Daily Community Chat Megathread

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-10T19:05:53+00:00

[Serious]

What would make 2023 a successful year for you? Please be specific.

JiifuhTV · 2023-06-10T19:01:09+00:00

we need a purge after the blackout

Preme2 · 2023-06-10T18:49:23+00:00

If this sub goes through with going dark for 48 hours we should have a purge soon after. Do you know what 48 hours of built up woman hate will do to me?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T18:45:34+00:00

Anyone have fun Saturday plans? Any dates?

I'm reading a book, and my partner is playing Diablo. Later, we'll go for a short walk to strengthen my body post surgery. Probably order something for dinner and watch a movie tonight. My partner will also be doing the laundry and cleaning.

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-10T18:28:41+00:00

I'm pretty sure I just got called an out of touch, self referential manchild because I said women are capable of giving birth more than once every 4-6 years.

I guess I don't exist then, considering I'm only a year younger than my sister.

PPD is wild these days.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T18:21:51+00:00

Pitbull worship IS MALE WORSHIP

“Teach men not to rape”= “It’s all in how you raise em’”

“Golden retriever boys😍” = “Nanny dogs”

“Bbbbut chihuahuas” = “BbBut porn/onlyfans/women”

“But what was the child doing” = “But what was she wearing”

DeliveryBoy1821 · 2023-06-10T18:21:26+00:00

Repost from last night since the thread got closed right after I posted.

Since coming out of my shell more socially I have found the people I perceived as "higher status" are actually more open and laid back and easy to befriend than the other nerds.

My roommate who's a salesmen is always wanting to talk, offering me beer or weed or inviting me to stuff. The guy who's a math major I try to start conversations with him and he gives me one two word answers. When we do talk it's about programming and it's this akward thing where he's trying to one up me and show off how smart he is.

Same for cold approach. If the girl has tattoos and looks and seems like the more outgoing type they are way more receptive and let me down easy or will go on a date. The nerdy looking girls usually say "I don't even know you why would I give you my number."

Just two examples but I have a lot more. Kinda makes sense in hindsight that more social people are easier to socialize with, but for some reason I always used to be way more nervous around them than I was around nerds, and thought they would be more harsh because they are the "cool kids" and I'm the wierd nerdy dude.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T18:16:32+00:00

Only time I thought a post wall man was attractive

My pre calculus teacher was like 37, fat, and going bald but I thought he was cute because he was funny

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-10T18:15:59+00:00

Q4M: do you hate chad? do you wish you were chad? why are you still dating if chad has taken all the good women from you?

potoricco · 2023-06-10T18:12:13+00:00

Invest in misting fan

Actually life changer

Nate_Reborn · 2023-06-10T18:09:59+00:00

Being upfront and expressing your desires really does cut through a lot of the crap. It’s amazing. The responses I get are also amazing.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T18:02:33+00:00

Because of this sub, I'm constantly asking my friends the most unhinged questions.

🌟 Did/do you care about your partners "body count"

🌟 Is your partner a beta? Would you leave him for a Chad?

🌟 Are you traveling alone to Greece just to have sex?

🌟 What's life like beyond the wall for you?

potoricco · 2023-06-10T17:49:56+00:00

Me watching guys that get no pussy join ppd (I cannot interfere, it’s a canon event)

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T17:46:38+00:00

We're halfway through the year....

Are you any closer to your goals?

purplish_possum · 2023-06-10T17:45:02+00:00

First one to the car gets to claim the AUX cord. My 14-year-old ran to the car to claim it. The first song she plays is the Runaways doing a Slayed cover. Then she played The Muffs, and then Betty Blowtorch. She's my girl for sure.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-10T17:42:08+00:00

My biggest disagreement with trp is probably the idea that men age like fine wine. Most people age like shit, women just fall off sooner.

I've seen dudes I went to high school with look like they dam near aged 15 years from 18 to 25. Put on a ton of weight and can't keep it off, their hairline is destroyed, their skin looks rough.

Ideal time for a guy to be in an LTR with plans to eventually get married is mid 20s to early 30s imo. That time frame allows time to establish a career, gain life experience, but still be pretty physically attractive.

Maffioze · 2023-06-10T17:30:37+00:00

I made a post about the just world fallacy and most comments are just doubling down on it. You can't make this shit up.

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-06-10T17:29:48+00:00

https://twitter.com/libsoftiktok/status/1667327987681722369

Aside from what's discussed in the video, I just got to say — TRT is a hell of a drug. This woman literally is more masculine than a significant proportion of post-pubescent men.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-10T17:22:10+00:00

I don't get this whole "treats women differently" narrative

Of course l treat them differently since they are literally the opposite sex, l don't hang round them that much compared to my guy friends,don't understand their nature like a female,never took interest in their trends/lifestyles especially among young women

And what nobody seems to acknowledge, is many girls also treat guys differently

Now this doesn't mean l don't view them as human but l would never look at them the same way as men

SorryEm · 2023-06-10T17:12:02+00:00

Question for the ladies here:

Who would you rather date Griffith or Guts from Berserk?

the-lone-squid · 2023-06-10T17:10:24+00:00

Lately YouTube has been monitizing migtow channels..

Think they are hoping it will help lower the population?

lolmastr13 · 2023-06-10T17:09:18+00:00

I wonder to what extent it’s right to treat the gender you’re attracted to differently.

Like befriending women only because you want to potentially sleep with them or their friends.

It seems grimy to me but if it works and you’re operating within social norms ?🤷‍♂️

webernicke · 2023-06-10T17:07:15+00:00

Bruh I am so fucked up rn.

Edible that hooker recommended hitting hard.

"'Gon knock ya on yo' ass, boi'" she said in the most deep Texan drawl you'll ever hear coming out such a teenie bopper looking body.

She may be a hoe but she ain't a liar tho. Took 1/4 of this gummi like 15 hours ago and still feel like reality is a simulation or some shit...

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T16:47:01+00:00

This sub has taught me that an average man looks like Sloth from Goonies.

Now, that I realize what average means. I can see why they struggle. They are stunted emotionally and can't use their words.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T16:32:24+00:00

It's always so funny to me that the go-to is to insult a woman's weight if she disagrees with you.

And then that person wonders why they are sad and single.

Willow-girl · 2023-06-10T15:53:37+00:00

I'm a cheap date! $44 at the Goodwill Outlet yesterday. Imgur

DerayRevan · 2023-06-10T15:42:36+00:00

"You see girls choosing really tall guys"

Yes that's what many girls want bro

A man much taller than them

Either they can wear heels or feel protected around you

That's attraction

Doesn't take being RP or BB or whatever belief to acknowledge this

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-10T15:36:40+00:00

Lmao. I love when you piss somebody off so much they go through your history and downvote your last 50 comments out of spite.

Don't use this word much but that's the epitome of triggered.

As an aside, why is it the only people who tell you to "learn history" or "go read a book" have absolutely no clue what they are talking about?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-10T15:28:42+00:00

I remember when the actor Emilia Clarke made a comment in an interview about how she preferred men with a dad bod and how she didn't need a man with a six pack, yet you looked at her dating history and she's dated:

James Franco
Seth MacFarlane
Kit Harrington

Plus she dated a male model.......where's the dad bods Emilia?

Watch what they do, not what they say.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-10T15:19:37+00:00

I had no idea l was on time out for 2 days

Been so much busy since Thursday

And just found out am one of the male bridesmaids at my cousin's wedding, all black for the guys is the request

Willow-girl · 2023-06-10T15:12:56+00:00

My man's out at the farm while I'm working here. I searched all over for the drill driver and safety glasses. Couldn't find them so I finally texted him, do you have any intel? He says they're both in his truck. Aiiieeeee ...

I swear I'm getting my own set of tools.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-10T14:58:12+00:00

I want the men here to rate tophia because that would be actually hilarious.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T14:54:01+00:00

Is it just me or people from the southern part of a country are known to be kinder, warmer and more open than people from the northern part? Like why is that

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-06-10T14:51:31+00:00

Women: I'm gonna post the most unattractive women I can find and see if men say they're attracted to them

And what's even sadder is like half of the men said yes. Imagine the reverse, posting a short bald indian janitor and asking women if he's unattractive. Women would be completely unapologetic about it. Simps ruin dating.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-10T14:38:42+00:00

Is anyone here from the Latino community. I heard someone comment somewhere that Latinos are immune to all this nonsense. All they care about is being with family and having a good time.

I come from the total opposite background. People in my community are all about gaining money/ status (especially the men) cuz our ancestors were tyrannized and poor.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T14:37:26+00:00

GUYS I have a really good business idea

So you know these Brazil shirts that are currently trending

What if I made these but for like different countries and then sold them online? Like I already have a sewing machine and iron. Maybe people could request countries or something

I could set up a wix or Etsy site or such. I personally think it is a good idea. I’ve always wanted to start a business

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-10T14:29:37+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/145ngn2/i_slapped_a_female_because_she_keep_sexually/

Pretty strange thread/comments... a lot of people here would consider me a huge misogynist, but my instinctive reaction to this post was that the guy is a dumbass for physically hitting someone, and could have easily put himself in a position to be charged with battery and expelled. The comments are praising him, and one person even tells him if he has it on video he can "nuke the university in court" if they try to discipline him.

The girl was definitely sexual harassing him, but needless to say the proper way to handle a girl pinching your nipples is not to put your hands on her. He's pretty fortunate he didn't get his ass beat too to be honest, i've seen vids of guys getting ganged up on even when actually defending themselves from a woman, and here self defense wouldn't apply.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T14:24:13+00:00

No hate to the kid but this is not cute

Why are we literally seen as incubators, even if we’re sick, half dead, disabled? Do they not see how they used her barely living body as a machine to deliver a child? Then abandoned and killed once the child was born. That is fucked up not inspiring at all.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-10T14:19:55+00:00

Once you start to get girls you realize they really are all trying to date the same dudes. My gf a few weeks ago (names are replaced for obvious reasons) said you haven't met Vanessa yet. I said oh wait...do you mean Vanessa...smith? and we looked at each other realizing we're talking about the same person and i've gone out with my gf's friend before. Unsurprisingly she wasn't very put off by that (yes, pre-selection is real)

This was like the 3rd or 4th time in the last year and a half a girl I was dating/on a date with either had slept with another guy in my relatively small professional circle (relative to population in the area), or knew another girl that went out with me.

Maffioze · 2023-06-10T14:15:15+00:00

We really have people claiming men complain all the time. If there is one gender that complains very little and is shamed for doing so it's men.

Some people truly live in delusion 24/7 it seems.

autumncolors816 · 2023-06-10T14:03:48+00:00

I saw this weird question somewhere-

Would you rather deal with a married man who never tells you NO (except he won't be with you exclusively)...OR your man who tells you NO 45% of the time?

armpitpics · 2023-06-10T13:57:25+00:00

Where does the idea that women caring about looks was a secret until recently?
I know, looks aren't the only thing that matters and a guy can be someone's type even if he's not conventionally attractive, but that doesn't mean it's not obvious that having conventionally good looks as a man gives you a leg up. Look at the males leads in romantic movies, male models , boy band members, the way many women react when a physically attractive man enters the room, the fact that most hot women are with conventionally attractive men. All of these has been obvious for as long as I've been alive.

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-10T13:33:17+00:00

I don’t think women who are picky about looks should ever apologize. Have you ever heard a males friends try to hook their friend up with a girl and say “yea she’s a little ugly but she’s nice and will treat you good”. No? But for some reason this way of thinking is always aimed at women when a woman is looking for a partner. “Yea he’s a little ugly but he’s a really nice guy and he’ll treat you good.”

It’s “okay” for males to say they want to be with a woman they find attractive but when a woman says the same thing all hell breaks loose.

FuuraKafu · 2023-06-10T13:32:34+00:00

When a woman cosplays as an oversexualized, unrealistic female character from a videogame and walks around like that at a convention, that's the feminist version of "unstoppable force vs immovable object".

"Women have every right to dress however the fuck they want" vs "society oppresses women by sexualizing them."

potoricco · 2023-06-10T13:24:18+00:00

Me watching miguel O’Hara throw a baby into a wood chipper to save the multiverse (I cannot interfere, it was a canon event)

potoricco · 2023-06-10T13:22:48+00:00

Me watching girls who never received attention growing up fall for literally any guy (I cannot interfere, it’s a canon event)

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-10T13:04:41+00:00

why are so many men so bad at flirting and building intimacy? i know y’all be nervous and whatnot but how do y’all expect women to want to fuck you??

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-10T12:43:06+00:00

There's so many hot people with mental illnesses that everyone isn't dating because of their mental illnesses like y'all there's an untapped market here.I would be such a catch if I wasn't psychologically crippled.(also sorry if I'm writing this weird I'm kinda like tipsy rn don't mind me)

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-10T12:28:51+00:00

Damn. I hate when you spend a long time responding to an OP, compiling a bunch of statistics and research and data and taking to time put together a well thought out response. And then they immediately delete their thread right after you hit send.

Edit- Never mind they didn't delete a jannie did.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-10T12:25:41+00:00

People who say "don't date someone with mental issues" are stupid because only the hottest, sexist, most handsome bitches are a little quirky and weird. I would be a total catch without them fr 😔🙏.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T12:12:30+00:00

“Women are more emotional “

VampireChaser · 2023-06-10T10:30:01+00:00

What are the weirdest things you did for your partner to make them happy?

I had a partner in the past who was really into aftercare. She enjoyed things like me combing her hair, painting her nails and toes, and giving her specific body part massages.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-10T09:39:20+00:00

How do people have music on while having sex?? It seems super awkward.

MaximumPain2 · 2023-06-10T09:11:48+00:00

Women were right all along. Looks isn't the only factor. First of all, finding your partner attractive is one of the most important things even though it is also optional. There are couples who agreed on being together without even seeing each other first and still are happily married up to this day. Of course, there are also couples who did the same and ended in a devastating divorce. Rationally speaking it just seems fair for every participant that you find the person you're going to marry attractive and that the person whom you're going to marry finds you attractive. So first and foremost, even though it is optional, attractive is important.

You need to find her attractive. She needs to find you attractive. Therefore there is no reason to blame the other for not finding you attractive.

But, attractiveness truly isn't all. We are humans after all. We all act differently, we all feel differently, we all talk differently, we all express our thoughts and emotions differently.

Both suitors check for whether or not the communication is on the same wavelength.

This is surely no hard rule though. Assuming that most of us learn relatively early on that noone acts exactly the way we expect them to be, we learn and accept to tolerate most things. If done right, this can also be helpful in enhancing one's own horizon and knowledge. We also of course learn to put hard boundaries in order to protect and prevent ourselves from falling into pits we cannot escape from.

The second point is very individual as well. Whereas the first point has rather collective ideas although it also contains individual exceptions.

Most importantly though, it is of important notice to specifically mention that being attractive to the other person usually does play an important role. Even more important is to remind that anyone landing a relationship isn't automatically a good person. The same matchup which might lead to marriage on one couple, might lead to seperate ways on another couple. Hence we observe that all sorts of couples exist.

Good Husband and Good Wife. Helping and improving their surroundings. Maybe your parents or grandparents? There are thankfully way too many examples for this.
Bad Husband and Good Wife. Wife being put through a very difficult time by the evil hands of the husband, harming his wife and his surroundings. The Pharaoh and his Wife Asiye (during Moses' era) among other infinite examples.
Good Husband and Bad Wife. Wife harming and hurting her husband, family and surroundings. Prophet Noah and his wife for example among other near infinite examples.
Bad Husband and Bad Wife. An evil couple, specializing on doing bad things to others, harming and hurting their surroundings. Bonny and Clyde might be one of the near infinte amount of examples for this.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T08:36:02+00:00

Ugh. I can't sleep.

dbz__f · 2023-06-10T07:32:39+00:00

If you last did a solid poo Wednesday morning and as of Saturday afternoon you’ve only done small kangaroo pellets, is that canonically constipation?

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-10T07:19:31+00:00

Opinions on the "if you watch porn that's cheating"

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-10T07:16:03+00:00

penis

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-10T07:05:08+00:00

Damn second again

Wanna hear another joke

What do you call a fish that's quick at things

Efishent (All jokes made by moi)

VampireChaser · 2023-06-10T07:02:12+00:00

First blood.

happy_discus · 2023-06-10T19:22:55+00:00

I went to the fitness center once now. Why are all these women suddenly chasing me? I needed to build a fort around the house with a moat to stop them from talking to me. They are now besieging me.

JiifuhTV · 2023-06-10T21:01:39+00:00

man city are the champions league champions 🥱

ilovesoundtracks · 2023-06-10T19:08:13+00:00

Fun fact: Cleopatra was known as "Meriochane" by the greeks- a term that literally translates to "she who gapes wide for 10,000 men."

SergTheSerious · 2023-06-10T20:03:30+00:00

I get the vibe that a lot of these experiential topics remain inaccessible for a sizeable chunk of men (perhaps about a third) that have low-tier physical genes which form some kind of "dark triad" (ethnic, short, facial ugliness), where the steps to even appear noticed to contemporary women become so lofty that they are nearly impractical without a strong rearrangement of social norms. I think the minds of men and women are too complicated to make definitive conclusions, but would it be misguided to say that perhaps some men with highly unfavorable traits still have a decent chance to be doomed to fail in the dating market, unless they tap into specialized reservoirs of women via assimilation (e.g. religious affiliation, first-gen ethnic groups, but even these are decreasing in Western society) or make drastic improvements that, let's face it, most men in this "third" will either be too mentally weak or unskilled to succeed upon trying? And if even if a lot of them did, it would just raise the general bar of adequate suitorship?

I do agree that this is a number's game for everyone to be honest, and it's healthy to at least put yourself out there for sanity's sake, regardless of genetic position. But I'm saying this as someone who is short, ethnic, and very average in facial features. I fail to really see anyone with my stats who managed to pull a sustainable relationship, and it makes people such as myself feel generally disconnected from discussion that more average to above-average people are engaging in. I'm not trying to be self-centered, but there comes a point that people like me with monogamous aspirations can become unhinged if they aren't given the proper guidance, and then fall into these toxic one-sided pills to cope. I know we are a minority, but a common sentiment I see is whether the game is even worth playing when odds are so highly stacked against us, without a serious life change or hail-Mary that might lead to catastrophic regret.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T21:02:07+00:00

Seems like being single is the worst thing for men than for women.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-11T01:58:24+00:00

The excitement I feel over not having fallopian tubes is unmatched.

To never had children or worry about having children is so liberating.

potoricco · 2023-06-11T02:31:03+00:00

Unpopular ~~opinion~~ FACT

If you’re not willing to be dead bedroom with someone You don’t actually love them

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-10T20:08:10+00:00

Just wanted to let my friends on PPD know that today will be my last day of watching Porn. And of course I really mean hentai cause that’s my shit but there have been a couple of irl women doing femdom things that have made there way onto my catalogue somehow.

My reasoning for this is because it just doesn’t do anything for me anymore. I feel like a zombie during and after. And then ot course come the existential crisis and guilt afterward. I don’t watch male/female stuff just usually solo female stuff if I watch irl but I have come to the conclusion that watching porn is basically cucking yourself if you are a single male like I am.

So if you notice me being more pleasant towards women users and people in general that is most likely the reason. Hell I might even change my flair.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-11T00:50:10+00:00

Reminder for everyone to discover a new genre of music every week to broaden your horizons.

EulenWatcher · 2023-06-11T00:58:31+00:00

u/BigVulvaEnergy, some guys here don't like when men do things around the house. The last time I said men cooked dinner and cleaned everything I got some responses about me and the other girl not being polite or something.

Today they cooked again and I'm pretty sure they're gonna clean afterwards too. Because the girl and I have just finished working.

the-lone-squid · 2023-06-10T19:15:46+00:00

You know you’re getting older when the highlight of the day is when your back and shoulder finally pops 😎

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-10T19:41:57+00:00

It’s weird when females don’t have their nails painted yet still wear open toed shoes. One of my many pet peeves with female humans.

Since I’m fair and all about equality I’ll add a pet peeve I have with my fellow males. Some of y’all fucking stink and need to shower and wear antiperspirant deodorant.

bzl33 · 2023-06-10T19:42:04+00:00

people here keep arguing whether men age worse at one age or the other, the reality is it's a combination of genetics and stuff in your control, like diet and exercise. If you're balding, people will assume you are old regardless of how well you eat or exercise.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T20:07:45+00:00

Men here: my confidence improved, and I'm seeing dating success.

Me: Congrats on improving your confidence!

Men here: confidence isn't real!! You're fat and a liar!

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-10T20:27:36+00:00

Men often say they wish there was a weight or cup size filter on dating apps to give women an idea of what it would be like to be a dude (height filter). However, imagine an average man inputting 120 as the max weight and D cup as the minimum cup size he would accept. He would go from 0 matches to 0 matches. There is no way to implement something like that without kneecapping your matches as a guy unless you were extremely generous. Only the top guys could get away with it and even then they'd be limiting themselves.

Plus there are men who specifically like small boobs while there doesn't seem to be many women who specifically like short guys. Weird how all your "measurements" as a man need to be high and there's basically no upper limit to it, but there are more lower limits that screw many guys over. But as a woman your measurements could be big and have a wide appeal or small and still have a wide appeal.

What do you guys think would happen if we implemented filters like this on dating apps, assuming there was no public backlash against it?

VampireChaser · 2023-06-10T21:00:51+00:00

I like women with butterfly wings down there.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-10T22:29:00+00:00

women dont give a shit about abs.

Broad shoulders gets them wet though.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T23:23:16+00:00

I don't understand why it upsets some that my partner does the cooking in our household.

It's like they feel they need to rescue him from the horrors of the kitchen.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-10T23:47:05+00:00

"The reason men will never have a body positivity movement is because other men would never support it"

And because we live in reality

I'm not gonna sit here and lie about how attractive your fat nipples or belly is, just to boost your ego/confidence

Nah man, you need to put in the work to be attractive

meteorness123 · 2023-06-11T00:17:52+00:00

I feel like I can't "just" bang women anymore because if a woman really wants you, she wants to marry you or at least something long-term. Which means that if I don't want that, I will dissappoint her and waste her time. How to solve this ? Only fuck if I have those intentions as well ?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-11T00:19:58+00:00

"Men don't see women as people"

Of course

I view attractive women as attractive people

DerayRevan · 2023-06-11T00:30:17+00:00

"Would you give up video games for a girl"

Many young guys would say no, and why wouldn't they

Why would you give up something that important for a chick ?

The video games came wayyy before her

If you've to give up your habits for a girl then l don't know what to tell you

I didn't even give up watching pornography or smoking when l got my first gf

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-11T07:14:25+00:00

I'm gonna go through withdrawal when ppd goes dark I just need to fight stupid people.

VampireChaser · 2023-06-10T19:19:02+00:00

Q4W: Would you date a trans FtM?

potoricco · 2023-06-10T19:30:08+00:00

Is it just me or are there literally clones of me now. Or is my ego inflated, or am I being gang stalked

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-06-10T20:52:41+00:00

Only on PPD will you hear someone say 29.5 BMI is 'not fat'

30 BMI is clinically obese btw

LiveWallaby233 · 2023-06-10T21:01:00+00:00

I'm so sad that City won, I'm not even going to the date I was supposed to go this night... 😪

potoricco · 2023-06-10T21:08:45+00:00

Slowly but surely starting to find beards attractive

FULL ones not patchy

meteorness123 · 2023-06-10T21:11:51+00:00

bru my entire back hurts when walking outside. could this be due to wearing bad shoes ? I heard good stuff about barefoot or minmalist/zero drop shoes

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2023-06-10T22:58:54+00:00

Here’s a great example of an average skinny guy who looks hot because he has a style that works for him and a great smile https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/comments/14621fb/30s_m_glasses_vs_contacts_stubble_or_clean_what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Don’t underestimate smiling and style. Sometimes people who think they are ugly just present themselves as bad as they can as if they were trying to be ugly

relish5k · 2023-06-10T23:14:14+00:00

What exactly is the problem with using alcohol to self medicate? It is crazy how much better I feel about everything after 1 cocktail

potoricco · 2023-06-10T23:17:46+00:00

I look so pretty right now

DerayRevan · 2023-06-10T23:18:52+00:00

"Do you really struggle with dating and what is your relationship"

In my late teens absolutely but going into my mid 20s things got better

Dating apps in the 2010s was a disaster for a lot of friends which is why l preferred meeting girls in real-life

But same time had many girls flake on dates and all this other Bullshit

Also had a distance problem where l would take a girl l met from a club or bar at my place but the moment we got there she would loss the interest because the distance was really that far, which is why changing locations made things way easier

GridReXX · 2023-06-10T23:49:01+00:00

He is handsome, has a wide physical frame, is buff, was already six feet and still chose to have that leg lengthening surgery to add 7 more inches.

The men are becoming as ridiculous as the women when it comes to gratuitous cosmetic surgery 🥺🥲

DerayRevan · 2023-06-10T23:56:31+00:00

"Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age"

I've no objective data on this

Anecdotally

I've a friend in a LTR with a woman 8 years younger than him, his 35 and she's 27

And another friend in a relationship with a woman around his age, his 29 and she's 26

And personally my gf is much younger than me

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-11T01:08:10+00:00

I think it's bad that I see relationships as friends that have sex like I genuinely can't tell the difference between a relationship and fwb.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-11T01:29:42+00:00

"Still keeps contact of his ex"

Na after some months, you just need to delete all your contacts of her

It's the only way your gonna move on

That's the whole point of an ex

The only time you can keep her around is if you had kids with her but If not then l don't know why you keep her around

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-11T01:46:42+00:00

Imagine going on a road trip before technology. You’d have to whip out a map and pray you didn’t miss your exit

potoricco · 2023-06-11T01:53:06+00:00

I have abysmally low physical standards it’s actually dangerous

WHEN will hypergamy kick in

DancesWithMyr · 2023-06-11T02:22:34+00:00

I'm starting to realize my life is passing me by while I try to constantly fix everything that's wrong with me. My navel gazing has been too excessive for a long time now, and I have to spend my efforts in the outside world more and not in my own head picking apart everything wrong with me.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-11T02:27:54+00:00

I tell people I'm waiting for marriage to have sex not because I'm religious it's just because I know nobody would want to marry me and that is my get out of jail free card, work smarter not harder 😎"oh yah I'm so chaste and pure and I'm waiting for my future man totally yah" (I just get no bitches)

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-11T03:23:25+00:00

Had a guy said he wanted a conservative goth girl to date and I pissed myself laughing.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-11T03:31:22+00:00

"You know guys give you attention for sex"

Pretty girls: wait what

huhwhatokok · 2023-06-11T04:07:25+00:00

I got a Chad lob last night from my boy and I’m setting up a date with the girl he Chad lobbed to me. He broke her and her friend apart so I could make a move. I’m in awe of his power. I also am not putting to much into this potential date till it happens cause stuff like this usually fizzles out.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-11T05:40:32+00:00

I just saw a post on the seduction board asking men with 50+ body counts how it effected their psychology and their lives. So many of them say they can't form bonds and how it makes them feel empty or like they won't find a fulfilling relationship and there's other ones who argue that bad relationships do more damage than having a lot of hookups. I wanted to get red pilled guys opinions on this and anyone else's opinions on this since it deals with male promiscuity/Chad's perspective.

Does promiscuity inherently impact an individuals ability to pair bond?

Can promiscuity in men impact their ability to pair bond?

Relationships vs hookups: which one can cause more psychological damage? Maybe it varies person to person?

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-06-11T06:59:46+00:00

Q4W: Have you ever been on a date and experienced a guy mentally/psychologically "give up" part way through? What did that look like, and how did it make you feel?

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potoricco · 2023-06-10T14:18:56+00:00

Just found out my uncle died

potoricco · 2023-06-10T19:37:03+00:00

I Love Erling Haland

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-06-10T20:44:40+00:00

The purge week basically proves the average male here is an incel, no?

meteorness123 · 2023-06-10T21:00:39+00:00

personality first.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-10T21:29:04+00:00

i want to hug like 10 boys 😩

meteorness123 · 2023-06-10T22:28:19+00:00

I like my girl thick. Not just kind of fine. Eat her till she cry. Call that wine and dine.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-10T22:32:43+00:00

I just saw a weird ass YouTube title that was along the lines like "When you awkwardly get outed for owning 7 homes on national TV."

When has owning 7 homes ever been a bad thing? If you've got the money, why wouldn't you own as many as you can to add more passive income?

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-10T22:56:10+00:00

so who’s worst off? men or women??

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-06-10T23:04:40+00:00

Hyper sexuality along with the influence of feminism had ravaged the african american demographic

DerayRevan · 2023-06-10T23:08:49+00:00

"Do you care about a woman's income when it comes to dating"

Attraction and caring are two different things but l generally don't care since it never pops into my mind when dating females

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-10T23:52:41+00:00

Thinking about this Reddit api freak out, why don't we think about this in terms of other social media platforms.

NONE of them provide an API for 3rd party creators to make an app that will take revenue away from their app.

It was incredibly magnanimous of reddit to give out the API in the first place. And now they want to GASP actually make money, the entirety of reddit loses their mind?

Personally, I think Reddit should have just yanked all access to the API and said, "no other social media platform provides an API, and we're losing a fuck ton of revenue by doing so, so fuck off."

potoricco · 2023-06-11T00:27:23+00:00

I aint gon lie Dylan Mulvaney is fucking beautiful like

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-11T00:46:07+00:00

What’s everyone up to tonight? I’m finishing up some physics 2 homework and then imma game with mah boy.

SorryEm · 2023-06-11T00:56:37+00:00

Question for liberal women. I'm socialist on economics and conservative on social issues.

Is this good enough for you ladies? I am the masculine left wing man of your dreams hahaha.

potoricco · 2023-06-11T02:27:45+00:00

Whenever I do makeup I get compliments from older 40+ women including my mom

I am not sure whether I should be offended or flattered. Because their makeup is usually bad, like notoriously bad.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-06-11T03:35:35+00:00

Fact: If you're not willing to have sex with your partner you don't actually love them, and you're probably a horrible person too

DerayRevan · 2023-06-11T03:36:12+00:00

"What do you hate the most"

When people compliment the mother for creating the child and not the father

Like the man contributed just as much as she did since the semen not only had to swim but also beat his other siblings to the egg

The world is just unfair 😔

huhwhatokok · 2023-06-11T03:46:21+00:00

Over 2k comments Jesus lmao

https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/145sonb/21f_rate_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

ICumInVirgins · 2023-06-11T04:15:24+00:00

My friend asked me how to find a virgin girlfriend, i told him i'd do a little research and hit him up. It's been 3 days and i got nothing.

Please, enlighten me.

viscountesskate · 2023-06-11T04:34:31+00:00

ive been seeing a guy for about a month, we last hung out a couple days ago. he told me two days ago he’d call me yesterday but he forgot and didn’t.

he’s done this maybe twice now but his over the phone communication is good otherwise, although he let me know he’s a bit busy this week, but i just hate when people volunteer that they’ll do something and then don’t.

is it ok that i texted him ‘hey, dw if you’re not free, i just needed advice about a work thing but please don’t say you’ll call if you won’t’?

im worried it was too negative/naggy and would be a turn off, he’s someone that’s very emotionally mature in general but im just anxious anyway.

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-06-11T06:32:40+00:00

Hope you folks have a good Sunday

Here is some comic relief I found, OG trolls. life is absurd : ) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tsq1P-U7wD8

meteorness123 · 2023-06-10T22:48:15+00:00

Tate is more attractive to women than any model-looking man.

Personality first.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-10T22:56:06+00:00

No woman over 25 is looking for a man with a pretty face. Literally noone.

Physical strength,personality (most important), conviction,charisma reign supreme.

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