I think a lot of men unfortunately can't establish boundaries or just look at this as though it's such a small thing to worry about so they gloss over it.

I personally don't know of any man who follows the lives of celebrities on his own accord. If they know anything about celebs, it's due to a woman chirping in his ear; maybe his wife/gf or some woman at work. In fact I'd wager that in a hypothetical universe where women didn't exist, celebrities wouldn't even be a thing.

I think the concept that some women are constantly fantasizing about what Ryan Gosling is doing at all times of the day is a massive ick, and most men don't have the courage to speak up about.