Do women even lust men's bodies? Why don't women ever get aroused by our bodies and desire to touch them? Why don't they want to see us in tight shorts and sexy revealing clothing. Men want to feel desired and lusted for their bodies too, but it seems like our desire to be desired conflicts with the reality that women aren't visually stimulated by our bodies. I wish I could turn women on with my body by wearing revealing clothing. I want to feel desired and lusted just like how women get to be desired and lusted, but that unfortunately doesn't feel like it's a possibility because men are always told that women don't get visually aroused by our bodies which really sucks because again, men want to feel sexually desired too. It hurts hearing this and makes me feel awful inside whenever women say they just aren't turned on by male bodies. It makes me feel undesirable. Why do women's bodies get to be lusted after? Why did the creators of humans think it was a good idea to make one sex have a higher, visually stimulated sex drive and then make the other sex have a lower, non visual sex drive but then give both of them emotions and the desire to feel desirable. This would only end up making one sex feel less desirable and resentful due to the imbalance in sexual attraction.

Is my view flawed or is this unfortunately pretty much how things are?