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ayowai2 · 2022-07-23T15:04:22+00:00

Attractive people giving blue pill advice is like rich people giving poor people advice.

"It's really not hard to make money. I just cash out some stocks and transfer the money to my financial advisor and they invest it and it makes money. Just give more money to your financial advisor if you're not rich! You don't have a financial advisor? Oh, well, just work until you can afford one, then you'll be rich."

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-07-23T13:41:38+00:00

had a big realization last night that a lot of this is just how you personally perceive whats going on.

someone told me hes never met someone without kids who is happy. he said they all seem miserable.

i told him whenever I look at people who have kids they always look defeated and tired and never met anyone with kids who is really happy.

short good looking guys only see women who like tall guys.

tall poor guys only see women who like rich guys.

rich guys with small dicks only see women who like guys with big dongs.

its all subjective.

anyway happy saturday ya fuckin incels.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T14:53:34+00:00

Why does it seem everyone here is pushing their agenda?

It's a debate sub

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-07-23T16:48:11+00:00

It's so satisfying seeing a man ask for an open relationship and get zero play meanwhile his chick is seeing a new man every month lmao

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-07-25T00:47:06+00:00

We should conspire to gaslight men into thinking all (and I mean all) women have super high n counts and are lying to their faces if they claim otherwise

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-24T12:51:45+00:00

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Spinning4plates · 2022-07-24T12:43:35+00:00

LMAOOOOOO r/relationship_advice is fucking hilarious sometimes

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-07-23T12:07:36+00:00

https://www.vladtv.com/article/285307/clueless-star-alicia-silverstone-reveals-that-she-still-sleeps-with-her

I thought sleeping in the same bed as my parents was weird when I was like 6. My siblings all felt the same.

Willow-girl · 2022-07-23T12:20:50+00:00

So close.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T12:50:37+00:00

37 dicks @ 22 hope he yeeted her to the streets

redditiasausagefest · 2022-07-23T13:31:26+00:00

Yesterday I posted a list of boomer power couples who are still married/together after many years in response to a claim that "Hollywood marriages never last." But if I had been allowed to include Xennials and millennial marriages the list would have been much longer even, and would include hunks like Tom Hardy, Charlie Hunnam, Ryan Gosling, Dan Stevens, Jamie Dornan, Scott Foley, Boris Kodjoe, Freddie Prinze Jr. Amy Acker and James Carpinello have been married since 2003, same with Paul Bettany and Jennifer Connolly. You can see the divorce rate declining in real time, even among the famous.

nahuel-nahuel · 2022-07-23T14:14:17+00:00

Would you rather marry

1 - a 3/10 (obese + unattractive face) who would give you children, or

2 - a 8/10 who would never give you a child (you would die without offspring, if you already have children, they don't exist in this scenario).

If your answer is "neither", just don't answer cus that's not the point. No divorce, cheating, or loop holes.

poppy_blu · 2022-07-23T14:37:28+00:00

Gotta love when a morning snuggle turns into morning sex.

Starts the day off right!

/u/poppy_blu one of those stolen moments you were talking about.

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-23T14:43:45+00:00

Why does it seem everyone here is pushing their agenda?

lulll · 2022-07-23T15:02:34+00:00

ok q4m who would you rather be seen walking around with

number 1

or

number 2

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-07-23T15:24:53+00:00

Does anyone else cringe when they see Reddit soys referring to everything as "Chad"? They also insist that incels invented the Chad archetype even though the term predates incel communities by quite a few years.

scwizard · 2022-07-23T15:53:54+00:00

Just look at the double standards of modern women, female promiscuity( the real act of sex with strangers) is praised, while men jerking off to skin colored pixels is somehow damaging to brains.

You know, you could argue that real sex is more healthy than porn cause it's real idk.

CanOfWoody · 2022-07-23T17:14:02+00:00

PPDer 1:

[Multiparagraph excellently argued point citing multiple scientific sources]

PPDer2:

[Pompous reductionist regurgitation in the comment section]

Never change PPD.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-07-23T18:22:38+00:00

PPD - AITA?

H and I and a bunch of friends are splitting a house to attend a friend's wedding. The couple getting married has the nicest suite (obviously), but H&I got the secondary suite by the laws of 1st dibs. 2 other couples have 2 other rooms. One of our single guy friends is asking to crash on the couch that's in the sitting room of our suite.

This is a hard no from me, I like the guy well enough, but I want to spend that time with my H in private.

I am willing, however, to trade the suite to one of the other couples if they were going to share the suite with the spare friend. So far, no one has taken me up on the offer. Am I the asshole?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-23T18:51:21+00:00

Q4W - how horny/10 would you be if a man defended your honor by donning knight's armor and killing the perpetrator who besmirched your good name (with a sword)?

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T19:19:09+00:00

Oof what do you think he should do?

ririsbaby · 2022-07-24T11:55:42+00:00

Q4M: How would you feel if your girlfriend/wife had sex with a woman behind your back? Is it cheating in your eyes? Why/why not?

Q4W: How would you feel if your boyfriend/husband had sex with a man behind your back? Is it cheating in your eyes? Why/why not?

Both assuming you’re not in an open relationship etc.

Phuchuk · 2022-07-24T11:51:27+00:00

A girl has come over a couple of times and spent the night naked in my bed, I have given her several clitoral orgasms and she has given me head (but I stopped her before I could finish). But I haven’t penetrated her yet because I couldn’t keep it up with condom. Does that count as my N count?

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-24T11:39:52+00:00

Lol so apparently they're making an adaptation of The Silmarillion and Sauron looks like Eminem

GUESS WHO'S BACK. BACK AGAIN

Snoo_16536 · 2022-07-23T17:42:07+00:00

If you make above average salary, why haven’t you improved your looks?. You have access to the gym, barber, can eat healthy, afford clean clothes, grooming kits etc. no excuse but you’re a lazy POS.

I only have empathy for low socioeconomic class males who can’t afford to improve their looks.

Notimecelduv · 2022-07-23T12:46:57+00:00

Q4W: Have you ever turned down a guy with a good personality because he wasn't good-looking enough? I'm not judging btw; men do it too.

OkConcentrateNow · 2022-07-23T14:53:14+00:00

I was looking at this Youtube channel Ultimate Man Project, the guy said that he has slept with 500+ women. He was tall and had a 7-7.5 face. This made me have a realization.

You are a product, the acceptance of a product depends on how good a product is and how well it is marketed. A guy like him would organically sleep with maybe 15-20 women but instead he choose to pitch the product (himself) to a very large number of people and had consequently found a large number of people who were buying what he was selling.

The take away is that if you are an average man, >= 6 overall, then you have to maximize your exposure. You would be surprised how many people out there are looking for exactly what you have to offer, or want you in that moment, or begin to want you once they hear your pitch.

Don't be an average product and be hiding in dark corners of the shelf, get out there and present yourself prominently and unapologetically. You might be able to outsell genuinely better products.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T16:07:58+00:00

From the outset it seems like a lot of transpeople (not all but a sizeable chunk of them) are perfectly happy to give other people dysphoria in order to mute their own dysphoria.

I'm a heterosexual cis man. I will be dysphoric if I hook up with a transwoman. A lot of transpeople just don't seem to care and push the idea that you're a bad person for that

Lysa_Bell · 2022-07-23T16:37:21+00:00

A lot of you need this today

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-07-23T14:35:05+00:00

The bitter male virgin paradox: expecting women to have sex with every guy even if she doesn’t like him but that would make the girl a slut which would make her undesirable but a girl not sleeping with a guy creates bitter male virgins

I’m serving up blue pills today boys

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-23T14:55:38+00:00

There's a deleted Q4W:

MLK was a man who was admirable by every measure:he was handsome, famous, righteous, intelligent, eloquent, powerful with a controlled aggression and many more positive traits. The one big strike against him is the fact that he used to cheat on his wife. She stayed with him regardless. So the question for women is, would you be willing to forgive one major flaw such as cheating, if on the balance of everything, the man was a 10 in all other departments?

u/majani, nope, I wouldn't stay with him. Neither would I stay with Tolstoy, who was a great writer and became a philanthrope later in his life, because he was an abusive cheater as well. I don't think anything excuses being a shitty partner enough to stay with a person if you have the choice to leave.

scwizard · 2022-07-23T15:57:34+00:00

there are 6.1 million pregnancies annually in the U.S., and 1.1 million of those are unwanted

This makes it sound like birth control is wildly ineffective.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-07-23T16:26:40+00:00

I've seen women here say, "so what if we admit what you guys have been saying all along that women are on easy mode in the SMP. What now? There's nothing that can be done!"

But that's not true.

We are seeing a huge push by women for men to ignore their nature and not care about n counts.

This mass social shaming seems to be working. Men are being brainwashed that they shouldn't care about n count, so they pretend to not care.

Any attempt by a man to express he doesn't want a high n woman is met with mass amounts of shaming of misogyny.

What if society enacted this same kind of social shaming towards women who only want tall men or successful men or any number of immutable traits that women decry is their preference and nobody dare shame them for their preferences?

Fat_Papaya · 2022-07-23T16:35:04+00:00

I want to show off a bit and say that I lost about 8.5lbs this past week haha

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-23T12:22:13+00:00

If boobs are not genitalia, explain titfucking then, WOMEN.

checkmate

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-23T13:27:33+00:00

It's important to be tall in a dating market for men, but you can still have success if you're shorter, can we all agree with that?

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-07-23T13:41:51+00:00

Day 98 of music sharing. Deine Lakaien - Farewell. The dark haired dude made me conciously realise that I find thick bushy eyebrows and dome darkness around the eyes attractive.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-23T14:09:10+00:00

Looksmaxxing is kind of useless as you'll end up with your emotional match anyway lol. You will seek out a person who has a similar emotional development like you and they will seek out you

Giallo_submarine · 2022-07-23T14:41:21+00:00

Q4W: Had an interesting discussion with a user on here yesterday about the primacy of attention level in determining attraction, and the difference in perspective on this issue in men and women.

When I was dating, I had a minimum threshold of attention I'd accept. Beneath that threshold = obviously a writeoff, move on. But once that threshold is reached, the volume of attention I received was immaterial in determining my interest in the woman.

So if I was talking to two or three women, it wouldn't matter which one was the most attentive (since they all were above my attention threshold), I'd be more interested in their personalities, physical attractiveness, and whether or not they were a good person.

I was informed that this is not the case for women - women will trade off attractiveness/good personality fit for volume of attention.

This shocked me, and made me wonder how prevalent this stance is among women.

So, here's the question:

Man A: Extremely attractive, and very good personality fit with you. But only has the time to text you two or three times a day, can only take you on dates 2x a week, only has time for ~3x long phonecalls per week. Every couple of days will forward you funny things on Insta/Tiktok and/or send you short texts of affection.

Man B: Average attractiveness, is a nice guy but there are a few personality quirks that don't mesh with you. However, is very consistent with goodmorning/goodnight texts every single day, texts you all throughout the day, takes you on 5 dates per week, phones you every single night for chats, sends you lots of silly/throwaway messages on social media.

Of those two, which would be your preference? Are you someone who would trade attractiveness/personality fit for volume of attention? How prevalent would you say this is among women?

redditiasausagefest · 2022-07-23T15:21:49+00:00

A comment by u/purplish_possum got me thinking about looks as it relates to individuals and couples. I think that there are some people who are so attractive there is a near-consensus on their looks and they obliterate any mention of one's "type." Let's call these the hard 10s. But then there is the mushy middle, and there is a lot of subjectivity here, especially for women. Like, in the 5-8 midrange, your average people, one person's average may be ugly to another person, where one person finds that "average" to be very attractive indeed, because that's their "type."

And so it's pretty useless trying to talk about whether couples are evenly-matched here, because there's going to be a lot of subjectivity, where one guy may be a 5, dead on average to a lot of people, but looks like an 8 to that girl, and vice-versa.

prettymuchredpilled · 2022-07-23T17:57:35+00:00

I see women complaining all the time on Reddit about being lonely, but I honestly have zero sympathy for lonely women. Like, y'all literally have the "women are wonderful" effect working in your favor 24/7. Men, other women, and even children are all automatically trusting of you, drawn to you, and will readily welcome you into their social groups just for having a vagina, whereas we men have to actively work hard to earn people's trust. What's stopping these lonely women from literally just... going outside? Literally just go to any event on Planet Earth and exist.

Same for homeless women. Whenever I see a homeless chick holding up a sign with an "🥺" expression on her face I actively ignore her ass. Like homegirl, literally just spread your legs and you won't be homeless anymore. Go use that female privilege to your advantage.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-23T18:08:21+00:00

Would you rather have a great youth and bang loads of hot women and end up in a dead end job for 20 years or not have these experiences but end up with a job you like

CanOfWoody · 2022-07-23T18:57:15+00:00

Greetings from Vienna PPD. Ive been here just about 4 days so far and I have a very good impression of it. I know there are many people who say it is a boring destination, but it has a lot to do with your interests. If you are looking for a place to just booze around and party, then there are far better places to do it at. I will also say, the food, although good, is not something youd want to make a special trip for.

But outside of that, it is a place absolutely dripping in culture and history. The two words that come to mind when looking at the achritecture in the city center. Opulent and Majestic.

Yesterday I went inside Freud's apartment, and today I went on a guided tour about Hitler. My fav part was seeing the art school he got rejected from and thinking in my head half jokingly "Its all your fault".

Definitely planning on seeing a few musical performances while im here too. Oh yeah, the beer is nice as well.

As far as dating and sugaring? Well, not having a good experience at all 🤣. Plans to meet a girl from tinder and a girl from seeking this week though. There are tons of hotties, but oh so picky.

For sugaring, theres very few profiles on the site, and of those, most the girls are foriegner eastern europeans. I assume, prostitution being legal, and there being relatively low cost prostitutes/brothels, as well I assume an okay social safety net, girls dont want to get into sugaring.

Ill be here 3 more weeks, then warsaw.

Welp, heres a few pics.

https://www.reddit.com/user/CanOfWoody/comments/w6bfoy/_/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Willow-girl · 2022-07-24T11:04:58+00:00

If zucchini or kittens were worth anything, I'd be a millionaire!

FuuraKafu · 2022-07-24T10:59:51+00:00

I heard that in South Korea it is much more socially accepted for guy friends to be physically intimate with each other. Holding hands, cuddling, hugging, even sleeping in the same bed. Kinda like how women are in the west. Apparently it's all normal there. I was reading a comment of a Korean guy who moved to the US, saying how it was such a culture shock for him that men are much more distant with each other here.

But what's interesting is that as far as I know in South Korea there is absolutely an incel situation with young men starting to hate women and feminism and adapting right wing ideologies. I even heard that it's actually more severe there. I'm not super familiar with that culture, but on the surface this seems to kinda disprove this "men become incels because they lack platonic intimacy" argument, doesn't it? Anyone has any thoughts on this?

meteorness123 · 2022-07-24T10:01:27+00:00

When even status maxxed superman Henry Cavill has a girlfriend only 6 years younger than him - how realistic do you think it is for the regular guy to have a much younger girlfriend and how does that allign with reddit stories of guys succesfully dating women 10+ younger than themselbes

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-07-24T08:29:33+00:00

Why are swingers so hideous?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-24T08:24:23+00:00

I've been watching WWE on and off for a while. Is it me or have the women there now look so much better than before. Becky Lynch, Charlotte Flair, that one girl who looks like Harley Quinn. I mean goddamn. Oh I forgot Rhea Ripley lol.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-24T07:58:05+00:00

CMV Zoe Barnes brought what happened to her upon herself.

She offered to be Frank's weapon and then when Janine points out to her that she was being used as a tool by Frank she starts asking questions that would bring him down?

Lol what.

redditiasausagefest · 2022-07-24T07:52:48+00:00

Watching The Gray Man, it occurred to me that basically every male Hollywood sex symbol at the moment is British, Canadian or Australian with the exception of Captain America himself, which they wouldn't dare...

Two British Spidermen in a row is not bothersome to American audiences? Is patriotism not much of a thing there?

Edit: Actually, the only hubbub about this I can recall hearing about is when African-American audiences were upset that Daniel Kaluuya was cast to play an ADOS (American Descendent Of Slavery) in the movie Get Out. And their concerns were basically dismissed with, "Well shut up, at least he's black." So I guess maybe white audiences don't care in the first place as long as the actor is white or male (in the case of a remake with different casting the second time around). Only African-Americans have been vocal about national origin of the actor reflecting their shared historical experience. It's kind of a fascinating topic.

Anyway, I truly think Hollywood prefers to cast non-Americans in lead roles, and since Americans don't care or even seem to prefer that themselves for the most part, I don't see the trend reversing anytime soon.

sabiinvesting · 2022-07-24T07:24:45+00:00

Q4M: Would you move to a new country and learn a new language for your girlfriend? Seriously asking.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-24T07:10:59+00:00

Why is the Blue Pill so egotistical?

This man got cheated on by his GF with a girl and doesn't care.

All the BP commenters are up in arms about it, saying he's a homophobe and should care.

How egotistical do you have to be for your worldview to depend on someone who's just fine suffering

No_Establishment_735 · 2022-07-24T07:00:37+00:00

Q4ALL:

Do you watch all your friends' instagram stories? Or just a select few? Or none at all?

Does anyone know the stats for this

PraiseGod__ · 2022-07-24T06:58:36+00:00

Unconditional love doesn’t exist. People are only loved on the condition that they provide something to the person who “loves” them.

RegTextoffender · 2022-07-24T06:51:50+00:00

Sex club started lame but ended up n+1 with a hot nurse with a rocking body. Good times.

scwizard · 2022-07-24T05:45:53+00:00

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/matt-gaetz-ugly-women-abortion-complaints-turning-point-student-summit_n_62dc8611e4b03dbb991971d9

As hilarious as this speech is I'm still pretty confused how Matt Gaetz hasn't been arrested yet for all those kids he's had sex with.

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-24T05:09:35+00:00

Holy shit I want to quit my job and just play video games at home all day so bad. I hate being an adult. I DON'T WANNA WORK I DON'T WANNA I DON'T WANNA I DON'T WANNA

Play_Muted · 2022-07-24T05:04:34+00:00

sweety past doesnt matter!

meanwhile her past 🤢🤮

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-07-24T04:56:57+00:00

So Marvel announced the rest of their phase 4, Phase 5 and Phase 6 projects and outside of a couple I just felt mostly..... apathy, maybe I'll be more excited when some of the stuff gets closer (the She-Hulk trailer looks terrible) but I think I just have the MCU fatigue

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-07-24T02:34:20+00:00

Unpopular Opinion: If you need to take improv classes to "learn how to be funny" then you've already failed at being funny. Humor is something you either have or you don't.

Fat_Papaya · 2022-07-24T02:15:33+00:00

I enjoy debating a bit, but when I got 3-4 people on me it's really hard haha

I'm even arguing with some Black supremacist here haha

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-24T02:11:25+00:00

If you could change the smell of your farts to anything what would you pick?

I'm going classic vanilla.

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-07-24T01:57:49+00:00

Am I redpilled? If I’m redpilled why? I don’t agree with a most redpill assertions, but I definitely am not blue pilled. It’s all very confusing.

I don’t think women are as bad as the red pill tries to say. I think a lot of guys issues with dating is that their own standards are too high.

At the same time the only way to have sex with a lot of women is to lead them on, which is pretty shitty, but I also need some kind of justification for it.

I think the basic advice like grooming and hygiene and dressing well and learning to be charming when interacting with women is enough for 80% of men.

I mean, I’m 5’9, overweight, no status, etc. but in my almost two decades of hoeing I have always had women that were willing to spread their legs for me. Sure, they weren’t perfect 10s, but they were in my league or slightly above my league. Every girls I’ve been with I’ve been attracted to and that’s what matters.

So basically I’m an asshole but I need to find a way to justify it, but I also should be a nicer person.

Also, women are a lot more likely to engage with you if you act blue pilled whereas women tend to avoid men who are openly red pilled.

Really makes you think

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-24T01:19:46+00:00

Not gonna post any names, but I found a female redditor who posts nude pics on nsfw subs and she’s literally a 10/10 with a perfect body and I was digging through her post history and she makes lots of posts on inceltear seething about incels.

I literally cannot wrap my mind around this. Imagine being such a sexy and hot woman, you’ve got everything going for you, you probably get loads of attention in real life and can have any guy you want, and you choose to dedicate so much mental energy, time, and angst towards seething at a tiny demographic of lonely dudes. I legit don’t get it

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2022-07-23T15:10:00+00:00

So my partner and I are staying at his friends house. He and his wife have been together since high school. They have their prom picture hanging up and one of those ones you take in saloon clothes at an amusement park from when they were like 16. They have 2 cute kids and three dogs. And I'm just like yep. This is actual life. Touching the grass.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-07-23T16:47:04+00:00

Why are people into polyamory so hideous?

CanOfWoody · 2022-07-23T17:59:45+00:00

A lot of people dont realize that many, (most? The vast majority?) of redpillers are not doing what they do as a first resort. They didnt just wake up one day for no reason and say "hmmmm guess ill be RP now" They choose this route after countless amount of bad experiences, WISHING they didnt have to do all this, WISHING women didnt put them through all this bullshit. Theyre reluctantly doing it because they believe there is no other reasonable alternative.

It would be AWESOME if I could "just be myself" and "treat women like human beings" and have the amount of success I want. But thats not reality.

Its a zero sum game and a dog eat dog world. Theres only a certain amount of people who truly get to be winners. There is no other answer to this problem without doing some super draconian shit, so the only thing left to do, is to do what it takes to get what you want, or be okay with not having it. Since the latter is not realistic or a nonstarter for many people, they choose the former, and I dont blame them.

If you really expect every man who would otherwise be lacking the success they want under "the rules" to silently and limply to their graves unfulfilled, sorry, you dont live in reality.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-07-23T14:01:19+00:00

My parents always said one of their biggest regrets was not going on more vacations/trips when it was just the two of them before the kids came into the picture because that’s the best time to travel. We went on plenty of trips in my childhood but that’s expensive as fuck and you gotta watch them. That cruise in 1998 with a wife and 4 kids had to cost a pretty penny from my pops.

Me and my GF don’t have kids and don’t plan on any so it’s just the two of us and it’s really nice. Like last week spur of the moment we were like let’s go to Atlanta for the weekend. It’s so easy

signpostcandy · 2022-07-23T15:40:48+00:00

The shitty rules on this sub about who can ask which gender a question have turned this place into another r/askwomen.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-07-24T01:00:14+00:00

Omg that anti-porn thread was terrible. Why are women. How do they even

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lulll · 2022-07-23T12:30:57+00:00

q4w do you think you could have saved smeagol

Notimecelduv · 2022-07-23T12:52:45+00:00

Q4M: Same question I asked women. Have you ever turned down a girl with a good personality because she wasn't good-looking enough?

nahuel-nahuel · 2022-07-23T14:09:02+00:00

Q4A

Was your mother or your father more demanding?

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-07-23T14:18:14+00:00

Q4W: thoughts on Elon Musk?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-23T15:08:19+00:00

So the girl that blocked me and told me she didn't want to be with me just hit me up again. She's trying to get me back again.

Not happening, this girl is insane. Especially not after the way she fucked with my head and put all of the blame of her depression on me.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-07-23T15:18:13+00:00

What personality traits can be learned/improved and what ones are innate/immutable?

Referring to guys on the self-improvement path.

I think you could teach someone how to be assertive easier than how to be funny for example

KarmaChameleonian · 2022-07-23T16:27:39+00:00

The boys on tiktok are in an uproar cause they said men are emotionally attracted to other men and just physically attracted to women. And I could not agree more. Y’all be more worried about y’all man’s feelings than y’all own girl.

https://twitter.com/aimer_ci/status/1549888339699982336

I saw this post on Twitter and it's so cute that women don't realize that they're generally not very interesting. It's like they're allllllmost there but it hasn't clicked in their brains yet.

EDIT: Wowee! thanks for the silver kind stranger!

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-07-23T17:10:02+00:00

Q4men is a woman a hypocrite if she won't date broke men but makes minimum wage at Walmart?

Snoo_16536 · 2022-07-23T17:17:09+00:00

Average looking dude with more $$$ and status will beat out dude who only focuses on his looks 9 times out of 10.

purplish_possum · 2022-07-23T18:11:19+00:00

More evidence that women are ridiculously picky.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/w5j46u/tinder_statistics/

John_Oakman · 2022-07-23T13:40:22+00:00

There's a really simple solution to the unhappiness & directionless problem plaguing many in the modern world. One that has been used consistently since the earliest times of recorded civilization, almost on a subconscious level.

!Use the powers of religion, spiritualism, nationalism, etc. to motivate the have nots towards the drive of something greater, all the while not having to give them anything materially.!<

The problem to that is also simple: it is immoral and unethical, and thus people here find it unacceptable to use those reliable tools again.

!Of course, there's the pursuit of pure moral virtue, but that's too abstract for the majority of people.!<

errrright · 2022-07-23T16:02:05+00:00

Is Timothy Chalomet the new Brad Pitt/sterotypical hottest guy on the planet that every girl wants?

Instead of "if Brad Pitt knocked on your door, you know you would fuck him", now that is Chalomet?

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-24T00:15:46+00:00

Women

lulll · 2022-07-24T00:04:35+00:00

tit pics are nice but if you really want to impress a man you have to send him a butthole pic im sorry its the only way

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-07-24T00:03:00+00:00

Do men really care what womens orgasm faces look like lmfao

I really would like to be more relaxed in the bedroom and I keep getting in my head about it and feel immense pressure. Definitely a me thing but my insecurities rear its head every now and then. I think bc when I was 19 a guy I was hooking up w laughed as I made a weird moan sound lol

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-23T23:54:48+00:00

I think when we are young we had that ideal type of person we wanted to be with. More than likely you saw them at some point and really wished that person would be your partner. So deep down inside you would try to be the person that would attract that type of person, only to realize that it will never happen. No matter how happy you are with your SO, that ideal person will always linger in the back of your mind.

GhostRidersInTheSky7 · 2022-07-23T23:52:46+00:00

For real this sub makes me feel so hopeless

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-07-23T23:41:59+00:00

Q4M would you rather drink a pint of another man’s piss or a shotglass of his jizz?

Does the answer change if it’s your own piss/jizz?

Q4W: who’s the most sexually appealing breaking bad character (besides Jesse)

GhostRidersInTheSky7 · 2022-07-23T23:34:41+00:00

This sub makes me so depressed 😥

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-23T23:18:27+00:00

Rahaf Mohammed is the funniest story ever lmao. “Oppressed” Saudi girl escapes family in Thailand, is granted asylum in cucked Canada and the first thing she does is get pregnant, abandon her child, and start an only fans 😂. I just know Saudi parents are using her as an example of the west lol. Next time Canada wants to save an Arab girl, at least make sure she’s bad instead of a 4.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T23:05:52+00:00

Who's wrong in this conversation

Katatonicsnake · 2022-07-23T22:44:31+00:00

Are Americans against men in STEM fields or why are they always brought up as having unfortunate dating lives/ relationship success here? Almost every engineer I know has been in a happy relationship since their late teens or early twenties. I mostly know mechanical engineers, though. Maybe that has something to do with it. The STEM people I know are usually pretty happy with their lives and careers, so it’s strange that they are mentioned here in a bad way so often.

blueshirt_8005 · 2022-07-23T22:33:07+00:00

Alicia Silverstone is so fucked up for what that she is doing to her son

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-07-23T22:29:01+00:00

Q4M: Smash or pass on Elizabeth Debicki (she's the 6'2" blonde woman)

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T22:15:47+00:00

Name a better duo:

Blue Pillers

Calling any Reddit post that validates TRP even a lil, fake.

Slipthe · 2022-07-23T21:41:10+00:00

In what ways are you a degenerate?

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-07-23T21:37:20+00:00

Respectfully.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T21:02:43+00:00

Like u/cvslengthbucketlist said this conversation with u/januaryphilosopher is just her moving the goalposts after being proved wrong.

I'd say 8/10 Blue Pillers do this on here all the time. Probably cause they look at the world through a should lens thus should comes first.

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-23T20:21:43+00:00

I just want my female friend to hug me when I'm going through a thing, I wasted 3 hours doing something few days ago and now it doesn't work and now I'll have to pay for some shit I wouldn't need to if I did first thing correctly that I wasted 3 hours on. I have trouble opening up to people though.

MysterySolverDog · 2022-07-23T20:19:47+00:00

I'm beginning to think a lot of the more ignorant blue pill takes surrounding beta bucks are caused by simply never coming into contact with the men who it affects. If you didn't go to university then move onto a highly skilled profession, and insist STEM enthusiasts aren't worth talking to, how would you come into contact with this social phenomenon?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-07-23T20:00:23+00:00

Women: he needs to be taller than me, stronger than me, wealthier than me, and he needs to pay for everything.

Also women: this relationship is 50/50.

Huh

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-07-23T19:56:06+00:00

Dammit, a mosquito bit me in the part between the nail and finger (under the nail) of the pinky toe. The whole toe swell and is constantly in a bit to a throbbing pain. And I constantly irritate it by walking or lying in bed (I prefer the side where, incidentally, the bitten toe is is the one that presses on the matress).

flash13131313 · 2022-07-23T19:50:26+00:00

Whats the difference between FDS and diabla?

sarkington · 2022-07-23T19:41:59+00:00

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WaffleBurner96 · 2022-07-23T19:21:57+00:00

Found this interesting post on askfeminists (I’m not a feminist but the reddit algorithm thought it would be funny to start showing me that sub.)

I have a lot of sidewalk rage, so I think I’ll try it. Gonna make direct and intense eye contact though, not stare at a fixed point in the distance like a couple women commented.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-23T19:21:36+00:00

I'm teaching my daughter to

(a) keep her body count below 5, ideally 1 but 5 @ maximum

(b) Never go anywhere alone with a guy without the expectation of him making a move. You'll be right way more than you'll be wrong.

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-07-23T16:04:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/el5dgc/incel_verbally_assaulted_me_because_i_wouldnt/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Idk why but this pisses me off so much, but of course the feminist response is consent which you obviously can’t argue against but the issue isn’t even about being denied the blow job, it’s about being cucked by a girl with zero self respect in the first place

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