Since they argue that only the hottest men can get hookups. Men think that "only a small percent of men are attractive enough to be able to get hookups". (Which they can't prove). So statistically speaking men who think only a small percent can get hookups should be aware it would be a low chance they would classify. If the standards for casual sex are THAT high.

So why then are they offended if the women they are dating will not sleep with them fast (will not hook up with them), or tells them that she wouldn't of hooked up with them?

So either; 1. Women don't actually have that high standards as they percieve and would hookup with men that aren't that good looking.

  1. Or she does actually have as high looks standards and either he does not qualify for a hookup or she doesn't do hookups for some other reason unspecified. (To be noted even in studies where women designed hookup partners they were more still more unwilling to actually hookup with them). (https://www.apa.org/monitor/apr06/attractiveness#:~:text=Sex%20and%20Sexuality,explore%20short%2Dterm%20mate%20selection.)

Which is it?

If men are comparing themselves to past partners and past hookups that is retroactive jealousy.

https://www.apa.org/monitor/apr06/attractiveness#:~:text=Sex%20and%20Sexuality,explore%20short%2Dterm%20mate%20selection.