Daily Community Chat Megathread

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-04-21T04:27:32+00:00

I always find it funny whenever some of us guys name off the qualities that we want in a woman and some of their responses are "so basically you want a pet" lol, major projection when they want their little programmed "bluepilled" Alpha man that only has eyes for them🤣, extremes matching extremes I love it

Hoodfamous098 · 2022-04-20T20:59:23+00:00

“Women age faster than men”, lmao without finasteride I would have been bald by 22😩😩

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-20T22:05:35+00:00

I’m tired of these age related posts, mostly because a bunch of women start shitting on bald guys to bite back. Excuse me but some of us are in our early 20s and bald 😤

CrabMaster- · 2022-04-21T02:51:10+00:00

Is there anything funnier than women complaining about ugly and old dudes approaching them?

Like a fat, bald, unemployed 40 year old thought you were attainable and in his league. Don't tell anyone that.

Hoes mad x24

dbz19 · 2022-04-20T22:57:53+00:00

When you look at what men and women have traditionally wanted from each other in relationships, it’s kinda fucked up how the stuff women have desired has always been there yet the stuff men desire has been rebranded as creepy and gross.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2022-04-21T18:40:48+00:00

Man I'm actually going to fucking die rn. It's not even noon yet and I am running on fumes. Already had a pot of coffee and might need another, then another coffee later. Got a 5 hour volunteer shift for a film festival after work. Running on 4 hours of sleep, and I had a work meeting last night that ran past midnight, after I finished another 5 hour volunteer shift.

Best part is that I have three more work meetings between now and end of day. At least tomorrow is Friday.

jax006 · 2022-04-21T18:19:42+00:00

I can't wait to finish this cut someday. I been getting jealous of my dog when I feed him in the evenings 😩

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-20T18:50:30+00:00

When I was growing up most women if you asked them said they would rather have the nice perky boobs over the big ass if there was a choice. In a perfect world they would want both of course but you can’t have everything.

Now it seems to have flipped. From what I have observed and seen, now They would rather have the big ass

hungarian_builder · 2022-04-20T19:01:52+00:00

Today I've signed up for a salsa class. It's been a while since I was a ladies man, but I think I'm ready to seek a relationship once again. Wish me luck

LowCreddit · 2022-04-20T19:33:23+00:00

The more I understand this thing called non-verbal communication the more I get mad at my past self for not recognizing them.

bighuddi · 2022-04-20T20:16:24+00:00

i think on some level women realize hypergamy is a zero sum game. guys realizing that you're either the harem manager or you're resources. (with bare minimum personality & grooming)

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-04-20T22:01:42+00:00

So being on vacay with family forced me to do a short nofap

But shit I'm thinking about continuing it. It's making me feel like a beast.

Placebo or nor, I'm enjoying this feeling.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-20T22:15:48+00:00

Q4women when will you start Fantasy Maxxing??

Q4M on a scale of 1-10 how much do you want mommy natalie portman to give you a bear hug?

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-04-20T23:17:47+00:00

What happened to Atlas, Smurf, and death_by_1000_cats?

A bus hit ALL of you?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-21T06:29:10+00:00

Nothing pulls the ire from women more than a man's standards excluding them from his dating pool.

That American Indian princess who's never been told no her entire life, being told no because she's entitled. Literally throwing a toddler tantrum as an adult.

That slutty girl who thinks it's cute to be a slut, like it's her entire identity. Being told no because she's a slut, and turning into a feral woman.

I'm convinced Tinder succeeds because men aren't allowed to have standards, and have to sit there and "get picked" by women like a vending machine.

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-04-20T19:09:46+00:00

Day 8 of music sharing Feuerschwanz - Latte. A rough translation of the lyrics, for the reason because I know german and am fully aware what the song is about.

So what are the lyrics about?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-04-20T19:27:03+00:00

So, it's a very interesting story time. This is slightly embarrassing but I'll tell it anyway

A while back I had some money to burn, so what did I do with it? I decided on a whim to buy one of those soulmate drawings.

Now naturally, I don't believe in soulmates and I think the whole concept is just completely stupid. But I was slightly curious about what this supposed drawing would look like and again, I had money to waste.

But today I've met someone, and my draw damn near dropped when I saw her picture. I thought "Hey, she looks like that drawing I got"

Then after that, I've compared several times, and she matches up feature-for-feature with the drawing.

One of the freakiest coincidences I've encountered. Though admittedly, my interest has been piqued ever so slightly, so I've texted her.

Let's see what the response will be!

purplish_possum · 2022-04-20T19:30:40+00:00

Apparently, I have preliminary hearings set in four major felony cases tomorrow afternoon. It will be a good time to commit some crime as half the cops in the county are going to be waiting in the hall all afternoon.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-20T21:21:15+00:00

Q4Wimmenz: How would you feel if your lover occasionally jerked it to porn of women a different ethnicity than you? What if his pp was democratic and it was all ethnicities? What if it was an exclusively ethnicity? What if it was only your ethnicity?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-20T21:35:56+00:00

Jesus Christ I think I'm getting feelings for one of the girls in my rotation, we hung out yesterday and did some stuff but after we finished, I just kind of looked her in the eyes and it made my smile, her eyes are real pretty. I think she's getting feelings too, she said how guys have never taken care of her after sex and usually booted her out whereas we cuddled, talked and just enjoyed each other's company.

Man I'm getting down bad but I'm trying not to get Oneitis for this girl, I'm really trying. I promised myself I wouldn't fall for someone that way again.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-20T21:59:00+00:00

I just pitched a fucking turbo chad. I hate that PPD turned me into this creature.

This dude was so hot though, I was turning a lil bit gay

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-04-20T22:04:10+00:00

is a “chad” just a physically attractive man? what’s the definition of a chad?

sosayeth · 2022-04-20T23:36:27+00:00

Women: can one of y'all explain the rationale of how a woman can have a child... hell, multiple children from a (or more!) "deadbeat" "loser" PLUS a snobby, bitchy, stuck up attitude and be perplexed why handsome, wealthy men she would love commitment from avoid her?

(I know the real answer, by the way, I'm just tuned in for the Mental Gymnastics.)

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-21T00:01:53+00:00

Q4All: How do you think the dating market will be effected over the next five years?

I personally reckon with the rise in loneliness there'll be a growth in a need for virtual intimacy and more of a reliance on porn from those who still fail to gain any of that in real life.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-21T00:41:32+00:00

Q4M: is fucking your woman with a dildo bigger than your dick = to cucking yourself?

Edit: nobody is gonna fucking answer lmao

lulll · 2022-04-21T02:49:33+00:00

i used to love salt and vinegar chips like 20-25 years ago, but i can't eat one of those chips now because the flavor is so fucking strong. either im remembering what they used to taste like wrong, or the companies that make those chips have completely changed the ingredients over the years. i remember it being a slight vinegar and salt taste, now its like drinking a bottle of fucking vinegar

kissmetilyouredrunk · 2022-04-21T03:15:40+00:00

All the truly hot women I've known have attracted stalkers

This should be a criteria for being a Stacy

Willow-girl · 2022-04-21T03:19:20+00:00

I met the head honcho at my new job today. Seems he likes to schedule 15-minute meetings with all of the new hires, even lowly custodians like myself, just to put a face to the name. OK, fair enough!

He know a lot more about cows now than he did yesterday.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-21T04:30:03+00:00

Has there been a discussion of Selina in the new Batman? 10/10 consensus?

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-04-21T06:34:59+00:00

update for those who helped me a couple days ago with a date idea for my bf: the go-kart date was a total success. he loved it. thanks everyone :)

Slipthe · 2022-04-21T18:05:26+00:00

Q4M: Is your ideal woman a sexual deviant?

Fine_Ad5151 · 2022-04-21T17:57:59+00:00

Bitches be crazy

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-04-20T21:45:26+00:00

I’m late to the topic, but I gotta reiterate that I’ve never been on a date where a girl hasn’t pulled out her wallet. And on the vast majority, they end up paying for something at some point, since I usually insist on picking up the first tab.

I see both men and women in those threads saying shit that I’ve just never really experienced. Maybe I’m just sheltered because of the demographic I date in?

Initial_Chemical7121 · 2022-04-20T22:08:30+00:00

Why do all the men here seem so against spoiling their girl? (Monetary gifts, home made, food, and affection. Especially if she spoils you back. Don’t you want to make each other happy?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-20T23:51:51+00:00

Nothing makes me laugh more on Reddit than women saying "I would never date Red Pill men, I can spot them!!! They tell on themselves!!! I know when a man is Red Pilled!!"

No the fuck you don't 🤣🤣🤣 any Red Pill man that has sense will never let anyone know they're Red Pilled, not a single person will ever know. The ones who tell in themselves are a small minority who haven't fully internalised the Red Pill.

"Oh but I'll just subtly ask him questions!! That'll slip him up!!"

Yeah he knows you will, he'll just lie to you.

jax006 · 2022-04-20T18:00:43+00:00

Just set squat PR hah you're all gayer than me

WinterBet4495 · 2022-04-20T18:24:27+00:00

Most men live lives of quiet desperation. I truly believe most men are disappointed at their lot in life. I can’t say the same about women because women seem to genuinely fall for one man whereas men always have the “what if” in the back of their minds. “What if I could get a hot Megan Fox in her prime?”

decoy88 · 2022-04-20T20:42:13+00:00

Depressed single person: “will a relationship cure my depression?”

Depressed single person who tried to cure their depression with a relationship: “No it won’t you need to work on your own-”

Depressed single person: “-What do YOU know? You’ve already been able to get relationships, you don’t know what it’s like. If only I had a gf I would…”

decoy88 · 2022-04-20T22:18:27+00:00

Every argument evaluating value ignores one of the biggest traits.

Emotional bonding + Time spent

Why so many dismiss this like it isn’t a valid metric is anyone’s guess. I assume it’s because it makes their argument fall apart even if it explains the actual trends in human behaviour.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-20T22:43:14+00:00

TIL that people can put infidelity clauses in their prenups (depending on location, of course).

As much as this subreddit complains about “divorce rape” and “shitty wife fucking chad on the side”, you’d think they’d bring up prenups more (assuming they actually care about this stuff as they allege to).

lulll · 2022-04-20T23:09:07+00:00

i will NOT be shamed for liking a1 sauce with my steak

bighuddi · 2022-04-20T23:11:57+00:00

i'm becoming chad so i can have a ho phase. not to be in a doomed eh/meh LTR. let me be one of the guys they whinin n bitchin about.

sleuthoftrades1 · 2022-04-21T01:31:33+00:00

I really need to stop going out with female lawyers. I've gone out with 5 different ones now, and every one has been shitty. When will I learn?!

scwizard · 2022-04-21T17:55:30+00:00

Money isn’t a guarantee to success in your 30s and 40s+

But it is a guarantee of getting a hermen miller areon so that you don't blow out your back at that age.

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SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-20T18:04:05+00:00

Q4All: Have you ever known someone for a long period of time and they went through a big physical change (gastric bypass, cosmetic surgery, etc) and you found them attractive afterwards when you didn't before?

purplish_possum · 2022-04-20T18:33:33+00:00

There are four huge wild turkeys with attitude in my front yard.

lulll · 2022-04-20T18:34:39+00:00

the roller coaster represents crazy girls

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-04-20T18:42:06+00:00

Broke my fast at lunch today. 66 hours total. When I weighed myself at work I realized that I was lighter than I thought.

Then I took off my scrubs and looked in the mirror and realized that I already look pretty good and low key might suffer from body dysmorphia.

Before the fast I felt so gross but now I’m like why did I trip so hard I look good smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

Anyways PPD question: What’s the realest shit someone said to you on a date?

Years ago my baby mama and I were on a date and she said that she was having fun. I said “Why not have fun every day?” Legit was willing to see her daily. Then she hit me with “Well you can have too much of a good thing.”

That was too real never make yourself too available

bison5595 · 2022-04-20T19:06:48+00:00

Q4W: If a guy cold approaches, what percentage split is it between looks and whatever he says matter for him to be successful. This assumes you're single also. This also assumes he doesn't say anything creepy, rude, arrogant, etc. Basically a normal interaction. BTW, this is only for women who don't mind and/or would prefer to get approached. If you don't like guys approaching, this question isn't for you.

gold_boy36 · 2022-04-20T20:00:19+00:00

I revealed to my new gf that I might (big might) be moving away (to a country overseas). I told her that I could probably do long distances I’ve done it before but I don’t want to place too much pressure, expectation or burden on her to stay faithful (she’s not a cheat though) or to avoid being miserable and avoid feeling resent in case I stop her from pursuing other men (this one mainly). She said she’ll think about it. I’m kind of disappointed though. I thought that she would want to wait for me or at least commit. It now feels like I’m disposable or easily replaceable. Out of sight out of mind. I understand we all are but at least have that bit of delusion that in love women tend to have with men they’re genuinely into (“no man is better than my man!”). Should I be worried or break up with her? I expected a bit more

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-04-20T20:30:09+00:00

Q4M (inspired by a recent post and comment by u/twinseo09) for the ones who believe “women age faster than men”, what race of women do you imagine when making or thinking about this statement?

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-04-20T21:32:48+00:00

Does anyone actually put bros before hoes?

I don’t think so.

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-20T21:41:32+00:00

Q4M

How do you feel about your gf/wife watching porn to get off without you? Does it bother you in any way that she's aroused by other men sexually and using that thought instead of you?

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-04-20T21:41:59+00:00

Are there any guys here able to PM me? Just curious whether you would have sex with this particular girl (it's just random body pics, no face, but it's NSFW so can't post here).

edit: no need to PM, I will post here

NSFW pics:

https://ibb.co/XkswC77

https://ibb.co/ZKXx84K

https://ibb.co/p49HVLB

https://ibb.co/VTKcrWH

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-04-20T21:56:32+00:00

Q4All If you were magically starting life again as an average looks/intelligence 20 year old but you could choose your gender, would you want to be a man or a woman?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-04-20T22:31:13+00:00

Who is the most Chad videogame character? My money is on the giant bad guy from Resident Evil 2. The way he just confidently and inexorably struts after you, you can tell he spins like 50 plates at a time.

SeaSquirrel · 2022-04-20T22:32:47+00:00

Started my new job this week.

Commute dropped from 45 minute by car, to sub 10 minute by rollerblade. I’m loving life.

Also there’s a late 60s/early 70s year old woman at my gym rn who outlifts probably half the guys making “women age faster” posts.

gold_boy36 · 2022-04-20T23:45:46+00:00

What are signs that you’re definitely good in bed or fucking (excuse the language) your woman the way you’re supposed to? I’ve suggested a few below. Which ones are applicable?

she moans loudly
she squirts
she bothers you for sex
she orgasms multiples times

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-21T00:48:58+00:00

Holy shit ummmmmm someone with a sec to analyze a sociosexual situation plz pm me

Or respond here and I'll pm you I'm on RIF app and can't get the one type of PM

EulenWatcher · 2022-04-21T03:44:50+00:00

Men who do date and have/had GFs/wifes how do they spoil you? What gifts have you got that you remember? What do they do for you?

Preme2 · 2022-04-21T04:41:45+00:00

https://youtu.be/ZfLDwguLpRs

Q4W: Would you rather find out your man is cheating or bisexual?

Edit: Q4M: Would you rather find out your girl was cheating or was transgender, but indistinguishable. If I said cheating, would that make me transphobic?

happy_anon_girl · 2022-04-21T05:25:38+00:00

I've been in an LTR for around 3 years. Well, I feel like I've been seduced by a coworker. Haven't done anything physical with him, but we've been eye fucking and flirting and saying ridiculous things to each other in some odd stupor we seem to be in. He's married and his wife just had a baby. I've never felt this sense of mutual attraction before, it's otherworldly, it reels me into the present, and for the moments we look at each other I don't feel taken and he doesn't feel taken or inappropriate. It's weird that it feels natural when it's so messed up when I take a step back.

He said while we were leaving work "I'll drive you home tonight" and it was ridiculous. I stumbled over my words and said "oh, no... I have a car haha... I drove here so no need" I'm mid 20s. Last time I felt this way, I was too young and inexperienced to feel like I could be assertive. But I feel like I could be now. It's an odd feeling of power.

One thing's for sure, I'm totally against cheating. So even though every part of me wants it and feels capable of it, I don't see myself meeting with this guy outside of work. I've spent too many years hating cheaters, and I wouldn't want to hurt the man I love like that, damage coworker's family, or carry around guilt for life.

But it's a mindfuck that this lust occurred while my boyfriend and I were satisfied and recently enthused over our plans to get married. This is the first time anything like this has happened. I'm considering breaking up with my boyfriend now. He deserves better IMO. Everyone deserves better than this. If I do break up, I don't know if I'll ever be in a LTR again. It rattled me and broke my trust in myself.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-21T17:54:00+00:00

Alright the horny levels in PPD are dire right now.

Q4All: Doggystyle, Missionary, Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl. Which is your fav??

I'm partial to Doggy. There's something very raw, very primal about taking my woman from behind.

UpperScientist5158 · 2022-04-21T17:43:15+00:00

"There's more to life than getting laid": does that mean there's no harm from cutting out sex from a person's life?

MisterJose · 2022-04-21T17:36:36+00:00

I got my hands on some Cialis recently. It enhances sensation and horniness significantly, to the point where I feel like I was missing out all this time. More relevant, the psychology change is interesting. I needed a hole to fuck, like really bad. I've never been blown away by blowjobs, but suddenly I really wanted one. I've also never been someone who just needed to find a quick bang, but I felt like I wanted that too, and I couldn't wait, and a pussy would feel sooo good.

I've argued with women/idealistic feminists who want to believe gender is a construct and this isn't true, but this just served to remind me that when you're a guy in that 'need to bang' head space, other things go out the window. You're not particularly concerned if the hot girl reads interesting books or something. I can be sensitive guy who's more in tune with a feminine mindset, and is about your needs and is not drooling over your ass and wants some chemistry, or I can be guy who will bend you over and take you to pound town, but I can't be both guys at the same time. And being the second guy is not indicative of inferior morality, it's just chemicals and hormones and being a dude.

Chaddamhusein · 2022-04-21T17:29:58+00:00

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chilikettlechips · 2022-04-21T17:09:33+00:00

The age of legbeards is over, the age of waifu is about to begin.

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-04-21T17:03:37+00:00

Well united appointed Ten hag. How long before he get sacked?

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cloudydays84 · 2022-04-21T16:33:15+00:00

We were doing our research proposal presentations today in class

And one girl got up there, opened up her PowerPoint, she got through the first 2 slides, but then she got anxious and ended up crying and leaving the room.

It sucks because I read over her proposal and it was great and she clearly knows what she's doing, public speaking can be a bitch like that

pooseehunter · 2022-04-21T16:28:42+00:00

Has anyone here ever had women who initially rejected them or didn’t show interest come back to them after they achieved something of significance? Did you give them the time of day once they came back?

UpperScientist5158 · 2022-04-21T16:19:41+00:00

mod of inceltear looks exactly how you think they would look:

https://old.reddit.com/r/MomForAMinute/comments/snif2r/hey_mom_i_finally_figured_it_out_im_gonna_go_into/

https://old.reddit.com/r/NonBinary/comments/snig48/i_got_my_hair_cut/

empresa_josefina · 2022-04-20T19:19:26+00:00

Why can’t women admit they like when guys pay for dates because they get free shit?

All manner of excuses like it compensates for the cost of makeup, it’s a sign the guy cares about you, etc. All of which fall apart under any scrutiny. If you showed up to dinner without your hair or makeup done, would you then be fine with splitting? Does a millionaire spending $1k on Michelin dinner care about you more than a middle class guy splitting a bill?

There are enough guys chasing you that you’ll consider a date offer where he pays over one where he doesn’t. Free stuff is great and you’re in a position to have some free stuff. Why dance around this, especially on an anonymous Internet forum?

Warm_Philosopher · 2022-04-20T21:35:53+00:00

"Sorry, but a 22-25 year old “college student” is significantly more attractive than a 29-30 year old woman. Like it of not, women age exponentially faster than men pretty much across the board. This is likely in part because they mature at a younger age, but I think as a whole their sex appeal is just much more delicate and fleeting."

Why are people so gross here 😭😭😭. I'm 21 myself but guys that are obsessed with 22-25 year olds and describe them as delicate is so gross like damn...

TheJim66 · 2022-04-20T22:10:13+00:00

theories as to why women are more "health conscious" than men?

"Women in this population-based study of residents in Sweden were more likely than men to avoid eating gluten, red meat, white flour and food additives due to perceived unhealthiness, and reported more diet and health related anxiety."

sauce (healthy)

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-21T16:16:25+00:00

https://nypost.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2022/04/depp-heard-011-1.jpg

Damn, Johnny Depp’s drug table looks fun as hell.

scwizard · 2022-04-21T16:08:07+00:00

What's so terrible again about being a mommy bangmaid?

You have to clean the house, which sucks sure.

You have to cook, ok but cooking can be kinda fun sometimes.

You have to have sex, but that can potentially be a lot of fun.

You have to help with childrearing, which is hard work but can be really fulfilling.

You don't have to work at a job or pay bills which is probably a bit of a bonus.

So why do people act like this is a cruel dark fate?

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-21T15:50:47+00:00

The distribution of wealth follows a well-known pattern sometimes called an 80:20 rule: 80 percent of the wealth is owned by 20 percent of the people. Indeed, a report in 2017 concluded that just eight men had a total wealth equivalent to that of the world’s poorest 3.8 billion people.

The conventional answer is that we live in a meritocracy in which people are rewarded for their talent, intelligence, effort, and so on. Over time, many people think, this translates into the wealth distribution that we observe, although a healthy dose of luck can play a role.

80/20 strikes again. link

Why are Americans so cucked for billionaires?

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-04-21T15:45:01+00:00

When people on this sub go on about there being some sort of objective 1-10 scale, this song comes to mind https://youtu.be/LAzodf69rfk

scwizard · 2022-04-21T15:23:44+00:00

I've been with two men who I suspected to be porn addicts. I've later discovered they were into some very niche, extreme porn. I've had several male friends who admitted to being addicted to porn. It's so common that it chills my spine.

I find porn addicted men to be extremely selfish with no zest for life. They close themselves to the world and nothing matters to them except their own pleasure. They want to be home all the time where they have access to their PC 24/7. They don't make great life partners because they don't want to experience the world with you, they just want to be comfortable in their own cocoon.

Do you have zest for life?

luliloo · 2022-04-21T15:23:22+00:00

first pic is a message for /u/lulll and /u/chilikettlechips

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-04-21T15:22:53+00:00

What's the best way to greet a woman who is really eager to see you for the first time and says she would be "up for anything"? Is going straight in for a hug and kiss on the lips a good idea?

Informal-Beach-7199 · 2022-04-21T15:16:13+00:00

What about this subreddit, except it isn’t full of bitter nerds and feminists, and you can just talk about stupid dating/relationship thoughts. Like a more fun and less tragic version of this. No axes to be grinded. No dating oppression Olympics. A utopian society of horny people.

UpperScientist5158 · 2022-04-21T15:14:43+00:00

Where do women make themselves available for men to approach them, that isn't online dating? Give me an address.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-21T14:47:53+00:00

Dudes here really believe top 20% men are out here with 2000 n count

Free_Buffalo_7603 · 2022-04-21T14:45:47+00:00

Is there a significant difference in the way men and women feel happiness? Your maximum happiness is biological in nature due to chemical secretions in your body. Winning the lotto can only produce x amount of happiness, x being whatever level of happiness your chemicals can induce.

This means some people are just less happy. Person A could hit a 10 on a scale of 1 to 10 on happiness, while the same event could only produce a 7 out of 10 with person B whose brain secretes less maximum chemicals and therefore less happiness.

There is virtually 100% agreement in both the religious and scientific world that true contentment comes from recognizing that your mood swings are caused internally and not externally.

Only hedonistic atheists and some political leanings dispute this biological reality and claim that the pursuit of the fleeting releases of whatever your maximum amount of chemicals can bring is what can be considered happiness.

So after reading all this, my mind gravitated towards this sub, as I see a constant barrage here of claiming all they want is to be happy (feel the fleeting chemical feeling) and being with someone below a certain level of attractiveness is going to lead them to unhappiness that is entirely out of their control which would make them miserable.

Yet we know, nothing can force you to be miserable. The reactions of your brain are fleeting chemicals, and the only way to true peace is, as both Buddhism and science would suggest, recognizing that feelings are internal not external, and deciding to base our lives off of more than a drug addicts pursuit of good chemicals. If a man who interviewed a heroin addict asked the addict what makes him happy, the interviewer would get the answer that heroin makes the addict happy.

Would it therefore be logical to say "heroin is the key to happiness"? I think we can all agree that it would not be a reasonable conclusion.

Yet women here express exactly the same sentiment regarding their happiness. That it is caused by the hedonistic pursuit of top males and their own sexual gratification.

Women's unhappiness has been growing while men's has remained about the same relatively speaking (has shrunk but much less drastically than women's) and I think there's a good reason. The constant pursuit of good feelings vs bad and the externalization of these factors only brings stress, because it's a constant struggle.

Men can be satisfied by women less attractive with no social dominance etc because they are mostly happy to begin with, they internalize their happiness from an early age because they are rejected far more, so they learn to be content.

Women in modern society basically get whatever they want whenever they want and even if they can't get the ideal (relationship with chad) they still get sexual and romantic situationships with their desired partners till that fizzles out.

Was thinking of making this a post, what do you guys think? Do men and women experience happiness differently?

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-04-21T14:12:15+00:00

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januaryphilosopher · 2022-04-21T14:00:34+00:00

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dbz19 · 2022-04-21T13:30:26+00:00

Does posting here even serve a purpose? I feel like half the people here are intentionally giving the other half bad advice and vice versa, just in a vain attempt to make the other “side” feel bitter. If you’re single isn’t it better to just get out there and keep trying rather than waste time discussing with people trying to sabotage you?

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-04-21T13:26:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u8li1k/7_days_7_guys_7_datesmy_23_f_experience/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Slipthe · 2022-04-21T13:20:22+00:00

Q4W: How much effort do you put into your hair? What's your favorite styling?

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-04-21T13:15:50+00:00

“George Bush doesn’t care about black people.”

Where were y’all when that happened and how did you, your friends and your family react?

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-21T13:07:56+00:00

A guy who has no dating experience is unpolished. Inexperienced.

I wonder to what degree preselection is conflated with the fact that every relationship experience a guy has teaches him a lot about how to handle girls, what he wants, how to communicate, etc.

Most girls I talk to seem to believe they left their ex boyfriends as better potential partners. Taught them how to properly flirt, how to console, what all not to do.

It's interesting, how much of this knowledge is specific to that girl? Why do men seem to not value this experience women also get from relationships... At what point does this hit diminishing returns? Maybe 2 serious relationships?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-21T12:59:49+00:00

The more that I think about it the more that I feel spending the rest of your life with just ONE person? One person for eternity, nobody else, dedicating your life to your partnership with that person........it all just sounds really fucking depressing I'm sorry. You're saying you'll never get bored of this person? Even after years of the same shit with them?

I couldn't do it personally.

Slipthe · 2022-04-21T12:47:07+00:00

God folding laundry is the worst chore. Idk why.

It just feels so slow compared to anything else. I'd sooner clean the whole kitchen than fold clothes.

TheJim66 · 2022-04-21T11:41:20+00:00

I feel really sorry for Jordan Peterson. He is a very clever dude with good intentions that has actually helped people..... but he is full of mental health issues and his daughter is thotty human trash. Dude deserves better.

Logry · 2022-04-21T11:37:51+00:00

Who's good at using RocketChat ?

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-04-21T11:30:30+00:00

This bitch.

decoy88 · 2022-04-21T11:18:28+00:00

Getting fat is a form of sexual abuse.

I fucking love this place! 🤣

The_Mastermind_ · 2022-04-21T11:15:21+00:00

I don't know how my wife does it but she always makes me feel so manly and masculine. Example from last night:

My wife is scared of ghosts, darkness and stuff like that and yet she is a fan of horror & scary movies (I don't know how that happened 🤔).

Last night we were watching a scary movie on the couch and when she was afraid she would curl up into me and hold onto my arm. Sometimes she would be afraid to look at the screen so she would turn her face away from the screen and towards my body.

It always makes me feel so manly. I think it might be the fact that subconsciously my brain likes the fact that my wife can turn to me to feel safe and secure.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-21T11:14:07+00:00

Once the cops are called that relationship is over. Not just romantically, any type. I love my brother, that’s my right hand man, but if he ever called the cops on me I would never talk to him again. That’s the cardinal sin.

Me and my girl both hate the police so we don’t have to worry about them being called to our home. That’s another thing, when you talking to these girls you gotta screen for shit like that. Sometimes girls will let it slip in casual conversation. “See that’s why I’d call the cops on ya ass”. Get outta here lol. Any time the cops are called on you that’s a potential death sentence. No piece of vagina is worth potentially getting your head blown off because of an argument.

You have so many women who have called the cops on their intimate partners, the cops end up seriously hurting or killing that guy, and then they like “damn if I had to do it all over again I would’ve never called, they just made the situation worse.”

dbz19 · 2022-04-21T11:07:38+00:00

Wearing a suit makes me feel so powerful and objectively better than everybody else

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-04-21T09:33:04+00:00

I’ve seen a number of people on here state that a significant number of women would prefer to join a harem of a 10/10 looks dude than have a relationship with a 5/10 looks good. I may be in a bubble, but are harems a common occurrence? I can think of R Kelly and Hugh Hefner. A couple of those FLDS guys. Presumably a good few more celebrities I don’t know about. What do people mean when they say this? Do they mean an ACTUAL harem? Or a guy who has a few ONS? Does having a mistress count as having a harem?

decoy88 · 2022-04-21T09:25:29+00:00

Spent an hour on the discord last night helping a gymcel with spruce their Tinder bio.

It looks good, his photos on point, his bio is provocative. We’ll see if the results turn around.

decoy88 · 2022-04-21T09:19:33+00:00

Nice Guys crack me up lol.

Q4Men: BE HONEST, at any point in life? Has this ever been you? Were you ever a NiceGuy?

1 - https://i.redd.it/ofgydwof3ru81.jpg

2 - https://i.redd.it/onyjlz6uysu81.jpg

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-21T09:15:43+00:00

I remember how excited I used to be getting on flights, wanting the window seat and looking out at the earth recede away from me.

But after so many times it's just routine.

Now I wonder... After millennia has passed... Will my descendents also take for granted his view from the space ship, travelling at near light speeds, watch galaxies or stars whiz by on the side and find that it doesn't really enthrall him like it used to?

dbz19 · 2022-04-21T08:20:30+00:00

Women act like their standards are so objective and are based purely on logic and evolution rather than just cause it’s attractive. I.e. I want a taller or stronger guy so he can protect me or so we can have stronger children or whatever thing based on le evolution.

But can a guy use the same argument? He wants a younger woman cause she’s more fertile and her eggs are less likely to produce sn autistic kid? Noooo he’s creepy and misogynist if he does that.

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