And I mean, literally anywhere. A grocery store, a restaurant, in a drive thru fast food line, at school, the gym, literally anywhere.

I’m just wondering how often women see a guy they think is attractive but it goes nowhere because you all don’t usually say anything and most of us men are starting to not want to or like to cold approach.

Also, when a woman compliments a guy on things other than his looks, say, his clothing, they don’t really seem to be IOI’s as i’ve gotten them plenty of times. For example, this one girl seemed super pressed about my outfit one night at a bar. I then asked for her number and she gave me her instagram and never followed me back lol. In comparison, one time a girl at a restaurant (the waitress), told me she thought I was cute and when I asked for her number she gave it right away joyfully.

Even a guy you all find super attractive you don’t usually give direct clear IOI’s right? But so yea, how often have y’all seen a guy whose number you would’ve liked but you didn’t ask for it?