Daily Community Chat Megathread

angels-fan · 2021-11-29T02:46:00+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/antiwork/comments/r4f9an/finally_decided_id_had_enough_of_my_pos_boss_on/

Good god reddit has the most naive users on the planet.

How the fuck is this OBVIOUSLY fake text chat get 52k upvotes??

This retarded antiwork sub gets the exact same formula text chat every Sunday.

Someone calls in sick/quits

Boss needs you to come in

You scheduled this time off months ago and you aren't coming in

Boss is shocked by your tone! You better come in or you'll be sorry!

I quit!!

Wait wait... Let's not be hasty.

Be better reddit.

nessaea-blue · 2021-11-29T02:30:58+00:00

anyone here took some time of their young adulthood to work odd jobs you were way over qualified for? Like, being a waitress, teacher, bartender, baker, photographer, etc.

How was it?

Embarrassed-Cap-1718 · 2021-11-29T02:27:39+00:00

got 135 for 7 on the Overhead Press

https://youtube.com/shorts/QouljtvJnL0?feature=share

what does everyone mean when they say they’re in shape here? is that cardio or lifting or both for you?

WilliamWyattD · 2021-11-29T01:55:46+00:00

Funny thought. Women in real life and media wear makeup. Men in media wear makeup. The only people not wearing make up are men in real life.

I wonder what kind of impact this has.

FizzleMateriel · 2021-11-29T01:17:08+00:00

A lot of liberal-leaning women seem to be into ethical non-monogamy which adds credence I think to the concept of hypergamy and the Alpha/Beta paradigm.

buffin-big-bowls · 2021-11-29T00:22:44+00:00

Q4A would you rather have a thot daughter or an incel son?

Tough one but I’d have to go with incel. Worst case scenario the incel kills himself, but the worst case scenario for the thot is getting knocked up at like 14. There’s the possibility of the incel going on a killing spree I guess, but that’s exponentially slimmer than your thot daughter getting knocked up at a young age.

Edit: I change my mind, I wouldn’t know because I’m not a parent but having your child commit suicide is the worst nightmare for a parent. Thot daughter all day

Mark_Freed · 2021-11-28T23:43:52+00:00

One of the best lines ever

I don’t want to marry him for his money, I want to marry him for your money

video on YouTube

chilikettlechips · 2021-11-28T23:40:43+00:00

Q4A: How would you rate you and your partner's libido. Who has the higher one? What's your ideal # a week for making the beast with two backs and how often do you compromise on it?

angels-fan · 2021-11-28T23:40:13+00:00

Q4W: How do you transport your sex toys?

Do you just thrown them in your luggage?

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2021-11-28T22:35:10+00:00

Why do people use pick me as an insult? What if a pick me was happy?

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2021-11-28T21:36:36+00:00

Why do I read these articles? I know there isn’t gonna be a shred of actual insightful commentary.

If you look at this author, she seems to be obsessed with talking about men’s experiences, giving men advice, responding to male comments, etc. She talks about dating a lot, actually. It’s obviously a thinly veiled method of ranting, but still, why post it on such an open platform? Why not just come to a place like this and shout into the void?

My question is… why? Who are these articles really for? And why can’t I pull my eyes away from the schlock?

It’s like gambling, except I know the machine is rigged to never put out a win. I just like watching the lights flash and the minutes tick by.

I promise I’ll lay off of the ragebait from here on out, but damn, this shit is just so sad and I can’t look away.

Skeleton_Sceptre · 2021-11-28T21:20:46+00:00

~~oink~~

*this post has been edited to spare the feelings of our ~~fellow female redditors~~ collective members

Cant_stop_wont_st0p · 2021-11-28T20:41:26+00:00

Hear me and rejoice

It is possible to go from incel to high tier through self improvement. I started my journey 4 years ago and am only just starting to get a taste of the success. Getting attention from women younger me would have thought impossible. And no, i’m not tall, i’m an average height minority. It takes time, but it gets better. Spit out that blackpill

Do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it.

catsinbananahats · 2021-11-28T20:34:39+00:00

People with no friends in high school are superior to those who had friends.

Why?

We don't get homesick.

madsskayyy · 2021-11-28T20:17:57+00:00

Met up with some old HS friends for lunch today and we reminisced about high school and now college since we’re all about to graduate.

That whole discussion made me think of incels in PPD complaining about sexlessness but I feel like missing out not having sex would be least of my worries.

But missing out on underage drinking in HS, parties with friends playing dumb games, rooftop hopping, spring break with friends, teen love, prom ask outs, and college game night after parties. It feels like even if a guy is a “late bloomer” and gets a gf at 23-24, he’s missed out on a lot of socialization in his teen years probably that he won’t be able to get back. That would make me sadder than the simple act of being a virgin through college.

So most incels aren’t just missing out on sex. But the simple experience of being young and reckless😪

throwaway213091345 · 2021-11-28T20:10:11+00:00

Men fuck themselves over when it comes to emotional support.

Since men refuse to talk to other men about anything other than getting drunk and sports, they place the burden on any female figure in their life. Me and every single decent looking woman I know has had a male friend that started off very clearly platonic (because the woman has an SO or no immediate attraction from one side), and this friend ends up falling for us because we are an ear for them. Then we have to cut it off. Then they’re alone in their thoughts all over again until they burden the next female friend or partner.

Slipthe · 2021-11-28T19:37:12+00:00

I'm really bad at getting Christmas gifts for my parents. My mom buys everything she wants.

angels-fan · 2021-11-28T17:58:03+00:00

One thing I really hate is the whole "men don't seek help for their problems, that's why they commit suicide more".

Where, exactly, should a homeless man, with barely enough money to eat, go to "seek out help"?

I really don't think most men that are spiraling into suicide are like "nah, therapy is for pussies". They'd gladly get help if there was help available for them.

It simply isn't available.

zyramain69 · 2021-11-28T17:29:56+00:00

TIL Sperm banks have a height requirement

chilikettlechips · 2021-11-28T17:24:00+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/comics/comments/r41uvk/9_to_5_to_2005/

Weird that some people don't get it. I wonder what life is like for people that need explaining.

angels-fan · 2021-11-28T16:26:58+00:00

My wife last night: "That black shirt you were wearing turned me on so bad!"

Women's turn ons are weird.

StacksFifthAve · 2021-11-28T16:03:17+00:00

Even females are acknowledging pre selection now; that’s kind of wild

Well, either it’s wild or it’s actually just real and y’all be in here lying your asses off.

Every_Breakfast1246 · 2021-11-28T15:25:41+00:00

women are not always the gatekeepers of sex. High libido woman/low libido man relationships are more common than you think.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-11-28T15:03:33+00:00

You ever spoke to someone online where you two would definitely be dating or at the very least fucking if distance wasn't an issue?

raises hand

That feeling sucks

Edit: I just remembered something to make it even worse! Said person actuallyused to live like a few miles from me but then had to move several stages away JUST after we started talking.

annabeelongx · 2021-11-28T14:55:54+00:00

Honestly why do things like sleepovers even exist? Especially if one doesn’t know the family.

rivetcitymayor · 2021-11-28T14:31:27+00:00

Q4M/W: when you go to the gym, which muscles you focus on most ?

LalaTheSecond · 2021-11-28T14:03:48+00:00

I'm kind of surprised at all the women force the monogamy thoughts. I've known many guys who get jealous of the idea of other men being with the woman they care about or really want. I don't think they could handle non-monogamy very well.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-11-28T03:51:57+00:00

What I always find hilarious is when men go on about being used for their money and resources, a lot of the rhetoric from women is "well you chose to do that", etc., ( and I agree with that for the most part)

But so often I hear women talk about the "being used for sex" talking point over and over again, with not a whole lot of responsibility attached to it, but it's what's expected lol

SeaSquirrel · 2021-11-28T05:29:42+00:00

As I'm late to the post about women outearning their partners and those partners having higher cheating rates, I'll post my comment here.

From the article the OP linked:

Munsch reviewed data from the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth collected between 2001 and 2011 on married people ranging in age from 18 to 32 years. The data showed that, on the whole, approximately 15% of the men who were completely financially dependent on their wives had affairs. That’s roughly 3% more than the average married man in the same data set. While it's not an earth-shattering difference statistically, but couple-by-couple it can certainly be marriage-shattering.

There's a huge difference between a couple where both partners are employed and a woman makes more and a couple where a man is fully dependent on a woman financially. I'd guess that besides men who can't hold a job due to some health issues a lot of these dependent guys are close to a male equivalent of gold diggers. It isn't surprising that they cheat more than men who don't view their partners just as their financial resource.

annabeelongx · 2021-11-28T06:02:54+00:00

Got my Amazon package stolen off my porch today, failed an exam, and caught a cold. Anyone have a toaster I can borrow? Mine appears to be waterproof.

annabeelongx · 2021-11-28T02:37:26+00:00

Q4M: what is an actual satisfactory answer to “what do you bring to the table?”

We know you don’t want us to say our degrees, characters, sex, education, cooking skills, life-partner, car, apartment, or love since you guys obviously don’t “care” about that. So, then, what is an answer you’re looking for?

NalkaNalka · 2021-11-28T04:00:17+00:00

Guys who wax lyrical about tight vaginas. You do know that if a girl's vagina is very tight it most likely means you are not getting her aroused right?

Have you thought that through?

Slipthe · 2021-11-28T04:12:15+00:00

My aunt genuinely posted this on Facebook.

So, Im in the process of making something for my church. It envolves the use of a glue gun. Every time I burn my skin off, (which has been frequent, I cant help but think that Hell is much hotter than that. You DONT want to wind up there. You DO have a choice!

Also brimstone AKA hell has a melting point of 235°F. So hell is actually less hot than that, in order to keep the brimstone intact.

ashpr0ulx · 2021-11-28T13:36:28+00:00

I've made the cake tres leches todays. A sponge cake saturated with a mix of condensed milk, evaporated milk and cream with some wiped cream on the top. Really really good.

Reoblivion · 2021-11-28T03:50:13+00:00

If I can’t sleep with a milf, what has all of this been for, what have I been working toward?

Fleischpeitsch · 2021-11-28T09:37:22+00:00

Why do TRPers seem to think that the existence of an analogy is proof that it's true?

GridReXX · 2021-11-28T12:52:20+00:00

I never understood the loose vaginas logic.

Let’s say a woman fucked 8 different guys sporadically over 3 years. Inconsistent sex. Probably had sex 22x over that few years.

Let’s say another woman had one partner in that three years who she fucked often and deeply. Let’s say they had sex 438x over that few years.

If I believed vaginas “got loose,” it’s the woman having consistent passionate penetrative sex that’s vulnerable.

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-11-28T02:03:41+00:00

First 🥂

madsskayyy · 2021-11-28T02:47:09+00:00

I am in Atlanta and tried renting a car and couldn’t because I am “too young.”

Age discrimination in America needs to be stopped‼️

SeaSquirrel · 2021-11-28T03:07:55+00:00

Does anyone else read this sub and feel like most of the observations made here don’t reflect their personal life at all?

Like according to this subreddit my relationship should be doomed. People I know who this sub would diagnose as forever alone are either getting laid or in happy relationships. Due to hypergamy men are supposedly being forced to date down, but after looking through my instagram and my SO’s instagram, we found only girls who were “dating down”.

Whats going on here?

-Giga- · 2021-11-28T08:15:00+00:00

Does the US have an active and succesful version of those japanese hosts clubs with male servers and talent that are actually good at being attractive and talk to women?

If we don't have it we should really do it, how does someone invest in something like that.

There can be manlets but it would be a fetish and they would be facially elite.

So really, I'm curious if this is a thing. Fuckboys could be put to good use bc some of them know how to speak to women. I dont want that "male stripper" dumb shit at the center of it though. When have you ever seen a "male stripper" that seemed truly hetero and like this wasnt just his second job after a gay club

What if they were paid, as a standard, like $$$. This place would pull gifted men who can be a respite from real life. The modern woman wouldnt need to larp, she could just have her type come chat and play good bf or dog or whatever

I'm spitpalling here. Is this a thing? Japanese people are always doing clever shit.

throwawayescort12 · 2021-11-28T02:09:20+00:00

Why do people say yes to a date then ghost you? Why can't they just say no in the first place

Reoblivion · 2021-11-28T03:31:41+00:00

Yo, I’m drinking. Anyone else?

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-11-28T03:02:43+00:00

I’m watching the Epstein documentary on Netflix, and there’s footage of one of the detectives walking into his (the detective’s) house

His dog runs up as the front door is opening, except … the dogs body is blurred. Not it’s face or tail. Just the Pomeranian body

Bizarre

FizzleMateriel · 2021-11-28T11:26:46+00:00

Every now and then I’ll open Tinder and swipe through it and get this weird feeling I live in a parallel universe where all single women are young skinny beach blondes who seem to be perpetually single.

I find myself wondering if they ever even meet anyone or they just enjoy seeing how many likes and matches they get.

angels-fan · 2021-11-28T03:20:53+00:00

Go Cougars!

BYU women's soccer going to the final 4 in Santa Clara!!

See you in Cali!

Mark_Freed · 2021-11-28T03:34:44+00:00

If you love someone should you be selfish and hold on and try your best to make them see your best side or .....

Do you think for them, and let them go so they can find someone better than you?

rosesonthefloor · 2021-11-28T03:52:03+00:00

I thought I saw a post around the idea of “if he wanted to, he would” on here, but I didn’t get a chance to read it and now I can’t find it. Am I crazy or did that happen lol?

deste_eloise · 2021-11-28T05:51:43+00:00

What is everyone’s fitness/gym routine? How often do you workout, how long is each session? How do you mix cardio and strength?

I need inspiration! I’m building a home gym and debating what to include.

rainbowsuperstar · 2021-11-28T06:10:00+00:00

So I finally got around to watching the show "You" this weekend and what can I say, I'm in. I wanted to watch it with my ex but he thought it sounded stupid. Do guys honestly not like this show? I don't see why they wouldn't, it's just good entertainment.

In_a_Dilemma__ · 2021-11-28T11:28:18+00:00

I (26M) am really tempted to be friends with benefits with this girl (22F), but I don't know if I am making the right choice.

Brace yourselves, this is gonna be a really long one. So usually on Saturday evenings, I (26M) visit this small dog park right next to my apartment. About 2 months ago, I was playing catch with my dog sitting on the park bench and this girl (22F), lets call her Emily, is also sitting on one of the benches and she’s crying. I could see that she was upset so I didn’t disturb her. After a while she stops crying and then comes and sits next to me. She then asks me if she could play with my dog and me being sympathetic and knowing that she was upset, said yes. At this point I noticed how beautiful she was. She was stunning - perfect 10/10. She played with my dog for a while and then we both made small talk for a little while. After that, she looked at her phone and then for some reason started tearing up. I asked if she was okay and then consoled her and while I was doing that, she came onto me and kissed me. This was surprising to me because 1) She was just crying & 2) I am not that attractive so I’m not used to such beautiful women coming onto me. Tempting as it was, I put all my effort into rejecting her kiss and told her that she was upset and I didn’t want to take advantage of that. She told me I was a really nice person and then left. Then the very next day, I was at the park and saw her again but this time she seemed a bit more cheerful. She told me that it was really nice of me to not take advantage of her and that I was the first person who rejected a kiss from her. All the while she’s talking, all I could think of was how hot she was. Then she said that she really wants to thank me for consoling her the previous day and she wanted to buy me a drink. I politely refused saying that it wasn’t necessary but she was adamant and so I said okay. I told her that my apartment was nearby and before leaving for the bar I wanted to leave my dog there. She followed me back to the apartment and me being chivalrous, asked her if she wanted to come in. She said okay but at this point I was thinking that she was just being polite and nothing was going to happen.

We enter my apartment and she sits on the sofa in the living room. I get her some water and then sit on the sofa next to her. She drinks the water and then immediately she leans over and starts kissing me. This time, I give in (I’m only a man) and we both make out for like 5 minutes before moving to the bedroom. We had amazing, incredible sex. She's 100 times more beautiful naked and I couldn’t believe that this was happening to me. During sex, I was about to climax and I warned her. She immediately jumped off my dick and told me that she wanted me to cum in her mouth. Before I could react, she started sucking my dick like mad and within seconds I came in her mouth. Here’s the bizarre part - after I cum, she reaches over to her phone and then takes a selfie with her mouth open so that my cum is visible on her tongue. I noticed her doing that but I was just reveling in the aftermath of the orgasm that I didn't ask her anything about it. Moreover I wasn't in the picture, so I wasn't very concerned. After that we went for another round and this time, while she’s riding me, she reaches over to her phone again. She sets up her phone so that it is recording her riding me. This time I was a little bit concerned and I asked her about it. She told me that it is only recording her and that she would delete it immediately afterwards. I was mid-coitus, (I was thinking with my penis) so I said okay and continued having sex. After we both finished, I told her that I was uncomfortable with her recording us. She said okay and then deleted the video. I asked her if she usually does stuff like that and she said no. It was the first time she had ever recorded herself during sex. I thought that was very odd but did not think much of it. We both cuddled for a few minutes afterward and then she went into the bathroom to take a shower.

After the shower she tells me that she is gonna call a cab. I said okay and then she said that she would let herself out, so I can go ahead and do whatever I want. So, I hop into the shower and in like 2 minutes, I could hear her on the phone shouting and arguing with someone. I didn’t think much of it but soon her argument became so loud that I thought it would disturb the neighbors. I immediately jumped out of the shower and I quickly dried myself and went to the living room. She was in tears. I asked her what was wrong but she refused to tell me. I could see that she was really upset so I stopped asking questions and just comforted her and she cried in my arms for a while. After that, she asked me if she could spend a couple more hours at my place because the keys to her place were with her friend and she could only meet her after 2 hours. I genuinely felt bad for her so I said okay. We ordered dinner, made small talk and then watched some TV. After about 90 minutes, I asked her if she wanted me to call her a cab. In response to this, she rose up from the sofa, came over to my side and then sat on my lap, facing me with her legs by my side on the sofa. And then she proceeded to take her top off. I was going through a bit of a dry spell at that time and I couldn’t resist a beautiful girl throwing herself at me. We had sex again multiple times and after what felt like eternity, I fell asleep.

After an hour of sleep, I woke up to shouting noises. Turns out, it's her once again fighting on the phone. I told her to calm down and not disturb the neighbors but she kept raising her voice. Now, I raised my voice and told her to “Calm the f down”. She threw her phone at the floor and stormed off to the bathroom crying. I pick up her phone and guess who’s on the other end? Her BF. I was pissed because I didn’t know this. So I went into the bathroom angrily to confront her. And then she tells me this story about how her BF did something terrible to her and she wanted to get revenge. And that revenge was doing something that she never let her boyfriend do. She tells me that he always wanted to cum in her mouth but she never let him. She also tells me that he wanted to record them having sex but she refused that as well. But now as revenge, she sent the selfie with my cum in her mouth and the video of us having sex to her boyfriend. I don't know how she recovered the video but she sent it to her boyfriend while I was in the shower earlier and that was the cause of the first argument. Now apparently her boyfriend had called her once more because he couldn't find her at her house and she was arguing with him again for the second time. After hearing all this, I was very angry so I told her to get the hell out of my house. I told her that she used me and lied to me. She said she was really sorry and then left my place. All of this happened 2 months ago.

2 weeks ago, I was in the same park and was just about to leave when I saw Emily again. She came over to me and told me that she was really sorry about what happened. I was not having any of it and didn’t respond to her. She then proceeded to sit on the bench next to me and told me that I didn’t have to say anything but she wanted me to listen to her story. I reluctantly agreed and she told me about the stuff that led to her breakup. At some point, I genuinely started feeling bad for her because her boyfriend was an absolute asshole. (I won't go into detail as to what he did, but basically he did something that if revealed would put him in Jail). She told me that regardless of what her BF (now ex) did, that she should not have used me like that and that she was sorry. I’m sympathetic by nature, so I accepted her apology. Last week, I saw her again and we chatted for a little while. From our conversation, it seems like she is a nice girl who just made a mistake. I told her that I forgave her and made her promise never to use people like that.

Today, I met her at the park again and at the end of our conversation she surprised me by saying that she wants to be FWB with me. She said that she really liked the sex and that we should make the most of it. Now, I’m in a dilemma because I usually don't do stuff like this and it seems like the whole situation has a bunch of red flags. But like I said at the beginning, I’m not a really attractive guy and I don't get opportunities like this.

So, people of Reddit, should I say YES or NO?

Edit: I genuinely believe she's not crazy but just someone who made a mistake. She's very friendly and a typical person. I've examined her personality to see if she has a bit of crazy in her, but she truly surprised me. She seems very smart and clear minded. I truly think that she made a mistake that day because she was really upset.

FizzleMateriel · 2021-11-28T13:07:39+00:00

My feeling from looking at my Facebook and Instagram feeds is that because I didn’t find someone at 21 and stay with them and marry them I’m probably doomed to be single forever now.

A woman I dated 6 months ago is in love with a guy who’s now her boyfriend and a thing I had with another girl just failed because she didn’t think we were compatible. And the women in my immediate life I like are also taken. Feels bad man.

ChromaticVengeance · 2021-11-28T13:31:24+00:00

Visiting home for relative's birthday.....they proceed to justify anti-vaccination because there is corruption in our country and no one respects the law....the game is based "because no one fair plays" type of logic.

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Reoblivion · 2021-11-28T03:09:30+00:00

Question: what hobbies or how many hobbies make someone interesting?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2021-11-28T04:40:31+00:00

Hey ladies. Any of you do kickboxing? I'm considering starting to do that since I've been going to my workplace's gym once a week and enjoy the classes enough to go to a gym that teaches this.

buffin-big-bowls · 2021-11-28T04:57:26+00:00

Unironically considering going back to church. A week or so ago at work this old lady came up to me and started talking to me about how Jesus was the only way and stuff, but she gave me a really nice warm feeling inside, sounds weird but it was just a pleasant comforting feeling. After that I tried praying to god to send me a sign but no such luck. So still an agnostic for now.

Now I brought up religion, specifically Catholicism on the PPD discord server and thought I would get shat on. But I actually had a very enlightening conversation with someone on there about the whole thing, and he encouraged me to go back to church. So I might just do that. I think it would help give me a sense of purpose in life, sure it’s probably a coping mechanism but I have plenty of unhealthy ones already.

I’ll just have to keep my mind and heart open.

rainbowsuperstar · 2021-11-28T06:38:54+00:00

Hate to double post but I can't get the discord link working. Looks like it expired, is there a discord for this subreddit?

GridReXX · 2021-11-28T12:56:35+00:00

Is the gay male escort industry more accessible than finding a female escort.

I have male friends who all live in states where sex work is illegal, who are able to find escorts regularly and reliably.

They use sites like this that moonlight as massage therapists but are mostly SWs.

Back when Backpage was a thing, I had straight male acquaintances who frequented them. Then trips to the Dominican Republic became a thing.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-11-28T03:22:34+00:00

What's the deal with women getting defensive about the size/tightness of their vaginas? In most cases, the vagina can be gradually stretched out by larger objects, as is the case for women who like shoving increasingly large things into them, like those massive dildos and those with a fisting fetish.

"tHe VaGiNa DoEsN't GeT lOoSe, YoU vIrGiN iNcElS! tEh MuScLeS iNsIdE hOlD iTs ShApE! bAd WoMeN's AnAtOmY!"

Yes, those women were just born with cavernous vaginas and everyone else's shrinks back down to a normal size immediately. Right. If only that were true.

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