The longer you are single as a man the bigger red-flag you become in the eyes of women. If they match or go on a date with a guy who doesn't have much relationship experience it is immediately treated as a red flag if not a outright deal breaker. For most women it is a sign that there is something deeply wrong with him. They have a zero tolerance policy for this, cringe at inexperience, because deep down even the woke ones expect men to fulfill the more experienced (if not leading) role in a relationship. Women's reactions toward it are similar to that of semi-liberal people I knew growing up who weren't exactly bigoted toward gays but would lose their shit if their kid were to be a homosexual or bring a gay partner home. Its simply tolerated from afar. In the end there is nothing more sus to women than a single middle aged man. You will literally be viewed as either a closeted case or a pedophile-adjenct.