Hello ladies,

I’m fairly new to FDS but I believe I have some dating advice for women.

I work as a nurse in a sexual health clinic where we do testing for sexually transmitted diseases. The clinic serves EVERYONE regardless of gender or sexual identity (we pride ourselves in being inclusive). My advice for you ladies today is:

DO NOT TRUST HIM WHEN HE SAYS HE’S BEEN TESTED.

  1. Many LVM who come to my clinic rely on women’s STI screenings for “results”. Before coming into my clinic they always have to respond to questions about how many partners they have in total and how many in the last month. MAJORITY of them have slept with over 10 woman in the past month. The next question asked is “how often do you use a condom?” Again, 95% of the straight men’s responses are “never”. In almost all straight single men we find chlamydia, gonorrhea or both.

  2. If you’re not seeing proof of a negative STI test don’t do it. On average men only get tested once every 10 years. I have seen multiple men come to see me for screenings and come to find out the last time they were tested was 5 years ago. I’m telling you from a personal and professional stand point to not believe a word he says.

Please stay safe ladies.