize that is selection bias on my part. I have no idea how many seemingly great guys are abusing their wives at home. For all I know, some of my buddies from work that are the salt of the earth could be going home and melting candle wax in her eyes because dinner was cold. How would I ever know?

MuchMethod7039 · 2022-12-27T06:54:52+00:00

High fructose corn syrup is the devil. Junk food is made to be addictive. Seriously all of us have been fucked over by these companies making additive filled food. Food addiction is real. I see so many people suffer from it. Grandma might have her leg amputated because of diabetes, but she is still ordering from McDonald’s in the goddam hospital. Door dash to the hospital. Like seriously.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-27T00:29:30+00:00

Women coming up with good reasons why body count doesn't matter challenge (impossible)

FjbhBoy · 2022-12-26T19:20:38+00:00

The amount of stupid guys in this other post here thinking that they need to use roids to have a buff physique and saying that if you aren’t built like a roided mcu hero that nobody will consider you muscular is insane

One of the highest upvoted comments is from some moron who has said he always looked skinny fat no matter how much he worked out till he used trt and he thinks he has average muscle building genetics lol

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-12-26T19:00:33+00:00

Jesus is king

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-27T05:14:42+00:00

What is with men and ass slapping? Like with my man it feels like it's pretty much instinctual as long as there is an opportunity 😂

YuekiXC · 2022-12-27T08:11:42+00:00

I can tell my sister is slowly becoming the typical "I hate all men" type of women while having a bf, and I had to call her out on her stance.

I just feel kind of bad for the bf, like how do you feel knowing that the women you love basically hates everything about you that makes you a man 😭🤣. Kind of a tragic path she's going down, but hey, it's her life in the end.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-12-27T09:04:09+00:00

Whats with women who do this?

Got a friend who matched on OLD with a girl. They talk for a few days and he tries to set up a date with her (ie. "Want to meet on Saturday at said location?") a few days in advance, and gets left on read. Then suddenly on Monday she texts him as if nothing happened.

Apparently this has happened 3 times this month. I told him next time someone does that block them immediately.

Infammo · 2022-12-27T19:34:44+00:00

Men claim women view all men as “disposable” when they literally and figuratively invented “pump and dump”.

teball3 · 2022-12-27T19:57:50+00:00

Men here don’t like when women are mean to them but go out of their way to be rude to women CMV

meteorness123 · 2022-12-26T19:09:56+00:00

This entire space is a cesspool of rationalization, cognitive dissonance and many more psychological protectice mechanisms

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-26T19:37:25+00:00

The man who wants a woman who is much shorter than himself is insecure about his height and showing his toxic masculinity. The woman who wants a man who is much taller than her just wants to feel smaller and petite because oppressive society puts unfair expectations on women to be petite.

My double standards

armpitpics · 2022-12-27T00:56:26+00:00

Traditional gender roles fascinate me. If I say that money was one of the reasons I married my husband I'll be accused of being a golddigger. If I say I like men with high income I'll be accused of being self-entitled. If I tell my parents that I don't want to go to school because all I want is a wealthy guy to take care of me while I take care of the house they'll have a heart attack. However, when I have kids, I'm expected to prioritize home over my career and be ok to depend on a man on whose income I'm not supposed to have any opinion. It's almost as if being a "golddigger" is ok as long as I do it on someone else's terms.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-27T12:45:26+00:00

I think where a lot of other Red Pill guys go wrong is that they take the girls from Fresh and Fit and the other type of girls on those podcasts, see them say some dumbass stuff and they go

"REEEEEE ALL WOMAN ARE LIKE THIS THEY'RE ALL DISGUSTING AND THEY'RE EVIL."

No. When I see that I just think, "Wow she's a bit of a fucking idiot."

Don't take entertainment and let it shape your opinions so much.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-27T15:03:42+00:00

The irony of both a post telling men not to talk to women at the gym and one about a girl who goes to the gym specifically to be approached both being on the front page

THHBHStT · 2022-12-27T01:58:53+00:00

I try to give men the benefit of the doubt. But then I see shit like “grip reaper” “bet it’s pink” being spammed under a cute girls comments, simps, montages of the most basic women that do not know the creators, genuinely porn sick men, the guy who post a vid of him dancing everyday he’s single (1000+ consecutive days) and it makes it so hard to stick up for my fellow men.

It sucks but some guys honestly do it to themselves. Also steroids aren’t the answer and if you think women want to fuck a roidhead you’re a bit daft

Lysa_Bell · 2022-12-27T15:31:41+00:00

PSA: not agreeing with something ≠ gaslighting

Early-Christmas-4742 · 2022-12-26T19:31:03+00:00

Hitting the gym and eating rice cakes and shit in like a week. Better see some results. My house is gonna be full of some hangry MFs lol

lulll · 2022-12-26T19:51:32+00:00

based idiot

PatrickAizen · 2022-12-26T19:55:41+00:00

Testosterones is such a Fuckin horny Drug especially after hitting the Gym, seriously even my mind is going bizarre

2022-12-26T21:17:53+00:00

Couples that hate together, stay together <3

geyges1 · 2022-12-26T22:31:21+00:00

I didn't realize so many female PPDers were chubby chasers

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-26T23:18:47+00:00

found a goldmine post on AITA. its got it all for everyone here. women will love it because ex wife turned into a boss bitch after husband cheated. men will love it because the dip shit beta bux got the life he asked for.

geyges gunna love it because there are kids being born.

https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/zej0hw/aita_for_asking_my_exwife_to_stop_making_my_kids/

also comments pretty refreshing for this sub which are usually always against me.

Willow-girl · 2022-12-26T23:39:00+00:00

Today feels like ...

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-27T03:21:32+00:00

Women explain why dad bods are totally better than fit bods challenge (impossible)

saraimarsena · 2022-12-27T04:45:16+00:00

Q4All: Have you ever had anger/hate sex? How was it?

1Here4Bach · 2022-12-27T18:42:22+00:00

Women are the way they are because of weak males. Go ask a good hearted masculine male if he had trouble getting the feminine wife of his dreams and he will say no.

It’s weak males masquerading as masculine males or just weak males who don’t even try to be masculine because they’re so nihilistic, self centered and childish they feel like they don’t need to contribute anything who will always be the ones blaming feminism and the like for their short comings with women.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-27T18:57:19+00:00

of all the made up stories on AITA this made up story is certainly one of them

fiftypoundpuppy · 2022-12-26T19:33:00+00:00

Women's love of dogs is irrefutable proof that women prefer good boys over bad boys.

Edit: it has come to my attention that I apparently need to point out that this is a generalization for a joke. I don't need a million women responding just to tell me that they personally don't like dogs.

hashtag notallwomen

CimZim · 2022-12-26T19:07:50+00:00

Q for those with partners:

If you found out that your partner was posting screeds against the opposite sex in PPD (along the lines of 'All men are trash' or 'all women are stupid whores') what would your reaction be? Would you assume you were included in the trash/whore pile?

EDIT: What I have learned from some of the responses is that trolling is a modern hobby rather than a sign of a deeply unhappy, immature person. The times, they change man.

BiggestDintheRoom · 2022-12-26T19:05:24+00:00

I am confident in my ability to turn any woman that had some kind of fling with me into a crazy whore.

learn2earn89 · 2022-12-26T19:36:53+00:00

What other subreddits do you guys follow? I’m looking for something as stimulating or even better than r/purplepilldebate . Intelligent discussion, dissenting views etc. Science/culture/ history too.

meteorness123 · 2022-12-26T19:40:06+00:00

Imagine being Kanye and being able to say whatever the fuck you want because you're rich as fuck. Thats the dream right there.

Over_Noise3530 · 2022-12-27T18:54:52+00:00

Whenever a guy ghosts me, negs me or screws me over, it doesn't make me try harder or lower my standards. It just makes me hate people even more and become more bitter.

Over_Noise3530 · 2022-12-27T18:55:30+00:00

Last night I watched the bodyguard while getting my pussy ate for 45 minutes. And I didn't even fuck

WestCombSplit · 2022-12-26T19:10:38+00:00

Some Women hate age gaps.... until they find out the average income for Men at different ages and the average age for the kind of income they want a future partner to have. That's when a 10 year age gap doesn't look as bad anymore

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-27T00:51:26+00:00

So many women here have the singular personality trait of "look at how unapologetically mean I am to men!"

It's so cringy.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-12-27T16:23:28+00:00

Women: Maybe if you weren’t a misogynistic abusive pig you would actually be able to have sex and get a girlfriend

Also women: my ex was a misogynistic abusive pig

Guess I know what I’d rather be viewed as 🤷🏾

WestCombSplit · 2022-12-26T19:19:53+00:00

All women should look like this

https://old.reddit.com/r/nattyorjuice/comments/zvfmho/you_go_out_in_the_wild_and_see_this_wonderful/

Perfection

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-26T21:26:25+00:00

Women be like: I'm bi but I lean towards women because they're better looking, then date this

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-27T01:31:05+00:00

women say sex isnt transactional and shouldnt be transactional but then behave as if sex is transactional and isnt just something you do for fun

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-27T01:38:18+00:00

All this talk about men's bodies as far as what women are attracted to is so pointless. Just don't be fat and look good in clothes. Once you're taking your clothes off in front of her, she's not gonna reject you unless you have some freakish deformity.

FuuraKafu · 2022-12-27T15:14:55+00:00

When men say women have an easier time of dating, women automatically only think about their horrible experiences. Why? What if "easier to date as a woman" somehow applies to your interaction with the most amazing guy you ever been with? You current awesome boyfriend? The best sex you ever had?

I anecdotally know several women who are more socially anxious/awkward and shy then me who still magically ended up in relationships. Women, would you rather assume that these girl are automatically victims? A shy woman in a relationship = getting raped. Is that it? Or can you for a single time in your life admit that men being less hung up on literal perfection in their partner could potentially be a positive that's exclusive to women? It must be nice to enjoy intimacy with someone as a shy human being. Disagree?

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2022-12-26T22:45:07+00:00

Working 10+ hour shift is not an excuse not to help a SAHM. During, your off days. Sure use one day to sleep in and do whatever. But after that it’s no excuse not to help out in YOUR home. Men thinking the only thing they have to do is work are entitled asf!

And even if you do not want to help. If you constantly hear your wife nag about an issue solve the problem by getting things that make the job easier. Buy a dishwasher, hire a nanny, buy a robot that replaces vacuuming or sweeping and etc. And if you can’t afford it then you need to work more hours! The point of your working is to support the household.

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-26T20:04:47+00:00

had another rlly long absolute black out nap. I think my body is getting back at me for depriving myself of sleep during finals 😂

jellybeanzandtings · 2022-12-26T20:12:41+00:00

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growandappear · 2022-12-27T00:31:32+00:00

Q4W

Please rank from best to worst, PHYSIQUE ONLY nothing else.

1 2 3

StacksofHoodville · 2022-12-27T00:49:05+00:00

I think the majority of your everyday women experience two types of attraction in simultaneous fashion.

The first type of attraction that they experience is that attraction to the conventionally attractive man that most women find attractive.

The second type of attraction is the type that’s more personal to her on an individual level. It’s what you would call her niche, or something.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-12-27T01:31:52+00:00

I dunno what was up with Lily Potter. She could have had Alan Rickman but noooo. James Potter must have been quite the Chad.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-12-27T02:24:42+00:00

I'm not a morning person but hitting the gym this morning felt good asf. Plus now I have much energy to get shit done today. I gonna have to consider doing this more on my days off rather than going at night.

THHBHStT · 2022-12-27T02:54:32+00:00

I used to trust the news a fair amount but I find it harder to day by day

Southwest shuts down flights and the claim is because of weather issues

Sounds normal but then you realize every other airline did fine, even flying north and it’s also not snowing below the Mason Dixie line. Idk how planes work but that sounds like a pretty obvious lie from newspapers

lulll · 2022-12-27T03:35:40+00:00

im done with hot women its all about old money rich as hell ugly as fuck women now

2022-12-27T04:01:24+00:00

I just ate the rest of the cheesecake. I'm working on my dad bod now.

ARCTrooper5555-- · 2022-12-27T06:57:01+00:00

people on PPD need to realize that that the terms "redpill" "blackpill" and "chad" are much older the pill-o-sphere and have a totally different definition outside the context of dating and sexual strategy

red pill: term for uncomfortable and painful truth most people do not wish to admit

black pill: nihilism, fatalism, and a give-up mentality, often aligns with doomerism

chad: a symbol of hypermasculinity, started off as an ironic joke but eventually became a positive term and an ideal to strive for

ApprehensiveFig9733 · 2022-12-27T08:16:01+00:00

Is it weird if someone is an “incel” even though they are tall, fit (go the gym regularly), have a great career (250k+), and good personality (lots of friends and gets along with others easily).

What do ppl here think of when they hear “incel”? Some Cheeto-fingered basement dweller?

nothatyoucare · 2022-12-27T16:51:38+00:00

Didn't this stupid daily chat thread default to sorting by new. Now when I come in here its sorting comments by top.

ApprehensiveFig9733 · 2022-12-27T17:17:08+00:00

At what age does it become weird that a man hasn’t kissed a girl before? How about gone on a date? Are these 2 different? Would you immediately think something is wrong with this guy, or would you think maybe he hasn’t found the right person?

armpitpics · 2022-12-27T18:03:22+00:00

Q4ALL: Would you rather...?
a. eat a clean but hairy anus
b. lick a shaven but smelly armpit
c. go on a date with someone from PPD

lulll · 2022-12-27T18:54:41+00:00

Q4All: Would you actually have sex with someone here?

VirtualRow4074 · 2022-12-26T20:42:49+00:00

Wouldn’t people rather be wanted and genuinely desired rather than just needed because if someone is only with you because they have a need you provide & not because they genuinely want you once that need is fulfilled whether it be financial , emotional, or psychological the relationship just might be done their purpose of being with you is done. When someone genuinely wants and desires you & is with you because they genuinely like you & not because they have a desperate need wouldn’t that be a better relationship. It’s an argument I’ve never understood from men & women of wanting people to be with you because they need you rather than them genuinely wanting you.

rippurplepill · 2022-12-27T18:13:03+00:00

Wanting your woman to call you daddy is fucked up. No room for differing opinions here.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-27T18:45:16+00:00

If ever I'm not married and dating again, not one woman would ever guess I lean red pill.

All this cope of women who think they can spot a red pill man a mile away is bullshit. You only spot the spergs that treat RP like some kind of step by step manual on how to get girls.

PersonaleSpace · 2022-12-26T22:35:11+00:00

Debating height on this sub is like arguing with a brick wall. Men insist that the reason they can't get laid is because their legs are 2 inches shorter than someone else lol

immalayhandsonya · 2022-12-26T20:41:35+00:00

You know how they say men and women cheat for different reasons? I think in the past that I've heard that women cheat because their man doesn't satisfy her emotional needs. So she cheats with someone who does. And they say men cheat because his sexual needs are not met.

But I think differently now. I think women cheat because their man doesn't fuck them right. All I hear about from women is how most dudes don't even care about their pleasure.

I don't know why men cheat. I feel like it's just, we wanna bang every girl. Some dudes will, and some dudes won't cheat. Not sure what causal factors may have one guy cheat vs another.

But I know that often women feel that women who cheat are justified. It is justified, because her man isn't fucking her right, so she has to go elsewhere. It's not fair that women don't get to have good sex.

Whereas a man who cheats, is just a dick. A bad person who cheats for amoral reasons. Because women are attractive and we want to fuck them all anyways. That makes male cheating evil, and female cheating justified in the eyes of women.

And I hear this in real life. I eavesdrop on things women say in public all the time. In the grocery aisle. At work when they think no men can hear. Just out in public in general. They're out there talking shit trust and believe lol. It's their favorite thing to do I have learned.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-26T20:08:10+00:00

“How are we defining as getting laid? Is their spouse performing duty sex 4 days out of the year considered getting laid? In my eyes, if men aren’t getting laid as much as they want, it’s a problem.”

More proof of PPD men’s sense of entitlement to sex. I’m serious, who the fuck told men they were entitled to sex?

meteorness123 · 2022-12-27T02:00:52+00:00

I think a lot of women don't care if the guy is "alpha" as long he doesn't try to be something he is not. If for example you up yourself to be this hypermasculine guy and then horribly fail in bed, you're gonna get judged. Because you were portraying something you were not which indicates a lack of congruency. The sensitive artist gets women by being himself. Because he isn't trying to be something he is not. If you're a funny guy, be funny. There is nothing more cringe than a guy taking himself too seriously and think it's cool "because James Bond does it"

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-27T13:09:47+00:00

Another reminder that you are not entitled to sex.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-26T23:32:35+00:00

Why don’t girls give nice guys like me a chance

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-12-27T04:24:04+00:00

Ok so that info pic on penis sizes. Looks like most of the girls comments say that men with micro penises were their best. I'm not out here slinging a horse size cock but I swear that sub stays afloat based on the posts that applies to the <1% of girls who comment honestly. The rest are just an echo chamber of lies maybe thinking some guy may be lurking to receive some false hope.

Girls: The best sex I had was with a guy with a 1 inch dick.

Guy with micro penis lurking: Maybe theres hope for me after all to give a girl an out of body experience orgasm.

Edit: Tbf some of the stuff in that pic is inaccurate

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-27T10:39:42+00:00

An easy way to spot a high value person from a low value person:

A low value person when someone calls them fat will whine and get upset going "that's so mean. "

A high value person takes that shit and goes "You're right man I need to get into the gym."

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-12-27T14:32:43+00:00

"Style" is just a cope.

You ever see the tiktoks where dudes dress in the ugliest clothes possible then do a big ""reveal"" where they're in a much better outfit? The main takeaway from those videos is the fact that they still look hot even in "ugly" clothes.

Dressing better doesn't make you actually look better, it's just a cope so people can tell themselves it's not that they're just ugly and short, it's their sTyLe that's wrong.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-27T16:02:14+00:00

Do women view having casual sex as "sticking it to male preferences"?

How are you empowered by giving men what they want?

Seems like feminism is making more pickmes.

scwizard · 2022-12-27T07:33:14+00:00

Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?

How are the women ruined? There's still tons of men who want to date them.

Isn't the issue with the quality of the men?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-27T09:56:03+00:00

what 2 digit iq number do u have to get below to think that telling rapists to stop raping people will ever work in a million billion years? serious question. should we make like tv broadcast on the news to tell men to stop raping? like rapists are gonna hear that and go "oh well that was convincing i guess its time to stop raping" like do people even think before they speak?

edit: lol with the downvote cuz 1+1=2 type of common sense should be controversial i know

nothatyoucare · 2022-12-27T12:03:11+00:00

Women do have lower sex drives overall. But the actual harsh truth for men who aren’t having much luck dating isn’t that women “barely want sex,” that’s sugarcoating it for those guys. Many women absolutely love and crave sex

Ahh, more gaslighting of men.

Edit: LTR's kill women's libido, doesn't happen to men

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/

Long-term relationships are tough on desire, and particularly on female desire,” she said. I was startled by her assertion, which contradicted just about everything I’d internalized over the years about who and how women are sexually. Somehow I, along with nearly everyone else I knew, was stuck on the idea that women are in it for the cuddles as much as the orgasms, and—besides—actually require emotional connection and familiarity to thrive sexually, whereas men chafe against the strictures of monogamy.

But Meana discovered that “institutionalization of the relationship, overfamiliarity, and desexualization of roles” in a long-term heterosexual partnership mess with female passion especially—a conclusion that’s consistent with other recent studies.

“Moving In With Your Boyfriend Can Kill Your Sex Drive” was how Newsweek distilled a 2017 study of more than 11,500 British adults aged 16 to 74. It found that for “women only, lack of interest in sex was higher among those in a relationship of over one year in duration,” and that “women living with a partner were more likely to lack interest in sex than those in other relationship categories.” A 2012 study of 170 men and women aged 18 to 25 who were in relationships of up to nine years similarly found that women’s sexual desire, but not men’s, “was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction.” Two oft-cited German longitudinal studies, published in 2002 and 2006, show female desire dropping dramatically over 90 months, while men’s holds relatively steady. (Tellingly, women who didn’t live with their partners were spared this amusement-park-ride-like drop—perhaps because they were making an end run around overfamiliarity.) And a Finnish seven-year study of more than 2,100 women, published in 2016, revealed that women’s sexual desire varied depending on relationship status: Those in the same relationship over the study period reported less desire, arousal, and satisfaction. Annika Gunst, one of the study’s co-authors, told me that she and her colleagues initially suspected this might be related to having kids. But when the researchers controlled for that variable, it turned out to have no impact.

Also:

Although certainly there are some women with high sex drives and some men with relatively low ones, these are exceptions, and moreover these exceptional types do not appear to form mismatched couples very often. Byers and Lewis found that half the couples in their large sample disagreed about sex at least once a month, and without exception all of the disagreements involved the man wanting sexual activity while the woman did not

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-12-27T13:51:37+00:00

Reminder to women that you aren’t entitled to not being lied to, lead on, and pumped and dumped

JumboJetz · 2022-12-27T18:04:07+00:00

Some fantastic news. Match Group company is one of the worst performing stocks of the year and it’s business viability is in doubt. I pray this company that has destroyed modern dating suffers a horrible death and that all it’s employees are laid off and now find something useful to do with their lives.

meteorness123 · 2022-12-26T19:14:55+00:00

Virtually nobody is good-looking at 45+.

scwizard · 2022-12-26T20:27:16+00:00

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West Finalize Divorce, Rapper Must Pay $200K Per Month in Child Support

The former couple will have joint physical and legal custody of their four children, daughters North, 9, and Chicago, 4, and sons Saint, 6, and Psalm, 3

Now I'm thinking Kanye blew up his finances on purpose.

200k a month lol

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-12-27T09:34:59+00:00

Husband spent Christmas in the hospital with complications from Covid. But my daughter came and spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day which was lovely. It’s been a good 7 years since I woke up on Christmas morning with my baby. I thought she would have been sick of me by the end of it but she called this morning and we had Boxing Day brunch too. Husband is in an isolation room. I’m allowed to visit but I have to be all gowned up and masked. I don’t have the heart to tell them that I caught Covid when he did 2 weeks ago. I’m testing negative now though.

CliffPR · 2022-12-27T14:05:43+00:00

I will never understand the idea of being "too stressed" to have sex. That's like saying "I can't take aspirin; I have a headache."

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2022-12-27T14:26:36+00:00

So gotta say a little jarring to see dudes parrot shit Lyndon Mcleod used to say before he killed 5 people and got put down.

empresa_josefina · 2022-12-27T15:31:18+00:00

Imagine a high school with 100 guys and 100 girls. Casual hookups are common. However the women have sex with half of the guys semi regularly (once a week let’s say). Then the hookup guys would have sex twice a week, the non-hookup guys would be virgins. 100 women would be partaking in hookup culture but only 50 men.

Most importantly, notice how there are 0 women who are totally available, but there are 50 available men. Let’s say you created a dating app in this school for the unattached. It would be a sausagefest.

Just an illustration but it’s possible for a population to be 50/50, the hookup market to be skewed female, and the dating market for singles to be skewed male. Which is more or less real life.

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WestCombSplit · 2022-12-26T19:00:27+00:00

Who will be first on January 1st?

TigerRude4 · 2022-12-26T19:02:06+00:00

I'll never be first

CimZim · 2022-12-26T19:03:11+00:00

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-12-26T19:23:40+00:00

you know its been like 3 months since i last heard from the dude who i stupidly got attached to from the summer

i still think about him from time to time yet i really didn’t like him all that much. he had v bad qualities as a person. Yet idk why it still makes me upset as to why it ended so weird. Ugh

i guess bc in the good moments it was really good, but the bad moments were REALLY bad

CliffPR · 2022-12-26T19:54:39+00:00

Why do athletic brands produce their products in what must be 7XL or larger? Isn't it kind of bad for the image of the brand for a 400lb guy to be walking around with Nike on his tits?

BiggestDintheRoom · 2022-12-26T20:13:35+00:00

I think I have to swallow the chubby pill. It is inevitable that I will become fat in the next 3-10 years. The same goes for woman. better practice on the fat ones before my wife divorces me for not having experience with fat bodies.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-26T20:49:26+00:00

anytime i'm single, I'm rich.

anytime I have gf, i'm poor.

can't explain that.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-26T21:12:38+00:00

Q4W: Can using a super strong vibrator damage the nerves and make you sensitive?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-26T21:16:20+00:00

Women like dad bods because they are fat or afraid of getting fat themselves and think that fat men won't judge them for being fat as much as healthy fit men.

liefelijk · 2022-12-26T21:47:27+00:00

Women

Is this wikipedia picture for dad bod accurate? Is this sexy?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dad_bod#/media/File:Dadbod.jpg

baresquad · 2022-12-26T22:07:55+00:00

Q4A: growing up, did anybody instill or make you believe that marriage is important and should happen as young/quickly as possible?

2022-12-26T22:23:38+00:00

Why did I have a highlight comments thing randomly pop up? I've never seen this. On old reddit btw.

animorph_fan34 · 2022-12-26T23:02:46+00:00

Q4M

What’s your favourite sex act: BJ/toes sucked/cowgirl/ mutual masturbation ?

Adventurous_Chard_22 · 2022-12-26T23:04:28+00:00

What level of emergency does it have to be to convince someone to find a girlfriend for me? Who is that someone to find a girlfriend for me, by the way? Like, do I have to say I'm going to kill myself if they don't find me a girlfriend? Do I just have to say I'm really, really sad? What do I have to do to convince someone to find a girlfriend for me?

growandappear · 2022-12-27T01:16:52+00:00

Thank god the topic of the day is dudes' bodies, what a way to waste time.

Q4W: Rank this absolute smokeshow's progress pics.

Q4ALL: Is the left-most picture considered a dad bod?

RegTextoffender · 2022-12-27T02:48:40+00:00

I need to figure out a non pain punishment for my wife if she fails to lose weight at her weigh ins. She promised me 10 several months ago but hasn't delivered so we are going to daily monitor and three days failing in a row is a fail.

We're both hitting the gym but weight is from the kitchen. These 10 lbs are the difference between nice and holyshit nice and she wants this so just remember she can say no but doesn't.

Hmmm...

And before feminist hate. She wants this relationship dynamic. We were happily egalitarian for a long time but she knows this works better for her to get what she wants, she gets in her own way otherwise.

scwizard · 2022-12-27T07:21:31+00:00

https://news.yahoo.com/texas-judge-rules-teens-parents-210000083.html

Do you think this will actually change the teen birth rate in Texas?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-27T07:28:03+00:00

I ended up watching the first season of Euphoria yesterday for the first time because people seem to love this show, plus I heard it was just a modern version of Skins.

It's a good watch, not a bad show by any stretch, but I think people definitely overrate it. Maybe because Zendaya is in it? Maybe because of the art style? I have no clue.

Also I genuinely had no clue that Jules was trans until way too late in the season.

Mythic_Punk · 2022-12-27T07:41:27+00:00

A while ago I fixed a location pin on google maps. It was for a place they didn't have a proper location set up for and I fixed it for them. Every now and then I get an email from them thanking me for my help and letting me know how many people have used the pin 😅 2000th hit, let's go!

BiggestDintheRoom · 2022-12-27T08:52:14+00:00

men: why loli porn? why?

LaloTwins · 2022-12-27T08:54:37+00:00

Katatonicsnake · 2022-12-27T10:12:43+00:00

Christmas was a great time to see that my resilience has finally improved, and I am so relieved to find that out.

lehibu38 · 2022-12-27T10:50:47+00:00

Why isn’t he getting matches?

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/zvxcth/im_absolutely_bombing_do_i_need_an_ego_check_or/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-27T11:41:00+00:00

why are people so affected by others opinion of them?

lets do this example: i'm going to hate you as hard as I can. are you ready?

😡😡😡😡

did you feel that? no? Let me try again i'll hate you even harder.

😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

still didn't feel that?

Its because what people think of you can't effect your peace of mind.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-27T13:46:47+00:00

q4all:

When you walk what do you look at?

a) the ground

b) the sky

c) the horizon (middle between ground and sky)

I notice I tend to look at the ground. Its because I used to live in LA and if you don't watch where you walk you'll end up randomely stepping on a slice of cheese pizza someone just decided to leave.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-27T16:25:54+00:00

My iPad is running out of battery even when plugged in.

Are there different chargers that deliver different power?

mwb111300 · 2022-12-27T16:52:24+00:00

Are there any smaller PPD subs with a more niche user base? There are so many people here that I struggle to relate with.

lulll · 2022-12-27T17:11:27+00:00

the month of january is saggy tits appreciation month

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-12-27T17:19:53+00:00

Thk God southwest precanceled my flight instead of stranding me this time like last time lmao. Guess I get some more family time

BiggestDintheRoom · 2022-12-27T17:21:55+00:00

Ok ppd women know what they want. Women don't have to get drunk to find themselves.

empresa_josefina · 2022-12-27T17:39:25+00:00

Boy oh boy, the 6 weeks between NYE and Valentine’s Day is peak time to smash single girls who felt lonely over the holidays. Sex is gonna be rly easy for the next couple of months

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-27T17:57:55+00:00

Q4M: 4 choices, which one would you take?

a) 9/10 girl exactly whatever your type is and you think she looks amazing. You almost nut your pants if her shadow comes close to you thats how hot you think she is. She has a young kid and by dating her you will be presumed the father and she will compel you to provide non legally mandated child support even from just dating. You and her have lots in common and get along well.

b) 4/10 girl who doesn't excite you by her looks but isn't repulsive. just below average. could be fat to some people but not obese. Has all the personality features you want like playing super smash bros and liking dogecoin or whatever you personally like. Plus is funny. Basically has everything but looks girl.

c) 6/10 girl who you find really cute and maybe gets to a 7 when she cleans up like puts on a sexy outfit to go out to the club. She doesn't look amazing when she doesn't try and you still check out how hot other girls are and sometimes feel kinda bad you couldn't get hotter but shes good enough. The personality is whatever, shes kind of a basic bitch, but shes nice to you.

d) None of the above. I'll hold out for better.

PS i'm implying option A is the only one with a kid.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-27T19:53:38+00:00

I really thought we'd get a purge week this week.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-12-27T20:00:00+00:00

If you live in a city with one of those Falling Prices stores and think it might be a fun thing to check out on the first Tuesday after Christmas (because they aren't open on Mondays and Tuesday is their big restock day), do not. I feel like I just escaped a war zone and all I have to show for it are some new towels, underwear, a pair of shoes and a couch slip cover that didn't fit. I need a drink badly after that.

BiggestDintheRoom · 2022-12-26T19:10:32+00:00

Ok ppd let's settle a debate nature vs nurture:

What is your opinion on the rules of gender dynamics being consistent across space and time?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-27T05:09:48+00:00

My problem with the female standards for muscle is that while not having enough muscles can disqualify you, having muscle doesn't qualify you to get laid.

Not having muscles will have women and society insulting you and questioning what is wrong with you and call you feminine/weak even though you can actually be perfectly healthy without a lot of muscle (unlike being fat). If you do a lot of cardio and have a BMI of around 20 without a lot of muscles, you're close to optimal health and at a healthy weight, but women will think you're skinny/scrawny.

At the same time, muscles barely help you sleep with women. You still have to put in a ton of effort in and won't have women automatically attracted to you making it easy for you. You just won't get auto-rejected for being scrawny. anymore. Although, being scrawny didn't matter that much anyway because you only get rejected for it if you don't pass by the other factors (height, face) which women care much more about.

Getting muscles just avoids the negative reinforcement and judgementalness from women, but there isn't any positive reinforcement. It helps you pass level 1 but it doesn't help you to beat the game.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-27T05:51:52+00:00

For those that decide to come into a clothing store, if you decide to pick up a t shirt, it's your responsibility to fold it and put it back nicely, not decide to just throw it anywhere you like or leave the station in a mess because you're too fucking lazy.

PS: Don't do any of this especially when the staff is right in front of you, as he will want to hurt you.

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-12-27T14:44:09+00:00

does tinder only really work for normies like if u have an alt style that the majority of women arent attracted to tinder wont work for u i think

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-27T03:23:51+00:00

Reminder that women's women's insecurities comes from women (social media) and men's insecurities comes from women (porn)

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