Despite what women and people in general say on Reddit, no being a ''virgin'' say at the age of 29 isn't 'ok' let alone far from 'good'.

For discussions sake, I'm talking about the typical Western world (Non traditional, aka outside of religious/marriage) route of reality.

I had a taste of this reality myself being 29, losing my virginity at 27 was a battle, I HATE lying, yet I had to do just that in order to lose my virginity to a girl, why?

Because each time I was honest and shot myself in the foot that I was a virgin towards women in the past, I could see the spark of interest die out in real time as if I came out with some revelation that I'm some sort of psychopathic murderer. Wether in person you could sense a 'vibe' shift of them turning cold, or via text where the flame of replies/messages dies out completely, you get the point, a sudden sub-conscious 'ick' gets triggered.

Hence ''Theory's'' such as pre-mate selection and hypergamy in women exists and are well studied and documented as being a real thing for a reason.

Men who show they can get women on average tend to be looked at by outside women as more desirable as he is a ''safe bet''. Studies have shown taken men are more desirable, proving my above point further.

Compare that to another man that might have those EXACT same qualities as the Former man, but sucks with women, yet he will struggle a lot to get attention from women, a date, have sex whenever he wants etc.

Men live on hard mode, women live on easy mode. (For the most part) when it comes to dating. Men it's a huge numbers game and landing a few that you can choose from is not a reality for 80% of guys. Landing one was a hassle for me, yet since losing my virginity and going to therapy for 1+ year and flourished, I manage to bag women left and right.

Let me tell you that the AVERAGE women can have 10+ guys in her phone at a whims notice, hell you can even look it up on studies or those fun dating Youtube videos where a women creates a Tinder and get's matched with 100 guys in less than an hour. A FUCKING HOUR!

I didn't get a single match until 3 days, from a bot account. Two completely different realities it's not even funny.

Women on the other hand have it 'hard' choosing the right guy from a big pool. Despite women claiming they have such good 'intuition' and end up picking the ''wrong'' guy, Laugh my ass off. Don't believe what they say, believe what they do, is a RedPill truth bomb that will live rent free in my head as a golden nugget of knowledge to hold onto.

Being a virgin man, the longer you wait, the more questions arises from society as being a red flag, you want to put yourself out there > it gets increasingly difficult to do so, unless you borderline meet a 1% girl that isn't concerned about WHY you haven't lost your V -card yet at the age of 26 onwards, unless you bullshit to her face that you did in the past (Like I had to do to seal the deal). Now it's easier since I don't have to BS and put on a lying face, the answer is genuine. I have had sexual experience, the women that asks me that, is curious = positive reinforcement into a green flag in her head that I've had prior sexual connections.

That wasn't happening previously as a virgin...