Giving woman your own age a chance why?

baresquad · 2022-07-27T23:22:40+00:00

Am I in love? Do we have a strong bond? If so, then that’s what I get.

You cannot be so afraid to live.

GlitteryDonkey · 2022-07-27T23:29:18+00:00

What makes marrying a professional woman around the same age as you feel schadenfreude? What suffering/misfortune are deriving pleasure from?

What are you losing from marrying a women in her 30’s who is a professional and is interested in being with you?

You either want to be be someone or you don’t. It’s that simple.

todo_pasa_ · 2022-07-27T22:48:46+00:00

If you like a woman would you still say no to her because other (different) women didn't pay attention to you in the past?

Does this make you feel like winning?

Glass_Bucket · 2022-07-27T23:19:10+00:00

Idk why some people think men magically turn into a chad the moment they turn 30. If you weren't getting any women in your 20s, it's very unlikely you'll get them in your 30s

poppy_blu · 2022-07-28T00:06:41+00:00

Age issue aside — Maybe someone can explain to me this concept if rejecting women today because “she wouldn’t have given me the time of day 15 years ago.” Huh? How do you know? You didn’t even know her.

If you’re saying you don’t want to be used by someone trying to beat the clock, no one is going to argue against that.

But you’d reject a woman who is actually into you now because Stacy ignored you in high school?

SmakeTalk · 2022-07-27T23:41:47+00:00

Because we have a lot in common and because we're a similar age we're gonna be at similar positions in life.

Personally I'm not that picky about age, I have a bare minimum (26) which isn't super far from my own age (32) but there's a bit of a gap there. I just wouldn't date anyone that's not at the same point in life as I am though, regardless of age.

ashpr0ulx · 2022-07-27T22:45:52+00:00

you might…. like her?

byebyecivilrights · 2022-07-27T23:15:05+00:00

The real question is -- why are you punishing women you've just met for the behavior of women they've never met?

Magnito-was-right · 2022-07-27T23:24:27+00:00

Date whoever the fuck you want (that’s legal) why do you care what other people think? I date people who have similar taste in everything as me. Same for friends. What’s the point if you don’t mesh well.

CatchPhraze · 2022-07-28T01:24:20+00:00

What is semi successful? A dude pulling 100k a year probably isn't getting 20 y.o hotties chomping at the bit for him.

If you can, and you want, do. Why worry about what the older woman wants if you don't want her? But most of yall are way off base on what it takes to be a 35 y.o guy smashing college aged girls on the regular lol.

Just-Pie-5579 · 2022-07-27T23:29:00+00:00

You don't have to if you don't want to. This is not North Korea.

Advantages of dating women in their 30s: same stage of intellectual development, you can expect some degree of financial independence from her, disadvantages: you would want her younger, whatever that means

Advantages of dating younger women: fresh and tight, disadvantages: you better pay for that, because nobody will hand out a college pussy to you for free.

Sounds like you want a bunch of strangers to explain to you why 1 is better than 2, but 1 is not better than 2, it's a question of what you are willing to sacrifice, and you are not willing to sacrifice youth, so just take 2 and stop asking questions that are not questions but attempts to drag people into a stupid debate where you will be bashing on 32 year old women because somebody (everybody) refused to provide you with sexual assistance when you were 19

AlkonKomm · 2022-07-28T00:31:54+00:00

because big age gaps (usually) suck.

I am in my late 20s and talking to people 10 years younger feels like I am actively losing braincells in doing so. I am not saying I was smart at that age, I most certainly wasn't, but it is just a night and day difference when you talk to people who are still in a totally different stage of their life. I can't relate to a woman who just left highschool or just started studying.

If you are just looking for hook ups, sure, go for younger women I guess? But looking for a partner I genuinely think you should stay within your "age bracket" or whatever.

As you get older, the age difference become a bit less relevant, cause less changes, but still.

szclimber · 2022-07-27T23:32:20+00:00

Because you are interested in her.

FireCaesar23 · 2022-07-27T22:45:16+00:00

Those guys are just playing catch up from missing the hookup phase in their early 20s.

Also, there is no evidence that women in their early 20s are actually trying to get with men in their 30s.

It’s also just comforting for undesirable men in their 20s to think that things will get easier in their 30s.

But the truth is, if you aren’t desirable in your 20s good chances are you won’t have better luck in your 30s.

Also the trend of young women going for older men is dead.

GenZ women make their own money and have their own independence. They don’t need a rich guy.

Thus, you see the rise of sexless men, due to women caring more and more about looks.

EugeneCezanne · 2022-07-27T23:57:28+00:00

What exactly do you gain from marrying a professional woman in her early thirties?

You... love her? She's a person, not an investment property in a shady neighborhood.

But ok, what are the likely advantages of a professional woman in her 30s? For one thing, she should have her own money. Adding her to your household increases its income without increases many of its major expenses (it doesn't double your rent or heating bill, for instance).

For another, she's probably a much more intelligent, reasonable, reliable and interesting person than she was in her early 20s. That's the point of maturing, after all.

LSX81 · 2022-07-28T00:14:52+00:00

Only if u like her and she simps for you, if she doesn't simp pass

anon018274031 · 2022-07-27T22:53:50+00:00

What do you mean ‘giving them a chance?’

Why would you not want to be with someone your own age (so you will have lots of the same life experiences/pop culture nostalgia and references etc) who has enough financial contributions that you can live as a couple rather comfortably (rather then all the pressure being on you, and your wage having to suddenly get split into two to support someone else).

InfamousBake1859 · 2022-07-28T02:15:30+00:00

The question should be “why not”.

I guess if she’s like 32 and you realllllyyyyy want 5 kids, her fertilitt may not be up to par. But otherwise, i honestly don’t see why you would rule out your own age group.

One_Intention_8695 · 2022-07-28T08:10:30+00:00

Is invisible from 20 to 35. Thinks he's gonna become a catch at his 35 bday. 😂

itm4l2000 · 2022-07-27T22:50:09+00:00

Because she has so much love to give, in exchange for a clicking biological clock and massive consumer debt.

What's yours is hers and the way you make her feel with your resources and earning potential gives her the confidence that her unaccountable decisions of her past decisions don't ruin her life.

After all, in her mind she is worth it and she won't settle. It can't be any other way she and her friends have been telling themselves this all the time.

NockerJoe · 2022-07-27T23:04:02+00:00

Eh, I've seen men in their 50's still go for women in their 20's and 30's. I've also heard from women who got dropped for a college girl like 15 younger when they thought a connection was building.

Ideally you should go for someone you have a lot in common with but in my experience the contingent of men who keep up with modern music and culture and could hold a conversation with younger women is pretty big.

Then again I have met older women who also keep up and fuck younger guys so the dynamic certainly goes both ways. The contingent of older women who want young meat is decently large IME. Its just that a lot of them will get mad if an older man does the same thing.

2022-07-27T23:18:37+00:00

But the case still stands why would you do it when you were invisible for last 15 years of your life.

Wait why is there a "when" here like every successful man was ignored by women and everyone who got consistent attention from women throughout their lives now works at Wendy's

delight-n-angers · 2022-07-27T23:46:09+00:00

Because relationships aren't supposed to be transactional or about status and competition. They're about finding a partner to build a life with. I personally couldn't build a life with someone in a completely different stage of their life? The power imbalance would ruin the relationship. Not tension, what would we even have in common to talk about? At 36 with a successful business and a 2nd full time marketing job - I have nothing to discuss with 21 year Olds who haven't seen the real world yet. Sounds boring.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-07-27T23:36:10+00:00

I would imagine because you are dating people your own age and experience level who can relate to you at a level that people way younger or way older cannot. Everybody I've dated with few exceptions has been my age or within a year or two older.

yayayubsea · 2022-07-28T01:01:49+00:00

I don’t get this question, are you asking why would men date the female version of themselves?

doggiedoc2004 · 2022-07-28T01:50:26+00:00

Uhhh… most of the successful professional men I know (a lot) or have known at that age prefer a woman close to their age with similar career aspirations and financial goals. About 25% prefer younger trad wife. So far the marriage and financial success rate of all similar age professional couples I know become very well off. Statistically these are the marriages that are likely to succeed.

Also most professionals are working toward their goals through their twenties and are not looking for serious pair bonding until after 27 or so.

Also why would a professional male with good income and say average looks want to be with someone younger who just wants to be taken care of and isn’t really into him for anything but his career and money?

2022-07-28T01:50:59+00:00

I wouldn’t assume anyone would have a flock of women around them or be considered a catch because they make a lot of money when they get older.

Have you seen those reality shows where it’s a bunch of rich middle aged guys essentially buying wives from foreign countries because they can’t find any women, of any age, who will give them the time of day otherwise?

That’s how it goes a lot of the time. Having money doesn’t equate to having social skills or being otherwise desirable.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-07-28T02:34:02+00:00

I mean if you bond organically, have attraction, etc. Go for it, and unless she specifically spurned you, eh, gotta live your life, but if you build a connection with a hot 19 year old, even better King 💪

CommieRedEyes · 2022-07-28T05:33:28+00:00

Because you’re attracted to each other and you feel a connection? You’re compatible?

Also women aren’t dairy products.

Pablo_el_Diablo88 · 2022-07-28T06:14:41+00:00

Why Schadenfreude? "Cynical satisfaction", "Evil joy", how does that fit in with the fact a+30 man wouldn't date a same age woman?

deznue · 2022-07-28T15:44:17+00:00

Let’s say I had accumulated few millions by age 30 and always been ignored by women my age… I would definitely prefer the younger girls because they are simply hotter in general and less emotionally damaged. I wouldn’t care about her profession or how much she makes because I would be loaded already.

h1shman · 2022-07-27T22:57:43+00:00

Only top tier men in their 30s can date desirable women in their 20s. A guy who couldn’t get laid in his 20s is unlikely to be more successful in his 30s with the same 20s age group. The exception is men who have a good genetic foundation and looksmaxx.

2022-07-28T00:13:23+00:00

I am confused. Do you mean this person was invisible to some women they did not know or women they did know? How did the women who did not know them, make them invisible? Am I missing something?

johnnyferrera · 2022-07-27T22:59:20+00:00

I assume most men in that situation would give those women a chance but they also would give the 22 year olds a chance. They'd probably just fuck both.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-07-27T23:49:08+00:00

Did the particular woman know you 15 years ago ? seems men that think like your stating in this post are generalizing , holding a grude from a few teenagers, and are bitter because it took their genetics longer to kick in .

basebornmanjack41 · 2022-07-27T23:52:20+00:00

You could always turn her down and try and date someone younger but if you weren’t successful with girls under 25 in your 20s what makes you think you will have more success in your 30s?

2022-07-28T01:15:14+00:00

She better be bringing a decent income to the table. That's really the only benefit other than some things like having a familiar life reference point with music, film, etc. I'm too old to wanna listen to Dua Lipa or Taylor Swift.

KayRay1994 · 2022-07-28T02:26:53+00:00

for starters if get along, mesh really well and are attracted to each other then that’s that - then again i also don’t mind dating a woman who is a few years older than me as well sooooooo

Marzipan-Happy · 2022-07-28T02:53:03+00:00

I feel like this is a recurring thim a lot, about how disposable women become once they hit a certain age .

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2022-07-28T04:58:04+00:00

Just to put your mind at ease. If you've been invisible to women up to that point, you're not going to suddenly be in a position to be rejecting women once you hit your thirties just because you're "semi successful". This is a ridiculous fantasy. The women that rejected you at 18 still aren't interested.

andreea_carla_b · 2022-07-28T07:02:43+00:00

so let me understand this.

You think it's schadefreude to date a woman who is mature, is financially independent and stable, knows what she wants, is more confident, and (assuming you are dating) she wants to date you and finds you interesting enough to do so?

januaryphilosopher · 2022-07-28T08:22:26+00:00

Because you love them?

M_LaSalle · 2022-07-28T16:29:37+00:00

What exactly do you gain from marrying a professional woman in her early thirties?

Nothing. A younger woman will be better for childbearing and childrearing and is likely to be more sexually attractive.

GottaPSoBad · 2022-07-27T23:42:00+00:00

All I'll say is this: Barring some extreme cases or extenuating circumstances, consenting adults in an an age disparate relationship should not be stigmatized. It's kind of ridiculous that people think they can lecture a young person or an older person on who they should date/marry, assuming there's nothing untoward going on.

ezbyte · 2022-07-28T01:33:42+00:00

That particular 30yr old women didn’t even KNOW you 15 years ago. How do you know she wasn’t dating a similar version off you when she was 15?

2022-07-28T02:21:18+00:00

You were invisible for the last 15 years?

There’s probably a reason for that.

Hefty-Wolverine3675 · 2022-07-27T23:45:27+00:00

I’m 24 so I dont have this issue yet

John_Oakman · 2022-07-28T00:45:39+00:00

Social legitimacy. Either you understand & want it, or you reject and refuse it.

WilliamWyattD · 2022-07-28T05:07:04+00:00

Because you cannot conflate society-level issues with individual issues. You cannot run your love life as a means to try to rectify what you perceive to be civilization-wide problems with respect to gender unfairness in the SMP. That is sheer lunacy,

And even if retribution of some sort mattered, the women who are your potential partners at 30 didn't even fucking know you 15 years ago. So you want to enact revenged on the women who did reject you at 15 by rejecting some totally different woman who could be a good match for you when you are both 30? Talk about cutting off your nose to spite your face.

Be real. Not that it necessarily should be, but regardless, your choice of mates will not be an instrument of social justice that moves the needles on any culture-wide imbalances. So choose your mate, including her age, based on what works best for both of you at the time. If you want to save the world, there are other avenues to contribute.

EricAllonde · 2022-07-28T08:46:41+00:00

This gender flips to, “Let’s say you are an attractive woman in her early twenties. What exactly do you gain from dating an unattractive, broke guy?”

KamuiObito · 2022-07-28T09:29:56+00:00

I only like women my age as I’m 20 and I was always like women my age not gonna trick off on a a young thot just cuz..

AelfredRex · 2022-07-28T12:05:22+00:00

Because our egos are not fragile and our personalities not shallow that we absolutely must be seen with a younger woman in order to feel like a success in life?

Falling for someone your own maturity level is what's supposed to happen.

DochevD · 2022-07-28T13:13:07+00:00

I am going towards this exact scenario. After I quit looking for woman and started working on myself I became invisible. In the next 7/8 years I will be perfectly able to setup my financial life. And I will surely NOT give women my age a chance. At that point it's a bet I'm not giving 30 year old women any chances. Only 25 yo or less. And only for short term relationships. If some happens to become a mother,I will become a father then. That is all.... And I bet a LOT of guys have made this same plan.

bronzeageretard · 2022-07-28T01:31:24+00:00

Nope, why would I settle for worst? Besides if a woman isn’t married or in an ltr at 30 it means she’s either used up or has issues

neetykeeno · 2022-07-27T23:20:36+00:00

Well... you're the one who spent fifteen years implementing that strategy rather than some other strategy. Surely the question to ask is why not? I mean either you've got some other point to what you were doing going out to work every day then coming home to an empty apartment or you haven't and were just on autopilot.

If you don't have some other point to what you did and how you did it then marrying that career girl and crapping out a couple of kids is at least something, the pale shadow of what you would have preferred but it is something...but if you do have some point to what you were doing, if you were figuring on retiring early then travelling the world or setting up the best home workshop or opening a shelter for old dogs to retire to or whatever then fine that makes sense to do that.

So..Are you or were you actually working on something else worthy of being a life goal... or are you just bitchin' about having reached the precise point that fifteen years of what you were doing obviously leads to?

RepresentativeSwan1 · 2022-07-28T01:07:48+00:00

Do not listen to the female propaganda about men dating younger women. Women will often try to deter men from going for younger women by asserting that they will only ever be interested in you for your money.

To be clear, that may very well be true. But if it is, then it is also true of women your own age. You would not gain anything at all by dating a woman your own age.

There is no valid reason for a man to not date as young as possible if that option is available to him.

YungMulahBBY · 2022-07-28T02:06:53+00:00

When I was around 14, girls liked guys who were 15 because they had mopeds and they ignored guys their own age. At 16 and 17, the girls likes the guys who were 18 because they had cars and they could buy alcohol. At 18, the girls liked the guys who were like 21-22 because they were already working or in higher education.

At 21, the girls always liked guys from 23-29 because they were more "mature and experienced". At 25 the girls started to like guys pretty much anywhere from their age to 50, if they were rich.

The point is, after building myself up why should any guy who happens to be successful give any time to these women who ignored them all their lives? Not happening.

Nihi1986 · 2022-07-28T02:20:57+00:00

Very unpopular here but I'll give you a 'blue pilled' answer...

If she's not wanting to date you because of your money or stability, you like her, and she likes your qualities, how you look, your maturity and personality...why not?

There's something about women in their late 20's or 30's that we not so succesful men refuse to believe: they might have changed and actually value and like us.

Yes, she was in the 'carousel', dated the assholes when you clearly were an option, and between those guys she dated, when she was single, she hooked up with several tinder/club guys and again ignored you. She found out those guys were assholes, got a bit bored of that sex, has different priorities now and most likely got cheated on and hurt by those guys. She now appreciates your qualities, specially if you don't even look bad. She might find you now quite attractive.

You could however date a much younger girl if you have the energy and you prefer that. You could also date the woman your same age if you think she learnt a lesson from her past, it will probably work better if you are compatible, at least communication would work much better.

I assume you wouldn't want to date her because you are angry which is understandable. After all, she kind of ignored the type of guy you are for many years, didn't like those enough, it's fair if you don't want to date her and there's a good chance she wants to date you out of desperation but that's what you have to find out... Did you become a more attractive man without noticing it?? Does she truly like you now??

I honestly believe that women and their preferences change a lot through the years, not to the point where they like guys they previously found ugly, or stop liking guys they previously found handsome, but to the point where they can actually value men they didn't value that much before and even feel disgusted by the behaviour and life style from men they liked years ago. If women are now more interested on you it's probably a mix of you becoming more attractive and they becoming more 'desperate' (awful to say but that's how many women in their 30's feel after dating the wrong guys in their 20's).

2022-07-28T02:27:09+00:00

What exactly do you gain from marrying a professional woman in her early thirties?

Problems? Problems.

I think Germans call it schadenfreude.

Iirc Schadenfreude is being happy seeing damage being done. That's what the words translate-ish to. Damage joy.

Suddenly you are a good "catch" a provider a fool.

An invisible one. Or one tht gets asked if he's ghaiy because he won't "step up to the opportunity".

LOL Ah, well.

nCRedditor-21 · 2022-07-28T05:38:25+00:00

I don’t think men have an issue dating women their own age; it’s just by the time men get successful, confident and in their prime (which is sadly only in their late 20s and most of their 30s), most women are already past their prime and all the top-tier rich, attractive men who they freely gave up sex for didn’t think they were worth a relationship or the emotional labour, so those women seemingly become “available”. Most women past their prime rarely love men for who they are, but rather for what they can provide (stability and children).

retal1ator · 2022-07-27T23:49:41+00:00

I’m 32. I would date a woman at or over my age only under special circumstances - honestly only if she was absolutely perfect for me, rich, or something like that.

I seek to date women a few years younger because it is healthier. You get more time to know each other without the pressure for marriage or kids right away. Older women are short on time to have kids and often rush things, you don’t want to risk being in a relationship where she chose you because she’s desperate.

Barneysparky · 2022-07-27T23:16:58+00:00

Most guys in their early 30s if not married are with women they feel married to. Including Chad, who has done a few hookups and a couple of relationships before meeting the woman he thinks will be a good life partner.

If you are in your early 30s, haven't been in relationships and had a few hookups you are playing catch up to get into any relationship at all with a peer that you will enjoy the company of.

Some left-behind guys go overseas and use their assets, some left-behind guys hit on more naive women where they can pretend to have status to make up for being from their friend group. The first group ends up in a culture clash. I've met a few guys who took to a different culture like a duck in water, but most don't, and never a guy who was suspected of having autism. The left-behind guys who hit on younger women inevitably end up divorced or living with BPD.

Then there are the rest of the not coupled in their early 30's people. They have had relationships, but they are not bitter about them. They end up married to their counterpart, or decide being single is better. At 40, man or woman if you have no significant relationship history and haven't learned from your mistakes there is no hope except the most undesirable, like yourself.

Dramatic-Emu-1196 · 2022-07-27T22:57:49+00:00

If you like her, but always go younger, it’s just common sense

2022-07-28T00:08:01+00:00

True story - once when I was 33 and single, one of my female friends mentioned a friend of hers I might be interested in getting set up with. She said "but she might be too old for you."

"How old is she?" I asked.

"32."

And it wasn't like I had a history of dating younger women or had expressed any specific preference for it. She just assumed a 32 yr old woman might be too old for a 33 yr old man.

johnnybayarea · 2022-07-28T00:12:34+00:00

If she is a professional in her 30s as well, would we assume they are also "semi successful"? If that is the case, then you can fully gauge the financial reward to this pairing. By 30 you have a good idea of their current earnings and earning potential. You could ask about the debts they carry and their handling of basic finances. They would more likely have lived independently and not on daddy's dime. I really see no downsides.

Marrying a younger person would only introduce many financial downsides and likely less mature attitude.

If you were just saying dating, then younger could be better. If you are just looking to be first; likely less possible in this era since more and more girls are even having sex before 18. If not first, whats really the difference between 1-5dicks. I personally do not believe majority of women are trying to get their body counts to the moon (I'm in my late 30s so YMMV).

2022-07-28T03:55:49+00:00

What exactly do you gain from marrying a professional woman in her early thirties?

Soul crushing pressure to become a sperm donor.

I think Germans call it schadenfreude. But the case still stands why would you do it when you were invisible for last 15 years of your life.

We're not stupid, man. We're not going to blindly give a chance to women who ignored us previously.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-28T10:02:30+00:00

I want you to turn around and ask this question to the women in their 20's who go after older men

What exactly do you gain from marrying a professional woman in her early thirties?

A lot of demands that they picked up in their 20's that were never fufilled by other men in some kind of way. Lets not forget the "raising of the standards" either. Not to mention the aging of her body like gaining weight.

You already know how this story is gonna go...

Suddenly you are a good "catch" a provider a fool.

Yep. More than likely you weren't her type in her 20's. What does that say? What does she have to offer you now? Low self esteem monogamy? You can get that anywhere.

Put it like this. A woman is gonna have to really, and I mean really bring something to the table that was more than a younger woman to be even considered.

throwaway164_3 · 2022-07-27T23:23:35+00:00

Because of good sex

TryLambda · 2022-07-28T09:10:27+00:00

Don’t do it…unless you have no other options… she will still try to monkey branch and divorce rape you, why pay full price for used goods, when you can get better quality for free?

sarkington · 2022-07-28T01:46:34+00:00

No reason; please do not give them a chance, ever

GlowingAsItDazzles · 2022-07-28T00:16:43+00:00

nothing dont do it, who cares

Sutanrei · 2022-07-28T05:32:24+00:00

Wasn't invisible. I got who I wanted, but I agree. I'm early 30s and late twenties and up women are the ones that are invisible.

smarmycheesesandwich · 2022-07-28T09:49:23+00:00

Bro. This is dumb shit. Genuinely. Say you have any slight basis in reality—she used to date “hot” and now she doesn’t want that anymore. That’s called growing up.

But this doesn’t discount the fact that a shitload of women—even promiscuous women—go for regular looking dudes. This sub always assumes casual sex with hot men is like some kind of drug that women are frothing over with instant immediate access because of apps like Tinder. Most women I know hate that app.

Tons would choose personality and compatibility over appearance. Even more would rather be on course to a relationship rather then some douchebags fling.

This is men assuming women have our painfully shallow value system. Many women don’t care about a guy being super hot nearly as much as men care about a woman being super hot.

FireCaesar23 · 2022-07-28T12:11:23+00:00

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fdthbfdghj · 2022-07-28T05:19:57+00:00

It is really amusing that this sub just swings between “all women only want Chad and the other 99% of men are so desperate for a crumb of pussy but women don’t care and society will crumble because of this cruelty” to “why should men even deign to consider a woman their age?”

So which is it are you oppressed from hypergamy or swimming in 20 year olds?

Is afbb your worst fear or do you want a younger woman when you know we’d use you for your money?

The9thElement · 2022-07-28T18:46:14+00:00

What is it with terpers and thinking that the minute men turn 30 they become irresistible to all women. If you were invisible for 15 years of your life, turning 30 isn’t going to make you visible lol.

beleidigtewurst · 2022-07-28T15:13:15+00:00

Question is - why ?

Because you are not capable of providing resources and we spent half a million years, as species, as hunters gatherers.

Just my opinion.

feedmepizzaplease99 · 2022-07-28T18:46:32+00:00

What people like you don’t seem to understand is most young women aren’t interested in older men unless you completely supplement their lifestyles and even then it’s rare and she will most likely be less attractive as well as a gold digger.

All the hottest women I’ve known have a similar age hot boyfriend. The ones who marry or date old guys are usually mousy and don’t have hot men their own age chasing them.

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Ramzabeo · 2022-07-28T13:32:51+00:00

I never thought marrying a woman who also focused on her profession as a negative, i thought that was only saved for single moms who picked the assholes young, are you saying you view educated women who put their work over messing around in the same light as them?

Blaphrodite · 2022-07-28T17:41:15+00:00

What do you gain by marrying someone who is dependent on you? Who will take everything you worked for when you fuck up? As you will…. It goes without saying because this is a shithead mentality post.

Age is but a number and sex is sex.

Hope you see value in what your partner brings to the table that is beyond youth and looks. Because those two are superficial and temporary.

But I wish you what you wish yourself.

mistressusa · 2022-07-31T15:52:46+00:00

Enjoy your schadenfreude then. Lol.

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2022-08-23T01:25:04+00:00

If you have better options available then you have nothing to gain. Possibly lose a little.

If you do not have options you have her everything to gain. As you had nothing to begin with.

Title	Giving woman your own age a chance why?
Author	Starter91
Upvotes	1
Comments	345
Date	July 27, 2022 10:40 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/w9sck3/giving_woman_your_own_age_a_chance_why/
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