Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.

The “women can dictate men’s behavior by who she sleeps with” mindset is the biggest example of this.

1. Implying men have no accountability for their own actions.
2. Implying that men think about sex 24/7/365.
3. Implying that men have no morals, no thoughts, no ambitions, no motives outside of sex.

So is it ‘typical male behavior’ for men to commit crimes because some psycho bitch promised him sex? Wouldn’t you see that individual as dangerous if they’re willing to commit crime because a woman told him to and promised to fuck him?

Example 2 is men explaining “Women are the gatekeepers of sex”. Again, no sense of personal responsibility. Also, quite offensive to imply males are never be SA’d because “their sex answer to sex is always yes”. This goes hand-in-hand with guys congratulating guys that were guys abused by conventionally attractive female teachers.

So for all the complaints men have about women getting less trouble and how easy hot women have it, they promote it. Men promoted the idea that men will always say yes to sex and being preyed on by a hot woman is a blessing, not disgusting.

Third one, a sense of entitlement.

1. Acting like not getting laid is a societal injustice. (“nice guys finish last!”)
2. Thinking sex is a trophy for good behavior; showing a similar problem to example 1. (“I did what Im suppose to but the guys who didnt what they’re suppose to got rewarded!”)
3. Constantly blackmailing women with lack of safety for not sleeping with ‘good men’. (“A child not embrace by the village will be burn down for its warmth”, “If men arent entilted to sex, then women arent entilted to safety!”)
4. Getting upset that women will put their child before a man. (“Why would I want a woman that wont make me her main priority?”

Pretending sexlessness is a real issue.

1. Never saying “I WANT sex”. No, calling it a need in an attempt to invoke pity.
2. Comparing a lack of sex to oppression, abuse, and actual human tragedies.
3. In additions to points 1 and 2, fueling a sense of entitlement that society fix their ‘problem’.

Seriously, why would I want to be around men if their ‘typical’ behavior is to act like brats when their penis isnt touched? At that point, I’d be better off with an asexual/feminized man.

If you don’t want male sexuality to be seen as shameful, then do better calling out men who associate male sexuality with shameful.