Daily Community Chat Megathread

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-05-20T22:01:04+00:00

I don’t think some 40 year olds date 20 year olds is because they think no 40 year old is hot enough for them, it’s about what they will look like 10-20 years later

Peacesquad · 2023-05-20T21:58:09+00:00

I saw this on YouTube

“ Women want the power of men, the privileges of women, the accountability of children, and the responsibility of infants”

This is super toxic right?

potoricco · 2023-05-20T21:52:14+00:00

FindingNemo is such a well made and beautiful movie like I cry every time I watch dis

The love between father and son is so beautiful

evil-stepmom-666 · 2023-05-20T21:38:32+00:00

Seeing truly happy middle aged and old couples makes me feel so warm and fuzzy 🥰

Peacesquad · 2023-05-20T21:26:34+00:00

Body positivity makes sense. Please support overweight and morbidly obese women! They need love y’all! 🍕🍟🍔🌭🍪🍩🍿

Peacesquad · 2023-05-20T21:25:59+00:00

Please stop hating women in the comments yall. I love women. What’s so wrong with manifesting? And vibes? Let women be themselves they’re awesome I don’t like the hate I’m seeing it’s scary man on here

Maffioze · 2023-05-20T20:59:51+00:00

I just came across these comments on a post about a famous couple with an age gap relationship and its just bizzare to me to see this kind of entitlement upvoted so highly.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/13mebf4/dua_lipa_and_french_director_romain_gavras_made/jkvs813?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Appearantly to this commenter women deserve to be wanted as much as men in their 40's. First off what does "deserve" has to do with attraction and people choosing who they want to date? Secondly men on average aren't even desired as much as women are overall regardless of their age, should we men all start saying we deserve to be more wanted?

And why is this so accepted? When I was younger I wasn't wanted or desired at all. I felt sad about it but I didn't go around to say that I deserved to be wanted. When a man does that it's immediately seen as incel behaviour, as entitlement and as pathetic. Yet when a woman does it its supported and encouraged with some weird ass justification that society is to blame instead of it just being people exercising their agency.

It just shows how normalised entitlement is when it's a woman doing it and the hypocrisy when it comes to this topic is astounding. Men really aren't any more entitled than women.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-20T20:41:34+00:00

Q4A: Has the LMS advice worked out for you?

armpitpics · 2023-05-20T20:06:03+00:00

"Don't give him wife benefits at girlfriend price".
If the guy doesn't cook for himself, doesn't clean after himself and sex with him needs to happen in exchange for something, why do I would I want a serious relationship with him, let alone marriage?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T19:18:10+00:00

Ok meeting through social circles is great for a lot of people

But for guys who don't have a social circle of attractive women, your best bet is just approaching or hosting social events either two works fine if you what your doing

If your in college/uni it makes more easier

Especially at beaches guys, approaching women at beaches is the best for me and once made a bikini competition

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-05-20T19:16:30+00:00

Q4A: Special Agent Cody Banks or Special Agent Juni Cortez, who's better?

purplish_possum · 2023-05-20T19:10:09+00:00

Seems like Target has gone all in on size acceptance. Lots of cool skimpy outfits for big women.

scwizard · 2023-05-20T18:53:52+00:00

I stopped taking the pill for the first time in 15 years a couple months ago, and have been totally overcome with emotions and feelings, one (thankfully) being that I love my husband even more than I did before. My libido has also skyrocketed. Now, when I think about getting pregnant with his baby, I practically lose my mind.

Man girls go off the pill and the animal in them comes out...

scwizard · 2023-05-20T18:46:17+00:00

Some random guy from out of town asked me what there was to do in our city (spoiler: nothing). He was clearly drunk and with his friend, who proceeded to grab me and pull me in and kiss me on the street.

I was literally paralyzedwith fear and felt like I couldnt get away for some reason

My boyfriend stood there the entire. Time.

He was just... watching? I have no idea, but he certainly didn't step in to defend me. He just caught up with me after and said how weird thar was which, yeah. Duh.

I know that we should know how to protect ourselves (I'd stupidly forgot my pepper spray, my fault), but isn't it natural to want your partner to stand up for you? He's apologized over and over -- said he froze too -- but I'm still really hurt by it and want to forget but don't know how. Does anybody have any advice for me?

I've never been in a fight before. I'm a stupid beta and I'd probably react the same way if some big guy did that.

That's a shitty way to lose your girlfriend...

According_Talk_3084 · 2023-05-20T18:31:58+00:00

There is nothing wrong with the "it is over" mentality.

In fact there are men, like myself, who simply were not made for relationships.

Therefore, it can be a good thing to accept this fact.

The "it is over" mentality should be rather based on oneself's abilities and not what other people bring, don't bring or look out for.

evil-stepmom-666 · 2023-05-20T18:10:23+00:00

A lot of regulars have disappear since last time I was here. What happened?

VampireChaser · 2023-05-20T17:40:49+00:00

How come most people who are into astrology, occultism, witchcraft, crystals, etc are women? You guessed it, a lot of women are just delusional.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-20T17:40:46+00:00

Q4A: if the wall is 30, what happens between 30 and 80?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-20T17:37:49+00:00

Morning sex is the best way to start the day.

Life beyond the wall is pretty fantastic. 😍

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2023-05-20T17:32:58+00:00

Anyone else noticed a new trend of brown latino men dating white women in the southwest

DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T17:32:00+00:00

The whole "chase success and not women" only proves the women are attracted to you because of your accomplishments which l'm with it but people who say this have to acknowledge that

A good example might be Kobe Bryant or Leonardo

But someone like Tate who had girlfriends since he was broke is the opposite

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-20T17:22:00+00:00

Do you guys think women find introversion unattractive or it’s just a case of it lowering your options?

potoricco · 2023-05-20T17:13:39+00:00

Why you need iPhone NOW:

I go to a cultural/language class and the teachers are all one the old fashioned side, they have android 🤮 and other phones from 1815

We wanted to take a class picture and they literally couldn’t capture everyone while still having the picture be clear. I offered them to use my iPhone and they were amazed by the wide .05 lens and clear picture

They weee all amazed and asked me to send them the photo. Got so many phone numbers

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-20T17:07:33+00:00

I keep trying to convince my toddler that the photos of a baby on my phone are her, and that she used to be a baby, but she disagrees

DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T17:01:17+00:00

Ok this is my strategy of getting multiple dates especially on Saturdays

I would approach and talk to a girl in the afternoon

Then talk to another girl in the night at the club

But l would offer different days to see them, one would be on a Sunday if she lived close to the area and the other on a monday/Tuesday

This is not a guaranteed strategy but just how l used to do it when being single

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-05-20T16:56:02+00:00

AI is going to take your job. AI will steal your livelihood. AI will steal your manhood. AI can pleasure your wife in ways you never could. How's it feel to be cucked by Alpha Chad.ai you beta cuck meatpopsicle.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-20T16:52:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/13lu6eh/my_wife_is_not_the_woman_i_used_to_know_she_let/

Update post: https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/13mu0gn/update_my_wife_is_not_the_woman_i_used_to_know/

A wife outearning her husband significantly is a risk factor for divorce, so this is unsurprising. Odds are that over time, if the woman is the breadwinner in the marriage, she will become resentful and want a man who earns as much as her or more. This is also why I say that although romantic love is inherently transactional to some degree, men's love is less dependent on resources.

And in fairness, this woman can likely do much better if she's somewhat good looking, given that her lifestyle likely means is around upper class men, and she can afford cosmetics and all that jazz women do to maximize their appearance. Though the sort of man she's looking for will have a shit load of options, and probably wont be content just sleeping with her. Her husband is also going to get a fat divorce settlement and alimony, and she likely wont be too happy about it.

As a man, if what you are passionate about pays like shit, do something else. Few people get to do something they truly love and get paid very well for it.

potoricco · 2023-05-20T16:31:47+00:00

Why I don’t like making friends with babies and little kids:

Cuz eventually they forget about you (not their fault) and then you see them again and it’s like….. this person deadass has no idea who I am but we were once like siblings……. It does hurt not gonna lie

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-20T16:28:13+00:00

Back after a 7 day ban!

Did I miss anything good?

potoricco · 2023-05-20T16:19:37+00:00

Q4m what do you guys use to carry your things? Like I use a purse but obv guys don’t

And don’t say pockets because guys be out with their Phone, wallet, AirPods, keys no way that all fits in pockets

DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T16:16:26+00:00

"How can l tell if a woman is ovulating"

When she wears heels my friend and that dress

I don't know, that's how l know for my girl

Peacesquad · 2023-05-20T16:12:56+00:00

Also what did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-05-20T16:12:45+00:00

Someone on here said “women’s biological purpose is to provide men sex” man that’s scary!!!

relish5k · 2023-05-20T16:04:20+00:00

“Are you married or are you single?” the old woman asked. There was a long silence. “Lady,” he asked finally, “where would you find you an innocent woman today? I wouldn’t have any of this trash I could just pick up.”

From a Flannery O’Connor short story written in the 50s. Men since the Romans have been complaining that the women of their time are sluts, unlike the virtuous women of yesteryear.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-20T15:20:59+00:00

I feel like you if you haven't atleast kissed by the second date, it's over.

Opinion from women? (Unless you married your boyfriend from high school and haven't been on any other first dates)

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-20T15:05:53+00:00

Nosy Q4A: how much money do you regularly keep in your checking account? And how old are you?

I keep like $25 in mine; the rest goes to investments/savings/paying off the credit card as soon as I spend on it.

scwizard · 2023-05-20T15:02:49+00:00

What's your take on the idea that a stronger welfare state encourages single motherhood.

I think it's bunk. Countries like Norway have stronger welfare states than the US but lower single motherhood.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-20T14:49:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/13m0hdf/family_court_is_absolutely_stacked_against_men_a/

TL;DR When this man got divorced his ex wife didn't even want to keep their child (nor did she pay a cent in taking care of him) but he still was only able to get 50/50 custody. And now he pays $1k a month in child support and can't even see or talk to his own son. There are women making salaries comparable to fully fledged doctors, just because they had a child with a celebrity.

If you ever see anyone claim that family/divorce court is fair in it's current state, they are 99% a bitter old misandrist woman that frequents feminist subreddits.

Also notice that this guy takes full accountability for making a poor choice in marrying the wrong woman. Woman date and marry men who verbally and physically abuse them, deadbeat men with no jobs, men who can't take care of their own personal basic care household tasks. Then they divorce them. But seldom does anyone, outside of recently, tell them well maybe you should take accountability for who you allow into your life. That applies to anything in life, you are responsible for the the friends, partners, and even family members that you give your time and energy to.

potoricco · 2023-05-20T14:43:11+00:00

My parents are giving me their old car

scwizard · 2023-05-20T14:30:33+00:00

I found out I was pregnant and I'm currently over 15 weeks. Wasn't in a serious relationship, wasn't even going to tell the guy who got me pregnant (despite me taking birth control religiously and him using a condom) but my roommate felt he "needed to know" so she told him, now he wants to be involved. I don't think abortion is something I could go through with myself and my ex fwb / baby daddy refused to discuss adoption of any type. he knows he's going to have to pay child support because I refuse to let him get out of this when it took us both to get me pregnant.

Women letting guys who they know won't be good dads fuck their pussy on the regular.

I still feel bad for her though. She really was careful and she's very poor. Now that she's pregnant her retail "job" cut her hours and she's eating out of food banks. Sounds like she has no family or support network either so she's at high risk of ending up at a homeless shelter with other broke moms soon.

I made the mistake of telling my enabling father and alcoholic JustNo mother that I'm pregnant...

DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T14:25:47+00:00

Listen to all the uni/college guys who've an attractive female roommate

She can say she ain't fucking you all she wants but eventually it's gonna happen

The more time you interact with the opposite sex, the likely you want to fuck them

Speaking from experience

FuuraKafu · 2023-05-20T14:23:29+00:00

One thing people tend to overlook is that being born is traumatic to begin with. It's all due to our big brains. We have big heads, so humans basically evolved to be born prematurely. And yet, giving birth is still some of the most dangerous for our species out of all other animals. It's dangerous and painful for the infant too, and it's literally the first thing that happens to us. If that's not traumatizing, what is? We are born with scarred/damaged souls by default. Trauma is a given. If you think about it this way, you can't be that mad at humans for all their bullshit, which is a weirdly reassuring thought to me.

Rahim556 · 2023-05-20T14:16:16+00:00

Brad Pitt (the "sexiest man alive") couldn't even keep a chick. He's a great actor, but he's a Blue Pill liberal (as are many actors). He thought he could get by just on his looks and got comfortable. Made Angelina Jolie waaay too comfortable instead of her still having to chase him like in the beginning. In the beginning, she had to compete with Jennifer Aniston (so he's not only hot, but pre-selected). Soon as she "won" and he let her get comfortable, she adopted a bunch of kids, focused all her effort in being full time mommy (instead of sex goddess in the beginning), and cut her tits off.

There's a great lesson in this men.... Being a Blue Pill cuck is not the way.

scwizard · 2023-05-20T14:02:57+00:00

I’m tired of unpaid work being automatically shifted to me. Roof leaking? I better call because if I wait for my husband to do it, we will need an entirely new roof. That box that fell behind the refrigerator? If I don’t pick it up, it will be there until I die. There’s a box of trash on our porch that I asked my husband to take out over a month ago. I’m waiting to see how long it sits there, I’m guessing until I ask 2 more times.

Most of all, I’m tired of my day-to-day life being the most disrespected of anyone. Mom takes all the crap but loves unconditionally. Mom doesn’t want the home in disarray, so she will do it. Mom wants her children to be successful and good people, so she will work on herself and everyone else too. Mom won’t get angry and vent too much because then everyone will be grumpy and make her life harder in other ways.

I could leave my husband, but am I willing to go into poverty over shoddy chores and boxes behind fridges? Should I choose between respect or a harder life? I love my husband. Why should I have to choose between love and respect? Why can’t they understand? I’m tired of having to choose.

Sounds like mommy is done. It's weird that you don't see much complaining about single motherhood. But having a husband who works most of the day and who doesn't help out around the house and who doesn't appreciate you, is pure hell.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-20T12:47:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13m4rl3/i_just_started_telling_them_no_thanks/

The garbage that gets upvoted on the biggest joke of a dating subreddit, r/dating. Woman upset that men want to get to know someone for a few weeks or months before being in a committed exclusive relationship.

People point out the supposed misogyny on reddit, but reddit admins are so woke that realistically anything that is actually misogynistic gets removed. I think it's time they grow a backbone and start removing the epidemic of femcel content on reddit.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T13:14:51+00:00

Interesting l read a study saying young males involved in criminal violence/gangs were more likely to get a girl pregnant than young males not involved

Also saying poorer men have more sexual partners than upper middle class men, which makes sense

In fact my two younger cousins, one's 19 and the other 17

The older one from a poorer background and also smokes already has a girl pregnant but the younger has never kissed a girl in his life

ChadChasingB · 2023-05-21T01:39:21+00:00

I don't understand people that are completely devastated and think that their life is over when a dating relationship ends after only a few months.

social_mule · 2023-05-21T01:54:35+00:00

My third favorite type of PPD comment:

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TheRedPillRipper · 2023-05-20T11:27:14+00:00

Have had COVID since Thursday. Partner won’t let me out of our master suite. She’s sleeping in with the kids. Brings me meals. Isolation sucks. Miss my kids. Miss my partner.

Positives are my partner is an absolutely amazing, kind and caring person. Thoughtful beyond belief. As soon as I can, I’m treating her to whatever she wants. She is the best of humans.

nexkell · 2023-05-20T12:49:43+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13mdxz4/men_not_understanding_social_cues/jkv9lue/

Because being direct with men will totally put women in danger. But of course she doesn't get the point with being direct.

dbz__f · 2023-05-21T03:51:13+00:00

Out of all the things that came out of the womanosphere, one of the ones that perplexes me the most is "lovebombing". Modern feminist western women complain that a guy being very lovey dovey and constantly telling her he loves her and writing romantic slop, and buying flowers and sending romantic texts and flowery wordsd is an attempt to manipulate her. They think its a red flag. what if he just loves her?

My gf loves it when I do this and I love showering her with my love, both verbally and through actions.

But if I dated a modern western feminist woman they would be disgusted by this and think I was trying to manipulate them. I don't think I could ever have a relationship with a modern western feminist woman, we would be very incompatible, and she would find all the loving things I do to be red flags.

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-21T04:48:18+00:00

Hamburgers were tasty, guys also cleaned everything afterwards including the stove. Tomorrow my husband and I will be cooking, I’m thinking about Taiwanese chicken but not sure whether they’ll like it.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-20T13:54:11+00:00

The notion that women face a lot of perverts and other gross stuff in online dating is bullshit. Women I ask say they get the occasional weird pickup line and some guys who want sex who'll they quickly ghost.

Yes, some men will be insane but it's just as insane to apply that to the entirety of online dating.

happy_discus · 2023-05-20T11:10:44+00:00

Had a BBQ planned for my birthday. Invited 20 people over two months beforehand. Today the last two have canceled. All of this food wasted. :(

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-20T13:26:28+00:00

I always think it’s funny that patriarchy has flip-flopped what would actually be natural—men will screw just about anything, so women really don’t need to put in any effort. Males should be the ones having to entice females. That’s usually how it is in nature.

Men are the ones having to entice women. I don't understand what this person is smoking.

It's so frustrating because guys seem to have no pressure to constantly fix themselves.

Delusional

MyLastBestChance · 2023-05-21T01:11:33+00:00

TIL only 1 in 10 male hippos get the chance to reproduce in their lifetime. You guys really need to quit whining about your dating problems. 🤣

Safinated · 2023-05-21T01:29:09+00:00

Gonna just agreeing with whatever catastrophizing men here say. One thing TRP got right was that whining about the way things are doesn’t get you anywhere in life.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-21T05:43:02+00:00

I always see guys 30+ who are single say all the “good women” are coupled up or wifed already and that the dating market for them is so trash. So…

Q4M: What are characteristics of a “good woman” and why didn’t you want her/why couldn’t you obtain her when she was single?

begayallday · 2023-05-21T06:01:31+00:00

I genuinely have no idea why my wife is so attracted to me. I’m not good looking, I have a crappy low paying job, and I’m weird as shit. She also insisted that my ex husband move in with us when his health took a turn for the worst. She works her ass off changing tires on semi trucks by the side of the freeway at night, and still gets up early on her days off and cleans the whole apartment, and then cooks dinner for us. I should have gotten myself a wife a long long time ago.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T07:12:20+00:00

I’m officially completely fucking blasted

I went onto the dance floor and moved the best I could (ain’t much room) and one woman told me to move somewhere else, so did some guy

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-05-20T11:08:14+00:00

2st place

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-20T11:08:57+00:00

Just the reminder that women get a huge leeway with rule breaking comments and posts on PPD.

Preme2 · 2023-05-20T12:48:04+00:00

Q4A: What you think is easier to achieve among these options. Getting into a good school, finding a good job or finding a good partner?

Q4A: Are positive affirmations just women repeating lies to themselves? Regurgitating their delusions? Almost like a fortune cookie. Vague enough to be applied to whatever situation or mood they’re in.

Ainsleygz · 2023-05-20T13:07:08+00:00

I pushed the sled with 180lbs loaded up on it at the gym yesterday, and now my booty is so freakin’ sore 😮‍💨

I stuck to my meal plan even though I really, really, really wanted a HoHo before bed. Hopefully the gains are worth it.

Ainsleygz · 2023-05-20T22:49:10+00:00

Q4All: What percent of people find the “real thing” (a deep romantic love that’s lasts the rest of their life)?

My guess is maybe 25-30 percent

Safinated · 2023-05-20T23:01:49+00:00

Question 4 Men: Are the women here ever honest about anything besides their hatred of men here? They barely seem to like us and are always so rude and dismissive and they never take accountability for what they do here.

dbz__f · 2023-05-20T23:02:21+00:00

I really really really need to start taking care of my health. Need to do daily cardio, improve my circulation and breathing, eat less junk food and drink less. I literally have no family history of heart stacks but still.

Before I used to not give a fuck. But now I have someone I need to live for. Someone who would be devastated if something happened to me. Someone who I promised to protect forever

2023-05-20T23:14:03+00:00

Starting to wonder if I would make a good fin domme after all lol

dbz__f · 2023-05-20T23:53:03+00:00

Why do female gendered persons get triggered when you order the same food as them at a restaurant? They will literally change their order from something they like to something else if you ordered the same dish

meteorness123 · 2023-05-21T01:42:05+00:00

Assuming a man looks normal and is doing okay financially, his personality is the biggest decisive factor in his dating life and the quality of it.

Bandit174 · 2023-05-21T02:53:37+00:00

anyone else sad about camas/pushift going away? 😭

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-21T03:03:05+00:00

My roommate came back from Brazilian jujitsu class and he spent the day rolling with the one female in the class. Dude is super shy and had to basically grapple on the ground with a chick for an hour.

He’s spaced out and is worried the other guys are gonna give him shit for almost losing and also spending to much time rolling around.

Dude was happy with the class and happy with the whole hobby until today.

This is why I do boxing. I can’t imagine being in his shoes.

huhwhatokok · 2023-05-21T04:26:47+00:00

Trevor Ariza, former nba veteran who made 117m in his career is trying to get lower child support payments because his ex-wife can’t support her luxury lifestyle without it. She even put “100k/yr charity donations” as a list of her necessities. These bitches donating your hard earn money 😂.

I have no idea why professional athletes get married at all. Half these women gave you kids without marriage so what’s the point?

2023-05-21T05:11:56+00:00

Cry me a river, yeah yeah

DerayRevan · 2023-05-21T05:47:17+00:00

I'll never understand men who demand respect from their woman

If your woman doesn't naturally respect you then there's just nothing to demand especially in the context of a relationship

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-05-21T06:51:28+00:00

Got breakfast with my Chad friend. He is going through a midlife crisis and decided to cut off his four plates. He sheepishly confessed that he hasn’t had sex in three weeks.

I’m on a 6 months dry spell which is nowhere near my longest. No jaw/chin definition, balding since age 20, ethnic. Since I am capable of empathy I commiserated with him. He has a date lined up off an app with a woman who I am fairly confident filtered me out.

If you’re friends with a Chad it’s obvious that the bluepill is a complete meme. My friend is a borderline alcoholic, his behavior is way more deviant than mine. Doesn’t matter, he has an enormous margin of error.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T07:20:18+00:00

Here’s my question: I can’t exactly have long left That’s like overwhelmingly obvious just by… you know statistics, I’ve already lived longer than your average actuary would have predicted at 29

So I wonder if I’m going to make an interesting post mortem case study

I’m pretty rich, like actually, and have such severe autism. That’s a pretty rare combination right I feel like that would be of interest to some almost-shrink doing a graduate thesis somewhere right?

Or maybe it won’t be, I’ll be dead nobody will have learned anything (maybe my therapists will have) and that will be that

I’m going back onto the dance floor

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DerayRevan · 2023-05-20T11:07:34+00:00

Where's my medal ?

2023-05-20T22:30:17+00:00

PPD seems particularly depressing today

potoricco · 2023-05-20T23:25:31+00:00

So I’ve been looking at my school’s senior page and 90% are going to an instate university, I want to go out of state so I am kinda worried

Is it that it’s hard to go out of state or is it frowned upon???

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-20T23:30:38+00:00

Q4A: aren’t we living in some experiment 25 type shit?

huhwhatokok · 2023-05-21T00:43:57+00:00

I just pulled up to the gas station and the person before me filled their tank with 10 dollars worth of gas, they going through it.

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-05-21T00:58:05+00:00

It’s weird how the guy you’re with impacts how people treat you and react to you. My bf and I were walking through this super cute downtown in this very bougie area, when I walked around on my own earlier this week it was kinda lukewarm in terms of friendliness.

With him with me people are smiling, waving, someone at the bar randomly started up a conversation with us.

People just seem to be nicer when he’s with me.

Safinated · 2023-05-21T01:10:31+00:00

I feel bad for people struggling in the dating trenches. Dating is hard and we should be more honest with young people about that fact so they don’t have to learn the hard way.

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-21T01:35:50+00:00

Women had a long working day, men are cooking hamburgers. That's good.

Preme2 · 2023-05-21T01:59:10+00:00

Im reminded of this video every time I get paid. The take home is difference is astonishing

saraimarsena · 2023-05-21T03:26:56+00:00

@mods when will the most recent survey be added in the menu

meteorness123 · 2023-05-21T03:28:47+00:00

Q4A: What do you think is your best personality trait?

huhwhatokok · 2023-05-21T04:46:12+00:00

Y’all remember when Paul George tried paying a stripper he knocked up to get an abortion and she said no? He ended up marrying her and knocking her up again lol. She worked as a stripper in Miami which means she was almost certainly fucking for cash.

Moose-Ring · 2023-05-21T04:53:34+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13n90fn/how_can_i_stop_feeling_like_men_are_emotionless

This is probably just true tbh.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T05:54:58+00:00

You know theoretically I could be in the gym right now drilling out shot after shot of single legs with resistance bands , getting in shape, but instead I am here, not being a champion

DerayRevan · 2023-05-21T06:02:26+00:00

"Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easier"

For me it didn't, l remember at 19 couldn't talk to any gorgeous girl without shaking a little bit

At 29 once talked to a whole group of attractive women ar the beach

Also getting sex became easier compared to my early 20s since l reached my financial peak later and could afford my own place to smash

So for me at 31 l can definitely say dating has gotten much easier compared to when l was 21

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T07:39:30+00:00

I swear to god I am not making this up, I just saw a guy in the “””VIP””” section make it rain

With 1 dollar bills

Security picked them up

This actually happened

I should rent the VIP section for shits and giggles

Just me all by myself sitting there on Reddit

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T08:15:35+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/G7QQO0Y

Anyway here it is, last pic at the club I’m leaving

Here’s what I’ll say: look at me. It’s fucking disgusting. It shouldn’t have been let in in the first place,

I spent around 45 minutes on the central dance floor, a few people told me to go away

I didn’t get physically removed so that’s a plus

Im going to come out again next weekend and I’ll continue to do that until im dead or people start agreeing it’s a bad idea and you know, autistic people probably should stay away

I’m proving a point here

also my BF% is 21, I just have short face syndrome

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-21T11:47:30+00:00

I got pretty soundly humbled last night.

But I didn't turn to self hatred or endlessly brood, which is fantastic. I took it on the chin and let myself do what I needed to do to recover.

And now I'm heading straight back to the gym after a week hiatus. What would have crippled me before has only made me stronger.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-20T23:51:44+00:00

I don't watch FnF or really any rp channels anymore, but I see clips on adjacent channels, and if anyone's been following sneako it's been really interesting to see his growth this year. Just a few months ago he was bat shit over the rails crazy end of red pill, and now he's actually arguing against it.

Similarly, over the last year i've come to realize most men in the manosphere outside of Myron (though I disagree with him on a lot) have very little in the way of helpful advice, and are just putting on a front. Pearl just regurgitates things people say and has no original thought to speak of, wont say her body count, and has had 1 relationship that didn't last long. Everyone surrounding Myron is just a yes man. Donovan sharpe is dating an older single mother (who actually seems like a lovely woman who could do better than him) KS offered good, candid advice but it's undeniable he took joy in shitting on women in front of viewers.

I always thought there should ideally be a version of RP that does believe in romance and emphasizes being a high character man who's focus (outside of his career) is on his wife and family, not having casual sex with multiple women. If you find a woman who appreciates sweet gestures and doesn't dry up if you are vulnerable, life is good. Women like that who are also decent looking are just very hard to find.

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2023-05-21T01:58:36+00:00

If a few month long relationship breaks your heart you are a weak person PERIOD

2023-05-21T02:56:59+00:00

Man it’s funny when somebody acts tough but then cries and runs to daddy for protection when you point out their bullshit. Some people are just soft

Safinated · 2023-05-21T04:52:59+00:00

Fax: Men who marry strippers/porn stars/OF girls/E-Thots/high mileage pussy are worse than cucks.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T05:42:55+00:00

I am currently at a club

https://imgur.com/a/dd7GfZW

AMA

Initial thoughts as someone who has been to clubs a lot: we need to fucking start banning people who look like me from clubs

When I’m the singular autistic loser who shouldn’t be in the club because ick, it’s fine, it doesn’t bring down the atmosphere much. But if there are like a bunch of other people here who are like almost as ugly and losers and it brings the vibe down

When it’s just me it doesn’t bring the vibe down as much

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T00:45:41+00:00

Do you know what would piss me off? Being at a job fair looking at candidates and some dumb mother fucker who has a 2.1 in an English major comes up to me and hands me his resume. It would such an incredibly waste of time considering the company I work at is tech and certainly not about to pull in some rando at the bottom of the class.

This person has now wasted my time, they have wasted everyone elses time, and now I'm fucking annoyed. I'm actually doubly annoyed because either

This moron is so fucking stupid that he thought this would work and doesn't realize how out of his league he is
(more likely) he knew it almost certainly wouldn't work but decided to shit up the job fair with his substandard resume anyway taking time away from actual candidates, showing he's inconsiderate

Likewise if I go out and I go up to a woman and go "HELLO I'M A REDDITOR YOU CAN TELL BY LOOKING AT ME" the default emotion she should feel is "Holy fucking shit I am so fucking annoyed that this loser is wasting my time when he should know better".

If I was to approach and talk to a woman it would show a lot of (very negative) things about me immediately, just like our shitty job candidate.

I'm not respectful of their time, because while I'm shitting up their area another person isn't talking to them. I'm not really respectful of the effort they put in to look good or to "get where they are", just like the guy doesn't realize it takes more than a 2.1 to get into my company, you don't just stroll in with no effort.

This encouragement (often from women themselves, feminists) of people who honestly shouldn't interact with women, to interact with them anyway is fucking weird.

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-21T02:08:43+00:00

Question 4 Men: Are we “mean” to the women here? I haven’t seen men do this yet here, we speak facts and are not rude but women are emotional and take it that way.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-21T02:56:31+00:00

I don't get why women get so livid about being judged for being fat. I see women talking about how men are so shallow and demanding for wanting a woman who is thin like "he is only willing to accept a thin blond bimbo".

It's a blessing that women are judged significantly on a category (their weight) that is so easily changed. There's no free lunch. If you aren't judged for being fat, you'll just be judged a lot more for something else, potentially genetic traits that can't even be changed.

Men are judged for their height and hairline which you can't even change or their muscles which is a lot harder to gain than simply not being fat. A man who is at a healthy (19-21) BMI but doesn't weight train is considered skinny while the equivalent woman is considered to have an attractive body. A man has to do more work on their bodies to get much worse results than a woman.

Women are lucky. Women have it easy. It's a privilege for women to be judged on their weight. There is no reason why women should ever complain about body standards for women.

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