Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him?

throwawaylessons103 · 2022-09-09T16:05:24+00:00

I would tell him to

Watch a bunch of videos like "Charisma on Command" on YouTube to learn the art of seduction, witty banter, and being charming.
Start working out at the gym. This will not help him get girls directly, but it will increase energy and confidence which does help.
Build a larger social circle. Try different types of clubs/bars/social events and get to know a lot of people there.
Approach women and start casual conversation. Use the witty banter you've learned from step 1 and don't be afraid to tease her a bit.
The social interactions should make sense. If you're at a karoke bar, talk about the music playing there. If you're at a club, dance with someone. Don't talk about science/art when you're drunk at a bar. Listen more than you talk, women like talking about themselves.

Play the numbers, ask for numbers. You'll get rejected most of the time. Rinse repeat.

BlueMountainDace · 2022-09-09T16:15:09+00:00

If you want to have sex with random hot women you need to be at least above-average attraction and charisma. So I'd do the following:

Go to the gym and start lifting. The easiest workout routine I've ever done (from a repetition process) is the 5x5. Once you master the lifts, the progression is easy as long as you keep your body fueled, stretch, and don't overdo it. This workout won't make you cut, but since he isn't fat, he'll bulk up a bit and get much stronger. He can't change his height, but he can make the rest of his frame more attractive. This will do that if he does it consistently.
Join Toastmasters or some similar public speaking club. Not only will he get relatively judgment-free reps in speaking in public to folks he doesn't really know, but he'll also become more adept at talking about the things he loves to people who might be out of the niche.
Head to the major conventions for the niche thing he likes. You mention this person is nerdy, so maybe they're into DnD, gaming, etc. There are major conventions on both coasts where he can meet people who enjoy, at some level, the things he cares deeply about. If he becomes physically more fit and learns how to talk to strangers about those things he'll have an easy time meeting these women he wants to meet who will be at those events even if they aren't as into those things as he is.
Drink or do drugs. I've brought this up before, but the dudes who are having a lot of sex are either in a relationship or meet the women they sleep with at social events where people are socially lubricated. Since he doesn't want to have sex with one hot woman but rather many hot women, he'll have to go to bars, clubs, or parties. That is where most hot women will be and, more importantly, where most hot women who are down to have a one-night stand will be. I'd count niche conventions at this point because most conventions have some sort of happy hour or other party equivalents as part of the event.

Once he does those things, I don't see why he wouldn't be able to meet and have sex with hot women. Or, at the very least, give himself a much better chance of it. Frankly, though, he can skip the first steps and just do #4 and he'd probably have some level of success compared to what he is doing now.

The biggest question and this is the response I got from plenty of folks here last time I brought this up, is "Oh, they'll cry rape." That is nonsense. There is a big difference between taking advantage of the most blacked-out woman at a bar while you're 100% sober and meeting someone who has had a few drinks and is in a more friendly mood just like you.

learn2earn89 · 2022-09-09T16:16:01+00:00

If he wants to have sex with lots of “hot” women then he better be “hot” himself. Otherwise, tough luck! he can go have sex with his hand .

midwesternMD · 2022-09-09T16:04:57+00:00

In fairness, I’m not BP. I’m more purple.

I would advise the friend you describe in OP that he doesn’t have adequate social skills or hobbies to facilitate sexual contact, and if he wants to get laid, he needs to expand his social circles/hobbies to coed groups, and he needs to learn how to flirt/socialize with women. In short, I’d tell him that merely showering, being able to hold a non-sexually charged conversation, and not being fat are not enough if he’s not going to talk to women to begin with.

toasterchild · 2022-09-09T16:00:58+00:00

Sounds like he has fine dating qualities and he just has to take things to that next level in order to get to the dates. Start flirting and don't be afraid to take things to a sexual place. If your advances are rejected then respect her and stop. Try different advances and find what works best with your personality. If your afraid to be sexual around women you will never get there.

wtknight · 2022-09-09T17:04:21+00:00

I wouldn’t be friends with a guy like that, most likely. If he somehow was grandfathered into being a friend with me, meaning he was a really good friend from childhood that somehow “regressed” and wanted to be some kind of casual sex bad boy, I’d try to sell him on finding a good relationship instead.

As for relationship advice, I have plenty of that, although I didn’t have much of it back when I was 21, myself.

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-09-09T16:07:54+00:00

If he wanted a girlfriend, I might be inclined to help. If he wanted to have sex with lots of different people, I would decide he was not my type of people and walk away.

rosephase · 2022-09-09T16:05:46+00:00

If random hook up sex is his focus I would tell him to get into the socially sexual scene. Get good at kink. Get comfortable with swingers. Maybe go to burning man. Getting a bunch of random sex is about what scene you are in and if sex is your main focus? Go hang out with the sex nerds.

That or just get good at having the right kind of drugs.

platinirisms · 2022-09-09T16:50:16+00:00

Tell him to drop it, wanting to have sex with lots of different women isn’t something he should be focusing on, especially if he can’t even attract one woman.

It would be equal to a friend asking me “I want to try lots of different drugs every weekend”. Dude is that really want you want to do with your life, you have nothing better to do?

I’d help him get out of that mindset and focus on more important things that bring long term enjoyment like studying for university, hobbies, looking for a long term girlfriend he will actually connect with. A short term fling is okay but it should never be something someone actively wants to work towards several times with several women.

Silverk42-2 · 2022-09-09T15:58:04+00:00

I'd tell him wanting to have sex with lots of random people is whack and if he wants to have lots of sex he's better off just finding a girlfriend.

On a real note I'd just tell him it's important to get used to talking to women. He should talk and approach women every time he goes out WITHOUT trying to get anything out of it. At a grocery store? Find a woman and talk to her, on campus? Strike up conversation with someone. Do it by asking a question first i.e. where is this building etc. It sounds like his biggest issue is just talking to women so the solution is simple: practice talking to women.

EDIT: To expand on my first part I believe most people who want to have tons of casual sex won't find it fulfilling and finding an actual partner is waaaay more fulfilling than sleeping with lots of random people.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-09-09T16:29:39+00:00

I think he should put more effort in than what was put into this low effort trolling post.

Slyfer_Seven · 2022-09-09T18:48:51+00:00

I'd ask him why he wants to bang all these chicks. Does he want to because he sees other dudes doing it, or does he just like the idea of it all. Every dude I've known that wanted to bang tons of chicks made the effort to actually get good at talking to women, so for him to say one thing but do another... Suspect

I wouldn't give him any actionable advice until I felt comfortable he was actually in it to win it

CocoBabeinNYC · 2022-09-09T17:06:52+00:00

I puke tell him to go out and socialize and become a social animal. That's all there is to it.

2022-09-09T17:49:29+00:00

Go to clubs and do cocaine, and be willing and bring enough to share. If he wants easy, NSA sex, not much more to it than that.

Oneironaut91 · 2022-09-09T21:08:57+00:00

dont

CatchPhraze · 2022-09-09T16:18:06+00:00

If he wants sex on the regular and isn't a fucking model or musician, sex workers. I'd also ask him honestly if he isn't super hot, why would hot women want him?

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2022-09-09T16:12:30+00:00

I'd say "there isn't a magic script you can read to make women want to have sex with you. Stop asking me stupid questi9ns."

Financial_Leave4411 · 2022-09-09T16:05:41+00:00

This is an interesting question. I’m curious to see if more men will help this man get laid or if more men will push the man in your scenario to accept that he needs to settle down rather than play the field.

As a woman if I had the answer to how this hypothetical man could get laid by lots of different hot women I wouldn’t give it to him; instead I would push him to look for a long-term relationship as that is best for both people not just one. My morals stop me from helping people screw over others. It will be interesting though to see how others can justify lying and deceiving others to get what you want unless of course they simply tell the man in question to pay for sex which I doubt OP wants to hear.

bunnakay · 2022-09-09T16:01:25+00:00

If he needs a step-by-step guide and "go to parties where casual sex is commonplace" isn't enough for him, he's a lost cause.

2022-09-09T16:33:41+00:00

Not a bluepiller but these priorities aren’t good at all imo. I’d tell him to focus on himself and re-evaluate his priorities in life.

sarkington · 2022-09-09T17:15:50+00:00

Be like the guys you see getting laid. Copy them

EugeneCezanne · 2022-09-09T18:54:46+00:00

First, blue pill does not exist. It's just a term red pillers came up with. It doesn't actually describe a single coherent ideology. It has no particular goal, like getting young men laid. Just wanted to state that for the record.

Second, pay for it. There is no other approach that will be "sufficient." At best, all the other advice will just increase your odds.

My advice?

Don't be impatient. Early 20s are statistically the worst time to date as a man. For every 21 year-old guy, there's a 25 year-old guy who was just like him 4 years ago, but now has more social experience. That's the competition.
Work on yourself - fitness, social skills, financial stability, "game," etc.
Make female friends. That is, interact with women in the real and virtual world with no agenda to sleep with them in mind. Find the ones you really like as people and treat them that way. Simply getting comfortable with women in general will help you more than anything you can "study" about picking up women in the future.
Diversify your interests. You don't have to give up the old ones, but "computers" and "art" are traditionally rather time-consuming and solitary business.
Ask yourself "why should she* pick me over the other guys?" It's amazing how many struggling young men don't have an answer to that question. Do they expect women to answer it for them?
Go out. It's not like all women your age want to party, but you're disqualifying yourself from most of your target audience if you don't (especially if you want a high volume of casual sex).

Big picture: become the best version of yourself and more women will see you as the obvious choice.

2022-09-09T15:59:33+00:00

Good luck with that 🤭🤭🤭

Any-Bottle-4910 · 2022-09-09T16:13:55+00:00

Tell him to calm down. That isn’t reality. Talk to women just like you would men, to avoid nervousness. Pay attention to body language to know how to adjust how you speak. Don’t bring up sex nor dating at all. Keep it light and playful. Don’t be too interested, just mildly interested.

If you’re going to make a move, suggest hanging out- not a date. And for the love of fuck, don’t do cringey flowers, chocolates etc. It’ll creep a girl out in 0.3 seconds.

Get a GF this way. Understand you’ll have to drop 75% of your other activities- assuming you’ll fight to keep the other 25%. Otherwise, it’ll be 95%. This is the price. Also stop buying things for yourself. She’ll do that for you. You spend your $ on her. She spends hers and yours on you. That’s the deal.

There is no fantasy land of a nonstop orgy. Find a human with a uterus. Treat them like a human. Don’t take shit, and don’t give them any either. These last two bits are the hardest. They’ll wear you down with persistence, and sometimes you’re the asshole. Be honest with yourself and her, but keep in mind that criticism is rarely taken well by men, and women even less so.

We make their lives better and worse. They do the same for us. Live in it for a while and decide if it’s worth it to you, and to her.

No magic bullet there. But I’ll offer this- start lifting weights RIGHT NOW. It’s as close to a silver bullet as there is. I’ve got receipts on that one.

MalloryTheRapper · 2022-09-09T17:12:14+00:00

I find it interesting he wants to have sex with hot women when he himself is average. like please get real.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2022-09-09T16:17:34+00:00

I’d sit down with him and ask what’s going on with his life that his goal is to plow through a bunch of women. Clearly there’s something going on

Blakkktruths · 2022-09-09T16:27:18+00:00

Every city has easy women. Just be ready to accept the consequences of your decisions. Sexually transmitted diseases, hiv, aids, money pox, children out of wed lock, possibly abortions. You may get lucky but that’s not a safe bet.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-09-09T15:57:23+00:00

I know a man like this, he's actually best friend from childhood. For him, the problem is that he isn't very proactive in finding people, so I'm working on pushing him out of his comfort zone when it comes to socialisation and have taken him clubbing (getting him in a club was a big step so for him to actually talk to someone new there will take time).

TATA456alawaife · 2022-09-09T16:05:56+00:00

You can’t give advice on how to get sex tbh. It just happens or it doesn’t.

sjamad_oc · 2022-09-09T16:14:20+00:00

Your argument is moot because there is a natural antipathy and antagonism that exists between the genders and vis-a-vis gender dynamics in general and no healthy woman would ever want some random strange male to experience sexual satisfaction at the expense of members of her own gender. You seem to think females have an altruistic notion or end-goal of divyying up sex equitably amongst all men when it is the opposite...most women want men to fuck off and die barring their own partner and (maybe) a select handful of male kin.

Neptune-Jr · 2022-09-09T16:28:44+00:00

Step 1: Hire prostitutes.

Step 2: Repeat Step one whenever the urge.

ManWazo · 2022-09-09T16:15:47+00:00

Display his personnality on social medias and dating apps. He has to offer something unique, maybe it is style, niche interests, passions, etc. If hes just one other average man like you describe him right now, he doesnt have a chance.

After showing the world that he can offer something that others cant, only then will he have a chance.

jonascf · 2022-09-09T16:25:05+00:00

Be flirty and be open about what you want when flirting but let your abundance mentality and outcome independence shine through in everything you do and say while you test the waters to see if there's any chemistry there.

2022-09-09T16:25:44+00:00

Change your expectations.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-09-09T16:28:44+00:00

option 1:

1.) learn to play guitar

2.) git gud

3.) form a band

4.) play a few gigs

5.) pick up thots

option 2:

1.) sell drugs

2.) don't get high on your supply

3.) get invited to parties

4.) sell drugs to men, share drugs with women

5.) pick up thots

Best_Mord_Brazil · 2022-09-09T16:43:40+00:00

The correct answer, even from the "bluepillers", is to relocate to somewhere where the girls go wild for this kind of personality.

This dude would SLAY in Asia. Go to Asia dude.

tinasnow-poty · 2022-09-09T16:50:10+00:00

If he wants to have sex with lots of different hot college girls, I think his introverted nerdy personality is at odds with that. He needs to do more things hot college girls like. Join sports and social clubs, go to not only parties but small drink ups and get togethers, movies and games nights. Less computers.

Gym. Be very stylish.

Learn how to flirt. I’m sure there’s books and stuff. Know how to read signals and send signals. Be engaging yet distant. Make her want to know about you. I think most young women these days are caught onto negging and such tactics so I would avoid those. Be kind, as in don’t be a cunt, but kind doesn’t mean simping and being desperate. Women are just people too.

If he has just an average face I’m not sure he can bag loads of hot women but thems the breaks. He should be able to bag average girls though

panascope · 2022-09-09T17:22:37+00:00

And yet, to your shock, he comes to you looking for help, because he cant get laid! He says he wants to have sex with lots of different hot women, that he sees men doing that all around college, but he doesnt know how, and he cant ask his friends because they dont know either.

Hahahahahaha

YtBlue · 2022-09-09T18:58:37+00:00

I'm not redpill but not bluepill either. I'm pragmatic and whatever works, works. Most women don't want ONS or FWB rather they get into them. Whether due to feelings or drug environments and sex happens. So location matters. You don't go to the grocery store or any other daytime environment. Clubs, bars, and nightlife are your friend. Muscles matter, height matters, but for reasons unstated. Women need to feel like they're below you. If your short, buy some fake designer everyone knows, or get muscles. Preferably both. Next is the interactions, once you have the look, act like your equal or above the woman. That means no buying drinks, listening to her demands etc. Talk about things around you and herself. If she seems the slight bit interested in the convo ask her to come back to your place for weed/alchohol(most do both in the club), something you said in the convo that you have at home, or a movie. Make sure to ask the last part in the most non threatening way possible because one girl can ruin ALL your chances that night.

The9thElement · 2022-09-09T19:40:45+00:00

I will not be friends with a guy who’s into casual sex culture.

neetykeeno · 2022-09-09T22:10:12+00:00

Start interacting regularly more in mixed social settings that include non-nerdy women too. Learn what it takes to thrive in those social settings. That includes learning how to look and behave

I wouldn't give a step by step guide. What it takes to learn to thrive in those social settings and what the next really difficult step are after starting to in earnest learn to thrive in those social settings is will depend on a lot of things. Is he suffering any damage that made him stay clear of those settings in the first place? Now that's a question isn't it

Absolutely the next step is social proficiency in the social settings in which those women choose to spend time. I have no idea what him attempting to do so will pull out of him that he has kept hidden. Maybe he's gonna have to deal with why he chose to be who he currently is. This is not something one writes a step by step plan for because it involves crossing territory that is most definitely secret from the person being asked for that plan and the asker may not have even acknowledged such aspects of the situation exists themselves. So how can it really be discussed or planned for?

The next step is doing, not talking or planning. There will be more talking and planning later. I can not give him sufficient steps now because he cannot and doesn't tell me what his real problem is ..why he is not hanging out more around those girls like other guys do.

Just-Pie-5579 · 2022-09-10T00:03:21+00:00

If he has average facial features, there is little to no way how he can get ahead of the attractive dudes, so here is what you realistically need to do.

Make money.

End of the manual.

prizefighterstudent · 2022-09-10T00:47:30+00:00

Looksmaxx to high heaven.
Get social as hell, don't go too try-hard. Roll with fun, supportive friends.
Pray.

kingpinkatya · 2022-09-10T05:02:32+00:00

Why is his goal to have lots of sex with lots of different women? Like why is this goal specifically important to him jw

Apprehensive_Cut_146 · 2022-09-10T16:25:00+00:00

different and hot women

If he were hot homself, he woud have no issue getting women, which means he is also entitled. Some reality check shall come his way.

Adept-Crab3951 · 2022-09-09T15:51:19+00:00

That guy is me.

Gigamon2014 · 2022-09-09T16:53:52+00:00

Lol I wonder how many here claiming the hypothetical guy in the OP would he expoiting women by having sex eith lots of them are the same ones complaining about men not wanting women with high partner counts...

No_Mirror_345 · 2022-09-09T17:42:21+00:00

Not happening, sorry. He might get a chance when he’s 35 though and they’re either still single or divorced. But at 21 hot girls are looking for hot guys, who typically make them chase. Also, simping for vapid hot girls is not the move. Promise.

Blueexpression · 2022-09-09T19:06:19+00:00

I used to be exactly like you. You just need to fuck a lot of ugly chicks. The hot ones dont want you because you have nothing special to offer. They have millionaires tossing money at them, or they are on social media getting constantly hit on, or they are doing anything or nothing and getting constantly hit on by 9s and 10s. Dicks are free. Chads will bang. They have limited time for banging. They want to bang guys that have something special to offer. The honest question everyone needs to ask more is what do you have to offer women that they cant get elsewhere?

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-09-09T17:26:03+00:00

He says he wants to have sex with lots of different hot women, that he sees men doing that all around college, but he doesnt know how, and he cant ask his friends because they dont know either.

Get drunk in a place where other drunk people are. Like a frat party.
Hire escorts/hookers.

Also isn't the mindsef of "bluepill" more towards LTR, so hookups are not in their interest and experience?

ThinkCellist8542 · 2022-09-09T18:52:39+00:00

Watch clips of The Late Late Show with Craig Ferguson

he regularly has women all over him whom he is meeting for the first time

watch as much as you can over and over!

start doing pushups

just do it

squeeze 5 more reps in every day morning and evening

and do pull ups if possible

just do it

try to have a style so that you don't look like a generic guy

beard, longer hair, something to distinguish yourself without going too wild

lastly, use those art hobbies! hang out with art girls! talk the most to the ones you are attracted to and the ones that seem attracted to you

you can do it!

lastly lastly: become a good kisser. Good kissing is the easiest way to get clothes to come off. learn how to use that tongue (just a little, not too much) and suck on her lips (mostly bottom lip, just a little, not too much)

good luck, young warrior!

billieshakes11 · 2022-09-09T21:21:34+00:00

One of the most seldom given but simple pieces of dating advice is very simple—put yourself through situations of conflict. Especially with other men. Anything that involves you competing with other men in a zero-sum game (sports, martial arts, dominating social situations, fighting) has the opportunity to raise your internal sense of dominance. This is why athletes have that natural swagger women like. They are involved in very real and blatant dominance competitions with other men EVERY DAY. This gives them that "extra something" that makes people drawn to them.

Much of what makes a man "attractive" is very simply just dominance-based behaviors. The more dominant a man is—either physically/visually, or non-verbally, the more attractive he is to women who want to get laid.

This is why "go to the gym" is great advice. Half of the brain is dedicated to visual processing. So visual things are the easiest way to communicate information. A man with a fit body is just attractive, yes, but it's still possible to ruin it and behave in a low-value, unattractive way. How is this possible? Because the fit body is only a precursor to the real psychological trigger, which is dominance. So the REAL advice is to become a more dominant man. How is this done? Ironically, through the opposite, focusing on submission.

The real measure of a man's dominance is not how much force he can exert over others—you can actually come off try hard and cringy (even creepy and worrying) if you do this and don't truly believe it. The real measure of a man's dominance is who he voluntarily submits to out of fear. Just do enough things—going to the gym, dressing well, making money, engaging in conflict with other men, asserting yourself, developing real skills/talents—to where you naturally don't feel the need to submit to others. Where you look at them and aren't afraid of what they could "do" to you.

Once you get this vibe down, getting laid will be very easy. It will just be a matter of mechanics—how do you approach, how do you guide the conversation, how do you get the number etc. I can say from personal experience that you do not need to be very good-looking to get laid. All you need is to not be fat and ugly, and be cool, confident, and dominant. Or non-submissive. If you have that, it's just a matter of finding your market and running volume. But the dominance is the most important thing. It's what holds everything together. You will never consistently get short-term sex without it. Hope that helps

Kappador66 · 2022-09-09T21:59:41+00:00

Tell him save up some money, maybe from jobs during the semester break and go to Tijuana, Mexico (similar places). Guys who still struggle at that age to get laid at all (let alone attractive woman) do not meet the looks threshold or have a more severe problem in terms of social skills, e.g. autism.

NegotiationNo717 · 2022-09-10T17:55:24+00:00

Why should hot women want to fuck a guy who’s not hot? Get yourself hot.

Hot women down for one night stands want very hot men. As they should.’

WYenginerdWY · 2022-09-10T01:12:39+00:00

I would give him no advice because he sounds like a shallow asshole who would do best to stay the fuck away from women until his big brain takes the reins back from his little one.

grummthepillgrumm · 2022-09-09T16:48:11+00:00

Some men aren't meant to sleep around, and if this person hasn't had success yet, then he is likely one of these men who are better off in long-term relationships. Men either "have it" or they don't. And that's okay! Not all women want to be pumped and dumped. Some men are better suited to longer lasting relationships and should lean into that instead of trying to force something that isn't there for them.

Saitama1993 · 2022-09-09T18:42:41+00:00

Just be yourself

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Jeetuprime · 2022-09-09T16:08:25+00:00

Talk to people, take care of yourself.

BrummieAMN19 · 2022-09-09T16:16:26+00:00

I’m a PUA not red pill so idk if they think anyone who isn’t RP is blue pilled but the obvious first thing to do is to put himself in environments where there is a high volume of women. He (and men on here) needs to get used to the fact that rejection is part of the game and you get used to it fast along with women giving boring rejections like “I have a boyfriend” “you’re not my type”. Too many men cling their hopes to one woman when they should be to a large extent doing a shot gun approach. After this realisation then I’d teach him cold approach pick-up.

For online dating even though it’s rigged I’d still tell him to go and try it. I’ll tell him what makes an attractive photo and tell him to emulate that since online dating=sales so therefore you must have a good product you’re presenting to the sellers(women). Assuming this id tell him to set a certain frame on his bio to be polarising and set your target for women who wanna bang if nothing else. Then I’d teach him how to move things forward towards the number and the meet up. Then from there id teach him my game plan on how to bang on the first date from logistics, escalation to objection handling. I’ll also send him some PUA guys who focus on online game who have results of their clients.

I’ve found personally from teaching a few friends like this teaching them online game first then cold approach helps their skill level increase at a slightly faster rate rather than vice versa due to more abundance and confidence. They even have men and women saying “you seem happier” or “what’s happened you’ve changed” in a positive way because how they carry themselves is way different now. Thus dispelling the myth that “people/women can tell when you’re faking it and only naturally attractive people can emulate these behaviours”.

Ynsscooby1 · 2022-09-09T16:18:33+00:00

Where protection

Caranthir83 · 2022-09-09T16:29:07+00:00

do it but dont get std's and babies. after you get it out of your system you will be a better partner in your 30's

2022-09-09T17:00:00+00:00

Tell him to look at Dread Game 12 and do the steps in it apart from the bits that involve a wife. IE, where it says "Show your wife you can talk to girls in public", just make it "talk to girls in public".

Zebrig · 2022-09-09T17:04:11+00:00

First of all what do you consider a casual laid? A hook up? FWB?

So this person is in collage, but as he ever had a GF? so we can see how social he is or isn't.

And is he looking just for sex? Or for a relashionship? I don't even mean BF/GF, just FWB or similar.

Most of the problems today is that the men don't shut up, they talk alot, they talk themselves out of pussy instead of into it.

Then most often this kind of people don't know how to talk, they brag about everything, and don't listen as much as they believe, you can hear a woman but do you listen to what she is saying and to what she isn't saying?

They don't know how to flirt? Okay but do they know how to talk, how to comunicate correctly? Or are they go like YO GIRL WTF where are you going, homeboy is here b*tch to their own mother?

Next problem is that they want to do the good guy in exchange for sex, it doesn't work, you are not a good guy, you want sex and you believe that you will get it by being the good guy, nothing more, nothing less.

Another problem is that these type of people want to do it yesterday, it won't work, they need to be okay in their skin, they need to be confident with themselves.

Go to the gym, get in better shape and it will help get more confidence

Go do more hobbys that they enjoy, it will help them expand their social circle and enjoy new things, join a hike group, a dance lessons, etc. But find at least 1 outside hobby.

Have a happier life -> will be more confident -> get better results in general life.

But really what is the reason he wants to get laid? Is he a virgin? Why is he looking for sex?

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-09-09T17:48:01+00:00

I know this guy, and the most actionable advice I can give him for his life is to go to a four year university.

SwaySh0t · 2022-09-09T18:09:56+00:00

The easiest way: Assuming he’s likely still in college get him lifting and tell him to join an intramural coed sports team or join a frat and host parties on or nearby campus. This will bring the girls to him where he can practice engaging with women and if the parties are bangers it will bring him social status or clout on campus

risdeveau · 2022-09-09T18:56:47+00:00

He has eyes. He can use them to see what he should do

I was never a fuckboy so why would I be a good source of info anyway?

Bikerbats · 2022-09-09T19:09:53+00:00

Ditch the nerdy friends, find friends who party, and the sex the will follow.

ruboyuri · 2022-09-09T19:57:04+00:00

I don’t, because I am not good at sport fucking either? The only things I can think of are borderline illegal or toxic, so I’m not going to give out info like that to fuck both of us over

2022-09-09T22:07:50+00:00

STDs are on the rise especially syphilis and gonorrhea and are getting treatment resistant. Condoms don't protect against syphilis. I believe in making informed decisions when it comes to sex. People don't take STD info seriously. Even in free clinics back in the day,their pamphlets never mentioned that condoms do not protect against syphilis and herpes.

infinitofluxo · 2022-09-10T00:49:54+00:00

Not worth it

hdksndiisn · 2022-09-10T02:51:10+00:00

Make friends with Cocaine and the people that do it
Use said cocaine
Add alcohol

Somewhere in this process you’ll figure it out.

HereForaRefund · 2022-09-10T05:31:38+00:00

Tell him to work out and to learn to be social.

medlabunicorn · 2022-09-10T07:59:34+00:00

‘Ask someone else.’

ElbowMuncher69 · 2022-09-10T09:48:13+00:00

Become a club promoter. They get laid all the time

DXBrigade · 2022-09-10T15:25:35+00:00

Go to parties and club, hit on as many women as you can. Learn to deal with rejection smoothly.

2022-09-25T12:26:50+00:00

he has social skills enough to interact with males in a regular basis, and with nerdy females in a friendly group setting, and to talk more at lenght and about more private stuff with some closer male friends

Tell him to stop seeing women he wants to sleep with as women he wants to sleep with. If he can have a friendly conversation with other men, or with women he doesn't want to sleep with, the only barrier here is he is putting the ones he does want to sleep with on a pedestal, which is giving him a mental block, and which they can no doubt sense.

Title	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him?
Author	Electrical-Elk9058
Upvotes	67
Comments	320
Date	September 9, 2022 3:48 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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