What are positive aspects of being divorced?

Ok_Perception_1836 · 2026-05-27T18:41:27+00:00

I talk to my mom daily. She's remarried after my dad cheated on her, but her husband is controlling and getting senile, so she feels trapped and she hates going home. She tells me she envies my freedom over my money and time. There is a peace to knowing anything that needs doing is your responsibility. I used to get upset (rightfully so, I think) when I'd come home to a dirty house after working all day because she "didn't feel like cleaning today." Now I come home to an unclean house and know I deserve it since I didn't clean it.

Odd-Yoghurt1869 · 2026-05-20T21:47:54+00:00

Learning about #3 on the rules for this sub
Listening to some incredible Man Empowering Podcasts
Doing what I want when I want
I did struggle with a bit of loneliness at first, but it's never been easier to get women
Having sex with many beautiful women
Finally start traveling again
Not dreading going home
Sleeping in my own bed again

Classic_Plantain_628 · 2026-05-17T00:48:06+00:00

maybe consider this idea : meditate on the difference between love and attachment.

Old-Caramel-2301 · 2026-05-12T16:20:14+00:00

After we were divorced my credit score shot up past 800 and my car insurance is less than half. I dont "go out to eat" anymore paying for 2 people, so save a ton of money.

Old-Caramel-2301 · 2026-05-12T16:08:38+00:00

I leave the toilet seat up, and park as far away from the door of the grocery store as possible.

Basically all these little things that really meant nothing to me but every woman I've been with selfishly complained/demanded I conform to.

I'm a simple guy. I'll buy a $1 coffee at a gas station and enjoy it as much as a $5 startbucks.

I sleep on a sofa with a sleeping bag. I could get a bed and 12 pillows but i think ive realized tge main differece between men and women is men can forgoe comfort either by necessity, or just because. Women cannot and will break any mans back to get the level of comfort they desire.

It's not til she is gone that a man can realize how women are picky and selfish and while with her so many small freedoms we freely gave up to defer to her wants and "needs".

Never again. I don't even care about all these small things but it sure as hell feels good doing whatever the flip i want.

No-Tomorrow8150 · 2026-05-09T15:10:44+00:00

Freedoms priceless if you don’t waste time pining on the past. Make a plan and do things.

photo_op411 · 2026-05-08T06:04:13+00:00

I appreciate this. It gives me so much hope in my future post-divorce life.

LawfulnessSuper5091 · 2026-05-08T04:44:23+00:00

I like having my own space, less from my kids but definitely my regularly critical ex.

I've put a lot of time into my fitness and activities I enjoy like salsa.

And once I figured out how to maximise dating apps and other opportunities, going out with woman has been a delight. I would never have thought that in 2 years, in my very early 50s, I would have more lovers than I did my entire 20s before I got married, but here we are.

You'll be ok, show up for your kid and otherwise live your best life, be your best self.

OldCatDude99 · 2026-05-07T09:37:50+00:00

Positive. My chronically cheating wife isn't my problem anymore. No more worrying about STIs, where's she's at, etc.

AgeofVictoriaPodcast · 2026-05-07T09:19:50+00:00

I initiated the divorce and 2 years later I’m so glad I did.

Best things are

I wake up and feel safe

I cook what I want and take the time to make it without judgment, and follow interesting recipes. It is more a craft and passion of mine. I buy the quality tools of the trade

I bake my own bread

I eat as much or as little as I want.

I never look at the door and wonder if she will come home angry.

I can enjoy my hobbies

I can explore home decor and put things where I want

My daughter lives with me f/t and my son 50/50.

I only spend on what I want and make my own long term plans instead of wasting money on holidays etc

I can indulge my love of cedar wood scents

I am only accountable to my future self and my kids.

I bought that home cinema system and watched Star Trek 2 Wrath of Khan on 4k IHD, and it was glorious. No one said No.

Anthff · 2026-05-07T02:55:44+00:00

My home is now my sanctuary.

Everything is what I want. Everything is where I want it.

All of the messes are mine to make and clean.

All of my money is mine and all of my debt is mine.

I can stay up late. I can sleep in. I can sleep on the couch. I can have friends over. I can flirt with men and women and it’s okay.

I work extra when I want. I ask for days off when I want.

I can skip a shower. I can skip yardwork. I can skip housework.

I can be loud. I can sit there and just be quiet.

I’m allowed to be off sometimes with no judgement or punishment.

I am alone but not lonely.

I used to cringe when I put my key in the lock to come home from work. Now I breathe a sigh of relief when I close the door behind me.

Good luck out there amigo!

God-of-the-Grind · 2026-05-07T01:43:47+00:00

You can leave the seat up.

probebeta · 2026-05-06T23:56:28+00:00

Freedom. To do whatever you please, to exercise your other female options, to not have to pay for someone's lifestyle while getting not much in return, and so on and so on... Just think of it this way, if Leonardo di Caprio didn't think there's positives being single he'd probably be with someone right now for 20 years. But he isn't.

Jdatscool · 2026-05-06T23:26:42+00:00

My Warhammer collection has grown immensely. Don't have to answer to anyone, which probably has to do with the aforementioned collection.

MensDivorceCircle · 2026-05-06T23:18:35+00:00

A positive, your marriage expired, now you get to work on your own growth. You get to have more autonomy and freedom. You get to go see that band she hated, you get to sit at home in your underwear and fart as often and as loud as you want. You get to eat, what you want, when you want without someone criticizing you.

ivehn · 2026-05-06T21:02:13+00:00

Well for me, my marriage was volatile as fuck. I dont miss the having to sit on the side of the road to mentally prepare myself for possibly an argument about any random thing,

No arguments, no her always blaming me and making feel bad about myself.

If a woman throwing pussy at me, I can catch it without feeling guilty, after a sexless marriage, goddamn does it feel good to not having to turn down a sure thing just to be faithful to a terrible wife.

Best part, get to rebuold your image, do what you want to do and be who you want to be. Find a hobby and do it. You have no one nagging at you.

Its difficult, I look at the negatives too, but when I look back and see how terrible it was, I feel a little better. I am scared not having her next to me, but she was technically never there. So onward we go, Brother!

mynewromantica · 2026-05-06T19:14:49+00:00

No more conversations about everything. I want to redo the garage, I don’t have to discuss it with anyone. I want to go out to eat, I just choose and go.

Also sex. With other people.

DietznutzCA · 2026-05-06T18:08:27+00:00

Sex. With other people

ShaunyP_OKC · 2026-05-06T17:12:14+00:00

Once she's gone the benefits are everywhere, especially if she sucked.

Additional_Support91 · 2026-05-06T16:56:55+00:00

Peace, and no longer worrying about her financial issues. I wake up and do what I want to do every day.

Zoriontsu · 2026-05-06T16:52:27+00:00

Not having to constantly walk on egg shells to meet her "needs" or avoid triggering her.

Not watching myself to make sure I give her "her space"

Not missing family or friend engagements because she "doesn't feel like it" and I want to be supportive.

Responsible_Mind_206 · 2026-05-06T16:32:17+00:00

The no brainer one: Getting to fuck new women

jamdiz · 2026-05-06T16:27:40+00:00

Time and space to work on yourself. I had none of that while married.

WhydIJoinRedditAgain · 2026-05-06T16:25:56+00:00

What I am looking forward to is no longer being “wrong” when I am right.

HowManyBobs · 2026-05-06T16:06:30+00:00

No one destroying your self esteem.

MonkeyBranchBuster · 2026-05-06T14:52:50+00:00

Peace, quiet and freedom to do what and when you want. Much less stress from the ex, but new problems (financial, kids) arise. Better to be alone than in a bad marriage.

Nice_General268 · 2026-05-06T14:40:07+00:00

One positive for me is the stress is lower than it was when she was here.

BeginningProgress551 · 2026-05-06T14:37:58+00:00

I haven't raised my voice to anyone in almost a year. I wasn't really someone who yelled about anything (maybe watching football😄) before I got married but my ex-wife's family is extremely dysfunctional and everyone screamed all the time. I didn't grow up that way at all, but slowly yelling and screaming bled into me.

It's strange how quiet my life is now that there's not somebody egging me on and creating drama.

And I don't know who said it but yeah getting away from toxic in-laws before they get elderly and require a lot of care is such a win. My father-in-law was probably going to be decent although he's showing early signs of dementia to me, but my mother-in-law I might have been on one of those true crime shows when I pushed her off a cliff and tried to cover it up poorly lol

The_Subtle_Shift · 2026-05-06T14:10:54+00:00

Feeling this post, just noting to say thanks for putting it out there. 💪🏼

Training_Pumpkin3650 · 2026-05-06T13:59:32+00:00

I gave up a lot of my hobbies and interests because my x did not like them or thought they were bad for me. I got back into raving, concerts, mma, kickboxing, Muay Thai, Brazilian jiu jujitsu, rock climbing guitar cycling hiking and even reading and painting. Do and find the things that make you happy. You are also free to self express however you want without judgement.

ilikeburp · 2026-05-06T13:46:33+00:00

Not having someone that hated you all along living with you lmao.

Chance-Aspect8009 · 2026-05-06T10:02:12+00:00

The peace of mind, 100%

Recent_Impress_3618 · 2026-05-06T08:57:55+00:00

I’m in a cycling club, mostly male dominated, the tradition has been a 9.00am start for most of the guys due to family commitments.

In the winter it can be problematic due to the early morning cold.

A bunch of the divorced guys started meeting at 11.30, much more civilised.

Adam_Faith_No_More · 2026-05-06T07:35:20+00:00

I was on a mountain hike with a bunch of my mates a while back, where you could either go Wednesday to Sunday, or meet up with the rest on Friday to Sunday.

Suffice to say, all the still married guys started on the Friday, and all the divorced guys on the Wednesday. Made some of us think, you could say.

I know plenty of divorced guys who have awesome lives, doing the whole 50/50 thing. 50% to do their own things, having non live-in girlfriends and stuff. And 50% to hang with the kids, without the negativity of having a wife around.

As long as you can rest assured the kids are well taken care of when they're not with you, and there's no ongoing conflict going on, it can obviously be a pretty sweet way to live your life.

dudefromyork · 2026-05-06T06:42:55+00:00

I think 50/50 is perfect for me. I’m more present and focused when I do have my kids and I’m more available to my friends the weeks I don’t. I can say “yes” to more things without running it past committee!
I also have time to get to the gym and work on my physical and mental health.
Basically you are living for you and your kids now. Not someone else’s happiness. That weight off your shoulders is freeing. You just need to decide what to do with your freedom

IHaveABigDuvet · 2026-05-06T06:42:28+00:00

- No more staying in a relationship that harms you.

- No more expecting something from someone and getting disappointed when they let you down.

- No more strife and constant fighting.

- No constant expectations you can’t live up to.

- Setting a good example for your child about when and how to leave an unhappy relationship

- Being able to have more autonomy about how you live your life

pfzealot · 2026-05-06T05:01:12+00:00

It lowered my blood pressure and I slept better. 50/50 parenting gave me more free time too.

I get better time with my kids that has less conflict.

Immediate-Story2562 · 2026-05-06T04:41:09+00:00

I can find and be myself again now that I am older and don't have to put up with her callous pretentiousness anymore. Financially I am ruined but I will rise again from the ashes.

DadVader77 · 2026-05-06T04:04:11+00:00

Living your own life while learning what it is that makes you the person you want to be

EnvironmentalRate853 · 2026-05-06T02:33:48+00:00

I love this post. Thanks for asking it!

The most positive thing for me is not seeing divorce in a negative light. It's not a 'failed marriage'. It's not a 'broken home'. It's a fresh start with different challenges, but an opportunity to put myself and my kids first. I'm looking forward not having to invest my energy or money into the STBXW. Peace and control over my own time and life.

PostTrenchesDad · 2026-05-06T02:33:29+00:00

Your therapist is right - you need to balance the grief with what you're gaining.

Here's what I found on the other side:

Time with your son is YOURS. No distraction, no mediating someone else's mood, no wondering if you should be doing something else. When he's with you, you're fully present.

You get to build the life you actually want. Not the life you thought you were supposed to want. What you eat, how you spend weekends, what your space looks like - all yours.

You learn who you are without trying to be who she needed you to be. Hobbies you dropped. Friends you stopped seeing. Parts of yourself you forgot about - they come back.

Peace. No more walking on eggshells - this was big for me. No more managing someone else's emotions. No more tension you didn't realize was constant until it was gone.

You get to be the stable parent. Your son will remember whose house felt like home. Whose routine he could count on. Who showed up calm and consistent. Being the stable parent comes with other challenges (can talk about those if you're interested).

You rediscover what you're capable of. Cooking, managing a household, being both parents when you need to be - you're more capable than you gave yourself credit for.

The grief is real. But so is the freedom.

It gets better. Keep going.

Fit-Plenty8777 · 2026-05-06T02:28:50+00:00

A big one is getting your peace back. Not having every small decision turn into tension. Not walking on eggshells in your own place. You start hearing your own thoughts again. Another is becoming more intentional with your kids. Your time with them stops being background noise and becomes something you protect and actually build.

Outside-Jicama-8468 · 2026-05-06T02:17:16+00:00

It's the little things that make a difference.

If I wanna buy dinner instead of making it, I don't have to go through a fight just to figure it out for an hour just to hear "get whatever you want' and when I do, she refuses to eat what she orders cause she wasn't "feeling it". I get what I want and don't have to fight anyone to decide.

I get to be a better dad. Having full custody, I can see where I put them aside in my attempts to make her happy. Never again. No woman will come before my kids ever again.

I'm a horror movie fan. I can watch them whenever I want now. Don't have to watch rom coms or dramas any more. In fact, I watch a movie a week with the kids. Their choice. It's nice to have that time.

I love board games. We are trying to do a board game night a week as well. Sports and activities sometimes put a hold on that.

I am also a metal head. If I wanna listen to music, I can anytime without hearing "why do I have to listen to this garbage all the time?" Then she proceeded to put on Backstreet Boys or some pop boy band shit for the millionth time.

Financial freedom. This is a huge one for me. Only debt I have is student loans. Got out of all the debt she picked up during the marriage. Also, for the first time, since I've worked my first job at 15, my bills are paid in full and on time EVERY month and have money to spare. It's truly an amazing feeling.

I could keep going, but these are the ones that stick out most.

r1muwu · 2026-05-06T01:55:28+00:00

I have peace of mind for the first time in years I’m actually saving money and not living paycheck to paycheck. My anxiety is much less I have time to pursue hobbies and skills that I couldn’t when I had to take care of my ex.

soontobesolo · 2026-05-06T01:32:36+00:00

The best part is that you are now in control of your life and can live it in whatever ways make you happiest. That's huge!

And you can be a great dad half the time, and the other half is for you and your pleasure!

Divorce fucking rules.

saguaros-vs-redwoods · 2026-05-06T01:01:48+00:00

The obvious stuff is real (and has already been covered below): sleep in when you can, less nagging, make your own place feel like yours, stop asking permission for normal adult decisions, get real 1-on-1 time with your son, etc.

But the underrated one is this: you get control of your own financial future back.

Marriage is not just emotional. It is also a legal/financial arrangement. Depending on the state, a lot of what you earn, save, invest, or build during the marriage may be treated as marital property. A lot of guys do not really understand that until divorce forces them to, and at that point it may be decades and hundreds of thousands of dollars too late to undo the damage.

After divorce, once the damage is contained, what you build is yours again. Your paycheck. Your savings. Your retirement. Your budget. Your choices.

That does not mean “never commit again.” It just means commitment does not have to mean automatically giving someone a legal claim to half of what you built if things go bad.

Peace is great. Freedom is great. But rebuilding with clear ownership and investment in yourself and your child is probably the biggest upside.

Reasonable-Glass-965 · 2026-05-06T00:55:10+00:00

My kids a year later still haven’t fully recovered. Don’t know if they ever will. Eating issues, had potty training issues for almost 6 months after even though he had been trained for 2 years. Still won’t wipe his own ass anymore when he did before.

I’m honestly happier with my new girlfriend than I ever was with my ex wife. But that is just because she is a sweet amazing person who actually loves me and my ex hated me. 😅 got her to admit I was just the safe choice. But I only left because she wouldn’t stop fucking everyone else.

mockg · 2026-05-06T00:49:48+00:00

Currently going through a divorce and the last weekend I had without my son was in 2 years ago on the dot. I would be lying if I didnt say I am little excited for the aspect of more free time.

Jbr74 · 2026-05-06T00:46:32+00:00

And to counter the statement I will now my comprehensive list of benefits of marriage. . . . . . . . . . . . . Done.

No-Spinach-169 · 2026-05-06T00:41:54+00:00

Pretty much every dimension of life and living are enormously better after divorce.

Powerful_Physics1780 · 2026-05-06T00:35:33+00:00

The peace and quiet. Also the house doesn't smell like hippie.

Chance_Ice_7335 · 2026-05-06T00:27:18+00:00

MONEY!!! My ex was a serial spender. I’m retired and my stock portfolio is growing 3x my consumption. Zero debt

AdventurousTrash1645 · 2026-05-06T00:21:04+00:00

Nobody nagging on me when I get home from work. Nobody telling me to clean the garage.

acg34 · 2026-05-06T00:19:57+00:00

My credit rating went up over 200 points.

UnknownUsername113 · 2026-05-06T00:18:51+00:00

Man… I could go on for days.

I’m so much happier now that I’m divorced… even if it wasn’t what I initially wanted.

Being single allows me to devote all of my time to my kids. I’ve become a MUCH better dad than I ever was while married. Not that I was bad… I just prioritized the wrong things.

When I’m with my kids (50/50), it’s 100% them. I go to all their games and practices, even if mom skips them. I’m involved with school and do tons of stuff with them.

When I’m not with my kids, I can do whatever I want. Most of that time is dedicated towards learning new skills or spending extra hours on my business.

I save a lot of money being single. Sure, I have all the house costs to myself, but I’m cheap. I put more money in the bank now than I ever did with her.

I don’t have to see her parents.

I’m allowed to be creative in my house. She never let me decorate even though I own a high end remodeling company and work with designers regularly. On top of that I was in gifted arts programs my entire childhood. My kids tell me how much they like my house more than moms because my house looks nice.

I prioritize projects on the home based on what I value, not her.

I don’t have to cook every night. And when I do cook, I can eat ribeye every night.

No more high insurance rates because she was a terrible credit risk and driver.

Maybe I can stop there, lol.

Frosty_Wrongdoer7256 · 2026-05-06T00:17:48+00:00

I think it’s really personal. I’m not divorced yet, but looking ahead for it’s not having to live with a person who abuses prescription drugs, drives drunk, lies and gaslights me and generally makes me sad.

Regurgitator001 · 2026-05-06T00:16:31+00:00

https://youtu.be/qGN1a4fN2sg?si=uTEYUkwQKdZ5T5a4 Truer words were never spoken (well, the first half at least 🤣). You got this, brother.

Constant_Society8783 · 2026-05-06T00:14:18+00:00

This question depends on howvyour marriagevwas if it was contentious ans full of nagging/dispute or if your wife was very controlling at times divorce can leave one with a feeling of freedom and less weight on one shoulders.

TheWritePrimate · 2026-05-06T00:06:02+00:00

I’d rather have shared life with a good partner, but that wasn’t my ex wife before we divorced anyway. Divorce is fine. Just don’t be one of those guys who gets married again. 😂

BuddhistChrist · 2026-05-06T00:04:14+00:00

A peaceful, non-toxic home. No compromising with anyone. Don’t have to share a space (no more cohabitating). If I want something I just get it. My idea of a vacation is sitting in the middle of nowhere in Iceland in the dead of winter trying to photograph a starry night for a few hours. Very few people would consider that fun. My ex certainly would not. I’m at peace in my own skin and I work on trying to better myself, whatever that looks like. Getting a divorce was probably one of the best decisions I’ve ever made for myself.

Repl-Rex · 2026-05-05T23:58:35+00:00

For me, it's a constant battle for finances. You don't have to worry about that anymore -- go ahead and buy that thing you wanted; no approvals, no bickering, no discussion. As long as you can afford it, get it.

My wife grew up "poor" so every purchase became "do we have enough to buy that??" (the answer was always "yes, I wouldn't buy it if I couldn't afford it").

kg110569 · 2026-05-05T23:54:10+00:00

Hey I used to watch movies or shows and see a couple who really loved each other and thought man I’ll never get to experience that. It’s now back on the table and I think that’s a really cool thing that now has potential in this new life.

Oh and now I can golf as much as I want!

aardy · 2026-05-05T23:53:08+00:00

The only thing I'll add that hasn't already been mentioned: travel/vacation.

Either solo, or with the kids, either way it's a shit ton better than it was in the marriage.

suspicious_bag_1000 · 2026-05-05T23:50:38+00:00

Once you end the relationship that’s not working it provides and opportunities to focus energy entirely on parenting (and co parenting)

Sad-Feeling-4266 · 2026-05-05T23:41:11+00:00

Energy levels, physical, and mental health have significantly improved.

SeaweedWeird7705 · 2026-05-05T23:35:22+00:00

No more arguments. Buy what I want when I want. Do what I want when I want. Peace and quiet. Sleep in when I want. Nobody trying to boss me around. No more of his smelly socks.

EmotionSix · 2026-05-05T23:30:36+00:00

Independence

0neMinute · 2026-05-05T23:21:30+00:00

Ever take care of all needed responsibilities and still get told to do nothing around the house? I’m talking cooking, cleaning, feeding the kids, getting them to and from school, shower, paying 90% of all bills and still being told you’re useless? I don’t hear it anymore and it took me about 6 months to a year before i realized it, no one is calling me useless. Its wonderful

dukeofthefoothills1 · 2026-05-05T23:20:01+00:00

There is no longer a person in my face who is constantly angry and difficult. There is peace. There is silence.

Going out to eat used to be an ordeal. The debate was excruciating. Now I get in the car before I’ve even decided where I’m going. No debates; no negotiation.

She didn’t like when I made a large meal with leftovers. Now I can make a huge portion and eat on it all week long if I want.

I really miss my Japanese automated bidet toilet and rain shower. I don’t miss her at all!

I’m paying 50% more renting a condo than I was on the home mortgage, yet my investment accounts are soaring.

Mister_Vandemar · 2026-05-05T23:13:29+00:00

My house is cleaner, I’m less stressed, and my expenses are lower.

RunPeaceRun · 2026-05-05T23:04:34+00:00

Maybe having a time to do things you sacrificed or postponed because of marriage and kids. For me it was travel and making own plans.

Slowloris81 · 2026-05-05T23:00:12+00:00

Here’s one: Not having to live with a toxic person who poisons your home and very existence.

There’s more but that’s enough for me.

IAPiratesFan · 2026-05-05T22:56:46+00:00

No sitting in the car mentally preparing to enter the house.
No wondering what kind of mood she’ll be in.
I got more sex after 2 months with a new girlfriend than I did the previous six years combined.
I was able to reconnect with friends my ex-wife didn’t like.
Pizza any night I want it.

HistoricalRich280 · 2026-05-05T22:55:01+00:00

If your therapist is recommending it, your marriage is probably taking an invisible and slow toll on your overall health. It can take untold time to recover.

painfulletdown · 2026-05-05T22:52:27+00:00

The worse your marriage was, the better divorce becomes. I'm not religious, but it's a real blessing. You have much more control to take naps or sleep longer without wife purposely preventing you from getting sleep. You can eat whatever you want to. Pretty much full parenting control. Can do whatever recreation you want to without interference, guilt trips, or complaining. Can invite friends over, decorate how ever you want to, play whatever music. Do really fun stuff with the kids that baby mama would never allow. No asinine or illogical spending. Absence of most negativity and verbal abuse. Hope of being with a great significant other in the future. No dreading coming home after work. I could go on for a few more paragraphs but if you are thinking about it, I don't think you will regret it at all. The earlier you divorce the better also.

Venum555 · 2026-05-05T22:48:18+00:00

I got divorced 5 months ago. I now have peace and more money since I'm more if a saver. I have started exercising more. I have less chores as I moved from a house to an apartment. I'm in a walkable neighborhood so I get out more. I can plan for a future since I don't have to deal with someone that doesn't know what they want. I can cook the meals I want to eat and not the ones we want to eat.

mesi130 · 2026-05-05T22:42:23+00:00

Peace, come and go as you please, work as much as you want, no sks, my kids feel comfortable now at my house.

HorroRose-13 · 2026-05-05T22:39:25+00:00

I'm no longer told I'm not right in condescending tones. I got back into gaming some.

Way less arguments. Less money spent on dumb shit. I can spend time doing stuff I put off so someone else is isn't pissed about something.

The silence is peaceful.

Only thing I miss is intimacy. Regular sex was nice til that dropped off a cliff several years ago.

Puzzleheaded-Loan238 · 2026-05-05T22:37:20+00:00

The experience. I know, sounds dumb, but if you go through it and once the dust settles, its great life experience.

ComprehensiveWork451 · 2026-05-05T22:36:09+00:00

The utility bill drops 80% across the board

Still-Pie6253 · 2026-05-05T22:33:19+00:00

No arguing, less stress, no hypocrisy in your home

AssistantActive9529 · 2026-05-05T22:27:33+00:00

Your bank account will magically get bigger because you don’t buy useless crap

What are positive aspects of being divorced?

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Title	What are positive aspects of being divorced?
Author	YouDoHaveValue
Upvotes	66
Comments	137
Date	May 5, 2026 10:26 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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