Daily Community Chat Megathread

Maffioze · 2023-10-08T21:46:22+00:00

Underrated concept: erotic-novel maxing. Read novels aimed at women and you will learn how to make them crazy lmao.

potoricco · 2023-10-08T21:02:22+00:00

Why can't god allow me to be successful everywhere it's like whenever I'm doing super well in one area I have to totally bomb in another area and it's not fair

Like I have almost every other class at a B or almost at a B or A and now My physics grade has dropped to 43% Just after I got it above 50 AND after I got a perfect A on my calculus test

potoricco · 2023-10-08T20:55:16+00:00

I am a junior i have been here for the past 3 years and EVERY BLOODY YEAR theres a teacher that starts a club called quiz bowl, and this is a club that im genuinely interested in, but every fucking time no one takes it seriously including the teacher and the teacher just treats it like snack and gossip time every time i go nothing gets done and then people who are genuinely interested(like me) stop coming until only people who are totally unserious and never even wanted to be part of it in the first place are left and then the club just disintegrates into nothing. I hate when i'm more passionate about things than everybody else

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-08T20:52:43+00:00

YouTube RP mean that preach for polygamy and stuff like that to their viewers are harming them. If women were okay openly and knowingly sharing a man, wouldn’t that make the dating pool for already struggling men smaller? It doesn’t work if the man is demanding fidelity from the woman.

keebydee · 2023-10-08T20:47:00+00:00

I just wish I was a desirable person

Maffioze · 2023-10-08T20:25:21+00:00

Oh the US is sending military support towards Israel. What would the world be without the US meddling in everyone's affairs. How about fixing your healthcare system?

okaybear2point0 · 2023-10-08T20:20:06+00:00

Normalize rolling bags

potoricco · 2023-10-08T20:18:12+00:00

Life is really really cruel because i have an a in EVERY single other assignment in my english class but ONE 24/60 on my summer assignment brought me down to an 80 if it wasnt for that I'd dead have an A by now

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-08T20:15:28+00:00

Deep in the forest lived Big Red and his father. One day his father marinated up some juicy steaks and put them in a basket with a six pack of beer.

“Take these and go visit your grandpa,” Big Red’s father said.

“You got it,” Big Red said. After all, as a man he appreciated his family and didn’t view visiting his older relatives as a burden.

So Big Red set off along the path through the woods to visit his grandpa. As he was walking along a big bad wolf suddenly stepped out of the trees.

“Where are you going?” the wolf asked hungrily, smacking it’s lips at the basket in Big Red’s hand.

“None of your business,” Big Red said, knowing that wolves meant nothing but trouble. He ignored out of hand how the villager’s safe outside the forest always said that wolves shouldn’t be pre-judged just because they’re wolves.

“What if I make it my business?” the wolf asked angrily.

Big Red quickly took off his shirt, setting the basket on the ground. “We doin’ this?!” he shouted, raising his arms up.

Seeing that Big Red wasn’t a pansy the wolf turned and fled down the path. The wolf knew there was an old man in a house down the way and it figured that Big Red must be going there. The wolf decided to kill the old man, disguise itself as him and try to murder Big Red.

The wolf arrived at the house of Big Red’s grandpa, banging on the door and pretending to be Big Red. Since grandpa was a man living alone in the dangerous woods he didn’t open up his door right away like an idiot. He looked out the window and saw the wolf waiting by the door. Grandpa owned a lot of muskets because he wasn’t some village dwelling bleeding heart who utterly relied on the inept and physically out of shape constabulary to protect him and he lazily blew the wolf away. A short while later Big Red arrived. They cooked up the steaks and the wolf meat, and when Big Red went back home he had an awesome new wolf fur Ushanka to show his father.

And they lived happily ever after.

potoricco · 2023-10-08T20:12:03+00:00

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Weekly screen time going down bitchess

Maffioze · 2023-10-08T20:11:27+00:00

https://youtu.be/P1jK0yKj5jI?si=0hrrfalMaVGb8JN-

Time for some house tunes to forget about how awfull this universe is.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-08T20:00:32+00:00

There's nothing worse than knowing women perceive you as a threat when walking at night simply because you are a man.

Life on enhanced hard mode.

Maffioze · 2023-10-08T19:58:50+00:00

When will human stop bombing eachother? How much more often do these mistakes need to be repeated?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-08T19:49:50+00:00

Got to talk to a few of my friends yesterday:

One mentioned how she'd kill to find a loyal man.

One just got married and is frustrated because she feels like she's raising two kids (her husband & his brother)

One is losing her job this month.

Just a reminder that women have problems, too.

potoricco · 2023-10-08T19:39:46+00:00

I hate earth

supremethrone · 2023-10-08T19:38:07+00:00

I wonder if the reason why women are so repulsed by nice/kind men is because of evolutionary reasons. Our cavemen ancestors had to fight for everything and if a man was kind he would probably just be treated as a tool, while the most violent and extreme men would succeed. It seems like a logical explanation. How else would you explain that women are all repulsed by kindness and attracted to aggression across seemingly all cultures from the four corners of the world

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-08T19:36:33+00:00

Bietan jarrai ✊

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-08T19:24:06+00:00

Ban Tiktok

potoricco · 2023-10-08T19:14:17+00:00

LITERALLY

relish5k · 2023-10-08T19:11:20+00:00

In my high school and college years I made almost all my friends and romantic connections through weed. It was an automatic way to bond with people (“oh you smoke? Cool. Let’s go get high”). And it made it really easy to get alone with your “crush” as long as you both smoked.

I don’t smoke anymore but gosh, would have been much tougher to make friends and make out were it not for Mary Jane.

No_View_870 · 2023-10-08T19:08:30+00:00

I'm 6'1". Why would I want to date someone who is 5'2"? Not interested, least of all when you treat guys your own height like garbage.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-08T19:02:15+00:00

I think the "make some friends" advice is a great prescription for only women since they can gain a lot of emotional intimacy from their friends, and women always value emotional intimacy more than physical intimacy since they've a higher investment cost in physical intimacy

old_new_age · 2023-10-08T19:00:55+00:00

was thinking about seeing an escort but I had similar reservations women have about becoming one - "will I have to lie about this in the future"/"how much would future partners judge me"

at the end of the day I think I would make a good LTR partner but I'm too lazy to learn the necessary social song and dance to meet new people, yet I'm greedy enough to still want physical affection. unfortunate

potoricco · 2023-10-08T18:59:19+00:00

Choose your hard

keebydee · 2023-10-08T18:56:58+00:00

God, it's so hard to write a post with this stupid depression. I didn't even finish the rough draft yet

princedune · 2023-10-08T18:50:14+00:00

I hope I don't die alone

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-08T18:48:18+00:00

Hitting the gym, partying less, quitting alcohol, starting a business, and surrounding yourself with high quality people is the definition of self-care

potoricco · 2023-10-08T18:40:20+00:00

Should I get polygel nails

supremethrone · 2023-10-08T18:35:32+00:00

I hate living in Europe. This continent is dying and I'm alive to witness it all. The despair is too real

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-10-08T18:20:41+00:00

I've noticed that many women over 30 are now dating men in their mid to low 20s. It makes sense. The women are basically going for someone who's younger with a lower refractory period, lower body fat percentage on average, more energy, and who last longer in bed per ejaculation. No kids, lower risk of ED, easier to gain muscles, and more hair on average too. A mod in one of my groups is in her late 30s dating a 25 year old guy. She probably doesn't care about his salary as she's gotten time to hopefully become financially secure herself.

And men are so outnumbered on dating apps that this kind of pairing is perfectly acceptable to 25 year old guys. Another 30+ year old talked about how a younger guy at a club approached her and then found out that she's the same age as his mom. I've definitely approached older women at parties and clubs and I'm no longer young and spry.

What are your thoughts on this?
Like for one thing I think a lot of women don't want kids. Some of this crowd are ok having short term relationships or have given up on ltr and if you're going to do that might as well do it with the guy who hasn't started balding yet.
If they do stay together till death, it's a good thing since women on average die older.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-08T18:17:00+00:00

Some truth bombs:

The Majority of the Palestinian people are peaceful
Hamas is Terrorist organisation that kills any one its path
The Two state solution is a joke that shouldn't come into being

keebydee · 2023-10-08T18:16:45+00:00

Fellas, has getting nothing for Valentine's Day ever bothered you? I feel like I'm one of the few who care because I never seen any guys really complain about the fact that they never got anything while they were in school.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-08T18:13:36+00:00

Why do men here want women to find every single male desirable?

keebydee · 2023-10-08T18:11:34+00:00

I wonder what you do in a relationship. I just can't imagine that level of closeness to somebody.

Falling_fruit_234 · 2023-10-08T18:05:30+00:00

Are we pro Hamas or pro Israel on this sub?

I guess the left of America supports Hamas while the right wing supports Israel.

Must be a blow that Biden is showing support for Israel..

On a side note, does anyone else just hate going to poor countries? I don't want to be harassed or scammed while taking a taxi ride. It never feels worth it visiting a poor country..

okaybear2point0 · 2023-10-08T17:54:18+00:00

I see stunning women everywhere on my subway rides to class. Are these people saying these fat uggos are actually average women living in rural hick towns? Pretty women are everywhere in cities.

potoricco · 2023-10-08T17:53:09+00:00

Stop falling for lies. Women can do construction

AspiringMogger · 2023-10-08T17:49:17+00:00

Most women are bad people. Being faithful to a bad person is genuinely so moronic

supremethrone · 2023-10-08T17:47:10+00:00

https://www.timesofisrael.com/prisoner-in-suspected-sex-scandal-is-mazen-al-qaadi-convicted-in-2002-terror-attack/

You are Hamasmaxxing, right? Forget about women writing letters to serial killers. It's all about terrorists now

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-08T17:42:04+00:00

Does anyone have a Twitter account from a schizophrenic person posting fucked up shit all the time? Really specific, but I want to look at it.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-10-08T17:40:57+00:00

Q4A If your partner never initiated sex, but was always up for it when you initiated, would you stay with them? Or do you need them to show active interest in you?

baiser_vole · 2023-10-08T17:27:26+00:00

Lol we apparently have three additional people joining us for lunch, making the count to 11 people + my couple. Yup… Seems like a lot of people are curious about me, cause it is their first time seeing my boyfriend date anyone.

potoricco · 2023-10-08T17:24:26+00:00

My parents are going to New York this month they said I could come

princedune · 2023-10-08T17:13:01+00:00

I don't think passport bros realize how different of a culture women in foreign countries have. I get a culture shock just from going to a different region in the US, I can't imagine trying to date someone in SEA or Eastern Europe. They say those women are more traditional, but these women are going to follow the traditions of their culture, they aren't going to be like an American house wife from the 50's

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-10-08T17:10:20+00:00

“Kanye has a set of rules for Bianca, which includes never speak and wear what he wants her to wear,” the source claimed.

Muslim men do this all the time and no one bats an eye but now people are flipping their shit over Ye 😂

DerayRevan · 2023-10-08T17:00:15+00:00

Anyone who says TRP is common sense clearly doesn't know what they are talking about and l would suggest not engaging in their argument since it's already a waste of time

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-08T16:58:26+00:00

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None of these guys are lookers and only 1 is tall yet they all have attractive gfs

The guy on the left is legit the embodiment of the average guy

Yet guys on this sub swear that to get women like this, you have to be 6’5 and look like a model

Edit: the point of this post is to show that average looking guys can get girls who look better than them contrary to what certain guys on this sub say

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Ainsleygz · 2023-10-08T02:03:25+00:00

HolidayWhile · 2023-10-08T02:08:29+00:00

Just move to the city bro meet people in the city bro

Why do city people assume that people there are any less isolated and standoffish than rural people?

meteorness123 · 2023-10-08T02:10:00+00:00

Where my douchenozzles at ?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-08T02:15:04+00:00

What’s everyone doing today/tonight?

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-08T02:17:17+00:00

Anyone else find it oddly sexy when girls have their phones in the waistband of their yoga pants?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-08T02:18:31+00:00

"Why are so many men not willing to properly move on from women"

They've and it's literally called MGTOW, been a popular movement since the 2010s

"I don't see the red pill as moving on. I still see much obsession over women with the red pill guys"

Because redpill is all about decoding female nature, so makes no sense moving on from something they do a great job at

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-08T02:21:05+00:00

Imagine being an average woman and knowing you're so sexually desired that people would be willing to pay to see you masturbate. That's wild

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-10-08T02:34:38+00:00

My BIL has a new girlfriend who’s moved in with him and had a very messy situation with her baby daddy. And I think the whole family is basically happy that he’s happy but also… worried he’s gotten himself into something he doesn’t need to be in.

keebydee · 2023-10-08T02:54:42+00:00

Society needs to make a pill that removes all desires for a romantic relationship NOW

onion_rings_addict · 2023-10-08T03:02:09+00:00

I've been avoiding social media for the last 5 years but I recently realized I need to socialize more so I'm forcing myself to use IG. I have a very basic question:

why do people think seeing someone's story is a sign of interest when you can't see what's story is next on your cellphone?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-08T03:22:36+00:00

I kinda forgor why does having gf fix men's problems again. or if it's not gf why does having casual sex fix men's problems again. actually what was the problem in the first place? remind me

AngeCruelle · 2023-10-08T03:30:44+00:00

PPD posts when I'm here: Q4W, what is your favorite color?

PPD posts when I'm not here: CMV, women are literally Satan and/or only fuck men who are literally Satan. And I know this is true because I'm an angel and somehow have never had sex.

ROBYoutube · 2023-10-08T03:41:58+00:00

I can't imagine a life more depressing and sad than being compelled by your body to attempt to have sex with people you deeply despise and don't respect. If this is you, please seriously google asexual, aromantic, and pansexual and see if any of those can stop you making women's lives miserable.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-08T03:56:11+00:00

Y’all remember the one poster who claimed to be 5’3, autistic and a manwhore with 100+ bodies?🤣

His avatar had blue hair if I remember correctly

keebydee · 2023-10-08T04:20:41+00:00

True torture is looking up askreddit posts with titles like "what's the cutest thing your partner has ever done for you?" Or "How'd you meet your first love?" Depression dialed up to a 100,00 instantly.

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-08T04:22:29+00:00

Would you rather have an average one wife, below moderate income, small house. Or unlimited money, huge land under your control and a huge house but no woman would ever be with you. Or have many gorgeous wives but you are their househusband servant.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-10-08T04:23:24+00:00

Friday was interesting. I finally talked to a lawyer about getting a prenup drafted so I came home and told my fiance this and that she needs to lawyer up too. She acted like I caught her off guard. Mind u she's the one that initially brought it up and I told her I wanted one several months ago and she said ok. Idk what changed but she started making a fuss about it and got all upset. After she slept on it she came around and said it's not a big deal, she'll do it so its cool now. I was like 🤏 to calling the whole thing off which would suck cause I'm not tryna do this whole dating thing again.

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-08T04:33:26+00:00

Okay, you all like to shit on short men, but James deen has something to say.

keebydee · 2023-10-08T05:11:23+00:00

Recently I felt like people in the past have only been nice to me because I was autistic and acted different from everyone else. Idk, I feel like no one or at least rarely really had any real genuine interest in being my friend.

At lunch, I would sit by myself and no one would ever invite me to any hangouts outside of school, sleepovers, birthday parties, etc. But in the classroom, they would make it seem like as if we were really good friends. And if I invited someone to my house, they would come which is nice but they would never reciprocate by asking me to hangout without me asking.

At the time I thought all of this was normal but now I'm questioning if people were just being nice out of pity or something. I just so confused on how real connections between people work.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-08T06:01:12+00:00

studying for midterms while listening to the hamilton soundtrack

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-08T06:13:04+00:00

If women don’t find penises attractive, then why do they buy them?

Like you never see a woman buying a man arm bicep or abs or even face, they only buy their penises

What is that hypocrisy?!

Ok_Cable3215 · 2023-10-08T06:24:08+00:00

I have had a girl kinda booty calling me for a week, but I am not good at sex, so I have declined...
Sometimes I wish it would be appropriate just to call a Chad and have him fuck her, while I can be there for the rest of the relationship😊😊

Ylduts · 2023-10-08T06:29:42+00:00

When it comes to sex men and women are different. Most women can easily attain sex while most men cannot. It’s really that simple, this is why a man who sleeps with many women is praised while a woman who sleeps with many men is shamed. If a man is successful with women, he is rare, and if a woman has standards/a low body count, she is rare. Generally, rarity is associated with value.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-08T06:36:26+00:00

Truth serum engaged. Ask, I’ll tell.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-08T07:11:28+00:00

🤲🏾 اللهم انصر اخواننا المجاهدين في فلسطين

purplish_possum · 2023-10-08T07:22:40+00:00

Q/4/All. What's the oddest thing a significant other's parent(s) have done to either push or hinder your relationship?

I'll go first. An ex-GF begged me to escort her to a wedding where all her friends, neighbors, and family would be. She knew I was living with another woman. Her parents knew I was living with another woman. Regardless, her dad paid for a very nice hotel room for us.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-08T07:34:28+00:00

New phrase "beingabadperson-maxxing" the idea that being a shitty person ends up getting you more than you deserve. Works for women too.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-08T08:02:06+00:00

I wonder how long my gf will stay with me. No way we'll stay together forever, but I could see us lasting anything from a few more months to a few more years. So far we've met 3 years ago and been living together for 2.

Ylduts · 2023-10-08T08:02:46+00:00

An overweight woman is ‘plus size’ and men are shallow for not looking at what’s inside, while overweight men are lazy slobs who need to step it up.😂 Disregarding the blatant sexism, it’s obvious to me that the pendulum has swung too far. Does no one else see it?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-08T08:48:06+00:00

Wounded bird/fixer upper syndrome? I’ve always been irrationally attracted to people who’ve been dinged a bit by their life circumstances or even genetics but were fixable with my love & care. I’ve failed in these efforts mostly.

TigerRude4 · 2023-10-08T09:00:43+00:00

I always thought women in my country were more based than in US (I guess not a high bar). I created a Chad fish account of a hot guy and out of 5 woman no one was willing to fuck me immediately. I know it's a small sample size though. People in my country recognise gender differences, for example my female friend suggested me to lie about my sexual history to a woman I went out with a year ago.

Ylduts · 2023-10-08T09:02:26+00:00

It takes work to get laid as an average man, while it takes little to no work to get laid as an average woman. Studies also show that women tend to make emotional decisions while men tend to make logical ones. Historically It should come as no surprise that male led societies completely dominated other societies. Men on average make better leaders. It’s reality.

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-08T09:14:29+00:00

Swimming booked for this afternoon.

Happy days

nexkell · 2023-10-08T09:49:06+00:00

After all men are all the same and no good men ever exist.

Why don't people cater to us more!

At this point they might as well say they openly hate men.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-08T09:59:52+00:00

I'm at my training shift at Amazon and used the restroom and when I came back everyone was staring at me. I guess they weren't kidding about that 😐

eye_fuck · 2023-10-08T10:05:51+00:00

I want AI+XR tulpa gf/companion so fucking much

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-08T10:41:32+00:00

My dinner delivery order tonight is fraught 😬 why must there be so much drama about getting a pizza?

SPSTIHTFHSWAS · 2023-10-08T10:42:55+00:00

u/eye_fuck is the only user here I can't get a good read on. I wouldn't be surprised if it's three people on that account.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-08T10:42:56+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/c1JLYEENrh

Boys, Thugmaxxing gets you girls.

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-08T10:46:48+00:00

"You seem younger due to the energy you give off?"

What does that actually mean, like in laymans terms, someone mansplain this to me dammit.

Reason: Everyone seems shocked when I say I am 40 odd not early to mid thirties.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-08T10:57:38+00:00

AskWomen is the shittiest subreddit. Can't ask straight women about their ideal guy because it "needlessly excludes" lesbians.

Rules written and enforced by only the most hardcore autists.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-10-08T11:01:17+00:00

Women being unable to keep things their partners tell them in confidence secret should be seen as a form of abuse.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-08T11:07:39+00:00

if you don't think gay black men twerking is funny then you're a homophobe

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-08T11:46:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/172mqee/alright_give_it_to_me_straight_i_want_that_harsh/

Give'm hell boys!

Sillysheila · 2023-10-08T11:57:39+00:00

Anyone else here a member of the itty bitty titty committee? I’m an AA cup. The only time I’ve been over B cups I was quite overweight. Surprisingly, I’m curvy in other areas.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-08T12:12:43+00:00

Apparently me being born on February gets some girls mad

Its very funny ,i love it

thetruthishere_ · 2023-10-08T12:28:31+00:00

Firefly Lane, tear jerker.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-08T12:56:38+00:00

i just started watching the 100. i think i could fix bellamy 😩

afk_row · 2023-10-08T12:58:33+00:00

I missed 4pt

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-08T13:15:04+00:00

I saw a video of a woman complaining about her failed sugar rehab. She had decided not to eat food with added sugar. After a month, she noticed no change and decided to stop. Apparently the dish she had been buying from a restaurant was basically a caramelized salad.

The comment section was full of people complaining how “it’s impossible to avoid added sugar, it’s everywhere”. I’m not sure what to think about this. How about cooking your own food, is it truly that difficult to find vegetables with no added sugar?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-08T13:16:20+00:00

Spoke to a woman at the convenience store today kinda regret not asking for her number or something, It's getting easier lol. Deadset on getting a haircut on my day off next week. It's time to ascend.

potoricco · 2023-10-08T13:17:47+00:00

Billie gets me

potoricco · 2023-10-08T14:02:22+00:00

Finally getting cold that means insects will go back to hell where they came from

Willow-girl · 2023-10-08T14:03:12+00:00

It is COLD in here this morning! Woke up with 4 cats and both dogs in the bed. (Plus two people ... in a full-sized bed, lol.) A flannel shirt over a sweatshirt with knit leggings, big wool socks and a stocking cap were not enough, so the man set up a milkhouse heater in the living room for me before going back to bed, (Hey, someone's gotta keep those dogs and cats warm.) I'm finally thawing out but my hands are still freezing. Time to clean the chimney so we can have a proper morning fire (in the woodstove, not the house as a whole, lol).

I'm laughing at all of those people who came to our sale a couple of weeks back and were 'mirin' our rustic lifestyle. If they could see us now, lol.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-08T14:14:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/172vxvy/there_is_so_many_different_levels_of_wrong_here/

Nightmare fuel for you chad-lites.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-08T14:17:48+00:00

Women complained about toxic masculinity (which doesn’t exist) and men not being more feminine

Now they are complaining that men are too sassy and are trying to be princesses

Honestly if you are a guy who can get pussy consistently, pay no mind to anything that comes out of a woman’s mouth that pertains to men. Its most likely horseshit. They will never be satisfied

scwizard · 2023-10-08T14:21:47+00:00

We are at the point where I'm pretty sure he's on the edge of an affair (emotional one) and it's because she is young, child-free, rents an apartment (so household upkeep time is minimal) and so she has more free time to get dressed up nicely, stay out late, pursue her hobbies.

Meanwhile I'm at home watching our 3 year old, typically can't shower during the day let alone take the time to do makeup, my time for hobbies is limited to like 2 hours in the evening, I spend PILES of time cleaning up after everyone, I have to go to bed around 10 pm so I am rested enough for early kiddo wakeup time... And he wonders why I'm 'not fun' anymore. He used up all my spark to fuel his own fire.

Why can't you send the three year old to sleep over at a friend's house or leave them with Grandma or something so you can go on a date?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-08T14:39:36+00:00

Regret is a tricky thing. It’s easy to hate yourself I’ve things that didn’t go your way in life. Maybe you didn’t have the sex/love life you wanted up to this point, or get the job you want yet, etc. That can make it easy to blame yourself and wonder what things would be like if you made different decisions.

However, let’s say on a different lifeline, you did make those decisions. Maybe you would’ve had a better love/sex life in your early years. Except as we know, no life is 100% good all the time. Which means there’s also the bad. And there’s no telling what bad misfortune you’ve been spared if you did make different decisions.

Maybe, some force much greater than you spared you a fate that was much worse than a lacking love/sex life in your early years.

Maybe because it wanted you to build up a hunger so strong to achieve great things, that nothing would stop you.

A hunger that goes well beyond the average man.

Just maybe.

All I’m saying is: What if everything happened the way it has in your life for a reason? What if you leaned into it to find out the truth and quit running away?

scwizard · 2023-10-08T14:49:41+00:00

Women realistically don’t need men anymore. Monogamy is an antiquated social construct developed by the patriarchy to control (own) women. Why we continue to participate in “marriage” is baffling. I’m married, yes, but my husband is on the same page as me with this. The only benefit marriage brings us is the safety net for our kids and protection of assets. To us, it’s a business transaction not an emotional connection.

Humans are not meant to stay with one person for our entire lives.

That's a lot of words to say she's fucking other guys.

PH-Expat · 2023-10-08T14:51:17+00:00

Any other man too scared to be nice to women?

I got too many bags at the grocery store. The packing next to me had no large bag. Just several small ones, maybe she forgot to take a bag. Or she just didn't care enough and carried several smaller bags instead.

I had gotten 4 bags but only needed 3. I was thinking of offering her my spare bag. But I was worried that she might think that I was trying to get her number or something. And find me creepy.

Is this normal? Or am I being weird?

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-08T14:51:50+00:00

The surprise theme of my birthday party was a gender reveal from the blood test that we took. It's a girl!! Best birthday ever!

paper-skallion · 2023-10-08T14:58:31+00:00

Did you guys see how chubby Lana Del Rey got in that footage of her visiting University of Oklahoma? I had a Lust for Life poster up on my dorm back in college. I legit would have taken it down if I saw Lana in real life like that 😭

demedermidimi · 2023-10-08T14:59:38+00:00

everyone loves facts and logic until someone mentions the fact that long term significant weight loss is not a possibility for most fat people

https://www.michiganmedicine.org/health-lab/weighing-facts-tough-truth-about-weight-loss

inb4 "that's cause they're lazy pieces of shit with no willpower"

Unfortunately, these insights into how our bodies work have not led to reliable interventions to control them. Two lessons are clear. First, people do not regain weight because they lack willpower. Instead, powerful biological responses counter their best efforts at every turn.

scwizard · 2023-10-08T15:06:29+00:00

Do you think this is a larp or it's actually real?

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16279ay/on_why_i_dominated_my_husband/

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-10-08T15:25:34+00:00

I asked a friend at work if he wanted to go get some drinks, griddrexx convinced me to kick my forced socializing up a notch.

I'm just now realizing how badly I'm shooting myself in the foot with all this self hatred.

Anyways I asked him out to a bar, and and a couple of waitresses tried to self invite to HANG OUT WITH ME and I turned them down , the reason I said is one of them isn't drinking age, which is true, but we could have just got a table

Actually the most ridiculously obvious IOI ever, literally self inviting themselves and I'm like "man what do these girls want from me"

Getting closer and closer to realizing I'm literally the only thing in my way, I hate being like this

okaybear2point0 · 2023-10-08T15:33:57+00:00

There is a very delightful and well-adjusted mod on this subreddit that believes mentioning race at all in the context of dating dynamics is racially charged trolling.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-10-08T15:34:07+00:00

Life's been tearing me in multiple directions the last month or two. What have I missed, other than the regulars and the age gap/N count discussions?

social_mules_alt · 2023-10-08T15:34:20+00:00

PPD in a nutshell.

https://preview.redd.it/u7nly9xuzzsb1.png?width=555&format=png&auto=webp&s=ab19cf87dd76e2006fbd9babb039d6d3f52b3b1b

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-08T15:34:49+00:00

Can anyone recommend good plagiarism tool for uni project?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-08T15:52:02+00:00

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/F7q2nN-aQAAF424?format=jpg&name=medium

What the actual fuck

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-08T16:01:05+00:00

It's interesting because I feel like I do not belong to one pill there are multiple points I agree with and disagree with and I feel like this makes me closer to All Pill.

For example I agree with the idea that it's unacceptable to be fat (As I am rn) and men should lift weights and hit the gym. Not too attract women but too reach their physical potential or get close to it. I also agree that men should strive to make their "dent" in the world, mine being going into healtchare and helping others. And lastly I agree that men should stay away from single moms as there is just literally nothing to be gained for you. Raising another mans kid is the ultimate cuck and unless you worked out a deal where you will be able to father you own kids it is unacceptable.

Now for Blue/Black Pill. I do agree that there is someone out there for everyone. I think unless you are facially deformed to the point where your human face is unreconizable I think there is a chance. I've seen too many FUCKING UGLY men with GORGEOUS women to ever believe the black pill 100%, however there is no question genetics, height and face will determine how easy or hard you have it in the dating life. These are HUGE and it cannot be understated how important these are.

However one of the things that is frowned upon (only by women) that I 100% agree that women are too picky and have unrealsitic standards, given their SMV and attractivness. Of course OLD has to do with this but I also believe it's men's fault as constant simping online has made the situation worse. The fact men are here will coom to female redditors avatars lets me know we are fucked.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-08T16:27:01+00:00

The contempt some men have for marriage here is really bizarre.

They act like they are being dragged by their balls to the altar.

Just don't get married. There is no need to insult people who do. Or assume things about married people.

DrCornSyrup · 2023-10-08T16:44:43+00:00

Girls get the ick if you don't support Hamas

potoricco · 2023-10-08T16:46:02+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/pwprhuboc0tb1.jpeg?width=715&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=abb5616c7fdd847ab47a6a08a46ce1dda0378eac

who is this

Spiritual-Report-145 · 2023-10-08T18:12:06+00:00

Made a throwaway for this one in case my gf comes across my account one day. Last night I had a dream that I cheated on her with my ex that she doesn't like. Idk why but I was in the bed if my childhood home and idk why but my ex was in it. She remarked that I had a girl now but I didn't care I kept things going. Things got real getting heavy like I was really really into it, then all of a sudden I hear my gf car pull in the driveway. I guess she wasn't supposed to be there. I panic and my dumbass was like "quick get under the covers" while I think go a way to get out of this, then I woke up with my heart racing fast asf.

All of this is weird because it's not like I miss being with my ex either. tbh I took a job in another state to get far tf away from her as I could and she asked could she could come and move in with me to which I said no. This was before I even met my current gf. I'm not even having relationship problems either.

It's not the first time I'm dreamt of cheating, but every other time it was some random made up woman this time it was an ex I hate. Like idk how to process this, normally I don't think about cheating it's only in my dreams and it makes me feel like imma do something stupid to ruin this relationship irl.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-08T20:04:24+00:00

Ambatakum

edgyny · 2023-10-08T22:06:15+00:00

The automod on r\IsraelPalestine is the best. So much impotent rage squashed mechanically and without mercy. It's glorious.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-08T22:26:04+00:00

I just hate how difficult it is to gain muscle mass and strength in upper body as a woman. I started doing dumbbell workouts (my husband found me a good video with a cute boy who smiles at the end to motivate me) a couple months ago, and I’ve now increased my weights to the same amount most men start from. Yay.

Lower body and abs are in ok condition, due to swimming, yoga and squats. Could be worse.

Maractop · 2023-10-08T22:31:49+00:00

Ngl im gonna just start copemaxxing and focusing on my passions. Thinkin about all this stuff is just makin me feel worse. My dad always told me once that no one can go through life raw and that everyone needs an outlet. I have oulets but im gonna start making them a priority. It wont change much but at least ill have some peace of mind.

paper-skallion · 2023-10-08T22:36:08+00:00

I've been getting more RP content on my feed and the number one thing that bugs me is how they idolize conservative women, especially women who didn't go to college or have any semblance of a career.

I totally get the allure of an innocent southern belle, but my brothers in Christ. Let it go. The typical bible-belt red state woman is pre-diabetic.

The most attractive women are in higher socioeconomic classes. They tend to be skinnier, better educated, make more money, and they marry more, and cheat less.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-08T22:56:24+00:00

My mood today.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-08T23:08:54+00:00

It's so cold in PA!!

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-08T23:21:52+00:00

Some people got college degrees in underwater basket weaving and are tens of thousands of dollars in debt over it. Then they're like "nobody told me my degree was worthless!" Like dog. HOW DO YOU NOT KNOW. Anyways you should try to get a government job.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-08T23:29:06+00:00

is it normal for girlfriends to get a "boyfriend allowance"? my friend has been "flexing" on me she hasn't tapped into her boyfriend allowance which allegedly is literally just money she gets from her bf weekly. 😂 the fuck

TheRedPillRipper · 2023-10-08T23:46:12+00:00

CMV: morning naps and cuddles with 2 year olds are great for mental health. Plus football. Life is good y’all!

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-08T23:57:04+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/171vafx/is_dating_at_40s_really_any_different/

Pretty common with what women in their 20s also complain about. Dudes not "growing up."

SianOiseau · 2023-10-09T00:11:25+00:00

OP: "Women can't compromise"

Also OP: shows examples of him not being able to compromise.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-09T00:15:30+00:00

Come to think of it Law is just modern day theology, both are made up fields that people interpret in order to figure out what is and isn’t allowed.

eye_fuck · 2023-10-09T00:19:55+00:00

how long can this go on

lady_ven0m · 2023-10-09T00:22:52+00:00

Having IBS sucks ass. I have to admit my flare ups have become more bearable as I have improved my mental health, but I can’t make the episodes go away completely. I’ve lived with this for so many years now and probably have the rest of my life to go. Ugh. I’ve seen so many doctors.

This is actually a huge reason I don’t even feel comfortable dating. It’s so inconvenient for me I can’t imagine someone else having to rearrange plans because of me. My ex husband allegedly had colitis and the was one of the reasons I felt comfortable dating him, but I honestly never saw him have a flare in the 6 years I was with him.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-09T00:26:30+00:00

It's so surreal how I used to be terrified of my dad but now that bogeyman is not just a creaky brittle old man. It's not a good feeling either feeling pity when you see your parent. Just makes me feel dirty

grillopie · 2023-10-09T00:28:27+00:00

The red pill in a nutshell?

https://youtu.be/bbanWHx5AFQ?si=D_SJKZ_gS4ZShxql

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-09T00:30:24+00:00

It's so surreal how I used to be terrified of my dad but now that bogeyman is reduced to a creaky brittle old man. With no physical capacity to express his rage. It's just weird seeing this withered old man and thinking he used to make me feel like a tiny insect. It's not a good feeling either feeling pity when you see your parent. Just makes me feel dirty

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-09T00:32:13+00:00

Something I’ve realized about myself: I feel like the self-esteem issues I have from childhood were both a blessing and a curse. I was bullied and made to feel lesser than fairly often during my childhood/adolescence. As an adult, that largely resulted in me feeling like I had to prove that I was stronger/smarter/more successful than everyone around me- after all, if I proved myself better than those who looked down on me, those people would never be able to look down on me again.

This was a double-edged sword- I was driven to push myself to my limits, and I accomplished a number of things that I’m quite proud of. The downside is I’m relentlessly self-critical, pay way too much attention to what other people think of me, and struggle with perfectionism-induced anxiety.

Anyone else relate? How do you deal with self-esteem problems?

JumboJetz · 2023-10-09T00:32:52+00:00

The oft repeated “fact” that the vast majority of divorces are filed by women comes from a survey of 2000 people. It is not some empirical fact someone got by researching court filings.

So we should stop repeating it as fact.

keebydee · 2023-10-09T00:43:48+00:00

The post asking men what would they do if they end up having no partner for life and most men just saying they'll kill themselves is so sad. I don't know how threads like that can exist and women still act like relationships aren't a big deal and downplay their significance.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T00:52:40+00:00

Dead though. Like it honestly would be soo embarrassing to show your romantic side in front of your family. I want to vomit just thinking about it

potoricco · 2023-10-09T00:56:29+00:00

Just be yourself bro

DerayRevan · 2023-10-09T00:57:49+00:00

"I think BluePill and Purple PIll people of all genders are extremely apt in addressing the core issues that RP men and women bring up"

There's no issues with TRP if you understand what it's always about

"RedPill doesn't really have any strong points that aren't also bluepill type things"

Redpill and bluepill are polar opposites and never address the same things

meteorness123 · 2023-10-09T01:01:15+00:00

There's nothing more tranquillizing and redirecting than meditating and then writing down how you're going to take take care of the current mess in your life.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T01:17:03+00:00

This is so me I love my dad but we legit have nothing in common

potoricco · 2023-10-09T01:19:11+00:00

Literally

potoricco · 2023-10-09T01:20:49+00:00

Going to live in a dorm for all 4 years imagine living alone ew

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-09T01:31:26+00:00

Microdosing mushrooms is my new favorite thing.

2023-10-09T01:50:28+00:00

I think centrist women have more empathy towards men than the sex-positive women on this subreddit, but I'm not too sure.

paper-skallion · 2023-10-09T01:54:28+00:00

I saw an interesting thread asking who has more homogenous preferences in a partner, men or women? The comments were overwhelmingly saying men. Why do yall think that's the case? Point to specific preferences plz.

potoricco · 2023-10-09T02:27:15+00:00

I feel like a lot of Christians only support Israel because it’s important in the Bible,

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