current trends in Purple pill subreddit

Gomdgomd · 2023-04-03T18:55:47+00:00

That's the entire society lol they be talking about 80-20 on CNN now

The goalposts are being rushed off the field

gofigure62 · 2023-04-03T18:25:19+00:00

This sub gets repetitive and it's annoying having the same conversations over and over and over again. People will demand statistics/research and never bother to actually read what you spend time providing the resources for.

People in this sub also willfully misconstrue what's being said or the point trying to be made.

You also have people here with chips on their shoulder regarding the opposite sex and use this sub to take out aggression on other people for whatever negative experience they had.

It just get's old after a while and if you attempt to argue in good faith it largely goes nowhere. Anyone who isn't red/black pill ends up leaving or taking long breaks because nothing new gets discussed. And frankly many of the users are annoying as fuck.

Steakman1 · 2023-04-03T18:08:53+00:00

People that aren’t struggling or haven’t struggled are not as incentivized to participate in communities like this. And people that are currently struggling are more likely to be vocal about their issues than those who are no longer struggling. A methodology, or “toolbox” as TRP’ers like to call it, that prioritizes men’s wants and desires over women’s is going to be more attractive to men who are struggling.

DzejSiDi · 2023-04-03T23:00:43+00:00

Any links to "women hating" posts? Because right now in front of my eyes I see another incel-bashing. Wtf is even "incel culture", they have their own terminology and lingo, not culture.

This subreddit is not middle of the road, redpill posts are more upvoted than not indeed, but it's still not the same as forums.red.

MajesticPenisMan · 2023-04-04T02:27:07+00:00

“Created for”

The sub was created for discussion.

New_Hat8820 · 2023-04-03T19:21:31+00:00

Well the truth is that the majority of young dudes in America are struggling with dating on a regular basis, and other men in other countries/regions ie. Asia, Latin America, Eastern Europe, Africa etc don’t experience these issues. So naturally, considering western men are high value compared to the rest of the world (hence why western women + women around the world typically only want to date western men), it’s easy to point the finger and blame western women for the dating struggles.

I mean when an American dude goes to literally any other part of the world and has way more success than he does in America, it basically proves that the issue isn’t men or incels, it’s the western female standards.

SecondEldenLord · 2023-04-03T22:07:48+00:00

It seems to me that more and more men started to wake up to the redpill ideology. And no, redpill is not about hating on women considering women as sex objects, it's mainly about self-improvement and self love for you as a man. And what redpill does is calling out women's bad behaviour cause no one seems to do it cause it's considered "mysoginistic". No one wants to hold women accountable for their bad behaviour. No decent redpiller says "all women bad", but not all women are good either, and bluepillers don't want to even hold bad women accountable for their actions. Cannot hit back a woman, cannot insult back a woman, cannot hold a woman responsible for her actions, etc. Redpill tries to show the unwanted unattractive men how modern western women really behave in society in order to protect them and instead of chasing women, these men shoudl improve themselves physically, mentally and financially. And thus by doing all these self improvements then they can find a more traditional wife, maybe not in the west, but in the east surely.

Redpill is getting super popular for a reason, and let us admit it: the current day dating scene is a mess!!! But women don't want to admit it because they are the ones who hold the power in dating, and by admitting the dating scene is a mess, then it means their actions in the dating scene are a mess.

questioningfeminist · 2023-04-03T18:06:47+00:00

but the whole post is pretty incel inspired.

Incel is just the new virgin shaming tactic of the left that holds no meaning.

It's basically used anytime a man says anything that is not 100% positive towards women.

You're going to have to convince me that whatever post you are talking about truly encapsulates incel talking points and not just your womanly sensibilities getting easily offended because a man dared goes against the social zeitgeist that women can do no wrong, therefore he's spouting incel rhetoric.

hydro908 · 2023-04-04T01:13:03+00:00

Now almost all men have learned rp ideas long enough to see them played out in real life . That’s why you will continue to see it more

oooo020201lfl · 2023-04-03T18:00:37+00:00

You’ve seen the statistics, there’s more and more disgruntled men by the year

Eatgaumata · 2023-04-04T08:19:47+00:00

The left has bullied millions of men out of their own circles. This is a problem that being with feminists allied with leftist simps. The feminists used the simps to bully men and the simps thought they would get some pussy but in the end the simps ended up becoming a running joke.

I know so many of my friends that have gone decddes without anyone every saying anything positive about them. Then came Jordan Peterson telling young men especially men that no you're born evil and that you have something to give to the world.

revente · 2023-04-03T21:16:17+00:00

The male zoomers are much more redpilled than the previous genrations. They’ve realised that the bluepill and woke left have nothing to offer to them.

22IsThisIt22 · 2023-04-03T20:01:35+00:00

The moderators on this subreddit are very biased against anything male/redpill. Therefore it is impossible for this subreddit to lean over to the redpill side of things.

Friendly_Radio_8814 · 2023-04-03T18:54:57+00:00

isn't incel a derogative term, thus sexist and offensive?

nocomment12345 · 2023-04-03T19:15:48+00:00

I'll be honest I come here because I am alone and get some satisfaction from knowing I am not alone and having something to blame it on to warm my anger. This isn't good but it's the truth.

I think a solution would be to create a third way of people approaching dating that could possibly fix some of the new challenges that have come from modern dating.

I believe that we could really learn from both sides to create different strategies for men and women to find partners that are more effective than what currently is. Idk how to turn this sub into that though, it seems to just satisfy people's rage

despisedlove2 · 2023-04-04T00:58:51+00:00

"Created for"?

Do you mean that Leftists are finding it difficult to sustain their point without support of censorship?

Say it ain't so.

Deranged_Loner · 2023-04-03T22:01:56+00:00

Part of the problem is "blue pill" technically never existed. Red pill was the thing, blue was anti red. It never had ideology, major posters or anything like that.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-03T18:41:46+00:00

Red means black here. Purple means Red. Anything else is blue.

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2023-04-03T20:12:44+00:00

In the arena of ideas, the ideas that most correlate with reality, that best explain reality, win.

This is why long held customs, traditions and ideas get thrown out.

Could it possibly be, that RedPill is the more correct theory?

And Blue pill amounts to phlogiston?

resultsmatter1 · 2023-04-03T20:16:57+00:00

I’ve been here a few years and what you’re seeing is the evolution of the general consensus that the blue pill narrative is indeed just a narrative not based in reality.

When I first joined red pill and black pill were underground movements nerds eating cheetohs playing Warcraft talked about. Now it’s on main stream news. How can you avoid the conclusion it must be rising in numbers and thus true?

statsfodder · 2023-04-03T18:38:49+00:00

Projection... you literally did what you accuse "them" of doing with your post.

Make a claim, body of post is affirmative of claim, weak question at the end to avoid the requirements of a CMV.

Well done.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-04-03T19:10:33+00:00

You made a throwaway account just to post this?

Dude, it's a neutral community where we discuss things. If you have blue pill leaning opinions go right ahead we don't bite.

Just please avoid using the term inc3ls... at this point it's pretty much a derogatory term.

Purple_Cruncher_123 · 2023-04-03T18:31:22+00:00

The 'red pill' posts are mostly from those who don't find the conventional narrative compelling, which then leads to conversation and debate.

Someone who's already subscribed to the conventional story wouldn't have a reason to start a post. Like, I would self-classify as purple leaning blue, and I wouldn't have a reason to write "Change my view, peeps, isn't it great that women can also have jobs and careers and lead financially independent lives now?"

daddysgotanew · 2023-04-03T23:55:21+00:00

Damn I wonder why? It’s almost like the red pill reflects reality or something. They even talk about it on CNN now…..

whitehack · 2023-04-04T00:04:04+00:00

The whole idea of incels being bad is a huge misconception.

I recently joined a Facebook group for them just to observe what they’re really like and what they say and talk about. Most of them are just depressed or low self confidence. These guys aren’t ranting and raving women hating statements. They’re mostly just suffering from a deep sense of hopelessness about how to ever improve their situation.

Having said that, I do agree that this purple pill subReddit… is basically CHOCK FULL of closet incels in DISGUISE! I’ve noticed the same thing.

But they’ll try to act all tough and switch on the bravado act and say things like “hoes are hoes. Ladies are ladies” when I ask them to not refer to WOMEN with derogatory slurs.

Chemical_Major_1403 · 2023-04-04T01:12:17+00:00

What?!!!! Is that some new gaslighting think , literally every post is about kissing women's @ss🤦‍♂️

HazyMemory7 · 2023-04-04T05:47:27+00:00

Im noticing a lot of incel themes a

Like what? Can you link any threads as examples? Incel content gets removed/issued a ban and I think most people that bring this up genuinely conflate black pill and redpill content. As far as redpill being more prevalent:

There are very few spaces on reddit relating to dating/gender dynamics where men can utter a word that isn't "women are wonderful"
Most women on social media are used to engaging in echo chambers, and coming to a place like here where they will encounter ideas that are in opposition with their views is very jarring. Some of them genuinely cannot handle opposing opinions. So I really have an immense amount of respect for women who post here.

Soggy_Head_4889 · 2023-04-04T06:47:06+00:00

I notice the opposite. This sub seems way more blue than redpilled to me.

__I____ · 2023-04-04T08:07:31+00:00

Then post better.

KnifeWieldingRoomba · 2023-04-04T08:52:35+00:00

Well, maybe that's the side winning the discussion.
You could consider other explanations. Like, maybe the blue pilled ones find more partners and therefore leave the sub in larger quantity. Over time more red pilled men might be entering because they feel more need to vent / are the ones still looking for solutions. Possible, but than one might sooner or later see some data indicating this.

If you discuss something repeatedly over a longer timeframe it should be expected and desired for a consensus to emerge. Do you want to be "neutral" in the sense of both sides get the same chance to prove themselfs or "neutral" in the way that a neutral outcome has to be achieved first and foremost? Want more BluePilled posts? Find some data that withstands inquiry.

SeemedGood · 2023-04-03T18:05:36+00:00

Could be that via discussion people are discovering and coalescing around what is actually true.

Is that not the point of the sub?

Broad_Coconut_4757 · 2023-04-04T02:38:40+00:00

From someone who doesn't even know what the pill means, it seems like everyone here just uses this as a spot to complain about dating things lmfao

SeaSquirrel · 2023-04-04T17:01:56+00:00

Its been this way for years.

Its why its way more fun to be blue here, rather than some lame ass purple centrist.

RememberToEatDinner · 2023-04-03T20:07:21+00:00

I just found this subreddit and I'm honestly kind of freaked out about how fully red pill it appears to be. I'm trying to comment some to balance it a little, but I'm not sure that it makes that much sense to stick around.

AnUnstableNucleus · 2023-04-03T18:51:22+00:00

The internet in general becomes more extreme and polarizing over time. This sub is no different.

enzoGrimm22 · 2023-04-03T19:40:15+00:00

More like leaning heavily to Black Pill side of things. But I dont complain, its really funny and entertaining reading all the batshit crazy posts that are constantly flowing here. Great entertainment.

SkatemanJohn · 2023-04-03T18:03:07+00:00

The point of this forum is a gender war and men always win.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-04-03T19:38:18+00:00

They had to close trp and incel sub because it was turning violent, so the guys don’t have anywhere else to go and they’ve been banned so often they’re learned how to basically bash women but get away with it

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2023-04-03T22:46:43+00:00

This sub definitely leans in favour of red pill, it always has done, if you look back some years ago, however, it is MUCH less of a red pill echo chamber now, even if it still has a bias.

Red pill is very theoretical and has an element of attracting the "terminally online", it isn't any surprise the rest of us can't keep up.

Existing-Sign4804 · 2023-04-03T18:19:13+00:00

I think it’s to do with the approaches of the different mentalities. There’s people who do genuinely want to hear both sides and try to understand and help. But it’s impossible when perfectly reasonable arguments are constantly rebutted with dug in stupidity. I’m one of those. I’ve been here about a week. I’ve commented dozens of times, on various posts. Sometimes there’s a good discussion. Most of the time it degenerates almost immediately into entitlement, pity parties, and cries of “but it’s not fair, cause chad!!!” I’ll probably stop commenting soon and eventually stop reading. But all the guys who are doing that will stay and continue trying to shout down every reasonable argument. So naturally, over time, there will be more RPs here than there are people who want to help.

obviousredflag · 2023-04-04T12:31:56+00:00

The red pill changed and is now used as a legitimization tool for all kinds of pseudoscience or straight up traditionalist propaganda. What people summarize under the red pill no longer stands for science and truth. So there is no place to discuss any of this, because people are not interested in getting to the truth anymore. They are looking for confirmation of their beliefs.

social_mule · 2023-04-03T22:22:58+00:00

PPD is a poorly moderated, circle jerking, race baiting shithole masquerading as a neutral forum to debate/discuss gender dynamics and modern dating/relationships. Get out while you can.

AquaChip · 2023-04-03T19:17:05+00:00

They do that so they’re taken seriously. Just like there are people on here who claim to hate both genders equally or “no pill” but 90% of their posts and comments are ragging on women.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-04-03T21:55:56+00:00

Almost every thread started here has bottom line of 'women bad' somehow and any CMV never wants it changed and just wants to keep saying they are right.

LupeDyCazari · 2023-04-03T21:26:05+00:00

Yeah, it's getting annoying. The other day there was even a dude who claimed to be 6'1'' and 190lbs at 11% body fat and he was saying the only women who approach him are obese and that the slim and pretty women completely ignore him.

Even when these dudes look like greek gods, they still find a reason to complain. I dunno man, there's a lot of teen angst coming off from dudes in their early 20's to mid 20s, it's so weird, and how they talk about how Chad is a douchebag and a jerk, and then they complain about noe being able to act like the Chad they fear so much, and then they talk about how they are going to go to some poverty-stricken County to get with women.

There was a dude in some random thread that I forgot that was saying that men from the west should move to Asia or whatever in mass and to keep company to the daughters and sisters and wives of the local men, and how the west should import women from aboard but keep the men from entering the borders.

it was so creepy, and I'm a dude! I can't imagine some woman from India or the poorest regions in China reading that.

neetykeeno · 2023-04-04T01:11:56+00:00

Yes.

Eventually it will be so much that way here that the subreddit gets banned...thus being datapoint #746389028272 in the relentless acumulation of evidence about how certain dudes ruin all they touch and how therefore it is extremely wise for a woman not to let them touch her.

KayRay1994 · 2023-04-03T23:33:18+00:00

this sub goes through loops - right now it seems to be “why isn’t my dating resume good enough”, next we’ll move on to “women’s standards are too high” then probably loop back to “why can’t i date a girl who’s 20 years younger than me?” - at least, that’s my impression of this sub the whole time i’ve been on it

ProfessorRemusLupin · 2023-04-04T05:02:32+00:00

So glad to see this post, thanks OP 👏 Thought it was just me, but glad to hear the extremism down one side of this ‘neutral’ community isn’t going unnoticed. Post after post seems to be about how women - every one of us, apparently, just going about our daily lives - should be held accountable for the rejection that some men experience. It’s… frightening.

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Mrs_Drgree · 2023-04-03T19:45:00+00:00

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thisreallyisnotok · 2023-04-04T21:50:13+00:00

Nowadays criticizing women is considered misogynistic. Thank god that’s just an opinion and you can just say “sorry you feel that way”

Title	current trends in Purple pill subreddit
Author	Flat_Plankton_8123
Upvotes	74
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Date	April 3, 2023 5:55 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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